Social anxiety is annoying as hell. To you Jay and to anybody who suffers from it I recommend crystal healing and learning about chakras. Find out which one could be off for you personally. A crystal that I wear with me everyday is my turquoise crystal and it represents the throat chakra which got messed up due to my narcissist family and being unable to speak my truth or made to feel ashamed when I did.
Stay strong jay!! Everybody goes through some shit during their lives, no matter how good everything seems outside, repeat these words. I.Will.Get.Through.This!
People are very intolerant of anything they see as different from themselves. Its automatic cause to ostracize you. Even if you dress a little different or have a different accent they start pulling away from you.
@@tt8250 Yes sir 🙌🏽💯! I've been saying the same thing too! People who ignorant and closed minded are stupid people and heartless! That's what society has indoctrinate and taught!
I recommend you read "The body keeps the score" by bessel van Der kolk. It's very interesting book that help us understand our pains and our body reactions and the process of healing. I highly recommend it... Stay safe, stay strong.
I can totally relate! I recently stressed out over how girls wouldn’t even consider dating a shorter guy for some odd reason. As I kept watching more UA-cam videos on whether a males height matter (biggest mistake), I felt so heartbroken and shattered on how girls would never even consider dating a guy slightly shorter than them even if they have the best personality ever. As a short guy (I’m 5’5-5’6 btw), i had been feeling so depressed in over a month to the point where I can barely eat and get sufficient sleep due to being stressed out on something I can never control. The best thing that we can do is forget about those negative people (even though they are the majority, don’t even let them in your life) as well as being thankful for what we currently have. Remember, you are not the only one that is suffering. Stay strong my brother jay, I hope god finds a perfect plan for you!
Huh, I discovered that %80 of my friends are on medication for different issues for over 5 years and they never told me until I start going for psychiatric. I understand thier fears of being labeled with mental illness in very ignorant society, but in the same time we are close friends. I dont blame them or questioning them..I just wish good for all of us.
You will be fine man. You are making huge strides bro! I've been socially distancing from stupid, annoying people, before this has been coined a term. I don't like a lot of people like that such a cold hearted l, hateful l, judgmental world!
I share some of what I'm feeling with my intimate partner, because I feel every person has the right to know what they're getting involved with. BUT, after the initial conversation, I don't mention what I'm going through, every time the thoughts & feelings happen, because it's so pervasive that, exactly like you said, the impression is that you're unstable, in the sense that you're unreliable & what you say & do cannot be trusted. And, I'm the exact opposite of that: one couldn't be any more loyal & reliable. Still, all of that gets washed out, when you start sharing troubling thoughts & feelings. Another part of it is worrying about hurting other people. My partner has a cousin, who was like his brother, & he committed suicide. It's very triggering & traumatic for me to talk about when I used to self harm, before we met & my recurring feelings of being suicidal. Honestly, explaining it to other people seems not to have any point, when they don't understand not or feel open to it. My family really doesn't understand, we see each other all the time, but aren't close. They think I should have pills, that's it. 😔 It sounds like you have some special family & friends. Count that as a major blessing. 💗 The most difficult thing is having no circle of understanding. My family loves me, but they don't understand any of my issues...and, it IS sad.
People don't understand why I've been a worrier my whole life so they typically give me that cliche advice "Lifes too short" which doesn't change someone sufferin. My mums friend even said im not wrapped right and im not normal. Society is so judgemental, if only they knew what it was like to walk in our shoes were every waking minute is mental torture be it profound unshakeable despair or somethin extreme
I've always naturally let myself trickle certain inner dark thoughts to people who I've been friends with and in relationships with because I absolutely wanted to be accepted and loved for who I am. Don't have much desire to live a lie with people who I'm vulnerable with. Seems dangerous and foolhardy - not to mention too much fucking work. It's always worked in my benefit. They've always seemed to understand me more and fuck with me even more because of my honesty. However, I've had a couple of instances of people using shit against me when shit goes a little sour, but I don't let that sway me from continuing to trust new people. It's just part of the game.
the worse is when you tell "family" and they make fun of you or purposely do or say things to trigger your illness just so they can see your reaction
That's not real family and I can relate to this
@@JAYLOVE47 i know, that's why I cut that relative off
Social anxiety is annoying as hell. To you Jay and to anybody who suffers from it I recommend crystal healing and learning about chakras. Find out which one could be off for you personally. A crystal that I wear with me everyday is my turquoise crystal and it represents the throat chakra which got messed up due to my narcissist family and being unable to speak my truth or made to feel ashamed when I did.
