Girl, you are BEAUTIFUL.......Dump that ZERO!!!! with his funny looking self. Learn how to love yourself. You can't make him love you. Move on, I guarantee, he will miss you. You are probably the best thing that has ever happen to him.
I mean when judge Toller speaks, just excellence comes out her mouth!!!! I think the gentleman really understood and thought about his behaviors.. The gift to say something valuable and relatable enough for someone to soak it in is an absolute talent and gift....love her!!!!!
Idk if that's the case. But he is not emotionally available to her. He just needs to learn the tools to be in a decent romantic relationship. I was like him, once, in that respect
1st red flag: engaged 8 years 2nd red flag: he was 21, she was 28 174th red flag: "he's not a liar, but he's always lying." This woman is very pretty. She should leave him, get in shape, and woman up. Gain self-love. The kids need to see a healthy and whole mom, not broken and powerless.
Damn what’s wrong with women. It was obvious this man had no emotions towards this woman. Stop letting someone walk over you again and again and expecting a different result
It's trauma bonding. He is clearly a narc and she is codependent. He tells her what she wants to hear but does what he wants, then laughs at her reactive abuse and calls her crazy. So many relationships like this, she is stuck.
@@mogsonmushroomsshe's not stuck he did her a favor and left and filed for divorce. Good riddance I couldn't imagine being stuck with her everyday hooping and hollering and crying about something.
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
At 10:34, when judge Toler said to David that Keisha is afraid to lose him that’s why she’s always angry and loses control, well for me it’s VERY simple. You don’t lose what you don’t have. If Keisha prefers to be always doubting, suspecting, checking and losing control, she’s the one who chose to stay in that relationship and live like that. She chose her own hell and wallows on it. HE’S the one who took the right decision!
Im sorry but after watching this? If i was her? WOULDVE BOUNCED. He says “hearing the judge tell her to leave hit me and made me realize if i don’t fix up ILL LOSE SOMEONE WHO LOVES ME” not someone who HE LOVES. Child , go on and pack up!
Because HE DON'T WANT YOU! He doesn't have to tell you directly, he showing you indirectly. I don't feel sorry for you, you want to be kept in the dark and argue, because you like it.
Then he should be a Man and tell her he doesn’t want to be married. Y’all love to lay the responsibility on the victim, he’s treating her like she’s nothing and calling himself a man
@@tiffanithompson934I don’t think they’re laying responsibility on the wife, but telling her to have some dignity, self respect and love for yourself to be where you’re loved, respected and valued! The man in this video is showing her and now us that he don’t want here! She’s constantly finding messages and other evidence of his infidelity. He’s even bringing women to their marital home! I mean STAND UP! She’s beautiful, he’s hideous, ain’t no way she should be suffering at the hands of the likes of him
Right! She should cut her losses. She will gain such a peace of mind. I get it. It's tough to leave cuz they built a family and she's been with him for 10 years. That's a long time. She deserves sooo much better.
It's sad that women will stay through it all, but as soon as that man is ready to leave, HE WILL LEAVE! Even after all the chances you all gave them. Love yourselves first, ladies. You can not make someone love and respect you. 😢
She has to loose the weight her figure will change her confidence and insecurity. The kids are here,they took your figure, Now fight to get your body back or he will wander or leave. A beautiful body is not enough. To curse, fight, argue and be mean makes them leave.
This lady needs a little peace in her life. She's aggressive and it's not working to change the situation. I believe this man can do much better but i also recognize that her aggressive attitude shuts him down and then he just locks away in his mind and go do his own thing. They both needed to pull up on themselves to make it a good marriage.
I was not surprised by the ending at all! And yet he was the one that's said at the end that he needed to do something about it before she left him for good. 😅
Women we can’t get violent and say because... It won’t work with men and it should work with us. You can’t keep someone with violence and you can’t work it out with violence…men women a the weaker vessel there are things we just can’t handle emotionally. But something tells me they knew this about each other before they got married but ignored the red flags.
Girl no man want a woman who desperately needs a man yes we all need a man in our life that we love but not desperately tho and that fighting and kicking out would push anyone away that toxic shit is draining
You can be Janet Jackson, Whitney Houston, Mariah Carey, Mary J Blidge, or Paula Abdul, Haley Berry, Gabrielle, Union, Portia Williams (HWOA) ect...with absolute beauty, millions of fans & dollars. awards, trophies. plastic surgeons, personal trainers, private chefs, with a mantle full of Grammy Emmy, Oscars and all. But they will hurt you, betray you, leave you and cheat because the wotlrld is full of beautiful women and everyday he meets 100 of them hot, wicked, dirty & ready to replace you with.
Judge Toler needs some type of like honorary degree if there is any, for the knowledge she has regarding relationships/marriage. she says things so eloquently. leaves me in awe the psychological aspect of her advice , she is a brilliant beautiful woman. RIP to Big E ❤
I hate that she’s fighting to make him love her. That man does not care.
