Loved their empathy like she didn’t mean to appear offensive but her phrasing was super problematic like “black people doing styling their hair like rope” is a bit messed up😭 but they offered help instead of taking it to heart and I really liked the dynamic they displayed in this scene
@@jillcooper6371FUCKING THSNK YOU!!!!!! FINALLY SOMEONE GET IT!! One of my favorite things growing up was having my best friend ( BLACK BTW) would want to participate in my sister quinceañera party or him learning Spanish, I loved sharing my culture with him, as in turned he turned into hip-hoop and rap and stuff.
Jesus Loves you He died on the cross for your sins and if you repent if your sins and confess with your mouth His is Lord and son of God you are saved. God bless😊
I have respect for her just putting herself in such an uncomfortable situation. A lot of people have a hard time adjusting to new things and admiring that they have no idea what they’re talking about. She tried, even though she knew she didn’t know much, and that takes some real character to do
When I was pregnant with my biracial daughter, I had no clue how to do her hair. I had weird pregnant dreams about not being able to do her hair. I cried to my friend, who told her daughter I needed a head to learn on. Her beautiful daughter would sit there for hours and hours letting me learn how to do all kinds of hairstyles while I was pregnant. Most patient 8 year old ever, I love that girl and her mom!
People in interracial relationships racing biracial children, let this be an example for you. Expose them to both sides and allow them to show up how they are most comfortable. And prayerfully they won't grow up to have an identity crisis. This video is just (chef's kiss)
Yeah, I’m struggling to see the positive in that image obsessed environment. If you have biracial kids have them interact with the more positive influences available. I know black people in every line of work. Let them look up to doctors and lawyers not the ball players. Teach them hard work and dedication instead of looking for that easy bag. Everyone goes through several identity crisis in their lives. At his age every month is a new one.
I had a young black boy in foster with us for a little while. I was so clueless. We were in the aisle at Walmart with African hair products, and there was this younger black lady that I asked for help. She was so sweet and generous with her time. She talked to him about his style and needs. She pointed out what to buy and even gave me details on how to use it. I still tear up about it. No ridicule. Just 2 moms supporting each other. He was recently adopted. 😊
Your story is great but what I don't understand is why do you people always have to flaunt what good dead you've done? Oh I adopted a child praise me! That's the vibe you're giving off seriously. And for the record no I'm not attacking you for adoption it's a great thing to do. I have 5 kids 3 biologically mine and 2 adopted so I know what it's like . But again why always flaunt your deeds? I've noticed this patern specifically amongst whyte americans but also other whyte in general. Never understood why.....
@@gregorybower2759 No sure she wasn't flaunting. Same way that all the other whyte american comments I see all over youtube doing the exact same thing. Maybe it's a cultural difference idk but sounds like flaunting to be. If she would have said this in my country people would think she's weird and flaunting....and I feel the same way. But hey I might be wrong who knows I just find it very strange since it seems like a pattern?
"I don't know what I'm doing" is such an amazing phrase to hear a parent say. Admitting it, asking for help, reaching out to the community around them instead of just thinking they know best no matter what. There was just something about that line that made me tear up.
Yep. Been there in Target many years ago. New mom to a beautiful brown babe, took the classes, needed the real help. The woman I asked for help had the most phenomenal natural hair. She was so kind to me. Years later I found out she too was adopted & has a white mom. ❤
This is how society needs to be. Instead of tormenting her on stuff she doesn't understand, they introduced her to their culture. They celebrated their culture and shared it amongst others like it was meant to be.
But here’s the thing people tend to appropriate that culture. Pluck things from their culture that have great significance to them and make them “cool“ meanwhile they still get penalized for that piece of culture that white people made cool. I understand that not all white people understand the prejudices or are aware of them, but the thing is is that a lot of white people when pointed out these fallacies tend to get very angry and defensive. They pull out the arguments of “I’m totally not a racist.” But instead of trying to actually learn about the culture and learn about the biases and prejudices that had permeated through the centuries, they tend to want to bury their heads and pretend that they are enlightened because they treat Black people semi nicely when they’re not thinking of stereotypes.
Thing is braids was used by us nordics back in the viking age and prob longer back Edit: I love how this comment upsets so many people😂😂😂 its too easy to trigger people with a little comment that means 0 like i couldn't careless for what kind of braids they are i just commented for fun😂
i saw this white woman's post on insta showing her black baby girl going to school, and all the comments were like "oh she has matted hair you need to take care of it" the woman said she doesn't know and she wish she knew how to take care of it and she felt so guilty. then all the people commented hair routine she could use, she was so happy
That’s really how things go. Just ask we aren’t as confrontational as ppl like to think. Just be yourself and be respectful it’s when y’all OVERDO it when y’all start saying offensive things
Everyone's praising that amazing mom but no one's praising that kid for turning to her with thank you i love you on his lips. So many kids don't notice what we do for them.
It's so heartwarming to see people coming together to help and support each other, especially when it comes to learning and understanding different cultures and backgrounds. So much kindness and empathy in this video, it's truly uplifting.
Admitting that you have no idea what you're doing, and you need help, is a sign of a truly strong character. Doing it for somebody else is a sign of true love.
She’s so sweet, she admits she has no idea what she doing but tries her best to make her son feel heard. My mom did the same, had my black aunties teach her how to deal with curly hair 😊
I know we need more moms like this even though she was probably raised differently she's trying to get used to new things and that's what matter about her 😊
@@vernardbrown-rv8ncyou’re loud and wrong. I think it’s so funny how you whites don’t have a clue what you’re talking about and yet still decide to have an opinion on it. if you don’t have the right information, don’t go spread around do your research then maybe you could talk about it
A mother willing to be in a situation she wouldn't normally be in order to make her son happy. And everyone was helpful and kind. If only this was our everyday world.
Yeah, it is so cringe that they always have to put in some form of racism, even when performing normal mother/father, son/daughter-stuff... Hollywood can't do without it any more 🙄 This would be so a nice story, but they just can't write drama without racism...
This is what I love, she is allowing him to explore n understand his other side, shes genuinely trying, " you wahme bless shorty like yuh boy like AI" no he wants braids like Allen Iverson..🤣🤣🤣. She's too cute.
My sister who is White adopted a seven day old Black baby. When he was an infant, she walked into a Black salon because she needed to learn how to take care of his hair. He has recently graduated from university and is a jazz pianist.
AT LEAST SHE ASKED, SOME DON'T...AND WE DO GET AGITATED BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS JUMPING UP TRYING TO HAVE MIXED CHILDREN AND DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT US. 😢
As a black women. I love this. She didn't understand, she put herself out there despite her fear of getting it wrong and possibly judgent but she did it anyway for the love of her son... and they did not judge and spite her for being a different race. This is what we need. Patience, understanding and no judgement 💞
I'm always getting judged for not understanding black people. It's so hard to just wonder innocently without being called racist and insults. :( i love yall black ppl sm you guys are so pretty, i just want to know more abt yall since you guys are amazing and so fun!! 😭😭 (also im Latina so like i know but i dont KNOW if that makes sense)
Mom deserves an award. I have a relative who is in this same predicament and she was humiliated by some people but she kept trying and finally found help. Long story short. She is the grandma to 2 beautiful girls who are mixed and she ended up with full custody of them and they have 4C and 4B hair. She knew absolutely nothing about it and reached out for help many times until she found a salon that specializes with curly and coiled hair. They showed her everything she needed to know, how to help take care of the girls hair and made sure she could do simple hairstyles to help. The girls where only 6 and 4 at the time and now they are teens and still have grandma do their hair bc she has learned how to do so many styles for them
It's how it is when you're learning a new language and there are genuine people who try and help you because they applaud your effort and/or went thru it themselves.
