Therapist Reacts To: Midnight Rain by Taylor Swift!

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  • @wendyshoup8539
    @wendyshoup8539 Рік тому +126

    I love listening to your song analogies! So sorry that some people are rude and ignorant. You are wonderful!

  • @lesliesorensen
    @lesliesorensen Рік тому +79

    "You have a duty to let go of people if you're not in it 100% because everyone deserves that." I needed to hear this right now

  • @aljayfeverdeflor1743
    @aljayfeverdeflor1743 Рік тому +15

    DO AFTERGLOW!! I am in love on how she takes accountability of her actions and tries to be better. Midnight Rain, Back To December, & Afterglow are really mature tracks

  • @lexisandquist7558
    @lexisandquist7558 Рік тому +35

    keep messing with your hair because who cares. your always looks so good! keep the videos coming! I deeply enjoy watching your videos to help understand Taylors lyrics and love the chill vibe of your videos:)

  • @tammycombs167
    @tammycombs167 Рік тому +17

    My favorite song of Midnights. Right now anyway. Lol. Glad you did this one.

  • @mars.1198
    @mars.1198 Рік тому +7

    Picturing what you said "Taylor Kennedy" makes me think of the last great american dynasty! OMG just imagine the lyrics of that song applied to her instead of Rebekah. Mind blowing!

  • @ellieandthetorts
    @ellieandthetorts Рік тому +18

    I enjoy your Taylor lyric breakdowns because honestly you bring something to the conversation& direction of lyric breakdowns due to your profession thats actually pretty rare for reaction videos. Please know that some people will always be rude, just for the sake of it. But you arent doing anything wrong! Im glad these have brought something positive to your life!! You have been a bright spot in my day when your videos pop up. So THANKYOU! Edit, if I could toss up an option for you to analyse it would be Nothing New featuring Pheobe Bridgers. Thanks again from a subscriber who is going through a lot too😘

  • @ColbyJWF
    @ColbyJWF Рік тому +10

    I've been watching your reaction videos for a while and have never commented but after hearing that people have been rude I just wanted to say that I really enjoy your videos and your takes on these songs!!

  • @ilkavanschalkwyk9558
    @ilkavanschalkwyk9558 Рік тому +13

    Yes I agree 100% Connor Kennedy. Your channel is great and I love that your a true Swiftie and can contextualise the songs lyrics through the events in Taylor's life.

  • @AllyGirl-hg2sb
    @AllyGirl-hg2sb Рік тому +6

    I think it's about Tom hiddleston one of the lyrics was jumping off things in the ocean or something like that and Taylor and Tom did go to the beach together when they dated. He was nice too, and I also think Tom was looking to settle down, and he's totally Sunshine 😍. But Conner Kennedy makes sense too.

  • @mcnoneya
    @mcnoneya Рік тому +8

    Probably my favorite song on the album I thought of it as maybe about a relationship before she really hit it big, a small town love. Pageants are big in the Midwest where she’s from. And small towns can surprisingly be full of pretenders as well. I lived in the south and oh my goodness, people were so so fake, they were just more obvious then here in California.

  • @trangbui6344
    @trangbui6344 Рік тому +7

    Please never stop making videos as long as you want to, we love how you analyze the lyrics 😊

  • @aidenrushing9841
    @aidenrushing9841 Рік тому +1

    Oh, honey. Do NOT listen to those negative Nancy-types. You are a gloriously wonderful human, willingly vulnerable, open, and honest. I think sometimes those negative comments come from a place of jealousy and bitterness. I imagine a lot of folks wish they could be as willing to share their feelings as you are willing to share yours. I've commented on a lot of your videos (I'm a big-time Swiftie, have been since the beginning). But I'm not sure I've ever shared that I accidentally stumbled onto your channel. And I am SO grateful the universe brought me here! You are a treasure! Don't ever think otherwise!

  • @emmaisinexile1987
    @emmaisinexile1987 Рік тому +5

    This song made me emotional listening to it now I’m even more emotional if that is possible 😢 she truly knows how to write songs!