He do love him
Same it’s sad been there too
I think he cares but it's emotionally exhausting dealing with walking talking landmine.
@@markydan1232 he created the landmine and now doesn't want to deal with the consequences.
Right. Her crying angers him because he feels she’s doing it to manipulate him. So he can feel bad. Weird dangerous mindset.
DON'T MAKE A MAN TELL YOU MORE THAN ONCE THAT HE DON'T WANT YOU
Quoted _originally_ by Judge Lynn Toler 👩🏾⚖️ ✨.
@@nailahdawkins oh yes that's her words I love her so much I apply her knowledge to my life everyday
And he tells her repeatedly
Ladies dont EVER...let yourself get so low that you THINK you CAN'T live WITHOUT HIM!!!! stop giving him that power!!!
Girl, you are BEAUTIFUL.......Dump that ZERO!!!! with his funny looking self. Learn how to love yourself. You can't make him love you. Move on, I guarantee, he will miss you. You are probably the best thing that has ever happen to him.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Omgoodness, yes!! The whole time I was trying to figure out what was supposed to be so special about his lil weird puny looking self, smh. 😅
Thank you! She is so gorgeous and seems very loyal. there’s so many men,women, they/them that will worship her
Exactly
She blocking her blessings
He ain't even cute
He left and filed for divorce
I mean when judge Toller speaks, just excellence comes out her mouth!!!! I think the gentleman really understood and thought about his behaviors.. The gift to say something valuable and relatable enough for someone to soak it in is an absolute talent and gift....love her!!!!!
I feel for her but it's her fault giving him so many chances, instead of just walking away.
Right. And scared to leave
I don’t know why he looks like Rasheeda’s Husband from Love and hip hop Atlanta Kirk Frost 😂😂😂
@@johnwyatt40 😅😂😂 Good point!
The best thing he could have done for her was leave her. I’m so happy for her.
He clearly doesn’t want her and she won’t give up the fight that’s not even there.. Terribly unfortunate..
Idk if that's the case. But he is not emotionally available to her. He just needs to learn the tools to be in a decent romantic relationship. I was like him, once, in that respect
Thank goodness he left her because if not, she would have stayed🙄
I hope 1 day she realizes her worth. Never make a man tell you more than once he doesn't want you.
He look like Martin after his fight with Tommy Hearns 😭
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂 Yup!!!
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1st red flag: engaged 8 years
2nd red flag: he was 21, she was 28
174th red flag: "he's not a liar, but he's always lying."
This woman is very pretty. She should leave him, get in shape, and woman up. Gain self-love. The kids need to see a healthy and whole mom, not broken and powerless.
Damn what’s wrong with women. It was obvious this man had no emotions towards this woman. Stop letting someone walk over you again and again and expecting a different result
Blaming women for the actions of men. So original
This is true because at some point you have to stop the cycle and change because you can't control others, give that love to the right person
It's trauma bonding. He is clearly a narc and she is codependent. He tells her what she wants to hear but does what he wants, then laughs at her reactive abuse and calls her crazy. So many relationships like this, she is stuck.
@@mogsonmushroomsshe's not stuck he did her a favor and left and filed for divorce. Good riddance I couldn't imagine being stuck with her everyday hooping and hollering and crying about something.
@@markydan1232 100%...dog needs to stop yapping all the time🤣🤣🤣🤣
Great video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
i have been in such a situation. i love my woman and unfortunately we separated about two years ago, but i could not let her go, so i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back, now we are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.
wow, please how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?
Her name is queen stella laveaux ,and she is great at what she does. you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@Glen.Murphy8 Hopefully it works out for you!
At 10:34, when judge Toler said to David that Keisha is afraid to lose him that’s why she’s always angry and loses control, well for me it’s VERY simple. You don’t lose what you don’t have. If Keisha prefers to be always doubting, suspecting, checking and losing control, she’s the one who chose to stay in that relationship and live like that. She chose her own hell and wallows on it. HE’S the one who took the right decision!
Im sorry but after watching this? If i was her? WOULDVE BOUNCED. He says “hearing the judge tell her to leave hit me and made me realize if i don’t fix up ILL LOSE SOMEONE WHO LOVES ME” not someone who HE LOVES. Child , go on and pack up!
He bounced and got a divorce
GIRL, thank you! Lmao. I knew there was something horribly wrong with that statement and couldn’t quite put my finger on it. Smfh. Disgusting!
Because HE DON'T WANT YOU! He doesn't have to tell you directly, he showing you indirectly. I don't feel sorry for you, you want to be kept in the dark and argue, because you like it.
