Clay Gravesande On His Experience On 'Love Is Blind' Season 6, Receiving Backlash, and More.

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  • Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
  • Clay Gravesande of "Love Is Blind" season 6 speaks with JusNik about his experience on the show. He also spoke about the amount of backlash he received since the now infamous wedding scene that has gone viral on social media.
    Gravesande says it's been tough to navigate through the lens of being watched by the world after being a normal guy with a business. He believes that the reunion helped clear up some misconceptions about him and more.
    Check out the full interview now.
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  • @issashumate3220
    @issashumate3220 3 місяці тому +5

    Great interview!! The chemistry between AD and Clay jumped off the TV into your living room. When they laughed you found yourself laughing. I think these two need to shut off all technology and have a real sit down talk. I fell in love with them both and hope to see these two revisit. I think these two can accomplish some powerful things together.

  • @NIO623
    @NIO623 3 місяці тому +11

    His story on LIB was needed. I wish nothing but the best for Clay.

  • @YourMilkAndHoney
    @YourMilkAndHoney 3 місяці тому +16

    He seems like a really great guy and I’m rooting for him ! ❤

    • @Africanbeautyy93
      @Africanbeautyy93 3 місяці тому +2

      Same here ❤❤

    • @NIO623
      @NIO623 3 місяці тому +3

      Yes, rooting for Clay. He is flawed but we all are!!

    • @YourMilkAndHoney
      @YourMilkAndHoney 3 місяці тому

      @@NIO623 exactly ! He acknowledges it and is willing to do the work he needs to do . I pray that he finds a wife who will except him for who he is while also helping him become his best self

  • @Mandii271
    @Mandii271 3 місяці тому +23

    Clay is everywhere

    • @kristian5489
      @kristian5489 3 місяці тому +5

      damage control

    • @NIO623
      @NIO623 3 місяці тому +4

      All the others are everywhere . He should speak up for himself and make the most of this moment in time.

    • @Allison12321
      @Allison12321 2 місяці тому

      Exactly! Dis a girl on national tv and be a star and get applauded and be a hoe and play the victim and win 🥇

  • @perdybirdie
    @perdybirdie 3 місяці тому +15

    Clay please go interview with jessie woo or little black book!

  • @janicedrummond2803
    @janicedrummond2803 3 місяці тому +10

    As someone who is always booked and busy and had a man who liked to “chill” , I understand clay . If your future goals don’t align then it doesn’t make sense to move forward.
    Finances are very important, looking at some of the comments in other interviews tells me that a lot of people don’t value financial security in a long term relationship, smh

  • @dianecunningham4312
    @dianecunningham4312 3 місяці тому +8

    Clay is getting the air play he was after. Well played, Clay!

  • @halibella5552
    @halibella5552 3 місяці тому +7

    Clay, I'm also a Virgo and had to say no to a fiancé because I thought long and hard about life after the marriage and it was a no ! When you meet the right one your soul will know. So happy you're doing solution focused therapy. I'm also a therapist ( one of the 4.1% of Black therapist in the USA). You need to find the right fit. AD has her own healing to do.

  • @jackieW704
    @jackieW704 3 місяці тому +7

    Love Clay. Rooting for him always. He is gonna make a great husband when he is ready.

  • @JB-hi3gq
    @JB-hi3gq 3 місяці тому +5

    The fact that the casting department reached out to him in his DMs is the first problem. They need to stop reaching out to people in they DMs and actually cast people who applied to the show and are willing/ready for marriage.

    • @leggs4113
      @leggs4113 3 місяці тому

      Sadly it’s been that way for a while. The only ones that actually applied for the show are Chelsea and Laura.

    • @brwnbarbie24
      @brwnbarbie24 3 місяці тому +1

      Often for these kind of shows, they don’t have a lot of men apply, so they resort to recruiting.

  • @ijesssparkle
    @ijesssparkle 3 місяці тому +9

    I’m rooting for him! I don’t think the show did him justice

  • @byBrieMoore
    @byBrieMoore 3 місяці тому +4

    Lovely interview, JusNik! I know better than to ever watch a reality show and think I'm seeing all, or most, of the things that happen. We're actually missing most things. It's also highly edited. Every single one of us is flawed, so when you are seeing a one dimensional view of someone, let's be real, that's not the full story. Clay was the season's, "bad" guy, and the edit reflected that. Did he do everything right? No, but they chose not to show the moments that went against the narrative they wanted to push. I will always appreciate how open he was the whole time. As women, we want men to be open and honest with us, so when they are, it is then our responsibility to not ignore what they say. If you're passive in your own life, that's something you need to work on. As for spewing genuine hate to any of these people, that always reflects more on the person sending it than the subject of their hate. It's never that serious! Best of luck, and continued healing, to him!

