SHE WAS REMOVED FROM HIS OBITUARY....THEN, LOOK WHAT HAPPENED
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
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Hey ObodoFam,
Hope everyone is good, today I am sharing with you the story of Late US Veteran Chuks Okebeta, who was sadly kidnapped and murdered while on a visit to his home in Eastern Nigeria in 2017. His wife was wrongfully accused of being behind it all....two years later the truth is out!
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Every marriages have their problems! Couples fight all the time. What we see here is a video showing when the lady asked the man to leave and when he refused, she called the police. How does that translate her being the killer? Blacks we are too quick tempered! There is always a two-side to a story. This should teach us a lesson. When angry, walk away wether you are a man or woman. Now her husband died, she was denied the right to bury or mourn him properly. The man’s family will use it as an opportunity to take all his properties. We know this so no need to pretend. I am happy for her that the truth eventually surfaced. God has fought her battles for her and God will finish work by putting to SHAME those who deliberately accuse her of what she didn’t do just to steal from her and her children. God will disgrace them all. That video that man was planned! He carefully did it and shared it with someone who ended up using it against his wife. She should stay away from them all, until they apologise! Thank you Sis Bridget for sharing.
Am happy the true killer's was captured. But one thing i want to say as a woman pls i know men can be so annoying at times with the way they treat we women and also be a cheater or flat, but pls women let us on no account send a man out of is own home that he bought with is own money just because we had a serious arguement. As a woman when a marriage is full of abuse or not working out i will rather walk away and get my self a place to stay with my children in peace, and if the marriage can still be settled fine...... if not i will leave for safety purposes because this world is a wicked world that we need to be careful.
@@stellascott6782 The house belongs to her too if you watched the video you can hear that this man doesn't even sleep there at night, he mostly spend the night with his side chick he pushed her to wall and she bounced back, I even heard he was abusive.
@@stellascott6782 and what if she too put her money in, she should still be the one to leave huh? Why always talk about women as if we ares
less than human? Thank God there's a law to protect women in some places. Smh
akofabulous yes oh!
@@stellascott6782 no my dear that is not how it works. A home isnt his home cos he was born with a penis. Majority of women in USA work just like men do. We are not going to let men abuse us and leave with our kids .teach men to respect women this woman was tired. You mistreat a woman you leave with your stuff and go to your mistress.
My heart breaks when the children started crying..... please parents should learn to keep their arguments away from their children.
shinning star
You can say that again. I cried like a baby just seeing those kids cry. Mennnnnn, this is just not right. May God help His children.
@@chizzyhiisly7685 Amen. Mothers should please protect their children because if don't, no one will.
As in. Watching this a year later and I feel such sadness. Both Parents were so immature putting their Children through such pain and then the Daddy goes on and dies. Oh! I wish those little ones get therapy and help as this act will leave a scar on the little ones. God help us all.
I cried 😢
The children were being exposed to adult problems poor children....
Very sad, and Chuks (may he R.I.P.) was manipulating the son to tell their teacher etc. Not a good situation. When my parents fought, they tried to hide it from us at least.
@@PaultheSheik That shocked me too, two adults should keep their fights from children
The violent language in front of the children is too much.
jnicia1 This exactly is my problem-then it becomes a cycle-damaged kids from damaged marriages then grow up to marry and become abusers
jnicia1 and using the children like that was just sick
Oh my God!! My heart starts to break when the kids start crying..
I am telling you. I am still crying sef
The woman would have listened to her children. What she did to the man was as good as murder.
I began to cry seeing the kids cry
Why would people who have mis-understanding behave this evil way in front of the children😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
So painful to watch... Very selfish parents..
Seriously,the kids didn't need to be seeing all that. Now they don't have a father at all. So sad and selfish
They will believe that their mother killed their father.
@@rosemaria2912 yesssoooo the kids will hardly believe they mum
Abeg abeg we see this in Nigeria constantly if not in compound u leave then in the street you leave in. You are not talking about her they lied on the wife and blamed her for his death o. That is the evil here. Loads of children witness their parents fighting
This is why anyone who lives overseas MUST NOT PUBLICISE their visit to Nigeria and should also lay low once over there. May his soul rest in perfect peace.
Pamela Mojekwu AMEN
Definitely 😭
So there are a lot of jealousy going on in nigeria? We don't have that in congo
@@africaine4889 because Kongo is a Bush.
@@africaine4889 ah sista which congo you talking about because DRC is the same ooooh, sadly very sad for our africa
No matter how educated Africans are, we always feel that somebody killed somebody. My husband was sadly killed in the US 15 years ago by a hit and run accident in the street of American. I was accused. The US investigation was clearly done. Sorry for your loss my dear. My kids were babies. The lord is your strength darling. Take care of your kids. I am African too.
Imagine a man of 35 years died,and they used celebration of life, what is that?it tells that the family are senseless
It is even his family that killed him so that they can take his house,now they are celebrating his life.
@@LengForChrist so no other member of the family proof-read the obituary before printing?🤔
For naija when husband die, na im wife kill am but if na the wife die, na her wickedness kill am, na wa , Lord have mercy on us and may his soul rest in peace. Thank you so much my beautiful❤ sister for sharing.
Don't make this a sexist issue. The thing looked suspicious.
@@PaultheSheik No it doesn't. stop it
U neva see am before?
ABI OOOOO
Very very true especially when the family don't like her hmmmm God help us
The couple opened the door and the evil ones entered.
He opened his zip.
Very true
@@africanqueen4667 Ouuuuuch!!!! That's deep, but true.
Anyone can be kidnapped in Nigeria every Nigerian knows this.
PAULNE UGBIYOBO not anyone but some people
It’s really fucked up for an entire family would leave out the recognition of an abused woman. That has to one evil family.
The guys cup of iniquity was full. Aiye yi lati ma jiya ka to re orun. He was paid back for all evil he had done to the woman. His parents and siblings lives in the USA what is he looking for buolding a house in the village. So he can continue his sexual escapade and wayward lifestyle. Instead of concentrating his energy and resourcesbon his wife and children. If agod does not build a house the labourers are labouring in vain. This is a lesson for all our men. Where your family is your home. Stop chasing shadows. Concetrate your energy and resources to advance the course of your immediate family members. Stop living your life for selfish extended family members. I hope he can come back from heaven now and live in the house. I rejoice with the wife. Even though it can be painful. God helped her to put an end to a wicked man.
Abimbola Jekayinfa Well Spoken! Anyone that has never been at the mercy of an evil man, will never understand!
