@@tmntfan6423 The question is why would a woman even want a relationship with a CHEATING LOSER? This woman KNEW the situation yet she is expecting for it to work in HER favor!🤦 🙄🥴🥴🥴
Exactly ! Hes wasting this lady time. And quiet as it’s kept the ex wife knows what she’s doing. She’s using her “illness” to keep him around. She is VERY manipulative.
When she started dating him, she knew he was not a free man but it didn’t stop her; heck! she even had a baby with him! I don’t feel sorry for her AT ALL! Him…he’s a dumbass to went that far with her when he knew he wasn’t ready to end his relationship with his wife. I find Aaliyah aggravating, controlling and plainly disagreeable.
You knew he was married before you had a child by him. You thought that having a child with him would win him over but he’s not going to divorce his wife for you. Why would he when you’re already playing house with him knowing he’s married
She meant to send the pic to the person who knows the wife so they could show the wife the racy pics. She is the angry "side chick" instigator adding fuel to the fire. Additionally, he should have resolved the issues with his children's mother before getting into a committed relationship with someone else. They are both to blame for the mess they are in.
This is still my children's mother.. then stay with her. Now u brought a other child into the world with a mother that doesn't have the same security because you're still married.
I went to our local college and asked about divorce,because no property was involved.they refered me to legal aid and I took a class and divorced for 45 dollars
I knew I would see messages bashing the woman in this situation. Dude is full of it. He claimed they were separated and in the process of getting a divorce, and 8 years later he won’t divorce that stalker? My issue is men always claiming how much of a man they are but he’s afraid to REALLY to that woman to leave him And his family alone. HE shouldn’t have moved on until he was ready to get a divorce and the current girlfriend shouldn’t have stayed if he didn’t follow through with it. They both wrong !
Judge Lynn may not have wanted to say it, but I will…this man is a HORRIBLE person. He doesn’t want to divorce his wife because he’s holding on to her for when he’s done with his ho phase. In the meantime, he’s convincing all the other women he’s in the process of a divorce, when in reality, he knows he never plans on divorcing his wife. Whats even worse is he’s using his wife’s illness to portray the “good guy,” but he’s actually just playing on her weakness. Most people don’t live multiple decades once on dialysis (the average being 5-10 years) so it seems he’s just trying to hold out so he can seem like the “grieving widow.” I wouldn’t be shocked if he played that out to get more women too. It’s disgusting and he seems like a true narcissist.
He would have had to be DIVORCED before we started anything and I'm not for the living together playing Wifey and doing WIFEY duties when I'm not the wife either.
He’s married! He doesn’t need to check his wife and she doesn’t need to stop texting her husband. He doesn’t want a divorce, he would have done it. Married is married!
Men who are separated will date for decades without getting a divorce because they are comfortable. They are married w/o the responsibility of marriage and they have the freedom of being single with marriage being off the table for the women that date them. No commitments.
He keeps calling her his wife not by her name as someone who's been through a divorce if you are separated and call yourself getting ready to go through the divorce process and you're not calling the person you are divorcing by their name but you're still referring to them your wife or your husband you still want to be married....He is going to keep his wife around and when he gets through running the streets he's going to go back to her.
When judge was sayg who he really was his facial expressions screamed YES I AM JUDGE! Sis u tricked urself cuz u made a decision fully and knowing👎🏽💯 Prayg for them individually and for all💜
He left his wife when she was sick for someone younger and healthier, and now he feels too bad to fully break her heart with a divorce. This 27 year old doesn’t give a damn about anyone but herself, but I couldn’t do what she’s doing knowing that lady is sick like that.
I wonder what's holding him back from the decision to divorce that lady. I don't believe he still loves her, but his inability to follow through with the legal part of breaking up with her is rooted in something he did not vocalize in this episode
Judge Lynn always used to say if ANYTHING happens to this man she won’t have any say ! Wifey could say Do not resuscitate and Aaliyah can’t do shit but sit and watch with the kids 🤷🏾♂️
I'm sorry I agree with her I would tell him to call the wife put us on speakerphone and you tell her I don't want you stop texting me stop calling me don't send our children text messages talking about my girlfriend And honestly homegirl you shouldn't have got involved with him cuz he was still married and you shouldn't have no baby with him. He don't want to get no divorce I think it's about under $200 to file and send for them papers he don't want to get a divorce.
He has the Life insurance policy on her though. He thinks she'll die before him. But GOD has a funny sense of humor... SMH! Stevie Wonder can see the play... 🤦🏽♀️
Dude has his cake and is eating it too!!! He is probably tapping both of the women!!! I guarantee if she had an ex doing that he wouldn't be put up with it!!!
