Alone In The Operating Room
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Today was another difficult day for Ellie. Getting a D&C (Dilation and Curettage) is not the most fun thing to have. Luckily, she's on the mend already. Thank you guys for the support.
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We love you and we're grateful for you. I know we've said it so much, but your words and kindness have helped us. Thank you for being with our family during this time.
Ellie and Jared Hope Ellie feels better soon xxxxx❤️❤️
Ellie and Jared I love you guys so much I pray for you guys every night 💖xoxo
Ellie and Jared you guys are such an amazing family! My heart goes out for you guys ❤️
Hope you feel better soon Ellie, My prayers are with you 💕
We're grateful for you guys! Listen to King of my heart! It has encouraged me in diffiuclt times!
okay so how do i find myself a jared
Elise Wheeler 😀me too!!💓
You join the Mormon church, say your prayers and live it.
Join the Mormon church ☺️ this is how most true Mormon men are.
Let's ask Ellie :)
I have a Jared. Although he is more like Joel, Bonnie' s husband who may not do the big showy gestures but shows by his actions every day how much he adores her.
Didn't meet my husband at church, just through friends. You can find good men everywhere
To all the People out there, find yourself a 'Jared'. Someone who will take care of you and love you no matter what. I love you Ellie an Jared
Dogs are so comfortable to have around when dealing with situations like this, they comfort you, I've been In your shoes back 2009 ,also when in lost my dad last year my dogs help me so much on the depression and anxiety god bless you both
I pray your next pregnancy goes to full term and is healthy! Perhaps this procedure was needed from the get go, so baby has healthy tissue to hang on to ❤️❤️❤️
Angelleb05 exactly!
I don't think I've ever cried harder before.I'm so sorry Ellie... Stay strong💖 I'll be praying!
I am so unbelievably sorry for your loss my heart aches for you as I know how hard it is to lose a baby. I wish I could hug you through the screen!
I just love bonnie!!! Never a dull moment with this amazing family...
This had me crying so hard💔 sending love to you guys
Love you both and stay strong. Lots of prayers to you and your family
My heart is breaking for you guys, stay strong you are in our prayers.
I am so sorry you guys my love and prayers are with you! 😭
I can not tell you how much this video broke my heart.
i am so very sorry for your loss. it is heartbreaking. but have faith you will have more. i had a misscarriage at 14 weeks . then i had an horrific ectopic pregnancy and was given a 5pr cent chance of ever falling pregnant again
i had my daughter now 18 another misscarriage at 17 weeks which made me suffer deep depression. i was beyond devastated. then follows another 2 beautuful girls. so NEVER GIVE UP HOPE. GIVE YOURSELF TIME TO GRIEVE AND HEAL. TIME WILL HEAL. . I BET YOU DO HAVE ANOTHER ONE . IF NOT YOU HAVE 2 GORGEOUS SONS. GOD BLESS YOU ALL. I WISH YOU HEALTH LOVE AND HAPPINESS.
That is painful Ellie I hope you feel better soon and that me sad
I am so very sorry for your loss girlie. I had a ectopic pregnancy in August and had to have methotrexate injections. It's ok to be sad and angry. It was a baby and it is ok to mourn the loss. Hugs girlie
this feels terible i hope that ellie will feel better and may God bless them and guide them feel better❤️😘💕💕
This broke my heart you...I'm sorry you went through this
I'm so sorry Ellie
Ellie I had this D&C proccedure before my first baby and the doctors say that it helped me to get pregnant because my uterus got really clean and ready. So , think positive!! There is always a bright side in everything. I had to wait six months before try again, but when we did, it was definitive. My baby is almost two years old now and I´m pregnant again. Oh! And just for the record, I have PCOs too.
You are in our prayers every day.