  • @a.claudiasilva9589
    @a.claudiasilva9589 Рік тому +17

    Hey Mer. Thanks for your videos, I enjoy them.
    In this song I do think it's about Taylor Lautner because she mentions peppermint candy and Christmas, which makes me think she dated this person around Christmas and she did date Taylor in December and she wrote the song 'back to December' about him. She dated Connor Kennedy during the summer I believe. Let me know your thoughts.
    Take care ☺️

    • @sarahk6687
      @sarahk6687 Рік тому +8

      Yeah, I agree with Taylor Lautner because she says” sometimes we get just what we wanted” in reference to the guy (since she is referencing herself with the haunted line next, and Taylor Lautner just got married.
      ETA: Mere, I love your videos.

    • @r.maciel2544
      @r.maciel2544 Рік тому +2

      I think it's about more than one person, including Taylor

  • @allisonhunter1063
    @allisonhunter1063 Рік тому +7

    When you were talking about Taylor letting herself be the villain it reminded me of a song by Alan Jackson called "so you don't have to love me anymore".
    It's a beautiful and heartbreaking song and the premise of the song is that Alan is saying "if you need me to be the bad guy I will if that's what helps you so that you don't have to love me anymore." Like to make it easy on her for the breakup so that she's not in pain instead she can be angry. There are several lines that change throughout the song one of them says "when you and our friends talk, tell them its all my fault, you can say I'm rotten to the Core, I'll let it all slide and get them all on your side so you don't have to love me anymore". Another one is "if the wine you're drinking leads you to thinking that you want what we had before girl you can call me and I'll let it ring and ring so you don't have to love me anymore" and then the last one that's like dagger to the heart every time is "if you need me to make you cry I don't want to but I'll try so you don't have to love me anymore." He never says he's not in pain, he just says he'll take the fall. Which in my mind gives "bow out gracefully" and reminds me of "I didn't have it in myself to go with grace, now you're the hero flying around saving face".

  • @katherinealatorre600
    @katherinealatorre600 Рік тому +3

    We appreciate you and what you bring to the table. Thanks for being you and putting yourself out there for the critical comments and the good!

  • @FIREGOD333
    @FIREGOD333 Рік тому +1

    i think what she means by pain is growth. no pain no gain. going through various deaths and rebirths and all the transformations that come with going for your dreams. all the sacrifices you have to make including sacrificing your old self and what you might have once wanted. she very clearly made the right choice but even so, sometimes she still looks back at what it might have been like had she gone the other path. at the end of the day you cant go wrong with choosing yourself, especially when u know ur someone whos gonna give it all u got and not stop until u achieve everything thats on ur mind. cant lose when u bet on yourself, but it does get lonely at the top

  • @Javilex27
    @Javilex27 Рік тому +7

    I feel very comfortable watching your videos. Also, we both have the same Christmas tree lol

  • @Mimi__.
    @Mimi__. Рік тому +6

    I must say I'm really glad I found your channel. It brings me a lot of value to hear your opinions and I think you're a fantastic professional who knows what they're talking about. Thanks for the videos Mere! ❤️

  • @carneiroberta
    @carneiroberta Рік тому +2

    I am loving all music analysis that you do! Thank you very much!

  • @aspiration777
    @aspiration777 Рік тому +2

    i will wait here forever to see you reacting to "right where you left me"

  • @ThatPropsGirl
    @ThatPropsGirl Рік тому +5

    Yes we do love your content!!!! I LOVE your videos!!!!! ❤❤❤ keep going! Life is so hard at time but you are honestly making a difference

  • @AshleeHaggerty-i8g
    @AshleeHaggerty-i8g Рік тому +1

    I think this is about Taylor Lautner "Making my own name" my own Taylor...and also "My boy was a montage.." line refers to him in Twilight

  • @yaniramartinez3466
    @yaniramartinez3466 Рік тому +1

    Looove your breakdown of the songs! I don't always pay attention to the lyrics so I love how you explain so many of the lines I don't think much of. I feel like I'm back in school breaking apart and analyzing a poem in English class. I love it!

