How Your SOUL CONTRACTS Affect You! [Time To Break Free]
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- Discover what soul contracts really are, which type you have, and the simple 4-step process to help you break free from negative contracts.
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Right now, you may be under the influence of a powerful spiritual connection called a Soul Contract or you may have many soul contracts in place that are affecting you both positively and negatively.
But what the heck are soul contracts and how do they affect us?
In this video you’ll learn:
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💥 The 2 most common types of contracts. [1:58]
💥 How to find out which type of contract is influencing your life right now. [25:09]
💥 Whether we can break a soul contract if we want to. [26:46]
💥 A simple 4-step process to help you work through a soul contract quickly. [30:34]
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So if we break our soul contract then what next !?
Okay so I am highly confused about what I'm going through. There's an ex wiyh whom I share a strong connection (can't understand why). He comes in professes love then after a few days acts as if I mean nothing. He entertains options. This cycle had been going on for almost 10yrs. Not that I have not learnt my lesson but It seems There's more to this, so I let him in to try to understand. Before he communicates I see the last 3 digits of his,
phone number, I see visions of him, I connect with his energy and soul. I see mirror numbers daily. He is on my mind 24 7 365 no matter how much I want to forget him and disconnect from him. What is this? It's really stressing me out because I can't break away from it
"Empress Chronicles
Okay so I am highly confused about what I'm going through . . ."
Try therapy.
We stay in the karmic wheel repeating the same mistakes over and aver again until we become enlightened.
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There are some contracts that can be brutal that you don't even know you made. My brother committed suicide a few years ago, and although the story is much more complex than this, I kept feeling the urge to also die. I would have inexplicable rages, despairing episodes, and my body started to break down. I was even hospitalized for depression. I went to my local energy healer, and she got a weird look on her face as she did her reading ... she said my brother was attached to me because we had made a contract when we were very young that if one of us died, the other would follow. We dissolved that contract and I literally felt my brother lift out of me. I wasn't even aware. The rages and urges to die stopped -- I was feeling my brother's emotions. I don't know how old we were, but we grew up in a toxic family, so who knows what goes on at the spiritual level. I don't even remember most of my childhood. Please seek help if you need answers; there are people out there who can assist you.
Something that I have been working on is this, "We may share the same blood, but not the same destiny".
Some family contracts can and should come to an end if its a toxic connection.
I have a very negative family members in this incarnation. 😭 I blocked half of them on Facebook because everytime when i opened my Facebook account i would get very very depressed and sad AND now i feel different tho
Yes yes yes! I dealt with so much shame for feeling the need to leave because you aren't suppose to leave your family. I am so grateful for all my experiences but some things just need to be let go for everyone's betterment. Sending lots of love and light it brings me joy to see us all working towards healing
@@elizabethmarielunacordoba9956 It is hard to do cause we are made to think that our blood line is number one in our lives, but when family is hurting you, you must take care of the true #1 and that is yourself. I stay cordial with my family but I'm not about to invite them over for holidays and birthdays if every time i see them I'm left feeling guilt, pain, and anxiety. Keep your head up and remember what Christna says about at the the end on how to letting go with love in your heart. We're all here to support each other. :)
@@jaybee2893 I dealt with guilt and shame and pain for many years. But I feel so refreshed and at peace with it all the more I understand this end.
@@sherylAA thank u so much 💜
32 year long karmic marriage ended last month, after two years of deep spiritual work and cutting every cord but never leaving. I weighed 103 lbs at 5’6” when I finally got the message and left. In my own place, stinger every day, and finding joy and peace!
do you have kids? If so, did you wait (sacrifice your sanity) for them to come to a reasonable age in which they would understand you enough and wouldn’t be affected (trauma) by growing up without one of their parents?
This would be interesting for me too...
It sounds like he got the better deal. You come across as a pain in the @$$
@playmoments4672 As a child of unhealthy parents in a bad marriage, the worst thing you can do is stay together for the kids. It is a very naive and misguided thought. Your children will grow up to repeat the same dysfunction. You are sacrificing your happiness, which in turn sacrifices their happiness. You can't be a good role model making bad decisions in an unhealthy relationship. The only way to break the cycle is to actually walk away instead of delaying it and living in fear.
AMAZING❤
I truly think I wasn’t in my right mind when I made these soul contacts.
Me too!😂
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I just wrote in my journal 15 minutes ago that I want to "break free" of specific people in my life!!!!!
I have been asking God,universe.ho oppono... reiki.cord cutting with an ex who wont leave my home.everynight i cry myself to sleep asking for a miracle. But nothing now i have lost hope n think i deserve this hell as i mist have hurt him in my past life..therefore i must suffer in this one.
I like your UA-cam , but it’s there any evidence what you said exist out there? I mean if not, it’s just another UA-cam who wants viewers and get paid ?