I said it. This is exactly the reason why this woman plotted and kill the man while pretending to be a saint. She is 100% responsible for the man's death, all those confessions are just paid arrangements to make her look innocent and deviate peoples minds from actually detecting the real truth. Jealous of the man living happily with other women elsewhere and ignoring her even though she is clearly dysfunctional and stupid is the reason why she plotted and kill him. Why would he focus his energy and resources on his wife and children? A family he does not control? Is her attitude the way God ordered wives to behave to their husbands? Is her attitude godly to you? The woman is always right. I guess if the woman was the one killed or caught cheating, you will still blame it on the man not being man enough or abusive. Very stupid and irrational people. OUR MEN NEEDS TO WAKE UP AND START TEACHING THESE TYPES OF WOMEN A STRONG LESSON OF THEIR LIVES OR ELSE THEY WILL NEVER GET IT.
My heart breaks for those boys!
GOD HELP us IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME ALLELUIA AMEN!!!
They didn’t even bother to investigate before making accusations. Extremely sad 😞
Why are the Nigerian police so daft???? How can you interrogate the suspects of such a heinous crime together and in public??? Separate them before interrogating them, that way if their stories don't match up it gives you something that can be used to your advantage...These police do this shit all the time, I just don't get it...It's so unprofessional and a demonstration of how they lack the common "basics" in crime investigation.
The Police was USA local town Police not Nigerian Police.
That is USA man ...U didnt see the white police man walk in
@@tracyfins oh' I thought i was own about wen she called the police on him at the house before he left for naija ' Yes the killer part is in naija
The family cannot touch his property here in the USA.
THANK GOD FOR THAT! God PLEASE, save us from the ENEMIES WITHIN...."OUR VERY OWN FAMILIES"!
God will always exonerate us all in any accusations that we no nothing about. Nigerians will never learn from their wicked lifestyles. Thanks for updating us about this story, God bless you sister 👍🌹
OMG, firstly this children, why exposed them to all this Nonsense.
Nigeria is a terrible place. Look at this Young men, their job is kidnapping and killing.
It’s getting worse by day
True' I was hopping to go there but this kidnapping ave heard is too much n am not sure if I want to step a foot there oohh
NO MARRIAGE ON EARTH IS A BED OF ROSES, EVERY MARRIAGE HAS ITS UPS AND DOWN. IT'S BETTER TO LEAVE A MARRIAGE ALIVE THAN TO BE DEAD IN A MARRIAGE. MAY THE GENTLE SOUL OF THE INNOCENT MAN REST IN THE BOSOM OF THE LORD AMEN!!!!
I remember this story........what a tragic loss. She may not have access to his properties in Nigeria but in the states.....she should be fine. They were legally married and they have children. I wish her and the kids nothing but the best . Thanks obodo oyinbo.
I say, A BIG THANK YOU, FOR YOUR SERVICE, to the fallen hero. May the Lord forgive him and rest his soul in peace. Amen.
It's really a very tragic story. The children, are definitely the victims of this whole thing. I hope the man's family members do some sort of restitution to this widow and the children, if they haven't already done so. Only the two people in a marriage/relationship, know exactly what goes on in their home. Not the friends or the family members. Thank God, that the evil ones that killed this man, were apprehended, told the truth, thereby, exonerating the wife. Otherwise, the wife, her children and her entire family members in their village, would've been forever left with the stigma of a murder, she didn't commit.
I'm glad those people were caught and I'm glad that, the truth has finally surfaced and justice will be served.
When this happened in 2017, it was all over the place. Everyone was passing their judgement. Now that there's a twist to the story, no one heard anything about it. Thank you, Obodo Oyinbo and your TEAM, for this update. Good job😘
The video of the men confessing is not new. I don't know why she's just seeing or posting it now.
@Dj x, who cares if it's new or old. Apparently, people like you, for whatever reason, don't want this part of the story, told to the world. That's really EVIL. You may have known about its existence, obviously, a host of others had no clue, that the apprehension and confession of the perpetrators, had already taken place. Stop being a troll. The video is now out in the open and there's nothing anyone can do about it. Deal with it
It's well! may there be peace for the wife, children and family. I rest my case.
So unfortunate after they fought he died.
Coincidence, too bad
This is not a fight this is total wickedness to call police for your hubby
lary kay which one is wickedness? She wanted him to leave the house which he should without Incident but he made her call the police so it does not escalate. We don’t know what made her reach that tipping point to want him out
Sad 😔 may his soul rest in peace, the family removed her name because she first removed the late man name from his own children lives because she sent him out, called police for him and even threatened to send him to jail, please African ladies living abroad we shouldn't allow the law and culture of White man to ruin our marriages, we're Africans and we do have culture beside those kids needs fatherly love too, I cried watching the kids crying 😢 it's obviously they don't want their father to leave. Hummmmm thank God the killers has been known, she's free from all accusations. Thanks my beautiful Lady B for sharing God bless your home. Next post please
Dear madam. Please dont get sentimental on your post. A woman that can throw her husband out of the house and call the police on him inspite of the crys of the children is heartless. The video clearly did not show any signs of domestic abuse. You can hear from the audio that it was the woman who was clearly the aggressor. What would you have expected the family to have done after seeing that video.
This is a lesson to all our Nigerian women whose husbands paved the way for their stay in America and then they turn monsters riding on the laws of the American people. You need to hear stories of Nigerian wives abroad and how they treat their husbands especially Nurses who i understand make a lot more money than the husbands.
The guestion i ask is if that woman was in Nigeria, would she have acted the same way she acted throwing her husband out of their matrimonial home?
For all you know, that fight may have facilitated the man's trip to his sudden death.
@@MrJoennachi lol. You think those women will not do the same thing? They are actually worse.
@@MrJoennachi Onuku
@@nanaadoma3141 that is not true. I know a lot of africans married to whites. And most of then have an african mistress and children back home.
@@MrJoennachi Hum. We all know stories about white paying to get their husband killed, or divorcing and taking everything from their husband. If a woman is bad she will be bad regardless where u come from.
Omg this is so sad 😞the children will remember this because in their minds he never came bk. He is dead now
Even the children will never forget this, even when they grow up
I am broken to pieces oooh no. The children may God watch over them all the days of their life.Can you imagine the last picture of their father that will forever remain in the children's minds.
I pray none of you never marry a spouse that will drive you up the wall, to the point that you just want to disappear and not exist. You see, those people that are quick to bring out the phone to record, most times are manipulators. They wind up that person and then start filming, smiling and laughing to make the other person look really bad, because at that point, they are so angry, they do not even care anymore.
Yep!
