I'm sorry to hear that. While I wasn't bullied much, most people didn't like me and they would just be disrespectful to me. I've basically always had a low social status. I've also been called ugly a lot as well, mainly by girls. So now I don't have much to do with people offline, I'm happy with being on my own anyway, I never get lonely.
some people get lucky and end up with great classmates where relationships and friendships are made possible and there's people like you and me who end up being surrounded by assholes, it's not our fault, we can't control which type of people we come across i can only image how different my life would've been as well as myself if only i had came across classmates i can be friends with. but since i wasn't lucky like that now here i am at age 30 with zero friends
Attend local events, meetups, and happy hours. ... Volunteer for a cause you care about. ... Get a job in your field or at a company you admire. ... Use your existing network. ... Don't be afraid of small talk. ... Join an online community. Here is some tips on how to make friends at 30. I hope it works out for you. Have a good 1.
@@syntaxside I'm around 5'4"-5'5" now but I was about 4'8" then. Back in 2010 and 2011. And what's funny is on my drivers license it still says I'm 4'11". It sucks being short but him and I prove you can find a small minority of women who are different and don't care.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I have aspergers to as well. I was bullied throughout my years in high school grade 9 to 12. I struggled to make friends and tried to fit in groups but no one didnt like me for no reason all because i was different from everyone else but the sad thing is I never did anything wrong i just wanted to make friends and kept being the nice person. I lost alot of friends in high school and had a good friend that went around telling others about me which they believed and hated on me which really hurt me then after that i told that friend to f off. I still had 2 other good friends that didn't bully me and they felt so bad for me but they hung around students that hated me to also. I was so depressed that it hurt me so badly. After I graduated high school in 2015 I was so happy that I never see my bullies ever again. To this day I'm still hurt by those bullies and just trying to move on.
Thanks for sharing your life experience, I can relate somehow and feel less lonely because of it. It's really horrible to be thrown into a lions cage without any knowledge to find out that human beings are truly evil creatures. I too have not helped a really sweet guy from school that was ALWAYS builied by his and mine "friends" and I regret not speaking up about it. For sone miracle I was only bullied in the last 1-2 years of highschool (it's called different in germany) for my lack of facial expressions and other "minor" stuff which absolutely destroyed my soul but I had mental health issues prior to that. There is just something very hurtful about the fact that other people punish you for being different (≠bad) and don't even care about it or blame the victim for being able to feel. After highschool I didn't even go to the group photograph appointment and ripped the picture apart when I got it. That would be like the year 2017 I was 17 back then. Luckily my life turned around when I prayed to Jesus in 2019 and my sins are forgiven. He is real and alive! I hope that you too can find peace. Have a good one and I hope that you will feel better as time goes by. "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." -Matthew 11:28
I had similar problem. It made me insecure. I’m sad to hear you also had it like that. I think you seem really sweet so I can’t understand why…. And you Are NOT ugly. You Are beautiful. Happy belated b-day.❤️
In high school 🏫 2012 14 year old 2013 17 year old. 2014 16 year old. 2017 17 year old. 2016 17 year old emo girl 2012. 2017 2018 19 year old. Emo 2019 year 20 year old. Emo 2020 21 year old. emo
You told that you expect to being bullied and insulted a lot in the future? Do you really think that it will happens? Maybe it is just the fear. And, you know, I understand how you feel. Me too, I am autistic and I lived the same thing as you in high school. And for me, it was very hard to recover from it. Because, I will explain something. It is that, bullying for autistic people is more serious than for non-autistic person, no matter what kind of form of bullying. Why? Because, the first thing is that an autistic person is more vulnerable and psychologically weaker than another person because, an autistic person often didn’t realize when he is bullied notably because of a lack of capacity to see other’s intentions an also because they have a lack of abilities to recognize their feelings and emotions, which make them not sees that a joke can be painful for them. Usually, the bullies often target people who’s are unable to defend themselves. So, a person who didn’t even realize that it is bullied is a perfect target. The problem is that, for an autistic person, to recognize the bullying that they live is a real challenge because of their atypical functioning. Thus makes the autistic person thinking that violence that