I’ve been watching your vlogs since I was a teenager and It’s been a few years. Right now I’m 20years old adult and I could speak and use English comfortably. I have never been to the other country to learn English I only learned it through E+J vlogs. First of all I am so thankful for Jesus who gave me this ability and thank you Ellie and Jared. I feel like I grew up and still growing up with Jackson and Calvin. I sent you dm and emails few times to say thankyou but somehow you didn’t check those out so I’m leaving a comment here. Thank you. Thank you so much. I will use this ability for any other people who needs Jesus in Jesus name. Thank you so much Ellie and Jared!!
Aww sooo cute when jared give her pizza
Broke my heart
Im so sorry😓💗
Makes me sad for them
This whole video is just full of true love! So beautiful 💕
Xoxo my thoughts are with you!!
Wow hearing her cry like that was really painful
That dent in the wall looks a lot like a semi colon. A semi colon is used when an author could've ended his sentence but chose not to. I think this is gods sign that your sentence isn't over, it's just beginning. Praying for your family.
I was just going to point that out. Glad someone else noticed it too!
I noticed too. I have a semi colon tattoo for this reason... 8 years ttc baby number 1. 5 miscarriages and 2 D&Cs. We couldn't afford IVF so we gave up. I fell into a dark dark place and the semi colon project got me through x
cute!!!!! I agree
Loring Toney that was such a pound
Profound statement, loved it made me tear up.
Because I'm not christian I dont believe it but I still think thats the cutest thing ever
I'm tearing up as Ellie sobs that she was alone. I hate seeing her so sad because I can't reach through the screen and hug her.
Ashley Vandersteen I understand what you mean! My heart just broke for her.
Ashley Vandersteen Ik this is late but I was confused on why she was there
Kenzie Vlogs she had a miscarriage and they were doing a D & C
*Felt
Ashley Vandersteen I know what you mean I'm crying
Can't begin to imagine all the mixed emotions you're going through. Please don't feel obligated to vlog if you're not up for it, we all understand and are here for you always! Stay strong ❤️
Completely agree. If you need it, please, please take time for yourselves.
I totally agree. If you decide to take a break we will all be here when you guys come back.
SweetTreats totally agree! Just take your time.And rest! Do whatever makes you happy
SweetTreats You are so right Ellie I understand what you are going though my first ever baby had to leave the world called earth as well :( If you need time off you take it,Heck if you need to take a month off take a month off... take as much time off that you need.
what does ellie have again that makes is hard for her to have babies, i forgot
The raw emotion in the vlogs lately is beautiful. Ellie flipping off the camera is perfect. We wouldn't want it any other way. I can't imagine how you're feeling but we all love you so much ❤️
my first three pregnancies ended this way... my fourth pregnancy ended with a beautiful baby girl that was still. :( I almost gave up. I took a break for a couple of years and now I have four amazing kids, and two grand babies. Ellie you are beautiful, brave, kind,strong, and loving. I know you'll have another little one running around the house soon. Give your mind, body, and spirit a little time to heal.
Linda this is so sweet and beautiful! 😍💖
And i'm so glad that now you have kids,i really hope they are healthy and happy.. 😙 you're best mommy ever! 💖
I couldn't hold in the tears. Jared is the BEST husband and comforter I need someone like him!
The mark on your wall looks like a semi colon and a semi colon means that you could have ended but chose to keep going. You are so strong and we all love you keep your head up and I pray that good things head your way soon ❤💕
celine k I love this.
celine k i didnt get it how the mark came there?
Marloes one day she threw the camera at the wall and the camera left a mark on her wall
Totally thought the same thing
celine k this comment is so beautiful and has me sobbing
Oh, sweet Ellie! I know you wanted Jared to be by your side during the procedure but just know we are all with you through this thing. All of your emotions are valid and I admire your vulnerability. You are amazing, woman!
mckinley darling I
mckinley darling your right
mckinley darling what was actually happening I haven't watched in 2 years
Super cute pugs And unicorns 101! Well she had a miscarriage and had to get a procedure done to get rid of excess lining,etc from inside her from the incomplete pregnancy....what are you doing not watching E&J for 2 years?? Sounds to me like you need to catch up again lol
mckinley darling I
Broke my heart watching this. I literally had to stop watching and just bawled. Such a strong woman.