In the African home I grew up I was always taught that arguments between husband and wife should never spiral out of the matrimonial bedroom!! What is happening to our African culture??? To the extent of filming the argument and even including young children in your arguments and asking them to take sides??? I’m so sorry for their loss although o knew from the beginning of the video that she didn’t kill him. Women will argue with their spouses but in their hearts won’t even wish for their spouses to be bitten by an insect. I think he was cheating real bad and she was scorned that’s why she called police... another thing ladies... don’t involve this mzungu police in your marital problems... they were never there when you said those vows.
If the man is physically violent to you or your children, of course call the police......NO, then wait for him to kill you?......
linda brown of course not!! I don’t advocate for Abusive marriages. However, a child seeing his dad in handcuffs or being driven away by cops is the worst scar you can leave on that child!! They may never forget it!! My argument is.., if it gets really bad for you, take legal action and file for divorce or leave the marriage quietly without scaring your children for life.
What that man did was WICKED! Can't the public see how.he used the children in this video? What real man would use his children as a weapon. Shame.on him. What a manipulative bastard. God alone e knows what brutality she suffered. You don't involve children in your adult affairs, especially when you are a cheater. His wife tried not to bad talk him while he did all that. I can't believe his family didn't realise the manipulation he was doing. As soon as I saw the video I realized how he was. She is left to raise those boys after he poisoned their minds. His family worshiped him as a God despite his wickedness. This was not some unknown thing. I believe he had a habit of various types of abuse against that woman. Time has vindicated the wife. Let his family live with their own guilt.
Well written. This is what happens to manipulative, cheating and controlling men. I'm sure the wife has been patient for so long. She couldn't take the shit any longer.
He was a Narcissistic Thug that happen to be a Bully to his wife with his intimidating voice. He is a wicked man by dragging his kids into that CRAP. He put himself out there in Nigeria posing with GUNS all over the social media. His wife did not kill him, he make himself get killed because of his lavish fake lifestyle,letting people on social networks knows all of his movement.
Good warning for men who run to build in Nigeria. The moment you let your extended family know about your project or give them access to your building. They will seat on it
Watching the video of her watching her kids cry for their father broke my heart, sad
What a sad story. I feel for those children
Very sad and painful....the devil use dat avenue to deal with dat family. May GOD be with d wife and children ijmn.
Go and question all his sidechicks..smh.
No matter what my hubby does I would never let him leave the house in handcuffs in front of the kids!9🥶🥶🥶These obodo oyinbo kids are not so resilient. Small problem at home they end up in drugs or gangs. And the girls sleeping around because of daddy issues. Their relationship with their dad is sacrosanct as far as I’m concerned. These are the type of women who would deny the father the right to his kids in order to ‘fix’ him. You would only be fixing yourself as you’d be destroying your kids’ psyche.
Sis B , yes the family were 100% wrong and should call her family and have restitution and attempt to reconnect her and the kids to their kindred. Very important. But we can’t absolve her from how badly she handled the situation on the day of the misunderstanding. He cheated, fine but she could have done the separation in another way. I’m sure that day has played over and over in her head and she is suffering immensely emotionally, I’m sure no matter how wicked she could be. She is haunted and needs healing. The family needs to do right by her.
This thing of calling police for any disagreement by diaspora women has to stop! Once you call police you eliminate the opportunity of peaceful dialogue and any sensible counsel of the man will land on deaf ears. You are not doing you or the kids any favours. It’s so sad. This lady wishes she could turn back the hands of time and speak to Chuksey today😭😭
Yes I recommend you stay in Africa my dear with all the other women that love to be abused. We protect women here in america.
Dont say that because all hubby arent the same father of my son from Nigeria me i am a Kenyan wanted to use my son at 17yrs to traffick with drugs? So in this case whom do you protect? ....
I think this whole thing is coincidental. Couples argue and may even fight. We don't know all the details of their dispute. Something really bad must have pushed the wife to call the police. The man travelled to Nigeria and unfortunately got kidnapped and killed. People get kidnapped everyday in Nigeria it is nothing new. The family are wrong to deny the wife the right to bury and mourn her husband and father of her kids, but they will use it to claim his properties in Nigeria. The house he built in the village is actually worthless to her as she cannot sell it and she would not want to live in it either way especially as her in laws now have a grudge with her. This is a sad case and there are no winners especially the two young children who have lost their dad and ties with their kinsmen as I doubt she would ever bring them to Naija again.
i don't know if she would ever take her children there again...no right thinking person would do that. Its better to leave the decision to the boys to make when they get older.
This is so unfortunate, its being at the wrong place at the wrong time. If only he didn't try to shot the guys maybe he will be alive today. Maybe the kidnappers would have just asked for a ransom. He only cannot fight four men with guns. Oh my God. Going back home sometimes is so scary due to this type of issue. May God comfort the wife and children.
@@inombo Did you watch the whole video. Please go back and listen to the story of the kidnappers.
Every man should learn from this incident, be at peace with your wife. Don’t leave your home in chaos and think you’ll find peace and joy outside. If you don’t love your wife and try to paint her bad in front of your children, you’re only exposing yourself and family to the enemy. African men, the bible said that a man will leave his mother and father and unite to his wife and the two shall become one. Become one with your wife, there’s no smoke without fire, no sensible wife will call a cop on a loving and caring husband. African men, when they marry other race , they treat their wife right but do otherwise to African women. Men, for the sake of your children, love their mother and you’ll see transformation in your home and your wife will respect you and both party should submit to one another... Eph5:22.
Bukola Akande I Beg they will never learn, they want to have sex with anything with a heart beat and expect the wife to endure and even risk her life by being exposed to HIV
Can't you see how biased you are in your judgement? No sensible woman would call the police on a loving and caring husband? How sure are you about that? What about those who take advantage of the women-protective system abroad to misbehave in the home and FRUSTRATE THEIR HUSBAND just because they know the laws would always favour them? You weren't there to witness that incident, so you need to review this women-biased preaching and judgement of yours.
Channel One please, call the police if your life is in danger, that’s what a sensible person will do. We don’t know the whole story but how many spouse will kill their partner before we learn?
Social Justice That’s not true that Nigerian women brings nothing to the relationship. Nigerian women are one of the most hardworking educated women in North America. Some Nigerian men will marry teenagers like this case... the women was 19 years old when they got married, so what do you expect? Older educated Nigerian women have started marrying people from other races too where they will be loved and treated with respect. The beat your wife culture is wickedness, one of the problems we have in Nigeria.
