Kevin Atwater - why did you invite me to your wedding (Lyric Video)

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  • Опубліковано 11 січ 2025

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  • @itscrayzee
    @itscrayzee 3 місяці тому +46

    “You spelled wedding wrong” that whisper deep tone just sent me with chills

  • @friedlemon5172
    @friedlemon5172 Рік тому +226

    Welp, that was devastating

    • @friedlemon5172
      @friedlemon5172 2 місяці тому +4

      Update: she asked me to be her maid of honour🙃

    • @aysenurbesiktepe3002
      @aysenurbesiktepe3002 18 днів тому +3

      @@friedlemon5172 I am so sorry honey. I hope you find happiness

  • @zekebowl
    @zekebowl 7 місяців тому +96

    God this song sounds like what being gay as a teen feels like.

  • @gloomaker9875
    @gloomaker9875 Рік тому +230

    i relate to this so hard, especially the sudden kiss, i still wonder why he didn't hate me for it, instead he just hugged me

    • @julianroman3268
      @julianroman3268 7 місяців тому +20

      Some people are just nice..

    • @skeled0gz
      @skeled0gz 7 місяців тому

      @@julianroman3268OOF. PAIN

    • @kaylablock1425
      @kaylablock1425 6 місяців тому +12

      Some are nice. Some maybe desire back but are afraid 😢

  • @catarinabakker8405
    @catarinabakker8405 Рік тому +80

    “BUT then why” …. Crying forever

  • @chasefromalabama
    @chasefromalabama Рік тому +121

    20 years later, my heart still skips a beat when I unexpectedly see my high school crush.

    • @Meowwgii
      @Meowwgii 7 місяців тому +9

      PLS. My childhood crush who I last saw in 2020 still appears in my dreams. I sometimes fear I’ll forever feel sad about not being able to date him…

    • @aniel_ayers
      @aniel_ayers 7 місяців тому

      I understand you perfectly. I already have a bunch of recorded clear dreams with my love. After each such dream, I always have a literally wet pillow and I cancel ALL plans for the day, and listen to all his favorite songs all day.​@@Meowwgii

  • @dprochazka
    @dprochazka Рік тому +55

    Heard this on Sirius XM Coffee House tonight ... what marvelous lyrics!

    • @XloveXkissX
      @XloveXkissX Рік тому +1

      Same!!!❤

    • @PhillipKnox
      @PhillipKnox 10 місяців тому +1

      I did too and looked it up!

    • @barbaragundrum3430
      @barbaragundrum3430 8 годин тому

      Oh, it's on Coffee House! Bravo. I heard a Conan Gray song on Coffee House that reminded me of this....and so I had to search for this. Because I had to hear it again. Bravo.

  • @sp1ralg1rl
    @sp1ralg1rl Рік тому +36

    breaks my heart in the best way

  • @princembat
    @princembat День тому +1

    what a heartbreaking yet all too real song. how can life changing love just be gone, yknow? its so weird how it happens.

  • @bensonsupremacy7348
    @bensonsupremacy7348 5 місяців тому +28

    well that simultaneously made and ruined my day

  • @jusong
    @jusong Рік тому +42

    "after all of these years i still cross your mind" the double meaning of thinking about them but also trying to forget about them by crossing their name like a scribble, as well as the religious connotation of a cross (your pen must have been on fire 'cause holy shit the writing)

  • @moralesrebecca
    @moralesrebecca 6 місяців тому +24

    devastating. i want another song where they find their way back to each other and fall in love. please and thank you. actually no, i need an entire movie made out of this song.

  • @swiftie4619
    @swiftie4619 Рік тому +12

    I would love to read a book that feels like this song. Pls recommend😭.

    • @risingfire7
      @risingfire7 6 місяців тому +2

      A Little Life- Hanya Yanagihara

  • @adrianhipayo720
    @adrianhipayo720 Рік тому +32

    I LITERALLY CRIED WHEN I HEARD YOUR SONG ON TIKTOK NOW I LISTEN TO IT NON STOP ON SPOTIFY 😭 I LOVE YOU AND YOUR MUSIC 😭

  • @axelcraftantigrief
    @axelcraftantigrief Рік тому +29

    Every single release is just so ridiculously good

  • @CopeWithMe
    @CopeWithMe Місяць тому +2

    0:44 This is the thing that scares me of making a move...
    Not being able to deter kindness to love is something that disturbs me everyday

  • @bernie.fuentes13
    @bernie.fuentes13 Рік тому +27

    A random Facebook page posted a screenshot of this song from Spotify, and here I am, listening to your song...

