Shirley Murdock - As We Lay (1986)

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  • Shirley Murdock - As We Lay
    From the album Shirley Murdock!, released in 1986. Notice that I slowed down the tempo and tuned the pitch down also. I decided to show you what it is should have sounded like. Enjoy it.

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  • @OfficialCandor
    @OfficialCandor 2 роки тому +1432

    This is the most beautiful and trifling song ever 😂

  • @TechSavvyTommy
    @TechSavvyTommy 9 років тому +508

    This song proves that music can be beautiful and incredibly messy at the same time!

  • @ceejayh1120
    @ceejayh1120 10 місяців тому +164

    This song takes me back to my father cheating on my mother. That still hurts me to this day. I'm a 50yr old man. That ruined our family!! It also taught me to stick to one women. I saw how much it hurt my mother. I'm married faithfully to the same women 27yrs and counting.

  • @Lovinmylife2024
    @Lovinmylife2024 5 місяців тому +70

    Im still reminiscing in 2024. This song doesn't get old

  • @friscobeats2846
    @friscobeats2846 2 роки тому +459

    How in the F@%$ she made cheating sound so good!!!! Amazing song

  • @DallasSniper
    @DallasSniper 3 роки тому +704

    Who's still reminiscing this jam in 2021 as they were when it first came out in 1986?

    • @GHSTTHERENEGADE
      @GHSTTHERENEGADE 3 роки тому +21

      I was fucking 1 years old when this came out!?!? Sheeesh

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 3 роки тому +14

      Me. I was 8 lol 😂

    • @toniwilliams9817
      @toniwilliams9817 3 роки тому +4

      Me 🙋🏾‍♀️

    • @karstenthompson2590
      @karstenthompson2590 3 роки тому +3

      Damn yo!!! I'm doing just like that!!! Starting with my 1st REAL GF !! I'M GOING ALL THE WAY TO THE "PRESENT" !! The past is what it was good or not . As long as u have happy memories, at least 1 (damn)!!U will ALWAYS be able to SMILE!!! "NOW that 🌳 is LEGALLLL !!, THE WORLD SHOULD BE A LITTLE BETTER THAN THE PAST. THE " PRESENT" is a" GIFT" .. THATS WHY the 2 words are officially the reason why the 2 words are associated to me!! ..SO LETS SMOKE, LAUGH, AND REMINISCE ABOUT ...AS REV. AL GREEN WOULD SAY..... " FOR THE GOOD TIMESSSSS!!" WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU, ....U KNOW Who who you are!!! ETERNALLY !!! MISS B.A.T. From MR. F.L.M. !! .... reppn RVA!!

    • @bigtrust1
      @bigtrust1 3 роки тому +8

      this is one of them joints that kept my walkman STRONG as I went home from my then "girlfriend's" house at night @ the break of day On the B52 in Brooklyn. She is NOW my WIFE as she has been for the last 31 years and this is STILL strong to the baby making playlist to this day... classic!!!

  • @nikkih5920
    @nikkih5920 2 роки тому +293

    The clarity in her voice, her tone, the musical arrangement, the message, this song is EVERYTHING!! Soul/r&b music is not the same.

    • @jhunn4527
      @jhunn4527 Рік тому +8

      So,so true!!

    • @cpman1987
      @cpman1987 Рік тому +14

      The late master producer, composer , singer, arranger, songwriter, prolific guitar player and funk music pioneer, Roger Troutman (R.I.P.).
      🎸 🎵 ✍️
      And Billy Beck, ( keyboard player, arranger, producer for the legendary funk band "The Ohio Players") really put their soulful feet into this R&B classic slow melodic song about adultery and forbidden love 🚫!!
      Their production along Shirley Murdock's vocals made this song prolific!! "Illegitimate Baby making music" at its very Finest!!

    • @scottericaj
      @scottericaj Рік тому +10

      From the DJ booth to the bedroom… this woman’s voice echoed for year’s 😉

  • @bgcutie559
    @bgcutie559 20 днів тому +4

    I Love These Ultimate Classics... 2024

  • @divaslm1
    @divaslm1 4 роки тому +417

    Whoever arrange and composed this song knew what they were doing.

    • @tommykeith7093
      @tommykeith7093 2 роки тому +36

      ROGER (THE DODGER)TROUTMAN!!!!!!!!!

    • @michael_sterling
      @michael_sterling 2 роки тому +6

      @@tommykeith7093 His brother Larry wrote this one, I think.

    • @kevinthomas522
      @kevinthomas522 2 роки тому +14

      Shirley had a hand in writing on this album but Roger wrote and produced this song.

    • @m.henderson8431
      @m.henderson8431 2 роки тому +2

      Or was too caught up 😁

    • @marietmc2421
      @marietmc2421 2 роки тому +1

      @@kevinthomas522 you are so fresh

  • @jajuanjohnson2695
    @jajuanjohnson2695 5 років тому +417

    Folk ain't ready for this type of realness in R&B anymore.

