People are afraid to be authentically themselves

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  • Опубліковано 17 лис 2024

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  • @helenawoods
    @helenawoods  2 роки тому +19

    Hello beautiful! ✨ Here's a video I felt spontaneously inspired to film when I was in Bordeaux last month. Finally got around to editing it and wanted to share this message with you: don't be afraid to shine bright and be YOU! 💕 Sending you lots of love and a warm hug through my laptop kindred spirit 🌿😻

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      @@asifmuniruniverse7732 ? huh?

  • @BozhidarKurtev
    @BozhidarKurtev Рік тому +1

    It's so nice to hear something good from someone at least once every once and a while. Yup, people are afraid to be authentic. 90-99% of people

    • @BozhidarKurtev
      @BozhidarKurtev Рік тому +1

      Worrying about a career that never even took off and having burned out in the past, made things so much worse to try to be authentic after a growing up that way.

  • @patriciabomgardner8636
    @patriciabomgardner8636 2 роки тому +11

    As someone who developed a fear of flying as my life went on, I am so grateful for the videos you and your husband share of your travels. Through you I am able to see beautiful parts of the world that I may never be able to visit personally. I am so grateful. Don't ever change who you are for the few disgruntled people out there. You are very much appreciated by many!!!

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      wow, I'm so glad! Thank you Patricia! I'm excited to share the next "travel" inspired video soon! Lots of Corsica footage to come! Thank you for your warm words

  • @beverleyroberts1025
    @beverleyroberts1025 2 роки тому +9

    Totally agree Helena, you should never hold back on being honest about something that you love and sharing your experiences. With what ever you do in life though, there will always be some people who love it and some people who don't. That's their choice. I do feel for people who don't see joy in others, only jealousy. But those people have a choice, carry on dragging that feeling around with them for the rest of their lives, or find a way of building up their self esteem and finding the joy in their own lives. A lot of these feelings start in childhood, but there is always a way to heal and change.x 😊

  • @bespoke_heirlooms
    @bespoke_heirlooms Рік тому

    After lots of gardening on Sunday, I did my nightly routine backwards, with the added element of music. It turned around my mood from grumpy exhausted to feeling tired but happy at what I had achieved. The next day my neighbour said they could hear me singing and that made them smile 😃 but it was just me doing something that makes me happy, for no other reason than I needed a pick me up. Thank you for reminding me!

  • @Karen-nq8du
    @Karen-nq8du 2 роки тому +3

    This video was an inspiration for me today. I was feeling the sting of a "correction" offered to me yesterday by somebody who I dearly love. For 24 hours I've been flogging myself for not being who they wanted me to be in the situation. As I was watching this, I felt the flutter of freedom.... I did what came naturally to me and it's okay to be me. We had fun. Nobody died. 😊

  • @te7607
    @te7607 2 роки тому +2

    I couldn’t agree with you more.. nothings more refreshing than meeting “maskless” people. Love authenticity 🙏🏼❤️

  • @jm64745
    @jm64745 2 роки тому +1

    I just posted some travel photos on my Facebook page and got a comment from one of my friends thanking me for posting the photos because it was her home country and she enjoyed seeing the photos so much. Made me smile. We can’t assume what other people are feeling.

  • @juliadawndesigns4522
    @juliadawndesigns4522 2 роки тому

    Thank you for your sharing your beautiful soul! What I've noticed in my own life is that when I'm in a season of grief or healing, I do sometimes get triggered or sad by seeing other people who are experiencing joy. I think it's normal to feel that way when you are going through a rough patch or processing trauma or grief. Sometimes things happen to us in life that we can't control and it's just tough, but I've tried to remind myself that we all go through different experiences and seasons of life at different times and just because I'm in a season of grief, doesn't mean other people shouldn't experience and share their joy. I take breaks from witnessing other people's joy when I need to tend to my grief and then I come back to it when I'm ready to spark hope in myself. All of the parts of ourselves and our humanity deserve to be fully felt and shown. Thank you for sharing your joy!

  • @nagij57
    @nagij57 2 роки тому +17

    Everything you said is true, and you are absolutely right, when you are in alignment doing things that light you up, you will inspire other people! you inspire me and others with your videos, with your wisdom, and with all the beauty you bring into this world. Thank you Helena.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      so beautifully said!! Love this ❤️

  • @merryfergie
    @merryfergie 2 роки тому +3

    Helen,
    I appreciate you for talking about the envy story.
    Someone once told me i was bragging about my life travels,
    & i was so shocked,
    because my intension were pure.
    I thought i was sharing a advenrure.
    I feel life is all about beauty & abundance

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      life absolutely is ❤️ such a BEAUTIFUL way to see life, Cat. We are such kindred spirits ✨ Keep sharing and shining your radiance!

