I honestly think the ones with the eyes is pretty accurate (for all sexualities and genders) though I find it true that the glancing one to be a pretty accurate one too :D
*_Funny you mention dilated pupils, I drank a lot of caffeine today and noticed my pupils dilated. So when you use that sign make sure they're not extremely caffeinated_*
Omg I know the feeling... Maybe try looking for the other signs? And even so, one can never be too careful. My crush actually hugs me in a special way, but she's dating a guy already. So yeah 😅😢
@@linaluthor1335 we have a uniform so it's not skin and she's really nice to everyone like i basically do everything in this vid and she still thinks I'm just a nice girl
@@hailie6171 she's a really nice girl then (they are the worst, you never know when they're flirting or not). The uniform thing doesn't help, but if you get the chance to meet her outside of school... or see how fast she replies to your messages, if you two message at all.
To those in a hurry to know: 1-dilation of the pupils 2-they find little excuses to touch you 3-prolonged eye contact 4-they show more skin 5-they give you that coy glance 6-self promotion
Honestly I could make out with a girl and still think she just super friendly Edit: just found out a girl who asked if she could kiss me and held hands with me had a crush on me- I had no idea edit 2: we’re dating now edit 3: we broke up :(
I'm heterosexual but I'm glad that things like this are being made because it helps me understand the LGBT better. I know that they are pretty much the same when it comes to attraction, but there are still some concepts that I don't fully understand and these videos help.
I also have a crush on my Best friend and I'm like 80% sure that she's straight and if I say that I like her and she rejects me it would be super awkward to stay friends
the first time I found out I like a girl, I freaked out and avoided her. and it's one of the worst decisions of my life ... sorry haha edit: Im happy to see that I'm not the only one who felt this. :< being infatuated and at the same time, frustrated that I can't do anything about how I felt, makes me heart broken. We've been classmates for 4 years now, me being in love with her since 7th grade, and the yrs pass it became serious, but I didn't do anything about it. She knew by 8th grade, but I denied it because I'm afraid of people saying something. Now that we have just graduated this 2020, I just intended us to remain friends. Now for another chapter in my life, I plan to not be in love with a girl anymore. It's just breaks my heart. I'm still in love with her until to this day. To K, Thank you for making me feel this way :< - H
You should say it like a joke, when you're both tired after a party or something and look for her/his/their reaction! Or maybe the classical one : just let know that you could be interesting in someone the same sex as you You can also speak about someone else who is in a gay relationship (real or not ;3) in order to see his/her/their reaction Hope it'll help someone!
Think of it as a good test of character! If they don't return your feelings, then a good person will still be friends with you and you can both move forward! If they're shitty, they'll ghost you and you don't want to be with them anyways~ Simple!
I mean i wrote a fucking love letter to my best friend. It was kind of awkward afterwards and we were a bit more distant (which was probably also good for me to get over her) but now we are as close as before. You have to be honest with yourself and not have feelings anymore but unless their a homophobic shit they should get over it if you do
So I’m bi. I have come out to a grand total of three of my friends. I have a crush on this girl at my school, but I feel like she hates me (even though I know she doesn’t). We are “married” as a joke. We’ve held hands. We both said we love each other in the friend sort of way. I just don’t know what to do. I would have to both 1) come out and 2) tell her I like her and I don’t think I would be able to do that. **** Update no one asked for: I talked to her and she likes me back. WE’RE DATING asdfghjkl ****
Don’t worry, I’m one of those people who is so self-conscious that I actively avoid these signs in case of revealing to my crushes that I like them. Your crush might be the same.
My fear of rejection takes me over so hard when I like a girl. I second guess myself, and whether she'd ever think of me romantically. I've had so many instances where my female crushes were straight too. I wish I could control these feelings a bit more. And just asking them is easier said than done 😩
*the easiest way to figure out* *_ASK HIS/HER FRIENDS TO ASK THEM IF THEY LIKE YOU, IF THEY SAY THEY WONT TELL THEN THREATEN THEM IF THEY DONT STEAL ALL THERE FOOD AND TRY TO HURT THEM_*
Not everyone likes being touched. It doesn't matter how much I like someone, if we don't really know each other, I don't want them to be touchy touchy with me.
A major difference between straight and gay/bi/queer people in being attracted to someone is that there can be an additional layer: determining their identity, particularly if you're meeting them in a non-queer context. That includes to what degree they might be out of the closet, which can add complexities and sensitivities. Accordingly, it doesn't always work to simply ask them outright. There can be a lot of trying to figure things out carefully. There can be also be a lot of indirect and non-verbal communication, such as physical proximity, mirroring behaviour or clothing styles, shy eye contact, etc. It can also vary between generations, backgrounds, or the social and cultural environment of where the person grew up. Some whom have grown up in less accepting times or areas may be much more cautious, especially if the threat of physical danger, bullying, humiliation, social complications, etc were possibilities that affected them.
