@@MrTomo4415 He's a Buddhist Monk, technically he's not an atheist. But real Buddhism is more of a philosophy than a religion. So in a way, yeah he's an atheist.
@@rapid1010that’s a misunderstanding of Buddhism. Buddhism is definitely a religion and there is certainly faith in buddha, dharma and the sangha, there’s certainly devotion and worship of these aspects! The difference between Buddhism and other religions is that it’s not monotheistic. The faith is also not blind in Buddhism, it doesn’t end with faith, the faith is replaced by wisdom through practice. Hope this clarifies
Thank you, Ajahn Brahm, you have taught me a lot on how to let go of the past me !! The past was just a part of my journey, and i had all along perceived that as me, which made me so vunerable to criticism and hurtful remarks.
Good talk as always Ajarn Brahm! Buddha had NEVER said to believe him and always remind us to prove all he said yourself and make your own judgement. And what he said were so simple but were not easy to practice. That are what I Iove about Buddhism. You have to prove it yourself! :)
I'm going to cross out the little quotes on my school agenda telling me that I need high expectations and goals and all that which drives me crazy by the way because most of the time I want to achieve perfection... He helped me :)
Wise words. We should assess our skills and be realistic but we don't need to be so ego driven. It is stressful to strive to be better and be competitive, unless you are exceptional. It will be great if I can let go without striving to let go. I love his sense of freedom.
It is very true that owning mistakes or successes makes us prisoners of our self esteem. I liked how Ajahn answered the question of an artist doubting his work explaining that he should look at his work through the eyes of others. What if the problem is in others being critical of his work showing very little interest in paying for his art, but that's where the art of selling comes in, I suppose it can happen when he sees the positives of his work, others will start believing it too.
2012 when this video came out i was 21 years old newly graduated from college 2020 8 years at 29 years old going thru jobs and failure at work, make many mistake blame myself many many times, i remember this teaching of Ajahn Brahm "no-self esteem" listen to it..... i learn nothing at 21 years old hahahaha
ahhhh.Ajahn is so charming he gets no peace.I think Ajahn ego was showing.LOL He would be the first to laugh.I use the very good reply all the time.thanks Ajahn.
Yes, society is really critical of everyone. How can anyone feel good about themselves if we keep beating up ourselves of past mistakes. It's like we can't show any honest emotion otherwise people will take advantage of you. Competitive and successful people still are so defensive. We just need to ignore people's negativity. But, it's good enough, as he says.
wow I want to sleep here.No other place like this. "Where the worthy ones live-whether in village or in forest,whether in glen or in glade - that place is full of delight."
At my school, people aim for the highest and I find myself surrounded by many who are constantly working and when the get a B, they get so frustrated. Even I do at times, so this video opens my eyes and it feels nice to be praised for what I do :) I am good enough
Its vonderful just to be me.Its e really bliss. I wish people to dwell in peace and harmony :) Thanks so mutch for another great teaching Ajahn Brahm. Appreciate it very mutch :)
The problem is, if you're intensely and whole-heartedly programmed from early childhood by your "loved ones" that you're no good whatever you do, you can try everything: attaining, non-attaining, meditating, reprogramming, anything.... you end up feeling a failure whatever you do, because that's your matrix, that's the obvious and only way of experiencing yourself, and there doesn't seem to be a way out - because low self-esteem is second... sorry, first nature to you, and you're actually amazed that other people can feel differently about themselves, you try to "emulate" them, but that never works - deep down you know you're a loser. What can help? Another incarnation, or just plain old death. I see no way from low self-esteem to high self-esteem, and then to enlightenment. This identity has to go - whether through intense meditation, or physical death...
