If this is even true we're only hearing 1 side of the story. I mean if all his friends knew & none of them said anything its not wrong to ask why or what he do to deserve it. Ive known or worked with people that every1 had an issue with or would get into it with yet they were cool with every1 else. However that 1 person would play the victim & act if they were the bad. Im not saying this to victim blame if this is true & he didnt deserve it all power to him but if 1 person is the 1 fighting with every1 else chances are they're the problem not every1 else. Yes there's exceptions to the rule & it could be that every1 else is a pos but it could also be the other way around.
Good on the poster for having the balls to stand their ground and have no regrets cuz dude I'm so tired of these people who get cheated on and come on to the internet and ask guys is there a way to fix this guys I feel guilty because everybody's telling me this and that I'm glad that for once somebody just told everybody to go fuck off
This is a gender-swapped story. In the original OP was female and her boyfriend cheated on her with her female best friend. There are a few tells, like when Ethan said OP was jealous of him because OP's girlfriend wouldn't propose to him, and that OP was trying to "steal his thunder". While it is not unheard of it's very rare for the woman to propose to the man, and a man would not talk about a wedding being his thunder. At one point OP also said he's not a "drama king", which is just a gender swapped version of the original story's "drama queen" which obviously is far more commonly used. Then there are small things like OP talked about taking up journaling, which again is not unheard of for men, but vastly more common for women.
These type of wedding reception revenge stories predates the internet and youtube. Like when they printed out all of their cheating pictures and tape it under the seats at the wedding. Almost all of these stories are either made up or just variations of urban myths.
GF can feel free to tell everyone that OP is the psycho in this story. But don't forget to tell them about the chapter where GF and Best Friend created the psycho.
So..... I guess after realizing she can't have a guy on the back burner she got married instead? And it couldn't last a year. Ha. She will be back looking for sympathy.
He literally could of had ANY other girl 💀 choosing his best friends girl was honestly a stupid move especially at the event when ANYONE could of seen them outside in a CAR
Cant have a rational argument with someone who is in denial and can't accept accountability, and can only blame others for their problems. No need to get angry just be done. In fact going quiet or ghosting drives them crazy. Simple people are responsible for their actions. Someone cheating is on them. Being distant, insecure, weak, or lots of other things is on the person who did it. Accept the consequences for your actions and not for the actions of others. Makes life simpler.
If you would have talked to them, they would have gaslighted you until you were convinced you were wrong. You did it the only way you could. Petty but brilliant
Really important advice for younger people, guys and girls: your first relationship, no matter how good it is, will never last. Enjoy every moment and, when it will end, you will suffer immensely but you will, eventually, get over it. If you really want to marry someone WAIT, and absolutely never do it before your 30's, nothing good comes from rushing things. Funny thing is that everyone thinks he will be the exeption, that he's special but in reality we all are humans, some shittier than others but still more similar than you think.
The only response needed for someone pulling that, "you're no saint yourself" angle is, "I'm not interested in being lectured on morality by degenerate."
Public humiliation is what everyone in the room needed. His family needed to know how degenerate and depraved he is and her family deserved to know that their daughter is trash and lied to them to screw over them and her own sister. Now, no one can rug sweep and all parties are forced to be adults. They all owe you a debt of gratitude for forcing them on a better path.
Yeah. Too bad this story has been gender swapped. The original story can be found in the r/ girl relationship. The OP is a woman. And yes. Women do need to know the difference between a man who wants them vs a man who wants their time, energy and unpaid labor.
This is one of those things that make you feel like a conquering hero in the moment and is very easy to cheer for on the sidelines, but is also extremely irresponsible. It's going to bring about a cycle of bullshit with many people who had nothing to do with it like the in-laws caught in the crossfire. I can't say I condone it, but I do understand.
So she didn't want to marry this guy who she was 8 years of relationship and 4 years living together with, and married Ethan in just two months? Oh, yeah, the affair has been running for years and this guy was just her meal ticket and ATM who put a roof over her head and released her of being her own breadwinner.