This is how the world should be. If everyone gave everyone the benefit of the doubt, instead of assuming the worst intentions from everyone around them, we'd live in a much nicer world.
I went to Africa a few years ago to visit family and let me tell you those are some of the kindest people I've ever met, went with my sister in law to get her hair braided and when we got there she asked if I wanted to get my hair braided as well and one of the ladies was so super nice about doing my hair, they don't care what color you are there they will do your hair any way you want it, wish more people here had that same attitude
I had a boy in my class this year who was adopted by white parents (along with his two sisters). Once on a field trip his dad came along to chaperone and stood around talking with the other two moms who came (both of them black.) He was complaining about not being able to find an affordable place to get the kids' hair done. The moms were really sweet and gave him the names of the places they go and even offered to have him over to their house to teach him how to care for the kids' hair. I really loved witnessing that. I had some really great kids and parents last year.
Being uneducated on something is not the same as being naïve too it. She was aware of the hairstyle just didn't know what it was called and used her best to describe it and the rest was filled in by someone who knew. Nothing offensive at all for those who may have took it that way.
I can’t wait for the continued seasons . I really enjoyed watching Colin Kapernick’s life’s story… I always loved him as an athlete. he always carried a peaceful spirit.
This is fucking GOALS for fostering and adopting. No shame and no shitting on the fact that she is white and doing the best for her black son. She is putting her shit aside for him. BEAUTIFUL! 🎉
i am an adoption child (now I m 44)this video Iet me remember what she did for me and how much she did love me and everyone of you understand why I cry. there are some angel mothers in this world.
Makes me cry because I should have adopted but I chose to try and fulfill dreams that others had for me. Not my own. Now I’m 55, disabled and I wasted my life chasing achievements in my career. A lot of us Gen X females were sold a lie. Or maybe just me. IDK anymore.
@@hotpocketdeityis it about that black lives matter NFL guy? He did his part didn't he to get those multi million dollar houses for owners of the charity 😂 Making videos comparing the draft to the slave trade lol I can already imagine the movie No thanks
@LaurArt_UK I mean would you call a baby ignorant cuz it doesn't know?.....I feel like calling someone ignorant is a insult honestly, when she is just trying to be there for her kid in a world she k ow nothing about no? So I wouldn't say ignorance is the right word here..
@@anids1988 Yikes. The term ‘ignorant’ can be an insult, but doesn’t have to be. And just because *you* find it as an insult, doesn’t mean it *is* in this context.
I have six mixed kids, and as a woman of the Caucasian persuasion if we bring these children into the world, it’s our duty to expose them to their heritage on both sides. I learned how to braid I learned how to care for their hair and it’s a lot of work! Props to these people that do it every day and the women who struggle with their beautiful curls. Your beautiful inside and out natural hair is a gift!
I love how no one really judged her because of course she doesn't understand but she's trying and she's being respectful, letting people who understand it better take over That is truly amazing mother❤ Edit: it's actually hilarious that people are arguing about this comment💀💀
that mom never slowed down to find what was needed. i got chills. i'm 79 yo. my son is 39. i'm white his father was black. he died when our son was 3. thank you, thank you, thank you for posting this.
It took a lot of guts to work with two stranger and ask for help. But she did what was best for her son and clearly he was thrilled. My four biological children are biracial with 4C hair. I still don't know what the hell I'm doing and they're 13 to 24. I just spend a lot of money getting it done for them. I can do simple box braids and I can do the twists My daughter really loves extensions and I cannot figure that out for the life of me (in the braids) But you have to reach out and I love that no one belittled her knowing shamed her or embarrassed her.,. supported her I'm trying to make her son happy also those are some killer braids.
I was listening to a reddit post some time ago about a dad who had a mixed daughter with 4c hair. His wife had died recently and he had NO IDEA how to care for her hair, because that was mom and daughter's ritual and bonding time. A teacher at the school noticed the girl's hair becoming unkempt and helped her. The dad showed up after school to ask the teacher to help him learn about his daughter's hair, and to thank her for helping his little girl. Eventually he got connected with a local natural hair stylist and learned formally how to do hair for his daughter. He did her hair for her graduation. Guys, I was sniffling in my car. It was adorable.😊
This makes my heart happy. Everyone helping each other help both mom and son understand his culture and I’m guessing she taught mama a few tips on how to keep his hair healthy. This is HUMANITY. We need more of it. On all fronts, all creeds, religions and ethnicities. We are all one. ❤
This movie made his parents look extremely racist. And push the narrative that his parents only adopted him to be a sports star like training a horse. Why tf would 2 white people adopt a black kid if they were closeted racists?? All this movie was for us to push an agenda that white people are “oppressors” when in reality it just keeps black people in a bubble
except that braids can't be claimed XD Venus of Willendorf is likely the oldest known sculture with braids but still cant be say braids are from austria XD. But we get what you mean. We are all one
I love how they all helped that mom to bring her son closer to understanding himself and the community connection. That’s love we don’t get as much recently and we gotta bring back.
My best friend is Black and I'm hispanic/white. I bought her clippers and taught her how to shave her head because that's what she wanted and she was using scissors to try her best. I won't touch her hair with scissors, but she used to let me help with her twists sometimes. I'm not confident in sectioning, but I love that we get to style and play with each other's hair. It's easy to shy away because something takes more energy or is unfamiliar. And it's easy to make someone feel like an idiot for not knowing what's basic practice for someone else. It takes just a little effort, but it's not too hard to be kind to others and to want to help and not make someone feel bad for existing in a space that's new to them. ❤
This is a mama that loves her son, and this was a sweet young man that was willing to help her. I wish the whole world could be like this where everybody helps everybody.
This actually made me tear up because it reminds me so much of my situation. I was attacked at 14 which resulted in me becoming pregnant. My plan was to give the baby up for adoption but at my 8 month ultrasound I asked to see the baby and I immediately fell in love with my daughter and chose to raise her. I'm white and I grew up in a town with a very small black population so I knew nothing about what my daughter's hair needed. We eventually moved to a town with a much more equal black to white population and some girls from school took me shopping to show me what I needed to buy to keep my daughter's hair healthy. One girl even came to my house to show me how to properly moisturize her scalp. I hope they know how much everything they did meant to me. My daughter is 17 now and actually does hair herself, she loves braiding and has a few clients that she regularly braids.
That's a real af mom right here... You def took the worst moment of your life and turned it into the best creation possible. Very brave of you and wise to know at such a young age that no matter who the father is, that's still your baby! That's just so beautiful! So so good on you and your daughter for not letting that monster define who you are and what your future holds. I pray God continues to bless others through y'all's light.
The sincerity behind her actions, though out of her comfort zone she still gave this to his son. There's never shame in being uncomfortable and seeking understanding outside of your own. These are super respected moments. ❤
Cosmetologist of 24 yrs in a military city… this used to happen often! Parents… please don’t feel bad because you don’t understand ur child’s style or ethnicity! Everyone is learning, when you see someone with a clothing style or hairstyle that you like, simply stop them and start a convo! The black community is generous with info! We love helping others. I can’t count how many times this has occurred near my shop!
