Inside the World of 'Sugar Dating' in Africa, Cote D’ivoire 🇨🇮
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- I had to take a break from exploring Abidjan for a little bit. It's not everyday that you get a chance to interview a sugar baby and her suitor. So when I got a confirmation from my friend @SimplyOlaide that the interview was on, I dropped everything and ran to her hotel.
This is an adult conversation about consenting adults about sugar dating in Africa.
Sugar dating, also called sugaring, is a pseudo-romantic transactional sexual relationship between an older wealthy person and a younger person. Payment can be received by way of money, gifts like designer goods, jewellery, support or other material benefits in exchange for companionship or a dating-like relationship.
We're going to share with you the truth about sugar dating in Africa, from the good to the bad. We'll talk about the pros and cons of this dating culture, and explore some of the mythis associated with this lifestyle.
So join me as I take a look inside the world of sugar dating in Africa!
Part 2 is located here:
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Walaoooo if you de see dem beautiful gal on social media, no de envy dem ooohhhh because they de do ashawooo work. They de enter plane to go country to country for dis shame. This the job of potty potta….ma sistas please do honest work in life because aid disease no fun ooohhhh.
she's a self hating young lady. even if a Black man with lots of money tried to afford her a soft life she would not acknowledge him. Francois has more love and appreciation for Black people than the Black young lady.
Listening to her, she used to sleep with black men. She said that it's the money that drives her among other things. She would still sleep with a rich black man, but she would not stay with him. I think that she views whiteness as giving her an additional advantage.
@@Immigrationking7609right it’s definitely the money attention and the status of being with a muzungu brings her. It’s her life tho live it up babygurl!
I agree. She is trying to explain why she likes a white man like he is different from a Black man. You have good men and bad men in all races. The problem is the propaganda of news media, movies, tv shows, etc that shows white men like some savior compared to a Black man.
GROSS she should be ashamed
Great episode, I can't believe you got a sugar daddy and a sugar baby to confess. I'm waiting for part 2
elle est sérieuse elle, she out here talking about emotional come on bro, the man probably has that emotional attachment but we all that she ain’t feeling no old dude. spare me with the bs
U never know some guyz his age are still strong
I find it interesting that she said a black guy has to be really attractive for her to be into him but she's going around with old white men. To each his own I guess.
Dans mon village on dit que tu n'es pas attirante avec les hommes noirs il te voyait comme un bois de manioc c'est pour ça que chez les blancs ça passe vite. et puis ce qui m'énerve dans tout ça tu payes ton billet d'avion de lagos à Abidjan pour venir embrasser François on peut faire ça madame sugar daddy🤣🤣😆
Stop talking about emotionnal, open minded shit. It's all about money. They say in Côte d'Ivoire : " if money were in the trees women would marry the monkeys".
Nowadays, People justify every bad habits...this generation wants sweet life, money without working.
That's a nasty girl.
Look how young, and the things she's doing and encouraging others girls to follow suit really sad since when ashawo is an honorable profession
Very sad and disgusting (it's a illusion she created to feel beter)! SMH
What she doesn’t realize those men love “young “ladies. Eventually as she get older he will get somebody younger. She’s trading the best years of her life for trinkets and at the end she will be replaced as she age for someone younger . These men are old perverts. 😢These men prey on women who are desperate to get out of their circumstances.
I hope it’s just a phase she’s going through and not her way of life
@WhatAJhas2say but western women are doing the exact same things stop it. Any dude that offers to pay your bills you taking that money also stop with the cap for social media 😂😂😂😂😂. I'm sure you went on a Jamaica trip before and was Wilding out stop it miss relax
@@keepcool460 I’m a grown woman retired. I’m not a child. Yes in life I’ve made mistakes but I learned from them. All money ain’t good money.
there is a name !!!! for what she does
I will watch all your video bro... You touched deep deep my heart bro ❤
Thanks a lot 👍
She is beautiful , beautiful skin elegant and classy ❤. Black men please don't just sit down and let white men have this beautiful Queen. Keep the mélanine to the community.
No we refuse to stop her, in fact we would trade her for 2 chickens and a bowl of jollof rice for her in a heartbeat 😂
Life is not black & white. Different ethnicities have mixed from time.
Next time on Ivaintures “swingers”😂😂😂
Don’t want to be offensive but I know for sure this lady go in Ivory Coast to do the oldest job in the world lol. She know why she go there so often alone
I had to take a quick break from exploring Abidjan to do this interview. It's not every day that you meet nice and open minded people like Ola and her partner. This is part I and part II (link) is located here:
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I've got to give it to you @IvainTures. Your video editing skills are at another level. You put much thought and time on every video you release.
@@paul.njihia thanks so much ! I appreciate that!
