Mom refuses to give up on daughter put on life support after car crash

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  • Peggy Means' only daughter was in a coma with virtually no chance of ever coming out of it, doctors told her. And yet, Means refused to let them pull the plug. Steve Hartman has the incredible story in "On the Road."
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 140

  • @AnnaAtl
    @AnnaAtl 27 днів тому +123

    That’s a MOTHER right there.❤

  • @reallovechannel1309
    @reallovechannel1309 27 днів тому +96

    Mom had a feeling not to give up. She felt it !!!
    I wish we all did that for each other!!!

  • @kadeishapinnock-blagrove4449
    @kadeishapinnock-blagrove4449 27 днів тому +77

    The genuine love of a mother is unmatched by any other human. God bless them both ❤

  • @SighDown
    @SighDown 27 днів тому +98

    I did the same for my mother after the whole family had given up on her after a bad car accident. The doctors had told us she was brain dead and I told them that wasn’t true, and six weeks later, she woke up out of her coma.

    • @CruzCruz-nw7fi
      @CruzCruz-nw7fi 23 дні тому +2

      Guess the brain heals

    • @selectiveapathy
      @selectiveapathy 16 днів тому +2

      Somehow still bound to a wheelchair huh? Yeah that sounds like a depressing life you set her up for. Im sure your mother sees herself more as a burden than really being “thankful” the plug wasnt pulled.

    • @selectiveapathy
      @selectiveapathy 16 днів тому +2

      @@CruzCruz-nw7fi tell that to people who suffered traumatic brain injuries… see how well they can live their lives with newly “healed” brain.

    • @collettemcpherson2807
      @collettemcpherson2807 14 днів тому +1

      ​@@selectiveapathyare you God to determine she is better dead than alive

    • @vintage6346
      @vintage6346 7 днів тому

      ​@@collettemcpherson2807
      Ten yers ago, I survived a car accident as a paraplegic and missing one leg. I'm so glad I survived. I'd been in the cult called Jehovah's Witnesses all my life. But five years ago, I woke up from that horrible mind-control. Better late than never.

  • @earlineprice9374
    @earlineprice9374 26 днів тому +108

    It's so wrong that her husband left her and moved on with his life and also so sad that her friends stop coming to see her. You don't need people like that in your life.

    • @selectiveapathy
      @selectiveapathy 16 днів тому +11

      The world doesnt stop for you nor anyone. So why should an individual put a pause on their life simply because you lack coping skills?
      Husband got tired of being with a woman who had obviously already given up on their marriage since the only focus was the disabled daughter. Friends arent required to go with you to visit YOUR family. In some situations, hospitals will only allow visits from immediate relatives.

    • @wendysnyder6443
      @wendysnyder6443 16 днів тому +2

      You certainly do not!!! So much for loyalty! 🙄 It’s like the Bible says: “The love of the greater number has cooled off.” So sad, yet still very true unfortunately. 😢

    • @swallowedinthesea11
      @swallowedinthesea11 15 днів тому +2

      @@selectiveapathy Is you mad?

    • @DebbieJune
      @DebbieJune 15 днів тому +2

      @@selectiveapathyfeelings are not like a faucet you can’t just shut them off and if you’re able to do that then there were never feelings there in the first place. None of my Mom’s friends came to see her or even ask how she was and I don’t speak to any of them anymore. They sure loved my Mom when she was healthy and well and could do favors for them. This is why I have no use for people today it’s just ice cold to have an attitude like that towards people who through no fault of their own have found themselves in this situation😡

    • @ABSG7
      @ABSG7 15 днів тому +2

      Nothing greater than a mother’s love. A good mother, that is.

  • @juliebailey9254
    @juliebailey9254 27 днів тому +39

    Happy Mother's Day

  • @Lisa_5591
    @Lisa_5591 27 днів тому +40

    I love this beautiful story!❤

  • @Darci3333
    @Darci3333 27 днів тому +24

    Now thats a true Mothers love❤❤❤❤❤

  • @judil3294
    @judil3294 23 дні тому +27

    Similar thing happened to a friend. Docs said no hope and that he was brain dead. Family had him moved back to US hospital near home. With years of hard work and a couple brain surgeries, he learned everything all over, finished college, sings with choirs, gives talks both motivational and for the church. Never underestimate God and a mother's love.