  • @Nisha-ut1wk
    @Nisha-ut1wk 4 місяці тому +19

    It’s 2024 and this song goes hard….

  • @jamesgowan3326
    @jamesgowan3326 2 роки тому +224

    2022....36 yrs later I still love her voice...

    • @ladama3201
      @ladama3201 Рік тому +9

      It’s a trifling classic

    • @momadog5687
      @momadog5687 Рік тому +1

      Same...

    • @mkelly534
      @mkelly534 Рік тому +4

      I am shocked nobody has remade this classic. It better be one of the better vocalist though

    • @momadog5687
      @momadog5687 Рік тому +3

      @@mkelly534 Hard act to follow for sure...

    • @ladama3201
      @ladama3201 Рік тому +1

      @@mkelly534 no remakes

  • @khaeementertainmentfilms929
    @khaeementertainmentfilms929 7 років тому +1330

    This song was as real as it gets. She didn't glorify or demonize. She just sung the truth about how crazy life can be. I was a teen when this song came out and it educated me on what NOT TO DO. The lesson I took from the song was that "everything that feels good to you, ain't always good for you."

    • @beautibyconni4991
      @beautibyconni4991 5 років тому +22

      Truth!!!!

    • @kishamorgan1214
      @kishamorgan1214 5 років тому +10

      Shit happens in ya life, sometimes good for you and sometimes bad btches

    • @Leahh823
      @Leahh823 5 років тому +15

      You’re so right.

    • @Silitama
      @Silitama 5 років тому +31

      That's what makes the song so great, just turn your location off, lmfao

    • @andrewdouglass1427
      @andrewdouglass1427 5 років тому +13

      @@Silitama Laughing so hard at that I snorted

  • @andrejohnson7737
    @andrejohnson7737 4 роки тому +803

    If you come home and your wife is playing this with a glass of wine in her hand you got a problem big dawg..

  • @fredwright7074
    @fredwright7074 2 роки тому +8

    I had to leave 2022 for a minute and come back to 1986. Who's enjoying this classic wit me

  • @marcusanders5320
    @marcusanders5320 10 місяців тому +60

    What I've always loved about this song it captures the human frailties and passions that we experience everyday. At the end becomes about our choices, and yet we cannot ignore the fact we have these feelings and experiences.

  • @mscreeo09
    @mscreeo09 4 роки тому +374

    Seen her up close and personal last night. She sang this song and what she stated after was heartfelt. The sins you lay with, comes with a price

    • @godmyfather4954
      @godmyfather4954 2 роки тому +19

      My grandma love this song in l will always play it for her

    • @vernbillinger1954
      @vernbillinger1954 2 роки тому +13

      Always a price ...I come to grow up. . Stephani mills back in the day too..

    • @jonka1
      @jonka1 2 роки тому +10

      She's singing about the human condition, not sins.

    • @DJDaddyAbraham
      @DJDaddyAbraham 2 роки тому +1

      On the Pokey Bear / Bishop Bullwinkle tour?

    • @m.henderson8431
      @m.henderson8431 2 роки тому +11

      Indeed, they do. I'm still paying the price in 2022 😢

  • @damonsmith625
    @damonsmith625 3 роки тому +202

    I love her voice it's like listening to the ocean

    • @Redbottoms1
      @Redbottoms1 2 роки тому +6

      Best description

    • @anarizmoore
      @anarizmoore 2 роки тому +7

      WOW...I like that visual....like a singing mermaid ❤️

    • @phreshking5747
      @phreshking5747 2 роки тому +3

      Yes!

    • @omd0
      @omd0 Рік тому +4

      That’s actually very accurate

  • @saddarionoglesby6515
    @saddarionoglesby6515 2 роки тому +28

    Who here with me in 2022 rocking the older vibes❗️🔥🙌🏽

    • @lucrisiaphilan7313
      @lucrisiaphilan7313 5 місяців тому +1

      And still in 2024 🎉🎶🎵🎶🥰💙🩷

    • @kbonce4669
      @kbonce4669 5 місяців тому +1

      2024 still rocking

    • @yezell6189
      @yezell6189 3 місяці тому +2

      2024 and it's still Rockin Bruh!!!💥💥💥

  • @rymcplus8741
    @rymcplus8741 Рік тому +10

    I was 8 yrs old in '86', leaving DC my sister played this song in her car taking me and my sisters back to our new home in Fairfax county, Virginia. Our oldest sister passed 2 years later, in a car accident. Plus I moved away from my third grade love. What a harsh year.

  • @chaseofori-atta2225
    @chaseofori-atta2225 3 роки тому +242

    Walk of shame music right here, but such a CLASSIC!

