Where I Have Been | Postpartum Update, Being A SAHM, PPD + Breastfeeding

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  • Опубліковано 12 сер 2021
  • Hi friends :) Thanks for sticking around. I have missed you!
    I hope today's video helps some mama out there feel a little less alone. This is so hard, but we are in it together! If you ever need to chat message me on Instagram :)
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  • @ellebee511
    @ellebee511 2 роки тому +2

    You are doing GREAT, Victoria. Being a new mom can be so challenging! It’s so nice seeing a mama be open & honest about the struggles instead of just the picture perfect Instagram highlights you usually see. It’s so crazy that we ALL go through these things & everyone just stays quiet about it which makes new moms feel crazy & alone.

  • @abbieperritt58
    @abbieperritt58 2 роки тому

    You’re doing great mama!! We’ve all had those days as a mom & it does get easier. Take it easy on yourself. Thanks for being so open about everything that is so refreshing to see❤️

  • @breezyfoley
    @breezyfoley 2 роки тому

    Glad you’re back! Excited for the baby content 😍

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 2 роки тому +1

    I'm so happy you posted gurl yuppp I've missed your smiling face and you are sweetheart and you are amazing vibe hope you stayed safe and stayed strong

  • @angelafromTN66
    @angelafromTN66 2 роки тому +1

    You are truly an inspiration to other young mothers. I wish that when I had my children (who are now 31 and 27) that I could have had this platform to gain information from other people who were experiencing the same things. Stay strong, even though it's hard, this too shall pass. Just enjoy that sweet baby, they grow up so very fast! God Bless you!

  • @karinaolmeda505
    @karinaolmeda505 2 роки тому

    I am very glad you and your beautiful family are doing good, I missed watching your videos. Having a newborn baby for everyone is a different experience, the important thing is that you have focused on you and your baby's needs. That's all that matters, you are doing wonderful. Take care ☺️.

  • @haileydudleson7312
    @haileydudleson7312 2 роки тому

    So happy you’re back & doing better mama💕
    I would love to see a day in the life video now that your a sahm 🥺😍 Or a new born must have video☺️

  • @karinasteve23
    @karinasteve23 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing! You are doing an amazing job Victoria! Such a thorough momma, doing anything to try to help your baby girl. Follow your mom intuition ❤️ I hope everything gets better for both you and your baby girl 🙏🏽 no situation is the same, it’s ok to not be ok. Cry it out and keep on going.

  • @brittrichards5337
    @brittrichards5337 2 роки тому +1

    I have missed your videos so much! Glad to have you back. You're an amazing mom 🥰

  • @shiannemcpherson1836
    @shiannemcpherson1836 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for sharing! I'm definitely here to learn more from you and your experiences since I don't have children of my own yet. So even though I can't relate, I really appreciate you sharing your experiences.

  • @MsJodieKay
    @MsJodieKay 2 роки тому

    We love you girl! Keep doing exactly what you’re doing now! Love your hair btw!

  • @brianamanns3730
    @brianamanns3730 2 роки тому +1

    Oh my gosh I can relate to this so much. My baby just turned 3 months old and he had horrible colic…. Always cried at night then started to cry during the day for hours on in. I would be crying too when he was. It was awful. Nobody believed my husband and I because he was such a good baby around others. We found out he had silent acid reflux and he’s been on a pepcid as well daily since he was 2 months old. It’s helped so much. But it was awful and I really felt like I was being punished as well. Motherhood is so so tough. You’re doing amazing though 💗

  • @maryshaw6571
    @maryshaw6571 2 роки тому

    So proud of you!!! You’re doing amazing 💗

  • @isabellrobertson753
    @isabellrobertson753 2 роки тому

    Do a Day in the life!!! Much love❤️❤️

  • @aceiamaysonet4396
    @aceiamaysonet4396 2 роки тому

    My experience is 10/10 the exact same as you. From the colic to the acid reflux to the bad sleeper. To wondering if I was being punished and comparing my experience with other moms whose babies are "easy." Thank you for sharing. It needs to be talked about a lot more so moms like us don't feel alone.

  • @adriacox1233
    @adriacox1233 2 роки тому

    My husband and I have said the exact same thing about the tongue tie thing! As soon as we have my daughter in November, we are going to have her evaluated. We had so many issues with my son also, but praise the Lord for changing of seasons, because now he is a crazy, sweet, and still sometimes stubborn, 2 year old. 🥰💙

    • @victoriafoxx1665
      @victoriafoxx1665  2 роки тому +1

      Aww you’re getting so close! My SIL is due in November too 🥰

  • @abs202
    @abs202 2 роки тому

    i’m not a mom yet but, as being the oldest, my second youngest sister’s epiglottis wasn’t working and she would always be crying and my mom has lupus and she was very sick after giving birth so i had to step up and let me just say that is one of the hardest things to do. the power you hold as a mother is unbreakable, but that suffering feeling of not knowing what is wrong with a tiny brand new baby is scary. i’m glad things are going better for you. sending all my love ❤️

    • @abs202
      @abs202 2 роки тому

      not only was she always crying but she would have legit demon like projectile vomit and she had surgery around two weeks old! she is turning 10 the 31st! she’s the raddest person i know so i promise it gets better 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

  • @ItsTysper
    @ItsTysper 2 роки тому +1

    Literally everything you explain in this video was my son. This is going to sound SO bad to some people but the colic phase really made me question of having a baby was the right decision for me. Colic is SO hard to deal with but thankfully it does pass. I have a very strong feeling that his colic caused my PPD because I was alone (hubby is military and was gone for a while) no friends or family nearby. I always believed things wouldn’t get better but it did.
    All in all, it will pass soon and you’re doing amazing!

