Afterlife Regrets: What Souls Wish They Had Done Differently
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- Опубліковано 2 сер 2024
- Have you ever heard the term unfinished business? Psychic Medium Matt Fraser delves deep into the realm of the afterlife to reveal what souls truly regret...
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I think I’m in my life review here on earth. I already wish I had done things differently.
I wish my mum would see this before she passes on… I don’t want to meet her on the other side for her to then talk or embrace me and my children. My children have missed having a grandma. That hurts more than her ignoring me‼️
Same here!
Same here. Though fortunately in a way, my daughter isn't aware she has a living grandmother out there. When she comes back into our lives, my Mum is going to hate that I will be explaining in an age appropriate manner why her grandmother chose not to be in our lives. That she has mental health issues and made the choice to not be there. I refuse to let my daughter feel like it was me keeping her away from family. My mum regularly cuts off family. I will not let her do the same to my daughter without telling her the boundaries first - my mum will be told she has to show at least 3 months consistency of contact before she gets introduced again to my daughter (she met her once as a newborn) I do however believe my mum would make a brilliant grandmother. And I think my daughter especially would actually be really good for her.
My mum is the third generation of troubled Mother's. I broke the chain. And will be letting her know, that her antics are not welcome around my daughter. She can come back after a 3 month trial ! And WITH boundaries for the first time in her life (she's age 64)
@@alanalycan3986 I too broke the chain of issues… I am so proud of my children and it is a shame that we sometimes cannot repair broken bonds no matter how hard we try… I am lucky that I understand my mothers issues and why she is as she is, and I am blessed my children understand that, although they have not reached the part of not being upset and forgiving, I have accepted and and forgiven, I suppose that makes my life review be quicker … lol… one can hope 😜
So true.
@belinda_curtis My 2 daughters were not able to have children and decided not to adopt. I would have loved grandchildren to love and spoil. I pray your mom will realize how blessed she is . I know it's not only your heart that hurts, but your kids too. Prayers up.❤
My partner, of near 30 years , would astral travel so much. She had a hard time coming back, sadly for me and selfishly I suppose , because I miss her so much and she passed so unexpectedly, this time she stayed there. I learn from you even if I only resonate with another reading. You help us all so so so much. Bless your dear soul xoxo❤
There was definitely a message here for me. I attended my biological Dad's funeral yesterday, and I learned he had tried to see me a lot, but my mum had poisoned my mind that he was an abusive drunk. I learned he was a great, loving, generous, and kind funny man. My mum is here on earth, yet doesn't keep in touch with Mr. She was always about herself. I know very little about her. It's been a difficult and lonely life. I hope 1 day my dad communicates with me. ❤ thank you, Matt ❤
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Sounds like your mother is a narcissist. Such a shame.
You were totally betrayed - by a mother that should've done and been the exact opposite. I am so sorry for all of your losses - you have been through a lot. Blessings, healing, love, strength and hugs to you! 🙏🌹💝🫂😘
Wow, that's intense and wishing you lots of healing and peace.
My father is an alcoholic too…and with all the hurt it brings, that doesn’t mean that person is a totally bad person…they are a hurt person…I am sorry for your loss…alcoholics effect everyone’s lives around them and often do not realise .. I believe they see and process all they missed when they pass over..so sad though how it effects what could have been eh‼️
Matt you help get me through some of the grief from my partner of 50 years. Each day is hard to get through but you can make it a little easier by listening to you. 22:20
Just going to sleep at night feels like a life review sometimes. Prayers are only peace. Dreams bring the spirits close, usually just like visiting a friend or relative.
I had a spiritual awakening 7 years ago and immediately began my life review. Reconciling to my past transgressions is tough work, yet satisfying also.
I so often get apologies from a passed loved one to a living person after life review. So powerful and healing.
Feeling regret on the other side doesn't erase decades of being hurt or treated with indifference - and NOT accidentally. You say that people's personality doesn't change on the other side - that's what worries me. Like another lady here, I don't want to meet my mother again on the other side.
I feel the same about my mom. So much bitterness, negativity, withholding of things & experiences, very conditional love & lies. Zero empathy, gentleness, kindness or compassion. She is just void of that & always has been. My husband calls her “an empty vessel”. Now she is 82, the narcissism is way worse due to her dementia & so is the poison. I told the long term care home she is in that if she needs anything, I am just a phone call away. But I will not be visiting her for my own mental & emotional health.