This was a great video, and very interesting… can’t wait for part 2 🔥🔥💪🏿
Great interview!!! Ur line of questioning wasn’t aggressive and judgmental but yet u weren’t backing down. I also gotta give it up to shordy she’s adamant honest and straightforward coz some girls will just lead u on although they’re just with u to extract resources from u. Anywho ur consistency lately is unmatched keep grinding bro. Watching from the US
@@Hippobottomless Truth IVANS VLOGGING VERY INTERESTING ND QUALITY SHOWCASING NEW STUFF
Ashawo no be work. Olosho!!
Translation. That girl looks and sounds (voice) like many Haitian girls I have come across.
@@Immigrationking7609 she is Yoruba, which is related to Benin Republic. Haitians were stolen from Benin Republic by France to the Americas, known as the new world then for slavery. Haitian, Benin Republic and yoruba are same tribe.
Youth fades away eventually. Let all know as we make our choices.
I must say that I am very impressed by the quality of your content creation. You exhibit mental and moral maturity in the selection your interviews and conversations. This was really interesting and informative. Your guest is incredibly balanced and sharp-witted. It is also good to show Africa in contrast to its Western stereotypes.
Can’t wait this looks interesting 😂😂.
I really enjoy this conversation, we need more of these
Wowwwwwwwww! She is as loyal as long as there is $$$.
She likes what she likes and he likes what he likes. Nothing wrong with that.
Like they say " there is someone out there for everyone.". Honestly I thought he was old white women before he started talking. I like both of them for sharing their viewpoints and for being very open minded and holding each other down.
She's honest as fock. While others finesse their words, she's direct. Its all transactional, and until men get it drilled into their heads, they won't be played. When you're poor, it's more emphasis on money, even women with money will need men with money. Men, be realistic and wise.
This comment is food for the soul.
All about the Benjamins.
Very interesting contest. She has a point of view to show that everyone has a mind of their own for success in life😮🤔😮
This is disgusting, I couldn't watch the whole video. The alledged "Motherland" is on 🔥. It's good 4 Pan-Africanist to see the reality instead of romanticizing about Africa.
I wish someone told me before relocating. It's actually worse than you think, but they'll never tell you.
Ivain- you are really a provocative journalist. You asked Olga some insightful inquiries in terms of dating White men exclusively and not atteacted to Black men/ Sugar Daddy. At the impetus of the interview, Olga asserted that she was shamed and guilty about the opposite sex by her brother. I wished you would have explored in what ways was she shamed and made to feel guilty by her brother? I was contemplating is Olga trumatized by the shame and guilt she obtained as a lad. Perhaps- I surmised- that Olga is seeking to be worship due to the lack of love she obtained. Lastly- it is hard for me that she is with Fracois deviod of being paid for her time and sexual transactions. An interesting interview; looking forward to part 2 interview with Fracois.
I think she made it very clear that she’s being very well compensated for her time and whatever other favors she indulges in, otherwise it kinda beats the whole purpose of being a sugar baby.
@@Hippobottomless So true!
She said 25+30 is 55. Black dont crack at 55 something not right here, the numbers do not add up .
She can have her opinions without trying to slot in every other young girl please.
Wearing a horse tail on your head, is a good example of mental slavery, not my type of video to watch. Thx for your efforts!
Boy you can't get around her, she knows what she wants out of life and she is going to do what it takes to get where she want to be in life, and she is a smart young lady, it's her life.
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sad
At this point, I really don't see the point of marriage anymore.
Hey Ivan, will you make another stop in Ghana after Ivory Coast?
Hello! Not at this time. I have a tight schedule but I’ll be back for sure. Thanks so much for checking out my videos
@@IvainTures see you when you're back. Safe ✨️
Very interesting Ivan, very candid interesting lady. Guess it's for ladys who want to live The Kardatian lives with all the luxuries they could never afford or live without a Sugar Daddy. It's first time I ve heard someone speaking so openly kudos to the lady. Glad the Sugar Daddy is so open nd interesting to, Hope his still in touch with the Haitian family who raised him.
Oh Lord! On the thumbnail, I thought the white guy was an old white lady😂😅. However, I like the twist... When she saying she's not attracted to black guys, only white, then this guy shows up... Oh my.😮😂 I'm not judging.
She's attracted to money. She equates white with money and black with a lack thereof. That's the bottom line.
Great episode.
A different perspective on life, even though I don’t agree with it, it’s always nice to hear how other people think. It is definitely mind opening and refreshing to realize how different all of us are.
Loved François for his skin tones explanation. We’re all in this together.
I think it's about her own life, and she is free living her life how she want.
