Ask these women, if they're so independent and these younger generations believe in equality. How many guys have they asked out on dates and paid for the date? I doubt if any have the courage to deal with constant rejection that guys have to endure, when they show interest in a woman and they're not good enough in this demanding world.
Ask what is their opinion about long distance (international) dating and if for Love they would ever consider changing country and establishing far away from Norway, or if they would never consider moving away (so basically the guy should do it). And make them pick a country where they hypothetically would like to live
I really like those ladies that talked about getting the men in their lives to connect with each other more and generally be emotionally available. That was such a positive and selfless message.
1st rule of dealing with a woman (and some men): Don't believe in what they say. Observe what they do and their surroundings (family, friends, work, etc...)
Absolutely. Though culture in Norway seems more straight-speaking. See these chicks admitted they want a guy with a good job, 10cm taller, "height is important"; in the US they say such things don't matter.
THIS. Including what they say they want. DO NOT think your women is in anyway related to your Mother. Be unbreakable and don't listen to their "I want you to be open and emotional". They do not want that I promise!
@@ivanivan5511 I'm in the US and they say the exact same thing. Tall, and loaded with money. Its the exact same girl, different culture. Obviously fatter and more masculine, but the same values.
Women say that men has to be emotionally available but when men decides to open up, it's often seen as too clingy and needy and the woman decides to leave the man which leads to men closing their feelings even more. Advice for women: Sort out what you really want in a relationship and don't just name a bunch of stuff without real thought behind it. Advice for men: Try and talk about your feelings in a more open way with friends and family so it's not a barrier/hurdle when you are in a relationship.
@@ianarn That's my hypothesis as well, they want to build an inner mental model of your brain, not your knowledge, more like your 'emotional apparatus' . Then they tests you in different scenarios to see if you behave as the model predicts. If not she updates the model with the new info. The model is useful so she can predict and also influence/manipulate our behavior to her benefit.
Absolutely false. If they leave it's for another reason. Most keep to themselves and complain in pubs , bars with guys and look at other women. It cannot work.
I think the selection of interviewees was spot on. It demonstrated beautifly how different the expectations are and what is liked by one isn't always by others. You just have to find the people who vibe with you.
I’m 56 and so glad I’m single , and not worried about impressing anyone … been single for almost 10 years and loving it … no drama , no arguments, no problems , just chilling and doing my thing …
Unlike you i am young but sometimes being alone for a long time makes me depressed. Unfortunately it is very difficult to find friends in my country or I cannot make them.
For now it may seem good for you, but wait until you're 70+ or when physical constraints start to kick in, like when you'll get to the point where walking is difficult, standing up is difficult. Being old and alone is the worst.
@@none23517 If you're 70+ it doesn't matter. Having nobody to share a life can be miserable for everyone. Rarely there's a person that can "go to their grave" and be fine with loneliness to the very end.
I just got a book from this site, and I’m loving it. Thanks for pointing me in the right direction I’m finally feeling like I can address my fear of women.
@@TheRickfire imo women have reached men in terms of promiscuity and horniness. Women were much much much less sexual 10 years ago. I remember hearing a very progressive man in a documentary say that women still had a lot of catching up in terms of "hornyness" and I heard that and in my mind that was impossible. Yet, the nordic liberal man in the documentary was right in the end.
Sorry i haven’t been on youtube 😅. So im in America But I’ve noticed that doing things for woman like (paying for a date) has somehow become a controversial topic. Woman are more picky and dont seek men based of values but off status and money now. Also ive seen an increase of woman not taking accountability and becoming more sexual while having no shame doing it. Men are struggling to find a good wife and its really sad to see
(A brazilian guy watching this) Astrid and Mia were sooo interesting! And so different from all the other girls. Both of them were talking about things that really matter to make a relationship work, like being communicative, being open to the other person's ideas. Almost all the other girls in the video were just talking about an image of the ideal man, that would make them get closer to an idealization of what they think they should be (that's a recipe for disaster, in my opinion). It was fun to see so much difference between Astrid and Mia and the other girls, and they weren't even the oldest ones. Besides that, I like listening to the language, nice video.
I know that it could be an overlooked topic, but I would like to hear about what young Norwegians read, such as novels, papers and so on. As far as I know, you guys read a lot compared to other European countries. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻
We do read a lot. Women read everything from Fifty Shades to fantasy. Men probably do the same. This is where you find the source of the modern male/female issue. Some men and some women enjoy and embrace the modern reality of one life on earth without religion. SO we have to make the most of it and maximize every second of it. These people are on another existential plane. Exceptionally self-focused. Strong performers and focus everything on being the best version of themselves at everything they do. This is becoming a trend among the generation which just grew up. They simply embrace the reality they live in. Meanwhile the rest of us are slow goers. Who can find peace and tranquility in a good movie, a game, a fantasy book etc. We enjoy sometimes eating junkfood, we simply do not want to stress with life. Taking the slow route in life. Which means we are not the ones who spend days on end in the gym. Nor do we spend every second of our day maximizing gains at whatever we do. It is a huge issue, because these two groups will never get along. Because one will naturally (and rightfully so) feel superior. The younger generation of both men and women do this. I have seen kids who should be in grade school, in the gym talking about diets! There is a lot of women embracing this maximized lifestyle, as women simply are better at catching trends early. Men simply aren't that interested in influencers like the ones who promote these values. However this leaves behind a small group of influential, fit and exceptionally aware guys. Maybe 5% of the male population, which really fit the dream guy tag for women. Say there are 25% of women who enjoy this maximization of life style. Then that means there are 5 hot women per 1 hot guy. Naturally men in general will lose out. It is our own fault for not doing everything we can every hour of the day to become perfect. This obsession with perfection has to start early to succeed. One of the reasons why so many women have eating dissorders, and it doesn't help that models are the ideal for them.
An exceedingly well-made series of interviews, where open-ended questions are quickly followed up on -- a rare combination in this genre of UA-cam channels! Kudos to you and to all the interviewees! 💕
I absolutely love Astrid and Mia's outlook. They completely nailed their points and I 100% support their suggestions. They conveyed their ideas so well. Great girls!
I liked Mia, she is full of positive vibe. But she is lying about ugly funny guys I bet. Many people loved Astrid because she says she is okay with shorter guys. She is with someone but in the beginning of the video she looked at reporters lips several times, so she is not reliable.
bro they are just like the average western women, they say they want a "emotional man who likes to talk about problems" but then if they find a man like that, they consider it a weakness. its the same old song.
Over a few years, I have fallen in love with Norway and everything Norwegian: The fjords, the countryside, the mountains, the people, the culture and mythology, the language, the art, the history, the food, the way of life, the political system, ALL OF IT. I am taken back by the insight and enthusiasm of Astrid and Mia especially. Where I’m from, young women, and people in general, very rarely show the same level of maturity on matters of relationships (amicable and romantic). My life partner may well be in Norway, so thanks for this video, sir!
A very talented interviewer, asking excellent questions and then getting out of the way and to give his subjects the space to answer. He has good follow-up also.
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Saw something the other day: Woman want emotional intelligence in a Man. 'open, emotional, knows his own boundaries, knows how to attain, hold and chooses for his inner peace. But that is also a man that will drop any woman who disturbs his peace due to a lack of emotional intelligence in the woman.
@@ericmieremetwhen we say we want emotional intelligence in a man we just mean a man who knows how to regulate his emotions maturely--i.e. doesn't throw tantrums, punch walls, etc. we dont care for the mushy, gushy woe-is-me shit. leave that for your buddies.
very enlightening video it seems in 2023 in norway 1 of the most egalitarian countries in the world it looks like Norwegian women are starting to lean towards wanting traditional old school men when women in western countries especially Norway are fatherliest from traditional women.
''fatherless'' is also true for scandinavian countries. They are raised by single moms. And these girls are all lying. They wouldn't date a single guy who is not ''model tier'' goodlooking. No matter how he behaves doesn't matter to females. As long as he is attractive and good in bed he can do whatever he wants.@@Comeup2024
Ask the fish how to catch it 😛. They dont even know themselves unfprtunately, stuck up on height, have an attitude. Yet, sometimes I do find good women, like in this vid. 1 normal, the rest either confused and have no clue what to say or simply superficial
@@andrehansen4325 I have had 70 years of London experience and other than the times that they change their mind, overthink things, give 7 reasons to do something and 7 reasons not to,are not sure,are indecisive, they are fine making and sticking to decisions.:)
Hard data on the traits women select for… Short-term mating: 1. Physical attractiveness 2. Dominance and confidence 3. Sexual authority and experience Long-term mating: 1. Emotional stability 2. Ambition and access to financial resources 3. Compatibility of values
Kari has great values in my opinion (I'm a Swedish guy). The really tall girl is not my type at all, too superficial. But it was very fun to hear everyone's opinions.
