I think most people are not aware of the love languages. I realised it while I’m with my ex’s and I was wondering why I kept failing even though I’ve been doing everything.. then I realised I’ve been loving them the way I love but it doesn’t mean they understand what I did as love. Because love for them may mean something else other than tender and care..
honestly. that is true.... some say there are "Languages of Love" not sure if ill get it all correct but they are -Words/Compliment, Touch/Physical, Service, Gifts, Time... in my case, my language of Love are words, service, touch.. I feel most loved when bf compliments me or always say sweet things, then service like when I feel he serves me (little things like head massage, helping me out etc) then touch as hugging or kiss... im not into gifts 😅 so . it really depends... maybe some guys doesn't feel like giving compliments or not sweet with words so if im his girl, I would kinda feel he doesnt love me.. so yeah..as couple, you gotta be aware whats your language of love
Yep. The love languages are a good way to try and understand not only your significant other but people in general even more. And you begin to realize that the way you express and feel (your love language) is not necessarily "compatible" with the way another person may feel or express themselves to you (their love language). And learning how to express and show a bit of all the love languages to a person would not only be a great way to improve the ways you can express yourself but also the way other people feel about you.
Yeah love languages are really important! For me it's "words of affirmations" and "quality time". Whereas for my partner it's definitely "acts of services" and "receiving gifts" - I feel a lot when my partner says I love you and if I can spend quality time with just the two of us, it will mean a lot. So I had a hard time understanding why doesn't she feel the same. But once I learnt about the love languages, I found out that my partner loves doing things with me (therefore "acts of services") - daily things like packing together, striving together, doing normal stuff together, helping me without me asking.... my partner would go all out just to make sure we do things together, even if it's very normal. And I realized thats the love language. Understanding your partner's love language is so, so important. They express it in a different way :)
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Love is more than expecting a ring soo much that you forget to be observant and it is always important to try being calm when talking about the problems limiting the relationship.
That was so frustrating to watch. Lol. She blames Phil for not “expressing his feeling”, and she was doing the EXACT same thing: not telling him she was frustrated or not happy. He would have jumped at the opportunity to fix it... He was content with his life with her, and she was frustrated because he was not reading her mind 😂. So frustrating. Lol.
Mine is a 7 year long distance relation too and yes there is no spark and all ...and even if it's over it's ok for me ..that's what I think but the moment I meet him .. I remember the reason why I fell in love with him in the first place ... ... and while writing this I just realised how much I love him ...
Same story...7 years...now its the end of the realtionship...theres no future....sometimes i think how did we reach this point? Still its so schoking to me that it has ended...
We love each other so much but our parents disapprove. Even the heavens disapprove. But I still want to be with her and I don't like breaking her heart. I hope she can be a stronger woman for both of us.
Loving someone does not always have to mean you be together forever. This isnt the movies. Compatibility means a lot. That could mean alot of things, including backgrounds/parents/distance etc etc. If you truly love someone, and its not working. Letting them go can sometimes be the best decision for both of you.
This is a tragic story, and it reveals to us that love isn't always packaged the way we want it to be. But the contents in the package is still... love.
The lesson is love is more than words, u don't need always to say i love you but instead it can be appreciate by doing it. And a real and strongest love takes more years to make but it last forever 😭😭
yeah when I stopped saying these magic words my ex took me to court and destroyed family she'll never appreciate your efforts she just wanna hear these magic words even if you fuck someone else
ma and my boyfriend do the opposite. we were bored for the past years. now, we made 11 years together but we became more open,intimate,sweeter and fun. most of all we love each other than before. :) btw, thanks for reminding us to love our partner even more! and appreciate all the little important things!
"I don't know if we've broken up or if we're still together and that's the most frustrating part of being with him, I'll never know anything.. bcoz he doesn't know how to express himself" at first it was like totally my story.. but unfortunately my story doesn't have this happy ending.
@Utkarsh She doesn't need any attention... And she has got enough frnds... So this is frm her heart n nothing other than that. Learn to respect other's feelings than just trolling them
Well done JinnyboyTV... To all guys and gals out there, always remember communication is important. Even more after marriage. Relationship is a two way street. Cheers 👍
I'm just like Phil, not good at expressing emotions, more of a "actions speak louder than words" type of person. My ex girl friend of 17 months at that time didn't appreciate it at all. But unlike Phil, I ended the relationship as she started lying to me and meeting up with guys in secret towards the end of it citing that I didn't say "I love you" or show that I love her verbally while she kept her silence the whole entire time. ( she started fucking somebody like a week after anyway lol). Waking up at 5am to cook breakfast for her, doing the chores in the house that we rented together, going out late night to buy her food that she loves, getting her flowers and present when she most unexpected it, the tiniest things that she wouldn't even realise. My friends even ridicule me by saying I'm cheaper than a slave ahaha. It has been four years since we broke up, I still haven't dated since then. Not sure what or why. Maybe it's because it's so tough to love someone unconditionally every day and she didn't realise it at all and eventually seeking love elsewhere. I just want everyone that are reading this to think through your actions and your partners before making a rash decision. Some mistakes aren't repairable. Relationship really is a two way street.
