i have a friend like this and I feel like i'm in too deep at this point. i have no idea how to get out of it because she's very mentally ill and has told me to my face that I'm her only friend. i hate being around her and her texts make me so anxious that I get sick. i am just so lost on how to get out of this
Wow I completely understand because I was in the exact same boat as you. Slowly distance yourself from her if she makes you feel bad. Slowly stop replying to her texts, just because your her only friend doesn’t mean you have to stay. It’s like that for a reason
That's what they all do. It's because they've pushed away all the people who aren't as empathetic. Doesn't mean we need to stick around for these types of people. Their life, happiness and health aren't your responsibility. Just remember that.
Maybe tell her sometimes its better not to have friends so you can't get hurt if you have no friends and no lovers and maybe she should think on herself for a month or two so she won't have to focus on anyone and she can just care for herself. I don't have many friends and when we aren't hanging out, I just take a mental health day and they understand and its great to focus on yourself and taking mental health breaks
You deal with Manipulators by stop caring. I told this other girl to stop inviting her people to my place without letting me know and she Blocked Me. I'm Happy I've been rethinking our friendship lately and I'm glad she blocked me. I choose ME Over Manipulators.
I hate the question “what is wrong with you?” “Are you mad?” After they do something bad to me. They act like they did not know! And blaming me by being quiet. Even if i will explain to them they will say “you are so sensitive, or we are joking, why you take it Serious”.
Oh my gosh! You hit it right in the button for what I had to go through with an ex friend of mine! She not only would manipulate me, but started manipulating my other friends also! To where my other friends and I had falling outs with each other. Until we realized the problem was my ex friend.
I stopped talking completely it was like a switch in me went off, I wonder if she was manipulative, but was very controlling and loves to talk, I speak less in that dynamic I was the audiance and she will come in even If I were studying asking "are you studying"? Obviously One doesn't play with books
I had a best friend of just about 55 yrs... I had recently been through a trauma incident which I discovered that I have PTSD actually cptsd. In doing this therapy I can spot out and manipulator or narcissist in a short period of time. Just yesterday we had our last very last argument I hope and I am choosing no longer to speak with her! She yells and screams to get attention and it actually activates my PTSD pretty badly I would speak very softly but then I realized she was doing it to attract her brothers and sisters with whom I'm close with as well. For the attention on purpose to prove to them that I am causing this it is just the weirdest experience ever! I know everything about her and she attacked me yesterday and then I asked her why didn't you give me time with my therapy when the courts was going on for over 4 years, it held me back on improving the PTSD and releasing the whole matter. They are now in prison I feel so much freer and wanted to express my happiness to her. I said one thing about our school reunion and that I don't know if I want everybody coming up to me and asking me and she goes well they always ask me anyway. I said to her I would rather you let me speak for myself, and boy oh boy putting down that boundary along with other boundaries that I had for her because I was typically passive during this quiet time. I said I'm no longer passive... Text my mother she attacked my memory which I remember everything, everything she attacked and I just kept calm knowing what she was trying to do. My heart was racing but I just let her have it and in the proper way. I am so proud of myself right now on this divorce! Time to go Tata my friend
I used the lockdown to get rid of them one left . I’m pushing her away slowly only saw her two times last year with other people around ,no more alone time with her.
I had a manipulative friend who I just ended up ghosting and I don’t regret it at all. I understand ghosting is bad but this person never wanted to change. This ex friend would manipulate everyone into getting him everything that he wanted by telling them that he’s going to die soon. Since the first time I met him he told me “I’m going to die really soon.” If he never got what he wanted he would give you the silent treatment and he would play the victim by saying Im going to die really really soon🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ he’s got a heart problem/desease but yet doesn’t eat healthy so he can’t really be playing the victim. He does this to everyone and the one who falls for his crap,ends up being his slave and by slave I mean spoiling him with treats, getting everything he asks you to get him,and giving him rides everywhere. our friendship got pretty bad and stopped talking to him because I called him out on his bs because he was manipulating one of my closest friends,unfortunately she fell for it. I knew him for 11years and he’s still alive😂😂😂 he told me he had a few months left to live and yet he’s still alive but he’s still going around saying that.
i recently let go of my friend cuz she has always been bossy to me especially when we are alone. she doesnt care about her brothers and her parents that much and ive seen her slap her 4yo brother and scream at him. she has even called me useless and acts clueless whenever i mention something bad she did. sometimes she says that i cant do stuff because she doesnt want me to. (she has also done other stuff) ik its not that bad. for some reason she only acts like this to me and not her other friends.
ig i just wanted to share my story as this happened pretty recently. I had an argument with one of my friends in my friend group as i did a really bad mistake which caused our friendship to split. (i honestly take the blame for it because it was really stupid of me) However, my friend group who had been talking bad about her suddenly switched their attitudes about her and then all started attacking me for the mistake i made. I honestly felt really shitty because i felt as if i deserved it, but now looking at the situation i feel as if i want to cut ties with all of them. I’m in highschool so it’s pretty hard to not see them around because i’ve known them for so long. That was my rant but i honestly don’t really know how to approach the situation anymore, due to being so afraid of them turning on me.