  • @stevi6236
    @stevi6236 27 днів тому +18

    The power of love…amazing Mom! There are angels among us…..this Mom is definitely an angel❤️blessings to these wonderful women❣️

  • @itazuranakisu
    @itazuranakisu 27 днів тому +24

    It must I’ve been heartbreaking for the mom each time she went to the hospital but she kept going and kept believing. She was allowing her daughter to make the decision to live or not (body shutting down or not). If she had pulled the plug I feel like she would’ve spent a long time wondering “if I held on for one more day” or “did I do the right thing”.

  • @ladybug2681
    @ladybug2681 27 днів тому +26

    God has blessed you both 😊

  • @alexg5457
    @alexg5457 24 дні тому +10

    Is anybody else brought to tears by this segment or am I just a softy?

  • @metoo6599
    @metoo6599 26 днів тому +15

    Welcome back Jennifer ❤ you are blessed ❤

  • @thegatesofdawn...1386
    @thegatesofdawn...1386 27 днів тому +13

    Bless her heart! 🙏 Good mom.
    Happy mother's day.

  • @elizabethbrauer1118
    @elizabethbrauer1118 24 дні тому +8

    Amazing love + patience = a daughter brought back from the brink!! God bless this mom. ❣

  • @shoshannafachima1306
    @shoshannafachima1306 23 дні тому +9

    This proves that one should never ever give up.❤❤

  • @amandahumphreyshultz9010
    @amandahumphreyshultz9010 20 днів тому +5

    I've seen this before my next door neighbors son was in a coma and he woke up thank God that she kept him on life support because he is still here thank God for moms

  • @bartinadikgale1832
    @bartinadikgale1832 19 днів тому +8

    Wooow what a mother.God bless her.The boys are enjoying their mom now and her mom too.She also feel loved and special

  • @nmikali3848
    @nmikali3848 27 днів тому +32

    Wow what a story of love and tenacity, perserverance❤

  • @CatholicForever1
    @CatholicForever1 27 днів тому +25

    I wonder how many people who could have recovered were taken off life support because they were given a grim prognosis. I think that in a few years we will find out that a lot of patients could have made if if they were given enough time and a lot of care

    • @ontoyoualways9183
      @ontoyoualways9183 19 днів тому +1

      If this were me, I wouldn't rather not live this kind of life. For me, the kind thing to do is to let me go

    • @thanos34362
      @thanos34362 17 днів тому +1

      @@ontoyoualways9183 same here, she will basically need 24-hour care which the burden will now transfer to her kids once the mom pass away. That is unless they out her in a nursing home

  • @silviatrevino3138
    @silviatrevino3138 27 днів тому +12

    May God bless her and her family ❤🙏

  • @markbrookes6557
    @markbrookes6557 25 днів тому +6

    Wasn't quite expecting the overwhelming feeling I got from this! Beautiful!!!

  • @clinicaleducators5160
    @clinicaleducators5160 17 днів тому +2

    A mother’s unconditional love. ❤️

  • @luannestrickland4199
    @luannestrickland4199 24 дні тому +4

    What a true mom! So glad they have each other!❤

  • @tobydandelion
    @tobydandelion 24 дні тому +5

    Why do doctors hate keeping people on life support so bad? What's the harm with waiting? Horrifying to think how often we'd have stories like this if docs didn't push for pulling the plug/feeding tube so early so often.

