Are you being manipulated? | David McCubbin | TEDxBurleigh Heads

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  • Опубліковано 16 чер 2024
  • Dive into the complex world of power dynamics with David McCubbin as he delves into the concept of Artificial Integrity (AI) in his thought-provoking TEDx talk. Drawing on his background in drama and leadership communication, McCubbin explores how AI operates as a psychological strategy rooted in human nature, often wielded by individuals seeking to assert control and dominance. Through compelling storytelling and insightful analysis, he unveils the deceptive nature of AI and offers strategies for recognizing and challenging it. From dissecting the narrative of "I and I alone can protect you" to advocating for genuine questioning and holding one's ground, McCubbin provides a roadmap for dismantling illegitimate power structures and fostering healthier relationships based on shared power and truth. Join us on this journey to uncover the truth behind power dynamics and learn how to navigate them with integrity and resilience.
    As COUP Founder and Managing Director, David has pioneered the adoption of skills and disciplines from dramatic art as effective learning and development mechanisms in dozens of blue-chip corporations across banking, professional services, retail, pharma, telecoms, tertiary education, social housing and government. He has designed and delivered countless development programs for senior leaders and provided executive coaching to C-suite execs, CEO's and senior academics. He founded COUP with Annie in 2001. Since then they have delivered programs across Australasia and abroad. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

КОМЕНТАРІ • 87

  • @shanticlements
    @shanticlements Місяць тому +10

    Thank you, David. Still blown away by the term ‘artificial integrity’ and it’s impact. A great session! Thank you!

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +2

      Thank you, Shanti. The worry is when Artificial Intelligence meets Artificial Integrity. I hope we keep ahead of it.

    • @Chi100Maria
      @Chi100Maria 27 днів тому

      I watched "social dilemma", I think we have lost already.

  • @withbrie921
    @withbrie921 Місяць тому +2

    Thanks for sharing David! Such a profound TEDx talk and truth needing to be shared.

  • @Chi100Maria
    @Chi100Maria 27 днів тому +2

    Wow! That's powerful! Thank you sincerely for sharing it!

  • @kathleen7825
    @kathleen7825 Місяць тому +6

    After discovering everything I had over this past few weeks, in regards to hateful manipulative actions behind my back, ( a lot of indications, hypocricey, narcissism, etc...), i just want to say thank you for sharing this clip. 🙏

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +2

      Sorry to hear you've been targeted. Thanks for letting me know the talk is useful.

    • @Lolcoca
      @Lolcoca Місяць тому +1

      Just ignore it !
      I think the more you focus on something that you like and want in your life !
      You just don’t have a time to waste it for nonsense thing ! I call it « distraction » . . . Take it as an exercise to focus on yourself !

  • @maggieo6672
    @maggieo6672 Місяць тому +8

    Awesome presentation, I thoroughly enjoyed it. And how true. Thank you for sharing pertinent information, so helpful in moving forward in freedom, without fear of power and control brokers out for themselves, using the likes of corrupt religion, government and war mongers dividing peoples against each other. ❤️🎶🍁

  • @PhoebeFayRuthLouise
    @PhoebeFayRuthLouise Місяць тому +5

    I really appreciate the insights!

  • @deborahs3683
    @deborahs3683 3 дні тому

    such a powerful talk, with so many salient points. Well done🤩

  • @tobypease4990
    @tobypease4990 Місяць тому +2

    Great talk - such an important subject. So well expressed and illustrated. Thank you

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому

      Thanks TP. I’ve always thought the film set was the exemplar of great teamwork and collaboration, despite the sensational horror stories. Choosing you moment, picking your battles. Definitely come to work skills for cinema professionals, don’t you think?

  • @aaronspetersen
    @aaronspetersen Місяць тому +1

    Great presentation, bang on point. Nice one David. Sharing now!

  • @Romans15.32
    @Romans15.32 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you so much. This was a great presentation.