3:56 while i'm sure there's much worse things and people and situations in the world at large? From what the poster is describing, those don't sound like friends at all. He could have just said it's not worth it, but considering they were all in the know about this.. And..and we're actually laughing at the situation?? The poster could have responded and done much MUCH worse than dropping this like a bombshell on the wedding day. 6:14 WOW ju- WOW so he's one of THOSE kinda guys huh? One would think that, given that he was counting on this marriage financially, they would have kept some savings for himself. Some skill set some job at LEAST.
gender bent, anyone actually listening can catch on. she not proposing? the fiancee sleeping around with men and risk being disenherited? older by 6y from him? and many others
Why does the OP give one single rat’s a@@ about hearing how he’d “ruined” Ethan’s life? Everybody in the story - OP, girlfriend, AP and all the friends who knew - is an AH.
Who dates a girl for 8 years these days? Really? Damn dude. Thats a long time to be dating ANYONE! IDK. LOL I think that is a little weird. Bill Fisher 2:17
Well she's right it took two people to destroy the relationship but she knows it was actually her and the almost groom. He should have texted her that then blocked her.
If this is even true we're only hearing 1 side of the story. I mean if all his friends knew & none of them said anything its not wrong to ask why or what he do to deserve it. Ive known or worked with people that every1 had an issue with or would get into it with yet they were cool with every1 else. However that 1 person would play the victim & act if they were the bad. Im not saying this to victim blame if this is true & he didnt deserve it all power to him but if 1 person is the 1 fighting with every1 else chances are they're the problem not every1 else. Yes there's exceptions to the rule & it could be that every1 else is a pos but it could also be the other way around.
also and update after 2 years? at that point most people dont even care about they little issues. Let alone on a channel that takes other peoples stories probably not even with permission sometimes and gets subs and maybe a check from youtube for copyrighting peoples person posts.
There is no excuse for a cheating w***e but I cant see the dude telling the story being with well anyone he just seems to be like a boring AF stick in the mud type.
I'm sorry but this OP doesn't have much principles to start with. Who on their rught mind would consider someome that is a deadbeat, a gold digger and a cheat as " best friend "?
He didn’t know at the time really..I used to consider someone who used men as my best friend 😅 Just took me a while to see she was doing it and didn’t care..the moment she admitted she finally used a guy I was so disgusted and couldn’t keep making excuses in my head for her! Haven’t talked to her since.
Op was a simp. Every1 but him new she was a 304. N Ethan wasnt the only ap in those 8yrs. Bruh get a backbone or it'll be the same thing even w/ new gf.
He wasn’t a simp..he just didn’t know 🫤 Exposing them in public to their families and friends WAS having a backbone, he actively tried to avoid people like them after that all went down and focused on himself
@testerwulf3357 he was naive 2 his gf true self. 8yrs n he was blinded by love. He brought up marriage n she denied it. 😕2gether 8yrs, living 2gether for 4yrs🫠 arguing for months about it. He even admitted how he was blind 2 how long she was cheating on him n ignored red flags?! ... thats simping. He was 2 break up w/ her long be4 that. Mans overheard n broke down crying bout it? 😢.. he finally got a backbone e exposed her, wow bravo, took him 8 whole yrs
Why this need to get married ?...a ring and piece of paper does not make you a better person partner or parent...it only means you agree to all divorce laws
She's calling you a psycho? She strung you along for years .
WAHMEN ☕🙄😮💨😠🤢😡😡😡
Anything a cheater said about you, even it's good or bad, has no substance. Just ignore and avoid her like a dirty public toilet.
You dodged a bullet mate. Having a terrible partner and terrible friends did you no favors. They were always awful, you just didn't know it yet.
More like a nuclear capable intercontinental ballistic missile
It's not a real story. Just a story
After cheating and betraying OP's trust in worst way possible they have Gaull to call you Psychotic
If this is even true we're only hearing 1 side of the story. I mean if all his friends knew & none of them said anything its not wrong to ask why or what he do to deserve it. Ive known or worked with people that every1 had an issue with or would get into it with yet they were cool with every1 else. However that 1 person would play the victim & act if they were the bad. Im not saying this to victim blame if this is true & he didnt deserve it all power to him but if 1 person is the 1 fighting with every1 else chances are they're the problem not every1 else. Yes there's exceptions to the rule & it could be that every1 else is a pos but it could also be the other way around.