@@riverqueen4561 hi! i’m ok now, when i made this comment i was very confused and hurt by the whole situation. Thank you for ur concern and i hope u have a good day:)
I've been friends with someone for 6 years and since this year started, she's been talking bad about me behind my back and my other great friend from last year is telling me this girl has been acting nice around me and stuff but then when my friend tries to invite me and her, she's like no I don't like penny or something but either way, she clearly hates me but she isn't trying to not be my friend so I strongly dislike her right now
Hello me here, i need help to stop my friend that is manipulating other people, he says to me he is going to do it to other people and he is my best friend. So it's not to late yet. Please give me tips to stop him
According to the books I've read on the "art of synastry", whatever one's jupiter sign is in will be the sign or trine to that sign they will be most attracted to for choosing friends. For example if your jupiter is 19 degrees Aries, than your more likely to be attracted to people born between say the 2 April thru 18 April, and a trine to that same sunsign energy would be say Leo 9 August thru 18 August and Sagittarius 8 December thru 18 December. Of course these dates can vary a few days depending on the year considered, Orbs for conjunctions are usually 8 degrees and for trines are between 3 and 4 degrees. As far as possible manipulation within the connection, one would have to look at the whole composite chart shared between the two people's energies. Personally though what I've seen and experienced in mine and other people's relations is the Sun Jupiter conjuction or trine is a very positive beneficial aspect even if you have other challenging aspects going on. Good luck with your journey and adventure of friendship hunting and spiritual discoveries :)
@@BD638 Yes, so these difficulties maybe a result from say a Sun Sun square, Sun Moon square or Mars Uranus conjunction etc. within the composite chart comparison. In this case there are still trines to your Jupiter such as Sun in Leo or Sun in Sagittarius that could very well bring more positive experiences in relation to your friendships. Again the Jupiter Sun conjunction is an attraction to someone for friendship, but not always the best choice depending on other variables within the whole comparison.
I feel guilty that we don't have eachother personal phone number. cause I believe we can make a great relationship.hope to hear from you.im evan ficklin.
i have a friend like this and I feel like i'm in too deep at this point. i have no idea how to get out of it because she's very mentally ill and has told me to my face that I'm her only friend. i hate being around her and her texts make me so anxious that I get sick. i am just so lost on how to get out of this
Wow I completely understand because I was in the exact same boat as you. Slowly distance yourself from her if she makes you feel bad. Slowly stop replying to her texts, just because your her only friend doesn’t mean you have to stay. It’s like that for a reason
That's what they all do. It's because they've pushed away all the people who aren't as empathetic. Doesn't mean we need to stick around for these types of people. Their life, happiness and health aren't your responsibility. Just remember that.
Maybe tell her sometimes its better not to have friends so you can't get hurt if you have no friends and no lovers and maybe she should think on herself for a month or two so she won't have to focus on anyone and she can just care for herself. I don't have many friends and when we aren't hanging out, I just take a mental health day and they understand and its great to focus on yourself and taking mental health breaks
Start getting busy.
I’m 2 and a half months no contact now :)
You deal with Manipulators by stop caring. I told this other girl to stop inviting her people to my place without letting me know and she Blocked Me. I'm Happy I've been rethinking our friendship lately and I'm glad she blocked me. I choose ME Over Manipulators.
Amen! Good for you, that’s the right mindset to have
I hate the question “what is wrong with you?” “Are you mad?” After they do something bad to me. They act like they did not know! And blaming me by being quiet. Even if i will explain to them they will say “you are so sensitive, or we are joking, why you take it Serious”.
They are amazing actors -.- You are always the crazy angry one and they are always the victim. That is the script and they will stick to it.
Oh my gosh! You hit it right in the button for what I had to go through with an ex friend of mine! She not only would manipulate me, but started manipulating my other friends also! To where my other friends and I had falling outs with each other. Until we realized the problem was my ex friend.
This comment section makes me feel not alone and more hopeful for my future
If you are unhappy with your friend, don't be affraid to end the friendship. Better things will come. You are definately not alone 😊
i feel like a terrible person because i dont tell her how I truly feel because i dont want a problem. I just talk shit and stoop down to her level.
I stopped talking completely it was like a switch in me went off, I wonder if she was manipulative, but was very controlling and loves to talk, I speak less in that dynamic I was the audiance and she will come in even If I were studying asking "are you studying"? Obviously One doesn't play with books
I had a best friend of just about 55 yrs... I had recently been through a trauma incident which I discovered that I have PTSD actually cptsd. In doing this therapy I can spot out and manipulator or narcissist in a short period of time. Just yesterday we had our last very last argument I hope and I am choosing no longer to speak with her! She yells and screams to get attention and it actually activates my PTSD pretty badly I would speak very softly but then I realized she was doing it to attract her brothers and sisters with whom I'm close with as well. For the attention on purpose to prove to them that I am causing this it is just the weirdest experience ever! I know everything about her and she attacked me yesterday and then I asked her why didn't you give me time with my therapy when the courts was going on for over 4 years, it held me back on improving the PTSD and releasing the whole matter. They are now in prison I feel so much freer and wanted to express my happiness to her. I said one thing about our school reunion and that I don't know if I want everybody coming up to me and asking me and she goes well they always ask me anyway. I said to her I would rather you let me speak for myself, and boy oh boy putting down that boundary along with other boundaries that I had for her because I was typically passive during this quiet time. I said I'm no longer passive... Text my mother she attacked my memory which I remember everything, everything she attacked and I just kept calm knowing what she was trying to do. My heart was racing but I just let her have it and in the proper way. I am so proud of myself right now on this divorce! Time to go Tata my friend
Well done for standing up for yourself 👏🏽❤️
@@hammasa1 thank you very much ❤️
I used the lockdown to get rid of them one left .
