Love is loving someone who is perfectly imperfect and accepting his/her flaws in a healthy relationship and be accountable and work on improving every aspect of yourself....
Lovely video thanks guys, number 4 sign: he blocks you everywhere on social media lol he's running scared . I like being alone. I enjoy my own company. I just want to share my good life with someone.
Thanks for the feedback! And the additional point! Yes, c/overt social media dynamics is deffo part of the scene now. Hoping you get more of what you want.
Clayton Olson Coaching Well you knew me when my almost 100 videos over the years had yielded 63 subscribers! and helped me realize I hadn’t been consistent and really applied myself ⭐️
I adore your work Jack and your subject appropriate guests. People just need to be wary of love bombing and that you’re not bowled over by it and taken on a path you don’t want to go. Make sure it’s not all about his life and what he wants. Easy trap to overlook.
Guys that is so Good, thank you :) Especially the part about the "Why"? The answer to that question will determine the type of relationship, and the type of men as well.
For women it's simple. A+B=C. Men make it complicated like Ax+Bx-Dx=Cy^3 which pretty much isn't solvable. It can only turn into several different equations.
Love it! Your content dives deep. “Can you wake each other up?” Exactly! I’ve learned a lot about myself from my ex. Again & again. And your question of why we want relationship? That can change with different life stages, right?
Awesome video!! 🙏 Questioning why you want to be in a relationship and who you want to do the deeper work with - that is great advice and really helps in looking at relationships differently and if it’s the right relationship. Thanks so much! ❤️😃
3 months in. He’s doing all of this and more I’m the one holding back a bit. Can’t quite believe it. Are we falling in love or just the idea and the limerence He took the lead in asking for exclusivity, lanellling us BF/GF. Making future plans. We spend a lot of time together doing a variety of things. Meeting friends and family. Might I suggest an episode on when to say ‘I love you ‘
You guys are so helpful to women. I’ve not given a lot of thought about my love life. Your guy talks have been an awakening and I find myself enjoying all the nuances of love. It’s become fascinating to me. Thank you! 🌹
I completely understand what you're saying I I've been married three times and my third marriage was my best marriage my husband my third husband was a good daddy and a good husband good provider but he didn't fully open up to me so I always felt that there was this separation and it's because of his past but I fell in love this year actually last year and when I did I didn't know how to act because it was far stronger than what I've ever felt before affecting the chemicals in my body and I was completely out of my element I'm still trying to deal with it with a level-headedness
The 1st sign is hard to tell cuz I know someone .. She could never get anyone to commit yet they always brought her around family why she was always confused
@@thejackbutler not even friend zone some of my friends unfortunately guys will tell them they dont want a relationship yet they meet the mom , sisters ,auntie everyone in the family. And they are sleeping with these men . Me personally thats never happend to me but it does happen to other women..
Basically, men have difficulty trusting their intuition, which is why they need to legitimise the emotional intelligence that stems from a natural attraction. There are many levels of attractions, but, there is only one true significant love. Experience with loving yourself first, assists with tuning into your instinctive selective process. Bottom line, your body knows, not your mind. Love is not a thought, it is a feeling. No one really loves someone that is just a good friend, the sexual chemistry must be alive and also, the willingness to accept one another, to work through the relationship. No relationship is perfect.
In part, let him declare that he's the one and wants you as the one. Also take your time - and relate beyond the falling in love phase and see what's there...
@@thejackbutler Oh, I mean try to have high expectations. Your expectations show how you think of us, and probably what you know of yourself and it makes me feel so happy to sense that from you.
The ( extra ) # 4 " untold " hidden sign was , ..... he might want to donate st , the very first donation soon to be made( for the one he loved ) is -------- >> himself . ( from an unknown source of the fact check !.) 😆
Rosalie Avila I appreciate the reflection and honesty of that. It’s not a bad thing. It just may be that there’s a certain amount of that you have to learn to give yourself?
I spent over half my life with one man . I went to school with a guy we had the same last name. I didnt trust him at that time . Years later we kept running into each other.. he would always tell me how beautiful I am , and we are soulmates .. I love him , hes my friend I feel so comfortable with. My life was falling apart and so was I. I didnt tell him. Now hes with someone I'm so happy for him. I cannot move forward.. I dont have any contact with my ex.. he almost DESTROYED me. After realizing my ex was always a monster. I finally felt passion for the first time. But the situation ...it could never happen
So men don't marry for love? Men don't marry women because they *genuinely* love them? So what's the point? If marriage is only a convenient living situation and has no significance to half the poeple out there then what's the point? This video is clearly not about people that are looking for actual, full love. This video is about falling in lust. Smh.
