【Apple】My husband abandons me when I finally get pregant after years of infertility treatments

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  • @ImperialKnight770
    @ImperialKnight770 Рік тому +83

    "She knows. Everything."
    And boy did she mean everything. No child would EVER want to meet the parent that abandoned them.

  • @shaynellmesadieu
    @shaynellmesadieu Рік тому +80

    Now you want to treat your daughter as your child just because she make money? Typical deadbeat father.

    • @jonborchardt5548
      @jonborchardt5548 Рік тому +7

      Andy was all trick and no treat.

    • @jaclynsanture6643
      @jaclynsanture6643 Рік тому +3

      Andy is just a doner, sadly and Op should have said, after the divoce 'I don't make mistakes. I just Unfortuely dated the wrong person at the time.' Thankfully Op ended up with a Real man, not another childish one, who can't ever get It up.

  • @Kittenz96
    @Kittenz96 Рік тому +14

    Oh please! My last child was born when I was 42½.... easiest pregnancy I had ever had. She's 18 now, never ONCE has she been ashamed of having an older mom. If anything, she kept me feeling much younger than my actual age. We are very close and all her friends call me mom as well

    • @zerotodona1495
      @zerotodona1495 Рік тому

      Well yeah… you lost all your elasticity so I would hope it was easy.

  • @shaynellmesadieu
    @shaynellmesadieu Рік тому +102

    If your not going to be there at there lowest, you don't deserve to be with them when they're at their highest

  • @Revan_Onasi
    @Revan_Onasi Рік тому +3

    Good story. But it hits a little too close to home.
    My ex tried to gaslight me to think I will be a terrible mother. Sadly my child died in infancy. But I hope I will be a mom again in my forties.

  • @susanlayton2143
    @susanlayton2143 Рік тому +54

    Just because Andy is Amelia's biological father doesn't mean he's her dad. A father is someone you do happen to share DNA with but Dad is a title that is earned and for some their father and their dad are not the same person.

    • @iamahumanbro13
      @iamahumanbro13 Рік тому +2

      What if you call your adopted dad father

    • @randomloseranddull1560
      @randomloseranddull1560 Рік тому +1

      ​@@iamahumanbro13chaos.

    • @JupitersTears
      @JupitersTears Рік тому

      Actually they're called sperm donors by the people of the insaneparents subreddit

    • @nutty77
      @nutty77 Рік тому +5

      I don't know my biological father, but the person I call dad has been in my life since I was 2. I have a brother and sisters and never have I ever felt I was anything other than his daughter. He taught me to swim, ride a bike, roller skate etc... just like with my siblings

    • @opeeate
      @opeeate Рік тому

      ​@@iamahumanbro13oh they explode! I made the mistake of calling my adoptive father daddy when I was little but when I got older one day I called him dad and next thing I know I'm laying on the ground covered in blood and bits of meat with my ears ringing. my adoptive mother came running out crying "I thought I told you to call him daddy!" I'd forgotten that happens it's a sad thing to learn.

  • @sabineblume5341
    @sabineblume5341 Рік тому +30

    A lawyer will solve that problem easy.

  • @GeorgieB1965
    @GeorgieB1965 Рік тому +17

    We had our 2nd when my wife was 39 and I was 36. We is absolutely happy.

    • @NoxArcani-z4u
      @NoxArcani-z4u Рік тому +1

      The exception doesn't make the rule.

    • @bernedettekuteyi3843
      @bernedettekuteyi3843 Рік тому

      Congratulations on your second baby

    • @GeorgieB1965
      @GeorgieB1965 Рік тому

      @@bernedettekuteyi3843: I should clarify, I'm now 58, my youngest is 22 1/2 and my oldest is 31. And I'm a grandfather.
      I was pointing out that age isn't an issue when becoming pregnant. I had co-workers who were grandmothers @50.

    • @zerotodona1495
      @zerotodona1495 Рік тому

      @@GeorgieB1965age is an issue for the female biologically. If it was naturally done, then there is no issue.

    • @GeorgieB1965
      @GeorgieB1965 Рік тому

      @@zerotodona1495 It was. Kind of an "oopsie" baby.

  • @garysakamoto4007
    @garysakamoto4007 Рік тому +2

    My wife and I are in our 60’s and our youngest is 19. Nobody has ever said anything negative about our ages in regards to our daughter.

  • @eleanoraddy4683
    @eleanoraddy4683 Рік тому +21

    Yikes. I know someone who had her first at 39 then a second one after that! With no treatments at all!

    • @chrismc410
      @chrismc410 Рік тому

      I do too: my own sister. She was 37 when she gave birth to my nephew, 39 when she had my niece. I cannot have children. Never could. Long since accepted that.