@@whocares8584🤡 🤡 🤡
Dude, you dodged a huge bullet. Your life would have been a giant, continuous migraine.
Good on the poster for having the balls to stand their ground and have no regrets cuz dude I'm so tired of these people who get cheated on and come on to the internet and ask guys is there a way to fix this guys I feel guilty because everybody's telling me this and that I'm glad that for once somebody just told everybody to go fuck off
THIS.
I hope OP made everybody knows supposed friends knew and helped Ethan and Nicole.
If you friends knew and were laughing behind your back...they weren't your friends.
A enemy is always better than a fake friend because unlike a fake friend the enemy will never stab you in the back.
With friends like these who needs enemies
That was beautiful. They got exactly what they asked for. And clearly those people were not your friends.
REAL friends or boyfriends/girlfriends don't betray one another in such a degrading manner
This is a gender-swapped story. In the original OP was female and her boyfriend cheated on her with her female best friend. There are a few tells, like when Ethan said OP was jealous of him because OP's girlfriend wouldn't propose to him, and that OP was trying to "steal his thunder". While it is not unheard of it's very rare for the woman to propose to the man, and a man would not talk about a wedding being his thunder. At one point OP also said he's not a "drama king", which is just a gender swapped version of the original story's "drama queen" which obviously is far more commonly used. Then there are small things like OP talked about taking up journaling, which again is not unheard of for men, but vastly more common for women.
I just found the other story on r/girl relationships. Just posted a little while ago.
These type of wedding reception revenge stories predates the internet and youtube. Like when they printed out all of their cheating pictures and tape it under the seats at the wedding. Almost all of these stories are either made up or just variations of urban myths.
Thanks
It's reddit none of this is real
@purpleman223 but yet here we are
That's karma 😂
👋 SMACK!😮
GF can feel free to tell everyone that OP is the psycho in this story. But don't forget to tell them about the chapter where GF and Best Friend created the psycho.
So..... I guess after realizing she can't have a guy on the back burner she got married instead? And it couldn't last a year. Ha.
She will be back looking for sympathy.
Thats the kind of girl that goes to tiktok asking where are all the nice guys 😂😂
dude had a fiance who was willing to go for an open relationship and he still cheated? OP had every right to expose him.
He literally could of had ANY other girl 💀 choosing his best friends girl was honestly a stupid move especially at the event when ANYONE could of seen them outside in a CAR
You are NEVER wrong for telling the TRUTH. You have no obligation to cover up how evil people are. ALWAYS FULLY EXPOSE CHEATERS
I grew a pair in 6th grade. It changed my life for the better. I recommend it!
I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again. Anything that can be destroyed by the truth, should be.
Remember boys a enemy is always better than a fake friend. Because unlike a fake friend a enemy will never stab you in the back.
She was using him all that time. AINT no telling how many Ethans there were. That's why she wouldn't marry him.
Cant have a rational argument with someone who is in denial and can't accept accountability, and can only blame others for their problems. No need to get angry just be done. In fact going quiet or ghosting drives them crazy. Simple people are responsible for their actions. Someone cheating is on them. Being distant, insecure, weak, or lots of other things is on the person who did it. Accept the consequences for your actions and not for the actions of others. Makes life simpler.
The best method to expose cheaters is publicly. You control the narrative and they don’t have time to spin the story.
He did the right thing
If you would have talked to them, they would have gaslighted you until you were convinced you were wrong. You did it the only way you could. Petty but brilliant
A woman admit when she's wrong. That will never happen , not till the day hell freezes over.
TRIGGERED 😅
BTW it's gender swapped. The original story can be found in the r/ girl relationship. So it was the man unable to admit cheating is wrong. 😅😅😅😅
Really important advice for younger people, guys and girls: your first relationship, no matter how good it is, will never last. Enjoy every moment and, when it will end, you will suffer immensely but you will, eventually, get over it.
If you really want to marry someone WAIT, and absolutely never do it before your 30's, nothing good comes from rushing things.
Funny thing is that everyone thinks he will be the exeption, that he's special but in reality we all are humans, some shittier than others but still more similar than you think.
Ew. Instead of leaving she doubled down on the gaslighting??? Glad the trash gave you a reason to have it taken out
How people do not realize this is an AI content is beyond me.
