She didn’t say “Oh, I could’ve been kidnapped tonight” or “I could’ve been sexually assaulted” No...she said “I could of stabbed someone tonight” There was no other scenario that could happen. The only option... somebody getting stabbed lol.
Honestly as a black girl it made me really uncomfortable how similar our stories were. Is there something about being a black woman that makes mennthonk they can just go to illegal levels of demanding things from us?
I would bring pepperspray but it’s illegal where I live :(. I have nothing to defend myself. I could bring a pocket knife but that’s not practical at all
@@Mindcrashed Just go with bear mace. If somebody is doing something bad enough for you to use it, they're not calling the cops on you, and its got the range to allow you to stop them long before they're close enough to get their hands on you.
Reason why I hate when my male friends tell me I have it so much easier than them when it gets to date people. Yes we get more attention, but we also have to sort out the creepy ones from the sane ones, and it's not as obvious as they may think xD
Straight girls and gay guy: he locked me in his car. He was telling me to shoplift. He stalked me. I had to be ready to spill blood. Straight guy: she was on her phone a lot
@Jamilla Dobson I thought you said white men not Chelsea white and I was like when was race brought up in this video and started searching around you're right though guys are generally weirder 😂
I was talking to this guy online and things were going well, we'd started texting. I stopped talking to him when he started talking about how stressed he was and how he needed to go hunting and he couldn't calm down until he killed something and saw the life leave their eyes and the blood etc and sent me a photo of his gun. I know some people hunt but I'm not really down and he worded it like the killer. He just kept going on and on about needing to kill something. He also wanted to go on a date in the back of his pick up truck in a field with blankets and wine and a picnic under the stars which is cute but also a first date? In the middle of nowhere? With someone obsessed with hunting? No thank you. The hunting thing realllly creeped me out with how he worded it so I dropped him.
Hunters usually hunt because there are reasons to get those animals out (infected, a threat, ruining ecosystem) there is always a reason that it is better to get rid of those animals and hunters do the job. I've met some hunters as my father is a ranger and responsible for what animals have to be taken down. I have never seen a hunter that wants to kill and feel it and see an animal dying. Thinking like that is sick.
I think it's about something else. Why would he have to pay for you? Can you not take care of yourself? Must you be paid or rewarded for your company? And if you're going to say it's about the gesture, then sure, are you going to pay the bill at the next date?
Rinske Letterie ugh I was thinking the exact same thing. Just split the $15 bill. It’s a nice gesture for both parties to offer to pay. U don’t need to be rewarded for ur company and what he suggested is by no means unreasonable...
Dating safety rules: 1. First date always in a public space! Like a café, cinema, etc. 2. Plan your own ride home (or even better: Have someone pick you up) 3. Don't give them your address until you know them better Be safe! And I hope you find someone great :)
Oh, and I recommend not giving out your number before meeting. But numbers can be changed much more easily than home addresses, so... up to you. Also, please don't get into stranger's cars alone! Destiny's story was so scary.
With those precautions you can weed out some of the more obvious creeps and dangerous people. Someone worthwhile with basic empathy will completely understand your need for safety and give you time without shaming you or being (fake) offended. But some people can seem really nice first, lure you in and then slowly reveal their toxicity like getting posessive... and it's not your fault if you didn't notice soon enough! Let's try to listen to our gut and train our instincts. I know I'm still learning. And let's not forget: Good people are out there! :)
If the date goes well and you decide to do something else with them before going home, text a relative or friend, in front of your date, where the new location will be and how much longer you plan on being. Your date probably won't try anything if they know someone is expecting you back and if they do try something, your loved ones know where to find you.
Well you are basing that off of just your experience. You cannot group an entire gender based on merely your personal experience. Some people like me have met more rude women but I will not claim that it is mostly women who are rude as my experience is not representative of the entire female population.
@@dt9773 I'm pretty sure most comments and opinions are based on personal experience. Would you rather me base my beliefs on other people's personal experiences? Also definitely not grouping the entire gender. Many of the men in my life are wonderful people. But many interactions have also been pretty terrible. I'm mostly pointing out that I think the quote is amusing and relatable.