  • @perdybirdie
    @perdybirdie 3 місяці тому +3

    When he said AD moved into his home the last two weeks, the show should have shown that. They made it seem like he wasnt around her that much and she was in the townhome alone. He also needs to interview with Jessie Woo and Little Black Book. The people hes been going to havent been asling the right questions

  • @dswannbeautyartist
    @dswannbeautyartist 3 місяці тому +19

    He’s a good talker but the part he’s missing is it’s how he did it. It’s not so much that he said no it how he played it. He’s tryna clean it up. But he was literally up there asking if he look like a husband , smiling at her etc then said no with a smile on his face. He’s wild lol. Super diabolical.

    • @valeriejohnson8771
      @valeriejohnson8771 3 місяці тому +4

      @dswannbeautyartist. I’m not going to swear that I know what was going on in Clay’s head. However I totally understand his mixed up thinking process….lol. In A.D he found a woman whose professional life ( real estate) closely aligned with his goals and plans. He said he fell in love with her. Wanted to proceed to marriage, but we all heard his hesitancy. He was fully transparent. A.D thought she could carry him, until he had caught up with her psychologically. She shouldn’t have even offered that to him. He wasn’t fully convinced, and he kept bringing it up to her. When she stated that she wouldn’t date him, if he said No at the altar, he tried to convince himself that he could say Yes at the altar, because he truly wanted marriage. However, he was nowhere near being ready for it. He did the best thing by saying No. if a person isn’t convinced in his mind, that they cannot fulfil the promise that marriage entails, then they shouldn’t proceed with it. In fact, I think he now knows that he shouldn’t have been on that Show. He is now in therapy.

    • @dswannbeautyartist
      @dswannbeautyartist 3 місяці тому

      @@valeriejohnson8771 I get that totally he should say no if he wasn’t ready but he knew that way before. Like I said it’s how he did it. He himself knows how he did it was wrong he even said so on the reunion. He’s tryna clean his image up on this tour he’s doing. As there are a lot of folks chiming in who haven’t seen the show.

    • @dhatgirldonna
      @dhatgirldonna 3 місяці тому +8

      In fairness to him all the previous seasons had couples who said no at the altar and there was no backlash. I think we all just loved the idea of him and AD so we were hurt about it.

    • @precioussimoneinspires
      @precioussimoneinspires 3 місяці тому

      @@dhatgirldonna🎯🎯🎯 been saying that!!! Ppl skipping over the fact she could have said noooo tooo!

    • @rubiirae
      @rubiirae 3 місяці тому +2

      He’s not even a good talker…every sentence comes out of his mouth is filled with gtammatical errors…”are you into me or are you aren’t”…”I wasn’t never”…this guy got his degree from a cereal box

  • @Blessmi4eva
    @Blessmi4eva 2 місяці тому +1

    To be Fair, this man told AD 10 million times though that he was not ready for marriage. And the fact that her and her mom tried to Force it and played LIB for him, in order to indirectly Force him to say YES????? WOW!! Poor Clay!
    Remember he was approached by casing via DM and the mentioned he had never even watched LIB to even comprehend that "these people actually do really get married" #Hiswords

  • @brittanymosley3649
    @brittanymosley3649 3 місяці тому

    I still rocked with Clay even though I didn't like him saying no at the alter. It was out of line to give bad reviews on his business. People are way too weird.

  • @invadazim7364
    @invadazim7364 3 місяці тому

    He just spews a bunch of hot air 😭😂

  • @emilygeorge2098
    @emilygeorge2098 3 місяці тому +2

    I feel like clay is doing all the wrong interviews fr

  • @JB4C89
    @JB4C89 3 місяці тому +3

    Virgo?!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @zandrasmith9503
    @zandrasmith9503 3 місяці тому

    Team Clay

  • @tomicasreview3087
    @tomicasreview3087 3 місяці тому

    Dam you been busy 😂😂😂😂

  • @nakeishahenry9261
    @nakeishahenry9261 3 місяці тому +2

    😂😂😂Clay still a player just.mlre famous now😅

  • @Artnotforthesakeofart
    @Artnotforthesakeofart 17 днів тому

    🙄