  • @barbaragundrum3430
    @barbaragundrum3430 8 годин тому

    I searched this and found it. Heard it initially on tic Tok, I think. I love it so much. And now this little video. Too perfect.

  • @strawberryshortcake4345
    @strawberryshortcake4345 Рік тому +8

    Your voice and music is sooo comforting and tender

  • @charkie9313
    @charkie9313 5 місяців тому +7

    This is one of my favorite songs of all time. Its so saddd 😭

  • @BigFlopperino
    @BigFlopperino 6 місяців тому +7

    This song reminds me of what it felt like to fall in love in the most ridiculous, nonsensical way. When it all just happens on its own and you don't have control over yourself anymore. You just feel the person in a way you'll never be able to understand.

  • @faithdarling6036
    @faithdarling6036 Рік тому +9

    This song popped up on my TikTok feed a few months ago and I listen to it weekly, just thought you should know it haunts me and I love it

  • @koiwastaken4024
    @koiwastaken4024 Рік тому +6

    this is my favorite song.

  • @paullipoan
    @paullipoan Рік тому +16

    I’ve been listening to this constantly since it’s been released, I love this soo much ❤

  • @maddyxo2005
    @maddyxo2005 6 місяців тому +2

    It is the song that is currently warning me to not keep faalling for someone whose age is nearing the one you usually gets married❤. I love him sm

  • @masterofmyownwrld
    @masterofmyownwrld Рік тому +7

    You're so brilliant... Let us cry🫂😭

  • @andriandomingo1987
    @andriandomingo1987 Рік тому +2

    IM CRYING ONCE IN A WHILE THROUGHOUT THE FILM😢

  • @Kourtkilledkurt
    @Kourtkilledkurt 4 місяці тому +4

    I recently came out as aro/ace and I spent years crushing on people because I thought it would make me normal and likeable but everything makes sense about why I never truly liked someone. I think my first love was real but due to my identity, we broke it off. It hurts to see cute people now because one side of my mind says yes and the other says no I don't know what to do. It makes me sick to see cute people and I don't know why, I feel broken. I want these people but thinking about them makes me hurt. Anything physical is just a burden, I constantly want to curl up into a ball and cry about why I'm broken and why I can't be normal. This is just a dump and I'm sorry if you read through this expecting something.

  • @g92-x1w
    @g92-x1w Рік тому +8

    such a gorgeous second verse !!

  • @loverthing_meow
    @loverthing_meow Рік тому +4

    i swear this song is my favorite thing ever

  • @nickelsnbills
    @nickelsnbills 6 місяців тому +3

    I have never ugly cried to a song like this before, ugh.

  • @Faireepowder
    @Faireepowder Рік тому +2

    Oh. My. God. This song is so beautiful. Kevin Atwater, you drop bombs like they're hot. Please release an album

  • @vicentesantibanezn
    @vicentesantibanezn Рік тому +12

    I stumbled across your videos on instagram about a week ago and I haven’t stopped listening to your music ever since. Your music is amazing!! :)

  • @akmjn
    @akmjn Рік тому +8

    saw this on tiktok and ive been waiting for this to release

  • @davemattia
    @davemattia Рік тому +8

    I rarely have anything nice to say,. but this time I will make an exception. This is beautiful -- it's a masterpiece.

  • @M3talM4ster
    @M3talM4ster 7 місяців тому +7

    Welp, I’m in tears now. Thank you friend.

