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A Must Watch! Why Africans Abroad Are Fed Up With Africans In Africa For This Reason
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- A Must Watch! Why Africans Abroad Are Fed Up With Africans In Africa For This Reason
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Why commenting on someone degrading itself to me it a disgrace to publish such video and if I were to be part of your family with this video i would done with you for ever it a disgrace some of you Africans degrading yourself and expect others to give you respect
I was overseas for 3 decades before returning to Africa. The most important thing I learn about sending money home is that, the more you send, the more they believe that there's plenty more from where the money came from, and the more they feel entitled and continue to ask for more. So avoid it because it's a very bad idea.
So about a decade before I returned home, I put an abrupt end to it but I continue to help my mom ONLY, until she passed away 2 months before my return home. My suggestion is avoid sending money to anyone, except your unemployed and struggling parents. Period! Your family freeloaders are generally the most entitled and ungrateful beneficiaries of your sweat.
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Thank you Sister, for bringing out the truth. it happens among with Africans, and even with the Diaspora. WE work in Amerikkka, we send money back to Jamaica, Panama, other Caribbean Islands, and it is the same things.... they are always begging. You give, and they still beg. We have to work hard in Amerikkka. YES we make a little more money, but it is a lot of pressure.
BRING IT OUT SIS I HAVE BEEN SCAMMED BY MY OWN PEOPLE AS A NIGERIAN LIVING IN THE US BECAUSE I WASN'T BORN THERE THEY GOT ME FOR THOUSANDS❤
Awww am so sorry brother 😢
This is a hole in our mind, can't seem to heal itself from this problem and it's very sad 😢.
The same thing has happened to me from someone who took advantage of me for being honest and then trying to justify it which was immature and pathetic.
One thing I’ve noticed from my experience of visiting the continent 5 times is that people tend to beg all the time and think they are entitled to get money from you for nothing and it is extremely disheartening and is off putting.
What I do find amazing though is that Africans tend to be so religious and god fearing yet they will rob you in a blink of an eye without no conscience whatsoever but what I say is God don’t sleep and that what goes around comes around
I’m not saying that all of Africa is like this but the countries I have been to have been like that and I have a right to call it out even if it helps one person from being exploited then it is worth it to.
Anyone who is going to come for me for speaking the truth can stay quiet because unless the cap fits then they can wear it
So sad. I feel your pain. Especially the fact that you are born diaspora . It looks like that they should have made it easy for you. I have to warn my family.
@@mulehikita2917Thank you for your reply and for your compassion.
Don’t take anyone at face value and don’t shy away from asking as much questions as you need to.. Just be careful and blessings to you 🙏
I slave everyday. I’m not playing around. I’m getting from under this system to enjoy the rest of my days in Africa.
You're not being selfish or mean.
You're liberating yourself as a grown woman.
Witchcraft will never propser.
Preachhhh
THE BIGGEST MISTAKE I'VE EVER MADE WAS SENDING MONEY HOME WHILE I WAS ABROAD.
It's draining 😢
African leadership more helping European countries then the Caribbean African
Yes.
Yes that's correct. It is because they are puppets, (and their.regimes) who allow the continued foreign plunder of the Afrikan continent . The system is called, Neo-Colonialism.
Suggested reading: Africa Must Unite Kwame Nkrumah
Thats NOT the topic, WHY is everything about the government who cannot solve all problems? ADULTS need to solve their problems by being self reliance.
To those that received the monies money 💰 monies. Let them give a testimony of being the beneficiarys of that money 🤑
Do not give your money to the ignorant give your money to the money makers. and get them insured. Set something up.
You could easily be talking about Jamaica.
Exactly my thoughts...
I tell people that "I help the NEEDY not the GREEDY" and it's getting harder to tell one from the other. Greedy people will make you stop helping everybody...even donating to charities.
