WHAT TO DO IF YOUR SPOUSE SIDES WITH THE EXTENDED FAMILY.

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  • @perismwangi4580
    @perismwangi4580 Рік тому +23

    Bz talk about men who help their brother and sisters and their children and neglect their own just because the wife is working.

  • @eaachire
    @eaachire Рік тому +16

    This message is not for the faint hearted👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
    The Passion from the 15:55 to 21:25 Was Head On, This Is What They Call - “Open Rebuke Is Better than Secret Love.” - Proverbs 27:5
    Thank You Benjamin Zulu Global

  • @paulodeny8378
    @paulodeny8378 Рік тому +12

    Hi Benjamin, I have noted that you have kept mentioning 21 times in different videos:-(don’t compromise to lower standards),,,with reference to different aspects of life & dimensions,as with regard to intra,inter and personal elements of life ...your God given advice has brought me immense peace & articulation ,yet I have only scratched the surface into application of teaching

  • @nyangichic375
    @nyangichic375 Рік тому +5

    Yeah... cohabiting couples give me the ick as well. Even from a logical standpoint it doesn't make sense to cohabit. It shows a lack of values, standards, self respect and self esteem.

  • @paulodeny8378
    @paulodeny8378 Рік тому +5

    Benjamin Zulu,,you are the first among brave few across the kenya and Africa who are bringing the lords truth home,I can tell you are bringing it home in small chewable chunks and not the whole elephant ,cos you know there multitude will run away cos of social conditioning that is years built through conditioning from child hood

  • @carolmueni977
    @carolmueni977 Рік тому +4

    Best topic at the right time ,that's why I love Benjamin shows .I will vouch for Benjamin every moment.

  • @MuthioraBenson-ct5gc
    @MuthioraBenson-ct5gc Рік тому +4

    Great content......I've however noted that sexuality and moral rules are mostly imposed on women and not men.some men expect a woman who is pure when they have a high sexual count.sexual discipline is not reinforced in men as it is in women.i hope that this will change one day

  • @evakamau483
    @evakamau483 11 місяців тому +3

    I became the guardian of my happiness. The extended family ruined my marriage. It was extremely painful however the pain is totally forgotten now. 6th year now.😂

  • @Console1289
    @Console1289 Рік тому +4

    Amazing talk, i wish you would talk about blended families, a scenario where the husband has kids outside and wants to bring them in

    • @josephineakumu878
      @josephineakumu878 11 місяців тому

      This is a straight NO. I can not take care of another womans children. My family has to be close knit.

  • @peninahmwende368
    @peninahmwende368 Рік тому +2

    I am the better version of myself because of your counsel. Thank you so much

  • @namahegift59
    @namahegift59 9 місяців тому

    Well delivered Benjamin! Spot on.

  • @mindsmagic
    @mindsmagic Рік тому +5

    After listening to this episode,I dont know how and where to start picking my broken pieces

    • @lilliangithui
      @lilliangithui Рік тому +1

      One tiny step at a time, one day at a time. You will make it 💜

    • @naysindila9
      @naysindila9 9 місяців тому

      You are in my thoughts 😢

    • @naysindila9
      @naysindila9 9 місяців тому

      You are in my thoughts 😢

    • @naysindila9
      @naysindila9 9 місяців тому

      You are in my thoughts 😢

  • @beryl111
    @beryl111 Рік тому +2

    I like listening to mr Benjamin Zulu,he is full of wisdom... you are my mentor...

  • @kingdomresponders6521
    @kingdomresponders6521 Рік тому +1

    Sure! integrity,selfworth, self-respect and boundaries.

  • @MwalimuRecordZ
    @MwalimuRecordZ Рік тому +5

    Things got very hot around 19:00 Wuuueh msomo. How can you give your entire body for years to another fool and then you want me to get the remains at the same and actually full price? Thanks Benja. That passion you have is helping us men get some courage! until the innocent presenter almost become the accused, or may be she is. What women have justified in the society may really damage a lot. Thanks for stopping it.

    • @GWalker92
      @GWalker92 Рік тому +2

      😅

    • @MuthioraBenson-ct5gc
      @MuthioraBenson-ct5gc Рік тому +3

      The same purity and sexual discpline men expect from women should be the same discipline one
      Should exhibit as a man

    • @MwalimuRecordZ
      @MwalimuRecordZ Рік тому

      @@MuthioraBenson-ct5gc That's right.