*SO.* I really like this girl, she's been my best friend for years and we talk over text a lot. She's a shy girl, but she's also religious (NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!) and I'm afraid that if I tell her I maybe like girls she'll reject me as her friend. *But...* Every day she touches my arm to say goodbye. She like- brushes her hand against my arm every time we say goodbye ((I always go into full-on crushing mode whenever she does that)). She also always goes to my locker after every period of class. We always walk around the school, go to the lounge, or just hang around together. Almost always we're alone. We eat alone at lunch, walk around alone, etc. She sometimes puts her arm around my neck, y'know, to like- relax her arm or something. She also sometimes leans her head on my shoulder. I blush every time. I can't really notice if her pupils are dilated or not when she's with me because her eyes are very dark, but I've honestly tried and it seems they're kinda dilated. Okay, back to the point. *WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?!* I'm honestly getting mixed signals from her, and I want to see what the heck I should do. *HELP!*
I enjoyed this video but it did feel like it wasn't really specific to lgbtq crushes. It felt more like a list of general crush tips that you just mentioned apply to both straight or gay attraction. I'd love to see a video with some more specific tips! There's a lot of stuff that's unique to or more common in lgbtq dating that's important to explore. I know I had a lot of learning to do when I started dating girls, hehe
Thanks for the feedback. Did you want to share some of the common things you noticed from your experiences? We found it hard to find research specifically to the LGBTQ community, so we had to rely on some personal examples near the end.
Just found out my crush is in a relationship with a guy... she's so beautiful and kind and I thought maybe she like me too...... I'm gonna cry in a corner now
Guys please don't hate on LGBT. You don't understand how difficult and miserable their life is in most countries. And it's pathetic how they still get killed,locked up, disowned, violently abused, bullied,etc there and the law allows it in many countries. Its ridiculous how people call them degenerates yet don't even reflect upon their own disgusting,hateful behavior. I really appreciate Psych2go making these videos. I hope yall continue. You guys are a beacon of light.
OMG IM A LESBIAN WITH A CRUSH AND I WAS EXPECTING A HETERONORMATIVE VIDEO BUT YOU MADE IT SO THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY WOULD FEEL WELCOME!!! OMG THIS MADE MY DAY THANK YOU!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Her: I love you, wanna go out? Me nervously: um um um yeah um no uh maybe Her: Is that a yeah? Me, months later: You are my soulmate lets go out Her: finally ------------- Me: *wakes up* Jk We are almost going out kdkdkdksks
I’m literally so dense when it comes to people liking me. Also, it’s literally the most obvious things when I like someone, stuttering, blushing, not making eye-contact, etc.
Me : I'm closeted so I've to give my crush little hints Also me: *Way to shy to make eye contact *Wear baggy and fully covered clothes even around my crush *Not even do handshake *Tries to avoid talks *Silent mode : always
How do you know a person likes you? Spams heart emojis in messages. Not a sign. ONLY spams heart emojis in messages to you. Possible sign. It's not the type of pattern they display at all. It's the pattern they present in front of you versus with everyone else.
the power of female-female ambiguity is so huge oh my god. jst last year me and my crush had kissed multiple times but we still couldn't figure out whether we were just friends or not and never bothered to just straight up ask each other (we never dated in the end)
Ugh. I’m 99.9% sure my crush is closeted so some of these things he will never do but if we’re at a restaurant and we’re sitting next to each other and our legs touch, he doesn’t pull away.
Thank you so much for your support by watching this video! If there are any video requests. Feel free to share that with us! We are constantly reading everyone's comments. 💕
I honestly can’t ask any of the guys I have a crush on becauuuuuuuse: 1. I lack the confidence to say my opinion around my mom much less say “hey I’m attracted to you dude want to go out” 2. I’m TERRIBLE at reading faces, and I can’t pick up on flirting or hints whatsoever to save my life (although I think it might be more of an experience thing cause I’ve never had an SO) 3. My sense of humor is very sadistic and chaotic 4. I live in the south and don’t want to be Bible bashed, hate crimed, or hurt physically! Anyways thanks for listening to my autobiography, “why I will be single forever”
Yeah, for me as an asexual, if I open up to you and find myself catching feelings I'll try to spend more time with you. Number 4 applies to me as well but to an extent. Most times I'm opened and just say "hey, I like you. Wanna know each other more and see where it leads?"