Yes. They know that Western Woman will not take any Bullshit and Nonsense from them. Some of them want to have their cake and eat it. That man in question got himself killed.. His wife didn't kill him. If you see his Facebook page,his fake life was all over it. Some of his family members or friends that are living in Nigeria set him up because he was constantly posting his every movement on Facebook and pic of his mansion on Nigeria.I won't be surprised if his wife is the one paying all the bills in America while he is sending all of his money to Nigeria to build his Mansion,Vanity upon Vanity. He is working as a Security Guard at a Clothing store,they don't make a lot of money and he is definitely not collecting any money from the USA Military. I know because my husband is a 35 years USA Veteran.
Everyone involved is in pain and the actions taken are just the responses. Wife acted because of her pains in the marriage and so did the mans family they lost a good son, brother. We just need to pray for them all to heal. I know these people, and believe it they are all in pain.
Well spoken. I will not blame anyone here.
@@olussharaibi this guy eh! You're very stupid o. I've been reading your comments everywhere. Who made you not to have sense? Listen! As long as a man and woman went to church to get married. That is a monogamy. As long as they wedded in court that is a monogamy. If the man can't keep it in his pant and become a community dick, he has fallen from the bounds of his vows to his wife. If you want to be polygamous, word of advice then do wed in church or court. Do only traditional marriage. No one held a gun to your neck to make that decision to marry only your wife when you were getting married. If you can tkeep it in your pants. Divorce her. U can't pick and choose what part of the law you want to obey. Take the blame for your actions. U wouldn't like it if your wife was sleeping around, you'll be quick to call her ashawo. U are a disgrace to human beings. Some folks would have just come out as animals. No thinking faculty! If the deceased, sad as it were mellowed, went to Naija and did what he was there for quietly, he wouldn't have caught the attention of kidnappers. He brought it on himself. Get brain o! It's important! Get brain!!!!
Prince. Olufemi Sharaibi i dont know where u found your ‘pray to’ try PRAY FOR... smh
Can we all just calm down here! First of all, thank you so much @Obodo Oyinbo TV for your expert analysis of this issue. And secondly may Chucks rest in peace. And then commiserations and deepest sympathy to Chuck's Widow, his children, his parents and the rest of his family. My take on this issue is that we have to, first of all separate the quarrel that happened in the US from the murder that happened in Imo state, Nigeria. For a start, Chuck's widow clearly knew that she was being video-recorded by him, I think it would've been the stupidest act ever committed on earth for her to then go on and hire a hit squad on him, knowing full well what anyone who saw the video would be inclined to suspect. The lady was clearly very upset about something in the first video, & we may never know the full extent of the hurt that pushed her to ask her husband to leave the house. It's always a sad thing when things get to that stage, & I'm fully aware that human beings as imperfect as they are, there have been instances of women who have acted too hastily in booting out their other halves during disagreements. That is however, not to say that there are no legitimate scenarios when asking a spouse to leave is precisely the rightful thing to do, say in cases of physical abuse, including grievous bodily harm to wife or even children as we have often heard about. I have listened ardently to the many arguments made by some people suggesting that sexual promiscuity does not count as abuse, but that is totally wrong because serial cheating could be a dire form of emotional violence, which though physically invisible can often do the worst damage to that most essential part of the human person - the mind. That said, it is just outright irresponsible to carry on making this fictitious link between a couple's personal marital quarrel and a cowardly crime of murder. To those who are so mad at the lady for asking her husband to leave the house for whatever reason, & who opine that such wouldn't happen in the motherland - Nigeria, I say, well, they knew the laws of the land - US - they were going to live in and happily signed up for it. Violence, both physical and emotional is well and alive in many marriages today and have sadly often metastasized into more sinister endings sometimes for men, but mostly for women. Let us be very careful at the conclusions we make, and join hands together to create safer and more peaceful households in our communities.
Well written, are you an English professor?? 😊
@@sandria22 I'm ust a village boy. Thanks for the compliment.
Why were the children 👶🏾exposed to all of this? Sad, RIP.
Stop 🛑 putting all your business on social media. All his troubles were from his village.
They not allowing her to take part was a ploy to take all he had. Wicked people.🧟♀️🧟♂️
They can’t touch the assets in America, wives reign supreme here. She will get everything here. God bless America. Women have rights here.
Why do people feel the need to splash their issues on social media? People on social media don't really care about you. Your misfortune is a source of entertainment for them. Geez!
BIG UPS for your comment! Social Media HAS NOW BECOME THE PROVERBAL "PANDORA,S BOX" once opened = TOTAL CHAOS! Why most people choose to display their private lives on social INSTEAD OF keeping such to themselves, will always remain a mystery and will ALWAYS baffle me!
your right my sister
I am not here to shade but Most African marriages are so sour and not worth it
My ex husband used to strangle me in front of our daughter and a whole lot of things !
Children are innocent and shouldn’t see stuff like this happen at the place they call home
Not African, specifically Nigerian or West African marriages are toxic. Because they dont believe in divorce, they live in misery, torturing each other and their children, like a prison for life. No matter what, they won't leave, they would rather die....
@@pattimugmug1654 I am sorry, but bad marriages exist everywhere. It is not a Nigerian or a West African thing. You sound quite bitter.
Bonne Chance we are talking about the percentages here my dear
Pattimug Mug I am very happy I gathered courage to leave.
I had to leave the community too for my sanity as most people thought I shouldn’t have left my abusive husband !
And God has been good since
@@vickyd9584 Please provide the statistics then.
@Obodooyinbo TV: I am glad u touched this story, this story will not only to bring awareness to this woman’s vindication, but to also sound a warning to all African in diaspora to be careful while traveling back home to Africa,
Is sad that the young man died, and you are right, his family owe the wife an apology. This kind of relationship affect a lot of children when they grow up. Parent need to remember, even in that anger moment that they are kids no 1 role model. Is not ok to just pretend the wife doesn’t exist at all on his obituary. I am happy the truth came out, not every woman victimised in this kind of situation gets vindicated like this woman. God will give her strength to look after those kids, if their dad’s family want to make themselves present and available to be part of the village it takes to raise those kids fine, if not she should stay on her lane. Family like this brings you problem than joy. Thanks for sharing, never heard the story before
I cant believe this ,so this man was killed ,I didn't even kn he had died.😭😭😭😭.Come to think of it I dont blame the family for being bitter about the wife even if he is my brother I will feel the same.
You are speaking like a reasonable person. The whole thing looked suspicious and the coincidence was such that any reasonable person will suspect the wife first. I will not blame the family although I disagree with them not allowing her to be part of the funeral. Marriages have now become one family against the other. Immediately there is a problem, families take the side of their children instead of working to resolve issues amicably between the couple.
This is why we should all be matured when it comes to marital issues most especially today that social media is the easiest way for passing information across the world. This is so sad 😔 may his soul rest in peace.