Then he should be a Man and tell her he doesn’t want to be married. Y’all love to lay the responsibility on the victim, he’s treating her like she’s nothing and calling himself a man
@@tiffanithompson934I don’t think they’re laying responsibility on the wife, but telling her to have some dignity, self respect and love for yourself to be where you’re loved, respected and valued! The man in this video is showing her and now us that he don’t want here! She’s constantly finding messages and other evidence of his infidelity. He’s even bringing women to their marital home! I mean STAND UP! She’s beautiful, he’s hideous, ain’t no way she should be suffering at the hands of the likes of him
Right! She should cut her losses. She will gain such a peace of mind. I get it. It's tough to leave cuz they built a family and she's been with him for 10 years. That's a long time. She deserves sooo much better.
@@tiffanithompson934he asked for a divorce and left. And men will put up with almost anything before they push the divorce button.
She needs to leave him or just shut up and deal with his bs. Alot of dudes will play the isht out of you with a straight face. Hes one of em.
Time to cut your ties and move on .
It's sad that women will stay through it all, but as soon as that man is ready to leave, HE WILL LEAVE! Even after all the chances you all gave them. Love yourselves first, ladies. You can not make someone love and respect you. 😢
Girl you chose a boy and that’s still what you got. That’s on you, deal with it.
She's so pretty she looks like Lauren london
I think the same she look just like Lauren London!!!!!
I genuinely cannot believe she is crying and fighting over this dusty little boy. That’s crazy. I really hope she leaves him.
She needs therapy!
And these are the good women bm ruin...
Girl you deserve so much better, it's like your begging for his love.
everybody be rushing to have kids just to get this 👀
Bless you
With what he said at the end, I didn’t expect him being the one moving out and asking for devorce.
He's not worth her time or attention. You deserve so, so much better!!! Let him go. He doesn't deserve you!!!
I just felt so hurt for her. Oh my goodness texting other women inappropriately whether it's sexual or not is cheating.
She has to loose the weight her figure will change her confidence and insecurity. The kids are here,they took your figure, Now fight to get your body back or he will wander or leave. A beautiful body is not enough. To curse, fight, argue and be mean makes them leave.
This lady needs a little peace in her life. She's aggressive and it's not working to change the situation. I believe this man can do much better but i also recognize that her aggressive attitude shuts him down and then he just locks away in his mind and go do his own thing. They both needed to pull up on themselves to make it a good marriage.
When this lady begins to talk in a hightend emotional state she sounds like R. Kelly denying the charges to Gayle King
She's so pretty. She looks like Lauren London.
Wow. It’s sad that he had to go and leave her. She should have had the self esteem to leave herself. Hopefully she gets some soon.
Women love being with men who don’t love them and then when he leave mistreat the good guy as if he was the guy before
Lady...you're gorgeous. Work on getting your self seteem together and be happy for his dismissal! Throw that dog a bone and shut the door.
I was not surprised by the ending at all! And yet he was the one that's said at the end that he needed to do something about it before she left him for good. 😅
HE LOOK LIKE HOWDY DOOLEY 😂 DONT HELP HIM LIE!!!!!
leave !!!
Women we can’t get violent and say because... It won’t work with men and it should work with us. You can’t keep someone with violence and you can’t work it out with violence…men women a the weaker vessel there are things we just can’t handle emotionally. But something tells me they knew this about each other before they got married but ignored the red flags.
he did the best thing...
He wont ...she is beautiful
Wow he left her
Perhaps
I hope bro makes it out of the emotional black hole he's been in since this aired.
Girl no man want a woman who desperately needs a man yes we all need a man in our life that we love but not desperately tho and that fighting and kicking out would push anyone away that toxic shit is draining
10 YEARS OF THIS MESS!!! My Lord today. He mos def was cheating and for sure him and the other chick got together
He never wanted her. She is too damn histrionic!
That woman is gorgeous 😍
Black is beautiful ❤
Sad you just don't get it he don't want you nawwww smh.......
You can be Janet Jackson, Whitney Houston, Mariah Carey, Mary J Blidge, or Paula Abdul, Haley Berry, Gabrielle, Union, Portia Williams (HWOA) ect...with absolute beauty, millions of fans & dollars. awards, trophies. plastic surgeons, personal trainers, private chefs, with a mantle full of Grammy Emmy, Oscars and all. But they will hurt you, betray you, leave you and cheat because the wotlrld is full of beautiful women and everyday he meets 100 of them hot, wicked, dirty & ready to replace you with.
People to change
I like your video
Why do they blame the woman it's the man fault you should show your wife affection
HE IS COWARD!!!
She's been putting up with this for 10 years and we all know she ain't going nowhere so that's on her
edit: NVM he was the one that left lol
Stop fighting over dusty bums
She is nuts
He sucks!
Your a beautiful girl you should move on
Judge Toler needs some type of like honorary degree if there is any, for the knowledge she has regarding relationships/marriage. she says things so eloquently. leaves me in awe the psychological aspect of her advice , she is a brilliant beautiful woman. RIP to Big E ❤