This video gave some really good advice! And I learned a lot of new things that I didn't know before. I'm just glad that I can look at your videos for advice, great content, and comfort for when I need to know these types of things!
You know I am so glad that people are supporting the lgbtq community there is so much love and support that if someone said anything bad to a gay or lesbian person there would be an army to support them and that warms my heart
As a matter of fact I know all ready my crush likes me back and here are some reasons... 1: he told me he likes me last year ..... 2: i've known him for almost 4 years..... 3: even my friends ship us sometimes ..... I think you all get the point-
My crush is my bestie... She holds my hand and puts it in her pocket BUT LIKE MABYE SHE’S JUST FRIENDLY?? Should I tell or not, I don’t want to ruin our friendship but I feel like have to tell her you know😭😢
I think my crush likes me back whenever he walk infront of my classroom he always stare at me and whenever school is done he keep staring at me and also his friends they always stare at me
Hey! Just asking, I’m a bisexual male but I’m more attracted to girls than boys (sometimes I also get attracted to them). Am I still considered bisexual?
So I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me, or at least used to like me. Last year she would almost constantly try to be around me and would hug me for no apparent reason, but I didn't know I was bisexual yet, so I didn't think much of it. This year though, after developing a crush on her, I'm almost certain that she did like me last year. This year, in one class we sit next to each other, and she randomly just looks at me and says hi and smiles, and holds eye contact with me, but I end up looking away because I'm too akward. She also mirrors my movements. If i move my leg, she moves her leg. If I put my arms in a certain position, she'll do the same. She doesn't hang around me as often as she used to though. I still can't tell if she likes me as a friend, as more than a friend, or used to but doesn't anymore. And I can't ask her because we live in a Muslim country. I know this was extremely long but can anybody give me some advice?
@Nabila Nabila thanks, but the problem is I can't ask her directly because I don't want to ruin our friendship. And yeah hopefully one day we'll be able to escape the countries we live in. I wish you the best as well❤
"just ask" Me: hey there I just wanted say that I love u My Crush: oh no oh no oh no no no no no oh no oh no oh no no no no no I'm sorry bye I need to go for uh um Boyz night out or something bye Me: *goes back to my room crying with some ice cream*
I'm bisexual, and I kind of like guys more. Like, I could meet a guy and then immediately like them, but when it comes to girls, I have to really kind of know them before I actually start to like them.
Hey Phsyc2Go! Can you make a video about pansexuality? I really would love to know about it. Also, I love your vids! They inspire me a lot to be a physcologist in the future. Thank you so much! Keep up the great work! ♡
A long time ago, you helped me confess to my now girlfriend. We got together on April Fool's day, and she asked if it was a joke. Thanks so much! With your help, I am so much happier. My 'bestie' doesn't know... She would hate us.
Yeah I think that is so true in my opinion asking them is the most brutal and clear shortcut to find that if they are interested in you or not but the problem is that there are so many countries in which if you say that you are gay or lesbian you would you would be dead. I have the same problem for myself. I live in Iran and I have a crush on some cute boy but the problem is that I am scared of being socially roasted if they are not gay and trying to expose my identity to others
Shes my best friend and istg people would think we are married already. I still get confused with even my own feelings but I know I love here..its not just a crush I can look away from uk 1. She stares at me for minutes.When I notice her and glance back, she starts enjoying the beauty of my eyes. I asked her about it and she goes "Its so rare to see pretty girls like you, how can I look away" 2. She hugs me for 5 minutes and she isnt usually like that. 3. We tell each other "I love you" at least 4 times a day and it still feels the same lol 4. She calls me "My baby" 5. She likes to pull me by my waist 6. We're a group of 4 friends and while one friend is oblivious to everything, the other always asks us to stop flirting jokingly lmao 7. She knows about my sexuality 8. She has a guy she likes for a decade and wears a locket with his name on it
*just ask* "seems easy enough" *"hey ______, are you gay?"* "UM WHY AER YOU ASKING ARE *YOU* GAY DO YOU LIKE ME?? OMG!! I THOUGHT YOU WERE A CHRISTIAN?" that's how i expect it to go
What if the person just stares at you constantly when you're trying to get a glance at them, but whenever you try to talk to them, or sit by them, they ignore you or move away...
This was a highly requested topic and it was very hard to pinpoint the signs, but which of these do you find accurate?
Oof, he doesn’t love me back
@@kirkfogg8366 Just don't click on the video if you're not interested
I honestly think the ones with the eyes is pretty accurate (for all sexualities and genders) though I find it true that the glancing one to be a pretty accurate one too :D
Kirk Fogg by clicking on the video your giving the algorithm a pat on the head.
