"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Nick advice at end of video is great
@@SomeguyOnline Obviously that’s not how the guy meant it. That’s why the analogy is flawed. I don’t think he‘d promote cheating on your significant other.
not to be pedantic but the trix suffix is just the feminine version of the ending. Like magister which is latin for teacher is magistrix for a female teacher. Dominator for man, dominatrix for woman. same with gladiator. That being said, she probably intended the reference to dominatrix
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Nick advice at end of video is great.
thry are both kinda wrong/right tho. Sex IS important. if it is monogamous then you are contracting exclusivity of sex with 1 person, not 0 or 2 nor 3 person. BUT when choosing a partner it is super important that u pick the one u are compatible with and not pick a literal siren/succ&bus with incompatibility. someone who is fun to be around even when both you are at your most boring phase. it is not that complex. i think everyone has flaws and it is important to pick someone whose flaw that you adore, someone being pretty is not a flaw unless you a like them being flawed with pretty privilege and enjoy that aspect of problem . ENJOY , not neceassrily "SOLVE" or "FiX" them.
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Nick advice at end of video is great
I don't think she is capable of true feelings. She was literally confused when he was talking about needing to have feelings for someone in order to have a physical relationship with them.
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Though, Nick's advice at end of video is great
@@jomomma2082 people who dont know filipina girls and judging her is funny to filipino people you guys don't know katchi is actually pretty sweet they are very easy to read like a book as a filipino myself i know filipina girls very well they are very conservative but also super easy to read if you have alot of experience with filipino people specially girls ofcourse our humor is super different than the rest of the world that's why this is even 10x funnier how people judges her they don't know filipino humor as a filipino guy i 100% know katchi is legit a sweet girl behind that camera without even knowing her we filipinos just know each other way more than anyone else in the world
@@PinyaplePandaI find this sort of exceptionalism so funny. You’re not that different from the world, it might just seem like that as you’re communicating with people here who have almost zero social experience. I do agree with you on Katchii though
@@PinyaplePanda brother, I grew up with a Filipino friend and still friends with him and his sisters til this day and cool with his whole family , they have even invited me to stay in their place in the Philippines. I’m not commenting on her as a Filipina , but just as a person. Relax. I just know if my friend’s sister said half the crap she says on stream for views they’d be in deep trouble with their parents.
I do agree that the difference between a partner and a friend is weird, mostly has to do with personal opinion. Some people like exclusivity with a partner, some don't. Some friends you can have sex with, some not. But hey, I'm aromantic and do not get romantic love.
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Though, Nick's advice at end of video is great
@@Haggis-Giggles4692 it can be for you, but most certainly it isnt true for everyone. If you cannot separate your feelings from sex then thats your situation to manage.
thry are both kinda wrong/right tho. Sex IS important. if it is monogamous then you are contracting exclusivity of sex with 1 person, not 0 or 2 nor 3 person. BUT when choosing a partner it is super important that u pick the one u are compatible with and not pick a literal siren/succ&bus with incompatibility. someone who is fun to be around even when both you are at your most boring phase. it is not that complex. i think everyone has flaws and it is important to pick someone whose flaw that you adore, someone being pretty is not a flaw unless you a like them being flawed with pretty privilege and enjoy that aspect of problem . ENJOY , not neceassrily "SOLVE" or "FiX" them.
Nick talking about a muse a storm of romance and passion a ever changing battlefield of hearts. And she still didnt get it. Yeah time to leave stream and grow up a little more emily😂
Bruh nick spitting. I dont know how weve forgotten this man as a society. You really do want a partner whos like a best friend. Yeah you want them to be attractive, but that aint really enough long term figured that shit out since i was early 20s. But other people didnt seem to get it as much.
The thing is, though, he already has been doing that all along its proven that the more time you spend around someone, the more attractive they become to you. So just by spending time with her he manipulating her subconsciously.
