Story 1. He won't forgive you. You ruined his life and stabbed him in the back, and he'll divorce you while you end up single like your friend always wanted.
S1: not only should he divorce OP but also sue her for defamation and libel damages for loss of wages from being fired. She physically assaulted him and then filed that he assaulted her, she really out womaned herself. OP deserves jail time and to be alone forever.
Assuming this story is in the US, which I think it is - he will get screwing the courts even if he wins. He will either lose money on lawyers, or lose money from her counter suit , lose lose either way
We can’t judge whether or not she is playing the victim or not. She could be dealing with so much guilt that she feels lost after what she did. She needed to face time for her crimes, but she also sounded like she needed therapy.
@@savannahhague4989she keeps talking about how bad she feels like she wants people to feel sorry for her. She caused EVERY problem, she deserves nothing but our contempt
@@savannahhague4989 your response is ridiculously off-base and deluded. Of course she feels guilt! She should feel guilt!! She assaulted someone and then intentionally ruined his life! She doesn't need therapy, she needs jail time. If a guy hit his wife and then lied and caused her to lose her job would you suggest he get therapy? Are you serious?
10 years of happy marriage went down the drain, ruined a man’s mental state and life, made him loose his job he was excelling in, all because she was so insecure and kept going to one friend that wanted her downfall and she let it and she excelled in everything that friend did. She had a choice. ONE CHOICE WAS TO COMMUNICATE BUT SHE NEVER DID!! She should feel guilty!! The ex husband is nicer than all of us since he isn’t sueing her AND isn’t saying anything bad about her! His life was ruined!! I’m surprised he isn’t saying anything bad about her. I’m hoping he has a new job now and working out his life…honestly that man deserves happiness after all of this…and his happiness will be anything without OP in it. My god. This story was so stupid. COMMUNICATE!! It’s not that hard!! She made it hard on herself and everyone around her. She could have stopped any time. She should have taken the time to realize what she was doing. Buuuut noooo she had to cling to anything she could to justify herself even tho NOTHING made sense! She’s an idiot! And falsely reporting him for DV. That is so stupid! People who are actually IN DV are considered liars or don’t get much consideration in the justice system half the time because of people like OP who lie about this kind of shit!! It’s not fair to them! They go through so much ACTUAL shit and yet they get screwed over literally! DV is a very delicate and complicated matter to handle. And most of the time is screwed over from the justice system for stupid reasons even though half the time there is clear evidence of it happening. It’s not fair to make a lie about that kind of thing that actually happens to people and it’s disgusting she still kept clinging to it. And definitely not fair to the ex husband for doing nothing wrong. OP should feel guilty! My god did 10 years of being married to this man mean nothing to her?!?! Sorry for the long rant it’s just really stupid on how this Woman has no common sense or any shred of humanity. And it’s disgusting on how she accused the husband of DV, which some people actually go through. And DV is traumatizing. The ex husband has every right to sue her. Why he isn’t? I have no idea.
@@savannahhague4989 "deserve more" no you want something you work for it she just cried give me what I want and they gave it to her. Man works for something than a woman swoops in and takes it he protests trys to stop her he gets punished and laughs saying all men are slaves well last time I checked slavery was a big no no
S1 - get ready for the grandest of all backstabs once your supposed friend finds out that you divorced, she will jump and try to steal OP ex-husband for good
Story 1: OP is a grown child. Bullet dodged by not having children with her. Absolutely disgusting. Story 2: Give us all the money, or we won’t give you any of the money we don't have when we die. Say what? 😂
Story 2: OP. Mom is lying. If OP kept the money, then OP would not have to depend on her parents. If OP grandmother left the money to her, then she wanted her granddaughter to have it.
1: OP is so passive it's infuriating. She does something stupid and then watches as everything unfolds around her. She can't bring herself to fix anything or face anyone. She just stands by, shrugging when things blow up. Like she can't possibly believe how this all happened. OP is going to be a victim for the rest of her life. She's so easily manipulated it's actually scary.