    • @yellowsubmarine3725
      @yellowsubmarine3725 3 роки тому +12

      lmao

    • @carltonwalton9819
      @carltonwalton9819 2 роки тому +9

      🤣🤣🤣🤣. Lol. You dirty for that! Thank you. 😂😂😂😂

    • @terryjonus4126
      @terryjonus4126 2 роки тому

      Which most have experienced..penance Lord

    • @kookieklean2192
      @kookieklean2192 2 роки тому +7

      😂😂😂😂😂 now im tryna figure out who man ma mama waa creepin wit cause she sure banged this alot😂

    • @kaygbemi7717
      @kaygbemi7717 2 роки тому

      😂😂😂

  • @jshamorri
    @jshamorri 6 років тому +1825

    I remember trying to write the words to this song, I stopped, rewind, and play it again then write, I did this over and over and over and over, my mother unplugged it and I asked her why did she just do that because she messed me up... She had tears in her eyes, I said what's wrong momma, she couldn't formulate her thoughts, I froze and then she said, baby your brother was just killed, SADDEST FAY OF MY LIFE, I wanted to record, sing, cry, scream, I was paralyzed by fear. I was 24 and my brother was 22, oh how I miss him coming home in the middle of the night to tell me to cook chicken and fries, and play WAR, the card game. Oh how I still hurt. His girlfriend was pregnant, and he never met her, but she was born on my birthday...

    • @jeremyandrews8768
      @jeremyandrews8768 6 років тому +13

      J Morris tape deck...

    • @JamesKing-qy3kb
      @JamesKing-qy3kb 6 років тому +32

      Sorry abt ur loss

    • @antjuanjenkins9908
      @antjuanjenkins9908 6 років тому +6

      J Morris I had to do that to

    • @bettywilliams350
      @bettywilliams350 6 років тому +38

      J Morris sad story. Wow. Some songs bring back memories. Praying for strength. As I listen to this song I understand your mom cause I just burried my mom2 months ago. My best friend. Oh Lord this song is powerful

    • @shyb7007
      @shyb7007 6 років тому +18

      God Bless You BabyGirl, and your Fam. Love U.

  • @teonstrong4963
    @teonstrong4963 2 роки тому +44

    This song will continue to be as truthful and heartfelt as yesterday!

  • @aok6694
    @aok6694 Рік тому +37

    This song was simply one of those universal events that happen once in a lifetime. I realize that many people discuss the meaning of the song. Yes, that is vital. However, the way in which this musical composition coalesced with the exceptional voice of Ms. Murdoch to top it off, is truly an act of genius.

  • @kurtadams3021
    @kurtadams3021 5 років тому +149

    Ms. Murdock is a great SINGER

  • @puremusicluveer
    @puremusicluveer 7 років тому +570

    I think a lot people misunderstand the message of this song. She's only confessing that they messed up by committing infidelity. She's not bragging about it. This is story that many have experienced and this is just her telling her story and taking ownership

    • @simplybeautifulpieces
      @simplybeautifulpieces 5 років тому +7

      Yup

    • @tonyagibson189
      @tonyagibson189 5 років тому +23

      She was the side chick . She fell in love. She figured it time to tell the truth . It be like that sometimes. Everybody been through it.

    • @malikgibbs9247
      @malikgibbs9247 5 років тому +4

      real facts

    • @ladyam3016
      @ladyam3016 5 років тому +10

      Exactly! Beautifully stated!

    • @antonialyonspowell2333
      @antonialyonspowell2333 5 років тому +4

      Amen!! Totally understand what it's saying.

  • @cristalle1
    @cristalle1 Рік тому +60

    2022 and this still hits the spot. Perfection.

  • @darkroom8275
    @darkroom8275 2 роки тому +47

    Real music like this dose not get old 👌

  • @DelaCroix799
    @DelaCroix799 5 років тому +271

    Makes cheating sound so damn beautiful. The worth. I love you Shirley.

  • @mariaddis9341
    @mariaddis9341 5 років тому +161

    Say what you want about mistresses and sidechicks, this song was EPIC!!!! The arrangement and melody was ev-er-y-thang!!!!

    • @cpman1987
      @cpman1987 Рік тому +9

      The late master producer, composer , singer, arranger, songwriter, prolific guitar player and funk music pioneer, Roger Troutman (R.I.P.).
      🎸 🎵 ✍️
      And Billy Beck, ( keyboard player, arranger, producer player for the legendary funk band "The Ohio Players") really put their soulful feet into this R&B classic slow melodic song about adultery and forbidden love 🚫!!
      Their production along with Shirley Murdock's vocals made this song prolific!! "Illegitimate Baby making music" at its very Finest!!

    • @henrilouisecarter2777
      @henrilouisecarter2777 Рік тому +6

      I was in a similar situation back then. I used to cry buckets when I heard this. He wasn't free but I was. The things you do when you're young and dumb!

    • @kokowalker
      @kokowalker Рік тому +5

      ​@@henrilouisecarter2777 it has nothing to do with age and being bumb

    • @12diamonds
      @12diamonds Рік тому

      He ug

    • @matthewwright5588
      @matthewwright5588 11 місяців тому +1

      A master piece

  • @MarieAmicalola
    @MarieAmicalola Рік тому +48

    Saw her sing this last night. She still sounds beautiful. She also sung gospel to us first as if she was trying to brace us first lol. I enjoyed her live and the blending of R&B and gospel.