@@olussharaibi You are on point. The man's death is clearly a paid arrangement to exonerate herself. She deserved to be killed too maybe others could learn from it. Women are never evil in their eyes even if death is involved. Go to every other comment section with a similar topic and see their reasoning. Very stupid!
Wicked in-laws.If it's me i will look for a good lawyer in Nigeria,sell all his properties there and give the money to an orphanage or widows like myself in Nigeria.Just imagine being accused of killing the father of your young kids.That means you don't love them.Why would you want to take their father that they obviously love away from them?
It was because of the property that they decided to accuse her falsely in the first place.
Prayers sent up for this family. Wife, children, and his family may God heal everyone involved and bring this family back together. May he open the eyes and heart of his family that they rightfully restore the properties and money that belong to the wife and children in Jesus name amen.
We woman should learn from this not sending your husband out of the house because you are in the country where woman has priviledge of exercising their right. If this guy is your family too, you will think the same way that she contributed to his death by sending him out of the house. God forbid this act.
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He honestly didn’t have to leave that home. If he slept there and had mail going to that address, he didn’t have to leave (even if the police asked him to). If she changed the locks, she could have been sued for an illegal eviction. When women and/or men are upset and they’re truly not in danger, it’s silly to call the police. 🤷🏽♀️ Black people already have it hard, so why maliciously try to muddy someone’s name and drag them through the system. I know it’s easier said than done, but it’s best to walk away and not react when you’re upset. Shame on his family for excluding his wife and their children from the funeral. I’m sure she’s still still hurting because of this. Smh
If you are visiting Nigeria, avoid moving around in flashy cars especially if you are not in urban areas. This kind of kidnappers pick victims up by chance based on the kind of cars the victim is using. Victims in more luxurious cars are targeted. Had it been he was driving around in an old non-fancy vehicle they would not give him a second look except if there was direct contact that suggest he lives outside Nigeria. Once I used an old Mazda 2000 in Lagos and it was enough to keep dangerous eyes off. More so you wouldn't have to worry much if the vehicle is dented by reckless drivers. By the time I left Nigeria, the vehicle was dented in different areas but it didn't matter because the vehicle was already old and had served it purpose.
This is so unfortunate. Another lesson to be learned here is something that has been said over and over again. Women should be financially secured on their own, married or not. Be independent. I have a feeling this woman had her own stuff going on for her. The whole thing is just...sad.
Parents should never argue in front of their children. Never involve the kids. It's very unhealthy.
U are so so right, may God help us
I don't blame the wife or the man but I still have to say that this matter is the way the woman handle this matter. There are numerous ways to settle these issues.
I don't expect her to keep quiet when her late husband because of his unfaithfulness and attitudes but she should have taken it easier. She should have handled it to God and seek professional counselling and godly advice instead of calling for the police.
The police 👮 are going to cause more damage and trauma for the family 👪.
The Western world marriage culture and customs 🛃 is 100%different from Africans Men should learn how to cherish their wives and children. Men should learn how to be faithful, honest, open to their wives and children 👨👩👧👦 not to be hiding things by carrying them along.
Don't let your family and friends get involved in your family issues. Stop reporting that your partner to your parents and siblings.
We live in a very wicked world where we have greedy and selfish family members whose ultimate goal or plans is to take our properties from us.
Women should stop reporting their husbands to third parties, friends and outsiders who will end up giving them toxic advice. In addition to this marriage couples from Africa who live in the diaspora should try to work hard with tolerance and patience to see that their marriage works.
Stop fighting in front of children and as adults show maturity, show your children 👨👩👧👦 that you are a good role model to learn from.
And lastly, family 👪 members should stop meddling in marriage couples affairs especially I am talking about younger sisters and elder sisters of the brothers and their brother's wives.
People should mind their own personal business.
Go and find work stop asking young married couples for money, cash, clothes, phones, school fees and to pay for your expenses.
Lastly, on many occasions, it is through the wrong advice taken by couples that cause damage, I am talking from experience.
May the Lord Jesus Christ give the woman strength and peace of mind to carry on.
Women defend your home. Women fight for your marriage and family don't let people come in between u and your husband.
And for men to stop cheating on your wives. Stop having sex and unlawful affairs with other women outside. This is disgraceful and unacceptable behaviour!
No matter how much you claim to love ❤️ your wife the day she notices or finds out that you have been unfaithful, problems will start and we should apologise to our wives and children 👨👩👧👦 when we are wrong.
Men are leaders who should show leadership and build homes.
Thanx Victor this is a fair 💯 analysis, what u said is what happens, is a two way issue not just a woman's fault... thanx for the advice,I have actually taken some important points *woman learn to fight for ur marriage*🙏🙏🙏🙏 Western world is designed to divide us not solve our family issues, thts y they listen to woman n are so quick to kick the man out after he is the one who bought the house.
Yes she should just take her husband exposing her to sexual diseases all for the sake of the family. Matter of fact she should allow the women inside her home.matter of fact she shouldnt complain about it but just die of heart attack in quietness due to the stress.
I mean leave it up to African man you should shut up and take it.
@@glamanesthesia5259 You expressed my thoughts exactly!!! Ladies don't expose yourselves to death and diseases to keep a marriage together. Let a cheating man go!! No man or marriage is worth risking your life for.
@@lindabrown0 Let a cheating man go .. LOL.. what about "leave a cheating man" instead?
They have to apologise to her
Same thing everywhere even here , when I lost my husband, the police had me as 1st suspect... it's normal.... Ms. Obodo. Oyinbo
I don’t feel for this useless man. I feel for his innocent wife and children. How can u cheat on ur wife, when she ask u to live, u start recording her, to make her look bad. If he didn’t died, he would have move on with another woman
Oh gosh! So so sad on all levels!! Tragic and the kids wailing and crying broke my heart! May he rest in peace. And for the insecurity in Nigeria, it’s only God that will rescue us.
You have to have lived here in USA to fully understand how some Igbo women have ‘castrated’ their husbands with threats of calling the Police on them for any and every thing. There is a video clip right there showing the wife calling the cops on her husband. Let’s not forget here that some Nigeria men have died in police custody simply on account that their wives called the police on them. If a Nigerian woman has the heart to call the cops on her husband here in USA, I see no reason why anyone would exculpatory her for being responsible for her man’s death. The Nigerian (Igbo) woman you meet in America is diametrically opposite of the Igbo woman you meet and interact with in Nigeria. ‘Afô tara ûmû nwanyî a mmiri’.
My heart break when those kids started crying, I pray those kids to try forgive their mum for sending out their dad coincidentally this killing occur which she is not part of.parents should try keep their kids out of their arguments.