Sorry not try to be rude , just need some convincing. Thanks
"Once the purpose of a soul connection has been achieved, the connection will dissolve naturally" - Yes! And if either person is having difficulties with letting go of the connection, things will eventually turn very nasty so that letting go really is the only option. I've had that experiences a few times myself.
True.
I experienced this very thing!!!🙏
Say more.. ! I just got out of a karmic relation. Found out he was using me very skillfully; it’s been a week of no contact but still feel like wanting to at least trying out a friendship. He is seriously troubled and I don’t know why I am not mad as I used to be in the past breakups.
yup. It's where I am...unfortunatly. :( !
@@thomasgrabowski2202 been a month now and the power dies down.. stay strong.. life's never been better for me :)
I had negative soul contracts .. married one....did my healing....had few more toxic relationships...healed more... finally in relationship with my divine partner!
18:23, IS SO REAL. I was not a believer in any of this until I personally experienced it myself. And it is very easy to confuse such an attraction with love but the reveal is how it leaves you feeling. If you feel lacking, less than, on edge, then it's NOT love.
It's not love, only familiarity
I actually broke out of my contract with my twin flame! It didn't make sense to me how we didn't, & would probably never work. We re-united after 33 yrs & lasted just over 4 months. He was never a bad guy, he just stayed a very immature man-child, among many other unresolved issues. I've done a lot of work to get to the point that I'm at now & he was suppose to be at a similar point. He was so stuck to so many things that held him down. It made things difficult in the relationship & I knew it would continue in that way. I wasn't willing to deal with his BS or the time it would take for him (if he ever did) to "see the light!" I'm in my 50's & I don't have time for that shit. Just cuz he's my twin (yes, he's my real twin) doesn't mean I have to stay with him & so many people think they r bound by these contracts & u just aren't........thank u for sharing this information! I ended my relationship, for good, with him a few yrs ago, we hung out here n there a bit, but I recently just celebrated 1 yr no contact with him. I've done my healing & I'm more than comfortable & happy with my decision.......I don't want him in my life. Him coming back into my life allowed me to finally close a door on a teenage first-love I had never truly let go of. WHEW! Big sigh of relief.....I was finally able to let his memory go & I couldn't be more hopeful for the man that is truly meant to be in my life. xox
I thought I couldn’t let go of this person. I began to meditate. Do inner healing. It took a few weeks and finally realized I deserve better.
As someone who has consumed a lot of spiritual content, this was by far the most practical and lucid explanation of karmic contracts. Thank you so much!
Watch brahma kumari. Shivani lectures... we all came with a cd. Of our past life .
Questions:
1. Am I respected in this connection?
2. Do I feel empowered or am I losing my power in this connection
3. Does this connection feel loving or what does it feel like?
4. Is this connection heavy? If so, how?
5. Am I loved in this connection?
You described my relationship with my ex-husband. It definitely helps when you realize that we chose this. Most hurtful relationship. However, I went through a dark night of the soul then a major spiritual awakening. So I guess I got out of it what I intended. Hopefully there will be a true love relationship on the horizon.
I feel like my mom passed away in a karmic soul contract with my dad my dad wasn’t abusive but after she died we found her journals and she didn’t feel loved by him so you are definitely right you can pass away feeling stuck in the negative soul contracts
Well, as an empath one can have love and grow from very difficult, traumatic or evil situations against us-and even if we are being abused we stay around because we want to help because we understand the person or people that are against us--even when they treat us like an enemy.
I understand you Kraig.
I kept loving and helping but they kept hurting and ignoring.
I said ENOUGH. Finally!!!!!!!!!
It's time to love and respect myself.
The rest is in this beautiful video 🙏
Oh my god! Same!!
@@annm47 I am not sure how they have been to me but yes I too had this feeling of "enough" a lot of times and finally I did get myself free, in words... in actions too. But they keep coming back and I don't have the power to not love them....not sure how far will his go...
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Thank you Sun shine.
I had the same thing. They kept coming back at me with even stronger forces but let me tell you...this is a big test for you as it was for me. They are trying everything to get you back to hurt you even more cause they have nothing to lose now. You have to stay grounded. Stay strong.
New doors won't open until you close the ones behind you. Some people will understand your decision and even might change, some won't and that's ok😊
You are the most important in all of this. THIS IS YOUR LIFE.
All the best to you Sun shine👋
@@annm47 Thank you so much!