  • @sanskritikalra5751
    @sanskritikalra5751 Місяць тому +18

    Every person in a relationship should watch this 😂

    • @SMALLDANE
      @SMALLDANE Місяць тому +4

      Every parent should see this, too 🙂

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +2

      Thank you. I can’t tell you how much drama I’ve avoided by having an eye on the power dynamics.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +2

      @@SMALLDANE I agree that being explicit about power, in a practical way, helps parents make good decisions about boundaries. It’s ok to be the one in charge, as long as there are times when you’re not.

    • @Chi100Maria
      @Chi100Maria 27 днів тому +1

      And who is Not? We are all In the relationships.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 24 дні тому +1

      @@Chi100Maria agree. Power dynamics are present in every moment in every relationship. Not always toxic or abusive. But always present.

  • @chanelleprice2513
    @chanelleprice2513 Місяць тому +3

    He was spot on !! Thank you, buddy 💜

  • @joshuahutt
    @joshuahutt Місяць тому +3

    I love this talk. The content is matched by the delivery in thoughtfulness, interest, and value.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Joshua. You’ve nailed my ambition for this talk. 🙏

  • @heatherjeanmoyes
    @heatherjeanmoyes Місяць тому +1

    Well done - great insight and presentation - important material.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому

      Thanks Heather Jean. 🙏

  • @lucindaarmour7422
    @lucindaarmour7422 Місяць тому +1

    Hugely insightful...and moving.

  • @pollystigger545
    @pollystigger545 Місяць тому +3

    Excellent, David!! 🙏👏

  • @Srindal4657
    @Srindal4657 Місяць тому +5

    Thought provoking...

  • @browe
    @browe Місяць тому +3

    "Unsubstantiated entitlement" indeed. Reward systems activated. Overreach. We just want them to stop. Stand in inquiry. Hold your ground.

    • @MeRia035
      @MeRia035 Місяць тому +1

      And Speak the Truth.
      Amen
      🙂

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +2

      That’s the best summation. Thank you.

  • @katyhanara
    @katyhanara 26 днів тому +1

    Loved the 'tantrum', ....& how you managed to get up again!!!

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader 9 днів тому

      It was a bit of a struggle 😊

  • @BlakeElliott35
    @BlakeElliott35 Місяць тому +2

    Well said

  • @Michael-qh1ip
    @Michael-qh1ip Місяць тому +1

    Helluva talk 👍🔥

  • @hassnalbaghe7826
    @hassnalbaghe7826 Місяць тому +1

    Thank you darid a the still

  • @BirdnestArquitectura
    @BirdnestArquitectura Місяць тому +1

    Great 👍

  • @drumbum3.142
    @drumbum3.142 Місяць тому +2

    We/A Lot of us are Being Manipulated Now More than (Practically) Ever Before.

  • @ajitrai6160
    @ajitrai6160 Місяць тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @fannydarat3545
    @fannydarat3545 Місяць тому +3

  • @williamkazak469
    @williamkazak469 Місяць тому +2

    Politicians give the war cry and people still go to wars. So very sad. I stopped voting. I am not convinced! Excellent.

    • @MeRia035
      @MeRia035 Місяць тому +1

      I stopped voting as well. Voting changes absolutely nothing (unless it's local for City councils, boards etc.).

  • @lauraw.9876
    @lauraw.9876 Місяць тому

    Artificial Integrity - expose it for what it is and offer suggestions for disarming it...ooh. a major challenge

  • @jordohiz1493
    @jordohiz1493 Місяць тому +1

    "artificial integrity" made me wince. I thought the clickbait title belied matters of determinism & agency. "Hi I'm a theater major, and today, I'm going to talk. People make me feel sad, sometimes." O rly

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому

      😂. Theatre major! Sorry you feel baited. If you'd like to talk about determinism and agency, I'd love to understand your view. How can we discuss agency without recognising the mechanisms and decisions that give a person agency? How can we talk about determinism without addressing the cues for action that give someone the power to determine their future? This isn't the forum of course. I think we live in different worlds and I'd like to understand yours. In my world, I see political leaders hoodwink vast populations, and no one can describe it in a way that puts an end to the nonsense. In our country, we have a huge issue with men killing women, often ex-intimate partners. This Theatre Major wants to shake the tree. Happy to learn from you. Reach out. 🙏

  • @bettyangwenyi1797
    @bettyangwenyi1797 Місяць тому +2

    48 Laws of Power.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому

      Yes. Read it. I’m planning to reach out to Robert Greene to discuss our shared conclusions.