She doesn't like me back
*_Funny you mention dilated pupils, I drank a lot of caffeine today and noticed my pupils dilated. So when you use that sign make sure they're not extremely caffeinated_*
Got it. Casually find out if they drank any type of caffine today 😉
Alexxxx wat
@Alexxxx and have bad sight
Are usually the worst at math
@@ghostwizard7597 didn't know i was being attacked
@@ghostwizard7597 Don't forget not having/struggled to have a driving licence
Crush: accidentally takes a 0.001 seconds glance at me.
Me: we are getting married.
Haha
Lol
You must be a pisces
Lmao
😂
ME: *OMG MY CRUSH GAVE ME A COY LOOK AN HUGGED ME A FEW TIMES MAYBE SHE LIKES ME*
my crush: _does that with basically everyone_
Me: *_oh_*
Rip
Lmao relatable
Omg I know the feeling... Maybe try looking for the other signs?
And even so, one can never be too careful. My crush actually hugs me in a special way, but she's dating a guy already. So yeah 😅😢
@@linaluthor1335 we have a uniform so it's not skin and she's really nice to everyone like i basically do everything in this vid and she still thinks I'm just a nice girl
@@hailie6171 she's a really nice girl then (they are the worst, you never know when they're flirting or not). The uniform thing doesn't help, but if you get the chance to meet her outside of school... or see how fast she replies to your messages, if you two message at all.
To those in a hurry to know:
1-dilation of the pupils
2-they find little excuses to touch you
3-prolonged eye contact
4-they show more skin
5-they give you that coy glance
6-self promotion
Comments like this makes me to have more faith in humanity
Ty
So basically it’s the same for straight and gay people. Huh who would’ve guessed
Thank you
@@matthewread9001 xd, so this video is basically clickbait
*Me feeling I have a chance with her*
crush: *when will I have a boyfriend??*
also me: Slowly dies on the inside
i hate how relatable this is
Having a straight crush sucks 😣
@@melimeli5962 yeah (╥﹏╥)
@@melimeli5962 exactlyyyy cuz if they’re not atleast you have a chance to get them to fall for you
Yeah my crush is pansexual but I know I have no chance
Honestly I could make out with a girl and still think she just super friendly
Edit: just found out a girl who asked if she could kiss me and held hands with me had a crush on me- I had no idea
edit 2: we’re dating now
edit 3: we broke up :(
Honestly-
you're sick lmfao
xD
Le Choco Queen
bitch me tf too
Le Choco Queen I felt that
Straight girls act like they’re attracted to you but they’re just being friendly :,)
*watches this knowing my crush doesn't like me back because they don't even know who I am*
Same
The Emporer of Ice Cream same, it’s sad
Mood
LMAOO ME
dude *me. too.*
I'm heterosexual but I'm glad that things like this are being made because it helps me understand the LGBT better. I know that they are pretty much the same when it comes to attraction, but there are still some concepts that I don't fully understand and these videos help.
if theres anything you dont understand feel free to ask me or any lgbtq+ member, we are all happy to help educate others :)
we need more people like you 💕
I don't have these issues because my only true loves are my daily waffles
Omg you're amazing
😂😂😂 👍
Same bro
XD
Mine is cannabis. I've never felt about a human the way I feel about cannabis.
"just ask"
Well, tell that to my best friend who i am having crush on...
I'm gonna die in seconds even before i said it.
I'm sure you can do it. ^^
Just do it. If it doesnt work out you have to get over them and if they really are a good friend they will continue to be your friend
I was at the same situation as you and we are still friends.
I also have a crush on my Best friend and I'm like 80% sure that she's straight and if I say that I like her and she rejects me it would be super awkward to stay friends
*my bisexual self See’s this notification*
*screams: finally the universe has answered my prayers*
Sameeeee
Same
Same
Lol same but am I the only one that watches these just to see if I do these things XD
Same lol also love your username
the first time I found out I like a girl, I freaked out and avoided her.
and it's one of the worst decisions of my life ... sorry haha
edit: Im happy to see that I'm not the only one who felt this. :< being infatuated and at the same time, frustrated that I can't do anything about how I felt, makes me heart broken. We've been classmates for 4 years now, me being in love with her since 7th grade, and the yrs pass it became serious, but I didn't do anything about it. She knew by 8th grade, but I denied it because I'm afraid of people saying something. Now that we have just graduated this 2020, I just intended us to remain friends. Now for another chapter in my life, I plan to not be in love with a girl anymore. It's just breaks my heart. I'm still in love with her until to this day.
To K,
Thank you for making me feel this way :<
- H
girl
@Android Hacker so am I 😅
Same here. This feeling hurts so bad.
I do the same thing and run away and stump over things. I get like super extra clumsy when I see my crush. I also smile creepily.