  • @anita_daphne_
    @anita_daphne_ 6 місяців тому +4

    this is beautiful

  • @allibrooklyn5419
    @allibrooklyn5419 Рік тому +8

    I love your music so much

  • @raihanrafif-s6z
    @raihanrafif-s6z 13 днів тому

    I got your message last night around 1:00
    You're getting married and you want me to come
    You miss me a lot and the wedding's next month
    I think you were drunk, you spelled "wedding" wrong
    I used to break wishbones and pray that you liked me
    And went to away games to pretend I liked fighting
    You'd scan the crowd for my face with your eyes
    Maybe I was in love or you were just nice
    Mmm a rush kinda like the old times
    After all of these years I still cross your mind
    Or maybе you thought you'd reach out to be nice
    But why'd you invitе me in the middle of the night?
    Do you remember when you thought your dad was dying?
    I ran to your house in the middle of the night
    When you found out he wasn't, caught in the moment
    I kissed you and then you got quiet
    You could've hurt me, it would've been easy
    We were that age where boys started being mean to be mean
    But you took my hand and asked me to dance
    To nothing and never brought it up again
    Mmm if I saw you what would I say?
    Would we act like we can't see that nothing's the same?
    We used to make fun of kids marrying young
    But it's not as funny when it's someone you loved
    Mmm I wanna call you with a hand in my pants
    And let you say drunk little things you'll regret
    But I'd just be the reason that somebody cries
    But then why'd you invite me in the middle of the night?
    I'll never know why
    Cause I'll never reply
    So you can just stay nice
    In the back of my mind

  • @Ba1mungoftheAzureSky
    @Ba1mungoftheAzureSky Рік тому +17

    pardon me as I play this song on repeat for a few hours to contemplate a lot of my own unresolved feelings --
    and please don't mind the crying sounds, I promise they're cathartic and necessary.

  • @micahhhb
    @micahhhb Рік тому +3

    HE CANT MISS❤

  • @kradlik
    @kradlik Рік тому +2

    SO UNDERRATED!!!!!!!! it deserves millions of views

  • @Da-C0ry
    @Da-C0ry 2 місяці тому

    Busy, I have plans, Bonding with this song, Busy Engraving it Into My Soul

  • @apiny4
    @apiny4 5 місяців тому +3

    welp that made me cry

  • @sojuandcrackers
    @sojuandcrackers 7 місяців тому +9

    your song pushes me to write again, a whole story forming in my head. sending consensual hugs. :)

  • @baguettefet
    @baguettefet Рік тому +4

    you are just so talented i physically cannot comprehend it

  • @ninjanosejob2236
    @ninjanosejob2236 Рік тому +3

    INSANELY BEAUTIFUL OMGH

  • @sammym6114
    @sammym6114 6 місяців тому +2

    This song hit so deep

  • @juliabornhorst4756
    @juliabornhorst4756 Рік тому +2

    Omg i didnt know this has been out for so long!!😭😭😭😭

  • @alloriginalgirl13
    @alloriginalgirl13 Рік тому +3

    It’s so good 😭

  • @seanydo84
    @seanydo84 Рік тому +2

    song + video is hittin you heardd

  • @breadcrumbsandpopcorns8097
    @breadcrumbsandpopcorns8097 5 місяців тому +2

    Please imma cry

  • @sammungxr
    @sammungxr Рік тому +4

    so fucking obsessed with this

  • @maddyxo2005
    @maddyxo2005 6 місяців тому +2

    The song, the lyrics, the cinematography are 🔥

  • @karimu_aoi7620
    @karimu_aoi7620 2 місяці тому

    Well.... That was life-changing..

  • @toadik3941
    @toadik3941 Рік тому +3

    IT'S AMAZING 😭😭

  • @tonytucker1
    @tonytucker1 3 місяці тому

    I just saw a reel on IG and had to find the rest of the song. This is amazing story telling. I could see this as a short film

  • @rodolforico2408
    @rodolforico2408 Рік тому +4

    This is absolutely mind-blowing 💙

  • @NiloeLoLz
    @NiloeLoLz 9 місяців тому +2

    My favorite song rn

  • @JoelBakerMusic
    @JoelBakerMusic 7 місяців тому +1

    Outrageous songwriting

  • @TheCakeisHere
    @TheCakeisHere 7 місяців тому +2

    Found you on my TikTok fyp. This song is incredible. Great work!

  • @clipclopdoogo6162
    @clipclopdoogo6162 Рік тому +3

    Amazing work per usual

  • @christinestelly
    @christinestelly 2 місяці тому

    I’m not crying your crying 😭

  • @leahdawit6205
    @leahdawit6205 3 місяці тому

    THIS WAS AMAZING!!! GO KEVIN!!!