Mom was clearly uncomfortable but was willing to put that aside for her child. Went to someone looking for help with an example (even if a bit misguided) found a professional and once again put her own comfort aside. That’s a good mom, and the people who helped her are also quality examples of good people. I know it’s a show but it’s good to see that representation I think.
I was adopted along with 6 of my other siblings! My parents fostered over 200 kids in 30 years and gave every last one of them everything they needed and could ever want! They are angels and if there's one thing I know, they don't ever give up on kids!
Weird because she seems like a good mom and he seems to be very grateful to her so I’m wondering where he’s extreme hatred for white people comes from… oh yea money
@@cheekclappa7192I did feel any tude coming from her. Some people talk dif. Even white folk got subcultures and people misinterpret each other. Not all black culture is homogeneous. Spend a bit of time with different folk and you find that maybe they are just jiving you, or being a bit sassy, or joshing, meme lording, sarcastic, or just trying to help and being misunderstood.
Why can't society be like this?! No judgment, just support & love! Edit- Holy Cow! I should've just said bring the hate!! For the couple positive comments, thank you. And the likes, just wow. That being said, I don't believe in fantasy. But an honest wish is just that, a wish. I know what the reality is. It saddens me from the comments, just how many people were angered or triggered by such a simple statement....
There was a lot of judgement in that support, judgment is what got her to figure her life out and care about her son’s needs. It’s didn’t come natural it was learned.
@@roxywyndham OK, if you're referring to the whole movie, I understand. But my comment was to the clip & there wasn't any judgment. So??? I stand by my statement. Why can't society be like this instead of the bullshit we have.
It would be like that if not for some people pushing the hate and racist ideals on us. The government does not want us getting along. As long as we are fighting each other their misdeeds and criminal activities are not being noticed. They push the hate agenda to keep us distracted. They are afraid of what We The People can accomplish if we are United.
@@black_wolf9 I think what theyre trying to tell you is that there is not such thing as support without judgment. Before we get a polished rock, it starts off as a jagged and uneven. But yes, in an ideal utopia, everyone would know the right thing to do and we would not have to face such hardships. Though, I feel thinking like this is terrible. To try and obtain the untainable, it aint gonna work. To also answer your question, society is large and varied. We learn by generation, sadly. It takes time to be kind to others. I mean, look at the lgbtq+ community. It took us years to be somewhat accepted and we're still demonized for being ourselves. Though, the things happening in the movie, it does happen. You just dont hear about it because not everyone wants to share their lives to the internet.
Thanks, you did a better job of informing us than the dumas that uploaded this. All he typed was #movie in the description because laziness/couldn't be bothered to credit a simple movie name that he blatantly rips off. Wouldn't be suprised if this channel had every clip uncredited like this. Edit: Yes, every clip is uncredited with just #movie like we can read minds or sum sht. Yup, he doesn't care about his audience, while his audience comes together to figure it out the name of movies he should of put in the description in the first place..................
When we got our first Black foster child, my daughter (then a teen) thoroughly interrogated all her Black friends on how to care for her hair; she then used HER MONEY, they went together to a shop in San Jose (about 35 minutes away), and got her what she needed. Then SHE did that girl's hair EVERY DAY!! She's even taught other foster parents in our area how to do it. I am VERY GRATEFUL & PROUD of my daughter!!!!
@@user-kp1pv9qg9j, I don't understand what you've written. Please explain? We feel we have been enriched from the foster children we've loved; they've given us more than we have them, and we're grateful to them all! I'm Gramma to a lot more children now too! You may never know this joy of being in a store and having children run up to you and call you "GRAMMA!" They laugh and say,"I'm ????'s daughter or son!" Oh... What a feeling! They tell me how much they loved coming to my ranch and riding the horses most!
@cherylpemberton1676 ignore this ignorant f*ckwit ⬆️ it's not about YOU understanding your daughter's culture & heritage it's about your daughter doing so IF she chooses to. I have friends that their foster parents have a different heritage & they've supported him when he wanted to learn his culture & he loves them for it & when his sister DIDN'T want to they never forced her to because she didn't want to & they supported her decision as well. Thank you for being a foster parent y'all are awesome.
I love it how she asked for help in a respectful way, not assuming she knows, not discounting anyone and not expecting they would help her automatically. A lot of people phrase their questions with horrible assumptions and then get offended when people don’t respond with servility (not civility which is what you get when you’re civil in the first place.)
Part of being a good parent is enduring personal discomfort in order to not force your kids into the exact same mould that you where made in. She knew she was probably doing so many perceived weird ass stuff but they felt her good intentions and remained helpfull. Well done everyone and her for being humble.
I like where you are coming from but she prob had been saying no bc that shi looks awful, not because she didn’t know about it and was too embarrassed to ask haha. And she was right to say no - it looks f’in awful. You ever see a leading surgeon, or a lawyer, someone in the top of their field, rockin corn rows? Naw man. You think Obama rocked that shhh get your head checked. If my neurosurgeon walked in rocking that shiii in peacin’ the f outta that bish. It’s not racist. It’s only a lil better than a white boi rockin a bowl cut or a mullet. She was right to be like no. I ain’t sayin lil homie finnin to be next Obama, but as a mom she wants the best for her son, to have the best opportunities in life, even if that shii not gonna happen
for those of you that don't know the white actress, Mary Louis Parker, adopted a black daughter in real life. Her daughter is an adult now and beautiful. Look them up, Mary talks about her experience adopting and honestly, she made me feel like trying to adopt. Not to randomly adopt a black child lol, but more because she reminded me about what it means to respect a child and raise them to be who they are. Remember to raise your kids to be themselves unapologetically, not to be you because they're supposed to be better and that's good for the world.
THANK YOU!!! I knew her face but I just couldn't place it. It must have been 10+ years since I've seen her and she has changed (aged)... as we all have, LOL
That's a great mother....embrace his culture and expose him to yours let him be his own person amd he will grow up fine...even though it's fake this is how people should act and not shut children down even if it's just a expression of self let them be
Good mom. Not making excuses, doing what she has to in order to educate herself on meeting her sons needs in all ways. Wish more moms of biracial kids did this. I love youtube for teaching me.
@AdamFontenethe didn’t want it cut in the first place, if you watched the show, he really wanted his hair braided but that wasn’t allowed in his sports and his parents told him it made him look like a thug.
I love how they offered help and not make her feel bad over something she doesn't understand
its because of the context with out it they would be like get lost
Loved their empathy like she didn’t mean to appear offensive but her phrasing was super problematic like “black people doing styling their hair like rope” is a bit messed up😭 but they offered help instead of taking it to heart and I really liked the dynamic they displayed in this scene
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Culture is to be shared not hoarded.
@@jillcooper6371FUCKING THSNK YOU!!!!!! FINALLY SOMEONE GET IT!! One of my favorite things growing up was having my best friend ( BLACK BTW) would want to participate in my sister quinceañera party or him learning Spanish, I loved sharing my culture with him, as in turned he turned into hip-hoop and rap and stuff.
I love how she was uncomfortable but she put the discomfort aside for her sons joy
Yes, that is a real touching scene in this series I liked a lot.