It’s extremely painful when the negative soul contract is your child. As a mother, there’s a natural inclination to help, to protect, to fix, to the point of enabling and perpetuating negativity and toxicity ….letting go, which I did 5 years ago when my daughter was 30, is painful beyond words and the entire experience of our relationship remains an open wound in my heart. This helps me understand, thank you Christina❤️🙏
I completely understand! My daughter, I realized, was my biggest trigger, but my deepest love. God knows she had became my life and soul. It's been so hard and hurtful to my core
With Christina's help ive been able to understand and set healthy boundaries to protect my energy. I dont let my daughter trigger me anymore. Suddenly, her need for my Guidance in her life, AWAKENED her! 🙏
She is changing and accepting how imperfectly, perfect we are and how much we need to grow and understand, as created beings, about our magnificent universe and the infinite journey we are part of ❤
God knows it's taken my breathe away but yet I'm still breathing. ☺️
Hugs to you! 🤗
I understand but I can't stand it.
So many quitters. I'll sit out for your ride, I understand it but it's not for me.
If you were me and I you, if I took your free will and became you, I'd talk to my child anyways and try harder to understand.
If you don't understand, don't. It's your soul's decision, not mine. Just don't think you understand if you can't understand
Face your fears, try new things. Do what you haven't done. Maybe you'll learn something and help heal all in one. Understanding is key, take my words as you will.
This is something I am dealing with right now, I'm not sure if it is my fault because I feel like I am here to heal broken families....I feel a need to not give up
I'm sorry.
Omg! I was in a toxic marriage until last year, while I was still with him I had a spiritual awakening and realized that he was indeed a narcissist and I had to get out. But I have children with him so I was scared of what would happen. I did cord cutting and everything, nothing! I didn’t know I had to do it after I got him out. This video is such a blessing! Thank you so much! You have no idea how much your channel has changed my life! I’m happy and confident and I learned to love myself. The inner calmness and awareness I have know is mindblowing especially to know that this was a soul contract make it all make sense now! Thank you thank you thank you🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
How did u do it? I am stuck with an ex who needed a room to stay in my home now cant leave n i cant report as its an iamic country i wld be flogged n we work together i cant report hum without losing my job. 8 yrs of hell.. he has a family back home..so to fund them.he lives for free in my apartment.i wish he wld leave ha e done cord cutting sitting in the other room.we hardly talk ..sa.e routine everyday.. we r cordial but he wont leave..
This really cleared up things for me. For over a year now I’ve thought I was in a twin flame relationship. I even received incredible synchronicities that led me to and kept me in the relationship. I took the quiz and realized it is not a loving relationship at all. It has had moments of love, but it is not loving. Lots of lies and masks. Thank you Maestro Christina. This answers all my questions and clears things up in my confused mind.
Wow sunflower1111. I read your comment 11 days after you wrote it and you had 11 likes! You are on your right path 🙏🏻
@@ekb6212 Wow! That is an amazing synchronicity. ❤️
What do you do when the other person can let go of you?
What quiz did you take?? Is it one from this channel?
@@8Brandy8 the questions she lists at 25 minutes. Also the workbook in the details below the video.
Wao, this helps me heal from an abusive parent forgive and move on, " this contract is terminated" I love that, and I release this contract in all direction of time and release it with love! thanks again so much for this information sooooo needed!!!(thanks just feels like to little to say) Much love light positive energy to you and everyone here xo
I get that. My mom
Yep. Releasing the contact of parental abuse and the release of the contact from my other parent that allowed it to happen.
Me too, my mother. I have done step 2 and 3, did not know about step 4. Now I do, Thanks❤
I can definitely identify. Big hugs.
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Going thru Narcissist Abuse for last 30 yrs . I needed this
Thanks Tina 💜
Disempowering karmic connection with my narcissistic mother and then my ex husband of 13 years. Abuse in every form. Through therapy for PTSD and shadow work, I have brought back my power and sovereignty 🙏🏻💗 Inside job indeed. Healing of my divine masculine and divine feminine ☯️
💚🙏 sending many blessings of love and peace
@@riseshine3335 ty 🙏🏻
Same my mother and ex narcissists and I am away from them but share children with him and he’s being extremely difficult but I will come out stronger ty 🌹❤️
Just got out of the negative soul contract (my narcissistic friend I was living with) and met someone who I reckon is my positive soul contract (My boyfriend). I literally can feel my energy shifting.
Note - My right ear rang with the pitchy sound while I was writing this comment.
What does ringing in ears signify? Really wanna learn more about it, if you don't mind, ofc
Im separated from my negative soul contract. This has been so hard, but grace be to God, my intuition is what steered me to self preservation. Im now doing selfcare and healing. Thank you for your help and knowledge to assist me with this process. So grateful to you ❤️.
This really sheds some light on relationships. There can be intense pull (not calling it love) towards karmic relationships and that is what makes it very difficult. People confuse these karmic relationships for love. It feels like love but it is not. Quite often the relationship breaks after one person or both lose respect for each other. Sometimes you dont know that it is a negative karmic until you are deep into that. Probably that is becuase the karma is too strong and it does not let you know until it is cleared.
