when you stop wanting it, you get it | a useful paradox
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- Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
- In this video, we discuss the paradox of giving up on your desire to achieve it. At first glance, the idea may seem counterproductive, however, by bridging concepts of Neville Goddard’s “Sabbath” principle along with detachment (amongst others) we find a unique solution for manifesting your most stubborn desires.
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0:00 - intro
0:57 - sabbath
2:32 - disclaimer
2:58 - freedom for all (part 1)
8:16 - elaboration
11:52 - freedom for all (part 2)
17:35 - explanation
22:30 - summary
26:26 - outro
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Thank you sweetie, I'm so happy to have you here for all this time😊🩷🩷🩷
I find that even when I affirm often, things come in at the moment where I’m distracted and not thinking about the manifestation.
True, recently I got distracted and my sp texted me instantly. Literally within seconds
Same here - the universe always responds indirectly, not directly, so it seems 😳
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I never understood the concept of affirmations, truly. I mean, if you embody that version of you who already HAS IT, that version would never spend time in affirming because it's already done. She/he already has it. It kind of contradicts the purpose
“We are using a spiritual law, and then judging its effectiveness by what we can hold in our hands physically” 😮💨😮💨😮💨
Nothing as true as this. Relaxing is THE key. 🗝️💫 Always, no matter what the manifestation is about.
A concise summary, thank you🙂
💯 great information
That’s exactly what my mother told me. The moment you are relax all the things will come together.
My 9 year old daughter says: "Mummy, listening to her videos is much better than watching cartoons!" 😊❤
Once I get out of my own way. Focus more on me. God will seek that I am worth so much more. I'm so grateful to be alive. Disease free. Full of love & someone who roots for all. Now, it's time to apply that to myself. Stay on the path of better decisions all around. The grind never stops. This is why I'm so incredibly grateful for Maleeka's videos.
Manifestation works according to how we think. There's no one way to manifest. It all happens when we make it natural
It’s the weirdest paradox I’ve ever faced. It has been a year or so learning these laws. And I’ve slowly came to realise that the “want” for me has never been about the Physical manifestation but the peace of mind that I thought would come from that manifestation.
And I always thought that’s just a way to say “look you have your manifestation” (basically to cheat and pretend that this works) when you don’t have the physical thing you wanted but to say - you have it mentally.
But I’ve realised that I can’t know as much as my divine self does , what I actually want. And so I don’t try to think of that physical manifested end goal anymore. I think of having a “peace of mind.” And watching these videos to try and gain more clarity and learn how to be more peaceful. And with being more peaceful I’ve been more receptive to my emotions. My job changed from one that was the most stressful to one that is so easy. It’s the same company but I changed office because I realised “this is not my peace of mind.” If I kept striving for my manifestation of being rich , I would have thought I had to wait out the storm and stay at that office till my manifestation came and saved me. But once the desired outcome changed to peace of mind. I knew I had the power to change job. And that I should wait out the storm as it want against my desire. And that created a domino affect. A less stressful job meant more time at home to do a hobby and work on my goals for the future. That time has made me find people and opportunities that has me closer in reach to the old goal of being rich. Instead of looking for that goal I looked to be at peace. And everyday I’ve felt a weird small step towards it. It’s so weird because it’s not what I thought from the start. It’s like my divine self is winking at me. Because it knew this whole time I didn’t want to be rich. I wanted to be at peace and thought being rich would bring me there. And everyday my divine self is showing me that is not the case. One day I will be rich. But it wasn’t what would have gave me peace. It is the state of being at peace that will probably ironically make me rich by a bi product and not the other way around.
That's really beautiful 🌸
Absolutely ! Well expressed ! 🤍
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Your videos is very accurate unlike others youtuber coaches, instead of keep affirming until get it , my personal experience is i get what i want once i detached, your style of teaching is highly aligned with my experience thats why you are the only manifestation coach I followed, thanks
I'm happy I can help😊
my thoughts exactly!!!
There's a book called money's hidden magic, and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract a lot of money, it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
whats the name of the author?