  • @FredRios-vw1ee
    @FredRios-vw1ee 18 днів тому +2

    Goes withou saying...may God bless her mom...what incredible duo❤

  • @gracie2298
    @gracie2298 26 днів тому +5

    You most Certainly hear when you are in a coma! 60 days, three hospitals later I was home after being t-boned by Tyler Wilson. I wish him Karma everyday, cause my poor body was left side crushed. He lied about having permission to drive his friend’s pick-up. He put his cooler in the back of my car & was sitting in my backseat when state cop pulled up. He stole items too. A conversation with a hospital employee a few weeks later brought what a neighbor said back to me while in a coma. I unfortunately moved here, healthcare is a joke. My life will never be the same, however seeing this puts it in perspective!

  • @BananaSoldier1234
    @BananaSoldier1234 26 днів тому +10

    The definition of stick to your gut. What a beautiful story

  • @JackieScoggins
    @JackieScoggins 26 днів тому +5

    Hello from Chattanooga Tennessee. That's the best mother's day is your children ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊

  • @TheOneinthewoods
    @TheOneinthewoods 27 днів тому +8

    Happy mothers day jennifer ❤

  • @montythepoodlepup9634
    @montythepoodlepup9634 26 днів тому +2

    Onwards and upwards beautiful family, am in awe,! Best wishes from UK 🇬🇧 😊

  • @shannonmora9244
    @shannonmora9244 13 днів тому

    Nothing like a Mother’s love for her children ❤️❤️ so very very happy for your family 🙏🏻🙏🏻 God Bless you all!!

  • @dishish
    @dishish 26 днів тому +1

    this is amazing...and also upsetting as I remember how adamant the doctor was to remove my brother from life support before even 24 hours had passed.

  • @karladuncan4026
    @karladuncan4026 18 днів тому +1

    God bless her and you all! ❤

  • @af3790
    @af3790 26 днів тому +1

    Amazing story yet she was able to see her mom❤

  • @anthonyyabuyabuyabu5177
    @anthonyyabuyabuyabu5177 26 днів тому +2

    Oh men you make me cry

  • @peanut8272
    @peanut8272 21 день тому +1

    LORD please bless this family... Give this beautiful woman total Restoration in the face of mankind.... Show the world once again that Nothing is impossible with U. Hallelujah.

  • @gatorbling
    @gatorbling 25 днів тому

    There is no love like a mother love for her daughter! God bless her and your family!!😍🙏🏾

  • @sherriejohnson688
    @sherriejohnson688 24 дні тому

    I was so moved by this mother's incredible resilience. As a mother, I recently wrote a book about my two children and their near-death experiences at different times. Doctors had me bring in end-of-life for my children. I could not, did not give up. I believe I have shared this mother's many emotions of despair, worry, extreme sadness, helplessness, and fear. The hours, days, & weeks by a child's bedside allows ample time for thoughts & prayer. Near Death by Fire and Ice is a quick read, full of miracles & hope.

  • @calvingaston7934
    @calvingaston7934 17 днів тому +1

    That’s a MOTHERS LOVE!

  • @WinstonOnBoard
    @WinstonOnBoard 25 днів тому

    Happy Mother’s Day. Great mother and best friend

  • @murraycutler9594
    @murraycutler9594 25 днів тому

    What a wonderful mom. I hope her daughter continues to improve.

  • @Bowser14456
    @Bowser14456 22 дні тому

    My mom had a friend like this. Was in a bad car accident and afterwards couldn't move, talk or anything. She just passed away a couple months ago.

  • @nlp6082
    @nlp6082 25 днів тому

    Wow! This is such a wonderful story ❤‼️

  • @myraselby9947
    @myraselby9947 17 днів тому

    Pretty lady, she's truly blessed. Continued prayers

  • @localshroomlover
    @localshroomlover 10 днів тому

    Oh my god it would have been so heartbreaking to stay in a coma, worrying about when your life is going to end from the plug. And even worse, her busband left her... 😢... Im so glad she had a beautiful soul of a mom.

  • @jarettc.2500
    @jarettc.2500 14 днів тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤😢😢😢 this is so damn beautiful a story of a great mothers undying love n support for her offspring 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @jennychurchill2716
    @jennychurchill2716 15 днів тому

    Incredible .Hope she continues to improve!