Satsuki Weissleder Well I do not believe your comment gives off the impression at all that you found the comment amusing or relatable. You clearly state your intent that you believe most men are rude
My worst experience was a guy talking about his mom on the whole date, buying her something from the mall on our date, then cutting the date short after I wore a dress and a full beat of makeup to go meet his mom for frozen yogurt and expected me to kiss him after I said I was not going to kiss on the first date. Glad I took my car so I could dip. 😅
Oedipus complex much? Real question is, if you stare in the mirror long enough do you resemble his mother because apparently we are often attracted to people who look like our parents 🤢🤢
My advice: carry something to protect yourself with. Pepper spray, mace, tasers or if those are illegal, carry a pair of scissors, a box cutter, a screwdriver. Just have something on you. It's better to carry it and not use it, than need it and not have it. Also, if you're gonna get into someone's car, take a photo of their plates/car brand/color and send it to your friends. If they start going off track, send someone your location.✌️ Always make sure your phone is charged. Stay safe everyone!
“Listen (sets cup down)men are the rudest people I’ve ever met in my entire life and sometimes it pains me that I’m attracted to them” I’ve truly never related to something more
I met my ex o a dating app, he was chilled at first. Then he started being possessive/obsessive. 5 months later he paid someone 1k to hack into my phone 😅
@@LARRYIsRealForeverWi you know spacicing doesnt make it better just say the word if you're telling someone what someone else said it's like writing Fuc ker
I reached this point and took a break for 6 months. Then i finally found my future husband now when i first went back into it. Idk if it was luck but when i was finally good with doing just me it happened
I matched with a dude on tinder and after talking to him for a day or so i wasn't really feeling it so i stopped answering. A month later he messages me "Guess I'll see you at the party tonight". It was a university party where both our faculties where invited but it was just so creepy. He didn't even ask me if I was attending. Luckily it was a costume party and i'm a pretty skilled makeup artist so even my friends had a hard time recognizing me.
I had a similar experience where a guy wouldn't let me out of the car (we had a class together previously. He had never given off creepy vibes before). Fortunately someone in the parking lot realized something was weird and tapped on the window to ask if I was okay. Creepy guy let me out.
I havent had really that bad of a date since I’m super picky. The guy kept saying the r word the whole time and saying thats gay about everything. When I told people they said I was being too picky like no he was super immature.
Worst dating story? Agree to go out with this guy that had been pursuing me. He shows up wearing eyeliner (okay whatever) hands me flowers that don’t look store bought but also aren’t hand picked because they were carnations wrapped in a handkerchief. Drinks like a fish at dinner. I’m young and naive, get in the car with him.. he starts smoking something called spice? and moving the steering wheel with his knees as he’s driving.. get to another restaurant and he says your lucky you trusted me not to drive down an alleyway and kill you tonight.. I panic (obviously) go into restroom he waits outside the door of the ladies room for me.. idk how I got home that night but I hysterically cried to my mom and threw the flowers out. It was ... creepy.
TheJewelTheory Yeah I am glad. I don’t know anything about spice i didn’t even really know what he was on and i was really young and didn’t know how to get out of the situation I had someone watching over me that night for sure
Iryna Hudyma Once there was a girl who I dated for three months before she had a pregnancy scare. She had been dating her boyfriend for around seven months and cheating on him with me.
My worst online dating experience was when I met this one dude, we had a few short conversations and I wasn't feeling it and later decided I'd be better to stay single and that's what I told him. This man stalked me all over all forms of social media for YEARS BRO. He stalked my friends to stalk me😂😂😭 And at the end of the day he just wanted, and I quote, "that fat sexy butt". Men of the world. What is wrong with some of your fellow males😭😂😂😂
My old roommate was going on a date this one time with a guy she met at work (they worked in the same mall). She met up with him outside of a busy subway station, his car stops, he signals her in, she sits in the car, he starts rolling, they start talking... and after about 20 seconds they both realize they are NOT each other's dates at all, he was picking up a tinder date, she mistook him for her date since she didn't know what car he drove and they looked kinda similar from afar. At this point they were two blocks away, he dropped her off immediately, she walked back to her date and lives to tell the story! I mean it SOUNDS like the beginning of a horror movie, but it thankfully ended up probably being a really odd case of mistaken identity. It's kinda crazy to think that two couples who vaguely resemble each other would set up a meeting at the same spot, at the same time, and swap like that! lol Be careful, kids! Anything can happen!
The last time I downloaded tinder this guy I matched with stalked me on other social media and made multiple fake accounts and called me on unknown for 2 weeks straight. I had to tell him to stop stalking me .... Super weird!