This makes me heart hurt so much 😭
Emma Wiley, 😢😭😦🙁
Emma Wiley ikr I almost cried when she was crying.
I feel for you. my second pregnancy I had a misscarrage of twin girls, I was 6 months pregnant but they stopped growing at 4 months(the doctors didn't know)(30years ago). I was all by my self because my husband couldn't deal with it and left for 2 weeks, I also had a 1 year old. Prayers to you sweet Ellie. I went on to have 2 more boys and a little girl. God has a plan we just don't know.
Jean Lee Sorry to hear that, but what a man is he that he left you when you needed him the most? I dont understand such people :(
That is heartbreaking! I am so sorry!
Jean Lee I'm so sorry for the pain you had to deal with during your loss. My son stopped growing too. I was 8 months along and I was also alone. Mine couldn't break away from work; he said he was too busy. It's utter agony to be so alone and I have a feeling that there are more women out there in the situation you and I were in. I'm so thankful that Ellie has such a wonderful and caring husband in Jared. He's one special guy.
Jean Lee I'm so sorry to hear that
I'm amazed at your guys' vulnerability in letting us be there with you after, letting us see your anger and your grief. My heart breaks for you Ellie, I'm so sorry you had to be alone in that room, I could feel the pain in your voice in my gut; I hope this never happens to you again. I hope you feel God's comfort and peace and contentment despite it all.
And added note, or question ... Do you guys have any idea what the cause has been for your 2 miscarriages? I'm not sure if it's possible to figure that out but I just wondered ...
Zoe Tuinman Ellie has PCOS. Xo
Ellie my heart just breaks for you. I wish I could just hug you and hug you some more. You are so strong and honestly just an amazing mother to your boys and incredible wife to Jared. Your strength is that I only dream of having. You both are such amazing people and I know only good will head your way. Char and I love you both. Please don't ever hesitate to reach out. Love, hugs, and beautiful vibes your way
Thank you!
Not a dry eye made it through this video
Kelly Munz Agreed, I cried with her but I know it will get better for her.
Your little "battle wound" on your wall is a semicolon. So it's awesome, it's a sign that this isn't the end of your story, and not the end of babies. You got this, mama. You are going through so much, but you are so strong. ❤️
Brooke T what is that mark
How did it came there
She threw the camera at the wall. She said it in the video....
Oh my gosh yes! I'm so glad you noticed it's a semicolon:) That's so sweet
And she is pregnant again!!!
Continued prayers for your family. My 2 year old saw me watching this video and said "That mama has a hurt heart. Her heart hurt." His sweet words surprised me. He went on to say "That daddy gives her nice kisses and hugs!" You do have a wonderful husband and family to support you. Sending you lots of love from my family.
What a sweet boy! Thanks for sharing this. = )
Ellie and Jared ❤❤❤❤❤
Awwww. I love this. You have such a sweet baby
I'm so heart broken for you, I remember the pain after the operation....both physically and mentally. I remember that feeling when I came round crying my eyes out, telling the nurse it hurt where my baby was, hating the fact that they made me do it alone. That pain trying to pee afterwards and needing to pee every 5 seconds because of the fluids they put through the IV. In the UK they call it an Evacuation of retained products of conception...such a delightful name.
Let the anger out Ellie....that's what ruined my marriage, trying to be strong and holding it all in. The tender moments with the boys kissing you at the beginning was so lovely. I don't have any kids and I know they must give you comfort, pour your love into them and Jared. And don't worry about us.....take a break if you need to! Prayers are with you xxxxxxx
my prayers are for you as well. Blessings and Love. Karen
I hope you get better soon Ellie
Nellie, I am so sorry for your loss, and how it affected your life. My thoughts are with you x
You have a fantastic family and friends and they are all supporting you when you need them. I thought it was lovely that Bonnie and Joel wanted to be there when you got home. You are both loved so much by your beautiful boys, and it was a special time with them at the beginning of this vlog. It was wonderful to be able to see that. You both love each other so much, and that is so very clear to see.