they receive is normal and they don’t need to take care about it while they are suffering. They can also flee school without knowing why. Also, somes case of bullying can last during more than a year because, we often tell the victims to report bullying as earlier as possible while, if you are unable to recognize yourself if you are bullied, you can’t do anything about it. You can’t even ask for help. Those conditions makes autistic people feel that people and society dosen’t like them very much. And it is only after that bullying is over that we realized how our life were very painful and that what we lived, we could denounced it (falsely because, our lack of adaptability prevent us to get out of it). Those makes our autistic brain to invent some mechanism to protect ourselves (like a mistreated child). Unfortunately, bullying can provoke a lot of problem in a long term to autistic people to function normally in normal life. We can live bullying inside as outside, everything is fine. Bullying can cause paranoia and even PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Dissorder). That makes us to be fearing being bullied again. That’s what people calls joking? Provoke trauma and PTSD to someone, that’s what you qualify making something very cool? No. If I told you that all rapists have sexual needs that they can’t control and that they have to rape woman while they refuse to! How would you react if you see rapist telling to their victim that they should to stop complaining what they lived, after that they experience trauma? It shall give you an indication about how people should react when an autistic person is bullied. And, I will tell you something. An non-autistic person, even those who also have been bullied, cannot places themselves in a same stand as an autistic person who experience the same thing. Why? Because, first of all, you do have the internal resources to adapt to it (by recognizing and asking for help for example, with bravery you need) and secondly, you are even able to don’t care about it and to continue your life like if nothing was happened. Yeah, look at yourself non-autistic victims. As in gravity scale, a non autistic person who’s experience bullying is 7/10 and for an autistic person, it is 9/10. And, it is what it is, you can’t change that, despite the limit that people can do with ASD people. And also, autistic people should not be afraid to tell others that in which point bullying is so serious for them. And, for you, king of Aspergers, I would to ask you to see a psychologist who’s sensibilized about autism and who’s know how to recover from trauma. It could help you. Me, I have a personnal psychologist and thanks to her, I could recover from trauma that I have experienced. And I also hope for you that you will recover one day.
Dude white girls in Canada are so easy you just have to say ily 😘 and any girl will be your gf it's that easy 😎 and also when will you be 34 from yrs ur 33 only😂 😂
When I was in high school 🏫 i let so many people into my life but sadly, it was a mistake. They were so toxic mean users backstabbers bullies abusers you name it. It took a toll on me and I felt so scared anxious and depressed. My down to earth teachers constantly told me to stay away from them but I didn’t listen to them I kept hanging out with the wrong crowd. Then my teachers became so livid and that’s when I started to listen to them. To this day, I still regret that. The real reason why I hanged out with the wrong crowd is because I was going through something personal which I’m not gonna get into. But to ease the sense feeling down and sad. I was trying to clear my head at that time. I only had a very few close friends and the other ones were so called. I became the class clown 🤡 which I also regret. I made people laugh in order to please them and fit in. That was a mistake. The joking around part got so obsessive that my classmates flipped out on me which gave me anxiety and they told on me like some little girls. Luckily I didn’t get written up. After class I sat on the stair steps and then I started to feel so bad but I didn’t cry in front of the other students. When I rode the bus 🚌 back home, i still felt bad. I was lonesome during my lunch hour and nobody sat at the table where I was sitting at. So I ate lunch with my teachers so I finally felt better. One day my teacher humiliated me in front of my classmates by lecturing me about hanging out with the wrong crowd and I felt very bad and voiceless. My classmates just stared at me like I was the fool. Soon after that, I started to keep to myself and staying away from the bad people. It helped me feel better about myself. When we had free days, everyone would be talking and enjoying each other’s company while I just sat at my desk being both lonely and bored. Every time I would go up to someone to start a conversation with, they’ll tell me to leave them alone in a harshly hostile way which scared me the death. My instincts were telling me to not to be very fond of people. I decided to be antisocial at that time. By the graduation came around, I was so glad that I didn’t have to deal or see those toxic classmates anymore. It was a relief 😮💨. When we had the post grad