  • @lovewillwinnn
    @lovewillwinnn 27 днів тому +3

    “In sickness and in health”. Well he was a wrong choice anyway. 👋

  • @PracticalPerry
    @PracticalPerry 21 день тому

    God bless this mother, her daughter and their family. juSt woW.

  • @Loveroffood41
    @Loveroffood41 26 днів тому +1

    Its amazing how the brain can heal.

  • @googlenutzer3998
    @googlenutzer3998 6 днів тому

    She did what every Mama would do!

  • @gaijinguineapig
    @gaijinguineapig 27 днів тому +1

    Steve, I'm gonna need you to give me at least one episode where I don't cry, or feel the need to cry like a baby. Just one! Jokes aside, this is the best series period. My heart is full.

  • @user-yd1du5ny2i
    @user-yd1du5ny2i День тому

    I was in a medically induced coma for over a month in 2013 due to injuries that sustained in a car accident, this resulted in me breaking my femurs and my hips and pelvis. However nearly 11 years later, I obviously am awake again, I've graduated college and I have a steady boyfriend of over 4 years.

  • @nancydavis4618
    @nancydavis4618 9 днів тому

    Who is going to pay the hospital bill?

  • @loloca
    @loloca 26 днів тому

    A true Mothers love ❤️!!!!!

  • @sandyjuntunen4088
    @sandyjuntunen4088 24 дні тому +1

    There's no telling how many have died bc doctors give up! My dad would have died 3 times before his time if we had listened to Dr's!

  • @carmelwilliams5594
    @carmelwilliams5594 23 дні тому

    There's is no manual written to tell a Mother how to Love there Child or Children 👍🏻👍🏻❤❤

  • @beth6288
    @beth6288 21 день тому +1

    Absolutely beautiful 💞✌

  • @linneymlabrador
    @linneymlabrador 12 днів тому

    Mother knows best

  • @kimgiannotti7693
    @kimgiannotti7693 14 днів тому

    My girlfriends daughter has been in coma 8 years

  • @paulazemeckis7835
    @paulazemeckis7835 20 днів тому

    I wish my mother was like this one!

  • @yeorges
    @yeorges 23 дні тому

    god bless this family

  • @juliebowers550
    @juliebowers550 25 днів тому

    God Bless❤

  • @veronicalombardi2443
    @veronicalombardi2443 26 днів тому +1

    WOW !

  • @HS2ND
    @HS2ND 24 дні тому

    Really wonderful.

  • @kaisaan5
    @kaisaan5 21 день тому

    There's NOTHING like a mother's love nothing

  • @Droogs
    @Droogs 24 дні тому

    ❤️Never give up on Love❤️

  • @bettybelongia7213
    @bettybelongia7213 27 днів тому

    ❤❤😢😢

  • @sophiaduarte745
    @sophiaduarte745 19 днів тому

    She has a Good Mom.❤

  • @kellyoyen3421
    @kellyoyen3421 9 днів тому

    How has she been doing?

  • @marytalmi6641
    @marytalmi6641 23 дні тому

    Incredible

  • @sandrakirk4781
    @sandrakirk4781 27 днів тому +3

    You give the thanks and glory to God because God gets the glory for not allowing her to be taken from you. He brought her back to you. I could not have my life without the Lord in it. God is good all the time and all the time God is good and he works miracles. If you just give yourself over to him I’m so happy for you and for your daughter. God bless you both.🙏

  • @pourquoipas971
    @pourquoipas971 7 днів тому

    Well that is why it is important to talk deeply when you are healthy… i would not like to be ressucitated in that terrible condition .. my 35 yo daughter idem…

  • @warrior4ever731
    @warrior4ever731 19 днів тому

    They can HEAR IN THE COMA

  • @christopherroy9440
    @christopherroy9440 19 днів тому

    Yay! Never give up!

  • @patriciacatino3891
    @patriciacatino3891 16 днів тому

    A miracle from God🙏

  • @karronlaneNOLA
    @karronlaneNOLA 24 дні тому

    yes!!!!