This one was on my timeline for few days until i decided to click on it today. I dont expect that this is totally what exactly currently happen to me... except for the part that he’s going to propose me. I’m still waiting tho. Hahaa. Besides we’re just 22 right now and still young.. We’ve been knowing each other for 11 years. (I didnt know when the love started but yeah just like everybody we’re started as friends then he became my bestfriend). As years passed, the relationship got boring and just like in this video!! All i said to him that he’s a boring person again and again without even realizing that he’s the one who always drive me here and there, bring me to clinics and force me to take medicines on time, pick me up from home to classes and to my workplace, the one who listens to my thoughts and childish acts, the one who cooks for me, the one who never let me carry heavy stuff when we go shopping etc. I was so blinded i know... I hope I can be someone better for him and someone who’s grateful enough for everything he did. Realizing those efforts for the passed 5 years made me want to marry him one day! He currently still studying and working part time to collect some money so that he can marry me soon. Hahahaha okay guys thats all. Tq for the video! I loveee your videos!
Please be appreciative to a guy..long last relationship need patient, gratitude and trust on each other..otherwise u better just hop on from one guy to another..
I was just looking up on the "7-year-itch" 2 days ago (read the same Bustle article too) and then this video appeared. Great timing! Teared up a lot because watching this video made me reflect on my own 7-year relationship with my boyfriend and I can relate to what Lisa's talking about. It's a really sweet video 💕 Good job :)
Currently in a 7 year relationship and it gives me goosebumps how this story is so similar to mine. I got mad at my bf just because I thought he no longer wanted me. It obviously wasn’t the case but we almost broke up. Watching this makes me grateful that we didn’t and also making me realize how stupid I was for second guessing his feelings
They clearly didnt understand each other after 7 years. Its obvious she didnt understand his. But he also didnt understand hers. I hope people who are in similar situation as them. Sort that shit out after realising
I just recently started a LDR with my long term girlfriend, and it hurts.. I miss her so much, I miss her everyday.. We've been through a lot, the bad times and good times.. I hope we make it through the end.. I always love her for the past (almost) 7 years..
This is reality. Often women want to see and feel affection. That's what they understand. Men often are content with being with the woman he loves. Nothing more. Life gets cozy, that's love for us. The misunderstanding and difference always makes it difficult, when one doesn't try to understand the other, and only ever understand their needs and desires.
Aweh I really needed this. My boyfriend is so similar and has such a hard time expressing feelings verbally, but in his actions he says more than I do with words. Beautiful video 😊😊😊
This is amazing, I am currently in my 7th year with my beloved lady, this video is really well made, it shows all the feelings and experiences of every couple. To all couples out there, love each other, stay strong!
Wow, me and my fiancé have been together for 7 years and 7 months and I just found out about the 7 year itch and it made a lot of sense we have been fighting so bad. I brought it up and he had the same reaction and I was the only one not feeling loved. This video helped me highlight all of the things he does for me to show me he still loves me. I also have two Sony cameras ahahba
I'm glad i had this while married. Started to remember why I loved my wife in the first place so I texted her, and we started to speak as we did 6years ago.
oh god this is a great piece of Art! the acting also great and smooth. I love this , youtubers like you are hard to find cause when they start to get famous they change in a shitty way... u know what I mean right? but you are well balanced. And Keep it up. Stay blessed Jinny we love you.
Been in Long distance relationship for 5 years and still counting.. LDR are only for strong people with strong hearts. It's really not easy how we've been through to fight for this kind of Relationship but With God in the middle of your relationship then it will last forever and sacrifices you've done well be paid off .
Had the same issues (before marriage and even after marriage). Was really tough. I thought I couldn't bear it anymore all the time. Got me depressed and feeling worthless. Then, we started talking with how we feel and what we are doing. We were able to save our life together. I have almost given up our 10+ years together cos it felt like a roller coaster all the time and was already feeling dizzy with the ups and downs. I cried while watching this video cos I am proud we have been able to surpass the "itch". It still isn't a perfect relationship, though. Still, we're trying.