Penny loves you all unconditionally, what a sweet dog she is, and it shows how much you love her, when you wished for her to be with you Ellie.
My heart breaks seeing you both at this sad time, but know that we are all with you. You let us into your life on a daily basis, which takes a lot of guts. I will always be here supporting you from the UK, please accept my best wishes for now and the future.
Sleep and rest easy Ellie, I know Jared will look after you, as he loves so much and your beautiful boys adore their wonderful mum.
Both of you take as much time as you need to. Xxx
Kind wishes
Avril Xxx
This is one thing I fear in marriage and having kids. But I know God is on my side.
I know, right me too!! I'd have to have a C-section. I got a divorce so my ex could have children with somebody else.
God is on Ellie side too.. this isn't a punishment from God. there is a plan for all of this. her rainbow 🌈is coming and it will be amazing all in God's timing
AMEN I AGREE
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Alexa I agree with you in the name of jesus!
Ive been here done that with a miscarriage in 2005. So sorry, I KNOW its HARD :(
I woke up CRYING as well after my D&C :( So sorry
May i ask what it is?
I feel your pain. I've had two miscarriages and they are the worst things I would ever go through.
5timesthefun please sub to autumn the gymnast
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Ellie: *has an operation and cries for a long time and still looks flawless*
Me:* Only cries and is so ugly*
YO you re so pretty Ellie!!!☀️🌹
When i saw ellie cry it broke my heart into pieces
Audrey Serrano Vlogs I know :( I lost it when I saw/heard her. So sorry for their loss.
My son (4.5) and I watch your videos together every day and we both cried watching this. I am so sorry you are going through this. Lots of love and hugs to all of you ❤️
Brynn Roemer did your son understand what was going on?
Lilly Brock i was suprised she put her middle finger up arnt they Mormon?
Ari Pag Yeah, but even Mormons make mistakes once in a while. Thanks 4 warning me.
Ari Pag Mormons aren't perfect and flipping off isn't against anything we teach . We just try not to
Starbucks Queen yes because he asked me a lot of questions and I answered them honestly.
I think we are seeing a side of Ellie she never shares, like admitting to throwing the camera, giving the middle finger, etc. I feel like they aren't themselves on the regular vlogs.
Amie Lawson i think they are everything. Getting true those emotions and having so much pain brings up another side like anger and pain.
I think that we all just have a lot of sides to each of us. The vulnerable sides are hard to share. I'm grateful she chose to share hers on this day.
💞
They are the themselves in all of these videos, however going through multiple miscarriages change you and you definitely go through a huge roller coaster of emotions. It was brave and amazing of them to show the reality of these emotions. I know as I am experiencing my second miscarriage right now.
Ellie is just so beautiful. I love how you threw your camera and flipped us off. I just love the realness of this. I am so sorry for your loss and I am so angry with you. I love you and your beautiful family
I cried so much watching this! Hardest thing anyone would have to do. Im sorry Ellie they didnt let Jared with you. I love you guys and sending you all lots of love.
This has been the most heartbreaking video I've seen of Ellie and Jared :(
i never seen Ellie cry that much before poor Ellie God bless you
oh my god, what a throwback. I had D&C 2015 and have had 2 babies since, but honestly? It still hurts when seeing things like this. Ellie you are a lovely and strong woman. Sending you lots of love!
It sucks. I've been there and it is not fun. It feels like insult to injury when you have to have your baby physically taken from you while you're unconscious. I'm so sorry for you both and for your family. I hope the Lord has more babies planned for your family.
who else cried for the whole vlog and got pissed off at those doctors for not letting jared go in?
bonnie is so adorable! it seems just like shes being protective and looking out for her youngest sister😭😍💕
I had 7 miscarriages and people would say the most thoughtless things (like "Your young, you can try again once you've healed") thinking that they were being supportive but in reality they added to the pain because they didn't allow me to mourn the loss.