My worst experience was this guy picks me up from my job. He was sitting on the hood of his car with a dozen roses. We went and had dinner and he starts talking about how much we were meant for each other and how we can be of it each other through all of our hardships and I was like okay.... we had time before the movie starts and he takes me to his dads creepy ass trailer behind a chicken fiesta. And we continued to lay on his dirty twin bed and watched an episode of something on Netflix on his laptop. I was terrified I was never going to leave that place. On our way to the movies I had a “family emergency” he was on the verge of tears our date didn’t finish. He called and texted for months after
Yeah, I feel that ok Cupid is the most secure one if you actually want to find love/relationship. There's also an app btw. I found my ex of 2 years on ok Cupid back in 2016. And I'm currently on there again, and found someone who is a high potential dating partner. It's so funny that I have never met creeps on ok Cupid before, but on Tinder....good lord, there are crazy people on there. 🙈🤦
I met my current boyfriend of over 2 years on OkCupid too!! Imo it's the best dating app if you're looking for a serious relationship/partner, even before him I had many great conversations and a minimal number of creeps, whereas on Tinder and other places the creeps were nonstop and it was more hookup-oriented (which is fine but not what I was personally looking for)
My favorite part of these stories is when they say it don’t normally do this’ and then the person they go on the date with PROVES TO THEM why they don’t ever do that 😂😂
If you want to make a relationship or a date work, just be honest. If someone is using the “r words” or is talking about things you don’t want to hear, rather than sitting there and making the date miserable for yourself, you can communicate what you don’t like and I promise things will turn out a little better.
Ive been on a tinder/ dating app horror story binge for a while, and what I am learning is that if I ever get into a situation where my response to a weird behavior is "okay, fine, whatever..." i probably should run lol
"So I had dating apps, mostly as a joke LMAO I just swiped right on everyone xD xD then I messaged them first and they didn't reply but IT WAS ALL JUST A JOKE TO BEGIN WITH so who cares xD lmao"
The moral of the story is don't use dating apps and invest in friendships first. There is no shortcuts in finding quality and you're also putting yourself in a lot of risky and abusive situations. Dating apps are designed to keep folks single forever...the whole idea of online dating is twisted, shallow, and based on objectification. A recipe for disaster
She didn’t say “Oh, I could’ve been kidnapped tonight” or “I could’ve been sexually assaulted” No...she said “I could of stabbed someone tonight” There was no other scenario that could happen. The only option... somebody getting stabbed lol.
Why wouldn't she stab the guy instead of getting raped? At that point of the story he locked the car doors.
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I love that she thought of it that way! Way to take back to your power girl!
That was perfect! Lol
Love her
That black girl's dating history was... A trip.
Lol I could write a book with stories like that.
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Honestly as a black girl it made me really uncomfortable how similar our stories were. Is there something about being a black woman that makes mennthonk they can just go to illegal levels of demanding things from us?
She must be attracted to the "bad boy" type because it's like she went on a date with the same bum over and over
Never thought to bring a knife on a date.... That's changing today.
Bringing a machete
I would bring pepperspray but it’s illegal where I live :(. I have nothing to defend myself. I could bring a pocket knife but that’s not practical at all
@@Mindcrashed Just go with bear mace. If somebody is doing something bad enough for you to use it, they're not calling the cops on you, and its got the range to allow you to stop them long before they're close enough to get their hands on you.
@@pyrotechnologist1 bear mace is a type of bear spray right? i think it is actually available where i live, thanks
@Rochel Jones good idea!!
"man are the rudest people i've ever met in my entire life. It really does pain me that i'm atracted to them sometimes" I FEEL YOU GIRL
What abt the nice ones tho
@@1MarcoIsHoeing500 thanks for proving her point. SMH
*laughs in lesbian*
I'm getting this on a t-shirt.
This is such a generalisation that makes me cringe when women say this!! 🙄
"It really does pain me that I'm attracted to them sometimes." Same
ariel nieto I felt that in my soul
Women aren’t any better sadly
Dominique Diamond except they are, in the fact that they aren’t creepy most of the time and less likely to kill you lol
Hey There as a lesbian You wouldn’t believe the women I have come across creepy, stalker, just plain crazy lol the list and stories go on and on
Dominique Diamond yeah...but it’s like facts women are better lmao
Men: I hate when my date is on their phone on the date
Women: I hate when I get kidnapped and need to threaten deadly force to avoid being raped.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Reason why I hate when my male friends tell me I have it so much easier than them when it gets to date people.
Yes we get more attention, but we also have to sort out the creepy ones from the sane ones, and it's not as obvious as they may think xD
Straight girls and gay guy: he locked me in his car. He was telling me to shoplift. He stalked me. I had to be ready to spill blood.
Straight guy: she was on her phone a lot
@Jamilla Dobson I thought you said white men not Chelsea white and I was like when was race brought up in this video and started searching around you're right though guys are generally weirder 😂
didn’t a girl tell him that she was interested in incest
Patricia Ramirez that’s very different from stalking
@@sivehourigan9577 still creepy none the less
He said that he dated men and women, so he is most definitely not straight
“Don’t get in the car with strangers” says the guy who just told the story around walking in the WOODS WITH A STRANGER!!!