I'm crying literally sobbing. Breaks my heart to admit that it relates my current situation. I'm happy for you Lisa. I guess my ego and pride and the hurt I did will not bring him back anymore. It's too much already. Exhausting and toxic for the both of us. Thank you for this short film. I'm still happy knowing our Love has been beautiful even if we didn't understand how much we love each other.
I was like phil. But i told my gf that i like her and the feelings were so mutual. We love each other so much, even though now we are in LDR. And about this story, i think when we are in a relationship we expect a lot. However, your partner may have thought that you somehow understand them well better than others. Tbh i would love to do this to my gf, and would love to get her reaction.
I proposing someone and she said yes!... We were so in love but today I already been single for a year. Seeing this, it's burst me into tears because we had telling each other I love you like often but actually we were not meant for each other.
They learned what they need to and found what they were looking for. They grew from this fight. And thats what relationship is for. Learning who your partner is and adjusting to each other so they fit together. Thats what growing together really means.
Recommended just when my seven years anniversary with my bf is next month. How did you tube know? 😀 And i cried because even i feel like we are growing distant just because i dnt see him often but fir seven years,he has always everyday contacted me without fail. I hope we make it.
I dont want to have stuff like this happen. Remember people we are in control of this situation. you have to want it to stay good and it takes a lot of work.
My ex should have seen this kind of video a year ago.. I always have trouble in expressing my feelings and he got tired of it and left without giving me a chance to explain things.. That I really love him. That he's appreciated.
Honestly, I knew that is a commercial video, but you did it so amazing... An meaningful and touchable video 👍 the flow is so smooth ... Really good 😊, Jinnyboy ... Your team took my tear perfectly 👍👍👍👍
I was about to cry I literally had tears in my eyes but I somehow controlled it cause my sister is laying beside me and I don't wanna look like a cry baby but I loved this video and it reminds me of someone very special ❤
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When she says this sentence, if you still don’t care, it’s time for you or she having the luggage ready. This is a Highest Red warning to the relationship. The point is “literally you not only do anything wrong, nor you don’t even do anything for her”
@@amyzhao2908 thanks for your counselling tip, but you do realise that in most situations the partner is just jumping to conclusions. Everyone has different love languages, and if someone doesn't have the same language as you doesn't mean he isn't doing anything for the relationship
Syafiq Norkhalim You got the point. Female and male does have different love languages, that is reason our conflict on. I have been with my husband for more than 20 years. He is not romantic at all, no jewelry, no flowers, no surprise party or gifts. Luckily, we both understand each other’s love expressions. We still say “I love you”, giving hugs and kiss; Feel thankful and grateful to be a couple. Praise and thankful is the key to keep love fresh from my experience.
bitches are like that... always wanting what they see on social media, having a shallow perspective of life from the image displayed across a screen of fake glass... always comparing with their friends..
As years past, we get too comfortable to each other to the point that we forget how it feels like to be in love. We thought that sparks and feelings are gone but it was just hidden, hidden by unending arguments. This is exactly what happen to us right now. We kept on blaming each other and ended our relationship but few days past, our love brought us back to each others arms. And yes, 7 years itch really sucks.
How are you guys, not the biggest channel yet... people nowadays really do not know how to appreciate good and quality work... Keep on the great work man
Devki Salkar not necessary.. Every human needs space and a cooling period after a breakup.... Btw they fought... Even I fight and even He waits... Phil is not an extrovert...
The story behind this video is very touching. I really love the producer in the way he/she tries to bring out the character of each individual with such brilliance. Kudos! ❤️
I Like U 2
jinn make more la story like this.... drama 7pm not good for me... i need your video more.... hahhahaa
better than i love you 3000
So much dust in the eyes~
Make more of this kind of video please. ❤️
It's not easy to make these films, this took 2 months to produce
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"Because Phil doesn't really know how to express himself very well"
Is it because he doesn't have Phil-ing
Get out.
lolllll
Hahahahaha
😂😂
phil_ings
I think most people are not aware of the love languages. I realised it while I’m with my ex’s and I was wondering why I kept failing even though I’ve been doing everything.. then I realised I’ve been loving them the way I love but it doesn’t mean they understand what I did as love. Because love for them may mean something else other than tender and care..
I'm sorry :(
Galvin0307 so true. I learn it as well thru my ex, my family members & also thru friends
honestly. that is true.... some say there are "Languages of Love"
not sure if ill get it all correct but they are -Words/Compliment, Touch/Physical, Service, Gifts, Time...
in my case, my language of Love are words, service, touch.. I feel most loved when bf compliments me or always say sweet things, then service like when I feel he serves me (little things like head massage, helping me out etc) then touch as hugging or kiss... im not into gifts 😅 so
. it really depends... maybe some guys doesn't feel like giving compliments or not sweet with words so if im his girl, I would kinda feel he doesnt love me.. so yeah..as couple, you gotta be aware whats your language of love
Yep. The love languages are a good way to try and understand not only your significant other but people in general even more. And you begin to realize that the way you express and feel (your love language) is not necessarily "compatible" with the way another person may feel or express themselves to you (their love language).