  • @ThisLittleWonderfulLife
    @ThisLittleWonderfulLife 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for this, I found it so useful - from both sides! For letting myself share authentically but also questioning why I sometimes feel that triggering feeling! I’ve never questioned that before, so thank you xx

  • @cathmallo8106
    @cathmallo8106 2 роки тому +1

    This hit me! It's true that some people are afraid to show their true self (and some people includes me ). Thanks for this reminder that we should only enjoy every minute of our life rather than wasting it thinking about what others would say. 😊

  • @nancyesposito1020
    @nancyesposito1020 2 роки тому +2

    We'll said! No need to justify! So true about healing and I still have parts of my life work on and heal! Thank you for this realization and sharing it!

  • @desireefederico9160
    @desireefederico9160 2 роки тому +1

    Bravo!!! Thank you for your words of encouragement to those of us who are new on the journey of living a life of authenticity.

  • @Postcard_Perfect
    @Postcard_Perfect 2 роки тому

    Oh my, I always wonder what people think when I post what I do to stay healthy, my travel adventure etc 😋 I love to see people happy and healthy so I share everything I do but I always wonder if people think I show off 🤪 I post anyway hopping that it will be helpful for someone and it’s appreciate it 💕 I needed this so much Helena so Thank You! 🤗

  • @julieschechter3995
    @julieschechter3995 2 роки тому +1

    I love that: “who cares !”
    I want to live a life of “who cares!”!!!!!!

    • @donaldcook3112
      @donaldcook3112 2 роки тому

      . . . There is no other ... w a y . It should be a fundamental of a n y and a l l
      'Schooling' ... but that would not ' do '
      or ' s u i t ' that industry that has
      become of ' e d u c a t i o n ' .

  • @marymilei1256
    @marymilei1256 2 роки тому

    Just found your UA-cams. Really heartfelt and true. Thank your just for being you.

  • @robreinhart4284
    @robreinhart4284 2 роки тому +1

    It’s beautiful to watch you grow on this channel. Cheers!

  • @huellagemelar
    @huellagemelar 2 роки тому +4

    Needed to hear this reminder today. Your're a gem. Thanks for bringing your energy and passion to the world. So inspiring 💖✨

  • @debevans1305
    @debevans1305 2 роки тому

    You are so right !!! Luv this message. Thank you. You are great 😊

  • @persephone213
    @persephone213 2 роки тому +3

    I totally agree. I also love to travel and share my adventures online. We shouldn’t have to dim our own lights to appease others. ✨

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      Yes!! 🤗 Love connecting with you soul sister ❤️ I'm so excited for your adventures and this new chapter for you! I think I remember you said you packed up your home and are road-tripping right? Have so much fun and share that light! ✨

  • @itsmejanny
    @itsmejanny 2 роки тому

    When you consciously choose what makes you joyful, the benefit is not just for yourself because it adds to that high frequency energy in the collective consciousness. My spiritual teacher once said during Satsang, "I came to a point in my journey where I realized that I could not for one more second add to the negative energy on the planet." That phrase has been a continuing inspiration for me.

  • @MetaMM
    @MetaMM 2 роки тому

    I’m so authentic that in 5 years vlogging, I only have 250 subscribers 😄😄😄… Apart from laughing about it, every word you say, I couldn’t agree more!! Saved this video on my playlists. !!

  • @shannonkringen
    @shannonkringen 2 роки тому +1

    I think sometimes people are upset with other success because they think those people should be helping people that are starving etc. But if somebody feels that way then they should just help somebody suffering if they want. Like either enjoy life or help others that you think are suffering etc. Or do both

  • @litamason9083
    @litamason9083 2 роки тому

    Thanks for your overflowing inspiration ❤️

  • @Havanah2006
    @Havanah2006 2 роки тому

    110% agreed. We love that you share ❤️ ♥️ 💕

  • @laurac2783
    @laurac2783 2 роки тому

    Your hat makes your words so authentic :) I think people who are afraid of others opinion, should find a piece of clothing they are in love with, but too weird for everyday life and start to wear it. Perfect way to learn the who cares attitude! :)