The difference between 2:30 and 3:40 . The first thing one of them says is that he needs to be goofy and emotionally available and the other basically just says "have money, be a man, be on your game 24/7 and provide for me". Pick your woman carefully guys. They are all women, but some are much better than the others.
that's the same girl. There is a difference between what they want and what they think they want. If you think the first girl only want a "emotionally available, goofy / funny guy who can't provide and act like a teenager" you are wrong.
@@viking6985Pretty sure she said emotionally available and goofy/funny but you totally made up the other stuff which is completely unrelated. You can be funny and not act like a teenager. You can be emotionally available and be a responsible adult (in fact I would say you're not really an adult if not emotionally mature).
It's interesting how biology is synced in us despite our cultural differences/social engineering which also plays a role. I live in Germany and am born and raised in Greece yet I have heard the same statements from girls from every country concerning ( height, money, confidence etc...). Bottom line is women want men who can basically outsmart them, outearn them and low key overpower them physically if necessary ( fitness plays that role here and genes of course that is why height is important ) to feel safe and have respect for the guy. If not then sooner or later it is not going to work out. So when ladies are talking 50 50 they lowkey want dominance from the other side and basically have reasons to struggle to get there in my honest opinion and although our 'progressed' society implies the 50 50 rule women still seek out the other 70 30 guy.
Feminism is a recipe for an unhappy future for women, since it teaches them to suppress their own nature. Also because demanding rights without the equivalent duties and sacrifices that come along is unrealistic and unfeasible. So when they have to pay the price of the duties and sacrifices of the so-called rights they've demanded they are frustrated.
@siliconiusantogramaphantis2122 Like Freud has always said the women are looking for the D. Yes, SIZE MATTERS to them: this EXPLAINS why they doN'T want a short guy. (Ha! Ha!) Ken, Toronto, CANADA
This is the best interview of its kind I’ve ever seen. The answers are honest, logical and proof that “all women are not alike.” I am super impressed with Norwegian women! You would get much more shallow, entitled, gold-digger answers in the US, for example. These women are gorgeous and feminine, yet confident and assertive. Wow! 🥰
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
As a generalization, this 69-year-old Londoner agrees with the phrase "Women like to chat, gossip and talk" while Men "Exchange Information" as in a typical Male-To-Male phone conversation: First Male "Hello, Mate, all right? " Second Male: Yes, Thanks, mate, and you ?" First Male: All Good, what time are we meeting at the Pub tomorrow night?" Second Male: "About 9.00pm" First Male"Great. See you then!" Second Male "Bue! " THE END FEmale to FEmale: Still Chatting 30 minutes later and then when you ask The Woman would they chatted about for so long, they reply "Nothing In Particular!" LOL
i agree with your take. I am still amazed at my wife's conversation style with her friends. They don't seem to exchange any actual information. i could never participate in their conversations. This creates a problem when several couples socialize. If no split between men and women occurs, the conversation becomes dominated by the women, who talk about their stuff, in their style, and the guys say very little, because it's not their kind of chat. Sometimes it's the guys' conversation that takes off and the women soon leave to have their own conversation. I don't think there is any point in fighting this. Mostly, conversation makes most sense within same sex groups, not mixed sex groups.
@@ogunsiron2 One year on and nothing has changed, my friend. lol Do your own social survey while driving down your High Street etc. Observe the first 20 Women, say 30 or Under, and I will guarantee, that at least 17 of them, or 85% will be using their phone in some capacity. It's like an obsession. 5 years ago,I had the severe misfortune to endure a 25-minute journey surrounded by 5 pairs of Women, all independent of each other. I did not notice one pause in any of their conversations. I haven't fully recovered from the trauma of that ride.My ears certainly havem't 😀😀
I do view this as failed biology in some way. Some men don't develop any skills. They just are used to being seen as too useful when even the modern man has become lazy and not useful otherwise. No wonder that modern women state they wish they had/desire a man who just actually desires them, tries to please them a bit, and talks to them a bit more, rather than one who 'thinks he is playing a role' and 'thinks he is being smart' when he is technically failing, it makes sense. If everyone has more choices and competition, it makes sense you should do more than simply shave your head and act like an uncaring low iq imo. Such men only seem to have a few stereotypes but there is no purpose in a modern sense to it, most of them are not soldiers or utilizing it. I like to use the example, how many men can do 30 pullups? Well I was so late to fitness, and it seems like most of them only do average like 4 to 8, even if they look like they have those manly curves, a lot of them fail. Why? It's modern and they had no stress, full nutrition and food, and other factors. I only started fitness way late and like 1-2 years ago, and I now do 30. It may also be true that some women are brainless and that sometimes verbosity is important, and maybe they failed to realize why that is so important. It sort of goes both ways because the modern society is so nihilistic. But sometimes communicating of important details is important, and sometimes it is better to avoid it. This is ironically a skill that many people overlook or they can get away with it. Women are supposed to like sex and like relationships. Instead I think most of them are being scammed and the men they are with are uncaring and not good enough, so they leave feeling used, not liking men as much, seeking something else, perhaps even brainwashed eventually, beacuse the men were such failures. Even myself, who had above average IQ, tend to avoid too many male friends. But imo it's because the man is so uncaring and thinks the wrong things, they just really failed at a lot of things (by their Dunning-Kruger effect); there are actually men who make a proper relationship. While the smart ones do realize that they are not so special, imo it is 'coping' in a sense, because there are men, usually not ones who had the easiest time by instantly becoming tall or other things early in life, who do develop those skills; usually beacuse we felt we are not good enough. It is just more rare. That is why we develop better skills. That is also why educated women actually have a point. Many men like yourself likely just sit back and did nothing, then feel entitled to it, and maybe in a country like that the women just accept their gender role as being more useless and submissive. Meanwhile you fell behind a lot of men who are simply better quality because we worked for it and exceeded the lazy ones by literally 100% or more. They think they are also better because of the fact they biologically can cheat to get women that end up not satisfied by them and then you end up with the women who are alone or who don't like sex, prefer not to date, and so on, because of such men who sortof ruined it for them..
I read comments from men saying “there are still genuine women who don’t have unrealistic standards”, but personally I cannot see any differences between them and the other ones. They said they want tall, attractive masculine men with high social status, just like any other women from another nation.
All women in the western world have such inflated egos and self-importance. They want the best of the best which is 0.1% of the population, but then the wall hits at 34 and they start caring less about finding Greek Gods.
at least 2 of the women wanted a regular normal mentally healthy guy who communicates and unlike many women who say this, they seemed like they'd really appreciate it. I think those same 2 were quite open to shorter guys. The 3 city girls were the most superficial.
I have lived in Norway for 27 years. I have had 3 different Norwegian girls for 25 years. I think Norwegian girls are the kindest and most beautiful girls in the world. They understand love and understand if you just want a girlfriend. I wanted to live a stable life and tried to show my girl that I loved her. But I was young and made several mistakes as well. The only thing that was difficult to understand was that they think and think very much especially when it comes to sex. But I learned that too and did my best to get my girl and be satisfied and happy. Norwegian people are extremely kind and good-hearted people. I still love them and wish I could rewind time and work less and be with my girl more.
Some video ideas: - Ask people how they met their boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband - Ask people what they think of USA and Americans Takk! One day I will get good at speaking Norsk. Thank you again for sharing Norwegian Opinion with us
These are great video ideas! I will make both of them. Thanks for the valuable feedback. It's very nice to hear you want to learn Norsk. I hope our videos will help you get better :)
What do you mean Americans? There is not one thing that comes to mind when thinking about Americans because it is a multiracial country and there is no one look to an American.
It sounds very much like Swedish, its not much different. But there is nothing to do with German, I’m a native German speaker and I understand just some stuff because I learn Swedish.
Mia is the cutest... and also seems to have the sweetest personality.. 👍 Hopefully she finds a good match... The guy who gets her will be one very lucky dude.
The younger girls seem to have a better grasp of what really matters in a relationship, and life in general if we're being honest, than the older girls. Is it a generational thing or just their personalities/character traits?
