I've finished university... now what?

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  • @TheRHperspective
    @TheRHperspective Рік тому +3

    Congratulations🎉 been watching you since GCSE’s and it feels like an end of era but all the very best for the future xx

  • @riaberry1386
    @riaberry1386 Рік тому +30

    Berlin is super close to my heart, I did a summer school there and it was the most transformative period of my life. The city is so accepting and beautiful. You must spend all your time at templehof airport! Also good on Sid, I am also learning German and would love to spend a more extended period in Germany. Have fun!!!

  • @NicaSue
    @NicaSue Рік тому +3

    Congratulations Lydia!! ❤ I've been following you even before you were in Uni and I'm so happy for you! ❤ You inspire and motivate me when I just don't feel like doing school anymore. I wish you all the best and Im always rooting for you!! Love lots ❤

  • @alice-elizabeth
    @alice-elizabeth Рік тому +20

    I'm a Brit living in Germany and am also a freelancer there at the moment. I'm not sure if this applies to you if you're only going to be there for about 3 months, but in Germany if you're registered as living there, you have to pay monthly healthcare insurance and it's compulsory. Usually your employer pays half and you pay the other half, but as self employed you have to pay all of it and it's based on your income. At the moment I'm paying almost €500 a month which is extortionate. There is also a LOT of red tape in Germany with bureaucracy. Just warning you because I wasn't told any of that when I moved and I wished I had been, because it's very stressful trying to sort these things out. It's also probably better for you to be self employed rather than trying to get a regular job, because I've found it incredibly difficult to get a job in Germany as a foreigner.

    • @nicolad8822
      @nicolad8822 Рік тому

      Different for EU citizens?

    • @alice-elizabeth
      @alice-elizabeth Рік тому

      @@nicolad8822 It'll be the same for EU citizens too.

    • @nicolad8822
      @nicolad8822 Рік тому

      @@alice-elizabeth Thanks.

    • @darciestimpson8904
      @darciestimpson8904 11 місяців тому

      Hey- also a Brit living inGermany 7:05 - I don’t pay health insurance because I have a GHIC card- don’t you have that? €500 is extortionate there’s no way that should becright

    • @alice-elizabeth
      @alice-elizabeth 11 місяців тому

      @@darciestimpson8904 I think that was only valid up until Brexit or it's only valid for 3 months, then you have to register as living in Germany and pay into their healthcare insurance system. Something like that anyway. Yeah it does seem like an awful lot! Unfortunately that's the way it is in Germany. :( Usually your employer pays half and the other half comes out of your wages, hence why I paid both parts when I was self-employed. :/

  • @GamerGirll36
    @GamerGirll36 Рік тому +13

    Hi Lydia!!! It is totally okay to not really know what the future is going to look like exactly- just like you said, we definitely need to normalise this more, however so many people I’m sure after university are experiencing that and there’s no point rushing into anything! :)) the next few months seems like the perfect situation for you - I’m so excited to watch your living abroad content!! 💓 wishing you all the luck xx

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому +1

      Ahh thank you so much!!

    • @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446
      @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446 Рік тому

      @@lydiavioleta_
      You are a treasure to behold
      A precious gem worth more than gold.
      Your body parts are a work of art,
      Each one a masterpiece that sets you apart.
      & Your beauty radiates from within,
      Addicted to you I feel forever Iam & in my heart forever you will dwell there in,
      you casted a spell of love on me or what have you done!?
      your love and affection & luring me to be with you makes me very tempted & weak Infront of you
      but strong and resilient I will still try to be and shall try to not easily give in
      in life when I feel like hopeless & weak
      your encouragement and lovely smile makes me have hope & makes me strong & helps keep me going on
      & Your love for God is pure and true
      A testament to your faith that shines through.
      Your fear of Him is a sign of respect & your love to him, A virtue that makes you perfect,
      Refraining from sin and ill behavior,
      Shows your strength and good character.
      Your beauty is for my eyes only,
      A privilege that makes me feel holy.
      Addicted to you, I will always be,
      For your love is my only destiny..
      May your life be filled with love and light,
      May your path be blessed with all that's right.🌷❤

  • @bookishforeigner
    @bookishforeigner Рік тому

    I found your account moving to Leeds from Berlin for my MA, followed your final year journey in tandem with my year there, and now that I'm back in Berlin you're also coming here! Surreal!