  • @talori5417
    @talori5417 Рік тому +42

    This song brings back memories of my beloved. It wasn’t an affair but we just could not get our relationship right. We made up to break up for 25 years till we made up one final time until his untimely passing. I used to sing the chorus to him every morning 💕 Rest In Peace Ramon 🌻

    • @ladama3201
      @ladama3201 Рік тому

    • @dennispinnock3607
      @dennispinnock3607 Рік тому +4

      I understand so well of you are saying, had one like that...couldn't stop singing this song , we kept on closing chapters but couldn't closed the book

    • @lynnepainter9973
      @lynnepainter9973 Рік тому

      I feel ya, same here

    • @cpman1987
      @cpman1987 Рік тому +2

      Roger Troutman (R.I.P.) and Billy Beck Keyboard (player for the legendary funk band "The Ohio Players") really put their soulful feet into this R&B classic!! Their production along Shirley Murdock's vocals made this song prolific!! Baby making music at its very BEST!!

    • @cpman1987
      @cpman1987 Рік тому

      The late master producer, composer , singer, arranger, songwriter, prolific guitar player and funk music pioneer, Roger Troutman (R.I.P.).
      🎸 🎵 ✍️
      And Billy Beck, ( keyboard player, arranger, producer for the legendary funk band "The Ohio Players") really put their soulful feet into this R&B classic slow melodic song, about adultery and forbidden love 🚫!!
      Their production along Shirley Murdock's vocals made this song prolific!! "Illegitimate Baby making music" at its very Finest!!

  • @dgreborn8308
    @dgreborn8308 4 роки тому +815

    Who's still listening in 2020? 🙋❤

  • @toniwilliams9817
    @toniwilliams9817 3 роки тому +332

    I didn’t really understand what this song was really about when I was a child...but I learned as an adult...☺️

    • @pandorasbox6607
      @pandorasbox6607 3 роки тому +6

      💯💯

    • @daviddavidson8050
      @daviddavidson8050 3 роки тому +5

      Omg! Seriously young lady? 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

    • @olay5757
      @olay5757 3 роки тому +26

      Same. My mom use to play it on cleaning days along with Whitney. I use to sing along too. Had no clue what it was about until now

    • @vanityposh
      @vanityposh 3 роки тому +2

      lol

    • @lmarshell8225
      @lmarshell8225 3 роки тому

      😭😭😭

  • @lorettamartin4936
    @lorettamartin4936 2 роки тому +29

    I was 7 when this song hit I’m 42 and still playing it. I lived it and fully appreciate whoever composed it.

  • @user-jz5uo8ic5e
    @user-jz5uo8ic5e 5 місяців тому +4

    This will still be valid 30 years from now...what lyrics and vocals ❤

    • @tgd9477
      @tgd9477 Місяць тому

      Cuz folks gone be cheatin til world's end.

  • @lyrixztv8920
    @lyrixztv8920 7 років тому +207

    my mama wasn't creepin around but she would get up at 7am every Saturday and have this song on blast as she was cooking breakfast for the house

  • @perfectbeat
    @perfectbeat 8 років тому +316

    Damn, this is still the jam!

    • @queennicholson6957
      @queennicholson6957 5 років тому +1

      Catching catfish early summer

    • @yolier2225
      @yolier2225 4 роки тому +1

      That’s because there will always be an unfaithful partner!!!
      This is how some wives/girlfriends are told!!
      Cheaters couldn’t tell it themselves.

  • @SistaCitizen
    @SistaCitizen 2 роки тому +41

    The music composition and flow of this song is a masterpiece. The way the music knew to be quiet and let her talk it out. literally a steady bass a quiet keyboard and a shaker, the whole song. Then it matches her energy when she starts to really feel remorse. Brilliant. Seems almost too intimate for us to hear as her inner monolog.

  • @JackieOney1111
    @JackieOney1111 Рік тому +54

    In 2023 still nobody can touch this hit!!

  • @lillianl7382
    @lillianl7382 6 років тому +153

    The way that she sang the song you could see everything that she was singing about in your mind. From the first verse to the last word. IT'S MORNING...IT'S MORNING....

    • @Marshaey1977
      @Marshaey1977 3 роки тому +3

      You're right. I have a visual of what's going on everytime I hear this song.

    • @marjorierobinson6032
      @marjorierobinson6032 3 роки тому +4

      Everything in that song..is Exactly what me and my x husband did...But you reap what you sow

    • @DeniseGilliard-lu2dx
      @DeniseGilliard-lu2dx Місяць тому

      What yesss all I one song😂❤

    • @DeniseGilliard-lu2dx
      @DeniseGilliard-lu2dx Місяць тому

      Wasn't enough comm😂🤺🤺🤺🤺🤺 😢😂but true rs 💙🥰

  • @kurtadams3021
    @kurtadams3021 5 років тому +122

    RIP Roger Troutman . GENIUS

  • @toyaadams8167
    @toyaadams8167 2 роки тому +18

    as a kid, i thought this was a beautiful song sung sweetly from the heart🥰...as an adult...i was like😲...