"Accusing someone of infidelity without evidence, resorting to physical violence, and making false reports is not only morally wrong but also a serious legal issue. It's important to prioritize honesty, communication, and trust in relationships. False accusations and harmful actions can ruin lives and reputations, and they should never be taken lightly. Everyone deserves respect and fairness, regardless of the situation. If you're dealing with relationship problems, seeking help from a counselor or mediator is always a better option than taking destructive actions
S1: You filed a false police report, depending on the DA in the area that could end up being some jail time, and that would be the least of what OP would deserve.
Story 1: Your insecurities led you to your actions. I hope your ex husband moves on from this traumatic experience. 😭 Story 2: Just sounds like the Parents want to steal the inheritance by manipulating OP, don't fall for it!😶🌫️😭
Last story: OP is having the same reaction as guilty people. She was at least having an emotional affair. Those often eventually lead to physical cheating. He didn't even accuse her of cheating but that's all her guilty mind hears. Then she decides to punish him. Doesn't sound like love and assuring your partner. Sounds like anger for getting caught and having to give up "my BIL" as she so frequently calls him. My, my, mine.
Story 1: This is the sob story of a woman desperately seeking validation. Notice how she never confronted her toxic friend nor retracted the false allegations. This is the truth: She’s not sorry she destroyed her husband’s life, including costing him his job with what she knew was defamation. She’s only regrets feeling like the fool upon realizing her anger was never righteous. She is a true coward from beginning to end.
Story 3 is insane lmao. Idk how people can be so oblivious to how things will look to their significant other. You are spending time with his brother non stop when hes gone and wondering why he’s suspicious???
She’s having an emotional affair with the BIL and doesn’t even realise how inappropriate it is getting, she’s way too close to the picture to see the pattern that is forming
@ yeah no. That’s not a family relationship lol. It’s not her brother. It’s the husbands brother who she acknowledges she talks to all of the time, spends time with, and he takes care of her when her husband is away. You’re insane if you think that’s appropriate.
Seems like most of the coworkers already had his back, just not the people above. Why is it that when it comes to cases of murder or stealing or hurting a child, no one gets fired and what not but when it comes to SA the everybody is down the man’s throat?
I just hope Ethan’s job (specifically, the people that fired him) saw the Reddit post and put two and two together that his wife was lying. As for the OP..All I have to say is ‘Satisfied?’
Story 1: I want to call this story fake but unfortunately it is a lot of women who actually do this Story 2: Op husband was not in the wrong she was getting too close to her BIL to the point it sound like he was her boyfriend
S1: OP's STBXH needs to sue fot Defamation of character. Some are saying Assault as well since she slapped him. However a good lawyer could try to paint that as retaliation for filing the police report. Unless OP is willing to admit underoath she filed a falsified Police report and face the reprucussions that come her way. The bigger Crime is Tanya who was a major instigator is gonna walk away with no consequences she deserves just as much as what OP has coming
Tanya is going to make a move on OP's ex. She most likely wanted OP out of the way. And she knows OP is stupid and easily gaslighted. Story three: Even though OP is refusing to admit it she's having an emotional affair with her bil.