  • @garyclarke4284
    @garyclarke4284 Рік тому +1

    Sounds great. I would recommend Budapest as a future destination (although not in the winter). Many young people speak English and/or German there, and it's an awesome city of culture. Stay on the Pest side and you will have a blast.

  • @rickislife
    @rickislife Рік тому +1

    i think you’ll have a great time in berlin! it’s a stunning city with a lot of young and cool people.. also it’s germany’s content creator hotspot so maybe you can find some friends through your work.. during summer there are usually lots of events and parties to go to, so i’ll doubt you’ll get bored!

  • @rickislife
    @rickislife Рік тому +6

    does anybody really ever know what they want to do? i feel like people who know just pick something and stick with it and those who don’t are typical over-thinkers (like myself).. at least i hope that’s it

  • @RevisionWithEve
    @RevisionWithEve Рік тому +4

    Berlin is one of my favourite places, and SO FUN to live in - you’ll have the best time I’m sure! X

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому +1

      I’m really looking forward to it! You’re welcome to visit anytime xx

  • @rondoflicflac
    @rondoflicflac Рік тому

    Hope you have a great time xx ❤ let this new chapter begin!

  • @sarahhaaniaxoxo
    @sarahhaaniaxoxo Рік тому

    Congratulations, Lydia, and best of luck with the future!

  • @alisontaylor6135
    @alisontaylor6135 Рік тому +4

    Sounds like a plan to me! You are right in that there seems to be an expectation to know what is coming next BUT life's not like that and it is unrealistic to think you'll do the same job forever. You''ll have a great time xxx

  • @zahra.mo11
    @zahra.mo11 Рік тому +2

    I'm so happy for you!! I don't kmow why but I was almost sure you'd go to Germany!!maybe you've mentioned it before, I have no idea🤭😂❤️

  • @balala5430
    @balala5430 Рік тому

    Thankyou for this video!

  • @zoeraybould8530
    @zoeraybould8530 Рік тому +12

    I also graduated very recently, and I can agree with how nerve wracking it can be trying to decide what you want to do. I found this video so inspiring, because it helped me to see that actually i don't need a long term plan right now. I've been watching your videos since your A-levels, and I also just wanted to say how proud i am of you! Its been lovely to see you grown and progress through university. I wish you the best of luck for this new chapter x

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому

      I’m so glad it could inspire you! Xx

    • @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446
      @wowyouaretoobeautiful1446 Рік тому

      @@lydiavioleta_
      😍😍
      Wow!!,
      you are too beautiful!!!
      whomever see you should believe that God is true & real..
      and whenever I see you I feel like Iam in a dream,
      And when we wake up we will all realize that all this life was nothing but a dream and that only God is whats true and real..