Exactly !! 😄😄💁🏽♀️
He also got into a car with 2 strangers tho 🤔
Kirsten Meyer this is also tru
Tonie Bembeh at least you can run away in the woods!
I found it ironic that she goes into an Uber right after that, but he says don't get in cars with strangers 😂
I was talking to this guy online and things were going well, we'd started texting. I stopped talking to him when he started talking about how stressed he was and how he needed to go hunting and he couldn't calm down until he killed something and saw the life leave their eyes and the blood etc and sent me a photo of his gun. I know some people hunt but I'm not really down and he worded it like the killer. He just kept going on and on about needing to kill something. He also wanted to go on a date in the back of his pick up truck in a field with blankets and wine and a picnic under the stars which is cute but also a first date? In the middle of nowhere? With someone obsessed with hunting? No thank you. The hunting thing realllly creeped me out with how he worded it so I dropped him.
Hunters usually hunt because there are reasons to get those animals out (infected, a threat, ruining ecosystem) there is always a reason that it is better to get rid of those animals and hunters do the job. I've met some hunters as my father is a ranger and responsible for what animals have to be taken down. I have never seen a hunter that wants to kill and feel it and see an animal dying. Thinking like that is sick.
You definitely dodged a bullet. L I T E R A L L Y ! ! !
Reading that made me feel kinda sick. Dude sounds like a psychopath...
Creepy as hell
smart thinking honestly, if anything happened to you you would've been blamed for "not being cautious"
I related so much when she said it pains her that she's attracted to men. Girl SAME.
Omg ikr
Luckily for me I'm apart of the 2% of the lesbian population. 😏
dont do school do drugs trust me...there’s more than 2%
**laughs in bisexual**
b1njjj95 same 🥴😹
Why are men so kidnappy
🤣🤣🤣🤣
"kidnappy" is my new favorite adjective LOL!!! 😂
This is the most accurate non-word I’ve ever heard in my life 😂
legit question !
we need answers, clinical trials , brain scans, focus groups the lot!
Lmao
When that one girl said “It pains me that I’m attracted to them sometimes”....I felt that...😂😂😂
“Am I not worth $15 to you?”
Ooof, that hit deep
I think it's about something else. Why would he have to pay for you? Can you not take care of yourself? Must you be paid or rewarded for your company? And if you're going to say it's about the gesture, then sure, are you going to pay the bill at the next date?
Not to me. Definitely Dutch.
Rinske Letterie ugh I was thinking the exact same thing. Just split the $15 bill. It’s a nice gesture for both parties to offer to pay. U don’t need to be rewarded for ur company and what he suggested is by no means unreasonable...
They could talk before how they are use to do it split or one pay
@@Meiske91 well he was using her as a therapist. Least he could do is pay the bill
Dating safety rules:
1. First date always in a public space!
Like a café, cinema, etc.
2. Plan your own ride home
(or even better: Have someone pick you up)
3. Don't give them your address until you know them better
Be safe! And I hope you find someone great :)
Oh, and I recommend not giving out your number before meeting. But numbers can be changed much more easily than home addresses, so... up to you.
Also, please don't get into stranger's cars alone! Destiny's story was so scary.
With those precautions you can weed out some of the more obvious creeps and dangerous people. Someone worthwhile with basic empathy will completely understand your need for safety and give you time without shaming you or being (fake) offended.
But some people can seem really nice first, lure you in and then slowly reveal their toxicity like getting posessive... and it's not your fault if you didn't notice soon enough! Let's try to listen to our gut and train our instincts. I know I'm still learning.
And let's not forget: Good people are out there! :)
Also carry pepper spray seriously. And make sure your phone is charged!!!!
If the date goes well and you decide to do something else with them before going home, text a relative or friend, in front of your date, where the new location will be and how much longer you plan on being. Your date probably won't try anything if they know someone is expecting you back and if they do try something, your loved ones know where to find you.
Also SSDGM ❤️
I’m so glad Destiny is safe and wasn’t hurt! That could’ve gone sooooo bad :(
The only thing Destiny was worried about was having to clean the blood off of her purse knife 😂💖
Yh im glad Destiny didnt have to do any time for self defense 🙌🏼🙌🏼
“The black girl” has a name y’all. It’s DESTINY. Also yes she is gorgeous!!! ✌🏽
katelyn frink preach
girl your name is the same as mine off by one letter WHAT
She isn't Destiny
@@katelynbrink291 So funny! 😂
katelyn brink omg haha ayyyeee.
