The young People will never get a chance to experience Music from our Era 80’s -90’s watching Donnie Simpson on BET jamming to these classics as young kids and teenagers ❤❤
yep, same.. had NO CLUE what was really going on.. and here I am decades later in this situation 😑 ain't nobody got time for that.. I'll sing the song, but I ain't sleeping with nobody's husband FOH.. folks done lost their damn minds.
I don't know why this song came to mind. But I love it. This song is pretty much saying: Have some SELF RESPECT LADIES, just because it feels right its not right. If he's not yours don't do it. Especially if he's not your HUSBAND. . .
Men need self respect as well both can be deceiving but in the end if true love is there some1 will get hurt if they can't admit their wrong doing. Some Men don't say hey I am married they want their cake and eat it too no 1 should do it but it happens
SHIRLEY IS A PRETTY SISTA AND ALSO HAS A BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT ....SHE IS A BEAST WHEN IT COMES TO DELIVERING A SONG.......HER LYRICS GIVE U FOOD FOR THOUGHT. HER MELODY STIRS THE SOUL..
I miss the days of shirley murdock . The woman's voice will send chills up your spine. Just an all together lady. Some of songs would bring tears to your eyes. Also she reminds me of another beautiful lady, Patti labelle. Both of those ladies get me going.Woo!" But I just want to say, thank you Shirley for the memories. May God bless and keep you as you prosper with God. ✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
The end of the intro at :08 sounds like a snip from the hymn "let all mortal flesh keep silence" As a married man that gets tempted often, the message in this speaks volumes and you can't get past the way GOD is using her in this song.
I swear this is one of my favorite songs! Even though I'm young, I've been in the same situation before. But I kept it classy and let him go on about his business as soon as I found out he was married
I'm 22yo this song is so out of my age group but I heard it about 8 years ago for the first time. fell in love with her now I just found it after looking for this song so hard.
You satisfied a real desire in me without apologies. I still have those needs. But I'm a lady with class, And I know my desire will pass, Since you might have guessed. Because you are her husband. My desire for you is strong, And I won't do wrong, 'Cause I know in my heart that you are her husband. I know, I know you are her husband. That's why I got to let you go. Desire says I should, but I say no. I say no
I still like her "secular" music the best. You can't beat her two albums that Roger Troutman produced. "No More" was great, "Somethin' For Nothin'" was very cool. Her vocal arrangements were also really great. There are lots of great gospel singers around, but I miss her funk and soul songs.
love her passion!! I can watch her sing all day lol.. she goes IN!!! this is back when artists, songs, videos, etc were so good!!! man.. miss those days..
I don't thank that's weave! That her real hair! Back then our moms took care of the girls hair by washing it and braiding it so it would be long and healthy. It's not like that now. But you go ahead and rock the weave tho babe. Whatever makes you like good. I love the weave to in our sista's
I love this song reminds me of my son Dad he passed away on 9-7-23 and I still love and miss him so much he wasn't no one's husband but he was pose to be mine and now I live in pain but I love you baby r.i.H ❤❤❤❤❤and no he wasn't married we both like the song❤❤
I did not know that Roger Troutman did this for Miss Shirley Murdock, and I remember this classic, and timeless jam, and all of her songs really says a good, and real profound message
One Of Our Generations Greatest Voices. This Is Classic. And Check Out The Neckwork around 2:17. Shirley Was Meaning Every Single Word. #VocalExcellence101
I use to stand in mothers big mirror that hung over the sofa and sing this song with that neck move and facial expressions as a 13 years old 😂😂 Thought I was Shirley and lets not forget that jumpn too
This sing would NEVER make it on the airwaves today cuz the Powers-That-SHOULDN'T-Be 🧓🏻👩🏻🦳 only promote artist that sing/rap about DISrespecting themselves & others 😡
Lil Mo remade this song and she did her thang!!! I didn't know about this song until I looked it up. I love both versions. Shirley music is timeless! As We Lay is my favorite song.
If more women thought like this, had morals when they found out about these trifling men...then we could raise our standards and get men to be more responsible.
This song told the story of a woman who fell in love with a lier after things didn't add up she respected herself and the wife, ....let the drama go
for real done with dishonesty
I can respect that response 👑✌🏾
@@heavenly5467😢😢😢😢😢😮😢😢😢😢
this wasn't music.. this was Therapy!!!!!