If you bury a lie, it will remain buried. But , if you bury the truth, it will eventually sprout, and grow so tall that even people that are far off will see it. It doesn't matter how long it takes. It will surely sprout.
Anything can happen in a broken home..if they were at peace , maybe the man wouldnt be in naija frequently , the woman is innocent though vindicated ,but the man died young as a result of failed marriage or toxic relationship. Better to walk away like oyinbo people,and be happy , than endure till when is too late ; when children are now involved,people get hurt, cleaners get involved, juju and evil prayers get involved....why the man no go die young? If he knew he had so much to live for ,why would he pull a hand gun? He was a frustrated man! A man at peace ,will be in his right senses,when he remembers his lovely wife, kids ,he will definitly retrace his steps and not try to be a hero in naija.A peaceful home brings peace of mind , prosperity and long life...
So true. He was already disoriented before he left the US. Not to mention what he may have gone through in the military
@lovesense25 absolutely!
I feel so sad for the children. I hope they’ll be okay as adults.
Hmm....thank God she is in the US,she is protected, the family members can only take his naija properties,the only sad part is the thought of remembering that she didn’t get to pay her last respect to her husband one gas to be prayerful this days o, the situation was just an unfortunate coincidence.
What a pity? Sometimes I wonder why Africans are evil, yet everyone is talking about what Jesus Christ will do or not do. I am currently doing about 4 cases involving African women in the USA fighting to send their husbands out of the house because America gives them the right to do so and they start to gain a benefit from the State for being single mothers. Most marriages have problems but the greed of African women in the USA is staggering. The family owes the woman no apology. Apologising to her for sending a man who brought her to the United States out of his own house. You must be kidding. Why do you have to believe the account of the incident from the kidnappers? Have such stories been tested in any way? You are not aware that thieves are liars? Why is no one questioning why some of the kidnappers came from the woman's village? Or you think, it is a mere coincidence that some of the kidnappers came from the woman's village?
The woman is the killer. She is protecting her because she is her fellow woman. That is how they all do it. The man is always the villain even if he is dead, while the woman is always a saint no matter how evil she is. Let the reverse be the case and you will see their judgements in it no matter how innocent the man is. I blame those men that would put themselves online and depend only on the irrationality of these demented African women
A hero that brought you to America, you called him police. ?Heartless woman.Rip bro .so sad. I am a Nigerian in diaspora,I want my country, Africa to move forward
I have the same problem here in Denmark
@@frankjones496 @ I pray God to see you through,we are in the endtime, Amen
But the video is heart breaking, come on! Calling the police on your husband in front of your children throws the woman into a negative spotlight. Seeing the children wailing and still went ahead with her plans doesn't tell good of her either. Yes, she is innocent but she is wicked! If the man has treated her badly, doesn't she love her children enough to do right by them? I have seen couple who got a divorce without their children knowing. The whole story is sad. Thank God she has been vindicated
She said they were having misunderstanding in the day of the incident, but he came prepared to record his activities in the house and the responding officer recognized him.
Why is it that with Nigerians when a man dies, the wife is accused of killing him. But when a woman dies, they don't accuse the husband of killing her. Why?
Sad story. Horrible ending!!! Sad that children had to witness that argument! It's difficult to explain to the children that after the argument, their dad is never coming back. My happiness is that the woman has been vindicated. Am glad the kidnappers have been caught!!!! May all kidnappers be caught no matter how long it takes. Amen! Kidnappers will know no peace amen!!!! Thanks for sharing sis B🤗
My heart goes to the kids' just the kids ' can't imagine seeing them kids cry like that' ahh parents have become too much ohhh' take the kids a way n then talk ...it is sad ...why kill an innocent man .That relationship was toxic jesus' men need to know that wen you have a disagreement with your wife or partner n you have kids' u will always be asked to leave your house here abroad . I think everyone shouid be considered though rather than just telling the man to leave ' where do u want him to go? especially if the house is his not yours . Unless the house is your then he needs to run.
Thanks for shedding light on this injustice against women in Nigeria that has been ignored and passed over as part of cultural due process. There's nothing due about this process. Fix it Nigeria. Speak up for those who may have no voice. It doesnt have to affect you. If you have a conscience speak up for your fellow human Nigerians
These children crying broke my heart!OMG!Devil is a liar!
Hmmmmmm life is always like dat l remember 2012 wen my husband died l was also accused disame may God have mercy on African women
May his soul rest in perfect peace Amen, things happen in a relationship it doesn't mean she killed him, may be his people killed him in his village out of jealousy😭😭😭they just used the problem between them to kill her husband, God have mercy.
Is a sad story, don't be surprise that the person that planned it was his households because he knew the crisis in his home just to implicate his wife and took his property..may his soul rest in peace.
Nobody plan it, he was just unlucky that day to have met this evil people
The woman doesn't deserve to have a right to the man's properties. The children definitely should have a right to his properties.
Apart from being suspicious they wanted to keep the mans property for themselves. If she had been allowed to mourn him she would have inherited all his property. You will be surprised to know that the people pointing the accusing fingers are the ones who perpetrated the heinious act.
Eucharia Williams I no understand. Had the man property or house?
Uzoma Onyari no he doesnt have. It is you that owns the house
That was the main reason. They cease the opportunity of the sad event to exclude her
You are very right...she will be fine and comfortable. Nonsensical behaviors by money-crazy kinsmen
This is a sad story. I remembered when it happened back in 2017. Domestic violence is very bad at all levels. Look at how distraught the kids are. Regardless of what he did to her why would you call the police to kick the husband out of his own house. It is unfortunate that he was assassinated in Nigeria for no reason. Yes Bridget I agree with you that the family needs to apologise to the woman. She has really been through a lot. Also the video where she called the cops to kick out her husband did not help her case. See how the kids were crying for their father. I hope she and the family reunites. Thanks Bridget for sharing her truth with us. Most times if a spouse goes missing or killed the living spouse is always the #1suspect unless otherwise proven innocent and a such was this case.
If it would have gone a different way you still would have asked why she did NOT call the police
My dear brother Chubiike, I've always agreed with you on everything. You always comment, justly. This time around, I beg to differ, and that's okay too. We can't always agree on everything. We only saw where the woman said she was calling the cops but, we didn't see what precipitated her action. Remember, this man was an ex service man. He might have a gun. No one said the woman is a saint, none of us, obviously, is a member of that household. I hate to talk bad about the dead, however, I wonder why he didn't start the recording from the beginning of the argument. I think his actions were calculated. He shouldn't have put the children in the middle. The children, obviously love their dad. I think that was really manipulating. If he had beaten her to stupor, wounded her or killed her, we would've all been here, asking why she didn't call the cops. I read a comment, where someone said; "Regardless of what he did, she shouldn't have called the cops." Seriously? Regardless? Even if he put a gun to her head.