I legitimately don’t understand how the people in their stories can be so insanely inappropriate lmao how hard is it to act like a civil human being
"Men are the rudest people I've ever met in my entire life."
Yes. A lot of the time.
incredibly sexist statement. im so offended.
Well you are basing that off of just your experience. You cannot group an entire gender based on merely your personal experience. Some people like me have met more rude women but I will not claim that it is mostly women who are rude as my experience is not representative of the entire female population.
@@dt9773 I'm pretty sure most comments and opinions are based on personal experience. Would you rather me base my beliefs on other people's personal experiences?
Also definitely not grouping the entire gender. Many of the men in my life are wonderful people. But many interactions have also been pretty terrible.
I'm mostly pointing out that I think the quote is amusing and relatable.
Satsuki Weissleder Well I do not believe your comment gives off the impression at all that you found the comment amusing or relatable. You clearly state your intent that you believe most men are rude
@@dt9773 you should really teach an intro 101 course on how to properly comment on UA-cam videos
I ship Emily and that sweet dude with the white pants.
Snodge Kat me too!
His name is Sean.
Yes
@@LegendNeverD1es don't tell me you Americans get offended at someone for not knowing someones name.
@@thecavemanwithwifi8800 don't tell me you non-americans get offended just because someone tells you their name. Get over yourself.
My worst experience was a guy talking about his mom on the whole date, buying her something from the mall on our date, then cutting the date short after I wore a dress and a full beat of makeup to go meet his mom for frozen yogurt and expected me to kiss him after I said I was not going to kiss on the first date. Glad I took my car so I could dip. 😅
Daaaaang
Wtf?!That's messed up
Hes dating his mon already sorry
Lackadaisical dramatic
Oedipus complex much? Real question is, if you stare in the mirror long enough do you resemble his mother because apparently we are often attracted to people who look like our parents 🤢🤢
fact : every app is a dating app if you're creepy enough...
Seth Colby let’s play roblox!
Reminds me of that CollegeHumour sketch.
Pick you up at 8?
this changes the LinkedIn game
Can't wait to find my soul mate on girlsgogames
My advice: carry something to protect yourself with. Pepper spray, mace, tasers or if those are illegal, carry a pair of scissors, a box cutter, a screwdriver. Just have something on you. It's better to carry it and not use it, than need it and not have it.
Also, if you're gonna get into someone's car, take a photo of their plates/car brand/color and send it to your friends. If they start going off track, send someone your location.✌️
Always make sure your phone is charged.
Stay safe everyone!
When I was dating, I used these tactics, also. It's sad that women have to go through these precautions still.
Consider a gun, it can be the most effective if you’re gonna use something
@@Blonded_ye guns are illegal in most countries outside the American continent, so that is not an option for most women out there.
@@d.leighannbatemon3192 indeed 😞
Biliuta Cezara everything listed in this thread is illegal where I am lmao.
The black girl is soo so pretty omg
Her name is Destiny
wondah black oh cool what’s the white girls name
Allissady Brooke I think her name is Emily
It's Emily. She is also pretty too.
I was thinking the exact thing.
The “R” word is what some people call people with disabilities “re” and I’m not gonna say the rest
Edit: thanks for the likes :)
thanks for the clarification. I was trying to figure out what she meant.
Ohh, thank you because I was really confused about what the word was.
Thank you. I was like huh?
Ohhhhh... It refers to Mental retardation... I get it now
Oh so it was that word.
That volume difference in music and audio was harsh..
Yes, the editor needs to listen.
I guess they were trying to hint that the video was about to be over
“Listen (sets cup down)men are the rudest people I’ve ever met in my entire life and sometimes it pains me that I’m attracted to them” I’ve truly never related to something more
@5:47
“Don’t get in a car with a stranger”
*gets into uber* 😅😅
Victoria V THANK YOU!!😂 I thought that and immediately recognized the irony, but saw no one mentioning it, lol
“Don’t get in a car with strangers period!” But he got in the car with two strangers. 😂🤦🏻♀️
"Men And Women Compare Their Dating *Men* Horror Stories"
Pretty much
The Asian had women dating stories.
@@SillChill Yes! And it's a doozie!
Greg exactly
Life advice with Destiny needs to be a thing
Why does that dude look like Mr. Beast LMFAOO😭
Oh ye. He does
Loooooooooooool
i thought he looked familiar!! 💀
He dosnt rrly look like Mr.Beast
It’s somehow sad and also refreshing to know other women deal with crazy dating app stories. I wish people (usually men) weren’t so f*cking creepy.