This is not the first I'm hearing this from the motherland... Young women from Côte d'Ivoire have been doing it for years
She is from NIGERIA 🇳🇬 not Côte d’Ivoire she does not even speak French
@@rehoboth0707 helloooo....I wasn't writing about her....I was making a statement.... young women from Côte d'ivoire doing it too
Young foreigners girls from others countries mostly English spoken countries come in Ivory Coast to do Pr@$t1tut1on
@@s.tanh9818 young women from around the world including where you're from are doing it too...what's your point when the subject is not from CI and travelling there to meet rich white men. I knew from the moment I saw her at the airport in Abidjan talking about being a youtuber that she was selling something other than YT contents.
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Wow this is the best content ever. It shows how traveling gets you to meet the real world
Ivan asking some of these questions trying to see if he can hit 😂
If you only knew …
Oh btw, transactional relationships are NOT considered to be healthy and based on love, mutual respect and appreciation. Read psychology articles, they explain it very well. Transactional relationships are pretty much a business project - and just like any business entity, they are only made to maximize the profit. The more money you get out of gal, or the cheaper the sex the guy gets - the better for the gal, and for the guy. There's no space for true respect, these intentions are illicit and cruel in their very bottom, and no BS lies about "EmoTiOnAl ConNeCtiON" can cover that
honestly homie was more interesting than her not that she wasnt but thats a wild story
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She's selling ppl
She said that looks do not matter. It's not about the color or age really. You just have to be able to pay. She sells to the highest bidder. It's business.
She said she have never date a black person so yes color is a thing... She will not want a Nigerian sugar daddy for example. Addiction of white men for African woman is real
Very interresting François, this girl is actually Nice and cute. Me personally I prefer man of my age or may a bit younger(max 1 or 2) or a bit older but not more than 3 to 5 years differences . So sugar daddy are not for me.
Wow,this young lady is very smart.
She understands the trasactional requirement for a relationship.
Nuff respect
She's easy to talk to & very enlightened.
Good on ya Naija.
Bless up🙏🙏💟
Watching from the land downunder Sydney NSW
It’s because of the constant insecurity in Nigeria and power cuts thats why Ghana attracts Nigerians because we are also anglophone. Sugar daddies are most girls survival option some families even encourage because it’s friends with benefits for them. The as them for expensive gifts and money.
nice conversation eneristint the part 2 keep more entertainment bro.God bless.
The definition of when someone doesn't know what she is saying. I wish she didn't do this interview. But anyway its her life. 😢
Great interview. Francois is an example of why one shouldn't judge white people. You never know who they grew up with or around, or what their genetic background is. Here is a white man who had black adoptive parents and family ,and grew up in a black country and sees black people as the default. Life is not black and white. People are people
God, ur so naïve and passive 😢
BLA BLA
@@Hippobottomless you clearly have limited life experience
@@tam1641 boooo
Wait till they treat you like a monkey
For the record, the President of Ivory Coast has a white wife.
It doesn't matter at the end of the day 😊
I love the country i want to make friends with them
Wow! This is ground-breaking. The truth is this stuff has been happening in Africa since God knows when. What is unique here is that you got both to present themselves to the latest technology (UA-cam). I have a feeling that this is only the beginning. There's much more to come.
Thanks so much for watching! I appreciate that.
That's how black folks lost the middle east and north Africa.
@@themaxonlyful Throw South Africa in there as well.
The original jollof is from Senegambia, more specifically Senegal/Gambia. In fact, Gambia just won the best jollof!
21:02 what work does she do?
pro 304
this girl is very intelligent. i can see why she dates the older man. she is will trive better with the older guys. much respect to her.
Excellente conversation. J’ai apprécié son honnêteté. J’ai aussi aimé ton ouverture d’esprit.
Cependant j’ai le sentiment que cette demoiselle est en proie à quelques traumas. J’espère qu’elle est heureuse.
This young lady is really intelligent and smart. Say it like she does, what a confidence.
Ayisyen ki la
Ivain slow down you are getting to big for your Original subscribers😂. I am proud of bro just one thing, don’t forget the OG subscribers ✌️
Bro thanks so much for rocking with me. I appreciate you. My channel is nothing without the support of people Like you. Thanks a lot Joshua! 🔥
I agree people should date anybody they desire. In this case, this woman only wants a Sugar Daddy. A man to provide her the HIGH Life. She's not attracted to a mans face but very much attracted to a Mans Wallet. She needs stick with white men because she'll be challenged to find a Black Man who would want to sign up for this program. She only gets involved with ONE Sugar Daddy at a time (so she's been living this life style for sometime). More power to her and whatever Floats your boat... But Black Men wouldn't sign up for the program so her only option is a White Man...
She right to the point, and very open, if all women were like her,easy on the mind. And she is young, and very intelligent.
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I love this open minded lovely beautiful lady. This is a Different educational content. Thank you.
She is absolutely beautiful!