party, I did the things that they had at my school. I took pics and selfies with a couple of my true friends and then I went on about my business. After the party ended, I went back home feeling happier than ever before. When I was in middle school I again went through the similar stuff. The students both male and female disliked me for various reasons. That hurt my feelings and it caused me to NOT to talk to people anymore except my teachers. I talked to my teachers more than I did with the students. There was this girl in my class and I’m not gonna say names. I was crazy about her and we did liked each other until we got to high school and that’s when she started to act so mean and hateful. So I decided to stay away from her. She slapped me in my face in the middle school library and I told on her then she’d got written up. I was a bad kid at school and yes I was acting out by starting mess with others which I ended up being written up. I was in ISS for a few days and I was bored outta my mind . Luckily I had my work assignments from my class hours but after I got done with it, I became so bored. The person that was watching us in the room gave me a word search and crossword puzzle 🪑📝. That was 1 way to pass the ⏰🕰️ time. Then a couple of days later, I was finally outta that ISS room. It was a relief 😮💨. I had angry outbursts at both middle and high school because I was so upset about toxic classmates not being to nice towards me. I even flipped over the table because I wasn’t thinking properly. My teachers calmed me down and then I moved on like nothing happened. In gym class when we had free days, I shot hoops 🏀 by myself but I didn’t mind it at all. My gym teacher was nice enough to shoot some with me which really made my day. We did this insanity workout and he shook my hand while giving me some good sportsmanship. Since then, I have never forgotten that handshake 🫱🏾🫲🏻. He was so down to earth 🌎. On the bus 🚌 ride to and back from school, I listened to my 🎧📱🎶🎵🎶🧑🏾🛋️ lit off the chain music just to ignore the people that was being too loud and obnoxious. 🚌🛣️🏫🪑📚📓📔📒📝👦🏾 When I was in elementary school, I got written up for saying piss off and I don’t know 🤷🏾 why I said it or what made me say that. In gym class and on the bus I got in trouble for binge replaying my rugrats watch ⌚️. I wrote on my classmate’s shirt with a marker 🖍️ and I didn’t know why I did it or what made me do it. My down to earth teacher wrote a note 📝 about it. I ended up getting spanked for it and I did cried like a newborn baby. I went in my room and closed the door 🚪👦🏾🛏️🪟. I felt so much shame at that time. I punched another classmate in his stomach and I obviously got in trouble for it. Again i got spanked for it and cried. I went to the PBS room for my troubles and I had to write ✍🏾📜 down my plans for getting in trouble. I felt so terrible, bad and shameful at that time. I had to show it to my down to earth mom and she wasn’t very happy about it. I got suspended for the very first time from the bus for punching a girl in her face. I had to stay after school and my down to earth aunt picked me up. I told my classmates about my bus incident but sadly they turned their backs on me I felt bad soon afterwards. I had to stay after school again because I had detention due to starting the mess even though the other person was picking on me. I ended up chasing him around the hallways and then I told the assistant principal on him. He couldn’t punish him because I was the aggressor. I spent my final 8th grade year in ISS at middle school. I had too many in school suspensions which caused me to be booted off the cedar point list. I was so upset at that time. My mom and my aunt took me when school was out. During my 4 grueling years of high school I was never written up there and I was lucky 🍀 at that time. I still turned out just fine regardless of being spanked and whupped with a belt. Nowadays it’s a law and it’s considered child abuse.
Perfect timing. I just got bullied for the first time for being autistic.
@2Kanz+
Damn..
next time
@ButtFucker3000
Nah, I was cyberbullied.
He talked about how much it is hard for my parents to deal with me, and expressed his empathy with them.
You should try therapy and it’ll help you in someway.
I'm sorry to hear that. While I wasn't bullied much, most people didn't like me and they would just be disrespectful to me. I've basically always had a low social status.
I've also been called ugly a lot as well, mainly by girls.
So now I don't have much to do with people offline, I'm happy with being on my own anyway, I never get lonely.
🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂. Who keeps you company if you don’t get lonely at all?
some people get lucky and end up with great classmates where relationships and friendships are made possible and there's people like you and me who end up being surrounded by assholes, it's not our fault, we can't control which type of people we come across
i can only image how different my life would've been as well as myself if only i had came across classmates i can be friends with. but since i wasn't lucky like that now here i am at age 30 with zero friends
Attend local events, meetups, and happy hours. ...