I saw those other women. Before they speak. They just scream feminism on them. Those 3 and the tall one, yeah. I didn't expect anything else. There's good and bad people, just easier to see bad people. Do they still got some good qualities? Maybe... still it just screams entitlement and they look quite manly how they carry themselves. It's not a good bet.
In general, these aren't unreasonable takes. I definitely don't agree with all of them. But overall not bad. I did appreciate that they all seemed like complex people. I also appreciated that there were no leading questions. A wider range in age would be nice for next time. Also different questions than only dating questions in other videos would keep me coming back. If your videos are only dating related than I won't stick around.
What makes this video awesome is that you have a strong power of listening, and wait for them to be done before asking another question, thanks for that
I just realized the height thing is funny when most women want a taller man but many of those women also wear high heals and platform shoes a lot as well.
You would think a 5'10 woman wouldnt be wearing 6 inch stilettos if she wants to attract a man. Height preference works both ways. Yet I see tons of girls walking around unaware it is turning most men off.
In my high school girls always say bad things about short dudes but they still madly love the short popular dude. I’m sure many famous short actors get tall lovers frequently
Trust me, if you spoke Norwegian you would not consider this beautiful language, some of them are clearly drunk as hell and the others are using a ton of slang. Only two of them speak a relatively consistent dialect. The subtitles are doing a lot of heavy lifting for their coherence.
I was surprised at how mature and aware of adult life these young women are. You definitely do not get that vibe when you see them out in a club. It seems like people need better social settings to really get to know each other.
I don't mean to sound like I'm coping and I know at the end of the day basically all girls do it to some extend but I will say it's relieving that the ones who cared most about things like height were also the ones that looked the most excessively and superficially overdressed and covered with makeup
15:37 the girl says: “we should go back to more traditional approach and men must be more traditional. Does that mean she will fulfill her feminine traditional role?
@@Ufu4847obviously not (she won't). First getting drunk and Oslo partying. Traditional values after 30 years of age😉Or more like 35+ now(2020+). It is what it is.
It's statistically pretty likely she will fit into a traditional gender role to a degree. This is the type of country-girl from the Isolated fjords (her dialect, and she wants a country "boy", meaning man) who gets 2+ kids, but prefers to combine modern feminism with more traditional gender roles, and works at a high-paying job as well (must be stressful). She probably expects to spend far more time with her kids than her husband so he can provide for a big detached house he will regularly maintain and renovate as he works overtime as a prestigious electrician or something.
Somehow stumbled upon this and it made me happy to be honest. Compare this video to similar ones from the US "market" and you`ll be flabbergasted by the difference. Approach and maturity of the interviewer and intelligence of women who actually have a personality, compared to sad and pathetic overly sexualized US youth, is something to ponder upon.. These women literally think and form sentences before speaking. Good job, Europe, there is hope.
Doesnt mean they do better than us girls in the dating scene... I lived in Poland for 3 years. Girls are real beauties, educated, well read blabla... BUT their love/sex life is chaos. They fuck the same mofos, are also stucked in situationships with fuckboys, date for status, use their satellites in a kind way...
ALL of that shit is a lie. Here in the states it's the same thing with white liberals saying blacks deserve everything, yet they themselves live in areas 15km from any black people. Same with mass migration of fighting age men from the 3rd world, they say they want all of them and more, but never have anything to do with them or give up anything they have for them. All leftist "progressive" doctrine is bullshit.
Well done. Your interviewing skills are above average. Great questions, flow, no one got too uncomfortable and you let them speak. And yes.the current dilemma I believe is as you suggested... too many options. With the lack of time and energy required to meet new people, there is a lack of investment and therefore perceived value in potential partners, easier to believe The grass is always greener, so to speak. And wow, lovely girls.
"He" must be loyal, funny, serious, good-looking is a bonus, confident, sensitive, communicative, strong, independent, emotional. With other words: A. An arxehole (which she thinks she can improve/train/change), or B. a boring slouch (someone who always makes the same jokes forever, but she will only know this 20 years later). Same as everywhere.
The two girls at 7:02 are simply cute and beautiful human beings not just because of their looks, but also because of their honest and kind attitude. I hope her boyfriend always treats her like a queen. Unfortunately, there aren’t many girls like these two any more. And if you‘ll meet one, she always has a boyfriend.
European, Arabic, Slavic, Asian, African men are share thing in common. We size each other up and look for 3 things: 1. Emotional stability 2. Genetics 3. Strength
119 subscribers with 5.5k views !?! wow , bruh you need to step up your game and post more , because it's obvious that people are fascinated by a Norwegian asking for dating advice from Norwegian girls.
Do the same interview in the US. The average woman here is not as eloquent, feminine, nor fit as these women but have higher and more unreasonable standards...
they look the same as women in the US lol idk what you’re talking about, they’re pretty much equal across the board. You’re acting like America is some third world LEDC country
Lol. Scandinavia is officially the most feminist region in the world. What American women tolerate from American men, a Norwegian woman wouldn’t spend even 2 seconds
IMO the american women can't even compete with the average european let alone Nordic women which are known to be the most feminine and beautiful women in the world.
@@theegyptianconqueror7100 I’m a European, and in addition to other neighboring countries on my continent, I have also met many other countries and cultures in the world.
Watching this as an American man, I found some of the responses about education and career field very refreshing. If I spoke the language, I would have enjoyed doing these interviews. The responses were very good and I think I would have some more follow-up questions. I think that the girl who said she would enjoy a "goofy" guy (Mia) would get along with me, because she also said looks were not real important.
Perhaps a Scandinavian thing, you and all the women in the video seemed to me to be very self reflective and introspective about things. Interestingly, the young women too! No fumbling, elaborated each key word they spoke in detail. On the other hand, you enabled that kind of conversation and carefully listened to things. Followed up with great questions. Seeing you all, no wonder Norway is consistently a top nation every year in all key metrics such as happiness, democracy, human rights, development etc.
Interesting comment because I noticed this in a program with two identical twin who got adopted; one in Norway and one in the US. Both girls were quite similar. Not surprising given that they were identical, but I do remember the girl adopted to Norway was a lot more introspective than the American girl. But I think the American girl was more outgoing. You could see a bit why though when you followed their upbringing. American girl got driven to a lot of organized activities. A lot of action with other people all the time. The Norwegian girl roamed around a lot more on her own. She would go into an abandoned house and explore it, or just bike around the hillside or whatever. She did much less organized activity and spent more time by herself reflecting on things. I do remember that from growing up myself in Norway and my experience in the US. It is much more action and activity focused in the US. In Norway I think being bored is almost seen as something positive. You like kids to figure out what they want to do themselves. Take their own initiative. And I noticed we probably have more autonomy as children in Norway. We can go a lot more around on our own without supervision.
@@eosohand Yes, problem is that people with citizenship in other Nordic countries, can freely come and go as they please in Norway. Immigrants that's gotten a citizenship in Sweden, can live in Norway, Finland, Denmark and Iceland whenever they want to because of the treaty. I can go and live in Denmark if I choose just with my Norwegian citizenship. Right now I live in Italy, and have an Italian citizenship which unlocks a lot of EU countries that I can move to live in if I want to in the future.
My first wife was Norwegian, I'm an American of Latin heritage. We were fun together until it wasn't. Traveling and partying was fun, but we had different expectations of our marriage. Norwegian are different in positive ways. I read perceptions and comments from Americans. TBH dating Norwegian, Scandinavian and northern European women is dramatically different than American women, generally speaking of course. There's definitely better communication if you, the American man, are a articulate & not weak or needy. Norway is quite egalitarian in this sense. A strong woman is something I find attractive. Don't be intimated. That's on you, not her. Know that's she's attractive & loves being desired. I was a hustler in my 20s as we traveled. I worked as a bouncer, night club doorman, club promotions, waiter, open market jewelry vender, English teacher, in Spain. And when we lived in Norway I made fiberglass speedboats by day and taught business English at the Folketsuniversitet in Oslo. So, being fun, confident, outgoing, ambitious and "fun" is something that Scandinavian women find attractive, but that's most women. Point is, there's no hack to relationships. Be the most evolved verse of yourself that you can be. My my wife, current & final ;) haha, is definitely an Alpha American woman. Definitely more attractive & earned more than me, about double my salary. She intimates most men, not me. We're both independently wealthy. She doesn't need me in her life and I'm not looking to rescue her. We chose each other and we love and respect one another. I drive her crazy. I joke and say, "I know my wife loves me, but I'm quite certain she doesn't like me much" LOL! But she understands my need to go do martial arts everyday. I understand her need to have everything in order and immaculate. I'm the cuddler, chatty katty at the end of the day and she's the quiet stoic one that just wants peace and quiet. We're definitely yin to each other's yang. Regardless of nationality, culture, ethnicity, religion we need to stop seeking Mr or Ms Right. We need to go out and find someone just as F-ed up as you are who's willing to put up when your s#!+ & who's s#!+ you can accept if and when they never change. Best of luck finding love from a recovered globetrotting, perpetual Peter Pan bachelor.