Pawel, I look at things very much from what biology and buddhism teach. Yes, there are some very intense biological reactions in us that can get tangled and feel unescapable. It can be a bit like a dog on a leash whose gotten all tangled up and trying to get out actually makes the leash tighter. It's rough and confusing, and can feel like an overwhelming dead end. What's more, I agree, some of us have the added challenge that our relationships with the adults in our life as children added even more confusing, frustrating, and painful tangling. I don't see it as hopeless now. As an adult now, you have an opening to turning to yourself with the kindfulness AJB speaks about. You're not "perfect" at it, no one is, but you have an opening. For me, adding on learning about basic biology (combining my own observations with what I then read about) has really made me way more encouraged, and sense well being a far larger portion of my time.
Pawel X You recognise this programming and yet you still think there is a problem. Haven't you just answered your own question? Stop seeking approval from outer circumstances. Also, the title of this video is worded deliberately to show you one aspect of the 3 marks of existence that all sentient beings share: impermanence, unsatisfactoriness and 'not-self'. What esteem is there? What confidence do you talk of? Has anybody got a fixed personality? There was never a self to begin with, so how can any of the above be substantiated beyond mere concepts?
Pawel X We all have our own struggles, some harder than others.. but it always boils down to one unmovable point: And that is, what are you going to do about it? As people with intellectual minds that we can't even fully understand.. we all tell ourselves stories. Life starts the narrative for us and, as we grow older, we continue it ourselves. The main thing to realize, though, is that it is JUST a story. It CAN be changed. It may be hard, but never lie to yourself and say it's impossible. Because that will become your new narrative; helplessness. And I know, it's easy to be optimistic when you're not the one in the battle, but it's also easier to see the truth when you're not busy telling yourself bullshit. I don't know exactly what you should do and neither does anyone here. We all have our own personal struggles and so, ultimately, we are all alone to defeat them. You apparently have a heavy weight to lift.. but the human spirit is unbelievably powerful. Our only limits are the paradigms that keep us from expanding. But as stories can change, so can paradigms, so can your thoughts, so can your character, and so can your life. What I want you to realize is that you don't have a choice. There is no room to tell yourself how hard it is, or why you can't do it. You CAN and so you must. This is your life you're fighting for. Happiness, and inspiration makes you more vital. Depression and apathy sucks the life from you. You have a heavy resistance in you which is metaphorically, and perhaps even literally, trying to kill you. You do not have a choice. You either beat this or you die. I'm not trying to sound like an extremist, or a quack, or trying to scare you. I'm telling you what is inevitable. Low self esteem doesn't just feel bad, it kills your character and it stifles who you are. There have probably been days where you feel just fine. Maybe not recently or maybe only a few times but I know you've probably had at least a glimpse in to how awesome you can be. The less stifled you become, the MORE you become. You feel worthless because you let yourself believe you are and stifle yourself from even existing. But again, I understand that your struggle is unique and I can't completely understand it, especially from so limited an interaction with you. I am not trying to judge you or make you feel guilty. I know its hard... and discouraging. I want to leave you with a metaphor that may be resourceful to you in understanding yourself and working yourself into an upward spiral rather than a downward one. Think of yourself as a chariot rider (It sounds lame, I know but please follow me). Your brain is like a horse that has been sprinting in a direction that leads you into a darker and darker place. The further you go the harder you have to strain to see the light behind you. But there will always be light. You aren't completely in control of the horse but you do have the ability to learn how to coax it into going where you want. If you've never done it before it might even take a bit to learn but, again, remember that it IS possible. This is not something you can half-ass, though. If you want to reverse course and save your mind and therefore save yourself, you have to struggle HARD to turn around. You have to get out all the carrots on a stick you can find, you have to find every reason in the book to turn around. You have to drown that damned horse with so many reasons why it should turn around that it can barely even have a thought of it's own. How? That is for you to find out. We all have unique and stubborn ass horses to deal with.. some more than others. But you can do it. Because what is really you isn't something that can lose. You can always give up.. but you can never lose. With enough will power, you will win. You are like a constant flow of wind chipping at a mountain. It seems impossible, and the mountain may even seem unphased.. but nature always wins in the end. You are the source of wind. You can keep going or stop. And stopping is the only thing that will keep that mountain standing. Never stop until that mountain becomes dust.