Girl sameeee
we love lgbt+ friendly youtubers!
Fire Stryker what-
@Fire Stryker tbh
@Fire Stryker i care even though i'm straight because i don't enjoy supporting bigoted assholes
@@makeromaniagreatagain9697 no
Thanks for the kind words. This was a highly requested topic so we did what we could :)
*Attraction mechanisms don't change with sexual preference*
It's about energies - masculine and feminine - and apply here as well
can you explain the energies
“Just ask”
bUT WHAT IF WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS SINCE FIRST GRADE I CANT *JUST* ASK
Nothing to see here
i feel that
You should say it like a joke, when you're both tired after a party or something and look for her/his/their reaction! Or maybe the classical one : just let know that you could be interesting in someone the same sex as you
You can also speak about someone else who is in a gay relationship (real or not ;3) in order to see his/her/their reaction
Hope it'll help someone!
Think of it as a good test of character! If they don't return your feelings, then a good person will still be friends with you and you can both move forward! If they're shitty, they'll ghost you and you don't want to be with them anyways~
Simple!
I mean i wrote a fucking love letter to my best friend. It was kind of awkward afterwards and we were a bit more distant (which was probably also good for me to get over her) but now we are as close as before. You have to be honest with yourself and not have feelings anymore but unless their a homophobic shit they should get over it if you do
Just ask who their crush is like ofc they are gonna tell you if you've been friends since first grade
So I’m bi. I have come out to a grand total of three of my friends. I have a crush on this girl at my school, but I feel like she hates me (even though I know she doesn’t). We are “married” as a joke. We’ve held hands. We both said we love each other in the friend sort of way. I just don’t know what to do. I would have to both 1) come out and 2) tell her I like her and I don’t think I would be able to do that. **** Update no one asked for: I talked to her and she likes me back. WE’RE DATING asdfghjkl ****
Best wishes
OMG CONGRATS!!!
comments like this make me believe in true love :)
CONGRATS!
how are you guys doing now?
Sameeeeee, should I tell het? My life is ruined already
*_Clicked faster than i could come out_*
Edit: thanks for the likes but here's a secret *_im so deep in the closet Narnia can't find me_*
That's me
Really Weird LMAO
LMAO
Fire Stryker sad
@Fire Stryker I love you
Crush can be determined by pupil dilation
Crush: oh hi
Me: 👁 👁
👄 hi
👁👄👁
👁️👄👁️
1: Dilation of pupils
Crush: Black iris
every single crush I’ve had had black eyes, or dark brown :/
The pain...
@@hhh310 I mean we’re hot
“Love is love”
The word I live by.
The word *I* live by is my home address.
Shrek is love
@@human_4reallove is shrek ❤
Last day of pride month but imma still be in the pride spectrum
It’s almost over!!!! Enjoy it while you can peeps
Defender of justice 606 i think we should be proud all year long. not for being lgbt but for being ourselves despite society judging us.
Oof wow I didn’t mean to make confusion 😓 sorry
Yeah I just use pride as an excuse to shoe horn in even more gayness to everything I do without being judged 😂
The festives is just a mth but pride should be 365
It seems like LGBT community also get friendzoned.
Awesome to see we are totally equal 💀
What? 😭 there isn't a single gay person who haven't been friendzoned it's more common in this community than among straight people
my crush shows -2 out of these 6 signs
horray for me then
[*]
There’s still a chance! Not a lot of research has been put into this but hopefully there’s will be more
Remember that’s just one person don’t hold on to something that might not be meant to be ,but good luck
Add 8
Don’t worry, I’m one of those people who is so self-conscious that I actively avoid these signs in case of revealing to my crushes that I like them.
Your crush might be the same.
What about depression ltbgq that are in the closet and don’t know if people are gay
What would a video title look like?
The Anon on the Internet oof
Psych2Go .........I don’t know you could several videos on depressed people in the closet
Oh yes, that would be a video that I've needed for years!
Instructions unclear I ended up watching lesbians on my phone
Time to clear my history
Lol, use incognito
Use one of those hidden browser calculator disguised apps 👁️👅👁️
😳
Same😂
Rip
How am I supposed to look her in the eye without fucking BLUSHING and ✨DYING✨
IK everytime she stares right into my eyes, I look away SO QUICKLY
@@darkhearted795 I can relateee🥲
I saw this vid and I literally went “oooh yes” 😂😂
Same XD
My fear of rejection takes me over so hard when I like a girl. I second guess myself, and whether she'd ever think of me romantically.
I've had so many instances where my female crushes were straight too.
I wish I could control these feelings a bit more.