There'sno evidence to support her cheating, but yeah, they'll be starting divorce proceedings soon. There's no saving a relationship like the one they have. They're both just awful, petty, foolish people, lol. The Husband - His friends make fun of his brother being close with his wife. They are the ones insinuating something, and he lets their opinions affect his own, and by extension, his marriage. He should simply get better friends, or at least tell them to shut up and mind their own business. But he let them get in his head, he's weak. OP - She kicked her husband out... I have to assume it's her name alone on the title of the house and she pays all the bills. If not, she had no right to kick him out. And even if that is the case, generally there is a required notice period, you can't just force someone to vacate their established residence. But I guess legality, ethics, and reason don't matter if she's "Angry". She should have been the one to leave if she needed that distance. This isn't the Flintstones, lol... can't just lock your husband out, or hit him on the head with a frying pan, or any of that other cartoon shit, that's NOT how this works in the real world. That she doesn't understand this doesn't bode well for her intelligence or maturity. The correct course of action - Tell the Husband's friends to shut up or get lost. If OP needs to get some space, she is the one who leaves for a few days, because she maintains personal agency over her own actions, not the right to dictate the actions of others. They can talk it out, either one on one, or with a councilor (Normally counseling is a bit heavy-handed for such a disagreement, but in this case it's clear they need someone else to do the thinking for them). They can set reasonable boundaries in their marriage (neither ever interacting with members of the opposite sex is NOT "reasonable", it's asinine, lol). But perhaps a compromise is that they only entertain guests as a couple. That's more in the ballpark. They're both just insecure idiots. This marriage is doomed to fail, there's no saving it. They're not smart enough. They're not mature enough. They lack the required emotional control. It just won't work.
S1: seen this story before and hearing it again she really had “I am stupid” tattooed on her forehead huh. Assaulted the husband falsely accused him he lost his job social life and everything in between because of you there’s no dictionary with the word forgiveness in it for this situation. There’s a special hot place for women like this. S3: yea no that seems suspicious there are clearly reasons why he would act like that you spend way too much time with him it’s questionable behavior that arouses suspicion. Me personally it woulda just ben over cause nah cause this seems like an emotional affair with how close you are. And it’s not even about insecurity actions create suspicion and spending so much time with and being so close to another man even if my own brother is suspicious behavior. and in a world where people lie, cheat and betray people for less these days with little sense of morality it’s not hard to get the thought in your head some ain’t right.
S3: This is an emotional affair with BIL. Her reaction was a guilt response. She can double down, but she knows she is wrong. That's why she kicked him out. Then, she made demands on HIS boundary. Her husband should divorce her. Also, turn the tables: if her sister behaved this way with her husband, she would drag him through the mud.
to me... seems like all of this could of been avoided if she just talked with him about what she saw and was feeling when she first started feeling it and maybe there's a chance that none of this could of happened. But with her being emotional... and having a friend like Tanya who seems to be well aware of how emotional she is, and can twist things to get OP to do what she wants. I'm unsure if it was just a timebomb or if there was any chance of it being defused. I've told people countless times.. communication is key to releationships... no matter if they are work related, friendships or lovers.... if you are having a problem with the person.... talk to them about it... if things aren't getting anywhere but you both want to work on things.... find someone won't lean one way or the other to talk with you both... as sometimes you need someone that can understand things from both point of views.. while telling you both what it looks like it's going on from an outside perspective
Why? OP husband is very insecure. BIL wife has no problem with her husband being close to Sil, so why husband? Why didn't husband talk to wife 1st about how he was feeling? Isn't communication one of the most important things in marriage?
S2: The parents want the kid to fully withdraw the IRA in cash and give it to the grandfather. That is particularly evil. Stick OP with the tax bill while taking all the cash.
Story three: I've seen many Reddit stories where a guy was getting cheat on in. The affair was between his wife and his brother so OP's Husband was just trying to prevent that from happening by asking his brother to respect boundaries
Story 3: OP refuses to see hugging BIL as physically comforting him given the context is odd, seems like OP wants to convince herself that whatever happened between her and the BIL is totally normal. Also, OP always jumps to the most extreme conclusions in any situation makes it even more suspicious; husband not comfortable with how close she is with the BIL? He is accusing OP of cheating with BIL. OP needs to put some boundaries with the BIL? Let's stay away from men altogether and put the same rule to husband. Why would anyone went to such extremes when asked to make reasonable boundaries with ONE person?