Pawel X You can still change these habits, it will just take you longer. If you believe you can't then you will never even try... Some of your good characteristics include: you are honest, you recognise the problem instead of lying to yourself about it. You care about yourself, because if you did not you would not even try to change these habits. Because you care about yourself you probably also care about others! See you aren't so bad! :)
One of the teachings of Buddhism is..only believe what is true to you, don't believe or take everything you hear so serious. Ex:no matter if a monk, priest, Jesus had said it. Everyone is different and have different paths and perceptions
In the above talk, Ajahn Brahm speaks about not overly holding on to one's own personal identity. People are fluid. You don't need to own your past, according to Ajahn Brahm. In the talk there's a tale about a Sufi master who shot a target three times, the first time he only went half the distance, he called this the shot of a hasty man; the second time he made the distance but missed the target so far he nearly killed an innocent bystander, he called this the shot of an arrogant man;
I think it's Ajahn Sumedho who suggested another sound approach to cultivating one's self-esteem: To rigorously keep the 5 Precepts. Essentially he says that if one knows that one does least harm to other beings and the whole Planet and as much benefits as one possible can to enhance their well-beings, then one will have high regards for oneself. That is, the 5 Precepts provides spiritual standards against which one measures one's existence.
People lower themselves hence low self-esteem. Them problem is not valuing the self does nothing for personal power. It lowers your personal power to essentially worship someone else’s self instead of yours and that’s what causes the low self esteem. If you know your connection to god is strong your personal power is high but not out of alignment with god. You don’t worship your self or another’s and you’re beliefs cannot be swayed by others or your own ego. It is mastery over the self.
Hi. When I can not offer much to a child and I fel guilty, when I have no work, I"m noone, I have nothing to offer... in such life I really have free time and not any opportunities...... .I have nothing to do. I'm scared about the future. Help. ❤
@@77rupinder By Human beings i guess you mean that species that builds rockets and send them to space, and build MRI machines and so on... i guess you are overestimating Osho, i would compare his writings to a child's.
Yeah, you are right. I guess I am wrong and you are right after all. I am truly sorry for wasting your time I will go and do some self reflection Have a nice day
Well that is true, but I don't know why I find myself comparing with other people who have a good status while I have a mediocre one :( ... and then again, I found out I have an inferiority complex which is lead to me wanting to be perfect in knowledge, although that isn't true. I guess being a teenager sucks since you are still trying to find yourself, anyways thank-you for saying those words. I''ll keep your advise in my mind. :)
Hey, how's your progress been in a decade? I've had a similar comparison problem in my teens and I've been workin on it for about 2 years, it has gotten remarkably better from that time, but I'm curious about you 😅
Some things I didn't like about this talk - for example the implication that women's success issue is beauty while men's was money - but it is good enough and I enjoyed it and it probably helps me.
Ninanufu he was programmed in England, and as a heterosexual white male. He took off to Thailand, I think, which is a center of sexual exploitation of girls, and some boys, for every perversion imaginable, catering to primarily self indulgent, gluttonous foreign men who cannot commit sex crimes in their own countries for fear of capture and humiliation, so go abroad to do it. Indonesia is full of places they like. So, that he came to realize Buddhism had not only failed women en masse and for centuries, even their own nuns(!), and *did something about it*,(eliminating the discrimination against nuns for having been born female, as if that's some sort of sin), which meant formal excommunication for him, speaks to his enlightenment and his courage. Can you imagine going through all he did to become ordained and "legitimate" as a Westerner, literally decades, only to be excommunicated for lifting people up? So, if his programming resurfaces on occasion, I think he can be given a little room for error, don't you??