And just asking them is easier said than done 😩
*the easiest way to figure out*
*_ASK HIS/HER FRIENDS TO ASK THEM IF THEY LIKE YOU, IF THEY SAY THEY WONT TELL THEN THREATEN THEM IF THEY DONT STEAL ALL THERE FOOD AND TRY TO HURT THEM_*
YES
Hell yeah xD
SO ME!
Geat advice
*NO NOT MY FOOD BISH*
Mi crush: talking about his crush
My: slowly dies on the inside.
YES I've been waiting for this, thank you so much!
Thank you for waiting for this video! Tell us how we did! We worked extremely hard on this video.
@@Psych2go it's great! I do almost all of them around my crush lol
@@Psych2go me too! Still I am not sure if she likes me.
Who's watchin this video to see if your crush likes you to only realize that your crush doesn't?
Same here
Me, very gay: *existing*
Psych2Go: “LGBT stuff”
Me: yEs
Not everyone likes being touched. It doesn't matter how much I like someone, if we don't really know each other, I don't want them to be touchy touchy with me.
Me still watching this video even though I’m straight
haha me too !
Same.
Can't relate
why? This vid ain’t about or for you, why are you here
Mcdoodly NoodleDoodle you ever click on random videos you don’t give a damn about in your recommended?
A major difference between straight and gay/bi/queer people in being attracted to someone is that there can be an additional layer: determining their identity, particularly if you're meeting them in a non-queer context. That includes to what degree they might be out of the closet, which can add complexities and sensitivities. Accordingly, it doesn't always work to simply ask them outright. There can be a lot of trying to figure things out carefully.
There can be also be a lot of indirect and non-verbal communication, such as physical proximity, mirroring behaviour or clothing styles, shy eye contact, etc.
It can also vary between generations, backgrounds, or the social and cultural environment of where the person grew up. Some whom have grown up in less accepting times or areas may be much more cautious, especially if the threat of physical danger, bullying, humiliation, social complications, etc were possibilities that affected them.
*SO.*
I really like this girl, she's been my best friend for years and we talk over text a lot.
She's a shy girl, but she's also religious (NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!) and I'm afraid that if I tell her I maybe like girls she'll reject me as her friend.
*But...*
Every day she touches my arm to say goodbye. She like- brushes her hand against my arm every time we say goodbye ((I always go into full-on crushing mode whenever she does that)).
She also always goes to my locker after every period of class. We always walk around the school, go to the lounge, or just hang around together.
Almost always we're alone. We eat alone at lunch, walk around alone, etc.
She sometimes puts her arm around my neck, y'know, to like- relax her arm or something. She also sometimes leans her head on my shoulder. I blush every time.
I can't really notice if her pupils are dilated or not when she's with me because her eyes are very dark, but I've honestly tried and it seems they're kinda dilated.
Okay, back to the point.
*WHAT THE HECK DO I DO?!*
I'm honestly getting mixed signals from her, and I want to see what the heck I should do.
*HELP!*
ICloudydust start doing the same thing back, then ask.
Maybe she's being a best friend? I don't want to sound mean but like, if you've known your best friend for a long time, they will touch you a lot?
My crush: *high fives me
Me: 1 I'm never washing my hand again
I enjoyed this video but it did feel like it wasn't really specific to lgbtq crushes. It felt more like a list of general crush tips that you just mentioned apply to both straight or gay attraction. I'd love to see a video with some more specific tips! There's a lot of stuff that's unique to or more common in lgbtq dating that's important to explore. I know I had a lot of learning to do when I started dating girls, hehe
Thanks for the feedback. Did you want to share some of the common things you noticed from your experiences? We found it hard to find research specifically to the LGBTQ community, so we had to rely on some personal examples near the end.
Just found out my crush is in a relationship with a guy... she's so beautiful and kind and I thought maybe she like me too...... I'm gonna cry in a corner now
i'm really happy that you made an LGBTQA version❤❤
I hate having a crush on a straight guy, he's s so sweet and kind and perfect. Why do I get my hopes up when l don't ever have a chance?
watching this while i’m literally fighting the urge to go hug my crush...right now. 🥺😔
me: *still watches even tho my crushes are fictional*
Guys please don't hate on LGBT. You don't understand how difficult and miserable their life is in most countries. And it's pathetic how they still get killed,locked up, disowned, violently abused, bullied,etc there and the law allows it in many countries. Its ridiculous how people call them degenerates yet don't even reflect upon their own disgusting,hateful behavior. I really appreciate Psych2go making these videos. I hope yall continue. You guys are a beacon of light.