I’m pushing her away slowly only saw her two times last year with other people around ,no more alone time with her.
I had a manipulative friend who I just ended up ghosting and I don’t regret it at all. I understand ghosting is bad but this person never wanted to change. This ex friend would manipulate everyone into getting him everything that he wanted by telling them that he’s going to die soon. Since the first time I met him he told me “I’m going to die really soon.” If he never got what he wanted he would give you the silent treatment and he would play the victim by saying Im going to die really really soon🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ he’s got a heart problem/desease but yet doesn’t eat healthy so he can’t really be playing the victim. He does this to everyone and the one who falls for his crap,ends up being his slave and by slave I mean spoiling him with treats, getting everything he asks you to get him,and giving him rides everywhere. our friendship got pretty bad and stopped talking to him because I called him out on his bs because he was manipulating one of my closest friends,unfortunately she fell for it. I knew him for 11years and he’s still alive😂😂😂 he told me he had a few months left to live and yet he’s still alive but he’s still going around saying that.
Thank you. You have no idea how much I needed this
i recently let go of my friend cuz she has always been bossy to me especially when we are alone. she doesnt care about her brothers and her parents that much and ive seen her slap her 4yo brother and scream at him. she has even called me useless and acts clueless whenever i mention something bad she did. sometimes she says that i cant do stuff because she doesnt want me to. (she has also done other stuff) ik its not that bad.
for some reason she only acts like this to me and not her other friends.
ig i just wanted to share my story as this happened pretty recently. I had an argument with one of my friends in my friend group as i did a really bad mistake which caused our friendship to split. (i honestly take the blame for it because it was really stupid of me) However, my friend group who had been talking bad about her suddenly switched their attitudes about her and then all started attacking me for the mistake i made. I honestly felt really shitty because i felt as if i deserved it, but now looking at the situation i feel as if i want to cut ties with all of them. I’m in highschool so it’s pretty hard to not see them around because i’ve known them for so long. That was my rant but i honestly don’t really know how to approach the situation anymore, due to being so afraid of them turning on me.
Hope you are ok and can vigilantly protect yourself from anyone that wishes you harm.💚😎
@@riverqueen4561 hi! i’m ok now, when i made this comment i was very confused and hurt by the whole situation. Thank you for ur concern and i hope u have a good day:)
High maturity is a very attractive trait on a woman
I've been friends with someone for 6 years and since this year started, she's been talking bad about me behind my back and my other great friend from last year is telling me this girl has been acting nice around me and stuff but then when my friend tries to invite me and her, she's like no I don't like penny or something but either way, she clearly hates me but she isn't trying to not be my friend so I strongly dislike her right now
Hello me here, i need help to stop my friend that is manipulating other people, he says to me he is going to do it to other people and he is my best friend. So it's not to late yet. Please give me tips to stop him
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According to the books I've read on the "art of synastry", whatever one's jupiter sign is in will be the sign or trine to that sign they will be most attracted to for choosing friends. For example if your jupiter is 19 degrees Aries, than your more likely to be attracted to people born between say the 2 April thru 18 April, and a trine to that same sunsign energy would be say Leo 9 August thru 18 August and Sagittarius 8 December thru 18 December. Of course these dates can vary a few days depending on the year considered, Orbs for conjunctions are usually 8 degrees and for trines are between 3 and 4 degrees. As far as possible manipulation within the connection, one would have to look at the whole composite chart shared between the two people's energies. Personally though what I've seen and experienced in mine and other people's relations is the Sun Jupiter conjuction or trine is a very positive beneficial aspect even if you have other challenging aspects going on. Good luck with your journey and adventure of friendship hunting and spiritual discoveries :)
Im not sure about how true this is but my Jupiter is in Aries and most of most difficult people Ive had in my life were Aries. Legit top 2
@@BD638 Yes, so these difficulties maybe a result from say a Sun Sun square, Sun Moon square or Mars Uranus conjunction etc. within the composite chart comparison. In this case there are still trines to your Jupiter such as Sun in Leo or Sun in Sagittarius that could very well bring more positive experiences in relation to your friendships. Again the Jupiter Sun conjunction is an attraction to someone for friendship, but not always the best choice depending on other variables within the whole comparison.
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I'm ok with making the mistakes as long as you teach me the right path.
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I feel guilty that we don't have eachother personal phone number. cause I believe we can make a great relationship.hope to hear from you.im evan ficklin.
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