For real
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Who's the author? There are plenty of books
@@ujiria- yeah I’m seeing this same comment in other manifestation videos
I would love more videos on how to "give it a rest" and detach. I get obsessive and i cant find actual advice on how to help that.
I wish I had a friend like you. You're so wise and peaceful while factually and studiously analyzing complex spiritual treatises. And the resonance of your voice is beautiful. You vibrate at a high frequency. Thank you for sharing your gifts and knowledge.
A lot of bad stuff just went down the other day in regards to something I’ve been manifesting for years. Every morning I wake up and overthink and ask the universe for a sign and then I got the notification for this video. It’s really reassuring and i have to thank you for it
What you call universe is not a creator.
0:03 When I stop wanting them, I don't want them at all, though. There was a time for it, and it didn't happen when I wanted it, and now I moved on without it.
That’s the issue for me too !! If I let go then I let go for real, I don’t want it anymore 😅
no other loa coach has helped me the way u have. and you're not trying to gatekeep most of your secrets, not trying to sell me anything. thank you maleeka for all your help
Your content is genuinely what I look forward to the most on this app , you are so intelligent and well spoken I’ve learned so much from your videos. I genuinely appreciate you being here 🖤
I appreciate that hon, thank you for being here🙂
I would LOVE to learn more about authenticity. After a lifetime of trying not to be my authentic self due to good old fashion trauma I’m moving in my own energetic space. I’m finding people like me! How can I shake the imposter syndrome and fear of being seen as my authentic self? Thank you for your videos. They’ve been life changing to say the least ❤
That's a beautiful idea hon, I'll share more on it 🙂💜
I've been through quite a bit lately. A long-term relationship ended, my father passed, and so have a few friends. I'm really glad that you posted. Thank you for your work, and for choosing to share that work with us. Wishing you health, happiness, safety, and love ❤️
I be ON IT when you post
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I love this video queen from a personal experience I gave it all up by accepting the good and the bad life is a duality the universe is like a mother of discipline if you cry she will give you something to cry for and once you become grateful she will give you something to be greatful for.......... be a peace/shabbat and smile through it all 😊😊😊
An endless stream of thoughts rushed into my mind as I was watching the intro. There's so much I desired in my life because of my vacancy, desire was the only thing at times that kept me alive. The desire to express myself makes me feel indifferent to everything I've ever wanted. I'm faceless in every aspect of my existence.
you should make a Spotify podcast
I find your aura and your voice so calming I feel like you can calm souls
you made a big change in my life I love your channel
even tho I still haven't fully perfected my manifestation methods I feel like I've improved a lot thanks to you
thank you
Ok, you just threw a bucket of cold water on me when you said I romanticized my desire.
My desire always had been a relationship so yeah, it really makes sense, oh, but also with all of the social media it's hard not to do so.
Also I realized I romanticized friendships a lot but when I finally manifested it I discovered romanticized them anymore because I had a few bad experiences recently and honestly I wasn't needing it anymore and I was perfect with being aline after losing a group of friends.
But THEN it literally manifested everything I always wanted in a friendship it's almost insane and I was wondering what I did right? And this video gave me the answer.
The creation story and crucifixion parallel is NEXT level. Man. Lmao
i’ve just been starting to grasp this concept and i see u upload a video with the exact thing that has been on my mind these days, thank u
You're welcome hon💗
you are so amazing i’m so grateful i found your channel when i did! thank you. ❤
I'm glad you opened up the membership! I've considered joining especially because this video came at such a relevant time.