Yes it was
sei
listen here!! 🙌🙌🙌
Husband
Michael Lynch Not "JUST" music!!
This song was the truth in the 80s! Still holds up!
She said a mouthful. She's incredible.
My mom use to play this on repeat. Now I’m playing it on repeat!
Is that right?
Shirley say she dont need no backup singers, she'll do it herself!!! LoL
RIGHT👍🏽
Lmfao!!! U hear me!
She did!
And she doesn't!!
🤣. Ok!! She said she want the job done RIGHT 👏🏾!!
Let's NOT Forget @ShirleyMurdock HAVE One OF The Most Wonderful, Strongest Voices OF All Times Period🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💙💚💖💖🥰🥳💋😍🤩😊☺️🖤🤎💜🤍♥️🧡❤️💛
The young People will never get a chance to experience Music from our Era 80’s -90’s watching Donnie Simpson on BET jamming to these classics as young kids and teenagers ❤❤
I'm so happy that one of my teen daughters loves the R&B music I grew up on.
Video soul😊
It's the message in this song 🎵 Don't be a fool for someone's man. God ain't gonna give you somebody's husband.
Absolutely 💯
Ain't nobody blowing like Shirley,can we get back to Real Music,Please?
That'll never happen. Those pipes were a gift from our Great Carpenter. There's only a selected few that have that gift. Can I get an Amen?
Sherman Burns Jr. Epitmea of soul love you Shirley
Maybe 1 or 2 today
so so true she can blow
I sure miss Roger Troutmann's great producing!
Yessir
I never knew but I've never heard anything else like this song and "As We Lay"
Shirley, Vesta, Melissa Morgan, and Annita Baker, Oh Baby the Soulful Top Notch Music, Priceless Female Singers, a Trillion Thumbs Up!
"Decency prevails and it won't let me keep you." Adultery doesn't always have to win.
I was like 13 singing this damn song... I had no idea what she was talking about.. but I loveeddd her voice.
hope mcgill I know I had no idea what she was talking about...then
Big Facts!!!💯 I was like 8, but this was my KNOCK!
yep, same.. had NO CLUE what was really going on.. and here I am decades later in this situation 😑 ain't nobody got time for that.. I'll sing the song, but I ain't sleeping with nobody's husband FOH.. folks done lost their damn minds.
Girl me too, I just liked singing. Lol
I wasn't that young but as I sang it I realized what she was singing about.. need to Tik Tok to this song
1988... Back when women had morals, and no meant NO. #PreachShirley
J Miller amen
Some Did!!!!😥
I'm waaaaay late, but what do you think of " As we lay" though ? 😅😅
Men respected women and one refusal was enough.
@@pnewman7279 was about to say this lol
Shoulder pads were real serious in the 80's.
I got a linen suit jacket 🧥 with "Dynasty-era" in my closet now & I dare some1 2 dare me not to pull out and rock to THIS 👇🏾 day!!
Yes they were!!!
I've always loved how this ladies' voice fills the room.
She don't get enough credits .She s the truth !!!!!
Don't see how anyone can dislike Shirley's Music
Desire says I should but I say no... now that's real class
forreal
‘But I’m a lady with class, and I know my desire will pass’ - Drops mic 🎤 🔥🔥🔥 And to think that MEN wrote this song!😮💫
I don't know why this song came to mind. But I love it. This song is pretty much saying: Have some SELF RESPECT LADIES, just because it feels right its not right. If he's not yours don't do it. Especially if he's not your HUSBAND. . .
AMEN!!!! BECAUSE NO MATTER WHAT HE'S SOMEONE HUSBAND. BUT THESE WOMENS TODAY ARE PATHETIC.
Men need self respect as well both can be deceiving but in the end if true love is there some1 will get hurt if they can't admit their wrong doing. Some Men don't say hey I am married they want their cake and eat it too no 1 should do it but it happens
So relevant in 2019
these men are pathetic too!!!
SHIRLEY IS A PRETTY SISTA AND ALSO HAS A BEAUTIFUL SPIRIT ....SHE IS A BEAST WHEN IT COMES TO DELIVERING A SONG.......HER LYRICS GIVE U FOOD FOR THOUGHT.
HER MELODY STIRS THE SOUL..
This song is timeless!