I think you misunderstand what the whole nun situation is in Theravada Buddhism. Ajahn Brahm is a Theravada Buddhist monk, and Theravada is the only sect that has lost its nun lineage. Only the Buddha can establish monk and nun lineages and those that were ordained by the Buddha are allowed to carry on, (it's like the Jedis in Star Wars essentially, only a Jedi can teach a Jedi). The Theravada nun lineage was destroyed in war, so nuns are not to be ordained in Theravada as it is seen as a corruption of the Buddha's established sangha. But women can still be ordained by Ajahn Brahm, and in Theravda monasteries in Sri Lanka. Overall, your speculation about Thailand and Indonesia and your thoughts behind why he may have become a monk and done what he has done shows a lot of ignorance on your part. Please do not write such things unless you are completely sure of them; there are a lot of impressionable, naive people in the comment sections.
As I said, it's good enough. What Ajahn Brahm says in this talk is not the same as the help he gave to the nuns. Thus it cannot be compared. Needless the latter is also awesome beyond comparison. Still it's important to voice constructive criticizm and I know he, as the very good enough person he is, wouldn't mind that.
If there is no self, what is the difference between someone alive and someone dead ?? What gets reborn if there is no self ? Who am I if there is no self ? Is not it all little bit incomplete ?
+umut barat Self, as your experience of thought, perception and emotion, are not real as they may seem to be. Your body is an organ, designed to developed then decay. Your brain holds a field of pulsating energy with an ability to conceptualize its reality. This mechanism stores its experience of the world through a variety of ways, processing information individually, specially for you, within in yourself. Your awareness of your unique experience is what is reborn into a cycle of birth life and death. Your purpose is to evolve your minds ability to grasp the balance of mind spirit and body. The way you look at the world is in your control. The sum of Life then death is incomplete. This is cause, life is a cycle within a larger cycle of an infinite experience. Death is the letting go of this bodies need to hold your experience to this reality. Within the dimensions of space and time your memory is just binary data that circulates thru a field of energy connecting to its output frequency. How your frequent the energy output of your experience, between its negative or positive source , is the catalyst that directs consciousness of your current manifestation, into the next. Who you are now is a drop of salt in sea of life.
I am a Catholic but I want to become a budista I don't like orange ! With all the respect but I want to know where is there a budista temple ! Un Oregon or New York City !
Why does everyone think that beautiful women get men, especially when everyone is telling men to stay away from them? No kindness and compassion for those people....
Ajahn Brahm is talking from the Buddhist view which teaches that in order to be truly peaceful, one must come to terms with one's "no-self" (anatta). There are many wonderful inventions, such as modern computers and the internet, which would not have emerged in the absence of high expectations and goals. Buddhism is not much concerned with such worldly affairs, but if your dream is a worldly one, such as to be rich and successful, don't cross out those quotes just yet :)
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In my most darkest times, I listened to Ajahn Brahm and he saved me from deep depression.
I'm an atheist but I love these talks. Much wisdom and truth. I just practise mindfulness and compassion to all living things.
Ajahns an Atheist isn’t he?
@@MrTomo4415 He's a Buddhist Monk, technically he's not an atheist. But real Buddhism is more of a philosophy than a religion. So in a way, yeah he's an atheist.
@@rapid1010that’s a misunderstanding of Buddhism. Buddhism is definitely a religion and there is certainly faith in buddha, dharma and the sangha, there’s certainly devotion and worship of these aspects! The difference between Buddhism and other religions is that it’s not monotheistic. The faith is also not blind in Buddhism, it doesn’t end with faith, the faith is replaced by wisdom through practice.
Hope this clarifies
Only someone who has no idea about Buddhism calls it a philosophy 🤣
When I felt I'd failed in some way or made a mistake, my Mom always used to say, "It's okay. You're just a human 'bean'!"
Lucky u.
Every morning I listen to a video and analyze it before I start the day, really opens the way I think and prepares me for the day.
sounds wonderful :)
I do the same, constantly reminding myself until it becomes part of life
Then you meditate right?
The best monk Ever. Thank You Ajahn Brahm for your stories. Always be you. Peace with us all
i agree
In my weak times I put on Ajahn Brahm and immediately gain perspective. Thank you dear uploader!