And learning how to express and show a bit of all the love languages to a person would not only be a great way to improve the ways you can express yourself but also the way other people feel about you.
Yeah love languages are really important! For me it's "words of affirmations" and "quality time". Whereas for my partner it's definitely "acts of services" and "receiving gifts" - I feel a lot when my partner says I love you and if I can spend quality time with just the two of us, it will mean a lot. So I had a hard time understanding why doesn't she feel the same. But once I learnt about the love languages, I found out that my partner loves doing things with me (therefore "acts of services") - daily things like packing together, striving together, doing normal stuff together, helping me without me asking.... my partner would go all out just to make sure we do things together, even if it's very normal. And I realized thats the love language. Understanding your partner's love language is so, so important. They express it in a different way :)
Legend says,
The three aunties is still waiting Lisa to help them take photos...
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Great video as always Jin! Keep it up
Hi Felix
@@GKS225 hi babe hahaha
@@FelixLeong Legend said that they still waiting for that photo to be taken.
why did i just read this in malaysian accent lmfao
Are still waiting*
classic example of why couples need to know each other's love languages :)
Exactly. There are 5 Love languages. Just figure out the ones your partner uses.
Classic example of why couples should communicate :)
i just knew that
Mom could've been like
"Oh, no space on the memory card"
"Format?"
YES
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HAHAHAHHAHA
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If this is korean drama... Then phil would suddenly got into accident and forget his gf
You know too much!
I was expecting something like this too, but I was thinking that it'll be quite a powerful ending if he had died somehow
omg as a Korean hahaha I would say we don't go that far anymore when you see k drams filmed quite recently hahahaah lmao but kinda admit it tho!
I couldn’t imagine if this is a Taiwanese drama.. it could be until the grandchildren generations..
if this was Thai drama, the girl would see taken pics and videoes of Phil with his secret boyfriend on Sony Camera.
A 12:36 long ad for SONY now THIS is next level 👌🏼
haha thanks
everyone's crying after watching the video while jinny is laughing on his way to the bank.
@@fatimahbinhalimah3033 lmaoo
What?!?!?! I thought it was Habib. Hahahahaha
Looks like you're new here. There are so many ads here that will melt your heart.
i’m balling my eyes out. Phil and i have the same characteristic. We don’t express affection through words that much.
owow next time he or she gives you a present better check it out 😏
Lim Yang that’s not what i meant. so fuck off
Me too... It's feel like it's the most difficult think in the world...
You know what more rare than people like us?...people who actually understand and accept us,lol
**proceed cry in the corner**
I prefer those who express in ways other than words. I don’t like words much for some reason
When u dont even realise this was all an advertisemnet for SONY haha
I did.
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I was getting it 😆
Exactly!
Memory issue with sony!!
This is so well written. I love the actors expressions when she opened the box and she the camera.
Prediction: Jason was late to the wedding as well.
Come on he needs to take a dump
@@yayabhishek yupp
Facts
😂
He went for the big pangsai what
Love is more than expecting a ring soo much that you forget to be observant and it is always important to try being calm when talking about the problems limiting the relationship.
Preach sis
And yeah!! Ring will get 7 year itch too. Lol. So most important thing is how you nurturing your love.
So let me get this straight...she fought with Phil and was like “bye but I’m still taking the camera, no backsies!” 😂
HelloYou! In simple words, yes
HelloYou! No dontttt! plz don't put that in my brain please .... I was crying untill I saw this ..it changed from crying hard to thinking hard.
@@jackmetei7960 lmao plus the fact her mother also knew he proposed with the camera haha
thats red flag phil should abort this mission
And then after seeing the vlogs she just goes " yes"??? , Nah you don't deserve him no more
If this one was a thai movie, Phil would have died lol
Salpheapboth Mao she will wake up at the end of the movie and realised Phil was dead since the start of the movie
@@carefreemusic can you tell me which movie is with that story line?
a lot of thai short stories have this kind of scenario it's just hilarious. You can search them in youtube
Salpheapboth Mao exactly what i thought. But it wasnt. It is a good short movie, could have been better, with a tragedy . Haha
Salpheapboth Mao if it was Scottish she’d driven him to drink with boredom
That was so frustrating to watch. Lol.
She blames Phil for not “expressing his feeling”, and she was doing the EXACT same thing: not telling him she was frustrated or not happy. He would have jumped at the opportunity to fix it...