As a Russian, I feel like this brilliant interview was conducted in my country (I expect the same answering from the girls here). It was very interesting to watch
I dated my ex who was 6ft I am 5'10/5'11ish and only my height became a problem after we broke up. Funny that after 2 years it wasn't a problem before. lol
Dutch is a far cousin of Norwegian. Even some words seem the same when pronounced, but still, Norwegian is very different. I had a friend in Norway when I was a child, and remember the word straks, which in Norwegian means something like 'strak aansluitend' or inmediate'. In Dutch means soon but not immediate. But if one would look technically at the Dutch language, strak aansluitend (immediate) would be a more logical meaning for the word just from a literal language point. Also, we have some Russian, slavic, Scandinavian words, french and German words in our language if one would look carefully. Advocat (advocaat) in Dutch and Russian is exactly the same meaning, meaning a lawyer, and I can continue for some time.
I work security at Epcot (Walt Disney World) at Norway...it's hard to stay focused with all the beautiful tall, blonde haired, blue eyed Norwegian girls there. They are all so nice and polite and also have such cool personalities. If I was a younger single guy I'd definitely be politely asking a couple of them out.
great new channel. I was in Norway this summer I hope you ask them attraction long-term vs short-term partners. I think arousal and attraction are separate things. attraction can be more about long-term relationships . arousal is more dating apps/hookups/casual flings . This video was helpful. Could you think of posting a video or two with Norsk and English side by side? maybe you could fit in both texts that would be a great language learning tool . just a thought.
Thank you for watching! Okey, I do understand what you mean. I will try to make a video about that. Yes, it would be a great idea to have both Norwegian and English subtitles at the same time. Thank you for the advice.
I would love to help or provide insight. I was in Norway about 9 days and met many people and was in 4 cities. @@NorwegianOpinionI am learning the language for about 1 year now.
Thank you so much for watching! Remember to like and subcribe, this would really help me out. What would you like to see next?
Ask these women, if they're so independent and these younger generations believe in equality. How many guys have they asked out on dates and paid for the date? I doubt if any have the courage to deal with constant rejection that guys have to endure, when they show interest in a woman and they're not good enough in this demanding world.
@NorwegianOpinion 👉YOU are definitely a descendant of 💪🏾THOR ODINSON 🇸🇪
Ask what is their opinion about long distance (international) dating and if for Love they would ever consider changing country and establishing far away from Norway, or if they would never consider moving away (so basically the guy should do it). And make them pick a country where they hypothetically would like to live
@@iAmJoshC Great idea, will try to make a video about that!
I really like those ladies that talked about getting the men in their lives to connect with each other more and generally be emotionally available. That was such a positive and selfless message.
1st rule of dealing with a woman (and some men): Don't believe in what they say. Observe what they do and their surroundings (family, friends, work, etc...)
Absolutely. Though culture in Norway seems more straight-speaking. See these chicks admitted they want a guy with a good job, 10cm taller, "height is important"; in the US they say such things don't matter.
You're spitting harsh truth bro
THIS. Including what they say they want. DO NOT think your women is in anyway related to your Mother. Be unbreakable and don't listen to their "I want you to be open and emotional". They do not want that I promise!
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@@ivanivan5511 I'm in the US and they say the exact same thing. Tall, and loaded with money. Its the exact same girl, different culture. Obviously fatter and more masculine, but the same values.
Women say that men has to be emotionally available but when men decides to open up, it's often seen as too clingy and needy and the woman decides to leave the man which leads to men closing their feelings even more.
Advice for women: Sort out what you really want in a relationship and don't just name a bunch of stuff without real thought behind it.
Advice for men: Try and talk about your feelings in a more open way with friends and family so it's not a barrier/hurdle when you are in a relationship.
No.
It’s so that they can find out your weaknesses so that they can later manipulate you to get what they want!
@@ianarn That's my hypothesis as well, they want to build an inner mental model of your brain, not your knowledge, more like your 'emotional apparatus' . Then they tests you in different scenarios to see if you behave as the model predicts. If not she updates the model with the new info.
The model is useful so she can predict and also influence/manipulate our behavior to her benefit.
Absolutely false. If they leave it's for another reason. Most keep to themselves and complain in pubs , bars with guys and look at other women. It cannot work.
@@ianarnwomen, the apex predators of the chain
I think the selection of interviewees was spot on. It demonstrated beautifly how different the expectations are and what is liked by one isn't always by others. You just have to find the people who vibe with you.
I’m 56 and so glad I’m single , and not worried about impressing anyone … been single for almost 10 years and loving it … no drama , no arguments, no problems , just chilling and doing my thing …
Unlike you i am young but sometimes being alone for a long time makes me depressed. Unfortunately it is very difficult to find friends in my country or I cannot make them.
For now it may seem good for you, but wait until you're 70+ or when physical constraints start to kick in, like when you'll get to the point where walking is difficult, standing up is difficult. Being old and alone is the worst.
@@Triumphator616 not really. men dont need women in general
@@none23517 If you're 70+ it doesn't matter. Having nobody to share a life can be miserable for everyone. Rarely there's a person that can "go to their grave" and be fine with loneliness to the very end.
@@none23517we do, are you sure you are not gay?
It's really crazy that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles
u sound like a delusional women! lol
I just got a book from this site, and I’m loving it. Thanks for pointing me in the right direction I’m finally feeling like I can address my fear of women.
@@CharlieTheGreatest lol just think of men and take away reason and accountability! = WOMEN!
MOST PEOPLE ARE NOT MENTALLY CHALLENGED.
shut up bot
Ive been in a relationship for almost 9 years and its crazy seeing how the dating scene has changed so much in so little time
What specifically are you seeing that is different? Thanks
Yes, its interesting to actually read about the differences you had noticed, so please share
@@TheRickfire imo women have reached men in terms of promiscuity and horniness. Women were much much much less sexual 10 years ago. I remember hearing a very progressive man in a documentary say that women still had a lot of catching up in terms of "hornyness" and I heard that and in my mind that was impossible. Yet, the nordic liberal man in the documentary was right in the end.
Social media happened, and the illusion of infinite choices. Impossible to please most of them anymore.
Sorry i haven’t been on youtube 😅.
So im in America But I’ve noticed that doing things for woman like (paying for a date) has somehow become a controversial topic. Woman are more picky and dont seek men based of values but off status and money now. Also ive seen an increase of woman not taking accountability and becoming more sexual while having no shame doing it. Men are struggling to find a good wife and its really sad to see
(A brazilian guy watching this) Astrid and Mia were sooo interesting! And so different from all the other girls. Both of them were talking about things that really matter to make a relationship work, like being communicative, being open to the other person's ideas. Almost all the other girls in the video were just talking about an image of the ideal man, that would make them get closer to an idealization of what they think they should be (that's a recipe for disaster, in my opinion). It was fun to see so much difference between Astrid and Mia and the other girls, and they weren't even the oldest ones. Besides that, I like listening to the language, nice video.
Age doesn't equate to much that said... The older generation is inherently more evil and stupid
Yes Mia and Astrid are so refreshing in their point of view. Very common sense and down to earth and not at all superficial.
I think they were also a bit more drunk ;)
Gostei da sua observação! Algumas delas querem um príncipe 👍
O BR sempre nos comentários 😅
Astrid 10/10. Refreshing common sense, little to non makeup, a beautiful normal girl.
she impressed me too. Smart even when drunk
You got the point perfectly
Is it common sense to be a "bitch ass boss" against her shorter boyfriend?
Little to non make up😂 tell me you’re a man without telling me.
yup, she is an elf im an orc
Fascinating to hear their various views and I found it funny to hear so many English words or phrases thrown into the conversation !!
Mia is soulful. She deserves a good partner.
There you go..you have lost already.....you are Mr nice guy..and you lose
I know that it could be an overlooked topic, but I would like to hear about what young Norwegians read, such as novels, papers and so on. As far as I know, you guys read a lot compared to other European countries. Keep up the good work! 👍🏻
Thanks for leaving a comment, I really appreciate the support! Sounds like a really good idea 😀 I will definitely make a video about that topic.