Volunteer for a cause you care about. ...
Get a job in your field or at a company you admire. ...
Use your existing network. ...
Don't be afraid of small talk. ...
Join an online community.
Here is some tips on how to make friends at 30. I hope it works out for you. Have a good 1.
I got bullied for my height as well. People called me a midget.
How tall are you?
@@syntaxside I'm around 5'4"-5'5" now but I was about 4'8" then. Back in 2010 and 2011. And what's funny is on my drivers license it still says I'm 4'11". It sucks being short but him and I prove you can find a small minority of women who are different and don't care.
Same here, I was 5’2-5’4 in high school and now. Also was called ugly constantly.
@@BL-mf3jp how tall r you now?
If you’re still affected by the bullying, try therapy and it’ll help you in someway.
I'm sorry to hear about that. I have aspergers to as well. I was bullied throughout my years in high school grade 9 to 12. I struggled to make friends and tried to fit in groups but no one didnt like me for no reason all because i was different from everyone else but the sad thing is I never did anything wrong i just wanted to make friends and kept being the nice person. I lost alot of friends in high school and had a good friend that went around telling others about me which they believed and hated on me which really hurt me then after that i told that friend to f off. I still had 2 other good friends that didn't bully me and they felt so bad for me but they hung around students that hated me to also. I was so depressed that it hurt me so badly. After I graduated high school in 2015 I was so happy that I never see my bullies ever again. To this day I'm still hurt by those bullies and just trying to move on.
Thanks for sharing your life experience, I can relate somehow and feel less lonely because of it. It's really horrible to be thrown into a lions cage without any knowledge to find out that human beings are truly evil creatures. I too have not helped a really sweet guy from school that was ALWAYS builied by his and mine "friends" and I regret not speaking up about it.
For sone miracle I was only bullied in the last 1-2 years of highschool (it's called different in germany) for my lack of facial expressions and other "minor" stuff which absolutely destroyed my soul but I had mental health issues prior to that.
There is just something very hurtful about the fact that other people punish you for being different (≠bad) and don't even care about it or blame the victim for being able to feel.
After highschool I didn't even go to the group photograph appointment and ripped the picture apart when I got it. That would be like the year 2017 I was 17 back then.
Luckily my life turned around when I prayed to Jesus in 2019 and my sins are forgiven. He is real and alive!
I hope that you too can find peace. Have a good one and I hope that you will feel better as time goes by.
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."
-Matthew 11:28
🤗🤗🤗🫂🫂🫂. Both of y’all should therapy. Bullying is very traumatic. It takes a toll on anyone.
Damn he looks so young. I can't believe he's 33.
People with autism tend to look much younger.
I had similar problem. It made me insecure. I’m sad to hear you also had it like that. I think you seem really sweet so I can’t understand why…. And you Are NOT ugly. You Are beautiful. Happy belated b-day.❤️
thank you very much
I make friends and getting a hobby, we playing characters iconic roles, sharing going out for internet for a while.
bullying is character building
In high school 🏫 2012 14 year old 2013 17 year old. 2014 16 year old. 2017 17 year old. 2016 17 year old emo girl 2012. 2017 2018 19 year old. Emo 2019 year 20 year old. Emo 2020 21 year old. emo
You told that you expect to being bullied and insulted a lot in the future? Do you really think that it will happens? Maybe it is just the fear. And, you know, I understand how you feel. Me too, I am autistic and I lived the same thing as you in high school. And for me, it was very hard to recover from it.