I LOVE LOVE LOVE this, Thank you so so much ❤❤❤ Also the background music are perfect
This is probably the most important video of yours that I’ve seen yet. Thank you so much!
i've known for a while that i should give what i want a little rest, but i was kinda in denial (?) about it, not wanting to actually give it up. your words made me realize that it is really time to put it all aside for a bit. i'm so thankful for discovering your channel 💞
i get such a comforting vibe from your videos idk how to explain it
this video resonated with me a lot and i appreciate being reminded of this. thank you! 💖
you calm me down so much. i love your mind
You are exponentially getting better and better with every video, its a joy to watch, I remember when your videos didn't show your gorgeous face, watching these videos is likened to taking a college course but the professor is stunning😍This was such an important reminder for me, Im positive this is why I have not materialized my greatest desire, I want it too much still, even though I have been focused on decreasing its importance. Letting go should be easier for me because honestly Im sick of thinking about it. Anyways thank you for all the time and effort you gave to relaying this important message for those of us still pining over a manifestation that holds great importance for us. Im always excited when I see a notification that you posted a new video. Keep up the great work darlin👏🥰
This video, your words hit my heart and soul. Although there were a lot of words I didn’t understand directly, I feel a perspective shift happening. Thank you so much, you are a beautiful and creative teacher❤
You the real MVP. It's crazy because all last week, I needed you to post a video, because I feel out of alignment, and then you post this wonderful jewel!. Thank you!
This video seems like its ahead of its time. Like i understand these topics but that they’ll come in handy in about two weeks. Thank you for this video :)
I love getting epiphany’s when I watch your videos! Bless!
You are so well articulated and I loooooove your videos. You ARE my guardian angel Maleeka. 😍😍😍😍❤️
I don't usually comment on videos but wow, this one is definitely one of the most amazing videos I've watched in a looooong time. Came out at the right time, thank you! ❤
Omg never been this early??! Love the videos, started watching you yesterday. Thank you 🙏
I still desire what I get. It makes me feel happy. But I end up desiring too much what I want because I'm used to desiring
Favorite video of yours so far Chelsea
This was a really good video you've got a brand new subscriber.
You are looking like the woman of your dreams . You are so beautiful. I'm so happy to witness your growth ..I'm proud of you, mama C . ♥️♥️♥️
this video was so reassuring for where i'm at in my life right now ✨ thank you!
I'm so glad😊
This!!! Its true i really resonate with this, but yeah hard to do in practice
Thank you. This breakdown is amazing.
I'm so happy you enjoyed it😊
I notice the difference...and I love every version of you!
You know what I would love to have a video on your perspective of the different mysogyn concepts through out religions and what they have made up in our world , or their consequences and why they are present .
A beautiful message, and really moved things along for me
Thank you
I've been listening to a lot of Neville's lectures lately and I understand in a much deeper way that,
sin is merely the state of lacking that which you/I (subjectively) perceive that you/I want or need
He refers to "the son of perdition" which he says, is merely the idea, belief and attachment to the identity
of lack, loss or any other unwanted state of "I am not"
"All I have lost is the son of perdition"
All I have lost is the concept of loss
All things are given from within, psychologically
Nothing comes to the sensory, save by the reflection of the identity
you/I (repeatedly/frequently/regularly) associate your/my self with
Yes, I do agree it's time to take a break 🙏
Good stuff G.A. Also love the animations.
Thank you so much Maleeka.
Perfect timing.
Excellent. Thank you!
Great video. I definitely need to rest on some things.
So many beautiful points to comment on in this video, but what had me rolling was the eyebrow raise when you said, "...more than you can reasonably satisfy..." 😅💀💀💀
Thank you maleeka!
I love ylur voice 😭💕
I enjoy your videos very much. Lovely in all ways.
Great video that I needed to hear ❤
Sooo powerful and well expained ❤
What a transformation. Jeez🔥
From 22:39 it's a proper goosebumps moment for me. I'm following you for last 2 yrs, but this video is soo soo special. That too when you asked those questions looking at the camera, I felt as if someone with a greater aura was sitting opposite to me and giving me wisdom❤
I love your channel so much
My answers to your questions:
@ 22:50 I am doing it as a result of feeling as though you already have it.
There are no such things as failures. Only the result requires higher self-belief; detect it and live it in your 5D world.