My list of regrets is already so so long😪💔 And yes, my mother doesn't get me and never had. Nor my brother. They make/made me feel like a weirdo, a freak. It's painful
When our family rejects us is when we should ' run to the Father ' 🙏
He doesn't judge. His love for us IS like a Father. Put your hands together hunny & just talk to him x
"Is that a coffee cup or a vase?" 🤣
Unfortunately most people i know never try to make amends or apologize for their terrible behavior. Too many people with personality disorders these days.
We live in a very toxic society and low vibration planet. It's tough being down here but I feel most of us are doing our best ❤
Good coment
all people have some personality 'disorder' it comes with being human! Just be the best we can and be that all the time.
@@starstuff5958 not correct. Personality Disorders are clinical diagnostic categories for specific behaviors. We are not all somewhat personality disordered like we don’t all have some amount of Parkinson’s Disease.
Even if you didn't have this great gift, your a trip with your personality! 😊😮😢😂😅❤
I think I was in my seventies at that time when I first remembered her touching my face. And she said what's wrong with you and I said oh I thought it was a bug I guess she was trying to caress my face I don't know it was weird. My father gave enough affection to make up for it my whole life. Some 89 now and still think about that so I would like to hear what she has to say now. I ended up moving in with them taking care of both of them. I was a nurse for 60 years so I was able to do so.😍😍
😢😢😢, I'M HEARING WHAT YOUR SAYING,AND IT HURTS, I WANT MY LOVEONES ON THE OTHER SIDE TO LOVE ME AND JUST BE WITH ME, I LOVE AND MISS THEM ALL,😢😢😢MOM AND DAD, THEIR ABSENCE IS FELT, I LOVE YOUR READING MATT, YOU HELP ME IN SO MANY WAYS, YOUR A BLESSING TO ME THANK YOU, 😢😢😢❤❤❤
Good morning Matt and all.....almost 6am over here . .....in Africa
Had a constant flow of chills while listening to the reading Matt gave to her. So happy she heard what she needed
Look at her neighbor/friend nodding her head as you describe the effects this lady’s mother had on her daughter’s life!! Amazing how even an audience of one watcher notices & agrees with & validates what miracles happen in your readings!!
Regards
Geti
😂❤ great reading this is awesome I miss my momma and Daddy and my husband Aaron so much .
That reading was so much like 👍 imagine my Mom would be if I had a reading ❤
My mother never showed me affection so then it was hard for me to give the affection like I should be giving to certain people. I only remember her touching me one time tucking me in when I was little. So when I was grown I was laying on her couch taking a nap cuz I was taking care of my father that had Alzheimer and I was watching him and staying with them and she came and touched my cheek and I started hitting at it I thought it was a bug on my face I didn't realize that my mother had touched me.
Such a great reading. I love that she has a gratitude jar. ♥
I thought that was absolutely beautiful. ❤️
Matt, I am so happy you are on this planet, helping us all in ways you have no idea of. We so need your talent and insight. I wish you and your loved ones the greatest success. xxx ooo
I got chills about the gratitude jar!
YES, come to Texas❣️ Thrilled you had such a beautiful and healing experience, neighbor. I’m 20 miles south of Austin. Sending peace, love, & healing energy to all!!! Love you, Matt!!! 🙏😇💫
💕 from Australia 🇦🇺
What a powerful beautiful reading. Didn’t expect this from the title. But just texted my daughter to say I love her . Thank you for putting things In perspective.
You have great ability to help teach people everywhere what the goal is here…I am sure you know what the goal is too…you are just to clear a channel… please help to help the world understand sometimes their enemy is often their souls friend helping them to learn to love
Gaza and the planet need your help right now… keep it simple but clear…I am sure you can do this‼️
Wow!!!! Sticky notes!!! you know what this is about as encouraging as I could ever hope that you are an angel. Thank you so much for helping all of us here on planet earth. We are still struggling and suffering. It’s so wonderful to have this connection. You are a blessing to all of us. Thank you thank you thank you.
I can’t wait for my reading! You’re the best at what you do! Love you so much! See you on April 2nd.
What a nice message for all of us! ❤❤❤😊
See you March 1st for online reading! you’re great!
I really needed to hear that ❤ thank you
Such a lovely reading 😊and I love about the sticky notes 🗒️ what a great idea 🤔👏🥰🇬🇧
This was beautiful ❤️
My father left me a dollar in his will. When he passed away, I was very upset about this. I didn’t even go to his wake. He kept coming to me until I finally forgave him. And now my heart is he don’t and so is his.
Don't feel bad my mother passed away a month ago and she didn't leave me anything either. Narcisstic parents do this sort of thing.
My mother did the same thing.