Krisi Alayna Did you watch til the end? We are saying that real compatibility is not just loving someone, not that marriage shouldn’t involve love. It’s the difference between being necessary and being sufficient. Falling in love isn’t sufficient.
@@thejackbutler It should be. Falling in love shouldn't be something that happens every few months with a random person you happened to cross paths with. The video makes it sound like people fall in love based solely on physical attraction. Maybe I'm the one with odd morals but falling in love is supposed to be special, meaningful, and sufficient enough to accept the other person for who they are. There are times when people fall in love with someone that is mean, abusive, or just overall unhealthy but that shouldn't be the norm. If people are always falling in love with someone that is truly not compatible with them then something is wrong with the heart/mind/spirit of those individuals. Falling in love shouldn't be like tripping on a sidewalk. It's supposed to be a profound feeling that wakes us up to the infinite beings that we truly are. This video seems to perpetuate the idea that love is finite and the deepest of connections are manufactured by convenience. Love isn't something that is insufficient. Love conquers all. It is a constant. If love is showing up as something that has an inevitable ending or as something that isn't enough then what you're witnessing is not really love. It's attraction, chemistry, infatuation, and desire, but it's not love.
Not anymore it's always what can you do for me or what can I get from you...that's of the past the world is full of psychopaths..sociopaths..and all types of narcissists...
Jack pls discuss about the long term relationship in long distance relationship thanks for this topic ,I ask question Jack is really hard to two people become one .when both side are have past marriage? And fall in love ?
shashakeeleh Yes, we won’t record with this setup in future, we’ll go back to lapel mics (problem that my new iPhone doesn’t take that feed, so we didn’t have the connecting cable 😅)
The movie 9 1/2 weeks shows a one dimensional relationship. The end scene is her leaving him and he just then behind to talk about his life. To little to late.
I'm sorry, just giving my feedback. I cannot relate to your partner at all. I really tried to. I feel like you're more from the heart and open, he's more from the head and (again sorry, but that's my impression) trying to sell something. Thumbs up anyways, as always.
Thanks for the thumbs up. We may have different vibes and I’ve found that it can be synergistic and complementary. And fine that you experience it as you do, tnx for sharing 🙏
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Ironic enough im not friends with those women anymore and they weren't real friends when I think about it. .
crystal vouse Fair enough. Let me know if there’s anything coming up for you around this topic
We really can’t hide it when we’re feeling it deeply 🤗
Hey Mat! Totally!
Love is loving someone who is perfectly imperfect and accepting his/her flaws in a healthy relationship and be accountable and work on improving every aspect of yourself....
Lovely video thanks guys, number 4 sign: he blocks you everywhere on social media lol he's running scared . I like being alone. I enjoy my own company. I just want to share my good life with someone.
Thanks for the feedback! And the additional point! Yes, c/overt social media dynamics is deffo part of the scene now. Hoping you get more of what you want.
We need more conscious men like you Jack & Clayton 💜 Thank you!
Ilknur Aktas - The Art of Wisdom Hey Ilknur! Thank you 🌟. Doing our best :)
Loving the comments and response on this so far. Thanks for having me on your channel, Jack.🖖
Clayton Olson Coaching Thanks for coming on! And for all your original encouragement to take UA-cam seriously 🙏
@@thejackbutlerButler and your Meteoric RISE on UA-cam. Wonderful witnessing buddy.
Clayton Olson Coaching Well you knew me when my almost 100 videos over the years had yielded 63 subscribers! and helped me realize I hadn’t been consistent and really applied myself ⭐️
Dang why are all these male coaches so hot ?!?!
SleeplessinOC 🤓
Awakened hotness lol ❤ ❤
12.20 onward = BEST ADVICE I've heard in 2 years of watching dating vids
Neets Thank you! Glad you hung around for that piece
Jack you are so eloquent in your vocabulary and delivery. I love it
Great stuff guys!
Appreciated! :)
I adore your work Jack and your subject appropriate guests. People just need to be wary of love bombing and that you’re not bowled over by it and taken on a path you don’t want to go. Make sure it’s not all about his life and what he wants. Easy trap to overlook.
Guys that is so Good, thank you :)
Especially the part about the "Why"?
The answer to that question will determine the type of relationship, and the type of men as well.
Esther Gdn Hey Esther, thank you! Glad the why/foundation piece resonated with you 🙏
You guys feed so well off of each other. The inspiration is contagious!
Diana Mary Glad you’re feeling that. Been very grateful for our work together 🙏
Thanks Diana! yeah, my thinking expands when with Jack Butler.
@@claytonolsoncoaching And we all benefit. :)
Clayton Olson Coaching 🙏
really profound ending there. I think that encapsulates a lot of people's dilemmas
I love your content but HATE the ads that pop up unexpectedly and startled me.