  • @26jclay
    @26jclay 2 роки тому

    Thank you for not putting a disclaimer on your video! If someone has a problem with your content, then they should be watching someone else’s videos. You do you girl! And tell your husband he is adorable in your videos and photos. I can 100% see how you both bring balance and joy to each other’s worlds. Wishing you both a happy and magical week! ✨🌸💕

  • @fiammalujan6715
    @fiammalujan6715 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for inspiring me and speaking these words of truth 🤍

  • @viridianacarreon7203
    @viridianacarreon7203 2 роки тому

    Happy Sunday. Oops! It's Monday and Im off today(Labor Day)in California😄. Thank you again for another powerful video, and dont stop traveling, so you can share with us all those interesting and beautiful places you visit and enjoy at the same time.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      so happy to share with you Viridiana! ❤️ Have labor day! Enjoy beautiful California 😻

  • @rcdriver107
    @rcdriver107 2 роки тому

    Helena, I really love it when you travel, do photography, and experience great things - including great food and great drinks.......

  • @Devibaba
    @Devibaba 2 роки тому

    Awesome. Thanks for sharing!!!

  • @enjoyingevery_moment
    @enjoyingevery_moment 2 роки тому

    Hey Helena,
    Lovely video ❤️ as usual not just visually but mentally as well. Would love if you could do a full fledged video on EFT tapping... Stay happy😊

  • @beitheleaf8221
    @beitheleaf8221 2 роки тому +1

    Man oh man I needed to hear this today. Thank you so much for your genuine encouragement. That was beautiful, and I will endeavor to pay it fwd ❤️

  • @wildflowerwind6941
    @wildflowerwind6941 2 роки тому +2

    I am that woman you mentioned in the beginning. My mother is a narcissist. I was never praised. Always criticized.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      ahhh no way!! ❤️ I can't recognize you by your username!
      I was so inspired by your authenticity and honesty in your email and just how much self-awareness you have. I remember thinking a lot about this topic the week before you sent me your message and I was like, "Yes! it's a sign! I need to get my thoughts out of my head and talk about this!" lol thank you for sharing your heart with me. Most people see everything and everyone externally, as a separate thing, but often don't look within for answers, healing, clarity and awareness. Realizing we are all mirrors to one another is PROFOUND 🙌 So inspired by you. It was lovely connecting💕

    • @wildflowerwind6941
      @wildflowerwind6941 2 роки тому

      @@helenawoods I meant I am like the woman you mentioned at the beginning of this vlog. I don't think I am "literally" the woman you referenced.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      @@wildflowerwind6941 oh!! 😂

  • @scrapin4mhe
    @scrapin4mhe 2 роки тому +1

    Spot on! Great video! I feel like sharing this video with everyone I know.

  • @barefootvibes8896
    @barefootvibes8896 2 роки тому +1

    Those who are be triggered by someone enjoying their life should learn to be happy for others.
    I am grateful for those that share their experiences, who live life in a way that brings them happiness, and I love seeing people succeed.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      so wonderful!! Thank you for emanating such loving, beautiful energy!

  • @ckf7567
    @ckf7567 2 роки тому

    Thank You!!

  • @raymondnewton2388
    @raymondnewton2388 2 роки тому

    "What will people think"? Said to me on numerous occasions . I had no idea since I had no aspirations to join the middle class nor any other.

  • @talesfromtuscany
    @talesfromtuscany 2 роки тому

    Absolutely wonderful! I totally agree...sending light and love your way! :D xoxo

  • @allyjoyce
    @allyjoyce Рік тому

    One of the most helpful videos I’ve ever watched!!! I have been watching self help type videos for years on UA-cam to help me heal my depression and anxiety but finally, I came across this video and wow, I feel like I’ve been set free from the jail of caring what people think etc. I sometimes struggle to leave the house because I get scared that someone will think bad things about me. But now, I feel so empowered since watching this video and I am NOT going to care anymore what they think. They probably aren’t even thinking anything anyway and that’s none of my business too. Thank you so much Helena. You’re amazing! From Alice in New Zealand ❤

  • @sandradandrade
    @sandradandrade 2 роки тому

    Thanks Helena! Exactly what I needed to listen to today! ❤️

  • @rebeccaalley9762
    @rebeccaalley9762 2 роки тому

    Fantastic video and excellent message thanks for sharing

  • @Mia0954
    @Mia0954 2 роки тому +1

    I absolutely love this video! You give me the inspiration to align myself with my true self and to live a more fulfilling life. Thank you ❤️

  • @denisececil8762
    @denisececil8762 2 роки тому

    Your last sections are the best.