He was content with his life with her, and she was frustrated because he was not reading her mind 😂.
So frustrating. Lol.
100%
Mine is a 7 year long distance relation too and yes there is no spark and all ...and even if it's over it's ok for me ..that's what I think but the moment I meet him .. I remember the reason why I fell in love with him in the first place ... ... and while writing this I just realised how much I love him ...
I miss my girl too but there's no future for us so I'm so sad to let her go. I have to be strong enough to let her go... 😭
Same story...7 years...now its the end of the realtionship...theres no future....sometimes i think how did we reach this point? Still its so schoking to me that it has ended...
We love each other so much but our parents disapprove. Even the heavens disapprove. But I still want to be with her and I don't like breaking her heart. I hope she can be a stronger woman for both of us.
@@dananajj just because ur parents disapproved u let her go ... are u gonna live ur life wit her or your parents .. try and make them understand....
Loving someone does not always have to mean you be together forever. This isnt the movies. Compatibility means a lot. That could mean alot of things, including backgrounds/parents/distance etc etc.
If you truly love someone, and its not working. Letting them go can sometimes be the best decision for both of you.
I didn't expect that is coming. Really make me in tears 😭...
This is awesome!!
dont cry
Same here. I caught the feels.
@Satanist thanks
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This is a tragic story, and it reveals to us that love isn't always packaged the way we want it to be. But the contents in the package is still... love.
'Eventually, the silence became distance'- JinnyboyTV
The lesson is love is more than words, u don't need always to say i love you but instead it can be appreciate by doing it. And a real and strongest love takes more years to make but it last forever 😭😭
Dhennis Bocauto sorry to say, its not applicable to girl dude..they want u to always say it again and again until u dont even mean it..
yeah when I stopped saying these magic words my ex took me to court and destroyed family
she'll never appreciate your efforts she just wanna hear these magic words even if you fuck someone else
My sibling has a 9 yr old relationship with her bf and they're doing well cause they solve problems together and planned their future💕
ma and my boyfriend do the opposite. we were bored for the past years. now, we made 11 years together but we became more open,intimate,sweeter and fun. most of all we love each other than before. :)
btw, thanks for reminding us to love our partner even more! and appreciate all the little important things!
That goes with life too.....hope people understand soon
Satanist love is weird though. lol
2 years since you commented , how is it going ?
"I don't know if we've broken up or if we're still together and that's the most frustrating part of being with him, I'll never know anything.. bcoz he doesn't know how to express himself" at first it was like totally my story.. but unfortunately my story doesn't have this happy ending.
Me too
Me too
Yeah...even same with me
@Utkarsh She doesn't need any attention... And she has got enough frnds... So this is frm her heart n nothing other than that. Learn to respect other's feelings than just trolling them
Nikita Chandrakar happens.. I've been through this
Well done JinnyboyTV... To all guys and gals out there, always remember communication is important. Even more after marriage. Relationship is a two way street. Cheers 👍
yea so hard when your loved one just silence when something is going on
I'm just like Phil, not good at expressing emotions, more of a "actions speak louder than words" type of person. My ex girl friend of 17 months at that time didn't appreciate it at all. But unlike Phil, I ended the relationship as she started lying to me and meeting up with guys in secret towards the end of it citing that I didn't say "I love you" or show that I love her verbally while she kept her silence the whole entire time. ( she started fucking somebody like a week after anyway lol). Waking up at 5am to cook breakfast for her, doing the chores in the house that we rented together, going out late night to buy her food that she loves, getting her flowers and present when she most unexpected it, the tiniest things that she wouldn't even realise. My friends even ridicule me by saying I'm cheaper than a slave ahaha. It has been four years since we broke up, I still haven't dated since then. Not sure what or why. Maybe it's because it's so tough to love someone unconditionally every day and she didn't realise it at all and eventually seeking love elsewhere. I just want everyone that are reading this to think through your actions and your partners before making a rash decision. Some mistakes aren't repairable. Relationship really is a two way street.
minge9 Am sorry to hear that , you deserve someone better
minge9 you deserve the world.
@@minge9 I hope the future will bring you something beautiful.
This one was on my timeline for few days until i decided to click on it today. I dont expect that this is totally what exactly currently happen to me... except for the part that he’s going to propose me. I’m still waiting tho. Hahaa. Besides we’re just 22 right now and still young.. We’ve been knowing each other for 11 years. (I didnt know when the love started but yeah just like everybody we’re started as friends then he became my bestfriend). As years passed, the relationship got boring and just like in this video!! All i said to him that he’s a boring person again and again without even realizing that he’s the one who always drive me here and there, bring me to clinics and force me to take medicines on time, pick me up from home to classes and to my workplace, the one who listens to my thoughts and childish acts, the one who cooks for me, the one who never let me carry heavy stuff when we go shopping etc. I was so blinded i know... I hope I can be someone better for him and someone who’s grateful enough for everything he did. Realizing those efforts for the passed 5 years made me want to marry him one day! He currently still studying and working part time to collect some money so that he can marry me soon. Hahahaha okay guys thats all. Tq for the video! I loveee your videos!