We do read a lot.
Women read everything from Fifty Shades to fantasy.
Men probably do the same.
This is where you find the source of the modern male/female issue.
Some men and some women enjoy and embrace the modern reality of one life on earth without religion.
SO we have to make the most of it and maximize every second of it. These people are on another existential plane.
Exceptionally self-focused. Strong performers and focus everything on being the best version of themselves at everything they do.
This is becoming a trend among the generation which just grew up.
They simply embrace the reality they live in.
Meanwhile the rest of us are slow goers. Who can find peace and tranquility in a good movie, a game, a fantasy book etc.
We enjoy sometimes eating junkfood, we simply do not want to stress with life. Taking the slow route in life.
Which means we are not the ones who spend days on end in the gym. Nor do we spend every second of our day maximizing gains at whatever we do.
It is a huge issue, because these two groups will never get along. Because one will naturally (and rightfully so) feel superior.
The younger generation of both men and women do this. I have seen kids who should be in grade school, in the gym talking about diets!
There is a lot of women embracing this maximized lifestyle, as women simply are better at catching trends early.
Men simply aren't that interested in influencers like the ones who promote these values.
However this leaves behind a small group of influential, fit and exceptionally aware guys. Maybe 5% of the male population, which really fit the dream guy tag for women. Say there are 25% of women who enjoy this maximization of life style. Then that means there are 5 hot women per 1 hot guy.
Naturally men in general will lose out. It is our own fault for not doing everything we can every hour of the day to become perfect.
This obsession with perfection has to start early to succeed. One of the reasons why so many women have eating dissorders, and it doesn't help that models are the ideal for them.
An exceedingly well-made series of interviews, where open-ended questions are quickly followed up on -- a rare combination in this genre of UA-cam channels! Kudos to you and to all the interviewees! 💕
Glad you enjoyed it!
I absolutely love Astrid and Mia's outlook. They completely nailed their points and I 100% support their suggestions. They conveyed their ideas so well. Great girls!
9:38 is powerful.
I liked Mia, she is full of positive vibe. But she is lying about ugly funny guys I bet. Many people loved Astrid because she says she is okay with shorter guys. She is with someone but in the beginning of the video she looked at reporters lips several times, so she is not reliable.
@@cagdasnarin525She also like to be a "boss ass bitch" towards her shorter boyfriend.
what the fuck? Looking at lips is very normal lol@@cagdasnarin525
bro they are just like the average western women, they say they want a "emotional man who likes to talk about problems" but then if they find a man like that, they consider it a weakness. its the same old song.
You guys have such a BEAUTIFUL language.
It's cool to ignore the captions and try to imagine "what are they talking about?".
Nordic languages seem difficult to pronounce.
Over a few years, I have fallen in love with Norway and everything Norwegian: The fjords, the countryside, the mountains, the people, the culture and mythology, the language, the art, the history, the food, the way of life, the political system, ALL OF IT. I am taken back by the insight and enthusiasm of Astrid and Mia especially. Where I’m from, young women, and people in general, very rarely show the same level of maturity on matters of relationships (amicable and romantic).
My life partner may well be in Norway, so thanks for this video, sir!
A very talented interviewer, asking excellent questions and then getting out of the way and to give his subjects the space to answer. He has good follow-up also.
If a man "opens up" he usually finds out it was a mistake.
Truth
I tryed opening up very time i wanted girl to leave me, it didnt worked so well tbh :D
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Saw something the other day:
Woman want emotional intelligence in a Man.
'open, emotional, knows his own boundaries, knows how to attain, hold and chooses for his inner peace.
But that is also a man that will drop any woman who disturbs his peace due to a lack of emotional intelligence in the woman.
@@ericmieremetwhen we say we want emotional intelligence in a man we just mean a man who knows how to regulate his emotions maturely--i.e. doesn't throw tantrums, punch walls, etc. we dont care for the mushy, gushy woe-is-me shit. leave that for your buddies.
The *host* is actually showing some decent emotion himself. For the first time interacting-he seems to be doing quite a gregarious job. 🤣
The way she said “Anna “
My heart ❤️
Anna and Ella, despite their younger ages, are more mature than all of the others. They are very respectful and open, yet very wise.
This language is a trip. Beautiful and fun people. Great questions and dialogue from the interviewer.
Many different dialects with quite different "melodies".
very enlightening video it seems in 2023 in norway 1 of the most egalitarian countries in the world it looks like Norwegian women are starting to lean towards wanting traditional old school men when women in western countries especially Norway are fatherliest from traditional women.
Furthest/farthest.
Seems the same as US girls tbh. They want all the same traits.
Step aside soy boys, they want BBC.
@@jaybee2402I was also confused by his wording lol
''fatherless'' is also true for scandinavian countries. They are raised by single moms. And these girls are all lying. They wouldn't date a single guy who is not ''model tier'' goodlooking. No matter how he behaves doesn't matter to females. As long as he is attractive and good in bed he can do whatever he wants.@@Comeup2024
Men still believing they will understand women by asking them, love this naivety
Ask the fish how to catch it 😛. They dont even know themselves unfprtunately, stuck up on height, have an attitude. Yet, sometimes I do find good women, like in this vid. 1 normal, the rest either confused and have no clue what to say or simply superficial
@@andrehansen4325 I have had 70 years of London experience and other than the times that they change their mind, overthink things, give 7 reasons to do something and 7 reasons not to,are not sure,are indecisive, they are fine making and sticking to decisions.:)
this is why nobody likes being around you btw
Hard data on the traits women select for…
Short-term mating:
1. Physical attractiveness
2. Dominance and confidence
3. Sexual authority and experience
Long-term mating:
1. Emotional stability
2. Ambition and access to financial resources
3. Compatibility of values
Kari has great values in my opinion (I'm a Swedish guy). The really tall girl is not my type at all, too superficial. But it was very fun to hear everyone's opinions.
Fantastic interview technique, awareness , pacing and mic control
Well
Done bruv
Guys, you are young, what a woman likes and what she wants can be two very different things.
And what they need really can be at the opposite. ;)
So suck😂 from Korea
Nice interviews. These ladies are so practical. It's refreshing to hear.
The difference between 2:30 and 3:40 . The first thing one of them says is that he needs to be goofy and emotionally available and the other basically just says "have money, be a man, be on your game 24/7 and provide for me".
Pick your woman carefully guys. They are all women, but some are much better than the others.
that's the same girl. There is a difference between what they want and what they think they want. If you think the first girl only want a "emotionally available, goofy / funny guy who can't provide and act like a teenager" you are wrong.
They r younger that’s why lol 😂
@@viking6985Pretty sure she said emotionally available and goofy/funny but you totally made up the other stuff which is completely unrelated. You can be funny and not act like a teenager. You can be emotionally available and be a responsible adult (in fact I would say you're not really an adult if not emotionally mature).
@viking6985 also to say that "they are the same girl" like all women are the same and don't have personalities is just gross dude
Dude 3:40 didnt say AT ALL "have money and provide" lol
So refreshing to see girls without tattoos and nose rings plus they can conceptualize and talk in full sentences.
What girls say and what they react to emotionally are 2 completely different things
Yea in high school girls always say bad things about short dudes but they still madly love the short popular dude.
@@Twodime4032 what kind of cope is this
@@Twodime4032I think you lying
All Women think the same, doesnt really matter if they from Portugal or Norway.
"Its all about the money" - Money is the main factor.
It's interesting how biology is synced in us despite our cultural differences/social engineering which also plays a role. I live in Germany and am born and raised in Greece yet I have heard the same statements from girls from every country concerning ( height, money, confidence etc...). Bottom line is women want men who can basically outsmart them, outearn them and low key overpower them physically if necessary ( fitness plays that role here and genes of course that is why height is important ) to feel safe and have respect for the guy. If not then sooner or later it is not going to work out. So when ladies are talking 50 50 they lowkey want dominance from the other side and basically have reasons to struggle to get there in my honest opinion and although our 'progressed' society implies the 50 50 rule women still seek out the other 70 30 guy.
This is so true
you nailed it
Feminism is a recipe for an unhappy future for women, since it teaches them to suppress their own nature. Also because demanding rights without the equivalent duties and sacrifices that come along is unrealistic and unfeasible. So when they have to pay the price of the duties and sacrifices of the so-called rights they've demanded they are frustrated.