I AM SO HAPPY FOR OP! If you somehow see this I hope things are still going great for you!
You really dont need enemies with friends like this
I guess this is the one, this is the comment that we'll have to see 500 times a day for the next 2 years.
Man dodged an artillery shell. And ehh, life... life is a beach.
He ruined his own life. If he had an open relationship, the dude's GF did not
Hmm he wasn't your friend and the group that knew wasn't your friends 🤔 good on you exposing em she making excuses
If you leave somewhere and she doesnt leave with you, that's a bad sign
Bro didn’t just find out he has a cheating girlfriend, but he found out all his friends are fake and aren’t truly his friends
Not your best friend and not your friends ... ditch them all
Nope, HE ruined HIS life by being a POS. You simply shined a light on the darkness that they both created for themselves, good riddance!
The only response needed for someone pulling that, "you're no saint yourself" angle is,
"I'm not interested in being lectured on morality by degenerate."
Best revenge you ever die. Bro. I’m proud of you 😊
NTA!!
Oh and OP, they are "friends" not friends.....
Oh and Nicole, get your crap and get out...NOW!
Public humiliation is what everyone in the room needed. His family needed to know how degenerate and depraved he is and her family deserved to know that their daughter is trash and lied to them to screw over them and her own sister. Now, no one can rug sweep and all parties are forced to be adults. They all owe you a debt of gratitude for forcing them on a better path.
Naaa, Ethan ain't homeless. He got 6 friends that should have a place for him since it was all a joke to them anyway.
At least the ex fiancé doesn’t have to worry about getting her inheritance all she has to say is I don’t ever want a man again
Men have to differentiate between women have a problem with them in the relationship to having a problem with being in relationship with them.
Yeah. Too bad this story has been gender swapped. The original story can be found in the r/ girl relationship. The OP is a woman. And yes. Women do need to know the difference between a man who wants them vs a man who wants their time, energy and unpaid labor.
Why does Ethan’s fiance need permission from her family if she is a grown ass woman?
Sad simp regrets not being more considerate of the scum whom completely betrayed him.
Wow, lol
He doesn’t regret anything, he actively says so 🫤
Um, it's gender swapped. The original story the OP is a woman. Is she a simp?
This is one of those things that make you feel like a conquering hero in the moment and is very easy to cheer for on the sidelines, but is also extremely irresponsible. It's going to bring about a cycle of bullshit with many people who had nothing to do with it like the in-laws caught in the crossfire. I can't say I condone it, but I do understand.
I saw an exact gender swapped version of this the other day...
Same story. UA-cam just wanted to give the XY's a comments section to express their misogyny freely.
Lies and fantasy. Literary incontinency reveals it.
Why cheating is not a crime ?
So she didn't want to marry this guy who she was 8 years of relationship and 4 years living together with, and married Ethan in just two months?
Oh, yeah, the affair has been running for years and this guy was just her meal ticket and ATM who put a roof over her head and released her of being her own breadwinner.
I really would like to know what his "friends" would have said to defend the undefendable.
3:56 while i'm sure there's much worse things and people and situations in the world at large? From what the poster is describing, those don't sound like friends at all. He could have just said it's not worth it, but considering they were all in the know about this.. And..and we're actually laughing at the situation?? The poster could have responded and done much MUCH worse than dropping this like a bombshell on the wedding day.
6:14 WOW ju- WOW so he's one of THOSE kinda guys huh? One would think that, given that he was counting on this marriage financially, they would have kept some savings for himself. Some skill set some job at LEAST.
There's no way this is true. Who cheats on their wedding day? And what kind of people think that is funny and support it?
Her being immoral is not your fault
... Consequences!
Some adults can not realise their are been gaslighted.. OP should have just kicked her out rather then arguing..
Come on dude they were humiliating you in public obviously if all your friends knew
That's why the average cheater is a very stupid person 😅
gender bent, anyone actually listening can catch on. she not proposing? the fiancee sleeping around with men and risk being disenherited? older by 6y from him? and many others
Why would OP give a sh*t about what Nicole thinks?
Why does the OP give one single rat’s a@@ about hearing how he’d “ruined” Ethan’s life? Everybody in the story - OP, girlfriend, AP and all the friends who knew - is an AH.