Because, I will explain something. It is that, bullying for autistic people is more serious than for non-autistic person, no matter what kind of form of bullying. Why? Because, the first thing is that an autistic person is more vulnerable and psychologically weaker than another person because, an autistic person often didn’t realize when he is bullied notably because of a lack of capacity to see other’s intentions an also because they have a lack of abilities to recognize their feelings and emotions, which make them not sees that a joke can be painful for them. Usually, the bullies often target people who’s are unable to defend themselves. So, a person who didn’t even realize that it is bullied is a perfect target. The problem is that, for an autistic person, to recognize the bullying that they live is a real challenge because of their atypical functioning. Thus makes the autistic person thinking that violence that they receive is normal and they don’t need to take care about it while they are suffering. They can also flee school without knowing why. Also, somes case of bullying can last during more than a year because, we often tell the victims to report bullying as earlier as possible while, if you are unable to recognize yourself if you are bullied, you can’t do anything about it. You can’t even ask for help. Those conditions makes autistic people feel that people and society dosen’t like them very much. And it is only after that bullying is over that we realized how our life were very painful and that what we lived, we could denounced it (falsely because, our lack of adaptability prevent us to get out of it). Those makes our autistic brain to invent some mechanism to protect ourselves (like a mistreated child). Unfortunately, bullying can provoke a lot of problem in a long term to autistic people to function normally in normal life. We can live bullying inside as outside, everything is fine. Bullying can cause paranoia and even PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Dissorder). That makes us to be fearing being bullied again.
That’s what people calls joking? Provoke trauma and PTSD to someone, that’s what you qualify making something very cool? No. If I told you that all rapists have sexual needs that they can’t control and that they have to rape woman while they refuse to! How would you react if you see rapist telling to their victim that they should to stop complaining what they lived, after that they experience trauma? It shall give you an indication about how people should react when an autistic person is bullied.
And, I will tell you something. An non-autistic person, even those who also have been bullied, cannot places themselves in a same stand as an autistic person who experience the same thing. Why? Because, first of all, you do have the internal resources to adapt to it (by recognizing and asking for help for example, with bravery you need) and secondly, you are even able to don’t care about it and to continue your life like if nothing was happened. Yeah, look at yourself non-autistic victims. As in gravity scale, a non autistic person who’s experience bullying is 7/10 and for an autistic person, it is 9/10. And, it is what it is, you can’t change that, despite the limit that people can do with ASD people.
And also, autistic people should not be afraid to tell others that in which point bullying is so serious for them. And, for you, king of Aspergers, I would to ask you to see a psychologist who’s sensibilized about autism and who’s know how to recover from trauma. It could help you. Me, I have a personnal psychologist and thanks to her, I could recover from trauma that I have experienced. And I also hope for you that you will recover one day.
🫂🫂🫂🤗🤗🤗
I actually wetted the bed before. It was due to bullying and constipation. Thankfully by consuming enough water helps.
"friends"
That sucks, sorry m you had to go through this 😕
U a real one
have you got any more girls on tik tok since the last one ?
No
... me either!
Do you think that "The System" allows a h!t down as well? @
The King of Aspies
Dude white girls in Canada are so easy you just have to say ily 😘 and any girl will be your gf it's that easy 😎 and also when will you be 34 from yrs ur 33 only😂 😂
It's hard for me to talk to women even on dating apps. I will be 34 years old in October.
@@TheKingofAspies As a fellow Aspie from Montreal, I sympathize with the struggle 😞. The women in this country are brutal for us.
@@TheCanadian9 Thanks, I am from Montreal too.
You don’t look autistic
Well he has Asperger’s which basically is mild autism. Some have mild Asperger’s which doesn’t even show.
Yes and, what an autistic person should look like for you?
Yes he does
He doesn’t at all.
When I was in high school 🏫 i let so many people into my life but sadly, it was a mistake. They were so toxic mean users backstabbers bullies abusers you name it. It took a toll on me and I felt so scared anxious and depressed. My down to earth teachers constantly told me to stay away from them but I didn’t listen to them I kept hanging out with the wrong crowd. Then my teachers became so livid and that’s when I started to listen to them. To this day, I still regret that. The real reason why I hanged out with the wrong crowd is because I was going through something personal which I’m not gonna get into. But to ease the sense feeling down and sad. I was trying to clear my head at that time. I only had a very few close friends and the other ones were so called. I became the class clown 🤡 which I also regret. I made people laugh in order to please them and fit in. That was a mistake. The joking around part got so obsessive that my classmates flipped out on me which gave me anxiety and they told on me like some little girls. Luckily I didn’t get written up. After class I sat on the stair steps and then I started to feel so bad but I didn’t cry in front of the other students. When I rode the bus 🚌 back home, i still felt bad. I was lonesome during my lunch hour and nobody sat at the table where I was sitting at. So I ate lunch with my teachers so I finally felt better. One day my teacher humiliated me in front of my classmates by lecturing me about hanging out with the wrong crowd and I felt very bad and voiceless. My classmates just stared at me like I was the fool. Soon after that, I started to keep to myself and staying away from the bad people. It helped me feel better about myself. When we had free days, everyone would be talking and enjoying each other’s company while I just sat at my desk being both lonely and bored. Every time I would go up to someone to start a conversation with, they’ll tell me to leave them alone in a harshly hostile way which scared me the death. My instincts were telling me to not to be very fond of people. I decided to be antisocial at that time. By the graduation came around, I was so glad that I didn’t have to deal or see those toxic classmates anymore. It was a relief 😮💨. When we had the post grad party, I did the things that they had at my school. I took pics and selfies with a couple of my true friends and then I went on about my business. After the party ended, I went back home feeling happier than ever before.