Me being anxious everytime someone says they get in a car with a total stranger
Girl: Men are the rudest people I have ever met in my entire life.
Man: Preach!
I met my ex o a dating app, he was chilled at first. Then he started being possessive/obsessive. 5 months later he paid someone 1k to hack into my phone 😅
Well...what’d you do?
Ruby Bgm what happened lol
I also want to know the rest of this story!
Knowing that her phone 'was' hacked is creepy, we can't really tell who makes this comment 😟
True and i don't know why the "😅" emoji was used instead of the "😰" or "😱" emoji...
Respect that no one is saying the R word and being mature adults on a social media platform by describing it with its definition ✊🏼
Yeah I never really considered it offensive but I respect that other autistic/mentally disabled people do so I stopped using it even about myself
Sorry can I ask what is the "r word"? I'm Asian and english is not my first language sorry
@@anonymus243 ret ard
the internet has come a looooooong way
@@LARRYIsRealForeverWi you know spacicing doesnt make it better just say the word if you're telling someone what someone else said it's like writing Fuc ker
Lol these stories make me feel happy I haven't bothered with dating apps. I've had crazy enough experiences without them.
Honestly same, but at the same time it makes me sad that I've had similar experiences without being on an app. It's like there's no hope.
Just in case anyone was confused about the “R word”, it’s the crude euphemism for an intellectual disability.
What’s the word
So..... what's the r word?
azarela the mexican google it 😂
azarela the mexican 🤦♂️
I don't really understand why she doesn't want to say it... She was telling a story about a rude guy, in my opinion it's not offensive, right?
I barely date now. And this reminds me of why. Honestly makes me want to even less lol.
Same
I reached this point and took a break for 6 months. Then i finally found my future husband now when i first went back into it. Idk if it was luck but when i was finally good with doing just me it happened
I matched with a dude on tinder and after talking to him for a day or so i wasn't really feeling it so i stopped answering. A month later he messages me "Guess I'll see you at the party tonight". It was a university party where both our faculties where invited but it was just so creepy. He didn't even ask me if I was attending. Luckily it was a costume party and i'm a pretty skilled makeup artist so even my friends had a hard time recognizing me.
Anne Sofie Jensen ughhhh
Eww. He might have seen that you were going and then decided to go as well
I had a similar experience where a guy wouldn't let me out of the car (we had a class together previously. He had never given off creepy vibes before). Fortunately someone in the parking lot realized something was weird and tapped on the window to ask if I was okay. Creepy guy let me out.
Oh how I wish I was on this video to give my California Dating Horror stories, I would need my own 30min-1hr segment
The lady in the fuzzy jacket's awkward date sounds like she was with my brother.... I'm so sorry....
I havent had really that bad of a date since I’m super picky. The guy kept saying the r word the whole time and saying thats gay about everything. When I told people they said I was being too picky like no he was super immature.
Miss Goddess what’s the r word?
"showed me his favourite UA-cam videos for 20 minutes" lmao what is he 12
Sounds like my ex. I cant tell you how many youtube videos he showed me. He would laugh hysterically at them all and they went even that funny.
The Asian guy and girl should go out on a date
Yeah the guy and white girl should
Sean and Emily. Yes they look like a cute match.
He's gay, he relate on 'pain me to be attracted to men' 😂
@@MsOmy115 he could be bisexual or pansexual.he talked about his dating experience with girls.
They are low key cute together 🤗
OMG i have final exam tomorrow, and i am still watching this now..... 😱
Danny's Food & Travel good luck...
Monuments Humans thanks 😭
YOU CAN DO THIS! Just go and learn and thank me later.
Worst dating story? Agree to go out with this guy that had been pursuing me. He shows up wearing eyeliner (okay whatever) hands me flowers that don’t look store bought but also aren’t hand picked because they were carnations wrapped in a handkerchief. Drinks like a fish at dinner. I’m young and naive, get in the car with him.. he starts smoking something called spice? and moving the steering wheel with his knees as he’s driving.. get to another restaurant and he says your lucky you trusted me not to drive down an alleyway and kill you tonight.. I panic (obviously) go into restroom he waits outside the door of the ladies room for me.. idk how I got home that night but I hysterically cried to my mom and threw the flowers out. It was ... creepy.
Heather how did u get out
Lol Ahley I was so young and naive I got back in the car with him 😬 I was just quiet and thankfully he took me back to my car.
@@heather5391 wow thank god u survived
Girl he spoked SPICE? SYNTHETIC MARIJUANA? Bruh. Glad he didn’t go into psychosis and eat your face.