      The universe science says was not always there, it had a beginning point, the big bang, meaning it was begun/initiated in other words created, thus there should be a creator,
      there must be a God.
      There was a teacher whom didn't believe in the existence of God, one day he asked his students, do you see God?
      the students then replied no we don't see God, so the teacher said if you don't see God it means there is no God.
      then a smart student stood up and said to the other students hey guys can you see the teachers brain?
      then the students answered no we don't see the teachers brain, the student then said the teacher then is crazy, he has no brain
      :0)
      Also, check this out, if you like, this is from Artificial intelligence, chat Gpt:
      Prophecies in Major World Religious Books Referring to Prophet Mohammed:
      1. The Bible - Deuteronomy 18:18-19, John 14:16, John 16:7-14, Isaiah 42:1-13
      2. The Hindu Scriptures - Bhavishya Purana, Atharvaveda Book 20 Hymn 127-129
      3. The Buddhist Scriptures - Cakkavatti-Sihanada Sutta, Anguttara Nikaya III:61, Digha Nikaya III:76-77
      4. The Zoroastrian Scriptures - Zand-i Vohuman Yasht, Farvardin Yasht, Dadestan-i Denig
      & Regarding the verses in the Quran asking to protect non-believers or polytheists, there are several that emphasize the importance of treating all people with respect and kindness, regardless of their religious beliefs.
      One such verse is found in Surah Al-Mumtahanah (60:8), which states: "Allah does not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly."
      Also In the name of God, the Most Merciful, the Most Merciful (If any of the polytheists seek protection from you, grant him protection)
      بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم(إن استجارك أحد من المشركين فأجره)
      Another verse in Surah Al-Anfal (8:61) encourages Muslims to make peace with their enemies, even if they are non-believers or polytheists: "And if they incline to peace, then incline to it also and rely upon Allah. Indeed, it is He who is the Hearing, the Knowing."
      & Regarding the verses in the Quran asking for justice and kindness, there are many such verses throughout the holy book. One example is found in Surah An-Nahl (16:90), which states: "Indeed, Allah orders justice and good conduct and giving to relatives and forbids immorality and bad conduct and oppression. He admonishes you that perhaps you will be reminded."
      & In terms of prophecies about Prophet Mohammed in major world religions, there are a few examples that some scholars have pointed to. One such example is found in the Bible's Book of Deuteronomy (18:18), which states: "I will raise up for them a prophet like you from among their brothers. And I will put my words in his mouth, and he shall speak to them all that I command him." Some Muslims interpret this verse as a prophecy about Prophet Mohammed.
      Because the Arabs are the brethren's of Israelites,
      The Arabs are descendants from Ishmael or Ismail the brother of Isaac the father of Israelites, and because the verse didn't say from amongst them or from their descendants, it said from their brethren's.
      Similarly, some scholars point to a passage in the Bhavishya Purana, an ancient Hindu text, as a prophecy about Prophet Mohammed. The passage describes a "holy man" who will come from Arabia and spread a new religion, and some argue that this refers to Mohammed and the spread of Islam..
      Also search scientific miracles in the quran, harun yahya its nice,
      One God for all of us
      he created us all and can revive us again,
      God initiated everything,
      & he repeat/redo things too, & thats clear, we see many cycles of different things in life, also in summer for example the desert land becomes like empty and is filled with only sand, and when rain falls in abundance in spring or winter, after that small flowers & wild plants grow again, also, we see how humans and animals grow and how their body is formed from the elements which were in the sand which plants feed on which they eat, and after they die they go to the sand and their atoms/elements are taken by plants which humans & animals eat and their bodies grow from those atoms & elements found in the sand which came from previous humans & animals which died before, so God can bring us again after we die even if our atoms became in the sand he can make us from the same atoms we were made of or from other atoms if he want or make us be in a spirit form or like ghosts, any ways, everything in this life is recycled, learn if you want about the different cycles in life in nature, the food cycle or food chain, the water cycle, even the gas cycle that makes the air the oxygen &carbon dioxide &nitrogen cycles, even the energy is like recycled but only changes from form to another form.
      Anyways,, God created this life but it's only a temporary sample/an example of a coming everlasting one
      which could be either in heaven paradise or in hell.
      If we try to be good humans in life, and try to obey God and his messengers-including the final messenger for all humanity the prophet Mohammed- and those whom rightly represent them, for example imam Ali & ahlulbayt the family/good descendants of the prophet mohammed, then we will all go to heaven/paradise, if not then we will go to hell fire and burn in it forever.
      keep shining sunshine &spread the light.