  • @jaylucas5383
    @jaylucas5383 Рік тому +1

    love u for ur vulnerability !! : ) 💕💕

  • @hannahfreya2326
    @hannahfreya2326 Рік тому +1

    I am very sorry to hear that some people have made comments that hurt you. I don’t understand people who do that! If they don’t enjoy your vids, the answer is simple: don’t watch them! I (and many, many others) love your vids. I love your analysis and explanations, I love your kindness, your vulnerability and your empathy. To quote Taylor “the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate.” Ignore them. Thank you for sharing your vids!

  • @roseelliott2728
    @roseelliott2728 Рік тому +2

    Interesting take on this. I forgot about Connor Kennedy.❤ sending good vibes your way🙌🏼

  • @gabrielbebloo
    @gabrielbebloo Рік тому +3

    I LOVE these videos. I can’t wait for you to do all the album. You actually inspired me to one day create a similar channel analyzing songs but in Portuguese. You do a fantastic job. Don’t let the negative comments get to you

  • @emiliyvandermeer9175
    @emiliyvandermeer9175 Рік тому +1

    Holiday, peppermint candy … it’s totally Conner Kennedy. In Begin Again, which I also think is about Conner, she talks about the all the holiday movies they watch together.
    Every photo of Taylor and Conner they were at a beach, so the jumping in the ocean line feels like him (or Tom).

  • @nathanweber1872
    @nathanweber1872 Рік тому +2

    Begin again is on Red 😁. I love your videos!

  • @kellye.5678
    @kellye.5678 Рік тому +1

    Yesss! I’ve been waiting for this one. ❤ I never noticed your hair movements people are so critical. I love your videos

  • @Lala_Muller
    @Lala_Muller Рік тому +1

    Thought you should know I love your videos and I'm always looking forward for the next one!!! Most of them I end up crying, but it's so good to listen to your analysis ❤️❤️ a big hug from Brazil 🇧🇷

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +1

      Laísa! Thank you so much for the love! Sending love right back to you from NYC!

  • @smile-qu2bh
    @smile-qu2bh Рік тому +1

    How could people be rude to such insight. BTW your so pretty

    • @smile-qu2bh
      @smile-qu2bh Рік тому

      also could you please do blank space if you haven't

  • @Mar-jl7zk
    @Mar-jl7zk Рік тому

    I look forward to seeing new reaction videos! Please don't stop!!! I love Taylor songs and relate to her lyrics and searched for someone to share that love and insight!! Sometimes you have the exact same thoughts I have about the meaning and then you point out things that I have that OMG yes I missed that!! Thank you!!

  • @alexh5619
    @alexh5619 Рік тому +2

    Love your videos! Keep them coming. I believe Begin Again was from RED album, as opposed to Speak Now.

  • @brsixtn
    @brsixtn Рік тому

    Doing a marathon cause i was busy with my exams but i have to watch those videos that i love so much🥰

  • @Res_ER
    @Res_ER Рік тому

    I love your analysis of her songs they are so mellow and we’ll explain! Some people are just too loud and excited so your videos are super great 👍🏽

  • @mckennawoosley2811
    @mckennawoosley2811 Рік тому

    These videos are quite honestly my highlight during everything I have going on right now! Keep doing what makes you happy! I love these, but will support whatever!

  • @screllin
    @screllin Рік тому

    I mess with my hair constantly too! It's just who you are. Love your vids!!! ❤️🥰

  • @pastramicheesemonster4873
    @pastramicheesemonster4873 Рік тому +1

    I really enjoy your videos, it's just nice to hear other people's interpretations of Taylor's songs - and it's really interesting too when you come up with theories I've never even considered!
    And omg I hope Speak Now is coming out next!! 💜 I have been suspicious for a while because she has some very Speak Now-esque looks in the Bejeweled video!

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому +1

      Yes she does! Thank you for the love!!