TheJewelTheory Yeah I am glad. I don’t know anything about spice i didn’t even really know what he was on and i was really young and didn’t know how to get out of the situation I had someone watching over me that night for sure
I guess no one knows that Romeo was like 20 or something and Juliet was 13.
*yeah, lets not stick to Romeo and Juliet*
Shakespeare never clarified Romeo's age, he's just described as a bit older then Juliet. Even if he was a lot older, it was pretty normal at that time
@@danaliu3295 even if it was normal at the time it's still pedophilia
I thought he was 16
Yea and
AliceTooTight o3o do you think a 20 year old man dating a 13 year old girl is right?
Destinies stories and tons of other women’s stories define why I don’t date lol
These stories make me a little relieved I'm a lesbian 😂
Not that women don't also do weird things, but it happens less often than with men.
We need to know ur stories
Iryna Hudyma
Once there was a girl who I dated for three months before she had a pregnancy scare. She had been dating her boyfriend for around seven months and cheating on him with me.
lucky....
Bazal Morani
For... Getting cheated on?
@@ExtraCreativeUsername lucky that you're a lesbian I think
“It really does pain me that I’m attracted to them” FELT!!!!
6:59 she just resume all of our life in ONE sentence hahahahha
“Oh my gawdddd I could of stabbed someone tonight this could have been bad” 😂😂me every time I’m with anyone
Destiny makes my heart warm. Like you can just tell when someone is a naturally good heartearming person lol
"Listen men are the rudest people I've ever met in my life"
"Preach"
"It really does pain me that I am attracted to them sometimes"
😂😂😂 same
"It really does pain me that I'm attracted to them sometimes" I AGREE
That asian guy and the white girl should get together, they feel like very similar kinds of people and they have a good energy together.
I thought he was gonna say “and then we left the store and he pulled the candle out of his jacket and gave it to me” 😂
My worst online dating experience was when I met this one dude, we had a few short conversations and I wasn't feeling it and later decided I'd be better to stay single and that's what I told him. This man stalked me all over all forms of social media for YEARS BRO. He stalked my friends to stalk me😂😂😭 And at the end of the day he just wanted, and I quote, "that fat sexy butt". Men of the world. What is wrong with some of your fellow males😭😂😂😂
“It really does pain me that I am attracted to them” most relatable line ever
"don't get in a car with strangers, period."
*uber* : exists
My old roommate was going on a date this one time with a guy she met at work (they worked in the same mall). She met up with him outside of a busy subway station, his car stops, he signals her in, she sits in the car, he starts rolling, they start talking... and after about 20 seconds they both realize they are NOT each other's dates at all, he was picking up a tinder date, she mistook him for her date since she didn't know what car he drove and they looked kinda similar from afar. At this point they were two blocks away, he dropped her off immediately, she walked back to her date and lives to tell the story! I mean it SOUNDS like the beginning of a horror movie, but it thankfully ended up probably being a really odd case of mistaken identity. It's kinda crazy to think that two couples who vaguely resemble each other would set up a meeting at the same spot, at the same time, and swap like that! lol Be careful, kids! Anything can happen!
Have never been on a dating site, and don't plan on it. It's enough dealing with the crazies you meet in real life.
The last time I downloaded tinder this guy I matched with stalked me on other social media and made multiple fake accounts and called me on unknown for 2 weeks straight. I had to tell him to stop stalking me .... Super weird!
I found my fiancé on Tinder! We’ve been together since May 2017. He proposed last weekend in the most epic way. I’m so thankful for TINDER!
marissa theXplorer og my god!!! I found my hubby 2017 November we’re having a baby now!! Girllll 😛🙏😘
My guy friend is marrying someone he met on Tinder.
no one literally cares, people will just say "OH THATS AWESOME!!" to therefore boosts someones confidence and self esteem.
TheCavemanWithWifi who’s foot is up your ass?
CherryBombRose lol 😂
@@cherrybombrose3532 the caveman's
@@thecavemanwithwifi8800 name checks out
Is anyone else shipping sean and emily?
Give us more sean and Emily content!🛳
I totally ship them! They'd be cute together lol
My worst experience was this guy picks me up from my job. He was sitting on the hood of his car with a dozen roses. We went and had dinner and he starts talking about how much we were meant for each other and how we can be of it each other through all of our hardships and I was like okay.... we had time before the movie starts and he takes me to his dads creepy ass trailer behind a chicken fiesta. And we continued to lay on his dirty twin bed and watched an episode of something on Netflix on his laptop. I was terrified I was never going to leave that place. On our way to the movies I had a “family emergency” he was on the verge of tears our date didn’t finish. He called and texted for months after
I met my boyfriend of almost 7 years on okCupid :)
Allyson Gail See, I wouldn’t mind dating websites like that but I feel I’m younger than the demographic being only 20. Tinder isn’t really for me.