Most women won't realize this but modern women also equate height with D size nowadays. Many know this but won't say it outright.
@siliconiusantogramaphantis2122 Like Freud has always said the women are looking for the D. Yes, SIZE MATTERS to them: this EXPLAINS why they doN'T want a short guy. (Ha! Ha!) Ken, Toronto, CANADA
This is the best interview of its kind I’ve ever seen. The answers are honest, logical and proof that “all women are not alike.” I am super impressed with Norwegian women! You would get much more shallow, entitled, gold-digger answers in the US, for example. These women are gorgeous and feminine, yet confident and assertive. Wow! 🥰
Ah, you're mostly on your own there buddy
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
That Astrid girl is gorgeous. Looks like from a norwegian fairy tale. Seems super down to earth and smart too. What a catch she would be!
Loved how you managed the questions! Thumbs up!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Yeah--very good job of keeping the questions and answers flowing without interrupting.
As a generalization, this 69-year-old Londoner agrees with the phrase "Women like to chat, gossip and talk" while Men "Exchange Information" as in a typical Male-To-Male phone conversation: First Male "Hello, Mate, all right? " Second Male: Yes, Thanks, mate, and you ?" First Male: All Good, what time are we meeting at the Pub tomorrow night?"
Second Male: "About 9.00pm" First Male"Great. See you then!" Second Male "Bue! " THE END
FEmale to FEmale: Still Chatting 30 minutes later and then when you ask The Woman would they chatted about for so long, they reply "Nothing In Particular!" LOL
Its cuz the conversation is about many things, you don't talk about one thing for half an hour usually 😅 Thought that was common sense lol
@@banjotiki3910 "half an hour". lol
I have witnessed many Women talk about a thing or person for well over 30 minutes😀😀
i agree with your take. I am still amazed at my wife's conversation style with her friends. They don't seem to exchange any actual information. i could never participate in their conversations. This creates a problem when several couples socialize. If no split between men and women occurs, the conversation becomes dominated by the women, who talk about their stuff, in their style, and the guys say very little, because it's not their kind of chat. Sometimes it's the guys' conversation that takes off and the women soon leave to have their own conversation. I don't think there is any point in fighting this. Mostly, conversation makes most sense within same sex groups, not mixed sex groups.
@@ogunsiron2 One year on and nothing has changed, my friend. lol
Do your own social survey while driving down your High Street etc. Observe the first 20 Women, say 30 or Under, and I will guarantee, that at least 17 of them, or 85% will be using their phone in some capacity. It's like an obsession. 5 years ago,I had the severe misfortune to endure a 25-minute journey surrounded by 5 pairs of Women, all independent of each other. I did not notice one pause in any of their conversations. I haven't fully recovered from the trauma of that ride.My ears certainly havem't 😀😀
I do view this as failed biology in some way. Some men don't develop any skills. They just are used to being seen as too useful when even the modern man has become lazy and not useful otherwise. No wonder that modern women state they wish they had/desire a man who just actually desires them, tries to please them a bit, and talks to them a bit more, rather than one who 'thinks he is playing a role' and 'thinks he is being smart' when he is technically failing, it makes sense. If everyone has more choices and competition, it makes sense you should do more than simply shave your head and act like an uncaring low iq imo.
Such men only seem to have a few stereotypes but there is no purpose in a modern sense to it, most of them are not soldiers or utilizing it. I like to use the example, how many men can do 30 pullups? Well I was so late to fitness, and it seems like most of them only do average like 4 to 8, even if they look like they have those manly curves, a lot of them fail. Why? It's modern and they had no stress, full nutrition and food, and other factors. I only started fitness way late and like 1-2 years ago, and I now do 30.
It may also be true that some women are brainless and that sometimes verbosity is important, and maybe they failed to realize why that is so important. It sort of goes both ways because the modern society is so nihilistic. But sometimes communicating of important details is important, and sometimes it is better to avoid it. This is ironically a skill that many people overlook or they can get away with it.
Women are supposed to like sex and like relationships. Instead I think most of them are being scammed and the men they are with are uncaring and not good enough, so they leave feeling used, not liking men as much, seeking something else, perhaps even brainwashed eventually, beacuse the men were such failures. Even myself, who had above average IQ, tend to avoid too many male friends. But imo it's because the man is so uncaring and thinks the wrong things, they just really failed at a lot of things (by their Dunning-Kruger effect); there are actually men who make a proper relationship.
While the smart ones do realize that they are not so special, imo it is 'coping' in a sense, because there are men, usually not ones who had the easiest time by instantly becoming tall or other things early in life, who do develop those skills; usually beacuse we felt we are not good enough. It is just more rare. That is why we develop better skills. That is also why educated women actually have a point. Many men like yourself likely just sit back and did nothing, then feel entitled to it, and maybe in a country like that the women just accept their gender role as being more useless and submissive. Meanwhile you fell behind a lot of men who are simply better quality because we worked for it and exceeded the lazy ones by literally 100% or more. They think they are also better because of the fact they biologically can cheat to get women that end up not satisfied by them and then you end up with the women who are alone or who don't like sex, prefer not to date, and so on, because of such men who sortof ruined it for them..
Digging that Astrid girl - pretty, has a casual look and her points of views aren't all that bad either.
thats why she has a boyfriend lol
Perfect 10/10
I read comments from men saying “there are still genuine women who don’t have unrealistic standards”, but personally I cannot see any differences between them and the other ones. They said they want tall, attractive masculine men with high social status, just like any other women from another nation.
All women in the western world have such inflated egos and self-importance. They want the best of the best which is 0.1% of the population, but then the wall hits at 34 and they start caring less about finding Greek Gods.
I bet you want a pretty girl, isn't it?
at least 2 of the women wanted a regular normal mentally healthy guy who communicates and unlike many women who say this, they seemed like they'd really appreciate it. I think those same 2 were quite open to shorter guys. The 3 city girls were the most superficial.
I have lived in Norway for 27 years. I have had 3 different Norwegian girls for 25 years. I think Norwegian girls are the kindest and most beautiful girls in the world. They understand love and understand if you just want a girlfriend. I wanted to live a stable life and tried to show my girl that I loved her. But I was young and made several mistakes as well. The only thing that was difficult to understand was that they think and think very much especially when it comes to sex. But I learned that too and did my best to get my girl and be satisfied and happy. Norwegian people are extremely kind and good-hearted people. I still love them and wish I could rewind time and work less and be with my girl more.
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You’re massive incel
This was fun :D Thanks for that experience ! Hope there is more to come, gonna follow! :D
Thanks! Really appreciate the kind words ✌️😊
Some video ideas:
- Ask people how they met their boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband
- Ask people what they think of USA and Americans
Takk! One day I will get good at speaking Norsk. Thank you again for sharing Norwegian Opinion with us
These are great video ideas! I will make both of them. Thanks for the valuable feedback. It's very nice to hear you want to learn Norsk. I hope our videos will help you get better :)
@@NorwegianOpinion Adding to that, just ask an opinions on Indians too
@@HipsterBrooo okey
What do you mean Americans? There is not one thing that comes to mind when thinking about Americans because it is a multiracial country and there is no one look to an American.
@@HipsterBroooBhai 😂
The Norwegian language sounds very interesting. Almost like muffled German.
These girls speak muffled Norwegian. The speak a trendy childish version of norwegian.
LIKE A MUFFLED PUSS.
¿Cual otro existe? , y como lo distingues , no se nada de noruega, asi que no des nada por hecho, en alguna explicacion futura. @@Robbinsffxi
It sounds very much like Swedish, its not much different. But there is nothing to do with German, I’m a native German speaker and I understand just some stuff because I learn Swedish.
@@Robbinsffxi Depends on who you're referring to. The twins were speaking a clear, clean western dialect.
The Oslo chicks...sure, lots of slang.
Astrid has the looks but I like Kari's traditionalist attitude.
Mia needs her own channel, I'm a subscriber since yesterday!!!
She's smart and frank. A woman you can trust is rare.
Mia is the cutest... and also seems to have the sweetest personality.. 👍
Hopefully she finds a good match... The guy who gets her will be one very lucky dude.
Very outspoken women in Norway!!! Awesome.
The younger girls seem to have a better grasp of what really matters in a relationship, and life in general if we're being honest, than the older girls. Is it a generational thing or just their personalities/character traits?