I'm not for women calling the police on their husbands for stupid reasons but, if the woman's life is being threatened, I'm all for it. Bottom line, no one should stay in a dead marriage. Not for the money, not for culture, not for the kids, either. Men and women should know how to leave the table when love is no longer being served.
@@merlinendolo4719 You are right. We don't know the whole story of what she did or didn't do. Also there is always two sides to a story. The guy is dead and he can not come and clear his name if he physically abused or cheated on his wife or not.
The man has been physically abusive towards her in the past, he owns a gun , an ex-veteran. I wouldn’t hesitate to call the police in her shoes.
@@fancyface8674 Well said. I thought about the same thing but having a gun or being a veteran does not make him an agressor. I am not taking sides or anything but what happened between them is definitely not good. I don't like or support domestic violence. Glad to find out that she is vindicated. I hate it that the kids will grow up with out their dad. Great conversation my dear sister.
Wow people are evil. See the house the guy built ahh 😭😭😭 see handsome and young killed. Lord this world is so wicked!
If the wife did not ask him to leave all this wouldn't have happened!
@@Truth._ please this was done in Nigeria not in USA, the wife asked the man to leave in USA,n this happened in Nigeria were every hour a Nigerian is kidnapped n killed innocently.... so it's not coz the wife ask him to leave, n if he behaved well this wouldn't have happened, thts what u supposed to say.
@lavidavi sad love
@@Missforexcharts. Ii know you are a woman but conside it, a woman he married chased him out of his own house in front of his children probably he brought her from Africa! He had no where else to go than Nigeria and this why many men are scared of getting married. Anyway, I am a Nigerian and will tell you that people are not kidnapped everyday! Nigeria is same as every other country. Kidnapping happens once in a while millions of people including foreigners are currently in Nigeria now.
@lavidavi u so rite,leave if the relationship is not working
See what unfaithfulness and infedelity caused.. If he stayed faithful to o his wife none of these would have happened. He was even laughing when the woman was angry!!!
True oo...but you'd agree that sometimes you've just had enough of your man's wreckless behaviour to the point that you start acting wreckless too... Instead of him calming his wife down,he was just laughing and not taking the woman serious.
@@brownchocochips5149 and sometimes you're just tired of your wife's reckless behaviour and you also start acting reckless.... infidelity is not the only issue in a bad marriage
Jo U most marriages break down due to Money or lack of and to adultery and marrying for the wrong reasons In the first place.
This man is so arrogant look how he speaks 😖
He was a Narcissistic Wicked Egocentric man, he shouldn't have behave like that in front of his children. Behaving like someone that just came to America from the VILLAGE. I don't believe that he finish serving in the Military. US Military don't play when it comes to the wife of a service man. I know because my husband serve in the US Navy for 35 Years,retired and he is still working for the Navy as Veteran, Aerospace engineer for USA Navy.
I fill sorry for the poor kids.may his soul rest in peace. a sad ending.
The wife might not know about the death of her husband,but treatning him with jail is very wrong.The woman really disorganized the man by throwing him out of the house.You the speaker,if the man is your brother,how will you feel about the wife?
Is so painful that some people in that naija don’t like good things especially the so called lazy youth and the insecurity in that country is becoming something else thank God for bringing out the truth,chucks continue to rest in the bosom of thy lord.
One thing this family lacks is non of them were born again. In this case both became strangers to forgiveness.. Life without Jesus Christ. Is vanity we all saw it here. Is a pity what is property to compare to the life you of this man... Those in Christ are living happily. Without anyone hearing them.. But fighting infront of the kids.. Is a height of disrespect and hatred between both of them...is too late because the man is already late.. Soured soup... Rip.
Omg!!! God help those boys 💔
My sister remember this man went to Nigeria because the wife threw him out.It is so unfortunate. In that video the man was not violent, the children were crying that could have softened the heart of the woman! In as much as we don't know the details of what is going on ,you call police for safety if your husband is physically abusing you.She can always file for divorce not putting the children through these agony.For this to happen to this man and herself both of them their cup was full.Pleaae don't make seem as though the woman is c innocent.
Sad to say I respect my mother-in-law and the family members ,,,,but I love you all from a distance,,,YOU GUYS ARE TOO QUICK TO JUDGEMENT,,B4 KNOWING THE TRUTH,,HOW DISRESPECTED HIS WIFE MUST FEEL,,HE LOVED HER AT ONE POINT IN HIS LIFE TO MARRIE HER,, SHE GAVE HIM 2 BEAUTIFUL BOYS,,,AND YOU GUYS DID NOT EVEN INVITE HER TO HIS FINAL RESTING,,,, WICKEDNESS,,, I'm sure you guys have had an issue in your marriage where you argue. And how would you like this done to you, he that is without sin cast the first stone,,STOP POSTING YOUR relationship stop posting your business on social,,where people judge you before they even know what's going on in your house ,,you will think they live with you minute minute and Kno what's your dispute is about ,,and know what causes the argument or know what's going on ,,,it is crazy
Why call the.police? What happened to talking things over? Why throw him out like that? Qas he really cheating? I am a woman and I dont support what she did. Men always throw their wives out. That is also very wrong. Couples please try and talk over issues. Both parties must be willing to make a marriage work if not, it is headed for the rocks.
Her calling the police has nothing to do with his assassination?
I think you are a bit biased in your submission on this Chuck's matter. How about advising fellow women to refrain from joining the band wagons of women who chaes their husbands out of their homes? If the relationship between them both had not been frosty, who knows, she may have prevailed on the husband not to emabark on the I'll dates journey that led to his death. Better still, if she had not chased the man who brought her to the US to give her life from the house, they would have been to get her to plan the journey together, that date may have changed or adjusted, but the man was on his own deciding his date like someone with no wife and shildren. I am very hurt with your one sided statement. As if that was not enough an insult to the dead, you are asking for apology for the useless woman, apology from who? She may not have been directly involved but she contributed immensely to it by disorganising the poor guy, I have been in this situation before, it was only God that sa Ed me to be talking to you today. Why don't you throw the matter to the floor and let people call in with their opinions instead of you proving to know it all? When you think you are very clear about an issue mind you, that is when you are absolutely wrong.