00:06:30 you're close but I can explain with factual information. The reason why sex isn't what people should base their relationship on is because feelings are real! The only real feeling is from stimulation of your nerves from the actions of touch. "Sex" so it's not love because emotions are a reaction to someone else's actions that created your emotions to react. Facts. Learn the difference between reality and what you make BELIEVE you understand. Understanding only comes from personal physical experience that knowledge is gained and understanding comes with the correct judgment from an ethical perspective and your own personal morals. Facts
He’s not wrong but she isn’t either. The difference between a partner and a friend is attraction, intimacy, and commitment. Passion fades but passion for someone else doesn’t have to. If she doesn’t think he’s attractive or is someone who she can be intimate with then they’re only staying together because of commitment, in other words obligation. And that’s not the basis for a healthy relationship and is more akin to an arranged marriage.
Nick saying he and Malena were not really having sex over 10 years explains SO MUCH now..I actually get everything. I dont think he truly been in love with an actual partner, body mind and soul (she was kind of mom for him)...He does not get how important a healthy sexual connection is with a life partner. I mean I guess there is always an exception to the rule but I can not imagine it. Been with my girl 6 years (we are engaged) and Nick with the right person it fades a little after the honeymoon phase, but it is still VERY strong with us after 6 years...and no sex would be very jarring and she wants it just as much as I do. I really hope Nick has lightning strike one day so he can really feel it, IMO that intimacy is so important.
It is important, but for the right reasons. Not because she has a nice butt. That's the type of attraction that fades. Hence the friendship argument Nick made.
I think it rlly depends on the person. Some ppl need that sexual connection, others prioritise an emotional one. Most ppl, it's a mixture of both, with priorities being edged to one side. Imo what's important imo is not what u are doing, but that you both have similar priorities in those areas, and putting effort in to compensate for your partner's wants and needs. I will say, that I believe that 2 ppl who truly prioritise emotional connection are more likely to last for life happily and without cheating than those that need sexual connection (as you can not and will not want that as frequently when u get old), however in the right situation either can work or not obvs. Hope your relationship stays as strong as it is now for life!
@@kapi6130 yeah, I'd say similar priorities and long term goals are what help the relationship, not sexual connection lol the first clip I saw of them before the spain trip was one time where she made it clear she didn't want kids but Nick clearly wants one. that was the deal breaker I thought the op would notice, rather than sex lmao.
Everyone is very different. For lots of people sex fades when the excitement of it all being new is gone. I know many who would like to switch to have that excitement again, however most people don't feel like switching best friends. Kinda feel like that is what Nick says here, that one song that will stay with him his entire life is like his best friend but he will like other songs along the way as that excitement of novelty will come and go. Either way, good that it is still that strong for you after 6 years. You, sir, are blessed.
As a guy also in his 30s I agree with Nick 100% on relationships
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Nick advice at end of video is great
@@Haggis-Giggles4692 Dude, are you a bot?!
Should REALLY be careful with that advice. It's a good quality bit bad if your whole goal is befriending solely to sleep with someone
@@Haggis-Giggles4692 this makes no sense? how is you having sex with your friend gonna hurt how you mature?
@@Haggis-Giggles4692 If someone's looking to a streamer for life advice they're already cooked
Damn. When Nick gives serious life advice, it hit hards.
💯💯
The analogy with the music and food still was flawed though 😅
@@luminaxaryeah but Emily made the analogy work with cheating angle
@@SomeguyOnline Obviously that’s not how the guy meant it. That’s why the analogy is flawed. I don’t think he‘d promote cheating on your significant other.
The next Pervy sage 😂
“Nora comes next week” *HEAVY BREATHING *
Who is Nora?
@@SomeguyOnlineHis GTA RP gf 😂
@@SomeguyOnlineThe only one who Nick meet and travel off camera at Twitchcon along with her friends.
@@SomeguyOnlineMrs. "Hipgate" herself 😄
@@stephenmason9527Heard she likes backshots
when she says gladiatrix...she means she is the one with the power to make a gladiator submit.
I mean shes already got nick on her hook thats for sure.
not to be pedantic but the trix suffix is just the feminine version of the ending. Like magister which is latin for teacher is magistrix for a female teacher. Dominator for man, dominatrix for woman. same with gladiator. That being said, she probably intended the reference to dominatrix
My advice to nick rizzing up Emily: “Streamer. Be careful.”
Us older viewers know what he is talking about 100%. Emily just too young to understand or hasnt had long term relationships. Nicks spitting facts
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Nick advice at end of video is great.