I saw those other women. Before they speak. They just scream feminism on them. Those 3 and the tall one, yeah. I didn't expect anything else. There's good and bad people, just easier to see bad people. Do they still got some good qualities? Maybe... still it just screams entitlement and they look quite manly how they carry themselves. It's not a good bet.
@@theegyptianconqueror7100oh damn you went there?
8+ years of hook up culture made them think they're special. The younger one's are not yet ruined by it.
how would that make sense? so you're saying these young woman will have the same views as they get older or it shifts as they get older?
If a woman is older and single, then there is no hope for her. She is angry, bitter and tainted for sure.
I enjoyed this interview bro, keep churning out quality content, I wish you great success.
Women always look at each other when answering questions to check if they’re giving the socially acceptable answer. Pretty funny.
That's because they're lame
and that way they water down everything they talk and believe in their watered down BS.
can't ever get an honest opion off a woman...
1. Money
2. Status
3. Height
pretty simple haha
Lol true🤣
1.Looks
2.Looks
3.Looks
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This is no coincidence.
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Thank you 🙏 Really surprising to see so many people watching my video!
In general, these aren't unreasonable takes. I definitely don't agree with all of them. But overall not bad. I did appreciate that they all seemed like complex people. I also appreciated that there were no leading questions.
A wider range in age would be nice for next time. Also different questions than only dating questions in other videos would keep me coming back. If your videos are only dating related than I won't stick around.
Thank you for the feedback! There will be other topics, than dating. So, stick around! :)
Nice girls... but honestly, I really like the interviewer !
Great patience, questions and attention.
What makes this video awesome is that you have a strong power of listening, and wait for them to be done before asking another question, thanks for that
I just realized the height thing is funny when most women want a taller man but many of those women also wear high heals and platform shoes a lot as well.
You would think a 5'10 woman wouldnt be wearing 6 inch stilettos if she wants to attract a man. Height preference works both ways. Yet I see tons of girls walking around unaware it is turning most men off.
In my high school girls always say bad things about short dudes but they still madly love the short popular dude. I’m sure many famous short actors get tall lovers frequently
@@jamiemohan2049they just rejected Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, and Jack Ma unfortunately.
Never heard Norwegian before but it’s a beautiful language. Norwegian women seem to know what they want 😊
the best comparison I've dated was a Dutch girl. pretty, tall, very straight-talking, good sense of humour, bit arrogant. not my ideal girls really...
Trust me, if you spoke Norwegian you would not consider this beautiful language, some of them are clearly drunk as hell and the others are using a ton of slang. Only two of them speak a relatively consistent dialect. The subtitles are doing a lot of heavy lifting for their coherence.
Hahaha 😂
@@luxborealisyes drunk ha ha ha !
I was surprised at how mature and aware of adult life these young women are. You definitely do not get that vibe when you see them out in a club. It seems like people need better social settings to really get to know each other.
Very true 👍
What mature? what adult? The yhave they same skewed istagram expectations about men and life except maybe 2 of them...
I noticed that being a trait of scandinavian women.
Føink til å intervjue 👍👍
Props til de norske jentene her, dem virker ærlige og ikke urimelige i sine preferanser ❤
Det er oppmuntrende
I don't mean to sound like I'm coping and I know at the end of the day basically all girls do it to some extend but I will say it's relieving that the ones who cared most about things like height were also the ones that looked the most excessively and superficially overdressed and covered with makeup
15:37 the girl says: “we should go back to more traditional approach and men must be more traditional. Does that mean she will fulfill her feminine traditional role?
Norway is a feminist hellhole
@@толянтолянович-н1и They can’t demand traditional role from men if they aren’t traditional themselves.
@@Ufu4847obviously not (she won't). First getting drunk and Oslo partying. Traditional values after 30 years of age😉Or more like 35+ now(2020+).
It is what it is.
It's statistically pretty likely she will fit into a traditional gender role to a degree. This is the type of country-girl from the Isolated fjords (her dialect, and she wants a country "boy", meaning man) who gets 2+ kids, but prefers to combine modern feminism with more traditional gender roles, and works at a high-paying job as well (must be stressful). She probably expects to spend far more time with her kids than her husband so he can provide for a big detached house he will regularly maintain and renovate as he works overtime as a prestigious electrician or something.
Somehow stumbled upon this and it made me happy to be honest. Compare this video to similar ones from the US "market" and you`ll be flabbergasted by the difference. Approach and maturity of the interviewer and intelligence of women who actually have a personality, compared to sad and pathetic overly sexualized US youth, is something to ponder upon.. These women literally think and form sentences before speaking. Good job, Europe, there is hope.
Doesnt mean they do better than us girls in the dating scene... I lived in Poland for 3 years. Girls are real beauties, educated, well read blabla... BUT their love/sex life is chaos. They fuck the same mofos, are also stucked in situationships with fuckboys, date for status, use their satellites in a kind way...
What an authentic and original black Norvegian girl
i need a Astrid in my life xD she is literally a 10/10 for me
Is it possible to believe in body positivity and still rule out men by height? I'm purely curious.
ALL of that shit is a lie. Here in the states it's the same thing with white liberals saying blacks deserve everything, yet they themselves live in areas 15km from any black people. Same with mass migration of fighting age men from the 3rd world, they say they want all of them and more, but never have anything to do with them or give up anything they have for them. All leftist "progressive" doctrine is bullshit.
Well done. Your interviewing skills are above average. Great questions, flow, no one got too uncomfortable and you let them speak.
And yes.the current dilemma I believe is as you suggested... too many options. With the lack of time and energy required to meet new people, there is a lack of investment and therefore perceived value in potential partners, easier to believe The grass is always greener, so to speak. And wow, lovely girls.
Thanks a lot man! Its my first time doing this, always looking to improve 👍 Yes, having to many options can be a real problem
@@ronan2670 thank you very much! :)
Great job on your above average skills lol😅
"He" must be loyal, funny, serious, good-looking is a bonus, confident, sensitive, communicative, strong, independent, emotional.
With other words: A. An arxehole (which she thinks she can improve/train/change), or B. a boring slouch (someone who always makes the same jokes forever, but she will only know this 20 years later).
Same as everywhere.
The two girls at 7:02 are simply cute and beautiful human beings not just because of their looks, but also because of their honest and kind attitude. I hope her boyfriend always treats her like a queen. Unfortunately, there aren’t many girls like these two any more. And if you‘ll meet one, she always has a boyfriend.
European, Arabic, Slavic, Asian, African men are share thing in common.
We size each other up and look for 3 things:
1. Emotional stability
2. Genetics
3. Strength
next video interviewing girls if haaland is attractive PLEASE
This is actually a very funny idea!
He's not
119 subscribers with 5.5k views !?! wow , bruh you need to step up your game and post more , because it's obvious that people are fascinated by a Norwegian asking for dating advice from Norwegian girls.
Gonna step up! 👊
Here's what they like
1. Be attractive
2. Don't be unatrractive
is that not how guys think too?
@@Ashley-fc7kd It's how everybody thinks.
1. make more money then me
2. dont make less money then me
@@stoned8034 you dont need to make a lot of money as long as you are attractive you can date 3 women at once.
@@dbz9393 money you can make, being sexy for me is already impossible xD
I’m russian girl. And I don’t understand why I don’t see comments as “omg so many beautiful girls!”? Why? That’s girls looks amazing!!
Another liar.
They don't
Too masculine
@@user-pf5xq3lq8ir u ill
@@DnxxjndBandxkur black
Great interviewing!!!
Such an interesting language, here 1:56 (for a foreigner) she sounded japanese and italian at the end LOL. Very interesting. Great video btw.
Do the same interview in the US. The average woman here is not as eloquent, feminine, nor fit as these women but have higher and more unreasonable standards...
they look the same as women in the US lol idk what you’re talking about, they’re pretty much equal across the board. You’re acting like America is some third world LEDC country
@emperorhideyoshi3223 where you talking? Most these girls are fat and sound like thugs.
Lol. Scandinavia is officially the most feminist region in the world.
What American women tolerate from American men, a Norwegian woman wouldn’t spend even 2 seconds
IMO the american women can't even compete with the average european let alone Nordic women which are known to be the most feminine and beautiful women in the world.
@@theegyptianconqueror7100
I’m a European, and in addition to other neighboring countries on my continent, I have also met many other countries and cultures in the world.
I would love to date a Norwegian girl. Their beauty is undeniable.
You can also make a video by yourself, on "most common female/male names in Norway".
I know of several Astrid too, besides Astrid Smeplass.