It puts tears in my eyes damn
What’s fucked is that Collin tries to make her seem like a bad person.
@@ChubsrealYTwait how
Jesus Loves you He died on the cross for your sins and if you repent if your sins and confess with your mouth His is Lord and son of God you are saved. God bless😊
That woman is such a great mother. she put her son's happiness first.
And then loses all character development 20 mins later
Isn’t that the bare minimum though?
@@princegobi5992 it feels like the bare minimum but you'd be surprised by how many people didn't have this blessing growing up
Mom was awesome. She was willing to leave her comfort zone to make her son happy.
I am amazed that people find this exceptional, it is what mums do. Bless you honey, son was thrilled❤
@@joannejasny750um it’s a movie
@@finnpeters7867 doh
mind you she sent him back to a white barber shop because she thought his hair was ghetto…
Was her son to stupid to know what cornrows are? Mom had to act like she was helping a 6 year old?
Respect to the mom bringing her to hairstylist familiar with his hair
I have respect for her just putting herself in such an uncomfortable situation. A lot of people have a hard time adjusting to new things and admiring that they have no idea what they’re talking about. She tried, even though she knew she didn’t know much, and that takes some real character to do
@@Montagedshe turned out to be racist and told her son he looks like a thug after he got the cornrows
She said he looked like a thug after this
Exactly. She wanted for him what he wanted.
@Montaged she likes BBC that's why she's so conformable doing that
That mom is trying her best, humanity at its finest
nope, not if you see the full thing
Right after this she calls him a thug and worse
@@hunterlepagewhat movie is this?
@@KassKat519 Colin in Black & White
Watching the whole show will give you a complete opposite impression about her.
When I was pregnant with my biracial daughter, I had no clue how to do her hair. I had weird pregnant dreams about not being able to do her hair. I cried to my friend, who told her daughter I needed a head to learn on. Her beautiful daughter would sit there for hours and hours letting me learn how to do all kinds of hairstyles while I was pregnant. Most patient 8 year old ever, I love that girl and her mom!
Coalburner
Hell yeah! ❤
People in interracial relationships racing biracial children, let this be an example for you. Expose them to both sides and allow them to show up how they are most comfortable. And prayerfully they won't grow up to have an identity crisis.
This video is just (chef's kiss)
No
@@sor8104Love your open mind.
Yeah, I’m struggling to see the positive in that image obsessed environment. If you have biracial kids have them interact with the more positive influences available. I know black people in every line of work. Let them look up to doctors and lawyers not the ball players. Teach them hard work and dedication instead of looking for that easy bag. Everyone goes through several identity crisis in their lives. At his age every month is a new one.
This is the way my sister raised her two boys! They are 46 and 48 now and I'm a proud auntie!
I had a young black boy in foster with us for a little while. I was so clueless. We were in the aisle at Walmart with African hair products, and there was this younger black lady that I asked for help. She was so sweet and generous with her time. She talked to him about his style and needs. She pointed out what to buy and even gave me details on how to use it. I still tear up about it. No ridicule. Just 2 moms supporting each other.
He was recently adopted. 😊
Aww 🥰 I’m so happy for you guys!! Wishing all the best for your family and the boy ❤
Your story is great but what I don't understand is why do you people always have to flaunt what good dead you've done? Oh I adopted a child praise me! That's the vibe you're giving off seriously.
And for the record no I'm not attacking you for adoption it's a great thing to do. I have 5 kids 3 biologically mine and 2 adopted so I know what it's like
. But again why always flaunt your deeds? I've noticed this patern specifically amongst whyte americans but also other whyte in general. Never understood why.....
I dont think she was flaunting and fostering is way different than adopting. @Thamazgha-for-imazighen
That’s wonderful ❤❤❤❤
@@gregorybower2759 No sure she wasn't flaunting. Same way that all the other whyte american comments I see all over youtube doing the exact same thing.
Maybe it's a cultural difference idk but sounds like flaunting to be. If she would have said this in my country people would think she's weird and flaunting....and I feel the same way. But hey I might be wrong who knows I just find it very strange since it seems like a pattern?
"I don't know what I'm doing" is such an amazing phrase to hear a parent say. Admitting it, asking for help, reaching out to the community around them instead of just thinking they know best no matter what. There was just something about that line that made me tear up.
You cried to a clip of a movie on yt shorts? 💀
@@Kdotstan mf watch leaves from the vine and you'll cry too
@@Kdotstanso did I 🤷🏻
@@chipta8207 tf 😭🙏
@@Kdotstanyou’ve never cried watching a movie?
I love helping mothers in Walmart! They are sooo relieved when I suggest products for their daughter’s hair! I love it!
And moms who are lost and confused like me appreciate that
Yep. Been there in Target many years ago. New mom to a beautiful brown babe, took the classes, needed the real help. The woman I asked for help had the most phenomenal natural hair. She was so kind to me. Years later I found out she too was adopted & has a white mom. ❤
Bless you for taking the time.
A good mother. She was scared and didn’t know what to do and asked for help. That’s real love.
I wouldnt say scared.....just utterly out of her depth....
This is how society needs to be. Instead of tormenting her on stuff she doesn't understand, they introduced her to their culture. They celebrated their culture and shared it amongst others like it was meant to be.
But here’s the thing people tend to appropriate that culture. Pluck things from their culture that have great significance to them and make them “cool“ meanwhile they still get penalized for that piece of culture that white people made cool. I understand that not all white people understand the prejudices or are aware of them, but the thing is is that a lot of white people when pointed out these fallacies tend to get very angry and defensive. They pull out the arguments of “I’m totally not a racist.” But instead of trying to actually learn about the culture and learn about the biases and prejudices that had permeated through the centuries, they tend to want to bury their heads and pretend that they are enlightened because they treat Black people semi nicely when they’re not thinking of stereotypes.
Thing is braids was used by us nordics back in the viking age and prob longer back
Edit: I love how this comment upsets so many people😂😂😂 its too easy to trigger people with a little comment that means 0 like i couldn't careless for what kind of braids they are i just commented for fun😂
I cried reding this. thank you.
@@itzwilliamdk8525 this is what we’re talking about when we say y’all love to steal things lol. No offense but This is why we gatekeep.
tf you talking about? if anybody stole it, black people stole it from the nordics@@Harlonna
The innocence of a mother when all she knows is that she loves her son, that was touching.
Exactly, the mothers love ❤
Beautiful!
If you watched the show, she already called the braids ghetto and that he looked like a thug.
@nevermind4156 was that after he got the braids or was that before he got them
@@nevermind4156that was before though right?
I love Mary Louise Parkee sm! She's probably one of my favorite actresses. Her portrayal of Teresa Kaepernick is absolutely touching.
i saw this white woman's post on insta showing her black baby girl going to school, and all the comments were like "oh she has matted hair you need to take care of it" the woman said she doesn't know and she wish she knew how to take care of it and she felt so guilty. then all the people commented hair routine she could use, she was so happy
Thats a mom right there
In every since of the word!
@@nickpossum3607what??
na that’s a mother
@@freecashattaIts the same.
@@jareddimatulac45but it feels more endearing
A parent who TRIES for their kids is so powerful and wonderful
😢 touching
❤❤yes my heart melted
It's called a Dutch brade
yeah and the ones who treat you as their slaves arent
Yeah but later in the show his parents say that the cornrows make him look like a thug and that he can’t get them anymore
Show Title: Colin in Black & White
I liked my own comment
@@tooozzy4u I do this all time too
That’s really how things go. Just ask we aren’t as confrontational as ppl like to think.
