Yoh woman, you are so beautiful my goodness! When you said 18 years of marriage I was shocked, then you mentioned marrying at 20 and I relaxed. You are so beautiful. You've got this gentle soft face and those clearly defined lips are gorgeous. Your hair just sits so well with your face. You are beautiful sisi. Let me continue to watch... Just had to give you a compliment Umuhle shem.
I agree, it's not about the age. It's about emotional health by the time is getting married. When emotionally unhealthy, one gets in a relationship with all wrong expectations and can never able to use boundaries. For a long time the church especially in Africa considered violence as the only abuse. I'm.glad we are slowly learning and understanding all other forms of abuse and taking them as serious as physical (violence) abuse. Emotional and psychological abuse is more damaging than physical violence..
Thank you for sharing. I called off my wedding for these very same reasons (varied offcourse - with different details but in principle it was the same issues) and this is so affirming. Thank you. Sending hugs to you.
Thank you for watching. Listening to your inner voice and practicing patience and discernment in such a big life decision will protect you from a lot of wrong choices. Thank you for sharing and i hope everything works out for your good. Sending love to you❤❤
Hey ,I have watched your videos ,I have 2 concerns 1.This was a pastor, you stated so well you would wait for him and not attend his church, was this a bit questionable on your part ? 2.Did you ever consider this as a psychiatric patient and sort psychiatric help? Many of our family members suffer from psychiatric conditions and we only learn it later after we've judged them and damaged everything
Hey Betty Diana, I love love your questions. These are such important and serious questions that i want to answer you after thinking it through clearly and honestly. Let me get back to you.
1. Diana, then he was not in his church l would attend the first service,l would only be in both when he was the preacher 2. Yes. You cannot force help, people don’t fix what they don’t think is broken. Thanks…good questions
This is really great, this information is needed.
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Yoh woman, you are so beautiful my goodness! When you said 18 years of marriage I was shocked, then you mentioned marrying at 20 and I relaxed. You are so beautiful. You've got this gentle soft face and those clearly defined lips are gorgeous. Your hair just sits so well with your face. You are beautiful sisi. Let me continue to watch... Just had to give you a compliment Umuhle shem.
I agree, it's not about the age. It's about emotional health by the time is getting married. When emotionally unhealthy, one gets in a relationship with all wrong expectations and can never able to use boundaries. For a long time the church especially in Africa considered violence as the only abuse. I'm.glad we are slowly learning and understanding all other forms of abuse and taking them as serious as physical (violence) abuse. Emotional and psychological abuse is more damaging than physical violence..
Exactly. There is so much wisdom in this comment.
Thank you for sharing. I called off my wedding for these very same reasons (varied offcourse - with different details but in principle it was the same issues) and this is so affirming. Thank you. Sending hugs to you.
Thank you for watching. Listening to your inner voice and practicing patience and discernment in such a big life decision will protect you from a lot of wrong choices. Thank you for sharing and i hope everything works out for your good. Sending love to you❤❤
Sending love and light your way Sonnie..from Cathy
Cathy❤Thank you so so much❤
Lizzy here... Cheering you all the way ❤
Thank you so much Lizzy ❤❤❤
always looking foward❤❤
Thank you so much for being here❤
Yaaasss keep going 😍😍
Thank you so so much💕💕
am sorry for that
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Sonnie…….,this guy was out to mess your life . He clearly knew what you can become but God is putting your broken pieces together again.
Amen. God will indeed turn scars into stars!
Hi sister I'm presenter Kay G. Where are you? I would like to have interview with you
Hi Kay G. Thank you for the invitation however I'm not able to. Thank you.
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Hey ,I have watched your videos ,I have 2 concerns
1.This was a pastor, you stated so well you would wait for him and not attend his church, was this a bit questionable on your part ?
2.Did you ever consider this as a psychiatric patient and sort psychiatric help? Many of our family members suffer from psychiatric conditions and we only learn it later after we've judged them and damaged everything
Hey Betty Diana, I love love your questions. These are such important and serious questions that i want to answer you after thinking it through clearly and honestly. Let me get back to you.
1. Diana, then he was not in his church l would attend the first service,l would only be in both when he was the preacher
2. Yes. You cannot force help, people don’t fix what they don’t think is broken.
Thanks…good questions
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Hugs my sister
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Thank you for listening❤❤