Yes it is very annoying it makes you look and act so strange
Stay strong jay!! Everybody goes through some shit during their lives, no matter how good everything seems outside, repeat these words. I.Will.Get.Through.This!
Thank you for sharing your truth Jay. I hope you continue to find healing and practice self-care.
Keeping fighting Jay. We love you and are praying for you. We understand hey
You're right brother
I’ll pray for you Jay and I’ll keep you in my thoughts.
indifference should be celebrated not frowned upon
People are very intolerant of anything they see as different from themselves. Its automatic cause to ostracize you. Even if you dress a little different or have a different accent they start pulling away from you.
Humans are stupid people
@@tt8250 Yes sir 🙌🏽💯! I've been saying the same thing too! People who ignorant and closed minded are stupid people and heartless! That's what society has indoctrinate and taught!
That's so unfortunate
@Gye Nyame Dragon I hear you on that man 👍🏽💯. You made some very good points here and there. I agree.
@@JAYLOVE47 Yep I hear you on that Jay 👍🏽💯.
I recommend you read "The body keeps the score" by bessel van Der kolk. It's very interesting book that help us understand our pains and our body reactions and the process of healing.
I highly recommend it...
Stay safe, stay strong.
I can totally relate! I recently stressed out over how girls wouldn’t even consider dating a shorter guy for some odd reason. As I kept watching more UA-cam videos on whether a males height matter (biggest mistake), I felt so heartbroken and shattered on how girls would never even consider dating a guy slightly shorter than them even if they have the best personality ever. As a short guy (I’m 5’5-5’6 btw), i had been feeling so depressed in over a month to the point where I can barely eat and get sufficient sleep due to being stressed out on something I can never control. The best thing that we can do is forget about those negative people (even though they are the majority, don’t even let them in your life) as well as being thankful for what we currently have. Remember, you are not the only one that is suffering. Stay strong my brother jay, I hope god finds a perfect plan for you!
Huh, I discovered that %80 of my friends are on medication for different issues for over 5 years and they never told me until I start going for psychiatric. I understand thier fears of being labeled with mental illness in very ignorant society, but in the same time we are close friends. I dont blame them or questioning them..I just wish good for all of us.
You will be fine man. You are making huge strides bro! I've been socially distancing from stupid, annoying people, before this has been coined a term. I don't like a lot of people like that such a cold hearted l, hateful l, judgmental world!
I share some of what I'm feeling with my intimate partner, because I feel every person has the right to know what they're getting involved with. BUT, after the initial conversation, I don't mention what I'm going through, every time the thoughts & feelings happen, because it's so pervasive that, exactly like you said, the impression is that you're unstable, in the sense that you're unreliable & what you say & do cannot be trusted. And, I'm the exact opposite of that: one couldn't be any more loyal & reliable. Still, all of that gets washed out, when you start sharing troubling thoughts & feelings. Another part of it is worrying about hurting other people. My partner has a cousin, who was like his brother, & he committed suicide. It's very triggering & traumatic for me to talk about when I used to self harm, before we met & my recurring feelings of being suicidal. Honestly, explaining it to other people seems not to have any point, when they don't understand not or feel open to it. My family really doesn't understand, we see each other all the time, but aren't close. They think I should have pills, that's it. 😔 It sounds like you have some special family & friends. Count that as a major blessing. 💗 The most difficult thing is having no circle of understanding. My family loves me, but they don't understand any of my issues...and, it IS sad.
People don't understand why I've been a worrier my whole life so they typically give me that cliche advice "Lifes too short" which doesn't change someone sufferin. My mums friend even said im not wrapped right and im not normal.
Society is so judgemental, if only they knew what it was like to walk in our shoes were every waking minute is mental torture be it profound unshakeable despair or somethin extreme
I've always naturally let myself trickle certain inner dark thoughts to people who I've been friends with and in relationships with because I absolutely wanted to be accepted and loved for who I am. Don't have much desire to live a lie with people who I'm vulnerable with. Seems dangerous and foolhardy - not to mention too much fucking work. It's always worked in my benefit. They've always seemed to understand me more and fuck with me even more because of my honesty. However, I've had a couple of instances of people using shit against me when shit goes a little sour, but I don't let that sway me from continuing to trust new people. It's just part of the game.
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