I don't think 26 is too young to understand it. She just doesn't have the experience. And that might be by design. Keeping herself from it.
thry are both kinda wrong/right tho.
Sex IS important. if it is monogamous then you are contracting exclusivity of sex with 1 person, not 0 or 2 nor 3 person.
BUT when choosing a partner it is super important that u pick the one u are compatible with and not pick a literal siren/succ&bus with incompatibility. someone who is fun to be around even when both you are at your most boring phase.
it is not that complex.
i think everyone has flaws and it is important to pick someone whose flaw that you adore, someone being pretty is not a flaw unless you a like them being flawed with pretty privilege and enjoy that aspect of problem . ENJOY , not neceassrily "SOLVE" or "FiX" them.
4:50 😂 so Tru
you don't even have to be old to get that
The parasocial comments have been 🔥🔥🔥. You guys make me feel so much better about myself.
💀😂
100%
More invested in fake relationships than they are trying to form their own
I'm parasocialing so hard on the Nick single arc.
Nick broke Emily's brain..because she doenst get how relationships work
i dont think she ever been in a serious one like Grandpa
@@paterino8 shes said shes been in several vs nick whos been in 2
@@punksnotdead5367being in several short relationships by 26 is exactly what op is talking about
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Nick advice at end of video is great
I don't think she is capable of true feelings. She was literally confused when he was talking about needing to have feelings for someone in order to have a physical relationship with them.
nick making a clip with emily in which he tells every other woman they're his 2nd choice. This is why it took him so long to think of a tweet.
she actually looks good in that photo and i didnt find her attractive before lol
I can't explain it also. She looks weird somehow.
@@buharibawa9485like her skin too tight
8:18 Emily understands Nick so well, perfect couple
great chemistry
He got a revelation in that moment 😂😂😂
It’s funny how at the end there nick just accepted that his wisdom was not received
Nick got over 60 tabs active on one internet browser. Crazy work. 😩
He's got like 128 gigs of RAM, he's fine lol
I bought 60 gb of ram for this exact reason I always have 100 or more.
4:40 DO IT!!!!! JUST CRASH TF OUT AND FALL IN LOVE WITH THAT PSYCHOTIC GODDESS!!!
I never seen Emily speak so much wisdom at the end of this video lol
Thanks for the advice, unc.
(Also, Emily's taste in music stinks!)
She's lost in the sauce
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Though, Nick's advice at end of video is great
This is how I know I've matured....everything Nick said made 200% sense.
Ahhhh she gets all flustered
Pops told me at a young age. Do you have more in common than partying? If so it's a great start.
not a sex cult
Def not bro for sure fr fr
The look of defeat into the camera made me cackle
Emily getting relationship advice from a divorce lawyer is a very Emily thing to do
Nick is right about how to find longevity in relationships
I'm not ready for Nora's arrival and all the parasocial viewers to come with it
what emily said at the end of the video is so fucking smart and it flew over everyones heads hahaha
0:27 A guy in chat is really supporting Nick and Katchiii...
Nicarus
Nigarus*** got you lil bro.
And Betty, you can call me Al.
I always like the synergy between these two. It's like a double act. Lol.
3:29 movie star
Bro said call me Al is his favorite song lmaooooo. Not what I would’ve guessed
Careful Icarus.
his opened tabs gave me a hernia
No idea wtf Unc on about, but EE def his ride or die friend. WW Affair guys.
they have complimentary personalities too. He can cook,she can get him out of his comfort zone lol.
i just realized nick has some tiny ears.
I was wondering if someone else ever noticed it too 🤣
lol wtf I can never unsee it now lol
and emily has a tiny nose 😆
Nick really is D1, every time its a 1 on 1, he always says I'd pick you over the rest
They made a medicated cream for that burn 😂
Telling nick not to let his ego go to his head. LOL
JFC Every clip I see of Emily is just unhinged XD
Battle of the girls!
How long will it take for Nick to gaslight Emily into dating him
Nick has to realize Emily is for the streets
So is katchii , let’s be honest she is just farming for the views. And it’s clearly working.