Weswag godddddd we are exactly the same
Alright for you at 22 years old, but I'm 36 and this stuff just happened to me now. I've got no hope left.
Please be appreciative to a guy..long last relationship need patient, gratitude and trust on each other..otherwise u better just hop on from one guy to another..
Same!!!
@@Crystalkiddd wishing all the best for you two ^^
The actors did a great job - quirky and personable - and the plot - simple but moving. Had tears!
Their accents are so cute ❤️ im really happy to see an asian couple being in the spotlight! This was beautiful and carried out so well ❤️
This is the kind of high quality video that is suppose to be associated with jinnyboy, such wonderful meaningful video , well done
Just a suggestion, can you guys make a short film about long distance relationship? Please.
YES PLEASE.
pleaseee
YESSSS
YES OMG PLEASE
AGREEEE
I was just looking up on the "7-year-itch" 2 days ago (read the same Bustle article too) and then this video appeared. Great timing! Teared up a lot because watching this video made me reflect on my own 7-year relationship with my boyfriend and I can relate to what Lisa's talking about. It's a really sweet video 💕 Good job :)
Those with a partner, please be grateful coz not everyone is lucky as you
2:46 He literally means he likes "U2" the band and not the girl lol. she tinks toooo muuuuccccchhhhh!!!
Kevin THIS JOKE KILLED ME!!! Hahahaha
Sounds like this couple needs this book called, The 5 Love Languages.
Great book. Totally recommend it.
LOL
video should be sponsored by this book, instead of sony vlog camera
Aiyo Jinny why do u always make sad videos one. Always make me cry 😭
Damn I would love to have an expensive camera for a gift.
Hahahaha....I was thinking same
Like, "what proposal? Look at my new camera!"
get a long distance relationship. a long shot, but who knows.
@@LordArioh Ldr is better for gifts actually. Hope your gf send you a camera next Christmas
@@sozibrahman8504 I got 9 cameras, someone better send me a girlfriend.
Currently in a 7 year relationship and it gives me goosebumps how this story is so similar to mine. I got mad at my bf just because I thought he no longer wanted me. It obviously wasn’t the case but we almost broke up. Watching this makes me grateful that we didn’t and also making me realize how stupid I was for second guessing his feelings
The importance of understanding your partners love language is tho...
They clearly didnt understand each other after 7 years. Its obvious she didnt understand his. But he also didnt understand hers. I hope people who are in similar situation as them. Sort that shit out after realising
I just recently started a LDR with my long term girlfriend, and it hurts.. I miss her so much, I miss her everyday.. We've been through a lot, the bad times and good times.. I hope we make it through the end.. I always love her for the past (almost) 7 years..
Of course you will...May God bless the both of you
@@koelray8810 thanks a lot
@Satanist sure
@Satanist learn to tag people you idiot 🤣
Most best accidental click ever.. thankyou my finger!!
Me too
Ahahhahah😆
Why did I cry when he was attempting to vlog. Argh.
This is reality. Often women want to see and feel affection. That's what they understand. Men often are content with being with the woman he loves. Nothing more. Life gets cozy, that's love for us. The misunderstanding and difference always makes it difficult, when one doesn't try to understand the other, and only ever understand their needs and desires.
Tbh it doesn't matter men or women everyone has their own love language
@@isapositiva2661 absolutely true. This video just captures the more commonly seen and heard.
that is because some men who are with womem are not in love and they are both just using each other.
@@eduardochavacano very true. It is very individual based
Aweh I really needed this. My boyfriend is so similar and has such a hard time expressing feelings verbally, but in his actions he says more than I do with words. Beautiful video 😊😊😊
Gosh I've been with my boyfriend/fiance for 7 years this year and omg this made me cry a waterfall........
This is amazing, I am currently in my 7th year with my beloved lady, this video is really well made, it shows all the feelings and experiences of every couple. To all couples out there, love each other, stay strong!