    • @victoriafoxx1665
      @victoriafoxx1665  2 роки тому +1

      I totally understand where you are coming from. That must have been so hard without help close by. You are so strong ❤️

  • @melodyreuck8385
    @melodyreuck8385 2 роки тому

    You're doing great! Motherhood isn't a walk in the park... your daughter is beautiful too 😍

  • @wanderlust3919
    @wanderlust3919 2 роки тому +1

    Missed your videos! 🤍🤍

  • @careystone5835
    @careystone5835 2 роки тому

    You are an amazing mother! I have loved seeing you be a mom to charlotte❤ Being a mom is hard and I know what u are going through and its so hard! Keep it up girl and it gets better! Remember what I always tell u b**** you doing a good job🤣🤣❤😘🥰 I love you so much!

  • @jessica23882
    @jessica23882 2 роки тому

    I’m due in January and I’d love to see you baby must haves and products you’ve tried that maybe didn’t work for you

  • @gloriapena-reyes5449
    @gloriapena-reyes5449 2 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing

  • @bprife
    @bprife 2 роки тому

    If you saw my messages or comments on your Instagram I was asking you a few times when you were going to get a picture or video of your baby. I hope you do on here very soon I’d like to see how big she’s getting on here when I saw after she was born when you brought her home she is such a cutie. I want to see more videos of her even if you videotape her sleeping in her crib I’d like to see that too I love babies. I myself had always wanted to be a daddy. I just love kids so much are used to work with children and children’s church at the churchAnd I miss doing that but I wanna see more videos of Charlotte soon and maybe with your husband holding her to

  • @brittrichards5337
    @brittrichards5337 2 роки тому

    That is so exciting you get to stay home with her ♥️ Does the states have a maternity leave program or do most people have to go back to work after the baby is born? I'm from Canada and I think you get 18 months with your baby before going back however when I have kids I would love to be a stay at home mom as well 🥰

    • @victoriafoxx1665
      @victoriafoxx1665  2 роки тому +1

      No it depends on your job. Most jobs offer 6-12 weeks maternity leave, some paid others jobs will not pay. I was able to take up to 12 weeks but it was unpaid unless i had PTO saved up.

    • @brittrichards5337
      @brittrichards5337 2 роки тому

      @@victoriafoxx1665 oh wow, that isn't a lot of time after birth :( Thank you for sharing and clarifying with me.

  • @debraroth2388
    @debraroth2388 2 роки тому

    Victory it will get better. Glad it’s getting better and you don’t have to go back to work and you can stay home and take care of Charlotte.when Tommy was a baby I stayed home for a while and then went back to work at night my husband he was my boyfriend at that time he would take care of tommy and during the morning time he works I would take care of tommy that’s how we did it . But tommy is now 4 and half years old. I didn’t breastfeed with him he drinked formula. Also I had tommy two months early I had a c section and he was in the nicu for a month and half. He’s a great little boy. Enjoy her she will grow up fast never believed someone told me that it’s true one minute there a year old next time you blink there’s four and half years old. Have a great day. Can’t wait to see baby Charlotte in coming videos. 😊❤️💕💖💗💗

  • @abbywhitexoxo799
    @abbywhitexoxo799 2 роки тому

    Yay so happy to see a new video!💜 are you guys from the pa area? I seen the Steelers and penguins stuff💛🖤

  • @karinamurphy6645
    @karinamurphy6645 2 роки тому +1

    Omg you’re hair is sooo long!

  • @espressosplanners7765
    @espressosplanners7765 2 роки тому +1

    My daughter slept wonderful. she slept through the night.

    • @ellebee511
      @ellebee511 2 роки тому +2

      Girl. This is what you do NOT say to a new mom who openly says she’s struggling. No one wants to hear about how easy your kids are, total stranger.

  • @espressosplanners7765
    @espressosplanners7765 2 роки тому

    I know you love breast feeding maybe bottle feeding is the key that can stop her crying poor baby I never had a colicky baby so idk I totally understand what your going through. I hope it gets better.

    • @victoriafoxx1665
      @victoriafoxx1665  2 роки тому

      Breast feeding is going great for us we have no plans to stop 😊

  • @espressosplanners7765
    @espressosplanners7765 2 роки тому

    Are you going back to work?????

    • @victoriafoxx1665
      @victoriafoxx1665  2 роки тому +1

      I talk about that in this video! ❤️

    • @espressosplanners7765
      @espressosplanners7765 2 роки тому

      @@victoriafoxx1665 I just got to that part it’s better for her to be with you right now with this. Easy crazy world!!! Don’t let her leave your side!!💜

  • @Noodle-sv8lw
    @Noodle-sv8lw 2 роки тому

    This video reinforced the fact that I don’t want kids 😂

    • @victoriafoxx1665
      @victoriafoxx1665  2 роки тому +1

      That definitely wasn’t the intent of this video! I’m sorry it made you feel that way!

    • @alexisconte5591
      @alexisconte5591 2 роки тому +4

      Well this video for me just reinforced how much I can’t wait to be a mom and hope I can be half the mom Victoria is because she’s being real about motherhood and she doing an AMAZING job! ❤️❤️