Story 3: Wife is clearly having an emotional affair with BIL. I bet she'd be PISSED if her husband was that close to a woman that wasn't her. The fact that she basically reaffirmed his feelings by kicking him out of the house and not letting him return is telling. Shows that he's not high enough on the totem pole to even be able to live in his own house when she's upset. "Oh, you were feeling uncomfortable with how your brother was spending nearly all of his free time with me while you were away? GET OUT." Perfect marriage, my ass.
Story 1: Can't find title online, therefore, given this channel's practices, it is most likely fake and made up by secret voices (Yes, if he tells you that he "switched it up with AI" that also means it is fake and not a real story posted online) Story 2 and 3 are real. Don't bother with the first one though
S3: She may well love her husband, but by the way the OP talks she ‘likes’ the brother-in-law more. As others have suggested, it’s more of an emotional entanglement than anything.
Day 131 of telling secretvoices to have a good day. Also my hand surgery went well. Just cant use my left hand for nearly a month. What happened was a coworker (i work as a cook) didnt see me reaching for something next to me and slammed a heavy mixing bowl roght into my hand. I heard a crunch and then the pain set in. It wasnt malicious or intentionally done so im not angry at the guy, just upset my hand is cast up right now.
S2 - OP you need to get an attorney asap! Your grandmother must have left you a lot of money and that’s why your parents are lying & trying to coerce & trick you into signing it over to them. Call your grandfather, you won’t know if he’s a part of your parents bs until you talk to him but use a Google number or something like that just in case he’s a pos like your parents. Good luck! Get the life changing money your grandma left you and live your best life without your greedy parents in it. Don’t give them a single penny & now you’ll be able to pay for your own education. Now go make your grandma proud!
Stay single gentlemen. All women have the power to destroy you with a lie and no evidence. Dont let them put you in their crosshairs. Stay single, invisible, and out of their lives.
Story 1. He won't forgive you. You ruined his life and stabbed him in the back, and he'll divorce you while you end up single like your friend always wanted.
He would be a doormat if he didi
Or she’ll swoop in and try to get with him, which is what I think is her end goal
Story 1: I feel bad for OPs husband! I hope that you are proud of yourself for ruining his life! I hope that Ethan will get his life back!
S1: not only should he divorce OP but also sue her for defamation and libel damages for loss of wages from being fired. She physically assaulted him and then filed that he assaulted her, she really out womaned herself. OP deserves jail time and to be alone forever.
Assuming this story is in the US, which I think it is - he will get screwing the courts even if he wins. He will either lose money on lawyers, or lose money from her counter suit , lose lose either way
Not alone, she deserves to be with a man who treats her exactly as she claimed Ethan did
Give her a little time, and she’ll find the man she truly deserves. It’ll be hilarious.
And then her friend will gaslight her to stay with an abusive man just to laugh
Male victims of DV are 2X more likely to be arrested than female abusers
First story OP needs to be sued for defamation and assault. She ruined his life- how DARE she try and play the victim.
We can’t judge whether or not she is playing the victim or not. She could be dealing with so much guilt that she feels lost after what she did. She needed to face time for her crimes, but she also sounded like she needed therapy.
@@savannahhague4989she keeps talking about how bad she feels like she wants people to feel sorry for her. She caused EVERY problem, she deserves nothing but our contempt
@@savannahhague4989 your response is ridiculously off-base and deluded. Of course she feels guilt! She should feel guilt!! She assaulted someone and then intentionally ruined his life! She doesn't need therapy, she needs jail time.
If a guy hit his wife and then lied and caused her to lose her job would you suggest he get therapy? Are you serious?
10 years of happy marriage went down the drain, ruined a man’s mental state and life, made him loose his job he was excelling in, all because she was so insecure and kept going to one friend that wanted her downfall and she let it and she excelled in everything that friend did. She had a choice. ONE CHOICE WAS TO COMMUNICATE BUT SHE NEVER DID!!
She should feel guilty!! The ex husband is nicer than all of us since he isn’t sueing her AND isn’t saying anything bad about her! His life was ruined!! I’m surprised he isn’t saying anything bad about her. I’m hoping he has a new job now and working out his life…honestly that man deserves happiness after all of this…and his happiness will be anything without OP in it. My god.