  • @eleanoraddy4683
    @eleanoraddy4683 Рік тому +13

    It's painful seeing her beg that monster

  • @maddythetopazdragoncathybr1426
    @maddythetopazdragoncathybr1426 Рік тому +10

    Hope your day is full of good times and mouth watering treats.
    Happy Halloween 🎃

  • @dymonddavis7847
    @dymonddavis7847 Рік тому +30

    Andy doesn’t actually want to be a father, he just wants to be involved in his daughters life because she is a child actor ⭐️ now and makes money. He really is deadbeat father and loser.

  • @maranatha256
    @maranatha256 Рік тому +5

    I was 41 when I had my last child. My grandmother was 43. My son is fantastic. So was my uncle.

  • @donyamcashburn5440
    @donyamcashburn5440 Рік тому +15

    At last y'all read one where he said woman and women at the right places.

    • @StoopidMonkeysMomma
      @StoopidMonkeysMomma Рік тому +4

      I know, right? I've been complaining about that on these channels forever 😂😂

  • @lindahill7315
    @lindahill7315 Рік тому +6

    Good morning, everyone from a chilly Alabama

  • @elteescat
    @elteescat Рік тому +9

    He saw dollar signs when he realized Amelia was "that child actor." Lol

  • @raindancer1872
    @raindancer1872 Рік тому +3

    He never sounded interested in having the child in the first place.

  • @nco_gets_it
    @nco_gets_it Рік тому +5

    ALWAYS strive to be part of that top 10%. Always. Cut anyone out trying to make you part of the generic pack.

    • @zerotodona1495
      @zerotodona1495 Рік тому

      That’s a poor mind set though. Most people are common.

  • @mekomamizuko
    @mekomamizuko Рік тому +5

    "You're almost 40. Give up already"
    Me: *laughs in being born when mom was 41*

  • @brianmcgill1290
    @brianmcgill1290 Рік тому +3

    she should have just said talk to my lawyer and blocked him.

  • @jonborchardt5548
    @jonborchardt5548 Рік тому +14

    🎵Andy walked out on a pregnancy / only came back 'cause their daughter's a celebrity / with attitude like that / he will always be lonely / he spoke like a hero / after actin' like a villain / now as money goes / their daughter's makin' a killin' / with attitude like his / he will always be lonely / your money's only as good as the way you act / and once you burn bridges / there's no turnin' back / Andy came across as a phony / and with attitude like his / he will always be lonely🎵 (to the tune of "You Won't Ever Be Lonely" by another Andy, whose full name is Andy Griggs)

  • @oldwoman5942
    @oldwoman5942 Рік тому +4

    If Allison’s husband adopted the daughter then he is the legal father.

  • @lunasunsnowlover
    @lunasunsnowlover Рік тому +8

    Good afternoon from Norway and happy days to you all
    Happy halloween!
    🥧🎃🥧🎃🥧

  • @warrirornunluv801
    @warrirornunluv801 Рік тому +1

    Yondu: He maybe your father, but he ain't your daddy!

  • @JohannaNazareen1225
    @JohannaNazareen1225 Рік тому +16

    Dont beg him woman! Why would you want him to be around now that he showed who he realy is? And no, he is not the father. He is a sperm donor. You dont have to tell him anything about your child, her name, what she does for living, you can just denie the child support. You dont need it. Even if it is hard, dont let him have the chance to say that you sued him and he had to pay. He should want to pay. That is what parents do. But that way he will have the reason to contact you and say that he is the father and he payed. Plus, in the court it will be written that the father must pay for underaged child name such and such. And the amout o much. Well, now you told him your child's name. He will, like this one did sesrch for her in the future and demand something. Dont give him that. It is stupid to say "the child deserves the child support"
    They do, dont get me wrong.
    But what will that money give them? Nothing. He wanted your daughther dead. Aborted. You think he can pay some child support and it is all ok?
    Why do you beg him?
    And why are you texting him later? Why do all these women allways tell the informations to their ex's? Make sure that he never, ever finds out where you are, what gender your child is, where what their name is, what they do for living.
    You fidn'take child support, why did you talk to him later?

    • @cyndicook7755
      @cyndicook7755 Рік тому +1

      Oh, they kill me when they beg.

    • @JohannaNazareen1225
      @JohannaNazareen1225 Рік тому +2

      @@cyndicook7755 me too. I mean why? He doesn't want her or her child. Just leave him in the dust at that point. That is where he belongs anyway

    • @cyndicook7755
      @cyndicook7755 Рік тому

      @@JohannaNazareen1225 yeah I don't understand it. Treat you like shit, runs around on you and still you want to lay up in the bed with him? Come on the Peter can't be that good. If that happened to me I'd be like bye bitch.

  • @nancysternberg
    @nancysternberg Рік тому

    Bullying and blackmail do not work very well in trying to get your wife back!

  • @nancysternberg
    @nancysternberg Рік тому +2

    Mom becomes pregnant and the "father" reveals what kind of person he is, unfortunately!

  • @gabriellesutherlandphd5731
    @gabriellesutherlandphd5731 Рік тому +1

    Child Support is a legal requirement. The author's don't seem to know that a judge will order child support payments whether either the mother or the father want it or not.