When your crush is straight: *Cries in single bisexual*
OMG IM A LESBIAN WITH A CRUSH AND I WAS EXPECTING A HETERONORMATIVE VIDEO BUT YOU MADE IT SO THE LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY WOULD FEEL WELCOME!!! OMG THIS MADE MY DAY THANK YOU!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Her: I love you, wanna go out?
Me nervously: um um um yeah um no uh maybe
Her: Is that a yeah?
Me, months later: You are my soulmate lets go out
Her: finally
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Me: *wakes up*
Jk We are almost going out kdkdkdksks
I’m literally so dense when it comes to people liking me. Also, it’s literally the most obvious things when I like someone, stuttering, blushing, not making eye-contact, etc.
Me : I'm closeted so I've to give my crush little hints
Also me:
*Way to shy to make eye contact
*Wear baggy and fully covered clothes even around my crush
*Not even do handshake
*Tries to avoid talks
*Silent mode : always
Why am i watching this..?
My crush literally rejected me yesterday
vxnished _ Smxle THATS so saddd I’m so sorry
Awe bro I'm sorry :(
How do you know a person likes you?
Spams heart emojis in messages. Not a sign.
ONLY spams heart emojis in messages to you. Possible sign.
It's not the type of pattern they display at all. It's the pattern they present in front of you versus with everyone else.
the power of female-female ambiguity is so huge oh my god. jst last year me and my crush had kissed multiple times but we still couldn't figure out whether we were just friends or not and never bothered to just straight up ask each other (we never dated in the end)
Ugh. I’m 99.9% sure my crush is closeted so some of these things he will never do but if we’re at a restaurant and we’re sitting next to each other and our legs touch, he doesn’t pull away.
I remember having a crush but I haven't really cared about anybody anymore for many years.
My crush doesn’t even want to hug me,but hugs others just fine :(
I would like to take this moment to thank you guys for all these beautiful videos that you guys make for your fans. :)
Thank you so much for your support by watching this video! If there are any video requests. Feel free to share that with us! We are constantly reading everyone's comments. 💕
I honestly can’t ask any of the guys I have a crush on becauuuuuuuse:
1. I lack the confidence to say my opinion around my mom much less say “hey I’m attracted to you dude want to go out”
2. I’m TERRIBLE at reading faces, and I can’t pick up on flirting or hints whatsoever to save my life (although I think it might be more of an experience thing cause I’ve never had an SO)
3. My sense of humor is very sadistic and chaotic
4. I live in the south and don’t want to be Bible bashed, hate crimed, or hurt physically!
Anyways thanks for listening to my autobiography, “why I will be single forever”
Yeah, for me as an asexual, if I open up to you and find myself catching feelings I'll try to spend more time with you. Number 4 applies to me as well but to an extent. Most times I'm opened and just say "hey, I like you. Wanna know each other more and see where it leads?"
You forgot #7-
*By the use of i m a g i n a t i o n🌠*
This video gave some really good advice! And I learned a lot of new things that I didn't know before. I'm just glad that I can look at your videos for advice, great content, and comfort for when I need to know these types of things!
We are so happy to hear our videos have helped you out. We strive to provide as much knowledge to everyone 💕.
YAAAS! Tysm, I just asked my crush out and she said YES!😁💕
Congrats!!!
@@hannaibarra1273 tysm :D
Omg I’m so scared to tell her i like her because she will think I’m weird and I have a gut feeling that she is straight...:(
@@isaaaaaaaaaaaabel___ lucky
You know I am so glad that people are supporting the lgbtq community there is so much love and support that if someone said anything bad to a gay or lesbian person there would be an army to support them and that warms my heart
As a matter of fact I know all ready my crush likes me back and here are some reasons...
1: he told me he likes me last year .....
2: i've known him for almost 4 years.....
3: even my friends ship us sometimes .....
I think you all get the point-
My crush is my bestie... She holds my hand and puts it in her pocket BUT LIKE MABYE SHE’S JUST FRIENDLY?? Should I tell or not, I don’t want to ruin our friendship but I feel like have to tell her you know😭😢
someone could honestly give an hour speech about how they like me but i would still think they hate me
Measuring pupils
Ppl whose crush have dark eyes :
*am I a joke to you*
my crush and I both have dark eyes 🗿
Tabitha Velez mine too
Finally a youtube channel that is a lgbtq+ supporter
I think my crush likes me back whenever he walk infront of my classroom he always stare at me and whenever school is done he keep staring at me and also his friends they always stare at me
That moment when you met your crush online and none of these points work-
Video content unclear I ended up reading gay fan fics on Wattpad again.
ugh i feel like a silly little teenage girl chasing her crush it's such a good feeling!!!
Hey! Just asking, I’m a bisexual male but I’m more attracted to girls than boys (sometimes I also get attracted to them). Am I still considered bisexual?