Just be yourself and be respectful it’s when y’all OVERDO it when y’all start saying offensive things
Everyone's praising that amazing mom but no one's praising that kid for turning to her with thank you i love you on his lips. So many kids don't notice what we do for them.
Amen!
The character is young Colin Kaepernick. This is about his life.
@@IslesYankeeLady Is this what's the movie called? 😊 Thanks in advance
"These damn kids."
- every generation
@@comptegoogle5071
The movie is called "Colin in Black & White", currently airing on Netflix. :)
Thats a true mom. Understanding and no prejudice, im sure she will raise her son right.
She said he looks like a thug right after the clips stops she means well though but it’s just a different in culture and perception of professionalism
What show is that
@@kaitlynbrooks869this is the short series about colin kaepernick, bro. I watched it on netflix a few years ago
There is always prejudice to an extent. What matters most is understanding and getting through it.
@@kaitlynbrooks869it’s called “Colin in black and white” I think
It's so heartwarming to see people coming together to help and support each other, especially when it comes to learning and understanding different cultures and backgrounds. So much kindness and empathy in this video, it's truly uplifting.
The Mom is so nice🥺 And the Hairstyle looks great on him.. wow🥰
What a mom. She’s trying her hardest to be the nicest person she can be and help her son
Do you know the movie name?
@@a_n_u1 Colin in Black and White
A mother’s love.. so strong ❤
Didn't she force him to get rid of them later because it made him look 'unprofessional' and he almost got kicked of his baseball team aswell
I really liked her until she hid his prom photos because he had a black date😢
Admitting that you have no idea what you're doing, and you need help, is a sign of a truly strong character. Doing it for somebody else is a sign of true love.
Or maybe start thinking about that before having a child would be a option too
@@twicekpopertrash8685Well, is good she decided to be his mom, because that is Colin Kaepernick’s story. The outcome was successful.
Most racist thing I've ever seen 😂😂this can't be a real show
Another woke fake b.s.,,
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“MAKE SURE YOU GET HIM SOME TEA”-🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Actually, it's "Yeah, make sure you get him some tea t....."
The conclusion of that sentence would be Tea Tree Oil, fyi.
This made me emotional, mom's love 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
She’s so sweet, she admits she has no idea what she doing but tries her best to make her son feel heard. My mom did the same, had my black aunties teach her how to deal with curly hair 😊
Blacks don't have curly hair...our hair gets kinky and Thick.. biracial children get curly hair
@@vernardbrown-rv8nc some of us have curly hair. You're just being nasty.😂
@vernardbrown-rv8nc I have curly hair and I'm fully black I don't know what you're yappin about
I know we need more moms like this even though she was probably raised differently she's trying to get used to new things and that's what matter about her 😊
@@vernardbrown-rv8ncyou’re loud and wrong. I think it’s so funny how you whites don’t have a clue what you’re talking about and yet still decide to have an opinion on it. if you don’t have the right information, don’t go spread around do your research then maybe you could talk about it
A mother willing to be in a situation she wouldn't normally be in order to make her son happy. And everyone was helpful and kind. If only this was our everyday world.
Looks like he is someone elses son.
Then some of who walk I to" a bad neighborhood " wouldn't feel scared bout rollin' up because they hear Zs girl can do it for less. 😂
Yeah, it is so cringe that they always have to put in some form of racism, even when performing normal mother/father, son/daughter-stuff...
Hollywood can't do without it any more 🙄
This would be so a nice story, but they just can't write drama without racism...
@@merficvalmar4671completely agree it’s really annoying to see it in every tv show movie and cartoon
It is!! It’s just not always on the Internet. But this is going on in your community right now.
I love how she is trying everything to make his son happy
This is what I love, she is allowing him to explore n understand his other side, shes genuinely trying, " you wahme bless shorty like yuh boy like AI" no he wants braids like Allen Iverson..🤣🤣🤣. She's too cute.
My sister who is White adopted a seven day old Black baby. When he was an infant, she walked into a Black salon because she needed to learn how to take care of his hair. He has recently graduated from university and is a jazz pianist.
🎉Congratulations ❤❤
Awesome! Great to see people who are ready to help helping! So many kids in need
How hid hair looked though did she learn well?? That was crazy jump he 7 day old then graduate.
Beautiful! And congratulations!!
@@tekh07 IKR I was like wait, we are missing a whole inbetween story or nah? welp XD
This is an example of a great mom who loves her son and amazing people who understood what she was trying to do and helped
@AdamFontenet ahaha they wont see it that way. this is real to them all. babble on babylon.
Where’s the dad?
@@reez1728this is Colin Kaepernick which was adopted love it
@@reez1728
Working? At home? Not there? Why does it matter why the dad is?
Black People Are The Friendliest People I've Ever Met. They Treat Each Other Like Pure Family. It's Beautiful...
That was so nice of them to sincerely help her n what an experience he will never forget…😊
Beautiful. She brought him where he’s never been before and belongs. That’s love.
This clip is racist af, because he has black skin he has to dress and have braids like black stereotypes?
Belongs?
@@noodlem5000 where he belongs is crazy😂😂😂
It’s a barber shop not a prison relax
@@mantecastotch4260 duh...
As a parent, that "Thank You." means everything. 😊
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100%
AT LEAST SHE ASKED, SOME DON'T...AND WE DO GET AGITATED BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS JUMPING UP TRYING TO HAVE MIXED CHILDREN AND DON'T KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT US. 😢
The face the mom makes in the end is so precious! 🥹💖
As a black women. I love this. She didn't understand, she put herself out there despite her fear of getting it wrong and possibly judgent but she did it anyway for the love of her son... and they did not judge and spite her for being a different race.
This is what we need. Patience, understanding and no judgement 💞
Why would they judge her for being white? If anything it’d be the other way around . White ppl ain’t oppressed
If only it was like this all the time tho
Women didn't even know what cornrows are, it's either she grew up under a rock or in a very white gated community 💀
God bless you
I'm always getting judged for not understanding black people. It's so hard to just wonder innocently without being called racist and insults. :( i love yall black ppl sm you guys are so pretty, i just want to know more abt yall since you guys are amazing and so fun!! 😭😭 (also im Latina so like i know but i dont KNOW if that makes sense)
Mom deserves an award. I have a relative who is in this same predicament and she was humiliated by some people but she kept trying and finally found help.
Long story short. She is the grandma to 2 beautiful girls who are mixed and she ended up with full custody of them and they have 4C and 4B hair. She knew absolutely nothing about it and reached out for help many times until she found a salon that specializes with curly and coiled hair. They showed her everything she needed to know, how to help take care of the girls hair and made sure she could do simple hairstyles to help. The girls where only 6 and 4 at the time and now they are teens and still have grandma do their hair bc she has learned how to do so many styles for them
That's beautiful!🌹🌹🌹
That’s so sweet❤️🥺
What's 4C and 4B hair? I've never heard of anything like that.
I’m in this now. Trying to buy and apply the right products for my beautiful granddaughter. I so don’t want to ruin her hair.