  • @gina9684
    @gina9684 2 роки тому

    I loved this so much I had to share❤️

  • @tanya8940
    @tanya8940 2 роки тому

    Wonderful message 💘

  • @Myllkka
    @Myllkka 2 роки тому +3

    I love this video! This totally bothered me too... but as adults, we don't have to justify anything, this is just a teenage trait we have to get rid of. And another thing, when dogs are rescued for example, owners say: "I want her/him to have the best life and be happy". I learned that I can wish that for myself, and for other humans too. Heck, isn't this what justice and peace are about?

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      LOVE this comment x1000!! ❤️🤗 So true, Mila! 🙌

  • @alannothnagle
    @alannothnagle 2 роки тому

    True story: Back when I was in 4th grade, I regularly volunteered for "show-and-tell," because I had lived overseas twice already and had travelled a lot, so I had lots of interesting objects to show and plenty of exciting stories to tell. Then one day, I heard one of the kids say in an unpleasant voice, "Oh, he's always showing something." While I completed my show-and-tell bit, I was instantly embarrassed and never showed or told anything ever again, which has pretty much remained my attitude till this day. I decided it was stupid of me to show off about my experiences when scarcely anyone else had the same opportunities. This was a formative experience for me and it explains a lot about how I've dealt with other people since. As much as I adore Helena's videos, you'll never see me making one, and this is presumably the reason why.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      oh lovely!! My heart goes out to you. I wish I could give you a hug, thank you for sharing this with us. Know that I'm sending you a warm hug through my keyboard and remember that every day is a fresh start, a new chance to get curious, question and heal from within. I do this every week and am still working on childhood stuff that happened to me in elementary school. Been healing it for a year and I still have to work on it when those same themes of that trigger flares up. It's life long healing ❤️

  • @siobhanod
    @siobhanod 2 роки тому

    Beautifully said Helena

  • @eringreenberg240
    @eringreenberg240 2 роки тому

    GREAT video!!!

  • @JL-rg9qy
    @JL-rg9qy 2 роки тому +1

    hi helena, thanks so much for sharing this lovely video - and your honest thoughts! 💕 i'm also on the path of being more authentic and unafraid to share what lights me up. please continue sharing your unique vibe!!

  • @chrisoulalakkas7935
    @chrisoulalakkas7935 2 роки тому

    It's the ordinary people who accomplish extraordinary things.

  • @DreamerIsabella
    @DreamerIsabella 2 роки тому

    Your videos always lead me to make interesting and introspective reflections 🌸💙

  • @wildflowerwind6941
    @wildflowerwind6941 2 роки тому +1

    The yellow dress you are wearing is stunning.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      thank you!!🤗 It's one of my favorite and it feels so lightweight and comfortable. I got it from Miss Patina

    • @wildflowerwind6941
      @wildflowerwind6941 2 роки тому

      @@helenawoods I just looked up where it came from and cruising the website. Just love the styles. The necklace is stunning. Your look perfect in their clothes.

  • @angle_is_ayesandar
    @angle_is_ayesandar 2 роки тому

    i really enjoy watching your videos because I feel the reality , I feel the true meaning of life deeply with my heart .

  • @alidawilliams
    @alidawilliams 2 роки тому

    Thank you Helena. I needed this. You so inspire me. I wish you all good in life.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      I'm so glad to hear the message inspired you!! :)

  • @Amora986
    @Amora986 2 роки тому +7

    First of all this is so Beautiful just like you..And i really needed this ..sending you so much love And good wishes on your Journey angel💙☮🌻🙂Thank you agin for this..i feel it was meant for me🙏🎈

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +3

      Yay! I'm so glad it found you at the right time ❤️🤗 Sending you so much love and encouragement to shine bright! ✨

    • @Amora986
      @Amora986 2 роки тому

      @@helenawoods Thank you so so much angel🙏it really was perfect timing🤗♥

  • @madamecarolina9889
    @madamecarolina9889 2 роки тому

    Total! Eso me pasó a mi con mis fotos de Instagram, una persona allegada a mi me dijo que yo no debería de poner fotos en restaurantes y de comidas porque la familia que tenía en colombia no podía hacer lo que yo hacía y se iban a sentir mal y ofendido! La complací por un tiempo pero después me dije; porqué? Es mi vida y así la quiero hacer YO !!!