  • @maythamalwabari1531
    @maythamalwabari1531 Місяць тому +1

    nis 👍

  • @landmimes
    @landmimes Місяць тому +3

    What if you're being manipulated by media conglomerates?

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 Місяць тому

      You need to do your own research. But beware, there are a lot of charlatans that have convincing dialogs that are basically not true. Check their credentials, and not just what they claim (plus I have heard supposed experts say factually wrong things).

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +3

      If? That's their prime objective.

  • @suzismith9729
    @suzismith9729 Місяць тому +1

    The 3 card system.

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому

      You got it!
      1. Destabilise
      2. Reassure
      3. Coerce
      Awfully effective when executed well.

  • @hassnalbaghe7826
    @hassnalbaghe7826 Місяць тому +2

    Ervery peeson in relationship should watsh this

  • @World_cities_nature
    @World_cities_nature Місяць тому +2

    Assalomu alaykum from uzbekistan 😊

  • @piku5637
    @piku5637 Місяць тому +8

    Normalize Ⓐctive labour unions and worker owned companies. Democratize🗳️💙the workplace. Workers make society run, workers should run society☭.🌸🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

    • @user-jc6ki7vx3r
      @user-jc6ki7vx3r Місяць тому

      Oh yeah soviet union, gulag, concentration camps, holodomor starving to death 6 million people in one year, thats what you want

  • @mariaantoniettamontella9173
    @mariaantoniettamontella9173 21 день тому

    applausi

  • @Phoenix56801
    @Phoenix56801 Місяць тому

    No wtf, I'm not being manipulated m

    • @creeib
      @creeib Місяць тому +4

      People who can't see it, are most likely to be affected 👍

    • @stephaneboisjoli1320
      @stephaneboisjoli1320 Місяць тому +1

      If you cannot see the power lines they are probably tugging at you. There's so many different goals requiring people to do different things... It's almost guaranteed.

  • @flyboymic7182
    @flyboymic7182 Місяць тому

    We’re all slaves

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому

      Unless we exercise freedom by holding ground when the tyrant commands

  • @DeeTeaDee
    @DeeTeaDee Місяць тому +1

    Christ that was patronisingly dull

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +4

      Sorry Dee. At least you won't have to watch it again. (Please don't call me Christ.) 😉

    • @DeeTeaDee
      @DeeTeaDee Місяць тому

      @@coupleader didn’t watch it. It was in my ears at work

    • @MeRia035
      @MeRia035 Місяць тому +2

      ​@@DeeTeaDeeI thought it was more interesting than most Ted talks. He incorporated much gesticulating.& physical movement 🙂 So yes it's different watching vs listening, imo.

    • @lucindaarmour7422
      @lucindaarmour7422 Місяць тому

      Introvert triggered by watching it and another commenting after listening to a physical presentation. Ok then.

    • @pinkpanther6228
      @pinkpanther6228 Місяць тому

      @@lucindaarmour7422 why did you say that Lucy?😥😓

  • @user-jc6ki7vx3r
    @user-jc6ki7vx3r Місяць тому

    Omg, speculative talking with no real point

    • @coupleader
      @coupleader Місяць тому +1

      My point? Be aware. Your post could be described as the action "to belittle", or to "dismiss". It's easy to play simple dismissive psychological actions from the bunker of anonymity provided by online communications. Build the habit of being reckless with your actions, and you might damage important relationships. Is that who you want to be? Probably not. That's my point.
      Does this feel like a slap-down? Sorry. Not my intent. When preparing the talk, I was super aware of everything I couldn't go into in 15 minutes. It's only possible to go from speculation to decisive action with a conversation, not a talk. Happy to have one with you, if you're interested.