😂😂😂
@@jomomma2082 people who dont know filipina girls and judging her is funny to filipino people you guys don't know katchi is actually pretty sweet they are very easy to read like a book as a filipino myself i know filipina girls very well they are very conservative but also super easy to read if you have alot of experience with filipino people specially girls ofcourse our humor is super different than the rest of the world that's why this is even 10x funnier how people judges her they don't know filipino humor as a filipino guy i 100% know katchi is legit a sweet girl behind that camera without even knowing her we filipinos just know each other way more than anyone else in the world
@@PinyaplePandaI find this sort of exceptionalism so funny. You’re not that different from the world, it might just seem like that as you’re communicating with people here who have almost zero social experience.
I do agree with you on Katchii though
@@PinyaplePanda brother, I grew up with a Filipino friend and still friends with him and his sisters til this day and cool with his whole family , they have even invited me to stay in their place in the Philippines. I’m not commenting on her as a Filipina , but just as a person. Relax. I just know if my friend’s sister said half the crap she says on stream for views they’d be in deep trouble with their parents.
4:45 real, true, and based ahahaha, enjoy it Nick, crash the boat
i love emily cuz she is XO
I do agree that the difference between a partner and a friend is weird, mostly has to do with personal opinion. Some people like exclusivity with a partner, some don't. Some friends you can have sex with, some not. But hey, I'm aromantic and do not get romantic love.
Same *aro high five*
"Friend with sex is not just a friend" is a true statement. Nick toxically saying that is not true can hurt people's growth in maturity. Though, Nick's advice at end of video is great
@@Haggis-Giggles4692 it can be for you, but most certainly it isnt true for everyone. If you cannot separate your feelings from sex then thats your situation to manage.
thry are both kinda wrong/right tho.
Sex IS important. if it is monogamous then you are contracting exclusivity of sex with 1 person, not 0 or 2 nor 3 person.
BUT when choosing a partner it is super important that u pick the one u are compatible with and not pick a literal siren/succ&bus with incompatibility. someone who is fun to be around even when both you are at your most boring phase.
it is not that complex.
i think everyone has flaws and it is important to pick someone whose flaw that you adore, someone being pretty is not a flaw unless you a like them being flawed with pretty privilege and enjoy that aspect of problem . ENJOY , not neceassrily "SOLVE" or "FiX" them.
@@Sebastian.Medinai mean, humans aren’t really built to separate their emotions from sex like that but go off
Why did she put on those handcuffs lol
2:08 lmao Emily is too pure
Go get her tiger! What are you waiting for!?
song going to be barbie girl lmao that ish played so often in middle school it has melted into my head forever :)
my too innocent mind for the internet thought she meant, Gladiator + trick or treats simplified into trix
Listening to their conversation, I think they're both right, they're just talking about different things that sound like the same thing.
Emily doesn't want to be part of the fight but didn't she win in that boxing event?
Does Emily just come to nicks House everyday lol so cute
Ikr, nick has a fun looking kufe, what a nice reason to have a nice house imo
@3mins in. Emily a real one.
@8:40. For real she a real one & hilarious 😂
Unc giving some wisdom to the youngins
You gotta find your "Call me Al"!
Nick talking about a muse a storm of romance and passion a ever changing battlefield of hearts.
And she still didnt get it.
Yeah time to leave stream and grow up a little more emily😂
8:10 how has Nick just said a very profound thing? 🤣
Emily makes alot of sense here🤔🤣
Nick is spitting facts here. And reminding us all that relationships are boring after a while.
Bruh nick spitting. I dont know how weve forgotten this man as a society.
You really do want a partner whos like a best friend. Yeah you want them to be attractive, but that aint really enough long term figured that shit out since i was early 20s. But other people didnt seem to get it as much.
WHY THERE IS SO MUCH REDDIT TABS OPENED???
i believe him right here 5:12
he's right, a relationship requires both to constantly be putting in work. if you get lazy for a while, it goes downhill fast
idk if it was because of the gym arc but emily looks 5x hotter than she did like a year ago or so
Nick wants to come so badly! 😣😣😣😣
Nick become Jiraiya at this point
Song cant change and evolve tho
8:22 the moment his analogy starts breaking down
nicks playing the long game
Can i know why there is katchup on the windows stool area
Did Emily just negotiate into a high five contract? 🤔
3:10 cause shes clout chasing obviously
That's okay. Obviously. Lol
You’re such a dweeb
Why is the duration of this video inconsistent with whether im watching it or before i click on it?
i'm 32 and whatever nick is saying is big true
4:59 wait, like good 'ol mud wrestling?! 🤔 thats an interesting idea.