Sounds like a great idea! Yes, the Norwegian singer. You like her music?
@@NorwegianOpinion haha I like the actress Josefine Frida Pettersen. Skam is just a TV show for tenngers....
@@Aidan_Au Yes I know. Almost every teenager in Norway watched that show :)
Watching this as an American man, I found some of the responses about education and career field very refreshing. If I spoke the language, I would have enjoyed doing these interviews. The responses were very good and I think I would have some more follow-up questions. I think that the girl who said she would enjoy a "goofy" guy (Mia) would get along with me, because she also said looks were not real important.
Great points, and pretty much the same ones I've heard all over the world.
Ask for their type or like celebrity crush would be pretty interesting
Great video idea! Thank you ✌️
Perhaps a Scandinavian thing, you and all the women in the video seemed to me to be very self reflective and introspective about things. Interestingly, the young women too! No fumbling, elaborated each key word they spoke in detail.
On the other hand, you enabled that kind of conversation and carefully listened to things. Followed up with great questions. Seeing you all, no wonder Norway is consistently a top nation every year in all key metrics such as happiness, democracy, human rights, development etc.
Absolutely appreciate the positive feedback, thank you! 😄
Interesting comment because I noticed this in a program with two identical twin who got adopted; one in Norway and one in the US. Both girls were quite similar. Not surprising given that they were identical, but I do remember the girl adopted to Norway was a lot more introspective than the American girl. But I think the American girl was more outgoing.
You could see a bit why though when you followed their upbringing. American girl got driven to a lot of organized activities. A lot of action with other people all the time. The Norwegian girl roamed around a lot more on her own. She would go into an abandoned house and explore it, or just bike around the hillside or whatever. She did much less organized activity and spent more time by herself reflecting on things.
I do remember that from growing up myself in Norway and my experience in the US. It is much more action and activity focused in the US. In Norway I think being bored is almost seen as something positive. You like kids to figure out what they want to do themselves. Take their own initiative. And I noticed we probably have more autonomy as children in Norway. We can go a lot more around on our own without supervision.
Showing vulnerability to your female partner is a 100% recipe for going single.
Don't do it, guys. DO NOT.
From my experience they are beautiful and great personality...
Just found your channel and loved the video so many important questions were asked keep up the good work. Subbed and looking forward for more videos!
Astrid and Rigmor are my types.
But seriously, Rigmor's parents f'd up by naming her "Rigmor" tf kind of strong masculine name is that
They have two different points of view and personalities, how can you like them both?
@@asamicat8323 definately for their looks
@@user-gp2mq8le3c men blaming women for having aesthetic preferences and caring about the men's look but men do the same 😂👏🏻 or even worse
is it masculine in norwegian? you may just be unfamiliar with their type of names
As a person who is big fan of blond, Norway is great!
Half of their hair is bleached and not real blonde.
@wlfgang At least a lot of them are real blond. No fan of dyed blond. There are features that could tell.
This just makes me want to move back to Norway even more.
I'm coming with u.
@@JK-gu3tl Lol then you're studying in the Norwegian military with me as well 🤣🤣
@@natibot Norway isn't world police, fine by me.
@@natibotlook at how beautiful Norway looks when they are strict on migrants in unlike Sweden which is becoming a mini Asia and Africa
@@eosohand Yes, problem is that people with citizenship in other Nordic countries, can freely come and go as they please in Norway. Immigrants that's gotten a citizenship in Sweden, can live in Norway, Finland, Denmark and Iceland whenever they want to because of the treaty.
I can go and live in Denmark if I choose just with my Norwegian citizenship. Right now I live in Italy, and have an Italian citizenship which unlocks a lot of EU countries that I can move to live in if I want to in the future.
My first wife was Norwegian, I'm an American of Latin heritage. We were fun together until it wasn't. Traveling and partying was fun, but we had different expectations of our marriage. Norwegian are different in positive ways. I read perceptions and comments from Americans. TBH dating Norwegian, Scandinavian and northern European women is dramatically different than American women, generally speaking of course. There's definitely better communication if you, the American man, are a articulate & not weak or needy. Norway is quite egalitarian in this sense. A strong woman is something I find attractive. Don't be intimated. That's on you, not her. Know that's she's attractive & loves being desired. I was a hustler in my 20s as we traveled. I worked as a bouncer, night club doorman, club promotions, waiter, open market jewelry vender, English teacher, in Spain. And when we lived in Norway I made fiberglass speedboats by day and taught business English at the Folketsuniversitet in Oslo. So, being fun, confident, outgoing, ambitious and "fun" is something that Scandinavian women find attractive, but that's most women. Point is, there's no hack to relationships. Be the most evolved verse of yourself that you can be. My my wife, current & final ;) haha, is definitely an Alpha American woman. Definitely more attractive & earned more than me, about double my salary. She intimates most men, not me. We're both independently wealthy. She doesn't need me in her life and I'm not looking to rescue her. We chose each other and we love and respect one another. I drive her crazy. I joke and say, "I know my wife loves me, but I'm quite certain she doesn't like me much" LOL! But she understands my need to go do martial arts everyday. I understand her need to have everything in order and immaculate. I'm the cuddler, chatty katty at the end of the day and she's the quiet stoic one that just wants peace and quiet. We're definitely yin to each other's yang. Regardless of nationality, culture, ethnicity, religion we need to stop seeking Mr or Ms Right. We need to go out and find someone just as F-ed up as you are who's willing to put up when your s#!+ & who's s#!+ you can accept if and when they never change. Best of luck finding love from a recovered globetrotting, perpetual Peter Pan bachelor.
As a Russian, I feel like this brilliant interview was conducted in my country (I expect the same answering from the girls here). It was very interesting to watch
Ironic i have only dated women taller then me and its been good. Just because her experience didnt work out doesnt mean height is bad
I dated my ex who was 6ft I am 5'10/5'11ish and only my height became a problem after we broke up. Funny that after 2 years it wasn't a problem before. lol
Trust me, they just rejected Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, and Jack Ma unfortunately.
Love the wholesomeness of Scandinavian women.. So many stunning values and natural beauty…
Is so nice in this modern age…
That is how they present themselves to fool guys like you.
Astrid ❤️🔝🔝
Dutch is a far cousin of Norwegian. Even some words seem the same when pronounced, but still, Norwegian is very different. I had a friend in Norway when I was a child, and remember the word straks, which in Norwegian means something like 'strak aansluitend' or inmediate'. In Dutch means soon but not immediate. But if one would look technically at the Dutch language, strak aansluitend (immediate) would be a more logical meaning for the word just from a literal language point. Also, we have some Russian, slavic, Scandinavian words, french and German words in our language if one would look carefully. Advocat (advocaat) in Dutch and Russian is exactly the same meaning, meaning a lawyer, and I can continue for some time.
Themost beautifull girl of them all owned the conversation! '' i have a boyfriend smaller then me and i love him '' Dam, that really felt 100% secure!
Wow they just rejected Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg, and Vladimir Putin
Are you jealous of the short kings in your town. Damn how can these short dudes get a bunch of women. Anyway I’m taller than them. 😂
@@Twodime4032 they are hot and she is dating a lucky guy
I work security at Epcot (Walt Disney World) at Norway...it's hard to stay focused with all the beautiful tall, blonde haired, blue eyed Norwegian girls there. They are all so nice and polite and also have such cool personalities. If I was a younger single guy I'd definitely be politely asking a couple of them out.
Sad to hear Disney values have infiltrated Norway.
great new channel. I was in Norway this summer I hope you ask them attraction long-term vs short-term partners. I think arousal and attraction are separate things. attraction can be more about long-term relationships . arousal is more dating apps/hookups/casual flings . This video was helpful. Could you think of posting a video or two with Norsk and English side by side? maybe you could fit in both texts that would be a great language learning tool . just a thought.
Thank you for watching! Okey, I do understand what you mean. I will try to make a video about that. Yes, it would be a great idea to have both Norwegian and English subtitles at the same time. Thank you for the advice.
I would love to help or provide insight. I was in Norway about 9 days and met many people and was in 4 cities. @@NorwegianOpinionI am learning the language for about 1 year now.
Norweigan women are so beautiful
you are great for the updated post with the language =) @@NorwegianOpinion
Please keep doing these videos so I can learn norwegian😂
I will! 🙌
Coming from Germany dating is almost the same here and also the mindset of women. Thanks for the videos really interesting😅
That was a very cool video. Norwegian language sounds pretty cool.