10 Neurotic Needs (and Trends) - Karen Horney || Psychodynamic Theory
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- Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
- Introducing the 10 neurotic needs and trends by Karen Horney.
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00:00 Introduction
01:31 The 10 Neurotic Needs
06:28 From Neurotic Needs to Neurotic Trends
One definition of neurosis that I like is "A failed attempt to adapt to reality" That's why neurotics are always anxious and hate change. They can't handle stress well so they tend to lead a monotonous life and their days are like one another.
Sounds like you are familiar with the definition.
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As a psychology student focusin on behavioral theories you're really making my life easier to enter the world of psychoanalysis! keep going!
Thank you, Guillermo. That makes me so happy! :)
Your voice is soothing, calming and makes me feel secured. Thank you for this lesson. I am a Psychology graduate and currently in the process of going back to past lessons for refresher.
Feels like a lot of these can be summarized as "maladaptive"? :) Rigid, inflexible, absolutistic goals, needs or obsessions. Love Horney's way of writing, such a clear thinker and observer! Fun fact, she was born in Blankenese outside Hamburg, the village where I currently live. :D
I'm psychology student and since I've met your Channel I'm learning so much comparing to my professors in University
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So glad to hear my videos are helpful! Thank you for your kind words.
You and Jung To Live By are a gold mine in depth psychology on the Internet.
Thank you for your kind words, I just checked out Jung To Live By and his channel is amazing! Thanks for sharing, best wishes 🍀
I really like your voice while explaining this topic, it's so calm and gentle.
Your voice is so soothing. I found this video to be really eye opening .
This is great, can recognise all of these both in myself and significant others!
thank you so much... sending love from Indonesia.
Your videos are amazing, please continue making them - Thanks!
Thank you so much for your comment, Ugur. I'll do my best to keep going ;) Best wishes!
I have been waiting for this video to exist for so long that when I saw it existed now, I couldn't believe it. Thank you so much for making videos like this one
That's so wonderful, Katherine! Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot :) Is there any other topic you are interested in? I'll try my best to make it happen. Best wishes 🍀
I love your videos! They are wonderfully instructive and your articulation of these focused psychology topics are not only informative but a joy to watch! Brava!
Thank you so much! That is such a kind comment and it means a lot. I'm so glad to hear you enjoy this content and find it helpful. Best wishes.
Thank you so much for these wonderfully clear and erudite videos
I'm so gald to hear you like them, Amanda. Thank you for your kind words!
What a wonderful channel, a gem I am fortunate to have crossed upon! I will keep on sharing your content
Thank you so much, Juan, for your kind words! I'm so glad to hear you enjoy it :) Best wishes
Thank you! Looking forward to watch the next video :)
Thank you for your comment, Faris :) I'm also looking forward to making it! Best wishes :)
I learned so much from your video.. thanking you for sharing your findings :)
You're very welcome :) I'm so glad it was helpful!
Superb! Subscribed, don't wanna miss the next vids. Keep posting, dear. Much Love 🥰
Thank you so much 🤗
professor showed us this in class!! good job!!
Wow, that's so cool! Thanks for your kind comment :)
Thank you! I'm very interested in health & when I was younger I used to read psychology books to try to figure out what was wrong with me & family. In the USA, mental health treatment diminished the spectrum of neuroticism's importance in daily functioning for psychologically abnormal people. The more I learn about neuroticism, the more I think it prevalent in the US. I really want for us to construct a language around neuroticism like yours which helps people understand & track where their neurotic behaviors start!
I used to LOVE to teach The Distrust Between the Sexes--it made the students squirm-learn! hahaha. a term I JUST made up. have read ALL her works. she was a total nutter and utterly brilliant.
That sounds FANTASTIC! Yep, she was a badass 😎
Very insightfull vídeo! Made me curious about Karen Horney's work
Thank you, Paulo. Her work is incredibly interesting and much underrated.
Wonderful presentation - very clearly explained . I remember reading one of Horney's books back around 1975 and it helped me move into adulthood . Her insights are spot on .
Thank you so much! Yes, her books are amazing. Best wishes
very informative and easily communicated.
Glad to hear it was easy to understand 😊 Thank you for your comment!
Great video. Thanks from Brazil
Obrigada muito, Simon! Muitas felicidades da Alemanha.
Excellent explanation
Thank you!
Thanks for the video of highly informative content..
You're so welcome. Thank you for your kind comment!
As soon as I hear your voice, I feel better!
Thank you so much for your kind comment, that always makes me feel better! Best wishes 🍀
Thanks
That's so generous of you, Amanda! It's greatly appreciated.
It's so good to hear about Horney. We don't spend much time on her in the United States.
She is a hidden gem. Her theories are so accessible and easy to understand, I hope more people become aware of her.
Describes this chic I know EXACTLY 💯
I love your videos!!!!! thank you so much for making them - are there any in German?
Thank you so much, that's so king of you! So far I haven't made any videos in German. Maybe one day I will ;)
@@PsychodynamicPsychology I'll keep following in any case!! Du bist großartig😘
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Is there any mnemonics to remember these needs??
i just got to know i am highly neurotic few days back how am i supposed to treat myself?
when i saw this video i was like yh i strive for love appreciation i obsess over my goals and if i cant sucess in a goal i just drop it and start another one i hate when someone who interfers i hate people who dont listen i want love appreciatin but i dont want them interfering me its like i just want to pass all my reponsibilities to my future partner its like i hate this life
this is something new i knew about myself
can you please say how to cure myself?
great video 👍🤩, what book did you use for this video reference?
I used multiple resources! You can find good information here: webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/horney.html and also straight in Karen Horney's own book Self-Analysis :)
Watching the video I began to think where is this neurotic component exactly.. May be 'normal' and 'neurotic' persons both feel +- the same, but it's just some acquired rationalisation patterns that make behaviour neurotic? Is there anything about such things in diagnostic manuals?
Hi Artem! This is precisely the tricky part. What is normal and what is not? Where do we draw a line and give a diagnosis (which in countries like Germany is essential to be able to have psychotherapy paid for by the health insurance)? In the diagnostic manuals they usually require 4 criteria to be met: A) symptoms (often a certain number of symptoms need to be present), B) duration (often symptoms need to be present for >6 months), C) impact/distress (if there is no distress for the person or others, there is no problem), and D) exclusion (for example, not due to drug use or another psychiatric disorder) to be met. This has been criticised because particularly for the symptoms it demands a certain cut-off value that doesn't always portray reality. For example in the new DSM-5 they included alternative models for diagnosing personality disorders. Currently there is a lot of research happening to focus on so-called "transdiagnostic processes" due to the fact that there is a lot of comorbidity between disorders and looking at underlying processes, such as emotion regulation, might be a better way to frame them than categorical diagnoses. Generally speaking, the difference between healthy and neurotic is often a difference in, among others, intensity and flexibility. Therefore, it's more useful to think of healthy and neurotic as a continuum rather than two distinct categories.
Isn't point no.-2 & point no.-9 contradictory??
Hello Lina,
You’re doing an excellent job. Keep it up. The way you pronounce personal names is German, are you German ?
Thank you for your kind words! Yes, I am.
I’m preparing for a Psychiatry exam in the UK called MRCPsych, you’re of tremendous help for the psychodynamic part. Your efforts deserve high appreciation.
can you all discuss the theories of personality base in books would like English speaker to discuss all theories
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Wow, that's quite the emotional journey for an 8:33 minute video! Greetings
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Over generalized.
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most beautiful explanation by the most beautiful psychologist thank you