For women it's simple. A+B=C. Men make it complicated like Ax+Bx-Dx=Cy^3 which pretty much isn't solvable. It can only turn into several different equations.
Krisi Alayna I hear you. I think I am encouraging women who want serious relationship to find a guy who’s at a stage that is A+B=C
@@thejackbutler it seems like there are very few, if any, that are around my age, at the stage, and interested in me.
Even if they are at that stage they, are around my age, and interested in me, they don't communicate it so I wouldn't know.
Love it! Your content dives deep. “Can you wake each other up?” Exactly! I’ve learned a lot about myself from my ex. Again & again.
And your question of why we want relationship? That can change with different life stages, right?
Katherine Bishop Thank you! Glad you liked the piece on whether we can wake each other up. Yes, think it can definitely evolve 🙏
Jack Butler, or devolve...lol
Awesome video!! 🙏 Questioning why you want to be in a relationship and who you want to do the deeper work with - that is great advice and really helps in looking at relationships differently and if it’s the right relationship. Thanks so much! ❤️😃
Summer A Thanks Summer! Glad that perspective resonated so much 🙏🌟
This was so effective and helpful 😊 thank you!
Yay!
3 months in. He’s doing all of this and more I’m the one holding back a bit. Can’t quite believe it. Are we falling in love or just the idea and the limerence He took the lead in asking for exclusivity, lanellling us BF/GF. Making future plans. We spend a lot of time together doing a variety of things. Meeting friends and family. Might I suggest an episode on when to say ‘I love you ‘
You guys are so helpful to women. I’ve not given a lot of thought about my love life. Your guy talks have been an awakening and I find myself enjoying all the nuances of love. It’s become fascinating to me. Thank you! 🌹
Love this video...helped me realize that I do have a mature relationship with my guy. Thanks
Awesome - glad it was confirming for you 🙏
I completely understand what you're saying I I've been married three times and my third marriage was my best marriage my husband my third husband was a good daddy and a good husband good provider but he didn't fully open up to me so I always felt that there was this separation and it's because of his past but I fell in love this year actually last year and when I did I didn't know how to act because it was far stronger than what I've ever felt before affecting the chemicals in my body and I was completely out of my element I'm still trying to deal with it with a level-headedness
Perfect reflection of true romance!
Kim Gordon Thank you! 🙏
Jacks channel is one of the best.
Thank you for your guidance!!
You're welcome Claudia!
My boyfriend is humble and when I don't see him 🤣 for a while 🙂 and he finally sees me I,it's like he wants to be with me forever ,lol😍
The 1st sign is hard to tell cuz I know someone .. She could never get anyone to commit yet they always brought her around family why she was always confused
Hey Crystal - interesting - yeah, I can see that, the honorary family member who's maybe more in the friendzone or somesuch?
@@thejackbutler not even friend zone some of my friends unfortunately guys will tell them they dont want a relationship yet they meet the mom , sisters ,auntie everyone in the family. And they are sleeping with these men . Me personally thats never happend to me but it does happen to other women..
Friends with benefits...
@@crystalvouse7015 Truth... 💯💯
Greetings Jack and friend!
Hey Niki! Thanks!
Lovely video! Thanks for sharing!
You're welcome! Thank you :)
So good! Thank you gentlemen ;)
Diana Mary Thank you Diana!
Basically, men have difficulty trusting their intuition, which is why they need to legitimise the emotional intelligence that stems from a natural attraction. There are many levels of attractions, but, there is only one true significant love. Experience with loving yourself first, assists with tuning into your instinctive selective process. Bottom line, your body knows, not your mind. Love is not a thought, it is a feeling. No one really loves someone that is just a good friend, the sexual chemistry must be alive and also, the willingness to accept one another, to work through the relationship. No relationship is perfect.
Jennifer McKinley Thanks for the share, lots of great points in here 🙏
So there's no such thing as love at all? Or it's just men who are not really capable of love at all? :)
How to know if he is the one and he love you deply
In part, let him declare that he's the one and wants you as the one. Also take your time - and relate beyond the falling in love phase and see what's there...
Wow this was amazing!
Thank you!!
Thanks for having high expectations for your viewers. You probably don't have to try.
Skweepa 🙏 You mean try to have expectations? Or try in my love life?
@@thejackbutler Oh, I mean try to have high expectations.
Your expectations show how you think of us, and probably what you know of yourself and it makes me feel so happy to sense that from you.
You both have such greatt chemistry
Thanks!
Does this happen with Narcs & emotionally unavailable men too? Right...that's what I thought...
You are both so lovely and great!! I love your videos!
Hey Rozsa, thank you! I appreciate that :)
The ( extra ) # 4 " untold " hidden sign was , ..... he might want to donate st , the very first donation soon to be made( for the one he loved ) is -------- >> himself . ( from an unknown source of the fact check !.) 😆
What if he trips, forgets where he left stuff, and he get all clumsy, giggly.