  • @Black.Irishman
    @Black.Irishman 2 роки тому +18

    There’s nothing better to listen than these oldies.

  • @itsyagirlbluee7841
    @itsyagirlbluee7841 4 роки тому +54

    The side chick Anthem in the old days 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏽

  • @MrJonsboo
    @MrJonsboo 7 років тому +196

    Feeling some type away listening to this song...damn...😔

    • @kolasoljet4697
      @kolasoljet4697 5 років тому

      Kissable Me me toooooo crying eye was only seven but that was some painful days love this shit tho

    • @goodboyd5764
      @goodboyd5764 5 років тому

      Me to

  • @lookinforthe70s
    @lookinforthe70s Рік тому +4

    Can't help but reminisce when I hear this song. It just takes me away to different place.

  • @gregorypope3899
    @gregorypope3899 Рік тому +22

    It must be very difficult to write a song of this magnitude without having had the actual experience. Great work!

  • @nupe1950
    @nupe1950 9 років тому +223

    The #1 cheating song of ALLTIME. You belong to me, just for 1 night!!! Gotta love this song.

    • @floydjohnson5074
      @floydjohnson5074 5 років тому +10

      No Billy Paul me and mrs Jones

    • @jrcarter9175
      @jrcarter9175 4 роки тому +5

      @@floydjohnson5074 And "(If Loving You Is Wrong) I Don't Want to Be Right".

    • @kdgiddens2633
      @kdgiddens2633 4 роки тому +7

      Secret Lovers - Atlantic Star as well

    • @delsanders7882
      @delsanders7882 4 роки тому +2

      Part-Time Lover by Stevie Wonder
      Stay by Sugarland
      Kiss And Say Goodbye by The Manhattans

    • @shirleyzuber9648
      @shirleyzuber9648 4 роки тому +1

      @@kdgiddens2633 one of my favorites

  • @skip031890
    @skip031890 7 років тому +748

    This song is so wrong, but sounds so right at the same time! XD

  • @chocolatethunder1104
    @chocolatethunder1104 10 місяців тому +6

    I can't believe my parents let me listen to this as a kid 😂.

  • @sweetapplepie70
    @sweetapplepie70 2 роки тому +4

    Happy new year 2022 this song will never vanish, a true legend🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲🇱🇷🇱🇷🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤🇬🇹🇬🇹🎀🎀🎀🇯🇲🇯🇲🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲🇬🇲🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇬🇲🇬🇲🇱🇷🇬🇲

  • @MsSmithti1
    @MsSmithti1 3 роки тому +15

    This song came to life in my life! When this song came out I was sleeping with a married man and gave birth to his child! He never went back to the wife but I never became the wife because he never divorced her. Even today we are the best of friends and together we raised a very intelligent, sweet, college graduate, but it's nothing like being raised with a mother and father together who loves each other! I never wanted to hurt his wife but I fell in love with him(they both were cheating on each other). Today, I am a Woman of God ( happily married 17 years and counting) and I dedicate my life to schooling young girls on the love of God and not the FLESH! Thank God we Serve a LOVING GOD WHO FORGIVES! The wife and I are friends today and Sisters in Christ! God turned it around for the both of us! My daughter and her daughters interact like sisters and they call me Momma Lady T! What a Mighty God we serve! I BLESS GOD FOR FORGIVING ME and for the wife FORGIVING ME as well, AS WE LAY!

    • @Geech122408
      @Geech122408 3 роки тому +3

      Beautiful testimony 💞

    • @BlackPlightPeople
      @BlackPlightPeople 8 місяців тому +2

      You said that you did not want to hurt her, but you did.

    • @MsSmithti1
      @MsSmithti1 8 місяців тому +2

      @@BlackPlightPeople and I'm so sure you're not perfect either Sis. God has to forgive you too. Just be glad it wasn't YOU!!!

    • @ebonyfrazier7179
      @ebonyfrazier7179 Місяць тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your testimony!!! God is faithful!

    • @ebonyfrazier7179
      @ebonyfrazier7179 Місяць тому +2

      @@BlackPlightPeopleshe repented and that’s the testimony. She is not her past praise God!

  • @kristelquartz6085
    @kristelquartz6085 5 років тому +147

    This is actually a song about feeling remorse after cheating one night. So soulful!!! I love Ms. Shirley!!! She has such a beautiful voice!!!!

    • @5x7m
      @5x7m Рік тому +3

      @Kristel Quartz.... Yes she does! She kept it real with this song. I've always appreciated the underlying message of this song vs other songs about adultery/temptation such as "Saving All My Love For You" and "Secret Lovers".

    • @cpman1987
      @cpman1987 Рік тому +3

      Roger Troutman (R.I.P.) and Billy Beck Keyboard (player for the legendary funk band "The Ohio Players") really put their soulful feet in this R&B classic!! Their production and Shirley Murdock's vocals made this song prolific!!