Hi Thanks for making a difference to everyone that listens to your vlogs, while I'm here I have missed a few of your vlogs because the subtitles aren't on, I tried to lip read but no good. Thankyou God Bless.
Wow Matt you are truly a beautiful person and soul, ❤God bless you and your whole entire family ,love you so much , really enjoy your readings to the people, you help so many people with their grief, you are so awesome 👌❤
Great subject!!!!
Matt, how long does it take a soul to go through their life review? Does a soul have to go through their life review and forgive themselves before they can send the living signs? Love listening and your information you talk about.
Love the planet fitness comment.😊thanks 4 helping all ❤😊❤
Love you Matt love your channel and thank you for all your hard work and for sharing warm vibes from Ireland ✨🕊️☘️
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Your amazing Matt!
You should come to Texas!! I’d love to see you in person!
I have attended an online reading! I didn’t get a reading but I know one day I will! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for doing this I believe that you're doing such a great job and I just adore you you're a fantastic and take care❤😊😊😊
My mom was Sicilian and we had people at our house getting tea leaf readings from her all the time.
Yes our loved ones and relatives comes to see us and they see what we are doing . Sometimes our family who passed away who soul is restless they just stay in their family like they can’t move on too and they see everything we do like if we are crying ,happy our hobbies and lots of things they see it. Thats why most of the deceased person has many regrets when they hurt us or they neglected us . Thank you for this video ,it helps me to know I can compare every deceased soul I see to those soul you always see .
I was at that live reading. Wish my family would have come through.
Don’t give up🙏
What an amazing reading!!! 😅 post it notes confirmed the message. lol ❤️
Oh if I could just turn back the clock and start all over 😊
Your new book likes great. Shame we have to wait so long.x
Matt you are such a a sweet soul. I wonder if you can see how sweet and tender other people are or if you can only see the walls that we as humans have put up in order to protect ourselves?
Hello from San Fernando, California
My husband kept telling me he made a bad mistake. I forgave him& hope he knows this❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂
10:15 We face regret either in this world or the next. Everyone gets a chance to rectify for PEACE in which ever realm they exist. My daughter's dad wouldnt stop making contact in several ways...until she forgave him. Then the crazy stuff stopped. He couldn't know Peace until she forgave him. Its been the healing they both needed.❤❤❤
MATT I have no regrets towards any person who have past and nobody alive...? I am so at peace..hope I have a great next life xxx?
So so good
Poor women traumatized she keep going and going. Very sad to see. I hope fore here this video was helping but trauma is very difficult to change.
God bless here ❤
Thank you.
Is March 22nd Matt, you and your mom are doing the workshop on March 22nd!❤️❤️
Southern California.
not sure where you're getting your information from, but the moment we croak or die, we leave behind all negativity, all sickness etc. The death experience is a clearing-process. You cannot take any negativity (including regret) into Pure Positive-Energy, or what some call the afterlife. There maybe something what you're calling the life-review, but from our non-physical perspective, we see the perfection in everything that unfolded in our life. Regret is a human response, not a non-physical response.
As a spirit of this earth I have a lot of open space in my life. What am I suppose to learn before leaving this earth. Talking with a neighbor it just came out of my mouth we are here to Serve not receive. I sleep like a baby that night my soul finally connected with universe and I Thank God every morning for another day to serve goodness in this world
Hey Matt!!!!! ❤ 😊
Love listening to you!! Just had to comment. Oh! So when I say they are turning in their graves, they probably are!!! 😆
Hi Matt!!
Hello from Chicago, Illinois
I’m going to see my mom with my siblings on Saturday. She’s very sick with E. coli from a UTI. I’m going to pray that the infection clears up. I don’t think I could keep on living, if anything were to happen to her. I feel so alone and empty inside right now 😢
Matt, try coming to Amarillo Texas please!!
Minnesota? Where? When?! I’ll come see you.
Hi 👋 Matt God Bless🙏
That's sad
i would imagine that these life reviews are fairly challenging for most everyone.. some waaay more than others..😬😬😬 it’s certainly going to be an interesting experience.. all of it…
Wish you would come to Germantown,TN❤
I'd rather know how to set the hurt and pain down so I can move on with my life. Sometimes you get tired of carrying around all of the hurt they inflict on us.
Watching my mom have a massive heart attack and not being able to save her life is my regret and life long torment.
Please don't torment yourself. Things happen the way they're supposed to and there's nothing we can do to change it. Your mom is in a better place and wants you to live a good and full life with no guilt. There are things we can't control and we have to let go.