When I was in middle school I again went through the similar stuff. The students both male and female disliked me for various reasons. That hurt my feelings and it caused me to NOT to talk to people anymore except my teachers. I talked to my teachers more than I did with the students. There was this girl in my class and I’m not gonna say names. I was crazy about her and we did liked each other until we got to high school and that’s when she started to act so mean and hateful. So I decided to stay away from her. She slapped me in my face in the middle school library and I told on her then she’d got written up. I was a bad kid at school and yes I was acting out by starting mess with others which I ended up being written up. I was in ISS for a few days and I was bored outta my mind . Luckily I had my work assignments from my class hours but after I got done with it, I became so bored. The person that was watching us in the room gave me a word search and crossword puzzle 🪑📝. That was 1 way to pass the ⏰🕰️ time. Then a couple of days later, I was finally outta that ISS room. It was a relief 😮💨. I had angry outbursts at both middle and high school because I was so upset about toxic classmates not being to nice towards me. I even flipped over the table because I wasn’t thinking properly. My teachers calmed me down and then I moved on like nothing happened. In gym class when we had free days, I shot hoops 🏀 by myself but I didn’t mind it at all. My gym teacher was nice enough to shoot some with me which really made my day. We did this insanity workout and he shook my hand while giving me some good sportsmanship. Since then, I have never forgotten that handshake 🫱🏾🫲🏻. He was so down to earth 🌎. On the bus 🚌 ride to and back from school, I listened to my 🎧📱🎶🎵🎶🧑🏾🛋️ lit off the chain music just to ignore the people that was being too loud and obnoxious.
🚌🛣️🏫🪑📚📓📔📒📝👦🏾 When I was in elementary school, I got written up for saying piss off and I don’t know 🤷🏾 why I said it or what made me say that. In gym class and on the bus I got in trouble for binge replaying my rugrats watch ⌚️. I wrote on my classmate’s shirt with a marker 🖍️ and I didn’t know why I did it or what made me do it. My down to earth teacher wrote a note 📝 about it. I ended up getting spanked for it and I did cried like a newborn baby. I went in my room and closed the door 🚪👦🏾🛏️🪟. I felt so much shame at that time. I punched another classmate in his stomach and I obviously got in trouble for it. Again i got spanked for it and cried. I went to the PBS room for my troubles and I had to write ✍🏾📜 down my plans for getting in trouble. I felt so terrible, bad and shameful at that time. I had to show it to my down to earth mom and she wasn’t very happy about it. I got suspended for the very first time from the bus for punching a girl in her face. I had to stay after school and my down to earth aunt picked me up. I told my classmates about my bus incident but sadly they turned their backs on me I felt bad soon afterwards. I had to stay after school again because I had detention due to starting the mess even though the other person was picking on me. I ended up chasing him around the hallways and then I told the assistant principal on him. He couldn’t punish him because I was the aggressor. I spent my final 8th grade year in ISS at middle school. I had too many in school suspensions which caused me to be booted off the cedar point list. I was so upset at that time. My mom and my aunt took me when school was out. During my 4 grueling years of high school I was never written up there and I was lucky 🍀 at that time. I still turned out just fine regardless of being spanked and whupped with a belt. Nowadays it’s a law and it’s considered child abuse.
Way to make youself look even weaker lol the thumbnail alone is practically a meme