    • @rickyathomas5099
      @rickyathomas5099 Рік тому

    • @GaryandPoochie
      @GaryandPoochie 18 днів тому

      She's showing remorse I think to her best friend for cheating with her man smh.. that's when women held themselves accountable for dirty doins.. that's the beauty of this song luv you Ms. Shirley and ur character.. cuddles.❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Myronclowden-j4t
    @Myronclowden-j4t 10 місяців тому +8

    Still brings tears❤❤❤❤

  • @yadinctshwanda1880
    @yadinctshwanda1880 Рік тому +4

    💜 Saturday mornings in the 80's all I remember was the smell of bleach and the oldie goldies. And to think I was singing word for word knowing NOTHING!!! It's Morning. 🌄

  • @HONEYBCRISSY
    @HONEYBCRISSY 4 роки тому +20

    Its not so much the words of the song that holds me, its her VOICE.... MY GAWD!!!

    • @9nineinches287
      @9nineinches287 4 роки тому +2

      Hello Crystal..... I like your words

    • @DarthZarama
      @DarthZarama Рік тому +2

      Exactly my feelings, glad someone understands music with similar ear. 🔥

  • @kareemali1742
    @kareemali1742 10 років тому +1315

    Why are songs about cheating always the best ones

    • @Kevin198898
      @Kevin198898 10 років тому +18

      Boy! Dont make me smack you too California ! lol

    • @Kevin198898
      @Kevin198898 10 років тому +10

      sneaky traffling tramp slut lol

    • @Kevin198898
      @Kevin198898 10 років тому +9

      sneak traffling no goodin type of a brotha lol

    • @Healthycleanedges
      @Healthycleanedges 5 років тому +45

      Kareem Ali because of the passion in it.

    • @mikeward5720
      @mikeward5720 5 років тому +39

      B/c they singing w/ feeling / love / confusion!

  • @user-bv8ei2go9n
    @user-bv8ei2go9n 10 місяців тому +5

    This song is life, reality, this moment as we live on this Earth this song explains life as we know....💯%, meaning,awaking, fulfilling,joy with energy...

    • @user-bv8ei2go9n
      @user-bv8ei2go9n 10 місяців тому +1

      An Eye-opener too. .
      👀aka.
      👅M.E.

  • @CharleneShondaReddix
    @CharleneShondaReddix Рік тому +5

    This will never get old

  • @beer7217
    @beer7217 8 років тому +174

    By far one of the best songs that's ever existed!

    • @stayintuneusa962
      @stayintuneusa962 2 роки тому +5

      Periodt!

    • @natinapowell3565
      @natinapowell3565 2 роки тому +5

      Yes for a side piece. Beautiful vocals

    • @mythologiesgodsgoddess6663
      @mythologiesgodsgoddess6663 Рік тому +2

      Yes Lawd!!! This lady is AMAZING!

    • @cpman1987
      @cpman1987 Рік тому +1

      The late master producer, composer , singer, arranger, songwriter, prolific guitar player and funk music pioneer, Roger Troutman (R.I.P.).
      🎸 🎵 ✍️
      And Billy Beck, ( keyboard player, arranger, producer for the legendary funk band "The Ohio Players") really put their soulful feet into this R&B classic melodic slow jam, about adultery and forbidden love 🚫!!
      Their production along with Shirley Murdock's vocals made this song prolific!! "Illegitimate Baby making music" at its very Finest!!

  • @ChocolateMocha-nm7wl
    @ChocolateMocha-nm7wl 8 років тому +140

    My favorite Shirley Murdock song!☺😊☺😊

  • @leett8012
    @leett8012 Рік тому +6

    Sang girl . I love this song in 2023

  • @bigpapa.B
    @bigpapa.B 2 роки тому +5

    This song doesn't matter until it does matter. And when it does, it can sting the soul!

  • @IamTroyEl
    @IamTroyEl 4 роки тому +202

    Woke up this morning singing this song in my house. It's 2020 and I'm 41. My kids are like, Dad!!!! Stop!!! 😂😂😂
    I'm just in a nostalgic mood this day.

  • @ThunderByrd76
    @ThunderByrd76 7 років тому +256

    everybody got a song to sing. don't act like she's the only one who have had dealings with someone else. You will never be attracted to just one person that life.

    • @dwade4986
      @dwade4986 7 років тому +8

      lol. She's just singing! She didn't even write ppl.

    • @ThunderByrd76
      @ThunderByrd76 7 років тому +5

      you right

    • @julioestorga9546
      @julioestorga9546 7 років тому +5

      very nicely said. I couldn't agree with you more brother

    • @KAMARILEON
      @KAMARILEON 7 років тому +6

      Exactly. humans are a part of nature.

    • @pandorasbox6607
      @pandorasbox6607 7 років тому +4

      ThunderByrd76 My current situation

  • @rcg6272
    @rcg6272 Рік тому +45

    2023 who's still here???