@@Arbidarbright now I wanna know what mine is
Shout out to this mother that is willing to step out of her comfort zone and has the courage to change
Building confidence in our children is a hard job we “parents” all try to deliver. I’m glad she asked for help. 😊
its kinda sweet when someone genuinely tries to understand what something is and people embrace it and help them out. its heartwarming.
It's not kinda sweet... it's definitely sweet... and despite what the media tries to portray, this is how these interactions often go
It's how it is when you're learning a new language and there are genuine people who try and help you because they applaud your effort and/or went thru it themselves.
This is how the world should be. If everyone gave everyone the benefit of the doubt, instead of assuming the worst intentions from everyone around them, we'd live in a much nicer world.
I went to Africa a few years ago to visit family and let me tell you those are some of the kindest people I've ever met, went with my sister in law to get her hair braided and when we got there she asked if I wanted to get my hair braided as well and one of the ladies was so super nice about doing my hair, they don't care what color you are there they will do your hair any way you want it, wish more people here had that same attitude
@@trishhenley4848 it’s not the same in the states, a real African is kind…
I had a boy in my class this year who was adopted by white parents (along with his two sisters). Once on a field trip his dad came along to chaperone and stood around talking with the other two moms who came (both of them black.) He was complaining about not being able to find an affordable place to get the kids' hair done. The moms were really sweet and gave him the names of the places they go and even offered to have him over to their house to teach him how to care for the kids' hair. I really loved witnessing that. I had some really great kids and parents last year.
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Awesome story. ❤
I am glad to read this
Such a wholesome story. It restores my faith in humanity. Thank you for sharing it.
This!❤❤❤❤❤
Being uneducated on something is not the same as being naïve too it. She was aware of the hairstyle just didn't know what it was called and used her best to describe it and the rest was filled in by someone who knew.
Nothing offensive at all for those who may have took it that way.
I can’t wait for the continued seasons . I really enjoyed watching Colin Kapernick’s life’s story… I always loved him as an athlete. he always carried a peaceful spirit.
This is fucking GOALS for fostering and adopting. No shame and no shitting on the fact that she is white and doing the best for her black son. She is putting her shit aside for him. BEAUTIFUL! 🎉
They looked at her like she was stupid and with judgmental sighs.
@@oober3690 No they didnt, you literally made that up. They helped her with no problem and it made her son happy, why lie?
I think he was her biological son. The dad must been Afro-American.
@@jordanw1369 I'm not. That's what I saw.
@@n_kennedy3015 ok, let me watch again. maybe I misread things.
i am an adoption child (now I m 44)this video Iet me remember what she did for me and how much she did love me and everyone of you understand why I cry. there are some angel mothers in this world.
bruh crying in the club rn
Makes me cry because I should have adopted but I chose to try and fulfill dreams that others had for me. Not my own. Now I’m 55, disabled and I wasted my life chasing achievements in my career. A lot of us Gen X females were sold a lie. Or maybe just me. IDK anymore.
🫂🫂🫂
@@kristinasportal😢
I’m glad she loved you unconditionally like a son. That was your mother
She went out of her way to do whatever it took to make her son happy, and everyone involved was so welcoming. Loved this!
This actress hit this roll. 💯
When a GOOD MOTHER would go the distance for her kids it MUST be recognized and celebrated by EVERYONE.
You have not watched the movie
Real the mum made him take them out 😭@@hotpocketdeity
@@hotpocketdeitywhat’s the movie called?
@@hotpocketdeityis it about that black lives matter NFL guy?
He did his part didn't he to get those multi million dollar houses for owners of the charity 😂
Making videos comparing the draft to the slave trade lol
I can already imagine the movie
No thanks
@@hotpocketdeitywhich movie is this
"Everyone can be a mother, FEW can be a mom"
I kept saying that to my cousin who spent thousands on in-vitro
What??? 😂
Mother and mom are the same 😂
Don’t get it and if anything wouldn’t it be better to say mother instead of mom
@@bydruxy5174they mean that any woman could have kids, but only some try her hardest for her kids
I love that she was willing to step outside her comfort zone for her son. ❤
I fucking love that she was honest in her ignorance, but was willing to be so uncomfortable for her baby ❤❤❤
And in the same time, how do you want to learn if you don’t admit and accept that you DON’T know ?
shouldnt be uncomfortable around. black ppl
@@Malomferi That's literally what he said. Honest in her ignorance = admitting she doesn't know.
@LaurArt_UK I mean would you call a baby ignorant cuz it doesn't know?.....I feel like calling someone ignorant is a insult honestly, when she is just trying to be there for her kid in a world she k ow nothing about no? So I wouldn't say ignorance is the right word here..
@@anids1988 Yikes. The term ‘ignorant’ can be an insult, but doesn’t have to be. And just because *you* find it as an insult, doesn’t mean it *is* in this context.
For anyone wondering what this series is called, the name is “Colin In Black And White”
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you
Thank you!
Thank you
I have six mixed kids, and as a woman of the Caucasian persuasion if we bring these children into the world, it’s our duty to expose them to their heritage on both sides. I learned how to braid I learned how to care for their hair and it’s a lot of work! Props to these people that do it every day and the women who struggle with their beautiful curls. Your beautiful inside and out natural hair is a gift!
The mom gets an A and a big thank you from Collin. I can feel the love 💓😘💓😘💓😘💓😘💓😘...she has for her son!!!
I love how no one really judged her because of course she doesn't understand but she's trying and she's being respectful, letting people who understand it better take over
That is truly amazing mother❤
Edit: it's actually hilarious that people are arguing about this comment💀💀
She has had at least 15 years to start understanding. It's not too late but it was definitely late. She really did the bare minimum.
They judged her. You don´t know people at all.
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 I have seen bare minimum parenting. This was not the bare minimum.
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049disagree.
@@strivingtoonedaybeuseful6049 have you watched the show yet?
that mom never slowed down to find what was needed. i got chills. i'm 79 yo. my son is 39. i'm white his father was black. he died when our son was 3. thank you, thank you, thank you for posting this.
May all the good tidings come your way
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You look stunning for your age!!! A true gem❤
Drop the skin care routine you look AMAZING for 79!!
I know you cried man while posting your comment. 🤗
I like how she went through the awkwardness for her son’s happiness
It took a lot of guts to work with two stranger and ask for help. But she did what was best for her son and clearly he was thrilled. My four biological children are biracial with 4C hair. I still don't know what the hell I'm doing and they're 13 to 24. I just spend a lot of money getting it done for them. I can do simple box braids and I can do the twists My daughter really loves extensions and I cannot figure that out for the life of me (in the braids) But you have to reach out and I love that no one belittled her knowing shamed her or embarrassed her.,. supported her I'm trying to make her son happy also those are some killer braids.
Mom is 12/10.
The discomfort, humility, and love. Amazing.
Edit: removed man.
I don't think she's a man but I agree
@@OtiRoti 😂😂😂
@@OtiRotithen who is the man?
idk why but the phrase "removed man" is so funny to me 😂😂
What did that man do to you so you removed him?
I was listening to a reddit post some time ago about a dad who had a mixed daughter with 4c hair.
His wife had died recently and he had NO IDEA how to care for her hair, because that was mom and daughter's ritual and bonding time.
A teacher at the school noticed the girl's hair becoming unkempt and helped her.
The dad showed up after school to ask the teacher to help him learn about his daughter's hair, and to thank her for helping his little girl.