  • @helenahaindongo1933
    @helenahaindongo1933 Рік тому +2

    Here in Namibia, gone days, if your husband pass on, the male family member to the deceased will be your husband. I think it is properties and materials that the family wanted not to loose.

  • @jimmeylelo4694
    @jimmeylelo4694 Рік тому +7

    Video to deliver people of africa, the mindset that has bound many woman and man in Africa. Set us free Zulu, speak to the people

  • @emmakakai95
    @emmakakai95 10 місяців тому

    This episode is deep.
    Thank you Benjamin and your team.
    I really learn a lot whenever I listen you .

  • @maggiekuria4535
    @maggiekuria4535 10 місяців тому

    My motto always if you want to marry a man of integrity live a life of integrity

  • @marychira9059
    @marychira9059 Рік тому +2

    I agree with you Benjamin, bitter truth

  • @joviawan9132
    @joviawan9132 Рік тому +2

    18:15 Thats a voice every young adult needs today!

  • @mosesotieno18
    @mosesotieno18 11 місяців тому

    Lilly chunga there are things when Benjamin is talking about you can run but i like the strength in his talk

  • @naysindila9
    @naysindila9 9 місяців тому +1

    Story of my life 🥹🥹🥹 I went through hell I end up on 10yrs of mess to divorce with kids involved and here I am35 with 3girls oh God I should know this earlier 😢

  • @marthakiarie3712
    @marthakiarie3712 Рік тому +1

    We don't skip ads in this channel. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @janegacheri1378
    @janegacheri1378 Рік тому +1

    Asante sana Benjamin for your enlightenment,

  • @loisemungai3152
    @loisemungai3152 Рік тому +3

    Calm down Benjamin 😂

  • @najjuukosumayiye6581
    @najjuukosumayiye6581 Рік тому +1

    Wow I remember l was 13 yrs old and l was elected as a counselor in my class during high School and wen they were training us how to do the work then Man who was teaching us asked boys who wants to marry a girl who was sleeping with anyone at school all the boys said no and he advised them not to sleep with others before marriage and from there I learnt and that philosophy helped alot during my school tym stay blessed coach.

  • @opiyopatrick8534
    @opiyopatrick8534 Рік тому +1

    Benjamin is my best mentor

  • @mcdianamutta
    @mcdianamutta Рік тому

    Asante sana Benjamin, you are blessing many of us!salamu toka Tanzania

  • @nettyad
    @nettyad Рік тому

    The snap killed me😂😂😂😂😂

  • @celestineshamala1593
    @celestineshamala1593 Рік тому +1

    Leo ni viboko weeee don't joke with Mr Zulu lily u are brave some questions 😂😂

  • @aishamulungi1483
    @aishamulungi1483 11 місяців тому

    You always speak to my heart

  • @EuniceMimi
    @EuniceMimi Рік тому +1

    Lilly once talked of beetroot juice
    We've been served well well

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 11 місяців тому

    Today Benjamin has shouted nothing but the truth. Waaaa!

  • @linetkawira4605
    @linetkawira4605 Рік тому

    Akhi Lily ua job is the best Mr Benjamin is really 😂😂😂mbarikiwe Sana

    • @lilliangithui
      @lilliangithui 11 місяців тому

      I love the drama 😂😂😂

  • @mwapemwape3363
    @mwapemwape3363 11 місяців тому

    Gift them with your absence 👏🏽

  • @norahmutisya1615
    @norahmutisya1615 Рік тому

    Mr. Benjamin you're shouting 🤣

  • @Jojo.kazumi
    @Jojo.kazumi Рік тому

    OMG! Yes. He said something there, around minute 11 that has hit me so hard. Gosh 🤭 knowledge is power! You just don't know it, but somehow it just makes you so uncomfortable. Now we know.

  • @dorandegeb
    @dorandegeb Рік тому

    Thank you Benjamin

  • @bancywaithera2673
    @bancywaithera2673 Рік тому

    Am a changed person thanks Benjamin

  • @beautifulmiss11
    @beautifulmiss11 11 місяців тому

    🔊💯🔊💯🔊💯😊

  • @jeropstella4848
    @jeropstella4848 Рік тому +1

    16:00 to 19 , that there is the truth, where is the discipline?????