She is lovely. I enjoyed this interview. Your music choice was a tad bit disrespectful though at times but I know you were being funny. Also, let me explain why she is not attracted to men of her own race. It’s because many which she encounters are in struggle mode. They have not figured out how to be successful and live poor lifestyles and are not provider men, so quite frankly, she is simply turned off by them. Makes sense to me❤️💫🌍
I’m someone that makes around 120k a year but I save most of that & I live a very humble life. Don’t drive a fancy expensive car or wear expensive designer clothes.. My issue with majority BW is their desire for a flashy materialistic life with the biggest house & nicest cars. Not Providing flashy materialistic possessions/lifestyles doesn’t mean you can’t provide or be a good provider. It’s almost like I’m forced to date outside my race. Other races of women are a lot less materialistic than BW & are okay with living humble lives..
I see so many Hispanic & Asian women married & working with their husbands..This city girl thinking got BW not even wanting to be a help meet..I try hard to not feel this way but most times I can’t stand BW.
@@dawilldeal3036 You should never have an issue with what another person desires for their life, whether it’s a luxury lifestyle or not. Their life experiences are not relevant to yours and vice versa. I live in America and have lived in four states and I have always been surrounded by White, Indian, Asian and African women who live upper class lifestyles as housewives. Some also have their own business but it’s more of a hobby and expression of our feminine role as Creators. These women also drive luxury cars, live in neighborhoods where the homes are $500K and up, and age gracefully because they’re not overworked like worker mules. They have husbands that prepared themselves to be financial Head of Household and don’t need their wive’s paychecks to live a decent life. They allow their wives to assume their natural feminine role and responsibilities only without having to take on the masculine role as financial Provider. I see many Hispanic women working menial jobs doing what they have to do to pay the bills, even doing construction work and building homes - work better suited for men who God gave stronger bodies for doing the hard work. But again, they are fleeing extreme poverty. Don’t expect BW to behave like women who just crossed the border with their husbands. It’s not your place to infringe on others Free Will and right to make decisions for their own life. I suggest to you that, instead of projecting your desire to lower women’s lifestyle standards to the level you’re willing to provide, you just focus on meeting a woman who resonates more on your frequency. Good luck to you!
She is smart in the sense that she knows what she wants and knows how to speak.
However,you can put a bow on it but it is what is is.
Stay safe love.
She not smart at all lol If you've ever read a motivational book like “the secret” you'll realize that she just repeats word for word what is written in those books.
@@charlotteduval5086 knowing what you want is being smart.
You are not letting people run game on you.
That’s my opinion and I stand by it.
I never wanted to read that useless book.
She made a decision to choose the SOFT life. And the rest is history. No Bob the builder here😂😂 Good for her
You can't even build yourself and you're making references about Bob the builder.
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cant wait enteristing the enterview wd them.just vibeslove your content.bro.God bless
Interesting interview, beautiful and intelligent young lady. She seems to know what she wants and I felt she was being honest to a certain extend. Good for her though!
This was a very interesting vid. I definitely going to check her out. She is way ahead of the game.
Very eloquent young lady
I like her. Very beautiful, truthful and factual,real and doesn’t give a damn about shit!. She knows exactly what she needs in life
Relationship wont give u viewership....Replace relationship topics and focus on real estate
stop telling him what to do with his channel. Some people are interested more in the quality and breadth of their content than in getting subscribers. Quality over quantity
An interesting conversation. I give her kudos, she is clever, eloquent, confident, mentally strong and living her life without any qualms. She is all about the money 💰 💰💰
I am astound with her beauty elegance and extraordinary intelligence
Young and smart. But please don't assume the "young" status for long because then you soon find out that you are getting old. Also make sure you save some money for rainy days. Your man's business may fall, he can fall sick or some unforseen circumstance may occur and you can use the savings to rescue him. That's when he will also know that you are smart. There is no need staying with a broke guy who may still end up cheating, disrespectful, physically brutal. Sometimes these broke guys still move on to settle down with someone else even though you struggled with him. As you say, girls should know what they want. Some of the black guys look good on the outside but they don't know jack about romance. It's a good thing you're financially independent on your own. Parents should raise their girls to be independent and self sufficient. Keep it up baby girl.
She is ahead of her game
I love her the way she’s ❤
She is a very confident, spiritual and intelligent young woman.
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You should really stop asking wealthy people the cost of things ! However this was the best content you have done. This woman has been very candid
about who she is. She is building her generational wealth. Ola found out earlier in life, that when you are poor and struggling, you should not have to expect that as a way of life for all. The vibe for her with her own people is a kindship,the struggle is real. We have that desire to live in a world of plenty. Thank you Ola, live for you, not for others.🥰
He can look the price up online or ask at reception, If he wants to know!
Just because Ivain ask them a question, it doesn't mean that they have to answer.
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