Do you plan on getting married?
Yeah, I feel that ok Cupid is the most secure one if you actually want to find love/relationship. There's also an app btw. I found my ex of 2 years on ok Cupid back in 2016. And I'm currently on there again, and found someone who is a high potential dating partner. It's so funny that I have never met creeps on ok Cupid before, but on Tinder....good lord, there are crazy people on there. 🙈🤦
@@simeoda at some point we want to but not until we are financially ready lol
I met my current boyfriend of over 2 years on OkCupid too!! Imo it's the best dating app if you're looking for a serious relationship/partner, even before him I had many great conversations and a minimal number of creeps, whereas on Tinder and other places the creeps were nonstop and it was more hookup-oriented (which is fine but not what I was personally looking for)
“It really does pain me that I’m attracted to them” literally same
Wishing whoever is reading this has a great upcoming week :) be well and stay in touch!
Why are you so thirsty for likes???
Giannis Tryfonas does positivity bother you?
@@JoshuaOtusanya you know you were just looking for likes
You're on "The Real" videos also. Like your positivity, but don't be confused when someone confuses this for being thirsty for likes haha
My favorite part of these stories is when they say it don’t normally do this’ and then the person they go on the date with PROVES TO THEM why they don’t ever do that 😂😂
"Cool, cool, cool, cool, cool" lol B99
Amma Calhoun detective Peralta
I needed those last advice because Im kinda lonely rn and might go on tinder lmfao
Let's be honest these ladies aren't roasting men they're roasting the kind of men on dating apps
Sean doesn’t use them anymore because he’s already secretly dating Lindsey by this point!
He looks like gay mrbeast, who just got Home from Iran
Why does this make sense.
@@vaidehityagi1275 ikr?!?!?
My boy Sean is back!!! Love the guy
there's like a weird frame 11:03/11:04
Nice observation skills lol
“Just put it in your bag” Lmaoo this is hilarious
Glad I met my bf at work 2 years ago cause my Tinder date stories are awful as well.
I love this framing: "That could have been really bad..." and then not 'I could have been murdered' but "I could have stabbed someone tonight."
If you want to make a relationship or a date work, just be honest. If someone is using the “r words” or is talking about things you don’t want to hear, rather than sitting there and making the date miserable for yourself, you can communicate what you don’t like and I promise things will turn out a little better.
Tyler is Mr. Beast’s doppelgänger
I would have thought he was kidding if he told me to put it in my pocket. My brain would not have been able to process the idea that he was serious.
“It’s late at night 8:30, 9 pm...”
um ok...
I literally came to the comments because of that statement. Come on- late is like 3am
CorneliaTheFifth ya lol ikr!
@@rolo0o for real! The dude is making be feel like a crazy person over here. I can't even remember the last time I went to sleep at 8:30.
CorneliaTheFifth ya lol
Agreed! To be fair though, it's late to be on a walking around in the woods with some strange that's acting weird lol
Ive been on a tinder/ dating app horror story binge for a while, and what I am learning is that if I ever get into a situation where my response to a weird behavior is "okay, fine, whatever..." i probably should run lol
"So I had dating apps, mostly as a joke LMAO I just swiped right on everyone xD xD then I messaged them first and they didn't reply but IT WAS ALL JUST A JOKE TO BEGIN WITH so who cares xD lmao"
Take a sip of your beer every time the girl with glasses says the word 'like'
That comment “men are some of the meanest people in the world”. ouch 😂
Destiny should have her own UA-cam channel, her stories are always amazing! I love her
“It pains me that I am attracted to them”- PREACH SISTER PREACH
"It really does pain me that I am attracted to them sometimes'
I lost it... 😂😂😂😂😂
When I saw the thumbnail, for a moment I thought he was mrbeast
I’m sorry but the story with the guy from 9:30 is HILARIOUS 😂😂 that guy sounds like a hoot!
The moral of the story is don't use dating apps and invest in friendships first. There is no shortcuts in finding quality and you're also putting yourself in a lot of risky and abusive situations. Dating apps are designed to keep folks single forever...the whole idea of online dating is twisted, shallow, and based on objectification. A recipe for disaster
I love sean lol "preach"
"It's late at night, it's like 8:39 PM" ...Excuse me
That's late to me 😭😭
Mamma is always prepared. Hahahahaha