This story was so stupid. COMMUNICATE!! It’s not that hard!! She made it hard on herself and everyone around her. She could have stopped any time. She should have taken the time to realize what she was doing. Buuuut noooo she had to cling to anything she could to justify herself even tho NOTHING made sense! She’s an idiot!
And falsely reporting him for DV. That is so stupid! People who are actually IN DV are considered liars or don’t get much consideration in the justice system half the time because of people like OP who lie about this kind of shit!! It’s not fair to them! They go through so much ACTUAL shit and yet they get screwed over literally! DV is a very delicate and complicated matter to handle. And most of the time is screwed over from the justice system for stupid reasons even though half the time there is clear evidence of it happening.
It’s not fair to make a lie about that kind of thing that actually happens to people and it’s disgusting she still kept clinging to it. And definitely not fair to the ex husband for doing nothing wrong. OP should feel guilty! My god did 10 years of being married to this man mean nothing to her?!?!
Sorry for the long rant it’s just really stupid on how this Woman has no common sense or any shred of humanity. And it’s disgusting on how she accused the husband of DV, which some people actually go through. And DV is traumatizing. The ex husband has every right to sue her. Why he isn’t? I have no idea.
@@savannahhague4989 "deserve more" no you want something you work for it she just cried give me what I want and they gave it to her. Man works for something than a woman swoops in and takes it he protests trys to stop her he gets punished and laughs saying all men are slaves well last time I checked slavery was a big no no
S1 - get ready for the grandest of all backstabs once your supposed friend finds out that you divorced, she will jump and try to steal OP ex-husband for good
That's exactly what I thought her motive was.
She'll even hit her with "if you really loved him you never would have listened to me, I'll be better for him"
Story 1: OP is a grown child. Bullet dodged by not having children with her. Absolutely disgusting.
Story 2: Give us all the money, or we won’t give you any of the money we don't have when we die. Say what? 😂
Story 2: OP. Mom is lying. If OP kept the money, then OP would not have to depend on her parents. If OP grandmother left the money to her, then she wanted her granddaughter to have it.
He needs to sue you for defamation and press assault charges against you
S1: i hope from the dephs of my soul she really finds a man exactly like she accused her husband of being and i hope nobody believes her.
Amen.
1: OP is so passive it's infuriating. She does something stupid and then watches as everything unfolds around her. She can't bring herself to fix anything or face anyone. She just stands by, shrugging when things blow up. Like she can't possibly believe how this all happened. OP is going to be a victim for the rest of her life. She's so easily manipulated it's actually scary.
Story 1. "Single women keeping women single."
I think the friend is imaginary
Kevin Samuels said it best
Naah... these are toxic friends, nothing to do with being single.
"Accusing someone of infidelity without evidence, resorting to physical violence, and making false reports is not only morally wrong but also a serious legal issue. It's important to prioritize honesty, communication, and trust in relationships. False accusations and harmful actions can ruin lives and reputations, and they should never be taken lightly. Everyone deserves respect and fairness, regardless of the situation. If you're dealing with relationship problems, seeking help from a counselor or mediator is always a better option than taking destructive actions
S1: You filed a false police report, depending on the DA in the area that could end up being some jail time, and that would be the least of what OP would deserve.
Wooman never get punished
@@victormontes7007tides are turning brother, it won't be long until they get charged, or men just end up giving up on society as a whole.
@@victormontes7007 agreed pink pass.
Story 1: Your insecurities led you to your actions. I hope your ex husband moves on from this traumatic experience. 😭
Story 2: Just sounds like the Parents want to steal the inheritance by manipulating OP, don't fall for it!😶🌫️😭
Story 3: I smell a divorce and an estrangement between the brothers
And she is already cheating, either with the brother or with someone on the side
She's delusional AF...🤦🏻♀️
Is she blind? Suffering from some sort of brain damage? Something doesn't smell right.