HEREIN LIES THE REASON AFRICA IS ON ITS KNEES AND WILL REMAIN SO FOR THE FORESEEABLE FUTURE. WHAT IS HAPPENING IS PURE WICKEDNESS AND TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THE GOODNESS OF OTHERS. THEREFORE I GIVE THIS TIMELY MESSAGE TO MY AFRICAN AMERICAN AND CARIBBEAN BROTHERS AND SISTERS WHO ARE THINKING OF RELOCATING TO AFRICA. STAY WHERE YOU ARE BECAUSE IF FAMILY CAN DO THIS TO EACH OTHER WITHOUT CONSCIENCE, THINK ABOUT WHAT THEY CAN DO TO YOU A STRANGE. THE AFRICANS HAVE A LOT OF GROWING UP TO DO. IT WOULDN'T BE SO BAD IF THEY WERE INVESTING THE MONEY, BUT INSTEAD, THEY USE IT FOR HAIRDRESSING AND NAILS, REVENUE WHICH GOES RIGHT BACK INTO NON-BLACK PEOPLE'S HANDS BECAUSE THE FAKE NON-AFRICAN HAIR AND ACRYLICS USED FOR THE NAILS ARE ALL IMPORTED. THIS IS SIMPLY AN IMMATURE MINDSET AND PEASANT THINKING........KEEP YOUR MONEY IN YOUR POCKETS, GOD KNOWS YOU HAVE TO WORK HARD ENOUGH TO GET IT BECAUSE NOTHING IS FOR FREE IN THE WEST.!!
These stories affect 99percent of our people...is it just us, or is it a human thing? Sad😢
It's just us thing..them other races does not play that 😮
@@vanettp2491 in that case, it's very sad and looks bad on all of us. I pray for a massive change if we're going to be respected by others. Thank God, I have been working for my independence since the age of 17yrs. From a very humble beginning!
It’s a bad habit they’re dependent, NGO is a problematic situation
I wonder if these people are having these conversations with their family?
I had people even in my family speak up and they were seen as selfish and evil eve after them helping countless tomes😢
@@Ndagire that's sad. Of course I don't have the answer, I just don't think this should be put over the internet and social media though. Like the one young lady said, to show them you aren't rich and everything is not easy and only getting harder throughout the entire west just stop sending the money, and only send some when absolutely necessary.
Thank you for all the knowledge you give on your channel I live in America and at age 61 a lot of this stuff going on I wasn’t aware but I love you Ndagire and your content I’m a faithful subscriber so keep doing what you’re doing! Bye❤
You won’t get me. Ha ha ha I got family in Jamaica dat do the same thing
What ppl dont realize is if they have intergrity and be honest when that person who entrusted you win , you win also.. when the business succeed it cslan feed many instead if you being greedy , and steal ppl money , well, non of you will win , the money you steal will done enough and bad relationship, no trust . What you dont realize nobody owes you anythinng
I liv in the caribbean and i hate this begging mentality. Have pride people.. when you family send money for you to do business or built their home do it... my mom did and was so impress with the home i assisted to make happen for her..
I know right
I never thought about this, a real eye-opener.
Family will milk you until you're dry
Yes, sometimes you have to shut them down until they learn the respect you demand. They tend to do too much sometimes which puts us in danger we are only one person trying to do the work of many.@@essynatukunda
Very interesting topic...who would have thought easy money makes someone lazy...make sense from that perspective... I suggest checking where & what the money is being asked for..never stop supporting or helping our own...
It's never to stop helping but not unnecessarily
You don't have to go abroad to get taken advantage of, even if you're at home as long as you have money members that don't have will come for it.
In Jamaica, one of our youth told my father that the only way his hands would touch the ground (work as a farmer) is if he fell down. That seems to be the mentality of most people who have others supporting them. SMH
There's no love with our families anymore in the name of money
Your right because we have tired of sending money to Africa.
GOD almighty blessed you.
As is the Judge so is the officers, as those Government in Africa look to the west for aid, so do they subject who are the people!
Thank You for this, I have the exact same problem with my own family members on both sides of the family... I think that now we as Black people from the diaspora and Africans are all having problems with family members...
Replay Watch 3/8/24: Greetings, thank you for bringing this video. Thank you for your truth.
Ndagire i like this your topic.
Whoever criticised you would be among those beggars who have nothing to do with their life.
This begging for money problem it's allover Africa continent.
African people we need to develop ourselves and learning to have ability to make our own money.
We should copy from Asians and Europeans people to manufacture or produce goods to sell to the world so that we can earned money.
Our own motto in Africa is to pray to God to give us money 🤑💰 without effort being made
Excellent vid, of course. I feel so seriously angry for Sister with the pink scarf. My experience starting out was: advantaged family members pretending we were beggars just so they could put others off giving opportunities to anyone but them. So that's got to be a new one. They were the ones cheating their humble family members also by taking what little you had as if they were a successful expert, and then pushing you out of the picture as a despised nobody. Heeeeh! I'm very frustrated to hear how irresponsible our family in Africa are with the fruit of our slavery in the West (the historic and the modern versions). If only they knew. And they refuse to listen. I hope this is just a growing pain. Because returning to Africa, and restoring a measure of prosperity there has literally been the idea that helped generations of stolen Africans survive the unthinkable, and has made all the isms and exhaustion of the West worth it. I pray Africans' ignorance does not result in us losing our homeland to invaders yet again, all because we refuse to be reasonable with our personal enterprises and resources. Loyalty to each other is the most valuable resource- it stems from deep love!