I’ve been in a wounding/karmic contract with my narcissist ex. Man, it has been THE hardest road. I broke up with him, found out I was pregnant the following day, and it’s been over four years of major childhood wounds being brought the surface, a past life surfacing where I had carried a lot of trauma from when he had burned me at the stake, and my family karma manifesting in my life through this contact. It has caused a massive shift (or multiple ongoing shifts) in my spiritual awareness. We have a son together and I still see him every week, so I’ve ‘removed’ him as much as possible. I’m curious to see how much more it will dissolve and how much more healing and evolution will continue to take place. Your description was spot on, Christina.
The story is more like my present situation I broke up with my narcissistic ex-girlfriend only to notice she was pregnant not wishing for her to suffer it alone made me took her to my mother and she stayed with her but my ego kept pushing to see the pregnancy as a reason to marry her but thanks to my awareness which has always waved away what would lead me to destruction this topic came at the appointed time and it's really needed for me and by me 😊❤
OMG, your experience resonates with me so much. Did you feel instantly you knew him when you first met, energy wise, like home?
@@carriecastanos Yes, I did feel like I had known him before. It was like an uncanny feeling but I also felt a dissonance with him - not quite comfortable even though he also felt very familiar.
@suefluger3786 yes, same here. So strange the whole experience.
I have finish all negative souls contract and now I am enjoying deep loving and empowering souls connection and soul contracts♥️. thanks for sharing with us 🙏
I love you Christina 🥰
I can't watch your videos without a good cup of tea! I'll be back.
And pen and paper for taking notes and writing answers💝🙏💝
I was in a dangerous red flag situation. The cycles of abuse are hard to break at times. I kept going back even after I would try to break the connection. It was like nothing or no one could fill me with what I needed to stay away. But for both of us it’s better if we part ways. And I know that. I still care for this person even though I SHOULDN’T. The mental and physical abuse is not going to put me back in my power. I thought I could change him, basically be his emotionally punching bag and then he’d realize how he needs to change and over time would stop. But he loved taking my power away and making me feel useless. He didn’t love loving me as much as he should’ve. No matter how many videos I watch, I make the choices. I wish an individual who did not know or love these types of people could jump in me and take control of my thoughts and actions but that can’t be. I have free will. I want to be with someone who has more in common with me and doesn’t want to bully or disempower me. I want to be free. I am free. But my feelings and experiences with this person are still there. And that’s normal and I have to remind myself over and over all the bad things instead of the good. The good was good but the bad was terrible. And that’s what keeps me sane during this unattaching
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Coming here again to tell that I had doubts whether I was in a karmic or another type of a relationship but I hope this helps you guys too, because I found out that to all those who think it’s not karmic, will be a karmic relationship if:
1. There is disrespect
2. It is very very painful.
3. You may feel addicted to that person and neither being with them nor staying away from them keeps you at peace.
4. It all happens very quickly... love is supposed to flow and is slow. But here, it won’t. It’s simply toxic.
The real love is gentle, from both sides, always. But if none of these “gentle, both sides, always” are being followed, then it’s definitely a karmic relationship.
I have been able to finally find out and it’s important to release it with peace and love. So, even after knowing we have to be careful to not be agitated- that’s again a lesson we are supposed to learn. That’s where I am and I hope the cycle ends.
Wishing everyone love and strength 💖 blessings be to all🙏
My mom was mentally/emotionally abusive. My dad was physically and verbally abusive. They divorced and i chose to stay with mom. I didn't even know she was abusive as well until I met my ex. We were together 6 years. He definitely helped me heal and grow. I basically had to go through the same abuse from him to learn that I was abused by my mom. I had my awakening
Ditto!
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It's great that we don't feel alone because we can see others handling the same situations. Thanks Christina💜.
I don't usually comment on the videos i see but this one I really really needed and I'm soo happy that you did a video about this subject bc i have three soul contracts 😂 i have two wonderful bff that I'm convinced that they are my soulmates cuz they literally don't give me anything but LOVE 💚 and I'm in a twin flame connection too that's the second contract , the third contract is my karmic connection with my family especially my mother and that's why I'm so happy about this video that I finally found a specific steps to follow so i can break out of my connection with my family and i think i may have to do the step 3 before 2 bc I honestly don't feel safe in that environment it's literally a toxic household unfortunately, but anyway THANK YOU so much love I'm so grateful for the video you made it's a life saving🙏🏼💚💚💚✨
Perhaps your soul group has done a lot to have everyone be in live vibration💝 Not all soul group members progress at the same rate so some grips have harder lessons the others. Enjoy your living relationships💝🙏💝
I just finished a negative soul contract described exactly as you said. I'm still baffled about how much of my power I gave and was taken and then I was blamed for not having any power. I'm at the end of phase 2. Looking forward to quickly moving to phase 3 &4.