Last story: OP is having the same reaction as guilty people. She was at least having an emotional affair. Those often eventually lead to physical cheating. He didn't even accuse her of cheating but that's all her guilty mind hears. Then she decides to punish him. Doesn't sound like love and assuring your partner. Sounds like anger for getting caught and having to give up "my BIL" as she so frequently calls him. My, my, mine.
Story 1: This is the sob story of a woman desperately seeking validation. Notice how she never confronted her toxic friend nor retracted the false allegations.
This is the truth: She’s not sorry she destroyed her husband’s life, including costing him his job with what she knew was defamation.
She’s only regrets feeling like the fool upon realizing her anger was never righteous.
She is a true coward from beginning to end.
Story 3 is insane lmao. Idk how people can be so oblivious to how things will look to their significant other. You are spending time with his brother non stop when hes gone and wondering why he’s suspicious???
She’s having an emotional affair with the BIL and doesn’t even realise how inappropriate it is getting, she’s way too close to the picture to see the pattern that is forming
@ yeah no. That’s not a family relationship lol. It’s not her brother. It’s the husbands brother who she acknowledges she talks to all of the time, spends time with, and he takes care of her when her husband is away. You’re insane if you think that’s appropriate.
Yep
S1
This woman should be in jail
First story: you belong in jail. Go to the police and set the record straight.
Story 1: He lost a job because of you! I am glad that Ethans parents has his back!
Seems like most of the coworkers already had his back, just not the people above. Why is it that when it comes to cases of murder or stealing or hurting a child, no one gets fired and what not but when it comes to SA the everybody is down the man’s throat?
I just hope Ethan’s job (specifically, the people that fired him) saw the Reddit post and put two and two together that his wife was lying.
As for the OP..All I have to say is ‘Satisfied?’
Story1. OP shifts the blame to he friend. Yeah, 'they made me do it' shit
No, she didn't. She said she had let her do it. She acknowledged it was her fault.
@shadowscall7758 her fault that she listened to a friend. Not the same
Friend didn’t make her do it, she had a choice and chose not to talk to her husband because she’s a coward
Story 1:
I want to call this story fake but unfortunately it is a lot of women who actually do this
Story 2:
Op husband was not in the wrong she was getting too close to her BIL to the point it sound like he was her boyfriend
It's almost like a open emotional affair
With how much waxing poetic there is in story 1, it's most certainly fake.
S1, you deserve to get with a man who treats you EXACTLY as you claimed Ethan did.
S1: OP's STBXH needs to sue fot Defamation of character. Some are saying Assault as well since she slapped him. However a good lawyer could try to paint that as retaliation for filing the police report. Unless OP is willing to admit underoath she filed a falsified Police report and face the reprucussions that come her way. The bigger Crime is Tanya who was a major instigator is gonna walk away with no consequences she deserves just as much as what OP has coming
Of course SHE wants to move on
Another case of "single women keep women single".
Tanya is going to make a move on OP's ex. She most likely wanted OP out of the way. And she knows OP is stupid and easily gaslighted.
Story three: Even though OP is refusing to admit it she's having an emotional affair with her bil.
Funny when's "friend" come between and believe it and now, wishing came true.. you're alone with guilt like bites fishy..
S3 should get a divorce
Story 3: op is delusional. Id be surprised if she wasnt cheating after how she responded to her husband.
There'sno evidence to support her cheating, but yeah, they'll be starting divorce proceedings soon. There's no saving a relationship like the one they have. They're both just awful, petty, foolish people, lol.
The Husband -
His friends make fun of his brother being close with his wife. They are the ones insinuating something, and he lets their opinions affect his own, and by extension, his marriage. He should simply get better friends, or at least tell them to shut up and mind their own business. But he let them get in his head, he's weak.