That Part!!!
It's really really frustrating. One family member lied and said they needed surgery, just to find out later it's all a lie. 1 of My Family had almost 10 kids and refused to work, until the wife got fed up and took The kids and went to stay wt her parents because the wife felt sorry how My own Brother would lie to Me to get money from Me. LORD Have Mercy 😢😊
I wouldn't care how I was looked at or treated, I'm not paying bills for adults. Family or not. I wouldn't send money anywhere. Cousins can't call me. Well, they can call but they'd just be practicing cause I'm not answering. Selfishly guard yourself.
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Don't be that way
Don't be that way
Unfortunately, we as a people will be extinct if Africans and African-Americans will do not invest our money wisely. The Chinese, East Indians, Hispanics and Whites get the importance of financing. However; it is only a few of us who get financing.
True words spoken my brother that's why we are at the bottom we don;t united and support each other it's not just Africa also in the caribbeans
This happens a lot within the Afro-American community as well. To the point you can't save to create your own family. And that is why many end contact with certain family and friends. Sure, there are more amenities in the west but it's extremely expensive place to live.
The fact that America is an extremely expensive place to live and that is known by Afro Americans is exactly why it doesn't happen often within that community. Black Americans do not use children as a retirement plan, it is not their culture
@@Silverbackugx not true at all. my own mother literally says me and my siblings need to retire her
@@afronational2340 Sorry about that, that is the Single mom "Strong Black woman" effect, that is NOT culture.
I can tell that you’re not Blak American because Blak Americans don’t use the term “Afro-Americans” when we talk about ourselves..
@@Preus-by8ru You're ignorant. before Jesse Jackson popularized us being African American we called ourselves Afro-American and Negro with no reservations, unlike today. I also use "Black American" interchangeably.
Money i used to send was used on drugs smoking, alcohol, design clothes, witch doctor, pastors 10% and offering every Sunday 🤔🤔🤔 i stopped sending...
Love and Blessings to Ndagire
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I feel exactly where you coming from.
I agree with what you are saying. I live Herr in the states and my fiance and I have a place in Ghana as well. I take care of our bills there and my bills here. When she mention that there is family members that need help I told her that I will help this time but please don't make it a habit. I have to let her know whe have bills of our own and I have responsibilities here in the state
Ndagire, I must say I love you. You speech and look plus your calm demeanor. ❤❤❤ I just love you. ❤️
Thank you but I feel if I help someone it comes back to me in the blessings from above Amen ❤😊
brother here in south africa we call it black tax
Giving free money to people turns them into a nation of beggars. Teach them how to fish for themselves instead.
Nah, this is the thing...business is business....the important thing is to work with people who are business oriented
Exactly
Well said my sisters
My Wife's family did that to her when they found out she was married to an American. I told her we won't be going to anybody's house so I paid for her an Apartment for a year! Much Cheaper at only $250 for the year!
If you dress nice on profile picture they think your rich in Africa I have to work to buy nice things
Like if you say no to them and they see a cute picture of you posting they will send you curses
Thanks for this video, Ndagire!
❤❤
Thanks!
Thank you 😊
That was a serious topic and understand completely. I have people trying to hit me up on here and across the water. I have cut ties drastically hearing how I'm being mean and selfish and also how they have helped me without hesitation. Each time I ask how have they helped me there is no answer and if they explain how I remind them that I paid for their help. But you're also right about them quick to ask for help without even attempting to help themselves by find work of a side hustle. I do it when I need more money. I have relatives both in Africa and the US. 🤷🏽♂️
Elderly parents who sacrifice for you need to be helped,ADULTS need to live within their means if they cannot afford certain things work hard or do without it.All healthy adults need to be self sufficient and support their family its shows self pride.
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Your topic is how black people think. My aunt moved to California my uncle, her younger brother moved there after graduation from High school. He was required to serve in the National military. His plan was to save a portion of his pay each month to attend university after discharge from the military. So his idea was to send the money to his sister for a savings upon his discharge and attend University. She spent every penny for partying and drinks for her friends. He was heart broken to learn she spent the money, not saving one dime for his efforts.