Of course!
So I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me, or at least used to like me. Last year she would almost constantly try to be around me and would hug me for no apparent reason, but I didn't know I was bisexual yet, so I didn't think much of it. This year though, after developing a crush on her, I'm almost certain that she did like me last year. This year, in one class we sit next to each other, and she randomly just looks at me and says hi and smiles, and holds eye contact with me, but I end up looking away because I'm too akward. She also mirrors my movements. If i move my leg, she moves her leg. If I put my arms in a certain position, she'll do the same. She doesn't hang around me as often as she used to though. I still can't tell if she likes me as a friend, as more than a friend, or used to but doesn't anymore. And I can't ask her because we live in a Muslim country. I know this was extremely long but can anybody give me some advice?
@Nabila Nabila thanks, but the problem is I can't ask her directly because I don't want to ruin our friendship. And yeah hopefully one day we'll be able to escape the countries we live in. I wish you the best as well❤
Me: in a gay relationship
Also me: watches this video just in case
"just ask"
Me: hey there I just wanted say that I love u
My Crush: oh no oh no oh no no no no no oh no oh no oh no no no no no
I'm sorry bye I need to go for uh um Boyz night out or something bye
Me: *goes back to my room crying with some ice cream*
Who's here watched the previous attraction videos many times and just curious of the similarities and differences between groups?
I'm bisexual, and I kind of like guys more. Like, I could meet a guy and then immediately like them, but when it comes to girls, I have to really kind of know them before I actually start to like them.
Hey Phsyc2Go! Can you make a video about pansexuality? I really would love to know about it. Also, I love your vids! They inspire me a lot to be a physcologist in the future. Thank you so much! Keep up the great work! ♡
A long time ago, you helped me confess to my now girlfriend. We got together on April Fool's day, and she asked if it was a joke. Thanks so much! With your help, I am so much happier. My 'bestie' doesn't know... She would hate us.
(Me when I see the notification) YES.
Notification squad!
first of all, thank u so much for reserching on the lgbtq+ . u need to get 10m likes on this video!
My crush always plays with my hair and touches my shoulders and arms
Video: _practically talking about physical signs_
Me: *Cries in long distance crushing*
I think my crush likes me
But maybe he's just treating me like his male friends
Yeah I think that is so true in my opinion asking them is the most brutal and clear shortcut to find that if they are interested in you or not but the problem is that there are so many countries in which if you say that you are gay or lesbian you would you would be dead. I have the same problem for myself. I live in Iran and I have a crush on some cute boy but the problem is that I am scared of being socially roasted if they are not gay and trying to expose my identity to others
I miss read it when they said the Coy Glance..... I thought they said they said the Gay Glance.
Shes my best friend and istg people would think we are married already. I still get confused with even my own feelings but I know I love here..its not just a crush I can look away from uk
1. She stares at me for minutes.When I notice her and glance back, she starts enjoying the beauty of my eyes. I asked her about it and she goes "Its so rare to see pretty girls like you, how can I look away"
2. She hugs me for 5 minutes and she isnt usually like that.
3. We tell each other "I love you" at least 4 times a day and it still feels the same lol
4. She calls me "My baby"
5. She likes to pull me by my waist
6. We're a group of 4 friends and while one friend is oblivious to everything, the other always asks us to stop flirting jokingly lmao
7. She knows about my sexuality
8. She has a guy she likes for a decade and wears a locket with his name on it
YESSSS! I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR AN LGBTQ EPISODE! I LOVE YOU GUYS!
I sent her a selfie and she said “You’re so cute”
*just ask*
"seems easy enough"
*"hey ______, are you gay?"*
"UM WHY AER YOU ASKING ARE *YOU* GAY DO YOU LIKE ME?? OMG!! I THOUGHT YOU WERE A CHRISTIAN?"
that's how i expect it to go
What if the person just stares at you constantly when you're trying to get a glance at them, but whenever you try to talk to them, or sit by them, they ignore you or move away...
Thank you for making this for certain people (including me) I can always turn to your channel to make me feel better about myself! ❤
The worst thing is when you have a crush on a close friend,
But they are straight, and your are lesbian
0:27 i have a classmate who looked at his eraser and his pupils got super wide looking at that eraser. Is he attracted to the eraser? idk
#notificationsquad what if you’re too shy to ask? (Basically me) Or if you’re just scared they’ll say no & push you away?
Sya’s Random Junk Be brave or you will regret it. You can do it 💕
Jessica J thx 😊
I’m having crush on my co-worker. And we both always make eye contact but never talked. Hoping we have a chance to communicate soon
Well. I’m gay and this helps a lot! Thanks so much!