You are a bit biased here. If you have a better view, lets hear it. Bridget spoke with evidence. That video was recorded by the man, suggesting that he had a plan before coming to the house. Women don't just throw men out from the house. The police must have evidence that he is abusive before they will let him out. You heard him insulting the woman in the video. He came to make the video to prove a point. What do you mean by "brought her to the US to give her a life" was she dead before? Do you know if they met in the US? i think you should remove sentiment and say this as it is.
True. I followed the story then. All it takes to do the wicked job is send money to an idiot, and the deed is done. There are certain things that are not mentioned here. Its a pity he is gone.
The man obviously doesn't live in that house
Greetings my lovely Nigerian sister. This is a very sad case. However I am sure that you watch those true life investigations in the UK, just like we do in the USA. The first person who is a person of interest in a murder case is those closest to the person, and if married the spouse is #1. Do not be too upset with the family, the coincidence was too much and it is normal and human for them to suspect the wife. If it is the wife who died, her family would also suspect the husband. This is not an issue of women being picked on and blamed. Stay blessed.
@@ObodoOyinboTv007 Hahahaha, you're a happily married woman who hitherto in your vlogs was impartial in judging men and women in relationships. Don't join the men bashing group just because it will resonate positively your rapidly growing subscribers are overwhelmingly female. Man bashing is now in vogue.
@@ObodoOyinboTv007 yes he would be married in six months, very unfair. But as Paul said, usually the spouse is the #1 person of interest. Doesn't give the inlaws the right to be brutal, but I kinda understand. I have a friend who was murdered in Nigeria, & I still suspect her inlaws including her husband till date, because I can't even type all the evil they did to her. It was too much, but as unsafe as Naija is, my sixth sense is telling me he they didn't do it. Just fate...how I wish she never left the US to go back to Nigeria
I cannot agree more with you sir, you're on point.
Veterans are known to come back with behaviors , thats why they encouraged to seek for therapy after they come home. Him taking this video shows a lot about him. Why put your children through this. Why not leave and go through counseling and work things out. everything in USA belongs to her and her children nobody can take it away from her. However, things they have in Nigeria belongs to the husband family..
This act are the reason why a lot of men in diaspora refuse to bring their wife from Nigeria to abroad.
True words! The wives are always too quick in calling the police knowing fully well that the husband will be thrown out! Such women forget the impact such actions have on their kids!
@@naija4lifeNaija4lifestyle rubbish woman,
@@sundaybamidle902 Men who are insane bring their wives to Babylon all in the name of love and when things happen, they became surprised. If you love your wife, leave her back home, if you want your marriage crashed bring her to the West. She can remain in Africa or leave if she doesn't like the marriage. That's simple.
What has this got to do with him being assassinated?
I disagree with u ok, men are more accused than women. Observers are quick to label the man as an abuser and am sure you yourself can testify to tht. I just think you are one sided in this matter. Sad. To be clear I am not here to disrespect you or your show ok but it pains me when men are always quick to be tagged abuser. Its simply not fair on our part. I am a firm believer.. no fire without smoke so therefore we should hold both man and woman to the same standard until facts are met. I am open to discuss further. Thx.
How do you expect to reason with irrational creatures who are clearly incapable of logic and proper thinking? The law is just there to be used anyhow and onesided and let on the loose so what else? It doesn't even matter if the man is dead, no, he is always the villain and ways must be found to make him look evil and the woman angelic as if all women are saints, and the cries of the kids (very silly) are what these creatures focused on the most not even the stupidity of their mother. More than 80% of all Western marriages crashed because of these females illogic. Go and check every other page where similar things happened, look at the comment section, and see the wonders of female irrationality. Even if she is clearly wrong the man must have done something somehow. African women practicing this system are the most disgusting types of women on planet earth. Very dumb and stupid, purely insane! I blame these men, especially Western simps who knew how these irrational creatures reason and still risk everything for her. All these would never happen to a well-reasoned man. Let more of it happen to them especially these Western simps and let's see if they would ever get it. Very disgusting!
Kudos brother, ur right on point!
May his soul rest in Peace🙏. Watching the children weeping and begging for their father not to go was just too much for me, and the tears would not stop falling 😭😭😭 no matter how hard I tried not to cry seeing their tears,their agony. Those kids witnessing the bickering between their warring mum&Dad will always be stamped in their memories and leave them traumatized for a long time to come. PARENTS STOP FOING THIS TO YOUR KIDS🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏!.
Dear God please watch over the children and heal their pains😭🙏🙏.Amen.
Some imo state people are so evil my sister she is marry to one of them...... I am not happy seeing this video......... what a life God please have mercy on us all
I don't know why this rubbish is so common in the USA 🇺🇸 this is not fair stop calling police on your husband for the sake of your children they need there father I can't stop crying for the guy and the children.
@Kay Ji Some women will call police for any minor provocation. In that video, he didn't do anything that warrant calling the cops even if he messed up before then. He was not a stranger. People get married for several reasons. I have lost faith in Nigerian women in the West.
Most African men carry that abusiveness and disrespect for women to the Western world, and then expect the women to endure it. Also this man was a veteran and probably has PTSD, best believe he might have been physically abusive too. Forget that video recording thing, it's one sided and he was pretending. We don't know the backstory.
Coming from a country where its lawful for men to beat the hell out of their wives marry multiple women and leave you with just wrapper🤣🤣🤣
@@ADE-of-LAGOS yes lose faith cos women everyday lose their dignity ij nigeria.
@@corporatehousingintheheart6196 you're right I just pity the children especially now that they're dad is no more
This is how Nigerian women behave when you bring them from the village to America. No wise man this day wants to risk bringing any lady from Nigeria to America. It's better to marry a stranger from another country or a lady who's been in the system and knows God.
Correct
I don't agree with you sis, what is wrong is wrong ok.
You are very correct. I still wonder why any man in his right mind would marry any of these Africans in the West (ESPECIALLY NIGERIANS) nor bring anyone over from back home. Their brains are incapable of handling things properly. A stranger who is godly is preferable if the idea is to settle in the West. What a nonsense!
I disagree i am not a Nigeria but women in Africa we have refused you men behaviour, if you can't be faithful separate from her, take responsible for ur kids and let the woman be free .....simple we arent our mothers who were cheated and bitten ....lol
The woman was done with the man, while he was alive. If she wasn't invited to the funeral, that's his family's decision. Sad she was falsely accused. If he wasn't important when he was alive, what difference does it make after he's dead? We worry so much about wealth distribution lol#Vanity.
He got himself killed because of his Narcissistic behavior,letting everyone on social media know his movement. He was always posing with GUN. He was a very troubled man. American Soldier that didn't finish serving.
Sometimes I think how does love turns six toxic,u could clearly see dix man was playing d victim