Going Flat after Mastectomy - What it's Been Like

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  • Опубліковано 4 вер 2024
  • In this video I'm reflecting on my first three months being "out" as a flattie. It's been surprising in many ways. Things have gone so smoothly, no pun intended!
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  • @YorkieUniverse1
    @YorkieUniverse1 10 місяців тому +4

    I'm 9 months out from a double mastectomy. I thought I'd wear prosthetics most of the time but I rarely wear them. It's just so much more comfortable not to wear them and a bra too. I was a little self conscious at first. I feel like I look like a bowling pin. But now I never think about it and really don't care if anyone notices. Fortunately no one seems to notice.

  • @74Benedict
    @74Benedict 9 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much for this.
    P.S. You look like Renee Zellweger.

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  9 місяців тому +2

      Wow, thank you! I’ve been told that and I like her, especially as Beatrix Potter!!!

  • @evabida5447
    @evabida5447 Місяць тому

    Thank you for talking so openly! You are beautiful! I am about 3 weeks away from a double mastectomy with no reconstruction. I am also very petite and never had much there anyways, especially after 2 kids. Although I decided from the beginning I would go flat, I am starting to get pretty anxious! I went through head and neck cancer and finished radiation and chemo 3 yrs. Ago. And now this! Again Thank you for your videos they make me feel alot more confident by your support and kind words! ❤

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  Місяць тому

      I’m so glad they helped you get ready. You will do great!

  • @misswings000
    @misswings000 10 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for sharing your personal experience... you're such an inspiration 🙂

  • @charleedell92
    @charleedell92 6 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for sharing this, I am also asymmetric after getting implants removed and I suspect that in reality most of us who are flat probably don't have the kind of optimal smooth closure that is typically displayed online as only a minority of surgeons have that level of skill and/or willingness to support those who decline implants.

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  6 місяців тому

      Yeah, I think we are seeing progress, but it is slower than it shd be.

  • @trishknight6983
    @trishknight6983 10 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for making these videos.

  • @patriciaanderson1679
    @patriciaanderson1679 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for your videos.

  • @dorothywells-wz5nr
    @dorothywells-wz5nr 3 місяці тому +1

    It has been 5 months since Mastectomy and I am now wearing pads in bras and this makes me feel memory and makes me feel a bit normal. Cheers D

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  3 місяці тому

      We all have our norms-glad you found yours!

  • @FortheHealthofit.
    @FortheHealthofit. 10 місяців тому

    Wonderful for us that you shared ❤.

  • @robinowen3058
    @robinowen3058 2 місяці тому

    I’m three weeks post bilateral mastectomy, no reconstruction, and not planning to wear prosthetics. I would like to find a community of
    ‘Flatties’.

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  2 місяці тому

      You can find a directory of facebook groups for local gatherings of flatties on the website StandTallAFC.org here: standtallafc.org/find-flat-friends/

  • @CassandraJesk
    @CassandraJesk Місяць тому

    i’m having a double mastectomy surgery in a week . i’m choosing to go flat. i’ve been watching your videos .. i thank you for all the information. My question to you is in on one of your videos you stated about what you used to help you sleep and for pain? Can you give me that information? i’d really appreciate it.. Thank you

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  27 днів тому

      Yes yes. I used a form of THC that is not psychoactive when blended with CBD. The brand I use is only available in Oregon. Are you in Oregon by any chance?

  • @tsm7078
    @tsm7078 3 місяці тому

    Hi Kathleen I have just come across this video. I had breast implants after my mastectomy however I decided to have them removed. I am glad I removed them however I now find it hard to find clothes that look ok because my rib cage is protruding so where my breasts would normally be is a bit concave. As a result many clothes don’t look good. In fact I cannot find a bathing suit that fits…. I keep googling to see if there is anyone out there making clothes for people like me but so far no luck…

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  3 місяці тому

      I have made one video about what I've found that works best to wear when you're flat/asymmetric/concave. Here's a link! ua-cam.com/video/_SFJwjlCu48/v-deo.html

    • @tsm7078
      @tsm7078 3 місяці тому

      @@estrogendiaries thank you

  • @user-ho5uq5yp7h
    @user-ho5uq5yp7h 10 місяців тому

    Are you taking Tamoxifen and if so what type of side effects (if any)
    I had an aesthetic flat closure dmx last October. Invasive Ductal and pleomorphic invasive lobular

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  9 місяців тому

      No, I haven’t been pressured to take any endocrine therapy by any of the docs I’ve seen. My lesion was very small and the science says I wouldn’t benefit from the drugs.

  • @fenlandwildlifeclips
    @fenlandwildlifeclips 10 місяців тому

    There is one negative going flat that no one talks about. You can't have a mammogram again. BTW, I'm a half flattie/uni boober. We exist too 😉

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  9 місяців тому +1

      Yes! I love my uni sisters! One of my more recent videos has a photo of me with them. (I still consider myself a uni because of my Goldilocks breast being almost an A.) My breasts were too dense for mammograms anyway, but yes, I’d like to get an ultrasound or mri now and then!

    • @fenlandwildlifeclips
      @fenlandwildlifeclips 9 місяців тому

      @estrogendiaries The NHS don't offer anything. It's self checks only unless you can afford a private scan in the UK.

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  8 місяців тому

      Ugh. That's rough. I'm sorry!

  • @SumairaSiddiquiMasood
    @SumairaSiddiquiMasood 5 місяців тому

    Do people develop lymphedema after Mastectomy?

    • @estrogendiaries
      @estrogendiaries  5 місяців тому +1

      Yes, I believe it is most common for those who have more than a couple of nodes removed. Has more to do with lymph nodes than actual mastectomy.

  • @Debra_Barron
    @Debra_Barron 10 місяців тому

    May I comment ?