Eventually he got connected with a local natural hair stylist and learned formally how to do hair for his daughter.
He did her hair for her graduation.
Guys, I was sniffling in my car. It was adorable.😊
god that is so wholesome. bless that father.
Aww you told that very well I’m tearing up on the porch😊
Wait wait omggggggg that’s so sweet
sounds like the short film “hair love”!!
@@hannanna1004 I thought so too! Such a sweet story🥹
what an amazing mom. and i'm glad they helped her so she could make her son happy.
This makes my heart happy. Everyone helping each other help both mom and son understand his culture and I’m guessing she taught mama a few tips on how to keep his hair healthy. This is HUMANITY. We need more of it. On all fronts, all creeds, religions and ethnicities. We are all one. ❤
He was in awe being around his own
This movie made his parents look extremely racist. And push the narrative that his parents only adopted him to be a sports star like training a horse. Why tf would 2 white people adopt a black kid if they were closeted racists?? All this movie was for us to push an agenda that white people are “oppressors” when in reality it just keeps black people in a bubble
Colin is white too, his mom is letting him embrace all of his races@@reggiesolomon2205
@AdamFontenet
May I ask what you mean?
except that braids can't be claimed XD
Venus of Willendorf is likely the oldest known sculture with braids but still cant be say braids are from austria XD. But we get what you mean. We are all one
I love how they all helped that mom to bring her son closer to understanding himself and the community connection. That’s love we don’t get as much recently and we gotta bring back.
My best friend is Black and I'm hispanic/white. I bought her clippers and taught her how to shave her head because that's what she wanted and she was using scissors to try her best. I won't touch her hair with scissors, but she used to let me help with her twists sometimes. I'm not confident in sectioning, but I love that we get to style and play with each other's hair. It's easy to shy away because something takes more energy or is unfamiliar. And it's easy to make someone feel like an idiot for not knowing what's basic practice for someone else. It takes just a little effort, but it's not too hard to be kind to others and to want to help and not make someone feel bad for existing in a space that's new to them. ❤
We all need to share and spread more love.❤❤
Community connection? No, you mean ‘black connection’. Because only blacks can understand blacks apparently.
@@lovinavargas-carriedo2698 Movie name ?
Love of a mother is so priceless
I love that she tried and put her biases aside for her sons happiness
This is a mama that loves her son, and this was a sweet young man that was willing to help her. I wish the whole world could be like this where everybody helps everybody.
And then she called him a thug after 🥰 Truly the sweetest 🫶
Watch the show his mom is the biggest hypocrite
Say it load dear
@@thenameskatelyn2198what show is it
This actually made me tear up because it reminds me so much of my situation. I was attacked at 14 which resulted in me becoming pregnant. My plan was to give the baby up for adoption but at my 8 month ultrasound I asked to see the baby and I immediately fell in love with my daughter and chose to raise her. I'm white and I grew up in a town with a very small black population so I knew nothing about what my daughter's hair needed. We eventually moved to a town with a much more equal black to white population and some girls from school took me shopping to show me what I needed to buy to keep my daughter's hair healthy. One girl even came to my house to show me how to properly moisturize her scalp. I hope they know how much everything they did meant to me. My daughter is 17 now and actually does hair herself, she loves braiding and has a few clients that she regularly braids.
I hope you got justice.
You must of had a lot of family support to be able to keep your child at 14.
You have a beautiful story.
Your story is incredibly beautiful. I am in tears.
LO🎉THAT YOU KEPT YOUR BABY AND YOU ARE NOT ANGRY WITH HER GODS BLESSINGS ON BLESSINGS ON BOTH OF YOU
That's a real af mom right here... You def took the worst moment of your life and turned it into the best creation possible. Very brave of you and wise to know at such a young age that no matter who the father is, that's still your baby! That's just so beautiful! So so good on you and your daughter for not letting that monster define who you are and what your future holds. I pray God continues to bless others through y'all's light.
THIS MADE ME CRY THE LOVE IN THIS WORLD!!!
This brings tears to my eyes 😢 aww that was me and my dad 100%
The sincerity behind her actions, though out of her comfort zone she still gave this to his son. There's never shame in being uncomfortable and seeking understanding outside of your own. These are super respected moments. ❤
You know it’s a movie, right?
a movie that has deep meanings and is CERTAINLY educational.
Her
@@JohnDoe-qp9qb what is the name of the movie?
Cosmetologist of 24 yrs in a military city… this used to happen often! Parents… please don’t feel bad because you don’t understand ur child’s style or ethnicity! Everyone is learning, when you see someone with a clothing style or hairstyle that you like, simply stop them and start a convo! The black community is generous with info! We love helping others. I can’t count how many times this has occurred near my shop!
How can you not understand your child's ethnicity? 😂😂 it iterally your child. Unless you are a weirdo who adopted someone not of your race
You can't learn if you aren't schooled. Always ask. ❤❤
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The world needs more people like you.
My father used to say" what life are you living if you just can't help someone.
Thr black people I come across get annoyed when you ask them where the bathroom is
Mom was clearly uncomfortable but was willing to put that aside for her child. Went to someone looking for help with an example (even if a bit misguided) found a professional and once again put her own comfort aside. That’s a good mom, and the people who helped her are also quality examples of good people. I know it’s a show but it’s good to see that representation I think.
This made me feel sad then happy that his mother allowed her son to embrace his culture.
I was adopted along with 6 of my other siblings! My parents fostered over 200 kids in 30 years and gave every last one of them everything they needed and could ever want! They are angels and if there's one thing I know, they don't ever give up on kids!
They sound like the most amazing people ever that’s crazy ❤
That is so amazing, your parents must have been wonderful people.
WHAT. 200???
That’s Whatsupp! God bless man
200 KIDS? They ARE the adoption center, man
This is from the series “Colin in Black and White,” which Colin Kaepernick made about his life. Those are actors, but it is autobiographical
Thank you!! I've been going through these comments for 20 minutes trying to figure out what the movie/show is 🙏🏼 your an angel
Thank you!!
Damn bro he did his foster family dirty
No wonder he feels the need to prove his blackness to people
Thank you for the explanation
Weird because she seems like a good mom and he seems to be very grateful to her so I’m wondering where he’s extreme hatred for white people comes from… oh yea money
I love this. She had no clue and wanted to make him happy. Good job MAMA ❤❤❤ I love videos like this
"Make sure you get her some tea," was the best for me.
I like how they politely educated her. She was clearly trying to do right and just didnt understand the right way to talk abt it
I dunno man that black girl had some attitude.
@@cheekclappa7192I thought so too. She sounded snarky just like they do when you ask something.
@@cheekclappa7192 she wasn't rude. She was amused
@@cheekclappa7192I did feel any tude coming from her. Some people talk dif. Even white folk got subcultures and people misinterpret each other. Not all black culture is homogeneous. Spend a bit of time with different folk and you find that maybe they are just jiving you, or being a bit sassy, or joshing, meme lording, sarcastic, or just trying to help and being misunderstood.
Why can't society be like this?! No judgment, just support & love!
Edit- Holy Cow! I should've just said bring the hate!! For the couple positive comments, thank you. And the likes, just wow. That being said, I don't believe in fantasy. But an honest wish is just that, a wish. I know what the reality is. It saddens me from the comments, just how many people were angered or triggered by such a simple statement....