To be mindful, put Ajahn Brahm on before your weak times ;)
One of his best talks. Watching this a second time.... 👍
I listen to your talks for three years now. This is my all time favorite. It really sets my heart free.
Thank you, Ajahn Brahm, you have taught me a lot on how to let go of the past me !! The past was just a part of my journey, and i had all along perceived that as me, which made me so vunerable to criticism and hurtful remarks.
阿彌陀佛
"None of these things are you" ... pretty amazing
Awesome talk on self acceptance; self love; and forgiveness for mistakes-in self and others. Love, "Very Good :-)" and "Good enough"!
Good talk as always Ajarn Brahm! Buddha had NEVER said to believe him and always remind us to prove all he said yourself and make your own judgement. And what he said were so simple but were not easy to practice. That are what I Iove about Buddhism. You have to prove it yourself! :)
Yeah, that are what I love too.
No-body enjoyed this talk very much. Thank you, Ajahn Brahm.
I'm going to cross out the little quotes on my school agenda telling me that I need high expectations and goals and all that which drives me crazy by the way because most of the time I want to achieve perfection... He helped me :)
Wise words. We should assess our skills and be realistic but we don't need to be so ego driven. It is stressful to strive to be better and be competitive, unless you are exceptional. It will be great if I can let go without striving to let go. I love his sense of freedom.
It is very true that owning mistakes or successes makes us prisoners of our self esteem. I liked how Ajahn answered the question of an artist doubting his work explaining that he should look at his work through the eyes of others. What if the problem is in others being critical of his work showing very little interest in paying for his art, but that's where the art of selling comes in, I suppose it can happen when he sees the positives of his work, others will start believing it too.
Thank you for that talk. Brilliant.
2012 when this video came out i was 21 years old newly graduated from college
2020 8 years at 29 years old going thru jobs and failure at work, make many mistake blame myself many many times, i remember this teaching of Ajahn Brahm "no-self esteem" listen to it..... i learn nothing at 21 years old hahahaha
how is it going now ? :=)
Am so thankful to those who recorded this talk and put it in You tube!! All of you are my saviours!!! Smuck!! Love you all!!
it is good enough...i am good enough...brilliant!!!! Thank you; just THE talk I need to hear
Very Good! Fantastic Talk! Thank You for this Stress Relieving View at live.
Very helpful and confidence building. WOW!!!
Brilliant and simple. The simplest truths elude us in this modern world whose ceiling for success gets higher and higher the more you advance.
Loved the carrot joke, I just started learning more about the Dharma and these talks help a lot alongside all the wisdom contained in them.
hhh I just heard it, I want to tell it at a social event soon
Thank you por posting these videos. They help me a lot during my present times! we don´t have budist options where I live
This video was...more than good enough. It was great. Thanks.
ahhhh.Ajahn is so charming he gets no peace.I think Ajahn ego was showing.LOL He would be the first to laugh.I use the very good reply all the time.thanks Ajahn.
Yes, society is really critical of everyone. How can anyone feel good about themselves if we keep beating up ourselves of past mistakes. It's like we can't show any honest emotion otherwise people will take advantage of you. Competitive and successful people still are so defensive. We just need to ignore people's negativity. But, it's good enough, as he says.
Thank- you so much, I really really needed this at this moment!!!!
wow I want to sleep here.No other place like this.
"Where the worthy ones live-whether in village or in forest,whether in glen or in glade - that place is full of delight."
Anumodana..Sadhu! From The Houston Family U.S.A.
At my school, people aim for the highest and I find myself surrounded by many who are constantly working and when the get a B, they get so frustrated. Even I do at times, so this video opens my eyes and it feels nice to be praised for what I do :) I am good enough
thank u Ajan Brahm!
What an excellent talk!
As usual, this is exactly what I needed - thankyou :)
(cont.) The third time he hit bulls eye, and when asked who that was, said, "That was me!" The talk speaks for itself. I mean Ajahn Brahms talk above.