  • @essencej3813
    @essencej3813 10 місяців тому +4

    I’ve seen this album cover a million times & never noticed the resemblance between her & remy ma it’s 🤯

  • @singingqueen1201
    @singingqueen1201 4 роки тому +96

    As a teen I use to sing the mess out this song, as I got older, I realized what the words meant but I don't care this song would always be in my top ten 🥰🤣....

    • @matthewwright5588
      @matthewwright5588 Рік тому +5

      it's like robin hood you steal but do great things with it.

    • @cpman1987
      @cpman1987 Рік тому +2

      The late master producer, composer , singer, arranger, songwriter, prolific guitar player and funk music pioneer, Roger Troutman (R.I.P.).
      🎸 🎵 ✍️
      And Billy Beck, ( keyboard player, arranger, producer for the legendary funk band "The Ohio Players") really put their soulful feet into this R&B classic melodic slow jam, about adultery and forbidden love 🚫!!
      Their production along with Shirley Murdock's vocals made this song prolific!! "Illegitimate Baby making music" at its very Finest!!

  • @quincyhyde8760
    @quincyhyde8760 4 роки тому +41

    As a kid i loved hearing this song....as a husband I wondered how did this dude spent the whole damn night !!! Brah....go home, u doin too much

  • @MG._.MG13
    @MG._.MG13 2 роки тому +6

    This song 🎵 just always take me to another Dimension … just sit back close your eyes and listen 🎧.

  • @Aaliyah1018
    @Aaliyah1018 2 роки тому +2

    its morninggggg 🥹😮‍💨💛 i use to love that part as a kid ( still do )

  • @luvangelmyers2731
    @luvangelmyers2731 8 років тому +213

    So sinister but oh so much soul❤️😰❤️

  • @TruthSeeker434
    @TruthSeeker434 7 років тому +143

    What a song. didn't know what it meant til I was a lil older but, wow such vocals.

    • @shannahib72
      @shannahib72 7 років тому +3

      shanna king

    • @broccolihart1
      @broccolihart1 5 років тому

      Her vocals are golden

    • @raemin-laanmcneil8449
      @raemin-laanmcneil8449 3 роки тому +1

      Idk, but when I was young I always knew what was up.....I've been always said to have an old soul though....

  • @justjames..5535
    @justjames..5535 Рік тому +9

    Timeless piece of art 🎨..

  • @themoonandthesky4803
    @themoonandthesky4803 2 роки тому +4

    The old year facing its sundown, 2022 dawning and Shirley´s velvet voice is still sweet as cherry pie that you´ll really like to forget about tomorrow...

  • @MarliQueen721
    @MarliQueen721 5 років тому +239

    2k19 and will ALWAYS listen! 🤗💯💯💕💕

    • @michaelschmidli1668
      @michaelschmidli1668 4 роки тому +2

      Marli Queen always 🥰 music ain’t like this anymore.. Shoot I was just listening to troop lol lol !!!

    • @metropcs5441
      @metropcs5441 4 роки тому +1

      We both belong to someone else... As we slept the night away!!! A new day brings reality and we must go our separate ways!! What a lovely night we had .. we forgot about the pain we once caused... 😋😉😍🤞🔥🔥🔥

    • @metropcs5441
      @metropcs5441 4 роки тому +1

      It's morning... And now it's time for us to say goodbye...

    • @lazarusjohnson33
      @lazarusjohnson33 4 роки тому

      Remember this as a kid now I'm 40 her voice

    • @marinarivera9587
      @marinarivera9587 4 роки тому

      @@michaelschmidli1668 c çknl

  • @DallasSniper
    @DallasSniper 7 років тому +115

    Thanks Roger Troutman for producing this hit.

    • @ericpledge1
      @ericpledge1 6 років тому +2

      This song was written by Larry Troutman and keyboardist Billy Beck(Ohio Players)

    • @ericpledge1
      @ericpledge1 6 років тому

      I think it was actually one of Roger's brothers that produce the song. I forgot his name.

    • @timmy841212
      @timmy841212 4 роки тому

      @@ericpledge1 No Roger produced it lol

    • @strika256
      @strika256 4 роки тому

      Myron Woodson that’s my bday apr251991

    • @ConneshoeurKicks910
      @ConneshoeurKicks910 3 роки тому

      Classic. My aunts used to play the heck out of this song. Now i know why lol.

  • @marilyna3491
    @marilyna3491 2 роки тому +4

    Loving this Jam....May 2022. But On a grown folks level knowing that this is not something one would do!!!!!! JUST THE VOCALS OF THE SONG ARE STRONG

  • @jazzqueendc59
    @jazzqueendc59 Рік тому +4

    Shirley Murdock is my all-time favorite vocalist. As we lay contains elements of soul, jazz, gospel, country, r&b, Broadway, and opera. No one in the world can perform this song in a manner comparable to or better than Shirley. I wish she was my musical mentor. So undervalued!