Because OP is actually a woman. The story has been gender swapped
How about not doing something that could ruin your whole life?
Thats a friend not a brother or homie no loyalty
8 years of kd cheating.
I know i shouldn't feel happy with others misery, but I can't stop smiling with Ethan's current life
And Nicole is a very big Wh
304 up to 11
Roflmao. Of course it had to be your fault, what a crock.
Why don’t you link the original Reddit threads?
You dodged a bullet
So Ethan couldn’t go to one of the friends that knew he was cheating? They didn’t want to take him in? Wonder why.
Who dates a girl for 8 years these days? Really? Damn dude. Thats a long time to be dating ANYONE! IDK. LOL I think that is a little weird. Bill Fisher 2:17
Yea 😅 And I thought 5yrs was forever before I got married..8yrs? 😭😭
The story is gender swapped. The OP is actually a woman and SHE stayed because HE probably strung her alomg
I meant to say done when I said die. Sorry type error
Friends? Those ware not friends acquaintances yes but not friends.
People like to use friend word so loose those days.
If it was the other way she would have done the same thing but 1000x worse
It WAS the other was around. The story has been gender swapped. The OP is a woman.
It was the other way around. The original story can be found in r/ girl relationship. The OP is a woman. The story was gender swapped for some reason
It seems like the gender have been reverse
Well she's right it took two people to destroy the relationship but she knows it was actually her and the almost groom. He should have texted her that then blocked her.
Why does this guy want to give all his stuff away by getting married .
Because the story is gender swapped. The OP is actually a woman.
If this is even true we're only hearing 1 side of the story. I mean if all his friends knew & none of them said anything its not wrong to ask why or what he do to deserve it. Ive known or worked with people that every1 had an issue with or would get into it with yet they were cool with every1 else. However that 1 person would play the victim & act if they were the bad. Im not saying this to victim blame if this is true & he didnt deserve it all power to him but if 1 person is the 1 fighting with every1 else chances are they're the problem not every1 else. Yes there's exceptions to the rule & it could be that every1 else is a pos but it could also be the other way around.
also and update after 2 years? at that point most people dont even care about they little issues. Let alone on a channel that takes other peoples stories probably not even with permission sometimes and gets subs and maybe a check from youtube for copyrighting peoples person posts.
i like it
Never happened
AI video. Terribly written.
There is no excuse for a cheating w***e but I cant see the dude telling the story being with well anyone he just seems to be like a boring AF stick in the mud type.
I'm sorry but this OP doesn't have much principles to start with.
Who on their rught mind would consider someome that is a deadbeat, a gold digger and a cheat as " best friend "?
He didn’t know at the time really..I used to consider someone who used men as my best friend 😅 Just took me a while to see she was doing it and didn’t care..the moment she admitted she finally used a guy I was so disgusted and couldn’t keep making excuses in my head for her! Haven’t talked to her since.
The background is terrible.
Truth be told these are just made up stories to get views and likes well who doesn't love a good story yay
Ugh get to the point , way too long - could of summarized in 5-7 mins
God, there are so many reddit ai stories lately here, this is getting boring
Op was a simp. Every1 but him new she was a 304. N Ethan wasnt the only ap in those 8yrs. Bruh get a backbone or it'll be the same thing even w/ new gf.
He wasn’t a simp..he just didn’t know 🫤 Exposing them in public to their families and friends WAS having a backbone, he actively tried to avoid people like them after that all went down and focused on himself
Actually the story is gender swapped. The original story can be found in the r/girl relationship. So OP is a woman. So is she a simp?
@testerwulf3357 he was naive 2 his gf true self. 8yrs n he was blinded by love. He brought up marriage n she denied it. 😕2gether 8yrs, living 2gether for 4yrs🫠 arguing for months about it. He even admitted how he was blind 2 how long she was cheating on him n ignored red flags?! ... thats simping. He was 2 break up w/ her long be4 that. Mans overheard n broke down crying bout it? 😢.. he finally got a backbone e exposed her, wow bravo, took him 8 whole yrs
Why this need to get married ?...a ring and piece of paper does not make you a better person partner or parent...it only means you agree to all divorce laws
wtf, story should just end in 7-10 minute, just straight to the point