Agree
Kiss .kiss kiss her. I'm in love
Too old. Dam
Her Unsung brought me here. " I will only be a fool for MY HUSBAND". Gotta to let you, I say no no no no. Yessssss Mrs. Shirley 👏👏👏👂
I'm in love shirley
I miss the days of shirley murdock . The woman's voice will send chills up your spine. Just an all together lady. Some of songs would bring tears to your eyes. Also she reminds me of another beautiful lady, Patti labelle. Both of those ladies get me going.Woo!" But I just want to say, thank you Shirley for the memories. May God bless and keep you as you prosper with God. ✝️✝️✝️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹
The sin is wrong but the sinner should be loved. Nobody's perfect. I thank God for this song. And the moral it teaches
ll SINS are man made concepts...Btw No such thing as a GOD that exist that punishes a person
Unsung brought me here!!!
YESSSSS SHIRLEY SANG BISH!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ok fuuuuuxxx!!
The end of the intro at :08 sounds like a snip from the hymn "let all mortal flesh keep silence"
As a married man that gets tempted often, the message in this speaks volumes and you can't get past the way GOD is using her in this song.
My decency prevails... most side chicks dont have any decency
Back when side chicks had a thing called "shame" :)
pHiL Kizer back when "side chics" refused to be a "SIDE CHIC"! THEY are the true Ladies with Self Respect and Class! 💜
pHiL Kizer listen to d song. She refusing to b a side chick.
pHiL Kizer well they don't now
Aman 🙌🙌🙌
That's right!!!!
I swear this is one of my favorite songs! Even though I'm young, I've been in the same situation before. But I kept it classy and let him go on about his business as soon as I found out he was married
GOD bless your soul for honoring marriage the way we all are supposed to!!!
I'm 22yo this song is so out of my age group but I heard it about 8 years ago for the first time. fell in love with her now I just found it after looking for this song so hard.
this is my age group... lol..telling my age..lol..but it goes hard don't it?
Shirley is the truth!!
@@laqjacks1 the truth ruth lol
Shirley Murdock telling the truth and leading and backing up her own songs,
I love the way she sang the song she was so beautiful
Shirley Murdock…. what a TALENT!!!!!
Damn it’s been over 30 years! And this shit still goes deep!!!
Nothing can compare to the music we had growing up in the 80's as teenagers and our parents had all the jam's to play, good memories live on💯
I always thought how interesting it was that she followed up "as we lay" with "husband".She said not again!
That voice...love her!!!
She sang this song!
Definitely
A Woman's Point of View was an excellent album.
The lady in the 80's was so classical beautiful
March 2019 still my favorite song....when R and B was music
Me too!!
Damn never knew there was a video for this old school joint.. love this song
The best of "Side Chick" soul right here!
You satisfied a real desire in me without apologies.
I still have those needs.
But I'm a lady with class,
And I know my desire will pass,
Since you might have guessed.
Because you are her husband.
My desire for you is strong,
And I won't do wrong,
'Cause I know in my heart that you are her husband.
I know, I know you are her husband.
That's why I got to let you go.
Desire says I should, but I say no.
I say no
I still like her "secular" music the best. You can't beat her two albums that Roger Troutman produced. "No More" was great, "Somethin' For Nothin'" was very cool. Her vocal arrangements were also really great. There are lots of great gospel singers around, but I miss her funk and soul songs.
I didnt know that roger produced this song it's the bomb
Thank you Unsung Mrs. Shirley ooh you SANG THIS SONG!!
I agree. Watching it now😁😁😁
@@zettawilson2236 Yessss 😊
Desire, My body and Mister says I should, but I say No, No, No!...Shirley you told this story honey. 🔥
This should have a billion views already but I guess the sinner is better than the Saint!
I didn't know she was the one singing on computer love!!!!
That's my jam😁😎
I didnt know neither she was singing backup on computer love either
I didn’t know that either!😯
Same!! Until I Watched The Unsung!
Me neither until I saw unsung
So UNDERRATED... This song right here. I can truly relate. This was me at one time...HUSBAND...
I'm in love with this song.
I always wanted to be Mr Murdock
She has a great voice! I can't think of any (current) major artists who can sing like this.
Shirley Murdock!!!
love her passion!! I can watch her sing all day lol.. she goes IN!!! this is back when artists, songs, videos, etc were so good!!! man.. miss those days..
WOW.. here I am a year or so after leaving that comment and I'm in this very situation my damn self 😱 life is truly something else!