  • @BeeFace279
    @BeeFace279 4 роки тому +33

    This woman can sing 🎤❤️😍

  • @gabrielblackmon5124
    @gabrielblackmon5124 8 років тому +298

    Shirley Murdock's version IS a all-time favorite classic. Kelly Price did a excellent job covering Murdock's version

    • @LadeeHornet93
      @LadeeHornet93 6 років тому +8

      gabriel blackmon I agree this version will always be a classic

    • @nikitaberry6116
      @nikitaberry6116 5 років тому +1

      Garden

    • @bigb2494
      @bigb2494 5 років тому +8

      Will always be Shirley's song.

    • @jon99miller
      @jon99miller 5 років тому +3

      @@bigb2494 Not really It was The Human Body's song. They had it first Roger decide to let Shirley have it and do a remake of it for her album.

    • @mrsfantastical2010
      @mrsfantastical2010 4 роки тому

      djstyles thank you.

  • @playboymaxim
    @playboymaxim Рік тому +22

    One of the most beautifully composed songs I've ever heard, a masterpeice

  • @JD54007
    @JD54007 9 місяців тому +7

    When this song came out Shirley was not glorifying cheating but was instead trying to get everyone who thought about it to think it all the way through. If for some reason you found it hard to think it through well she did a beautiful job doing it for you! The bitter end is just not worth the brief moment of pleasure! 😂😂😂

  • @bonnieriley8413
    @bonnieriley8413 5 років тому +96

    Just watched unsung- Mrs. Shirley Murdock what a voice (amazing )❤❤

    • @robinthomas1237
      @robinthomas1237 5 років тому

      Bonnie Riley 😲 I remember this song 33 years ago 🤔 My God 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ms.independent8935
      @ms.independent8935 5 років тому +2

      Me too!!!!!

    • @tgd9477
      @tgd9477 5 років тому +2

      Yes! Unsung brought me here...this woman can SANG!!!❤

    • @raemin-laanmcneil8449
      @raemin-laanmcneil8449 3 роки тому

      Yes that was a good Unsung episode

  • @payehomage6922
    @payehomage6922 5 років тому +39

    This song still gives me chills 🙌🏿

  • @anngeeclark5959
    @anngeeclark5959 Рік тому +9

    Man the memories that I have from this song. Growing up to music like this was the best. She sung her heart and soul out in this. 🎯💯❣️

  • @user-ko8fw6zh6s
    @user-ko8fw6zh6s 10 днів тому

    It`s very sad and heartfelt song and I love it. It`s so amazing it`s hard to believe it was written 40 years ago and it still holds up today.

  • @rushramel
    @rushramel 8 років тому +132

    Man I like this song. The experience is real

  • @melaninacire5887
    @melaninacire5887 7 років тому +263

    So beautiful and I'm still here listening in 2017! who else? 💜

  • @akiliahightower32
    @akiliahightower32 Місяць тому +1

    I had to come listen to this,today is my Homie‘s birthday and when we were kids, he always would sing this to me. Why this song I don’t know lol. HBD Dwayne. Rest easy! 🕊️

    • @SwishB52
      @SwishB52 Місяць тому

      Ya boy knew good music. Rest At Peace Bruh

  • @tamarahaynes3662
    @tamarahaynes3662 Рік тому +3

    I remember I met her in TJ maxx in Dayton Ohio about 26 years ago! I cried! I can sing every word and sound of this song! I think I would make her proud ❤❤

  • @timothyypearson
    @timothyypearson 5 років тому +11

    Mrs Shirley sanged the hell outta this song

    • @tgd9477
      @tgd9477 5 років тому +1

      timothyy pearson she shole did!!!

    • @timothyypearson
      @timothyypearson 5 років тому

      @@tgd9477 her personality is just as beautiful as her voice shes very sweet.

  • @Ifonlyyouknew1976
    @Ifonlyyouknew1976 3 роки тому +31

    At 10 my mom wondered why I love this song so much. Lol I’m grown now and understand the lyrics....wow

  • @charlesbenjamin8767
    @charlesbenjamin8767 3 роки тому +3

    From 87/88 I’m still listening…. 16 to 52 one of my all time classics👍🏾

  • @cwilliams6258
    @cwilliams6258 4 роки тому +27

    The first 30 seconds of this song is pure musical genius!

  • @bigmeet54
    @bigmeet54 7 років тому +54

    How can you not LOVE this song despite the cheating concept?

  • @Isee223
    @Isee223 Рік тому +7

    Still gives me chills to this day ! The beat and that 808 is absolutely perfect
    Her voice is just so beautiful

  • @sharoncurtis5820
    @sharoncurtis5820 Рік тому +3

    I was about 12 years old that year when I heard this song. It hit different. Its one of the most beautiful songs I ever heard.

  • @tirzahhale5139
    @tirzahhale5139 5 років тому +77

    2019... This is still true!!! Classic.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 3 роки тому +2

      From the day it dropped... it was an immediate classic...

    • @blackhornet25
      @blackhornet25 3 роки тому

      Timeless classic in 2021.

    • @theimaginist3310
      @theimaginist3310 3 роки тому

      hahaha this will ALWAYS be true....