  • @amiraabid9399
    @amiraabid9399 Рік тому +1

    I know you can’t give a lot of info but I’m planning on doing something similar and I was wondering if you could at some point offer a bit of insight into what Sid does in terms of advice/advantages and disadvantages of remote working? Best of luck to you both ❤❤

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому +1

      I’m sure we’ll cover this more as we experience this lifestyle more in the next few months!

  • @_Byeol27
    @_Byeol27 Рік тому +2

    I started watching you ever since your first video, and now seeing you graduate!!!!!!!! so so proud of you and thank you so much for always motivating me

  • @hettytravels
    @hettytravels Рік тому +4

    Congrats! I’m considerably older than you and retired after a wonderful career. But somehow I’ve so enjoyed your videos and wish you the most success in whatever you do. Travel is the best!

  • @frank7425
    @frank7425 Рік тому +1

    omg I'm also moving to Berlin in September ✨🥰

  • @silvinhabruno
    @silvinhabruno Рік тому +1

    I loooooved Berlin when I visited it and I wish I could live there just like you are doing! Have fun, experience it all and please record every single thing. Can’t wait for this new journey of yours❤

  • @nicolad8822
    @nicolad8822 Рік тому

    So if you goto Berlin for 3 months you won’t be able to go anywhere in the EU again for a year?

  • @chloooooooooooo
    @chloooooooooooo Рік тому

    Could you talk about how you found somewhere to rent short term in berlin!?

  • @kaylanemeth4709
    @kaylanemeth4709 Рік тому +1

    this is so exciting lydia!! cannot wait for these vlogs, wishing you and sid good luck with the move ❤

  • @hannahlemosfonseca
    @hannahlemosfonseca Рік тому +1

    Yay! So proud of you, Lydia. I wish you guys all the best. 🌷

  • @MyNeighborMrElk
    @MyNeighborMrElk Рік тому +2

    Exiting times!! Question: How do you feel about not being able to return to the eu/Schengen for another 90 days after leaving Berlin? ☺️ uk person here that thought about doing the same but decided not to because of the 90/180 rule 😬.

  • @angeltinna3557
    @angeltinna3557 Рік тому +1

    Looking forward to the post-grad content! wishing you guys the best xx

  • @jessicagraves8708
    @jessicagraves8708 Рік тому +2

    Looking forward to hearing about your post-grad life in Berlin Lydia!

  • @hannahhayward1813
    @hannahhayward1813 Рік тому +3

    Wow, wow, WOW!!! This sounds incredible! Berlin is an amazing city to live in and explore, you will have an amazing time!
    It’s funny, as someone who chose her degree specifically for a career (teaching!!) I actually regret this ‘freedom’ that you get without a clear career plan…I completely understand that it’s not necessarily as freeing as it it, however, it is an amazing opportunity! I’ll be living my younger years (I’m now 31 😂) through you both ❤ so excited for you! Xxxx

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому +1

      That’s really interesting! And thank you xx

  • @kaironcabaylo
    @kaironcabaylo Рік тому

    How exciting!! I wish you all the best and safe travels!
    Sending lots of love ❤❤

  • @phoebematthews6928
    @phoebematthews6928 Рік тому +1

    Seeing the background with the peach wall gave me flashbacks to old videos! Love it haha

  • @katemortimer9051
    @katemortimer9051 Рік тому

    Can you definitely do a video on making new friends x

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому +1

      I’ll definitely document how I find that process!

  • @anastazja_camille
    @anastazja_camille Рік тому +1

    This is so exciting! Can’t believe I started watching your content during A Levels haha. Enjoy together :)

  • @UnJadedJade
    @UnJadedJade Рік тому

    BERLIN IS THE BEST CITY EVER!!!! So excited for you 🤍🤍🤍

  • @carlybenarbia9193
    @carlybenarbia9193 Рік тому

    Good luck on your journey x

  • @BAMomggurl
    @BAMomggurl Рік тому +5

    About 5% of people genuinely know what they want to be doing after uni, uni is hard! Take a break and enjoy life for a bit.