  • @igmartymartinez7881
    @igmartymartinez7881 Рік тому

    Yes keep on doing these! Watching you’re videos always calm me down from stressful life. We will always be here for you with whatever you choose to do! ❤❤

  • @liammcfarlane13
    @liammcfarlane13 Рік тому +2

    I still believe this is about Taylor Lautner because even if she had married Connor Kennedy she would have still had her own name, she would have been Taylor Kennedy... but if she had married Taylor Lautner she would have had his name, Taylor Lautner. At the time they were dating he was at the top of the game because twilight was so popular, if they'd gotten married and both been Taylor Lautner I can see how she would feel like that would completely eclipse her (twilight pun was not intended)

  • @mercutiolives2883
    @mercutiolives2883 Рік тому

    Dude you’re sooooo right. For some reason Conor Kennedy was the first person to come to mind when I first heard it. (It didn’t strike me as the same story as Back To December I guess.) Your analysis makes so much sense.

  • @lynnewebley7270
    @lynnewebley7270 Рік тому +7

    Ignore the hair comments

  • @LittleSongBirdTales
    @LittleSongBirdTales Рік тому

    Hey Mere! I want you to know that I connect to you so deeply. I also play with my hair compulsively especially when I’m being social. I think it’s a safety mechanism of sorts. Just another reason why I think we should be besties 😉 thank you for being so vulnerable. Love to you.

  • @AHufflepuffAndASwiftie
    @AHufflepuffAndASwiftie Рік тому +1

    You are SO right!! I didn't even think about Connor Kennedy!! I was FOR SURE thinking it was about someone in her hometown, before her singing career even took off, but now, you've convinced me! It's about Conner!! (Also, Begin Again was NOT off of Speak Now, it was off of Red. Hunted is off of Speak Now. I think you were confusing those 2 songs. 😉)

  • @madlybs
    @madlybs Рік тому

    Negative comments can kill any hobby. Don't listen to them, listen to us - we love your videos!

  • @haziqahnasaruddin4514
    @haziqahnasaruddin4514 Рік тому +1

    I love your videos. Keep making them 💕💕

  • @wildrage0_029
    @wildrage0_029 Рік тому

    I love your lyrical deep dives so much!! Really curious about your takes on Afterglow - it's my favorite song of her's 💘

  • @eviedh
    @eviedh Рік тому

    Haunted is also on speak now so both begin again and haunted and I believe starlight is a bonus track on speak now as well

  • @avamm13
    @avamm13 Рік тому

    i love your interpretation of this song!! it’s one of my favorites!! sending you lots of love 💖💖

  • @manoncorvin4007
    @manoncorvin4007 Рік тому

    Mere, I adore your videos! Seriously, I quit what I’m doing once I realise you’ve uploaded. You have so many thoughts I have also had and hearing your take just makes me so happy. Keep doing this, I also recommend trying Halsey’s If I Can’t Have Love, I Want Power album! It is insanely good and the lyrics are an incredible dive into the reality of mental illness, motherhood, sex and love. She has this way of twisting her lyrics using common sayings but giving them a Halsey twist “I tuck a knife with my heart up my sleeve”, one of my faves. I’d absolutely love to hear your take on these songs!

  • @moriahroberson9886
    @moriahroberson9886 Рік тому

    You are amazing! Don’t let any negative comments stop you!

  • @standyourtruth.juneb.8069
    @standyourtruth.juneb.8069 Рік тому

    Spectacular! I very much enjoyed your breakdown of this song in comparison to the Kennedy. Well done and thank you

  • @mattebelle
    @mattebelle Рік тому

    I love your videos mere! Please keep making them, I love hearing your insights and thoughts. Thank you for making these💜💜 hope you’re doing well.

  • @callhercarla
    @callhercarla Рік тому

    Your hair is beautiful, it demands affection so keep on playing with it, love! 🥰

  • @777jamiejames
    @777jamiejames Рік тому

    I see your interpretation, I never thought of him before but it could be about him, everything you said makes total sense. (Starlight is on Red)
    I've been thinking it's about her high school boyfriend. I think she mentions they had plans to get married one day in one of her old songs... the town she describes sounds like Hendersonville, where she went to high school. I live in TN, in the same county, about 45 min north. several country music stars live there... she says picture perfect family... for him it's every day... telling me he got what he wanted (to settle down in Hendersonville lol). I don't know if he or Conor got married lol...