Thank you so very much for bringing so very much clarity to these topics. Blessings
I’ve had my share of relationships and now I’m on my own. I am deeply happy and joyful going solo. I feel this is how I am meant to live. Love to all. 💕💕
My mom was my karmic contract, I
Even did not know about all this knowledge and I can say, I’m ending soon my healing and cord cut for this. 🙌🏽
The timing of this video is PERFECT! I just realized I'm in a negative soul contract with my boss :( It gave me a lot of understand of why I attracted this into my life. As always, thank you!!!
I have been in severely disempowering negative abusive relationships with several bosses, and with my father (now deceased)!! Somehow though, I could not understand why this type of painful connection kept happening to me, throughout my life. Now I get it. I am not a victim. It is not my "fault". It was my "choice" before incarnating. Even when I would quit one job, I would soon end up with the same archetype as a boss, and the abuse would start all over again, like a recurring nightmare. As I do my inner work, and heal, these relationships are dissolving and and fading away. Christina Lopes, thank you. I can breathe now. And yes, I send love to all by abusers in as much that they stowed me the path towards my inner healing and gaining personal strength.
How funny! The moment she said that you can have a karmic relationship with your co-worker or boss I received a group-message from my boss, asking a favour because he was in great need, he really NEVER sends us a message like that as ‘the big boss’. And Normally I feel ‘weaker and full of shame’ towards him because of an embarrassing situation in the past (long story haha). Took this moment as a sign to choose a different path and replied. Action 3 completed for me :))
I went through the same thing... Left earlier this year but I'm still trying to let go of the disgust and resentment I feel towards him. Thankfully in a healthy work environment now... Spent a lot of time learning about red flags last year and it was totally worth it.
I have 3 connections that boil in me like angry soup. I couldn't even say the word love at the end of the mantra because I feel nothing but hatred toward them. I'm no longer in contact with any of them, but my anger hasn't abated. Struggling so much with this, but thankful for this amazing information and education. Hope someday I manage to leap this hurdle, clear it and move on.
I hear you. I have a boxing pole at home and need regular exercise to release the built up negativity from all my resentment.
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♥️ To everyone who reads this… for all of this soul’s dedication, loyalty, empathy, to open humanity up to awakening and healing their soul. This Saturday Jan 29 send this Beautiful Gal some healing energy.
Wouldn’t it be amazing if we gave back some healing energy to help her with the adrenal fatigue she openly shared she is dealing with.
Going into sacred space and gathering healing energy from all around the world throughout the entire day. Sending it to this soul who has inspired you to release, grow and expand within your life ✨
@@littlebluecloud3433 let’s Do It ♥️✨♥️
Why Jan 29? Just to pick a day?
@@littlebluecloud3433 feeling the same. I appreciate her so very much!
@@msididit420ify I think because it’s the next Saturday coming up and I know Christina seems to do her activations on Saturday’s. I just thought choosing a day for a mass amount of light to connect with her would help her with her own healing right now. I more than imagine everyone is sending her healing in their way at their own time. Yet, if focussed, mass amounts were sent in a short span of time. I thought it would be so much more powerful.
@@victoriabaker444 agreed!
My last Karmic was a double header i ended in a week. Really crazy relationship like i had never had before, he was literally the end all be all for learning lessons and breaking a karmic cycle. The moment it ended by my own actions was like i was pulled from my physical body and watched it like a movie. I want you out and i want you out now! Poof gone. It triggered in me a HUGE awakening and in less than a week i started to as a reader in a store. Lost my best friend because she also was a reader there ( her choice ) but after 20 yrs of tolerating alot of her sneaky controlling ways i was out. It took a year but here i am.. dark night over and soul path strong 💪
I wish I had watched this last year when I was struggling to end my karmic connection. Karmic connection with a covert narcissist. I don't advise it, guys! Lol Thank you for putting a theoretical framework to what many of us are going or went through, my friend!! You're appreciated!🙌🏻❤
Maybe to let you be more aware that you are am empath that needs to honer her heart💝🙏💝 I say this because as the saying goes: it takes on to know one! From my heart to yours💝
@@laurabarber6697 Hahaha How did you know I'm an empath?? ❤❤ I am and it made the process for more complicated than it needed to be, but I'm grateful that out of the worst year (2021) and the worst relationship I learned the most valuable lessons so far and it was what ultimately pushed me to spiritual awakening. Who would have known? Lol Thank you for your kindness and your sweet words! From my heart to yours, we've got this!!🙏🏻🙌🏻😘
@@evadnc1408because most empaths attract narcs
Wow, this has really opened my eyes, it worth it, thanks so much, you are so amazing. I have just realized that I am in a negative contract with my husband and now I know what to do now. Love you lot girl
I was just think of this yesterday. I love getting those little glimpses of how connected we all truly are. Thank you for sharing your insight. Sending love and light to everyone
So to put it short: Soul contract is an agreement between two individual souls on playing a certain “role” for each other as a way of supporting one’s evolution. This is beyond human construct and accessible with a specially trained practitioner/facilitator.