DON’T SEND MONEY BACK TO AFRICA.
They are taking you to native doctors to distroy not to come home ever we create enemies in our families if you have children they distroy both you and your children we have a problem in Africa
I get what they are saying, feeling used is a horrible thing. Users are a bad lot. I do send money home like contributing to medical emergencies. Regular financial support goes mostly to education. I found out, there is always an intelligent child who and whose parents can do with a bit of support.
Am lucky my family/relatives aren't the nagging type and when I visit they go out of their way to make my stay a memorable one. Am very grateful and I appreciate them and my friends very much.
Please be specific, just because you have a problem with your family in a particular country doesn't mean it applies to all Africa. Also there are many charities working in Africa, send to them. Than, America sends billions of dollars to Europe by comparison. We have to find constructive ways to support each other and should appreciate each other.
Well said. I agree
Without a doubt the lazy and entitled family beggars are all over Africa. Give them an inch and they expect a mile
Ghana said you have nice furniture and bed I told her I have to pay for it in the United States they don't give nothing free here
🤣🤣 Good Answer
If they are not your parents don't send it.
This is my second comment to this nice video: I never forget that Africa would have all the resources to have as many lazy lifestyles and children as they want if the West wasn't siphoning the wealth through all it's corporate back-channels. In the West, people who can live like that are called celebrities and heiresses, and no one thinks their chill lifestyle is out of line with the wealth they have to back it up. But it's not even their wealth. That'll never cease to irk me. More than irk- they destroy lives by the continent-full and then act like the people are immoral for existing. The African leaders aren't as utterly useless as they seem. I try to say. Whoever mysterious, powerful individuals who run the West- they are monsters like you barely want to fathom. Unless and until African leaders are ready or able for a nasty struggle, and, huge and, and the people are also ready and willing to put all lives on the line for the push, then it's better for those leaders to take the shady contracts and report to Boss. Do you see what they do to people who push back but aren't strong enough to win? They simply mow down life. I don't want that for Africa.
Do you have government bonds?
I bought GHANA a cell phone and shipped it to Ghana she said I need shampoo and body wash and panties and bra I'm like I'm your friend ! Not your husband she got mad at me
😂😂😂
I think it is important to start calling out the countries, in Africa you are talking about.. Because when you say Africa, it makes all of us look bad. And us in South Africa we are not even a traveling nation. We love our country too much...
...dreams of the motherland ...smh
A funny thing that I thought about,
Autosomal Ancestral DNA Tests connect
one with their close to distant relatives who've
taken the tests as well across the 🌐. I'm an
African American who isn't one of the mentally
inept deniers that knew my whole life that I'm a
descendant from the Mother Continent. I was thinking,
what about the similarities and differences, culturally
between someone like me and a cousin in and from the
Mother Continent❓ 🤔 👀 😆
One thing that I can rest assuredly state is that,
fraudsters, scammers, and not good charactered
people span "the board" of our Species (Homo Sapien
Sapiens = Modern Human Beings), irrespective of ancestral
ethnicity.
True
Take care of yourself first.
This is terrible what you're saying. But a lot of people corroborate what you describe. Perhaps you do have to cut unproductive members off as soon as you can confirm they are not investing your money. But the answer is to find other reliable partners. Indigenous people need to invest in their country. Foreigners are investing. You can't let the wickedness of family members stand in the way of opportunity. They will learn quickly soon enough that their treachery reaps bitter fruit. You have to go back and build your nation. Don't linger in the West and prop up the fortunes of others. Wow, I don't envy those who leave Africa in order to seek opportunities and share their knowledge with family members only to be stabbed in the back. But you have to invest. Just find better partners.
I THINK it is NOT GOOD to air "YOUR" FAMILY'S "DIRTY" "LAUNDRY" out to the Internet. "IF" you CAN'T GIVE without ANY STRINGS "ATTACHED" or HOW the money will be SPENT; then DON'T "GIVE" IT. And "IF" there is a PROBLEM, then SOLVE it "WITHIN" "THE" "FAMILY". Who wants to HEAR other people's FAMILY PROBLEMS talking about MONEY? I don't.
ok user
Which family? You're an obvious user and abuser.
You try to help African people but your not rich because you live in the United States
they were nickel and Diamond you sister because they thought they you have it like that that's not right