  • @1life2xplore
    @1life2xplore 2 роки тому

    So So True! Amazing Video👍❤

  • @pla4825
    @pla4825 Рік тому

    Girl I agree live your life and you share what you want to share. Keep the things private that you want to keep private 😊

  • @sarahraaymakers14
    @sarahraaymakers14 2 роки тому +1

    Nailed that on the head!!!

  • @francenefoster7577
    @francenefoster7577 2 роки тому

    Excellent!

  • @gracesimplified3860
    @gracesimplified3860 2 роки тому +1

    Envy is an ugly side of myself that I battle. I know not to go on social media when I’m not my better self that can be inspired by others good fortune and initiative.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      same!! If I'm feeling down and not aligned, I will simply not log in! Such a helpful tip - thank you 💕

  • @lils9965
    @lils9965 2 роки тому

    Why would anyone be offended because of someone's happiness. I like to travel and post pictures of interesting places, and I see no reason why anyone would say anything bad about it.

  • @joancollins6207
    @joancollins6207 2 роки тому

    Thank you for another wonderful and thought provoking video. I really needed to be reminded of this today. My life is going through some changes, mostly positive ones. And the rest I choose to see as new opportunities to be my true self. Scary stuff, allowing others to see my vulnerabilities, but also exciting!

  • @suzetteoosthuizen1446
    @suzetteoosthuizen1446 2 роки тому

    Wow, best video I have ever watched. You are so wise, thanks for holding up the mirror.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      Yay! I'm so happy to hear you enjoyed it!

  • @DrPooja-lz8ng
    @DrPooja-lz8ng 2 роки тому

    Hey Helena... I liked this video very much..... Its a coincidence that i was going through a similar situation today..... Ur video gave me an insight into these thoughts and also the courage to say "its okay".... Very grateful to you.... Lots of love💕 ✨

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      ahh I love this!! 💕 This is why I wanted to share - to hopefully inspire someone who feels the same! I'm so glad to hear it 🥰

  • @katiewright2232
    @katiewright2232 2 роки тому

    You are absolutely correct. There is no need to pander to bullies and narcissists. No need for “trigger warnings“. People need to stop this nonsense and grow up.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      love your honesty and authenticity! ❤️🤗 "No need for trigger warnings" - YES!

  • @mmeduplechin1577
    @mmeduplechin1577 2 роки тому

    Well-said!

  • @hollywilde6693
    @hollywilde6693 2 роки тому

    I love your videos ♥️ and wow what an apt video for me! 🙏

  • @shannonkringen
    @shannonkringen 2 роки тому

    Love it

  • @stargazerbird
    @stargazerbird 2 роки тому +1

    Honestly it never occurred to me to worry what people think of me. I do however understand how me sharing photos of my wealthy life and adventures only money can buy would make others less lucky in life feel sad and jealous. I don’t think it’s good to ignore that. Arrogance in the face of poverty is a pretty ugly look.

  • @malakissami8199
    @malakissami8199 Рік тому

    this vedio resoneted with me ,i hope you can share with us your healing journey .Send you so much love :)

  • @NiinaSKlove
    @NiinaSKlove 2 роки тому

    🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @denisececil8762
    @denisececil8762 2 роки тому

    Well done

  • @mehrinoznurmatova383
    @mehrinoznurmatova383 Рік тому +1

    🥰

  • @manolismaragakis7468
    @manolismaragakis7468 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @luisv7117
    @luisv7117 2 роки тому

    You all right 1000000% who cares they are the one's with the problem

  • @seriouslywhatever1031
    @seriouslywhatever1031 2 роки тому +2

    "Trigger warning: I went on holiday" would be a bit much lol.

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому +1

      for sure!! That's why I didn't. But a lot of people get triggered by seeing pictures of other people's vacations 🤷‍♀️

  • @lourdesangulo413
    @lourdesangulo413 2 роки тому

    🤗💎💙✨

  • @Myllkka
    @Myllkka 2 роки тому

    Watching this video again and I had another thought: people love to see the famous and rich, but when someone who isn't famous is enjoying their life and travelling, they might get "triggered"? It's definitely something to work on and your channel for sure is helping me avoid this WRONG way of thinking.

  • @ec9101
    @ec9101 2 роки тому

    This happens to me with clothing. Oooh why are you dressed up so much ? Where have you come from?

    • @helenawoods
      @helenawoods  2 роки тому

      omg totally!! I get this all the time! It's so bizarre lol 😂 Right there with ya kindred spirit 🦋