Again, as always you've reached into my heart by telling me things I really need to hear and do to move on. You are unbelievable. Thank you for all your videos.
Thank you for this. I have been in exactly this situation for many years and it has been terminated naturally exactly as you described. The only thing I haven’t done is the cord cutting which I will do now. Thank you for reaffirming what my inner knowing told me. I am super happy right now knowing I no longer have to be in that negative space and that I am done with that contract once and for all. Thank you beautiful soul!! I love you!!!
Wow Divine timing! Going through this at the moment with a lady / acquaintance. A negative soul contract that I am internally being asked to end. Exploring how to end with love and kindness.
I was 10 years in a Karmic conection. And it feels never right, but i must go trough these. My Partner dont Respekt me, dont love me and never be there for me. And Now i know what partnership must be for me and what i want. Independence 🕊🕊
I am definitely coming in a negative contract but I’m grateful to have realized and acknowledge it , it gives me some type of comfort knowing that if I catch my mistake in this life I will somehow now get it again in the next life.
Christina thank you so much for this post as this is something that I’ve been dealing with for years. I was in a karmic connection aka marriage for 27 yrs and I dissolved it and became aware of the patterns. However the more I became aware of it the more I noticed how many toxic people have been in my life and continue to be so through bosses, friends, and family members. I have tried to remove and distance myself from these toxic karmic people but it doesn’t matter what I do I cannot keep new karmic connections out of my life. I’ve healed an enormous amount and refuse to allow these connections to disempower me but these people are drawn to me like magnets. Why does this keep happening especially when once I see they are toxic I remove myself but there is always one that comes along to replace the last one?
Something remains unacknowledged thus unhealed, dig deeper, same here, mine were not only repeating but also escalating in negativity to push me to see a bit deeper every time and helping me become more aware of what needs healing, I imagine there's plenty of healing to be done, they all have made me aware of different things...last two that were severely toxic brought the biggest wound to the surface, inner child was not seen, not heard...healing that now and for the first time of my life I've chosen to remain single for the past 6 years, and gave myself my power back....love and healing to you on your path
This is so on time. I have been having such a achy heart last couple weeks and I heard a whisper say it is being cleansed..and purified. Which is painful as hell but encouraging to know that which is actually taking place.
The cleansing is most definitely painful but necessary. Have faith bro, I'll hang on to mine. It feels really good that people can connect here and support each other when others around you don't understand what you are going through. Love and light💜
Absolutely!! We are not alone, we are only scattered....for now
I have been told Iam free from karma and I actually think Iam, however it hasn’t been easy. My early years were tough but now getting closer to 50’s I am able to be grateful and see the bigger picture well. I am married to my twinflame with two wise children. I have several female soulmates that I truly love and looking forward to starting finally do what I have always dreamed of- creative arts as a teacher, healer and an healing artist. Getting to know myself has been the key to balance. By following the joy I have been able to find peace and freedom.
Happy New year greetings from here to you friend, how are you doing today. It’s my pleasure to talk you I hope you don’t mind talking with me back.
Wonderful..loved this! And this is why it is said our relationships reflect who we are deep inside. After I cut off a toxic friend, I felt relief and that was it. But after I started working on issues that I had in that relationship, I feel so powerful and happy. Now I know for a fact that I will never ever be in that sort of relationship dynamic again!
Wow!! Thank you for this video, my children and I are in a very dangerous and painful cycle with their father, we all want to break free of the karmic connection with him, this will help us all so much!! Can’t thank you enough for this, love and light to you! ❤️
Bless you and you will I am in the same boat
Don't understand why I will agree to such pain, but my life in this lifetime has sucked to the point I have considered suicide many times. I have been in loveless relationships and on top of that my own mother is jealous of me and wishes for failure on me to the point she has been working black magic on me. Can't wait until that contract with her ends.
You don't have to wait. You end it. Part of our lessons is learning to set and maintain healthy boundaries based on healthy self love. When you cut the cord with her - then even when you are in the same room you won't let her effect you. She becomes just another person. Let go with love- cut the cord with the light of love. It releases you both💝🙏💝 yes I did it with my abusive mother. And yes some mothers are horrible to their daughters. Free yourself.😇
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I'm a GUY and have these same issues with my mother ex gf
Thankyou Thankyou.. Thankyou.. Just listened released this soul contract in all directions of time and released with love.. How I know it's done I was soooo bored at the end.. 🎉Yipeee I'm free to step into the wonders of what life will take me. 🎉🎉🎉
I feel like it's better to understand Shadow Work more than Soul contracts. And also the idea of Karma as "bad" is something that needs reconsidering.