  • @captainastro_
    @captainastro_ Рік тому

    I loveeee these videos! You help me feel relaxed and understand these songs on a deeper level❤

  • @delacruzgarcia186
    @delacruzgarcia186 Рік тому

    I LOVE!!! Midnight rain

  • @anetfuchidzhieva
    @anetfuchidzhieva Рік тому

    That hair thing, I do that a lot and honestly, I get the struggle, it's completely understandable, keep doing that if you need to, the others shouldn't care, I love your videos and if others are too focused on your hand movement to listen to your analysis then that's their loss.

  • @alicelopes9133
    @alicelopes9133 Рік тому

    I love your videos! Keep doing what you like to do! Sending love 🫶🏼

  • @elisabethcarter3804
    @elisabethcarter3804 Рік тому +1

    You should do a video on Starlight!😊

  • @Ivan-0000
    @Ivan-0000 Рік тому

    Keep it going, much love

  • @aasthasharma8392
    @aasthasharma8392 Рік тому

    Maybe it also alludes to the fact that sometimes getting what we want can actually end up haunting us when we realise that the thing we wanted and worked so hard to get didn't actually fulfil us in the way that we thought we it would.

  • @marissahemp78
    @marissahemp78 Рік тому

    love the song and great video as always!

  • @imanzuhric4781
    @imanzuhric4781 Рік тому

    I jus found your channel and I absolutely love your energy !! :)

  • @julietmadrelijo8567
    @julietmadrelijo8567 Рік тому

    ..thank u fOr the expLanatiOn❤️

  • @servicedogkyzanna1761
    @servicedogkyzanna1761 Рік тому

    So, I've watched a lot of your videos, now, and I'm not really sure what negative anyone could find to say about them, sincerely. I mean, touch your hair as much as you like, that isn't the reason we come to watch. You break down these lyrics really well, and you aren't dramatic, or posting click-bait, or screaming, or anything, what you see is what we get. I cannot express to you how much I appreciate that. I just left an entire diatribe on another channel on why they need to lose the click-bait titles, and why they can't use racism and people's sexuality in their titles, and they need to tell the truth, and not sensationalize everything, and this person is 23 and believes she knows everything, I mentioned to her in 10 years she will look back at what she's posting now and cringe. Thank you for none of this kind of behavior- touch your hair as much as you like- people who need to leave those kind of comments possibly need to go and watch channels with people who use racism and people's sexuality in their click-baity titles. I can give them channel names if you give me the person- the person will love the channel- MADE for each other. Have a fantastic day, Mere 🙂

  • @melandloloveholo2519
    @melandloloveholo2519 Рік тому

    Love your reactions! I hadn't heard or thought of it being about her Kennedy BF

  • @SanNutella
    @SanNutella Рік тому +1

    I'm from Brazil and I want right now a therapy session with you 😭😭

  • @fay407
    @fay407 Рік тому

    Actually I like your work and analysis. Seriously, I tensionally search for your videos.

  • @roberttruhn5067
    @roberttruhn5067 Рік тому

    You’re doing great. Thank you.

  • @Bunnysailormoontv
    @Bunnysailormoontv Рік тому

    Can you do Back to December? I really love all your videos. I’m curious of your take of Back to December! Thank you ❤ sending lots of love and positive vibes

  • @rizkyrobianto1106
    @rizkyrobianto1106 Рік тому

    I love you content mere! please ignore all those hate and mean comments towards you. Much love from here❤

  • @analuizamvb1612
    @analuizamvb1612 Рік тому +1

    Can you do "Question" next?

  • @ismalaz9448
    @ismalaz9448 Рік тому +2

    what so not great comments? i'm ready to fight!!!!!!!! you are a queen!!!! but i think the song is about tom hiddleston

  • @alwaysamused979
    @alwaysamused979 Рік тому +3

    I think you are wonderful and lovely, and I take a lot away from your videos. Hang tough, sweet girl.

  • @goldenonsense
    @goldenonsense Рік тому

    love your videos so much, don't let those mean comments get to you :)

  • @georgepyros2840
    @georgepyros2840 Рік тому

    Love you!!