  • @minilie8253
    @minilie8253 Рік тому

    Im so happy for you guys that you picked Berlin. I live in Germany and I am very often there. It is such a beautiful and creative city. Wish you all the best 😊 If you need any advice feel free to comment.

  • @Kaefer-hl1yg
    @Kaefer-hl1yg Рік тому +1

    Ahhh so exciting that you're moving to Germany (at least for a while)! You guys are gonna have the best time in Berlin! :)
    Are you planning on traveling around Germany whilst there or are you just trying to stay mostly in Berlin? I think it would be cool if you documented ways that you are trying to make friends and establish a routine in a place that you know you'll probably leave soon.
    Cheers from Germany :)

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому

      Yes I’m planning to see some friends I have in Germany, and I’m sure we’ll do a few other trips too! But other than that I’m hoping to build a consistent routine, so will definitely document how I find that and find making friends when we’re leaving so soon! X

  • @neelamnaseem30
    @neelamnaseem30 Рік тому

    Absolutely I love a plan aswell.

  • @caitlinvizard5438
    @caitlinvizard5438 Рік тому

    I really recommend the Shakespeare and Co bookshop (they also have good bagels!) and the TV tower restaurant (great views) ❤️

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for the recommendation! X

  • @gonzalobarral2357
    @gonzalobarral2357 Рік тому

    Don’t feel stressed, there’s no end after having graduated from university you’ll live is a new life chapter, but it’s most probably return to study something else…a master, a language, excel courses 😅 a lot. Make a plan and try to live without overthinking on that.

  • @rohnickamiriama1361
    @rohnickamiriama1361 Рік тому +11

    You should get your Lithuanian citizenship so you’re an EU citizen again

    • @aaliyahhhhhhh335
      @aaliyahhhhhhh335 Рік тому +1

      Yes. I agree ^^^

    • @lydiavioleta_
      @lydiavioleta_  Рік тому +1

      I don’t think they allow dual citizenship unfortunately x

    • @lauranicol01
      @lauranicol01 Рік тому +2

      @@lydiavioleta_ Lithuania do allow for dual citizenship there are just four different critieria you would have to meet!!x

    • @rohnickamiriama1361
      @rohnickamiriama1361 Рік тому

      @@lydiavioleta_ you can if your Lithuanian parent has their citizenship. you're entitled to it by birth

    • @nicolad8822
      @nicolad8822 Рік тому

      We have friends with recent Latvian roots, one of their sons thought about that, but I said to check any National Service/military requirements!

  • @mothernature5237
    @mothernature5237 Рік тому

    U can work with social media marketing or employee branding. I did the same. I studied business economics at first i wanna be an accountant after I studied accounting then when I studied marketing I wanna do branding then when I studied organization courses i want management when i studied finanice I wanted to work in finanice. So it waw confusing to choose one field for my thesis so I googled what goes well for all these 4 so it was management. There is management in all these four fields. The issue is when I am applying now for jobs after one month post-grad. I didnt know what there for management for junior careers. I love everything I dont know which field I am for if I didnt try to work and see if I fit. During some interviews for accounting jobs they ask about my thesis field. It became a huge barrier for accounting jobs opportunites. How can I choose a thesis field if Stockholm university dont offer intership during 5th semester. I didnt have chance to work at first.

  • @VruttiPatel346
    @VruttiPatel346 Рік тому +1

    Love Fromm 😍❤️India ❤️😇

  • @laurentaylor1074
    @laurentaylor1074 Рік тому

    berlin is beautiful i think you both find ur place there ;)

  • @analynarthur8273
    @analynarthur8273 Рік тому

    Done

  • @ankiyoutube660
    @ankiyoutube660 Рік тому

    Iam graduate.please help me job visa

  • @neelamnaseem30
    @neelamnaseem30 Рік тому

    Aww Enjoy Berlin 3 months..

  • @neelamnaseem30
    @neelamnaseem30 Рік тому

    Planned life daily .XX

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    @user-ns4gi7mk5q Рік тому

    👍😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