Thanks a ton Christina.The 4 step solution was empowering with a no nonsense approach and was worth the wait. Stay blessed 💕
I agree
Presently, I am in a positive empowering respectful accepting relationship. I spent 3/4 of my life in abusive disempowering relationships. I went to “spiritual therapy “ and learned so much like you speak about in this video. I thank them and “bless” them . The hardest ones are with my children (adult children) to whom I raised while in the disempowering relationships. They choose to not have any relationships with me and therefore I also miss out on my grandchildren. Otherwise, I’m finally becoming a whole person and continue to discover myself!
full of gratitude for you and the work you do.....xxx
Thank you so much for explaining the soul contract , I have experienced this and like you said when you get unattached or bored with the relationship and start realizing the relationship no longer serves your higher good for wither one of you, it could be hard to walk away but if you do the inner work like you said it is easier. Sending you blessings and to all out there.
I have been in a 7 in a half year negative soul contract. I can say my lesson has been learned and I’m currently in the process of taking back my own power. This video has helped me realize many things I’ve been so confused about. Thank you my life feels so in powered although I’m still in the middle of my transition. Blessed and moving forward with my life and I’m so thankful for my many life lessons learned. I released my ex with love and so much more.💕
Christina, I LOVE that you work through your SOUL.
After 30 years of marriage I'm at a loss for explaining what connection I have with my husband .
Wow, thank you so much for this!!! I came up on this video 3 weeks into my masculine energy. I needed that mantra to seal it. I thought that I was crazy and was unsure most of the time but you confirmed everything that I was dealing with during the relationship, the struggles within it, and then finally the decision to end it. When you describe that weight, that draining, omg! That is what I was experiencing the entire time. I also realize that the things that the other person were doing to me disrespectfully but in the name of love and concern, it did reveal to me what I needed to work on. It even showed me my wounds as the reason why even entering in the relationship in the first place. Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you. I needed this so badly,. You have been with me on my journey of recovery for the last 3 years, starting with recognizing that I am an empath. I did not know that that was the reason and the source but why I dealt with life the way that I did, the decisions and the circumstances that came along with not knowing that I possessed this gift. Thank you again so much, always learning and evolving..
'some soul contracts you don't want to be lifelong'. Laughed. Truth.
Christina, this is the best explanation of what I am going through. I never viewed the relationship like this. I truly have a better understanding if this toxic karma thing that's going on. I know how to handle the breaking off part better. With love and not hate and resentment. Thank you for all the videos they have helped me get through the toughest time in my life.
Although disempowering contracts can be the most painful, they can also lead to the most self empowerment and change and growth.
Happy New year greetings from here to you friend, how are you doing today. It’s my pleasure to talk you I hope you don’t mind talking with me back.
Thank you for your work♡
I believe myself to be in a twin flame connection, as whenever I lose focus and forget the inner work and don't make time for self the connection weakens and energy seem to become heavy. The mirroring of the energy is insane and undeniable. Working on opening my chakras I notice shift in the counterparts energy prior to my own.
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Thank you Christina. I really needed this. It completely helped me understand. ❤️❤️
Thank you so much Christina, you made me realize I was in a karmic. All this is kind of new to me, and I simply thought I had a twin flame connection for some time. I feel like I get it now and I'm so pleased I found this video. Blessings to you
Seriously I’ve been searching the all web for an analysis like yours.
Thank you ♥️
I have been seriously been working on healing from the Trauma I have experienced in my life I have made some progress listening to certain Spiitual teachers like you to help myself I have also done alot of reading and counseling I have made progress but I am still struggling I so look forward to getting passed this place before leaving here Thank you for all that you are sharing it does help and gives me hope
You just healed my entire life. The information I severely needed. Thank you 🙏🌹❤
I feel like this described everything I’ve been through over the last seven years with someone I worked for. I’ve been slowly doing the inner work, but regularly since the pandemic started. I finally got to the point where I was bored with it (and my only reaction was to laugh, honestly), and I wrote and sent my letter of resignation. Best. Decision. Ever. Now I have a new job with a lot of free time, and I’m having a TON of fun doing Heart Alchemy right now! 💖💖💖
Last year, for the first time in my life, I met a divine counterpart who I felt immediately safe with and crazily attracted to. The connection was very intense and amazing that I felt an unexplainable feeling of safety and warmth about her presence, and I had a mental image of hugging her, and it felt very safe and comforting. This connection shake me to my core that I received clarity about my 7 years long karmic pattern and updated my definition of love.
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This is such rich and valuable information Christina. Thank you so much!!!
I some how intuitively took the steps necessary to heal and break free from a negative soul contract after giving into it following repeatedly resisting it. It was a big lesson to learn.