Virginia
Clearbrook MN
Wow! That’s rude. So sorry to hear that! My aunt had a ton of miscarriages. My mom had one right before I was born. I was basically a miracle baby because when my mom found out, they thought it wasn’t gonna happen (kinda like what happened with Jackson) so ya know.
I have had several as well and in my religion, the husband is not in the room for miscarriages, D&C or childbirth. I did it alone every time and it actually angers me to the point of tears to see Ellie behave this way when she had her husband at the hospital waiting with her and supporting her. Miscarriage was a very normal part of life up until the last several years. Our grandmothers and great grandmothers probably all had miscarriages and have lost newborns and they did it alone. There are fewer miscarriages now, but they still exist. We don't all get the benefit of being coddled like this. I had my last miscarriage on a Saturday night and was back to serving my husband, making him breakfast on Sunday morning. This woman's lifestyle is so pampered and cushy. I've never even been on a vacation or have gone out since I'm married. My husband doesn't believe in birth control or divorce. I am stuck in this life because of an arranged marriage. Yes I'm angry at what some people take for granted.
C B things will change to the better wait for it and I will keep u in my prayers
@@SomewhereInTheMaidenverse Here we go again with religion.
The heartbreak in this video is so raw and true. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Waking up alone after any surgery is always the worst for me. Hugs and prayers for healing and understanding.
I hope one day I can be as good a husband as you Jared!
Oh, I'm so sorry! I had that exact same reaction after I woke up from my D&Cs. The emotions of miscarriage combined with anesthesia are just overwhelming. Praying for you guys and sending so much love!
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Bawled my eyes out. I'm thankful you guys share even the heartbreak in your journey. One day you're going to get your rainbow baby!
That was so hard to watch. I'm so sorry Ellie!
Ellie I'm so proud of you and how you have such a great husband who looks after you and loves so much I'm so happy for you and I hope you guys have a fantastic life with good health and successful life amen.
Ellie i want you to know that you werent by yourself. Jesus was there. ily guys. stay strong
I'm a bit late commenting. When I watched this the first time I didn't comment, but coming back four months later I had to. after seeing how much you all have grown in the past 4 months I truly believe how strong you all are; especially ellie. I couldnt help but cry when I saw ellie crying. It broke my heart to pieces. I love you guys. ♥️
Jared is so good to Ellie I love it! I love you guys so much, Ellie you are an amazing mom and you are doing great. I love your channel and watch you everyday. I just wanted to say that keep doing what you are doing. I hope I find someone like Jared.😊😊😊
Watching this video a year later and I still got chocked up, a year can seriously do so much to someone. I am beyond grateful baby tommy Joel is here and healthy, he truly is an angel baby💗
oh wow l am so sorry! so happy that Bonnie was there to cheer you up
I agree Ellie they should have let Jared (sorry if I spelled that wrong) come in with you nobody should have to do stuff like that alone everyone needs someone
Unfortunately that's how it is in most hospitals. Nothing against her personally
OMG my heart was broken into pieces 💔💔💔 it hurts my heart
I've never cried that much in a video
I can watch it a hundred times and every time I watch it I'll still gonna cry
Poor Ellie, so sorry dear
I can't imagine all the mixed emotions you are going through. When Jared was holding Ellie in his arms when she was crying I got teary because it was an emotional moment. Ellie is so lucky to have Jared to put his arms around Ellie. We all love you Ellie , stay strong💞💜❤️
I'm so very, very sorry for your loss. Such a difficult road to travel. Our family has been down the same road, unfortunately. But, the love and support that you give each other will help you through this. Much love and prayers for healing and peace.
I cried so much for you Ellie. A family that I babysit for has gone through the same thing many times before and I understand how hard it must be. I will definitely keep you in my prayers as well as your family. The way Jared was comforting you Ellie made my heart melt.