  • @chasych7575
    @chasych7575 18 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @audraarndt1824
    @audraarndt1824 26 днів тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @joycebryant3261
    @joycebryant3261 21 день тому

    God is good!❤❤❤😊

  • @johnd.5601
    @johnd.5601 27 днів тому +9

    As a person who had his life saved. My advice would be to pull the plug. That is what I wish someone would have told the doctors for me. There is no chance to recover from anything in America! It is impossible. She is wearing a mask just like I do. I look OK on the outside, and I can walk and take care of myself.
    The real problems exist in working and living in a paranoid world and an extremely aggressive work ethic in America! Taxes are outrageously aggressive and extremely difficult to keep up with. Being single means you pay the maximum amount in gut wrenching Taxes and almost always owe more, even claiming 0! I can't get a loan because of bad credit, but I have 0 debt. Please, if any family members have to go through this, pull the plug. Don't make someone wear one of these awful masks because it sucks not being able to recover or even recognize yourself.

    • @DavidMiller-kf1ss
      @DavidMiller-kf1ss 27 днів тому +4

      Hugs!❤

    • @mandybradley3079
      @mandybradley3079 27 днів тому +4

      You being real and honest says what a wonderful person you are. Life is difficult for everyone. It’s just too difficult to move forward sometimes.
      If I didn’t have my faith I would be depressed.

    • @pegs1659
      @pegs1659 27 днів тому +2

      I have to agree with you. I'm so sorry that this has happened to you. I have told my children that after 2 weeks on LS let me go.

  • @stephaniemartin8744
    @stephaniemartin8744 20 днів тому

    ❤❤🙏🏽

  • @aliciaguidry466
    @aliciaguidry466 25 днів тому

    Praise God Praise God and praise God amen God bless them both in His love God bless

  • @kimgiannotti7693
    @kimgiannotti7693 14 днів тому

    She comes in from Florida once a month

  • @mickaelavalentina6279
    @mickaelavalentina6279 10 днів тому

    A mothers love ❤

  • @nicolehutchinson5453
    @nicolehutchinson5453 23 дні тому

    Sorry to say Jennifer can hear while she's in a coma
    As long as her spirit is still in her body!

  • @zoeilobowdery8778
    @zoeilobowdery8778 14 днів тому

    I had septisemia as a result of chemo drugs rotting my bowel and stomach as I had leukaemia I was in a coma doctors said nothing could be done my mum said I will make it and I did🇬🇧🇫🇴

  • @karenrich9092
    @karenrich9092 26 днів тому +1

    This is truly a wonderful mother's day story. And as always, Steve Hartman brings me to tears. He must have stock in Kleenex or something.

  • @iamthirdyt
    @iamthirdyt 24 дні тому

    How did she pay for it?

  • @angellabeckford2747
    @angellabeckford2747 20 днів тому +1

    Beautiful story, i am one person who doesn't believe in pulling the plug on anyone. We are not God.

  • @jamesjimmy1953
    @jamesjimmy1953 27 днів тому +3

    Who's cutting onions???

  • @CruzCruz-nw7fi
    @CruzCruz-nw7fi 23 дні тому

    Beautiful amazing ❤

  • @mandybradley3079
    @mandybradley3079 27 днів тому +1

    Who is raising her kids?

    • @weebunny
      @weebunny 25 днів тому

      Maybe their dad? Or maybe they're grown now. Just speculating.

  • @jeanfarrell8017
    @jeanfarrell8017 22 дні тому

    Wow

  • @allisonlew4508
    @allisonlew4508 18 днів тому

    Whatever Jennifer's wishes were - her wishes should gave been followed.

  • @beatrixvandermerwe2860
    @beatrixvandermerwe2860 19 днів тому

    And the daughter quality of life???

  • @kennethlui2268
    @kennethlui2268 14 днів тому

    Great love conquers it.

  • @lizmrjas5352
    @lizmrjas5352 27 днів тому +1

    ❤️❤️❤️🏆🏆🏆✅✅✅💯💯💯💐💐💐