".. BUT I SAY NO".
Man I miss real music
The hair style they whore then was off the chain! I love it!!😍😍
i trying to get some weave just like that. lol. lol
I don't thank that's weave! That her real hair! Back then our moms took care of the girls hair by washing it and braiding it so it would be long and healthy. It's not like that now. But you go ahead and rock the weave tho babe. Whatever makes you like good. I love the weave to in our sista's
18billions...hormones in the chicken my friend. THEY'RE trying to kill us and we're letting THEM.
@@demekonrn that's why I dont eat meat anymore 4 real
Her voice is beautiful and so is she.
No disrespect...
The word 'no', sounding so good from a beautiful soul😊
I miss this kind of R&B. Classy.
I love this song reminds me of my son Dad he passed away on 9-7-23 and I still love and miss him so much he wasn't no one's husband but he was pose to be mine and now I live in pain but I love you baby r.i.H ❤❤❤❤❤and no he wasn't married we both like the song❤❤
😢
Shirley looks like Countess Vaughn aka Kim from the Parkers here
More like she looks like her lok
+sweetnika83 oh yes that's right😂
That's who's she is trying to sing like if you notice
And she sounds like her too
Not to me! Shirley is prettier
i have to listen to this song over and over and over again until it sinks in! This is a Message song .
this was me a couple of years ago im so glad I woke up
Better late than never.
This sound was so dope. Real soul. Real music
I grew up hearing these songs and I gotta tell ya it doesn’t disturb the spirit at all but now the music of today is grim and evil
I did not know that Roger Troutman did this for Miss Shirley Murdock, and I remember this classic, and timeless jam, and all of her songs really says a good, and real profound message
A true classic, a classy women, my kinda women.
Love this song even when I didn't know what she was singing about!!
My Style OF Music Allday, Long🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💋💯😘🔥👍🏽💪🏽👏🏽
Shes like a much gracefully Countess Vaughn vocals plus a whole lot more umph
I was 14 years old when this came out back in 1988.
I was 10
When women had respect, deserved respect and earned respect!
WOW!.....I love this song in 2017
This song has a rock and roll almost country feel to me. This was the jam back in the day. Still is
I’m this way now..even if you are not married and you have another..you’re not the one for me!
One Of Our Generations Greatest Voices. This Is Classic. And Check Out The Neckwork around 2:17. Shirley Was Meaning Every Single Word. #VocalExcellence101
I use to stand in mothers big mirror that hung over the sofa and sing this song with that neck move and facial expressions as a 13 years old 😂😂 Thought I was Shirley and lets not forget that jumpn too
Perfection
Any song from the 80s hold merit
In the r & b era ... this one here hands down yes.... her vests, regina, mikki etc
Sing It Shirley!!!
When I was a kid, I had no business singing this song 😂
This Song touches My Heart everyone I listen to it and her other Song, My World came to a End is one of the Best Songs along with Vesta Sweet Love!!!
2:44 she was in church🙏🙌😁
Lmfao yes ma'am she sure took em to church!!!😂😂😂😂
This song is turning 30 years old this Summer.
This sing would NEVER make it on the airwaves today cuz the Powers-That-SHOULDN'T-Be 🧓🏻👩🏻🦳 only promote artist that sing/rap about DISrespecting themselves & others 😡
I would love to meet her in person, a true classy women.
Brooklyn! Summer, '88.
"DESIRE"!!!! Always Say You Should!!!!😏
That first “strong” gave me goosebumps😍
Beautiful voice Mrs. Murdock
She s a legend 🌹🌹🌹
Great voice and great message in the lyrics
this gave me life!!!!!!
Lil Mo remade this song and she did her thang!!! I didn't know about this song until I looked it up. I love both versions. Shirley music is timeless! As We Lay is my favorite song.
My type of music
Atleast she respected the other woman and ended it!
Who can sing with this much soul in 2019?
damn the message is good,but HER SINGING IS UNMATCHED. THE MUSIC IS FANTASTIC. don't know what is. something about this music.
If more women thought like this, had morals when they found out about these trifling men...then we could raise our standards and get men to be more responsible.
looks like the rapper yo yo
They actually do! Hmm, ironically that they're both from the same area, I believe (I actually need to look it up )
Yo yo looks like Shirley.
I thought the same exact thing!
They BOTH are not to be played with or played about!
@@ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised ain't that the damn truth