He’s full of shyt…there is state insurance if she’s truly all that sick she will qualify for those same services. His children will be on his insurance. That’s a cop out excuse Beth’s doesn’t want to marry the new girl but wants to play house
those two will never really be apart.he knew she was like that, and he loves it. i dont know the child from ethel u can hear it in her laughter lol she bout that. but he need to do right by her and his wife.
Dis relatioship was dead Asa u got involved with a married bruh u was doin ok until u let him knock u up n he have a sick wife+girlfriend 😆boo u fell for the okidoke/bamboozled
First off AALIYAH should've never had started anything with firs because he should've had divorced his wife first and than they could started something but she was wrong on her part for them pictures but he talking about he can stop anyone for doing like dude you could block her but he could've got the divorce from his ex wife talk his children with her that's the only he should had done
Going on Divorce Court with another woman's husband is crazy af.
Nothing to say about the husband huh? Typical
Women can face accountability. He may be a clown but she willing joined the circus. @@tmntfan6423
@@Ddofc "women can face accountability". Y'all literally ALWAYS blame the side pieces and let the cheating losers get away with everything.
I wouldn't even embarrass myself like this....smdh
@@tmntfan6423 The question is why would a woman even want a relationship with a CHEATING LOSER? This woman KNEW the situation yet she is expecting for it to work in HER favor!🤦 🙄🥴🥴🥴
For her to say that he is breaking her heart by not divorcing her girl you breaking your own heart by getting involved with this
He said he doesn't still love his wife, but he clearly will NEVER be ready to completely Divorce his Wife, so he may as well get back WITH his Wife.
Exactly ! Hes wasting this lady time. And quiet as it’s kept the ex wife knows what she’s doing. She’s using her “illness” to keep him around. She is VERY manipulative.
He’s waiting for her to die
Aaliah played herself. Never get with a man who is NOT DIVORCED YET.
Is this lady serious.....I mean what she thought she was special 😮 she played herself
.... plus having a baby 😮
I remember this one. He don’t want to get a divorce from his previous wife and he clearly don’t love his current woman enough.
JJ but the dude was or has been tapping that booty sound like he wanted or want to eat his cake
U meant current Wife! 🤣🤔
You had a baby by a married man? Ok😅😅😅
Judge Lynn hit the nail on the head with her ending summary. She was that judge to give harsh truths and realities without missing a beat!
When she started dating him, she knew he was not a free man but it didn’t stop her; heck! she even had a baby with him! I don’t feel sorry for her AT ALL! Him…he’s a dumbass to went that far with her when he knew he wasn’t ready to end his relationship with his wife. I find Aaliyah aggravating, controlling and plainly disagreeable.
You knew he was married before you had a child by him. You thought that having a child with him would win him over but he’s not going to divorce his wife for you. Why would he when you’re already playing house with him knowing he’s married
And a gf at that. I don’t feel sorry for her.
She meant to send the pic to the person who knows the wife so they could show the wife the racy pics. She is the angry "side chick" instigator adding fuel to the fire. Additionally, he should have resolved the issues with his children's mother before getting into a committed relationship with someone else. They are both to blame for the mess they are in.
My opinion and comment exactly! Aaliyah is despicable and Jay is a dumbass!
This is still my children's mother.. then stay with her. Now u brought a other child into the world with a mother that doesn't have the same security because you're still married.
This guy has an excuse for everything . He told her he was in the process of getting a divorce , a straight-up lie.
And she is ?
At the 15:53 mark, Judge Lynn's ending commentary blew me away! In such a classy way, she explains how thirst for men leads to a woman's downfall.
That was great advice judge said a lot without saying a lot.
Judge Lynn Tolher has so much class. I wish there were more women with her class and moral fortitude.
Toler
We live in a no class mean spirited time
I'm speaking for myself because I don't date taken men for what he has to be single period.
I went to our local college and asked about divorce,because no property was involved.they refered me to legal aid and I took a class and divorced for 45 dollars
She pulled all kinds of tricks on herself to get him! Now she's committed to him, with a baby, for life without marriage.
I knew I would see messages bashing the woman in this situation. Dude is full of it. He claimed they were separated and in the process of getting a divorce, and 8 years later he won’t divorce that stalker? My issue is men always claiming how much of a man they are but he’s afraid to REALLY to that woman to leave him
And his family alone. HE shouldn’t have moved on until he was ready to get a divorce and the current girlfriend shouldn’t have stayed if he didn’t follow through with it. They both wrong !
She worked with Him! She knew He wasn't a much right Man! 😔🤣🤔😂
He doesn't want to divorce his wife. Ladies don't stay with me like this and definitely don't have their babies.
😂😅 . Why are you so crazy woman? Why?
She should have stayed home.
Judge Lynn looks great on this episode!