Well that destroyed me, I'm in a giant puddle of tears now. Wonderful story telling, I loved this video ❤️
Wow, me and my fiancé have been together for 7 years and 7 months and I just found out about the 7 year itch and it made a lot of sense we have been fighting so bad. I brought it up and he had the same reaction and I was the only one not feeling loved. This video helped me highlight all of the things he does for me to show me he still loves me. I also have two Sony cameras ahahba
I'm glad i had this while married. Started to remember why I loved my wife in the first place so I texted her, and we started to speak as we did 6years ago.
oh god this is a great piece of Art! the acting also great and smooth. I love this , youtubers like you are hard to find cause when they start to get famous they change in a shitty way... u know what I mean right? but you are well balanced. And Keep it up. Stay blessed Jinny we love you.
The ending & plot twist were totally unexpected. Another job well done on this one. Already looking forward to the next. Awesomeeee!!
I'm crying rn 😭 we didn't get to make it to the 7 year itch 💔.. But this was beautiful...
Sorry, when you broke up?
That was the sweetest. Thank you for showing us what love is all about again.
Been in Long distance relationship for 5 years and still counting.. LDR are only for strong people with strong hearts. It's really not easy how we've been through to fight for this kind of Relationship but With God in the middle of your relationship then it will last forever and sacrifices you've done well be paid off .
Entertainment Showcase Amen! ❤️
I was in a LDR for 4 years. It was tough but now we're in the same city :) It's worth it
Me and my boyfriend is in 10 years relationship being LDR now. ❤️
Im also in LDR for the past 6 year's but it's worth it
Satanist common..Go to Church kneel down pray deeply and ask for forgiveness then you will find a true happiness. :)
Who else cried while watching this beautiful film :(
PS: Jinnyboy TV I've watched a LOT of your videos already,
this is the best love film for me
Had the same issues (before marriage and even after marriage). Was really tough. I thought I couldn't bear it anymore all the time. Got me depressed and feeling worthless. Then, we started talking with how we feel and what we are doing. We were able to save our life together. I have almost given up our 10+ years together cos it felt like a roller coaster all the time and was already feeling dizzy with the ups and downs. I cried while watching this video cos I am proud we have been able to surpass the "itch". It still isn't a perfect relationship, though. Still, we're trying.
Have u guys been into the on and off situation before u guys get married?
My relationship has been a struggle. I don’t know how to control my anger. I hate that it’s affecting us. We’re still trying. But it’s tough.
The idea of recording a video and sent it as a gift was so cool. I love your short films. Keep up the good work JinnyboyTV
I'm crying literally sobbing. Breaks my heart to admit that it relates my current situation. I'm happy for you Lisa. I guess my ego and pride and the hurt I did will not bring him back anymore. It's too much already. Exhausting and toxic for the both of us.
Thank you for this short film. I'm still happy knowing our Love has been beautiful even if we didn't understand how much we love each other.
avoided this for a few days thinking it was a netflix show. the thumbnail was great
When a relationship is young a greatings card is enough 7 years later even a camera won't do.
Lmao.
Accurate lol
What’s wrong with a camera that’s a nice present think she just spoiled
@@philippe146 it's always me me me
and that's why they breakup
she done him a favour
Un Known even if she doesn’t like photography better then poo in box
im crying..always the best videos by you guys..thanks alot😭
Omg i can’t im sobbing
This is a great message, and the message can be translated for many situations in a relationship
Man, this really hit home...I saw every relationship flash before my eyes
Holding back the tears in my eyes. An amazing video thanks to the brilliant actors and Jinnyboy Tv!!!
Mine too was 7 years 😊 It was a beautiful relationship. I hope she is happy wherever she is. That's all i want.
I was like phil. But i told my gf that i like her and the feelings were so mutual. We love each other so much, even though now we are in LDR. And about this story, i think when we are in a relationship we expect a lot. However, your partner may have thought that you somehow understand them well better than others.
Tbh i would love to do this to my gf, and would love to get her reaction.
I proposing someone and she said yes!... We were so in love but today I already been single for a year. Seeing this, it's burst me into tears because we had telling each other I love you like often but actually we were not meant for each other.
This doesn't change the fact that they have communication issues. The marriage will be tough haha
yup
Not if they keep sending each other Vlog and watch it LMAO
They learned what they need to and found what they were looking for. They grew from this fight. And thats what relationship is for. Learning who your partner is and adjusting to each other so they fit together. Thats what growing together really means.
YES
Recommended just when my seven years anniversary with my bf is next month. How did you tube know? 😀 And i cried because even i feel like we are growing distant just because i dnt see him often but fir seven years,he has always everyday contacted me without fail. I hope we make it.
U r so lucky mam.. Mine within 3 yrs it's gonna be end.. I will miss him
I just made it seven years with my bf on 26th!! ❤ Surely you will make it.. All the best!! 😊
Wow amazing. Have u guys ever get into the on and off situation?
@@swanamgangopadhyay5893 please share your secrets 😝
OMG... This is the best man!!!!! KEEP IT UP...