OP -
She kicked her husband out... I have to assume it's her name alone on the title of the house and she pays all the bills. If not, she had no right to kick him out. And even if that is the case, generally there is a required notice period, you can't just force someone to vacate their established residence. But I guess legality, ethics, and reason don't matter if she's "Angry". She should have been the one to leave if she needed that distance. This isn't the Flintstones, lol... can't just lock your husband out, or hit him on the head with a frying pan, or any of that other cartoon shit, that's NOT how this works in the real world. That she doesn't understand this doesn't bode well for her intelligence or maturity.
The correct course of action -
Tell the Husband's friends to shut up or get lost. If OP needs to get some space, she is the one who leaves for a few days, because she maintains personal agency over her own actions, not the right to dictate the actions of others. They can talk it out, either one on one, or with a councilor (Normally counseling is a bit heavy-handed for such a disagreement, but in this case it's clear they need someone else to do the thinking for them). They can set reasonable boundaries in their marriage (neither ever interacting with members of the opposite sex is NOT "reasonable", it's asinine, lol). But perhaps a compromise is that they only entertain guests as a couple. That's more in the ballpark.
They're both just insecure idiots. This marriage is doomed to fail, there's no saving it. They're not smart enough. They're not mature enough. They lack the required emotional control. It just won't work.
Story 1: ☕️
S1: seen this story before and hearing it again she really had “I am stupid” tattooed on her forehead huh. Assaulted the husband falsely accused him he lost his job social life and everything in between because of you there’s no dictionary with the word forgiveness in it for this situation. There’s a special hot place for women like this.
S3: yea no that seems suspicious there are clearly reasons why he would act like that you spend way too much time with him it’s questionable behavior that arouses suspicion. Me personally it woulda just ben over cause nah cause this seems like an emotional affair with how close you are. And it’s not even about insecurity actions create suspicion and spending so much time with and being so close to another man even if my own brother is suspicious behavior. and in a world where people lie, cheat and betray people for less these days with little sense of morality it’s not hard to get the thought in your head some ain’t right.
S3: This is an emotional affair with BIL. Her reaction was a guilt response. She can double down, but she knows she is wrong. That's why she kicked him out. Then, she made demands on HIS boundary. Her husband should divorce her. Also, turn the tables: if her sister behaved this way with her husband, she would drag him through the mud.
S3 So OP kicks hubby and BIL consoles her sure we belive OP shall not contact BIL she loves him emotionaly OP is full of Shyt
to me... seems like all of this could of been avoided if she just talked with him about what she saw and was feeling when she first started feeling it and maybe there's a chance that none of this could of happened. But with her being emotional... and having a friend like Tanya who seems to be well aware of how emotional she is, and can twist things to get OP to do what she wants. I'm unsure if it was just a timebomb or if there was any chance of it being defused.
I've told people countless times.. communication is key to releationships... no matter if they are work related, friendships or lovers.... if you are having a problem with the person.... talk to them about it... if things aren't getting anywhere but you both want to work on things.... find someone won't lean one way or the other to talk with you both... as sometimes you need someone that can understand things from both point of views.. while telling you both what it looks like it's going on from an outside perspective
Story 3 - he needs to divorce the whre.
Why? OP husband is very insecure. BIL wife has no problem with her husband being close to Sil, so why husband? Why didn't husband talk to wife 1st about how he was feeling? Isn't communication one of the most important things in marriage?
Does anyone have the reddit link on the 1st story?
Accuse him if DV, yet she slapped him
S2: The parents want the kid to fully withdraw the IRA in cash and give it to the grandfather. That is particularly evil. Stick OP with the tax bill while taking all the cash.
For the first story, I hope the op ex-husband sued for defamation and Assault. She ruined a good men life, how dare she try to play victim
Story three: I've seen many Reddit stories where a guy was getting cheat on in. The affair was between his wife and his brother so OP's Husband was just trying to prevent that from happening by asking his brother to respect boundaries
Ladies, be wary of a bitter, single woman.