Ive often wondered if those high on the narcissism scale, who passed over, finally see how their behaviors impacted those they interacted with while they were alive. This message confirmed that its possible. I wonder if there are those with APD, who's actions were so terrible here, that retribution is not possible for them, on the other side🤔
My mother had NPD, not something recognised at the time I was her scapegoat child. As I've just commented, feeling regret on the other side doesn't wipe out decades of hurt and/or indifference - and not accidental - that they inflicted here on Earth. I hope on the other side there is the option NOT to see people.
Snoqualmie--it's not hard when it's spelled correctly. You have it right in the casino name. I saw the falls there long ago--I hope the area is still as pretty now.
Can you PLEASE come to Long Island, NY? ❤
Do pets have guardian anglers and spirit guides
Hey Matt, I've seen you 3 times and I have 1 more reading and if I don't get picked, this will be my last time b/c it cost me double as I'm a Canadian. I guess my ppl just don't have much to say lol. That could be a good thing lol.
Please come to Australia 😊😊
Hi matt
My dear Matt, you have to come to AZ!!! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍😘😘😘🤍🤍🤍🤍 I might see live again in Concord NH. on May 11th. I saw you in Vegas but I am in AZ love❤️❤️❤️
Matt where do you find time to write your books? You travel to do readings plus family wife and your son takes time too!
I don’t think he sleeps. lol 😊
I hope I get a chance to come see you in person someday,,online would be just as good! I just have a few things to work out right now, my mom is sick!! I have to devote my all to my mother! I lost my brother(I was 5,he was 8) and my father(I was 10,4 days before his 43 birthday is when I lost him) I was younger,& I know that they will come through!! no rush, but I can’t wait!! i’ll figure out what is the best way for me to go about this! Until then, my friend,,, have a great day!! Thank you for what you have done for me already! Try and remember me! Richie from NlY…
See or Speak to you Sooner Rather Then Later!!!
Once again,,,,,Thank You!!
Yay....Ben-Salem!
I can't believe this stuff ..
Need to come to upstate ny
How can a baby go through a "life review"?
They don’t.
i have heard that as people were in their earthly human lives, temperament wise, remains mostly the same even in the afterlife.. soooo, my terrifying abusive “family”, all now dead, might not even be able to comprehend their life reviews.. they were so mentally bent, mean and destructive.. so will they really be able to have regrets..???
absolutely profoundly altered almost my entire life for the worst.. they all hurt me so badly, so relentlessly and were seemingly unaware + just unwilling to be kind and nurturing.. to this day, i struggle with profound sadness.. life reviews seem absolutely so sacred to me..
wonder how your visit to Salem will go??😬😬.. so much terror and pain perpetrated against so many beautiful feminine souls..
WILL SEE YOU, ALONG WITH MY LOVED ONES IN SPIRIT, APRIL 3, 2024!
Still waiting for an apology from my Narcissistic mother, 4 years in spirit, her behaviour towards me, the scapegoat child, for over 60 years was appalling. I forgave her behaviour, got cut off , my brother inherited, i got nothing, he wawelcome to the inheritance, it was the way she did it. I had already predicted that event, past behaviour is a predictor or current and future behaviour. A sorry would have helped the healing process, even in spirit.... Nothing. She still hides behind the mental illness thing.
how many choses do we get when we pass away ? 1 go into the light 2 just stay here and be a ghost or 3 ? hi matt sending love
Being the daughter of a narcissist, this is just too familiar for me. I don’t want to hear from her when she’s gone I’ve heard enough of her while she’s been alive.
Please come to Dallas Fort Worth TX
Will you ever come to San Antonio Texas? Maybe i should buy a ticket after someone in my immediate family passes cause I've bought so many online tickets and i guess nobody comes through for me. ~ My mom has been one of the most hurtful people in my life. She's causing so much dysfunction among family and is completely unphased by it. I feel like i must be paying for a big sin from another lifetime cause it's been seemingly cursed while alive. Good to know we just put it all behind us and forgive all the wrongs...
Just wondering~ how does my son feel on the other side knowing he destroyed me when he took his own life in 2020. We had a special bond& he was my best male friend ever. But he's gone now& I am left behind without him to suffer over how& why he ended his life. I will love him until forever. He will always remain my best friend.
I'm so sorry you lost him. he had to have been suffering so much, I'm sure the last thing he wanted was to hurt you, yet when he took his life, all he could feel and focus on was relieving the immeasurable pain he was experiencing.
When are you coming to Detroit Michigan?
I am beyond forgiveness in this life. So I do not believe that I will be forgiven in the next.
Don’t be too sure🙏
So people who have been murdered, why can't they tell you who took their life to bring closure to their cases