  • @lexisandquist7558
    @lexisandquist7558 Рік тому +1

    I have a request...I would love to hear your thoughts on labyrinth by Taylor Swift (I feel like no one is talking about that song)

  • @roxannecurry5616
    @roxannecurry5616 Рік тому

    I love your channel. You are a very intelligent women. You really break done her songs so good, but you were saying it could be about connar Kennedy. Have you thought about since her and Joe are longtime boyfriend of 6 years of broken up that most of this midnight album is thought to be a breakup album with him. It has been said that he was kind of a shy person I really didn't like all her fame. I think it is her in this song saying that she really didn't want to marry him and not have her fame. Because she likes to shine just like the song bejeweled. Let me know what you think.

  • @ameenullahbaig2190
    @ameenullahbaig2190 Рік тому

    i loved it
    🤙

  • @azzurrazanellato8273
    @azzurrazanellato8273 Рік тому

    I love all your videos…please, react to the moment i knew..i m courios about what you think about that song. It s so sad!!! 😢

  • @EponineReads
    @EponineReads Рік тому

    I think she loved him more than he loved her. He forgot about her he has to be reminded (by the TV) She reminds herself. It is also about her loving herself except people think being alone is not being loved. She would be a caged bird if she was with him.

  • @L_taylorsversion24
    @L_taylorsversion24 Рік тому

    Her personality is rain, erastour = rainshow

  • @starlightsummerain319
    @starlightsummerain319 Рік тому

    Could you do, snow at the beach. Please, thank you

    • @mendwithmere
      @mendwithmere  Рік тому

      Yes! You are the first person to ask for it

  • @angelashockley7717
    @angelashockley7717 Рік тому

    I really am enjoying your videos! Please don't stop posting..It gives the jerks the win, and that is just...No! I thought your theory about Connor Kennedy was solid. Another reactor theorized that it was about Taylor Lautner, but I think I like your interpretation better. It makes sense!

  • @neontyler6663
    @neontyler6663 Рік тому

    Next Lorde’s Melodrama, and Solar Power
    The Embracing of pain and meditation

  • @sucharithaanumula1849
    @sucharithaanumula1849 Рік тому

    💙

  • @MinnieMousey06
    @MinnieMousey06 Рік тому

    it could be about Taylor Lautner or Connor Kennedy tbh, but i've always leaned towards Taylor Lautner.

  • @delacruzgarcia186
    @delacruzgarcia186 Рік тому +1

    Please do mean by Taylor. Mean is for those haters, that throw rock at shinning things.

  • @lexxsands9387
    @lexxsands9387 Рік тому

    Can you react to her song called "Ronan" ?

  • @chelsey8727
    @chelsey8727 Рік тому

    Sorry, I don't mean for a correction to come across poorly... Just wanted to note that "Begin Again" was from the Red album!
    This is not who I thought the song was about, and was surprised to hear you speak of Connor! It could very well be correct, I also didn't think of Taylor Lautner. >.

  • @Artisian12656
    @Artisian12656 Рік тому +1

    I enjoy your reactions to Taylor's music. Unfortunately, you can't please everyone. Best to delete negative comments if you can.

  • @tristendiangelo8910
    @tristendiangelo8910 Рік тому +1

    i respect you but i think this song is about taylor lautner. she’s never really talked about conor kennedy and what he was like but in back to december taylor is the only guy she’s ever described as perfect and the best for her which is the same sentiment she expresses in this song.

  • @ShannonMaggie91
    @ShannonMaggie91 Рік тому

    All valid points but it's obviously about Tom Hiddleston.

  • @stepanova8
    @stepanova8 Рік тому

    While the comparison to Kennedy is interesting, I always saw that as a simple summer flirtation that wasn't serious for either of them.
    I think it's far more likely that this song is a reflection of her relationship with Tom Hiddleston. Your thoughts?

  • @GR4YS0NN
    @GR4YS0NN Рік тому +1

    please react to avalanche by avril lavigne

  • @Bunny_chan333
    @Bunny_chan333 Рік тому

    ahhh i love your rections , can you please react to SOS by SZA's