😭😭😭 Awww... This was a heart_ touching one.
" Love is more than Words "😊
❤❤❤
"Love is more than words." ❤️
Holy! We are less than 100k away from a million! Can we get there?? Please help share this!
JTV never failed to amazed us.
Thank God we survived. This video really made me cry but happy cry. I love my Chu so much. He is the greatest ever!
Another video that surpasses our expectations, great job
I dont want to have stuff like this happen. Remember people we are in control of this situation. you have to want it to stay good and it takes a lot of work.
My ex should have seen this kind of video a year ago.. I always have trouble in expressing my feelings and he got tired of it and left without giving me a chance to explain things.. That I really love him. That he's appreciated.
Yes! Love is more than words but sometimes we forget it, and we lost!
thank you for your movie! It’s great!
Honestly, I knew that is a commercial video, but you did it so amazing... An meaningful and touchable video 👍 the flow is so smooth ... Really good 😊, Jinnyboy ... Your team took my tear perfectly 👍👍👍👍
I was about to cry I literally had tears in my eyes but I somehow controlled it cause my sister is laying beside me and I don't wanna look like a cry baby but I loved this video and it reminds me of someone very special ❤
Congratulations on hitting 1M guys! Been a fan since Abuden, and we've been waiting for this day to come as much as you guys, this channel deserves it!!!
your voice was calm while narration. i kind of felt peace.
Why you always gonna make me cry dude. Your videos are the greatest! 😭
*literally doesn't do anything wrong for 7 years
Gf: "What's wrong with us???"
Syafiq Norkhalim welcome to life 😉
When she says this sentence, if you still don’t care, it’s time for you or she having the luggage ready.
This is a Highest Red warning to the relationship.
The point is “literally you not only do anything wrong, nor you don’t even do anything for her”
@@amyzhao2908 thanks for your counselling tip, but you do realise that in most situations the partner is just jumping to conclusions. Everyone has different love languages, and if someone doesn't have the same language as you doesn't mean he isn't doing anything for the relationship
Syafiq Norkhalim You got the point. Female and male does have different love languages, that is reason our conflict on.
I have been with my husband for more than 20 years. He is not romantic at all, no jewelry, no flowers, no surprise party or gifts. Luckily, we both understand each other’s love expressions.
We still say “I love you”, giving hugs and kiss; Feel thankful and grateful to be a couple. Praise and thankful is the key to keep love fresh from my experience.
bitches are like that... always wanting what they see on social media, having a shallow perspective of life from the image displayed across a screen of fake glass... always comparing with their friends..
Who's single will feel iritated to watch this 😂
Seriously?? JinnyboyTV always having goosebumps whenever I watch your short movies.. so heart touching... Thanks always...
As years past, we get too comfortable to each other to the point that we forget how it feels like to be in love. We thought that sparks and feelings are gone but it was just hidden, hidden by unending arguments. This is exactly what happen to us right now. We kept on blaming each other and ended our relationship but few days past, our love brought us back to each others arms. And yes, 7 years itch really sucks.
siaoooo jin!!!! always make me cry with short stories like this :'((((((
brooo!! i love how you end in a cliffhanger effect. I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS SO MUCH!!!!! keep up
The plot twist of blogs was amazing.
😍 Loved the vedio.
thankyou!
How are you guys, not the biggest channel yet... people nowadays really do not know how to appreciate good and quality work...
Keep on the great work man
I am literally crying this was so sweet and when I clicked on this video I didn’t expect this at all. great acting, well done
I'm in tears. Best short movie. Should be in Oscar next year
The Academy Award for Best Live Action Short Film goes to.....The 7 Year Itch!
Lesson learned:
Sony mirrorless DSLR is a must be to express emotions .
I want gopro hero 8
Ahh I see now why I don't seem to express my feelings as well as other people
They all had Sony mirrorless DSLRs
🤣🤣🤣
Guys thank you so much for your subtitles
Thank you for this video. It helps alot for couples in long relationship. My partner is like that too. Very touching video, keep it up
If this was real life, phil would have found a new gf by the time Lisa discovered the V logs, trust me.
Lisa's new Boyfriend would be the one to find those V logs.
Yes. Phil like the post because he just want to like the post. Not to expecting that anymore
Devki Salkar not necessary.. Every human needs space and a cooling period after a breakup.... Btw they fought... Even I fight and even He waits... Phil is not an extrovert...
Monideepa Ganguly relationships only go badly if you start within like a few months of a breakup.
Yes, and no one will post something like that on facebook. It's too cringy
The story behind this video is very touching. I really love the producer in the way he/she tries to bring out the character of each individual with such brilliance. Kudos! ❤️