I was admiring her and her make up so much. She looks amaaaaaaaaaaazing!!!❤❤❤
Judge Lynn may not have wanted to say it, but I will…this man is a HORRIBLE person. He doesn’t want to divorce his wife because he’s holding on to her for when he’s done with his ho phase. In the meantime, he’s convincing all the other women he’s in the process of a divorce, when in reality, he knows he never plans on divorcing his wife. Whats even worse is he’s using his wife’s illness to portray the “good guy,” but he’s actually just playing on her weakness. Most people don’t live multiple decades once on dialysis (the average being 5-10 years) so it seems he’s just trying to hold out so he can seem like the “grieving widow.” I wouldn’t be shocked if he played that out to get more women too. It’s disgusting and he seems like a true narcissist.
Soooo stealing is her thing hmmm watch your pocket!!!! 👏👏 Fyi it takes two yeah....
He would have had to be DIVORCED before we started anything and I'm not for the living together playing Wifey and doing WIFEY duties when I'm not the wife either.
Just sad
Well next time I go to the store and buy over a hundred dollars worth of things I need to tell them I deserve a free key chain.
🤣🤣🤣
She is the wife while you are the intruder. Get out of the way and let the man go back to his wife
He’s married! He doesn’t need to check his wife and she doesn’t need to stop texting her husband. He doesn’t want a divorce, he would have done it. Married is married!
Great ruling but they won’t understand….
He got a messy woman to go with his messy life
In sickness and in health 🤔
She didn’t even address the amount of money he was wanting
Men who are separated will date for decades without getting a divorce because they are comfortable. They are married w/o the responsibility of marriage and they have the freedom of being single with marriage being off the table for the women that date them. No commitments.
She's a little on the crazy side
Ladies never go with a married man period!!! He is not leaving his wife for you!!!
He keeps calling her his wife not by her name as someone who's been through a divorce if you are separated and call yourself getting ready to go through the divorce process and you're not calling the person you are divorcing by their name but you're still referring to them your wife or your husband you still want to be married....He is going to keep his wife around and when he gets through running the streets he's going to go back to her.
When judge was sayg who he really was his facial expressions screamed YES I AM JUDGE!
Sis u tricked urself cuz u made a decision fully and knowing👎🏽💯
Prayg for them individually and for all💜
He is still emotionally attached to his wife, that’s why he WONT go forward with the divorce.
Leave!
Good dad he’s honestly are the reason I just talk to my son and ask him how he feels and what he wants to do.
He left his wife when she was sick for someone younger and healthier, and now he feels too bad to fully break her heart with a divorce. This 27 year old doesn’t give a damn about anyone but herself, but I couldn’t do what she’s doing knowing that lady is sick like that.
Time to walk. He will never leave his wife. He ain't ready to leave her and never will
I wonder what's holding him back from the decision to divorce that lady. I don't believe he still loves her, but his inability to follow through with the legal part of breaking up with her is rooted in something he did not vocalize in this episode
Judge Lynn always used to say if ANYTHING happens to this man she won’t have any say ! Wifey could say Do not resuscitate and Aaliyah can’t do shit but sit and watch with the kids 🤷🏾♂️
I'm sorry I agree with her I would tell him to call the wife put us on speakerphone and you tell her I don't want you stop texting me stop calling me don't send our children text messages talking about my girlfriend
And honestly homegirl you shouldn't have got involved with him cuz he was still married and you shouldn't have no baby with him.
He don't want to get no divorce I think it's about under $200 to file and send for them papers he don't want to get a divorce.
If women stuck together like men she won't be a side 🐤 👶🏽 mamma. 🙄
He has the Life insurance policy on her though. He thinks she'll die before him. But GOD has a funny sense of humor... SMH! Stevie Wonder can see the play... 🤦🏽♀️
He a sad case
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She took a sick woman’s husband . It’s pretty gross.
I can see why he won’t divorce his current wife.
Wow
This is why you don't date married people.
Dude has his cake and is eating it too!!! He is probably tapping both of the women!!! I guarantee if she had an ex doing that he wouldn't be put up with it!!!
Black is beautiful ❤
He’s full of shyt…there is state insurance if she’s truly all that sick she will qualify for those same services. His children will be on his insurance. That’s a cop out excuse Beth’s doesn’t want to marry the new girl but wants to play house
those two will never really be apart.he knew she was like that, and he loves it. i dont know the child from ethel u can hear it in her laughter lol she bout that. but he need to do right by her and his wife.
Dis relatioship was dead Asa u got involved with a married bruh u was doin ok until u let him knock u up n he have a sick wife+girlfriend 😆boo u fell for the okidoke/bamboozled
First off AALIYAH should've never had started anything with firs because he should've had divorced his wife first and than they could started something but she was wrong on her part for them pictures but he talking about he can stop anyone for doing like dude you could block her but he could've got the divorce from his ex wife talk his children with her that's the only he should had done
She said, “I’m not gonna’ settle…” - baby, I got news for you…🫠