These kinds of videos really help us understand why we act the way we do. Thank you, Christina ❤️
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Perfect timing as ALWAYS! Thank you 💜
WOW, the timing of this info is amazing - answers to my prayers. Thank you!
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS. Never a better time in my life to listen to you and get these amazing tips and insights. 38:10 your Sagittarius sun was right on point there. Tons of hugs ans safe trip to New York
Hi Christina, thank you very much for this very informative and useful video. I went through the first three stages of healing twice in a span of eight months without knowing all this. It all happened in the right order. Now I need to intentionally do the cord cutting with the souls I worked with, in my previous two jobs. Thank you once again.
Christina, you are my favorite spiritual UA-cam channel! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!
So, so, so good, and so truly helpful 😊🙏🏽
Thank you so much for this information. I got emotional as I identified my relationships with different people in my life. Especially my ex bf, which I can now clearly see what type of soul contract we agreed to. 💜
To a point, I've often wondered " who was I " in the past, once I realized I was being manipulated and placed under foot... so subtle was those words that I did indeed think it was real love. I am here with a negative contract. Thank you so much. 💜
I had a soul contract with this boy, I’m aware how much it has evolved my soul. He broke up with me, afterward I learned many lessons. Why would I pick a soul contract with someone I want to be a soulmate? I feel such a strong connection to this guy. It hurts me so much I picked him to evolve me instead of being something more and long term ☹️
Excellent video Christina! It is a really empowering process and approach! Thank you for sharing this!
Thank you so much for this! I terminated a contract with a parent a year ago, but did not understand the reason for that kind of contract for my life in the first place. I just knew that it was no longer serving me in a positive way. I now see it as a gift of independence. That really helps to let go with more love. 💗
Thank You 🙏 I m in a karmic relationship with my whole family (all narcissists) disabled (they’ve sucked the qui out of me). Will start implementing step 2. Thank You again 🙏
I’m so thankful for your wisdom! 🙏🏼
Thank you si much Christina!! I think I was missing step number 4 which I'll do now, and back then I had to leave the relationship before doing the inner work, but I'm glad I did! 😊🙌
My husband and I met in our addiction and loved each other through to recovery. We were both at our worst and in many ways brought out the worst in each other. Our bond was toxic and we ended up using again during lockdown.. after I had 4 major surgeries and narcotic pain meds were necessary.. it all was so much and we crumbled and almost divorced when our family fell apart.. we separated for 6 months and healed our own shadow alone working our own program.. we came back together and now after therapy and much work we are no longer toxic.. so my point is that I'm wondering if a negative soul contract can evolve into a positive one because we healed the things in us that triggered us in each other.. I realize so much more about myself and vice versa.. we used to trigger each other and project defensively and abusively codependent spiteful.. like addicts we were broken in every way..
The months we spent alone were key..
You said it: individually and together you both did your work! 💝🙏💝
I understand and I feel the same but not sure if soul contracts should be carried forward..
I was wondering the same thing, but I don’t think anyone else can tell us this answer. We have to ultimately follow our own intuition because we are the only one who can know what is best for us. No one else can ever know our exact situation, how we feel or our life path. Cristina always encourages us to follow our intuition, even if it’s contra to what she says. I hope you guys figure it out and I hope you’ve both reflected on how courageous & powerful you are for looking your trauma in the eye ❤️
I’m so proud of y’all! I wish your love the best
This is soooo helpful!! Thank you so much. Your delivery and much needed clarification on the topic is spot on 👍
Oh my gosh THANK YOU!! This video is absolutely amazing! I needed this info so much!
Kinda weird... intuitively, I've always known this. It's comforting to have CL confirm and explain this so succinctly. Many thanks.
You are an amazing teacher! Glad I found you last year!
Girl I can not stress my GRATITUDE enough for this video. God bless you!
Hi! I am thankful for seeing this because I've been feeling strange about my marraige and family situation for a long time. I don't know if I fall into this negative contract catagory, but I guess it's a possibility. I know we all need healing from something. I feel like that's part of the reason why my husband and I came together. I also feel like maybe our children, especially our daughter needs healing. It's almost like we all came together for healing but we keep inflicting hurts on one another. It feels like bad results come from good efforts. I am trying to do a lot of self work and inner healing. I share things I have learned with my kiddos. One of the things that would stop me from breaking a supposed soul contract with my husband is it might hurt him and it might hurt my kiddos. I definately feel stuck in this dynamic but maybe I'm also thinking of it all wrong. Is it possible to have one party want to be done with the soul contract and the other not ready or harmed even furthur by the break up? I feel like even if we weren't supposed to stay together, I would stay and try purposefully to have us be healed somehow. And I would stay until my kids were older and didnt need to rely so much on the family situation they were used to. Again maybe this is not me. What are some excercises to do to really soul search this? Very curious and interested - Lisa