  • @oldwoman5942
    @oldwoman5942 Рік тому +1

    Several relatives, both of my grandmothers included, gave birth in their forties.

  • @manxkin
    @manxkin Рік тому +2

    Doesn’t sound like Andy wants kids…and he’s a real jerk!

  • @C1984_FR
    @C1984_FR Рік тому +2

    The only thing I didn't like about this story is that her MIL didn't have a relationship with her grandaughter.
    She still should have been in the child's life because she didn't do anything wrong.

  • @cyndicook7755
    @cyndicook7755 Рік тому +1

    Why do these men on here think that their ex wives will just divorce their current husbands and get back with them ?

  • @corinnefogarty7880
    @corinnefogarty7880 Рік тому

    Not exactly blackmail, it's extortion. Difference is with the first there was a wrong committed by the person being blackmailed.
    In the second the extortionist is making a threat to do harm to their victim.

  • @pollypockets508
    @pollypockets508 Рік тому +1

    Talk to the hand, Andy.

  • @bridgetdebourgh5698
    @bridgetdebourgh5698 Рік тому +4

    Happy Halloween Everyone 👻🎃😈🧟🧛🦹👹👽
    Have a great day 👋🤗
    From Louisiana 🐊

    • @straightblackgirl
      @straightblackgirl Рік тому +2

      Happy Halloween 🎃 🤗👋🏾

    • @bridgetdebourgh5698
      @bridgetdebourgh5698 Рік тому +1

      @@straightblackgirl Have a wonderful day! Happy Halloween 👻🎃 Stay safe 👋🤗

    • @lorannamoody7011
      @lorannamoody7011 Рік тому +2

      Happy Halloween. Our first foggy day of the year. It will be spooky tonight. 🌮😈

    • @bridgetdebourgh5698
      @bridgetdebourgh5698 Рік тому +1

      @@lorannamoody7011 It's been foggy here for almost a week. Looks like winter to. No kids tonight. I'm going to watch old horror movies and some 80s 🤭
      The kitten is laying down by me getting some petting.
      Happy Halloween 👻🎃 Stay safe 🤡💀👹👽🧛🧟🦹🤪

    • @lorannamoody7011
      @lorannamoody7011 Рік тому +2

      @@bridgetdebourgh5698 enjoy your alone time. I know how good that can feel. ❤️🦎

  • @sandyallen2159
    @sandyallen2159 Рік тому +1

    Get that in writing he won't have anything to do with yall later

  • @meleaglail8515
    @meleaglail8515 Рік тому +1

    My Great Grand Ma gave birth to her last child at the age of 52 years old..👵❤

  • @kellyvandijk3269
    @kellyvandijk3269 Рік тому

    A child on a late age is not always good for the child.

  • @jonborchardt5548
    @jonborchardt5548 Рік тому +5

    Andy: *leaves Allison while there's a bun in the oven*
    Me: (to Andy) 🎵"When You Leave That Way / You Can Never Come Back" / trains can't run on tore up tracks / that's a sure way to live a life all alone / 'cause when you leave that way / you can never come home🎵 (Confederate Railroad reference.....come to think of it, he lived the second verse right at the start of this story)

  • @cyndirankin
    @cyndirankin Рік тому +5

    Lol. I m 60. My daughters are 21 and 23

    • @randomloseranddull1560
      @randomloseranddull1560 Рік тому

      Any difficulties or complications with them when they were born or growing up? I just hear these things but don't know anything (genuinely curious)

    • @cyndirankin
      @cyndirankin Рік тому

      @@randomloseranddull1560 none, execpt for horrible morning sickness

  • @rolfsinkgraven
    @rolfsinkgraven Рік тому

    A very nice video again.

  • @pioliboo
    @pioliboo Рік тому +1

    Happens all the time

  • @akumamako1119
    @akumamako1119 Місяць тому

    I am going to have to assume that these two sleep in separate bedrooms?!

  • @jarlairess
    @jarlairess Рік тому

    It's funny how they still refer to it as Twitter. RIP Twitter

  • @Annieh-ii5jx
    @Annieh-ii5jx Рік тому

    I have to laugh at how this man thinks that because his wife is nearly 40 her time to give birth is over. I knew a woman who gave birth to her last child at the age of 54, and this was long before IVF was even thought of.

    • @cryssyyxx
      @cryssyyxx Рік тому

      Its possible but very risky tho their is a risk of dying while giving birth

  • @sandrarobinson1962
    @sandrarobinson1962 Рік тому

    What about the grandmother

  • @JzzE1
    @JzzE1 Рік тому

    Not if i kick the hell out of you, first.

  • @zerotodona1495
    @zerotodona1495 Рік тому

    Sorry but after 35 she should have stop trying. Biologically, her eggs are too damaged for a normal child. Women aren’t suppose to have babies that old.