There was a lot of judgement in that support, judgment is what got her to figure her life out and care about her son’s needs. It’s didn’t come natural it was learned.
@@roxywyndham OK, if you're referring to the whole movie, I understand. But my comment was to the clip & there wasn't any judgment. So??? I stand by my statement. Why can't society be like this instead of the bullshit we have.
It would be like that if not for some people pushing the hate and racist ideals on us. The government does not want us getting along. As long as we are fighting each other their misdeeds and criminal activities are not being noticed. They push the hate agenda to keep us distracted. They are afraid of what We The People can accomplish if we are United.
@@black_wolf9society will never change, there is still that thing out there, it's horrible
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I think what theyre trying to tell you is that there is not such thing as support without judgment. Before we get a polished rock, it starts off as a jagged and uneven.
But yes, in an ideal utopia, everyone would know the right thing to do and we would not have to face such hardships. Though, I feel thinking like this is terrible. To try and obtain the untainable, it aint gonna work.
To also answer your question, society is large and varied. We learn by generation, sadly. It takes time to be kind to others. I mean, look at the lgbtq+ community. It took us years to be somewhat accepted and we're still demonized for being ourselves.
Though, the things happening in the movie, it does happen. You just dont hear about it because not everyone wants to share their lives to the internet.
I feel the need to rewatch this.
very handsome son and mom , well what can i say !!! made her boy happy
If anyone is wondering what the movie is called, it’s a netflix movie called Colin in Black and White
*edit:typo
Thank you
Thank you I was waiting for someone to post the name.
Do you know how long I was scrolling for this
Thanks, you did a better job of informing us than the dumas that uploaded this. All he typed was #movie in the description because laziness/couldn't be bothered to credit a simple movie name that he blatantly rips off. Wouldn't be suprised if this channel had every clip uncredited like this.
Edit: Yes, every clip is uncredited with just #movie like we can read minds or sum sht. Yup, he doesn't care about his audience, while his audience comes together to figure it out the name of movies he should of put in the description in the first place..................
Thanks so much!❤
When we got our first Black foster child, my daughter (then a teen) thoroughly interrogated all her Black friends on how to care for her hair; she then used HER MONEY, they went together to a shop in San Jose (about 35 minutes away), and got her what she needed. Then SHE did that girl's hair EVERY DAY!! She's even taught other foster parents in our area how to do it. I am VERY GRATEFUL & PROUD of my daughter!!!!
If you ain't black get some other kids. You'll never understand them.
@@user-kp1pv9qg9j, I don't understand what you've written. Please explain? We feel we have been enriched from the foster children we've loved; they've given us more than we have them, and we're grateful to them all! I'm Gramma to a lot more children now too!
You may never know this joy of being in a store and having children run up to you and call you "GRAMMA!" They laugh and say,"I'm ????'s daughter or son!" Oh... What a feeling! They tell me how much they loved coming to my ranch and riding the horses most!
@cherylpemberton1676 ignore this ignorant f*ckwit ⬆️ it's not about YOU understanding your daughter's culture & heritage it's about your daughter doing so IF she chooses to. I have friends that their foster parents have a different heritage & they've supported him when he wanted to learn his culture & he loves them for it & when his sister DIDN'T want to they never forced her to because she didn't want to & they supported her decision as well. Thank you for being a foster parent y'all are awesome.
@@user-kp1pv9qg9j that was soo sad I almost fell sorry for you
@user-kp1pv9qg9j as long as they are culturally aware and dont make the child feel insecure about being different it's fine
Beautiful ❤
she called him her son and nothing less, i love it
RESPECT to all the comments that truly understood! Gives me HOPE!🕊💙🕊
That understood it's a show? did you watch the scene directly after this one? lmao XD
Hope is all we got
@@barjee8965what’s weird is trying to start shit in YT comments lol
What's the name of the show?
@@juliahengstermann193 it’s the Colin Kaepernick story
I love it how she asked for help in a respectful way, not assuming she knows, not discounting anyone and not expecting they would help her automatically. A lot of people phrase their questions with horrible assumptions and then get offended when people don’t respond with servility (not civility which is what you get when you’re civil in the first place.)
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. You are awesome....❤❤❤❤❤
Servility! Thanks for that word
That's what LOVE really is.
She's a CLASS ACT.
🎉🎉this is great! A mother's love shows through!
Part of being a good parent is enduring personal discomfort in order to not force your kids into the exact same mould that you where made in.
She knew she was probably doing so many perceived weird ass stuff but they felt her good intentions and remained helpfull. Well done everyone and her for being humble.
I like where you are coming from but she prob had been saying no bc that shi looks awful, not because she didn’t know about it and was too embarrassed to ask haha. And she was right to say no - it looks f’in awful. You ever see a leading surgeon, or a lawyer, someone in the top of their field, rockin corn rows? Naw man. You think Obama rocked that shhh get your head checked. If my neurosurgeon walked in rocking that shiii in peacin’ the f outta that bish. It’s not racist. It’s only a lil better than a white boi rockin a bowl cut or a mullet. She was right to be like no.
I ain’t sayin lil homie finnin to be next Obama, but as a mom she wants the best for her son, to have the best opportunities in life, even if that shii not gonna happen
Thank you for this, i am going to be a new parent and I literally had not thought of this and it would be so crucial for us.❤
The fact that current society would even look at her weird for asking these things is honestly beyond me in the damn first place...
for those of you that don't know the white actress, Mary Louis Parker, adopted a black daughter in real life. Her daughter is an adult now and beautiful. Look them up, Mary talks about her experience adopting and honestly, she made me feel like trying to adopt. Not to randomly adopt a black child lol, but more because she reminded me about what it means to respect a child and raise them to be who they are. Remember to raise your kids to be themselves unapologetically, not to be you because they're supposed to be better and that's good for the world.
THANK YOU!!! I knew her face but I just couldn't place it. It must have been 10+ years since I've seen her and she has changed (aged)... as we all have, LOL
I knew I recognized her face. She looks a lot different than when she was on Weeds
WOAH! I NEVER would have recognized her! I love her acting but she looks SOOOOO different now. That’s crazy insane!!
Bless you for this very important parenting tip!!!
It's the wig!!! I knew she was the actress from Fried Green....
See and this is real support ... she is tryna keep this kid round his ppl without making it weird and i love that
That's a great mother....embrace his culture and expose him to yours let him be his own person amd he will grow up fine...even though it's fake this is how people should act and not shut children down even if it's just a expression of self let them be
Good mom. Not making excuses, doing what she has to in order to educate herself on meeting her sons needs in all ways. Wish more moms of biracial kids did this. I love youtube for teaching me.
Oh he has two adoptive white parents. And iirc later in the show she stops being "nice" about it
@@anaytprWhat’s the show called?
@@Bejeweled13Swiftie colin in black and white
@AdamFontenethe didn’t want it cut in the first place, if you watched the show, he really wanted his hair braided but that wasn’t allowed in his sports and his parents told him it made him look like a thug.
not what she was doing😂😂
I don’t want to hear anyone slamming her. She raised him and she is trying her best.
Shut up
Her best? Sure buddy.
She is being a Mom who loves her son.
@@phoenixamazon white parents with black kids is sus as hell. Her best made her look foolish, talk about being inept.
@@yoooo790dawg its a movie