They will do everything they can to turn you into the same.
Story 3: OP refuses to see hugging BIL as physically comforting him given the context is odd, seems like OP wants to convince herself that whatever happened between her and the BIL is totally normal. Also, OP always jumps to the most extreme conclusions in any situation makes it even more suspicious; husband not comfortable with how close she is with the BIL? He is accusing OP of cheating with BIL. OP needs to put some boundaries with the BIL? Let's stay away from men altogether and put the same rule to husband. Why would anyone went to such extremes when asked to make reasonable boundaries with ONE person?
S1: I hope OP gets sued for defamation and slander
Bloody hell, what the frick did I just listen to in the first story? She should go to jail
Story 3: Wife is clearly having an emotional affair with BIL. I bet she'd be PISSED if her husband was that close to a woman that wasn't her. The fact that she basically reaffirmed his feelings by kicking him out of the house and not letting him return is telling. Shows that he's not high enough on the totem pole to even be able to live in his own house when she's upset.
"Oh, you were feeling uncomfortable with how your brother was spending nearly all of his free time with me while you were away? GET OUT."
Perfect marriage, my ass.
Thank you God for taking on the burden of omnipotence because hell would be full if it was up to me
Story 1 OP shouldn't be for given or move on to another relationship, she sounds like a lousy person no cut out for aby relationship
Any update on S1?
Story 1: Can't find title online, therefore, given this channel's practices, it is most likely fake and made up by secret voices (Yes, if he tells you that he "switched it up with AI" that also means it is fake and not a real story posted online)
Story 2 and 3 are real. Don't bother with the first one though
Story 1: Why are you confiding in Tanya!
S3: She may well love her husband, but by the way the OP talks she ‘likes’ the brother-in-law more. As others have suggested, it’s more of an emotional entanglement than anything.
Story 3. Trust no one, not even a brother with the wife when they are alone. Yes she is the asshole and she is stupid for not seeing it.
I see we're in the "false accusation" meta of the reddit react.
S1: single women keep women single
Day 131 of telling secretvoices to have a good day. Also my hand surgery went well. Just cant use my left hand for nearly a month.
What happened was a coworker (i work as a cook) didnt see me reaching for something next to me and slammed a heavy mixing bowl roght into my hand. I heard a crunch and then the pain set in. It wasnt malicious or intentionally done so im not angry at the guy, just upset my hand is cast up right now.
op 2 is a jerk. She doesnt even respect how his husband feels.
OP 2 isn't married 🤦♂️
Story one: and people wonder why there are more and more incel's in the world......
Body cams and wire mics
Giving women equal rights was a terrible mistake
If you're not trolling, hopefully all the women in your life see you for who you really are
@ They all agree with me. Cope and seethe.
That's sexist bro
Women are doing this even before feminism came in light
It's not all that Morden Are like All Women from all generations are Same
@@Indian_Germany Ikr? It’s awesome.
S2 - OP you need to get an attorney asap! Your grandmother must have left you a lot of money and that’s why your parents are lying & trying to coerce & trick you into signing it over to them. Call your grandfather, you won’t know if he’s a part of your parents bs until you talk to him but use a Google number or something like that just in case he’s a pos like your parents. Good luck! Get the life changing money your grandma left you and live your best life without your greedy parents in it. Don’t give them a single penny & now you’ll be able to pay for your own education. Now go make your grandma proud!
Stay single gentlemen. All women have the power to destroy you with a lie and no evidence. Dont let them put you in their crosshairs. Stay single, invisible, and out of their lives.
That’s a very pessimistic and, telling reply.
Coming from a man, lots of great womens wre out there. Just the same for us mens there is always good or bad to both sides. It's unfair to generalize.
@@Russell8ii57it's only unfair to generalize if you act on that to harm an individual. Otherwise it's human nature to generalize.
On one hand, maybe OP's husband did cheat. On the other hand, she married the wrong guy, and worse, she married too early.