I'm so heartbroken for you guys.😢
Thank you for such raw footage. I was so moved by Ellie after her procedure and allowing us to see the pain and also the healing process. Lots of prayers, love and hugs❤
My heart is breaking for you guys god bless your family thank you for sharing your journey
I know exactly how that feels when I went though our all I wanted was the man I married by my side we start it together why can't we finish it together
I know this was awhile ago but I’m crying my eyes out
It's incredible how you guys stay so positive. Your positivity inspires me. Stay strong
I'm so sorry for what you are going through I know that no matter the words I say will make any of it better. I think it was so rude the Dr's made you do it alone it should have been up to you.
This was so beautiful and sad to watch. The strength and love you both share is admirable. I truly hope we get to see you have your rainbow baby soon and if its not meant to be then atleast you have eachother and your two beautiful boys.
This was so hard to watch it brought back all the memories of my d&c except I truly was alone and my husband was deployed overseas. Praying for you Ellie you are so strong.
hi Ellie, I've been watching your videos for quite some time now and when I heard I just felt a wave of compassion and love come over me, I'm only 13 so I have no experience in this region of matters but I could only image what you are going through, and theres no one to say I hope you feel better soon to actually make you feel better. you are a beautiful soul and you have a beautiful family and I just feel in my heart that good things are coming very soon, can't wait to see the new baby isn't it exiting!! love you. always💗
There's so much raw emotion in this video 😭I'm praying for you Ellie & Jared and your whole family. I love watching your vlogs. So funny when Ellie put her middle finger up 😂😂
Jared, the way you are with Ellie is so perfect. You are such a Godly family and it's beautiful to watch how you interact with each other and your children
Much love ❤️❤️❤️ prayers for a quick recovery
Also why couldn't or didn't Ellie take out her hands from the blanket after the percideres
As a nursing student who is planning on caring for women and their babies, through the good and the bad...I am deeply saddened that Jared was not allowed back there with you! You should NOT have done that alone. My heart breaks, and though I can't physically do anything for you, I want you to know I vow to advocate for women in your situation and NEVER let them do that alone! Prayers for your recovery Ellie
Leah Marie wait what did she have to do by herself??
Jared was not allowed back during her D&C. So sad!!
As someone with a few science/nursing degrees, i have to disagree... I think it's healthier and safer all around if the SO does not happen to be in the same room. I do think they should have pushed more drugs before she went back so that she was calmer before heading back to the sterile, but thats the only area I found fault in. I can see how this upset her, and I hate that she felt alone, even so. To each their own!
I assisted OBGYNS for years and did many d&c's. It would be absolutely traumatizing for the father to witness it. I would never want my husband to see it. It's heartbreaking.
Your right, to each their own. But we can clearly see Jared and Ellie both wanted to be in there together. He didn't need to be there the whole time, because she was put under, but she voiced her need to have him there until she was asleep. If you would remember, in nursing school we learned about holistic care and healing....and that was greatly lacking here.
I'm so sorry you had to be in that room all by yourself without Jared and I hope you feel better and what you what you guys they did not comment it makes me cry making me cry right now hope you feel better I know how you feel because I had someone in my life but they had to die but when I found out it made me cry love you I will always love you guys always
This was a great video to watch but also sad :(
One day, I want a man like Jared. 😊
Take notes boys 😂
I love the name mason
OMG...Ellie I know this is hard it will get better, I'm so sorry for you're loss.
Yknow what really ruins the video.. 2 unskippable 30 second adverts.
When she cried, I died.😭
Your devotion to each other is so beautiful! So many prayers and so much love heading your way!!
I'm so sorry I'll will pray for you 😢🙏🏻
I finally watched this. I knew it would be a trigger for me bc I went through the exact same thing. Its so unfair on top of everything else to have to be alone. I am still sobbing but I want you to know I am praying for you. Just know you aren't alone. I listened to thy will be done on repeat after my miscarriage. The singer wrote is right after losing her baby and the song was so healing for me..xoxo
Your 👶 look so 😎
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When she was like I was by myself I was like noooo u have us ellie we all luv u Ellie and u r soon brave 💖💖💖