You should but katchii in the description too.
hipgate 2.0 comming soon
This is nick's mid life crisis and he doesn't care.
Came for the clickbait, stayed for Nick’s wise words at the end.
this is hilarious the ending is literally just nick trying to gaslight Emily into being attracted to him, if its a joke its very elaborate and funny
It's very real advice though
@@LifeonBlxst his advice is definitely true though agreed
The thing is, though, he already has been doing that all along its proven that the more time you spend around someone, the more attractive they become to you. So just by spending time with her he manipulating her subconsciously.
00:06:30 you're close but I can explain with factual information. The reason why sex isn't what people should base their relationship on is because feelings are real! The only real feeling is from stimulation of your nerves from the actions of touch. "Sex" so it's not love because emotions are a reaction to someone else's actions that created your emotions to react. Facts. Learn the difference between reality and what you make BELIEVE you understand. Understanding only comes from personal physical experience that knowledge is gained and understanding comes with the correct judgment from an ethical perspective and your own personal morals. Facts
GladHeAteTor
Im a grown smart ass man watching this idk why
She's the best and the worst wing man at the same time. Which is good?
Why can't he hangout with Nora? He can hangout with who he wants.
What's the difference between a friend and a partner? Maybe actual romantic love?
He’s not wrong but she isn’t either. The difference between a partner and a friend is attraction, intimacy, and commitment. Passion fades but passion for someone else doesn’t have to. If she doesn’t think he’s attractive or is someone who she can be intimate with then they’re only staying together because of commitment, in other words obligation. And that’s not the basis for a healthy relationship and is more akin to an arranged marriage.
Model, be careful.
5:40 💀
Why is the promotion of cheating considered wisdom?
Friendzoned
FACTS @6:54
@5:50 10 years without much sex?!?!? The fuck lol? Did I missinterpret tgis?
How many tabs do you need dawg
Wait let him cook
Nick saying he and Malena were not really having sex over 10 years explains SO MUCH now..I actually get everything. I dont think he truly been in love with an actual partner, body mind and soul (she was kind of mom for him)...He does not get how important a healthy sexual connection is with a life partner. I mean I guess there is always an exception to the rule but I can not imagine it. Been with my girl 6 years (we are engaged) and Nick with the right person it fades a little after the honeymoon phase, but it is still VERY strong with us after 6 years...and no sex would be very jarring and she wants it just as much as I do. I really hope Nick has lightning strike one day so he can really feel it, IMO that intimacy is so important.
It is important, but for the right reasons. Not because she has a nice butt. That's the type of attraction that fades. Hence the friendship argument Nick made.
I think it rlly depends on the person. Some ppl need that sexual connection, others prioritise an emotional one. Most ppl, it's a mixture of both, with priorities being edged to one side. Imo what's important imo is not what u are doing, but that you both have similar priorities in those areas, and putting effort in to compensate for your partner's wants and needs. I will say, that I believe that 2 ppl who truly prioritise emotional connection are more likely to last for life happily and without cheating than those that need sexual connection (as you can not and will not want that as frequently when u get old), however in the right situation either can work or not obvs. Hope your relationship stays as strong as it is now for life!
@@kapi6130without sexual desire, no relationship survives.
@@kapi6130 yeah, I'd say similar priorities and long term goals are what help the relationship, not sexual connection lol
the first clip I saw of them before the spain trip was one time where she made it clear she didn't want kids but Nick clearly wants one.
that was the deal breaker I thought the op would notice, rather than sex lmao.
Everyone is very different. For lots of people sex fades when the excitement of it all being new is gone. I know many who would like to switch to have that excitement again, however most people don't feel like switching best friends. Kinda feel like that is what Nick says here, that one song that will stay with him his entire life is like his best friend but he will like other songs along the way as that excitement of novelty will come and go.
Either way, good that it is still that strong for you after 6 years. You, sir, are blessed.
Nick wants an open relationship LOLOLO
Emily watched 1 too many FnF podcasts