@ 23:12 Yes, I honestly see myself as a top prize winner and have financial freedom for me and my family. I command the universe to show me four-leaf clovers, a sign that I am on the right path, which has already happened. Honestly, even if I have it, I am going to watch manifesting videos because I like to see other successes just like me.😊
Thank you, Maleeka! I appreciate you and your videos
Juicy one! 🧠💦🧠✨
The 3 bonus questions got me f**k up! 😅🤔🙈🙈🙈🔥
Ps: Finally, you've put the jazz soundtrack! Could never Shazam some of them because of the voiceover 😅❤🎶🎶🎶💥
Great video!
maleeka, have you been manifesting something about your face? i think you've mentioned it before, it has worked perfectly. your face looks so much more defined!!! you're beautiful. please make a video on manifesting physical changes.
This one’s a real banger
Thank you hun❤
as a former adventist i’m shocked to hear you speak on the sabbath
This was so wise
'the way out is in" .. no, there is no 'out' and no 'in', and if there is you already are both of them.. nothing to do, bc it is done...
Would you please consider make a video of how to truly accept yourself ?
Sin is missing the target. Feeling lack as sin? That was beautiful
error pecado es trasgredir la instruccion divina...ese concepto de no dar en el blanco, en referencia a deseos es un dogma de la nueva era revuelta con cristianismo...
I dont want it anymore. The fame. The followers. The status. The place and post as leader. I dont wanna change anything. And I dont wanna fix anything. I just wanna enjoy nature and animals andneverything because it will all go away.
I need to go out more. I might paint a bit, just for me and singz just for me, and dance. Just for me. And eating right juat for me ans fit in clothes. I need thay.
I no longer want my business or leadership role. Indont want to be a billionaire. I just want to admire the world as it is. And it makes me cry.
I cant stop change. Change waa always on the pkate. I juat wanted tl steer the ship in another direction.
Change is inevitable. And I let go now. And let the world just float and pass me by and enjoy the time that is left for me. I am over 43 years old. And life is short.
I just wish kindness would be my legacy. It is all I wanted.
All I can really think to say is... Thank you :)
Seek/surrender to divinity (within), act from that source and detach from expectation. Manifest ✨
I truly did enjoy it. Please tell us about Tarot. Dealt by yourself.
You look so good 💌
I love this💗..Thankyou
You're welcome 😊
Thank you so much...❤❤❤❤
Wow. I knew the sabbath had to correlate with the sabbath from the Bible. Great video
But how do you give it a rest? My desire is literally the first thing I think about when I wake up in the morning, which is quite sad.
FIRSSTTTT! SUNDAY RITUAL
Good morning sunshine 🌞
im in love with you queen 🤗🤗🤗
And good morning to you too hon😊🩷
Thank you so much
1:40 I love resting on Sabbath.
Brilliant ❤
Here 🌞 SUNDAY shines 🎉 sweet Bonita ❤
Illuminating
You are such a cutie! Love your videos!! xx from Brazil
6 days though... Time doesn't exist... It matters more realization of how to properly execute the process AND the journey to said realization.
Love your Charlie Brown music ❤
I love the grainy lofi color pallette
Also, does anyone know the name of that musical piece 12:00 minutes in???
Falling...❤
Thank you... 🙏❤🙏❤🙏
You are so welcome
Great explanation! Beyond great, actually! This is a perfect exegesis of the process known as Supreme Mathematics, which is a 9 step summary of the sequence by which ideas are manifested into reality. It’s always proven true in my experience, and time is no limit, its timing which is everything . The first 6 steps are indeed representative of states of being/consciousness. The 6th state in SM is Equality, a state of equilibrium/rest leading into the 7th state of God, together both are equivalent to the sabbath as expounded on. It’s only then that the final steps/states of being can exist in order for the initial idea to physically take shape as a full cipher, only for the same cycle to repeat again to no end.
The Tl;dr version, let go and let God! The God within is what ultimately what does the work, and one must get out of the way once the proper state of being (equilibrium/homeostasis) is reached!
Ironic. I finally just gave up on wanting a video from you last night and today we have one. 😂 Hope this comment is taken in the humorous manner its meant. Love your videos and wisdom for such a young age. Look forward to your next one. ❤