  • @haydenswords
    @haydenswords Рік тому +1

    So so good

  • @hada1538
    @hada1538 6 місяців тому

    crying, sobbing, pulling my hair out rn

  • @elysiansmith4539
    @elysiansmith4539 6 місяців тому +1

    Love this😊

  • @applepie902
    @applepie902 6 місяців тому

    this made me clutch my pearls. Good job!!!

  • @liezlvaldez6437
    @liezlvaldez6437 Рік тому +4

    The last part made ackkk🥺 2:43

  • @JoelBakerMusic
    @JoelBakerMusic 7 місяців тому

    HEEEELP!!!!!!

  • @rynotfound75
    @rynotfound75 7 місяців тому

    this is so beautiful ong

  • @arnobashraf
    @arnobashraf 7 місяців тому

    perfection

  • @ruli_ru
    @ruli_ru Рік тому +4

    ЭТО ПРЕКРАСНО

  • @Therese504
    @Therese504 Рік тому +2

    Maybe I was in love

  • @wabisabi8242
    @wabisabi8242 4 місяці тому

    my eyes are sweating

  • @BrynnBeverly
    @BrynnBeverly Рік тому +5

    "and went to away games to pretend i liked fighting" the lover was a hockey player BET

  • @taosunami
    @taosunami 6 місяців тому

    Much better than ttpd or midnights

  • @whiteriou
    @whiteriou 2 місяці тому

    Oh and not to advertise someone else song, but boys will be boys by Ryan Robson has the same vibe of song you might check it out. Both are beautiful and meaningful song.

  • @thepatrickasuncion7308
    @thepatrickasuncion7308 7 місяців тому

    i was in love and you were just nice ❤️‍🩹

  • @KineticPassion
    @KineticPassion 6 місяців тому

    Came from Tumblr - someone posted the TikTok there. This is beautiful 😭

  • @frgg509
    @frgg509 Рік тому +2

    Its so good!

  • @matt7256
    @matt7256 7 місяців тому +2

    why is this relatable?? (im only 16)

  • @matt7256
    @matt7256 7 місяців тому +1

    damn...

  • @caspenbee
    @caspenbee 6 місяців тому

    It would be dope if you would put this on Bandcamp my dude

  • @vdcsoqvducqkwvd164
    @vdcsoqvducqkwvd164 6 місяців тому

    this song sounds like Aristotle and dante discovers the secrets of the universe

  • @dylandennison2532
    @dylandennison2532 Рік тому +3

    Good enough lyrics to be someone's discord bio SARDONIC

  • @rattbytee
    @rattbytee Місяць тому +1

    absolutely devastating, expect to hear from my therapist immediately

  • @maddyxo2005
    @maddyxo2005 6 місяців тому +2

    I might ask you for therapy because this song is gut wrenching!!

  • @MegaMrKitchen
    @MegaMrKitchen Рік тому +3

    tuning/tabs? 🥺

  • @whiteriou
    @whiteriou 2 місяці тому

    Did you replace the song? If I remember the early I listened to the song the gain is quite low. And now the volume is normal to loud.

  • @ozibuyensin
    @ozibuyensin 6 місяців тому

    I really started to love this song but the most clever part for me is the last few one because there is that reality of how "straight turning" queer people having their desire unfulfilled turn to their exes

  • @carsonisaacs7824
    @carsonisaacs7824 7 місяців тому +1

    I want “him” to find this song

  • @sofiaamador9741
    @sofiaamador9741 Рік тому +1

    😭😭😭😭😭

  • @luce1008
    @luce1008 7 місяців тому

    It feels like you're trying to say something that didn't get out. Like you said a lot but had "mucher"

  • @sophiesimpson8248
    @sophiesimpson8248 7 місяців тому +1

    Ouch. This one hurts ://

  • @ChrisP-q6o
    @ChrisP-q6o 6 місяців тому

    Here cause of chloe grace moretz insta stories

  • @jhubeJELLO
    @jhubeJELLO 5 місяців тому

    yeag

  • @chrisfield555
    @chrisfield555 3 місяці тому

    I’m so glad he didn’t reply :( it would have been the most bizarre torture to go…

  • @thepatrickasuncion7308
    @thepatrickasuncion7308 7 місяців тому

    💔

  • @pennytwink
    @pennytwink 7 місяців тому

    bro😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