Hes probably drunk....
I asked myself the question, as to why do I want to be in a relationship? My answer is " I want to feel loved and cared for" is that a bad thing?
Rosalie Avila I appreciate the reflection and honesty of that. It’s not a bad thing. It just may be that there’s a certain amount of that you have to learn to give yourself?
@@thejackbutler yes I do that for myself as well, but it's not the same❤
@@divarose2017 I hear you. Just inviting your inquiry. *Sometimes* that can mean there's a kind of self-love that you haven't hit upon yet.
No it is not a bad thing
Good video
I spent over half my life with one man . I went to school with a guy we had the same last name. I didnt trust him at that time . Years later we kept running into each other.. he would always tell me how beautiful I am , and we are soulmates .. I love him , hes my friend I feel so comfortable with.
My life was falling apart and so was I. I didnt tell him. Now hes with someone I'm so happy for him. I cannot move forward.. I dont have any contact with my ex.. he almost DESTROYED me.
After realizing my ex was always a monster. I finally felt passion for the first time. But the situation ...it could never happen
So men don't marry for love? Men don't marry women because they *genuinely* love them? So what's the point? If marriage is only a convenient living situation and has no significance to half the poeple out there then what's the point? This video is clearly not about people that are looking for actual, full love. This video is about falling in lust. Smh.
Krisi Alayna Did you watch til the end? We are saying that real compatibility is not just loving someone, not that marriage shouldn’t involve love. It’s the difference between being necessary and being sufficient. Falling in love isn’t sufficient.
@@thejackbutler It should be. Falling in love shouldn't be something that happens every few months with a random person you happened to cross paths with. The video makes it sound like people fall in love based solely on physical attraction. Maybe I'm the one with odd morals but falling in love is supposed to be special, meaningful, and sufficient enough to accept the other person for who they are. There are times when people fall in love with someone that is mean, abusive, or just overall unhealthy but that shouldn't be the norm. If people are always falling in love with someone that is truly not compatible with them then something is wrong with the heart/mind/spirit of those individuals. Falling in love shouldn't be like tripping on a sidewalk. It's supposed to be a profound feeling that wakes us up to the infinite beings that we truly are. This video seems to perpetuate the idea that love is finite and the deepest of connections are manufactured by convenience. Love isn't something that is insufficient. Love conquers all. It is a constant. If love is showing up as something that has an inevitable ending or as something that isn't enough then what you're witnessing is not really love. It's attraction, chemistry, infatuation, and desire, but it's not love.
@@KristinAlayna I agreed with most but not your last sentence. Not always true.
I.dont think love exist.
Amy Woodard What’s your experience?
Love stinks
Ali Baba I wonder if love can smell a lot of ways?
Not anymore it's always what can you do for me or what can I get from you...that's of the past the world is full of psychopaths..sociopaths..and all types of narcissists...
Jack pls discuss about the long term relationship in long distance relationship thanks for this topic ,I ask question Jack is really hard to two people become one .when both side are have past marriage? And fall in love ?
Brilliant
Andrea Faes Thanks Andrea!
This is the best video..love...all truth....
Marcia mellow Thank you! 🙏⭐️
You guys look buff
Love the content but real bad echo.
shashakeeleh Yes, we won’t record with this setup in future, we’ll go back to lapel mics (problem that my new iPhone doesn’t take that feed, so we didn’t have the connecting cable 😅)
@@thejackbutler Understand.
The movie 9 1/2 weeks shows a one dimensional relationship. The end scene is her leaving him and he just then behind to talk about his life. To little to late.
Been a while since I saw that! - think it's shows intense lovership which isn't partnership.
I'm sorry, just giving my feedback.
I cannot relate to your partner at all. I really tried to.
I feel like you're more from the heart and open, he's more from the head and (again sorry, but that's my impression) trying to sell something.
Thumbs up anyways, as always.
Thanks for the thumbs up. We may have different vibes and I’ve found that it can be synergistic and complementary. And fine that you experience it as you do, tnx for sharing 🙏
@@thejackbutler thanks for understanding.
M mmm 🙏
Give me a break
Clayton is a genius
Stop your dissing.
Stuppes
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@@thejackbutler Jack, you crack me up.
Okay Jack who is this other clown in the video? Why?
This isn't a place for name calling, can you clean that up in future? Clayton is my teaching partner.
Be nice
@mi fa so la that was rude
You may not be an energetic match to Clayton. He has plenty of subscribers who are. I hope your weekend gets better. Love and light to you dear. 🌏✌️
The clown you see
Exist in you.
This video is so good!
I love this. Thanks!