Really, he is great, and I love his optimism and wisdom. So funny and humble. Love it.
Its vonderful just to be me.Its e really bliss. I wish people to dwell in peace and harmony :) Thanks so mutch for another great teaching Ajahn Brahm. Appreciate it very mutch :)
Thank you Ajahn Brahm
Excellent talk as always....
Inspiring talk Ajahn Brahm
Beautiful talk, Thank you xx
I really enjoy listening to you... thank you
motivating talk. thank you
wonderful talk. Thanks for uploading
Yes, That is me. No self esteem at all. No confidence just living.
Great advice... thank you for posting!
No-self esteem: I love that!
Good video. Thank you.
i laugh so bad with the carrot jock that was a good one good video tnk you caroline
verdade cara, deu pra pega todas mensagens mesmo perdendo uma palavra ou outra! vlw
The problem is, if you're intensely and whole-heartedly programmed from early childhood by your "loved ones" that you're no good whatever you do, you can try everything: attaining, non-attaining, meditating, reprogramming, anything.... you end up feeling a failure whatever you do, because that's your matrix, that's the obvious and only way of experiencing yourself, and there doesn't seem to be a way out - because low self-esteem is second... sorry, first nature to you, and you're actually amazed that other people can feel differently about themselves, you try to "emulate" them, but that never works - deep down you know you're a loser. What can help? Another incarnation, or just plain old death. I see no way from low self-esteem to high self-esteem, and then to enlightenment. This identity has to go - whether through intense meditation, or physical death...
Pawel, I look at things very much from what biology and buddhism teach. Yes, there are some very intense biological reactions in us that can get tangled and feel unescapable. It can be a bit like a dog on a leash whose gotten all tangled up and trying to get out actually makes the leash tighter. It's rough and confusing, and can feel like an overwhelming dead end. What's more, I agree, some of us have the added challenge that our relationships with the adults in our life as children added even more confusing, frustrating, and painful tangling. I don't see it as hopeless now. As an adult now, you have an opening to turning to yourself with the kindfulness AJB speaks about. You're not "perfect" at it, no one is, but you have an opening. For me, adding on learning about basic biology (combining my own observations with what I then read about) has really made me way more encouraged, and sense well being a far larger portion of my time.
Pawel X
You recognise this programming and yet you still think there is a problem. Haven't you just answered your own question? Stop seeking approval from outer circumstances.
Also, the title of this video is worded deliberately to show you one aspect of the 3 marks of existence that all sentient beings share: impermanence, unsatisfactoriness and 'not-self'.
What esteem is there? What confidence do you talk of? Has anybody got a fixed personality? There was never a self to begin with, so how can any of the above be substantiated beyond mere concepts?
Pawel X We all have our own struggles, some harder than others.. but it always boils down to one unmovable point: And that is, what are you going to do about it? As people with intellectual minds that we can't even fully understand.. we all tell ourselves stories. Life starts the narrative for us and, as we grow older, we continue it ourselves. The main thing to realize, though, is that it is JUST a story. It CAN be changed. It may be hard, but never lie to yourself and say it's impossible. Because that will become your new narrative; helplessness.
And I know, it's easy to be optimistic when you're not the one in the battle, but it's also easier to see the truth when you're not busy telling yourself bullshit. I don't know exactly what you should do and neither does anyone here. We all have our own personal struggles and so, ultimately, we are all alone to defeat them. You apparently have a heavy weight to lift.. but the human spirit is unbelievably powerful. Our only limits are the paradigms that keep us from expanding. But as stories can change, so can paradigms, so can your thoughts, so can your character, and so can your life. What I want you to realize is that you don't have a choice. There is no room to tell yourself how hard it is, or why you can't do it. You CAN and so you must. This is your life you're fighting for. Happiness, and inspiration makes you more vital. Depression and apathy sucks the life from you. You have a heavy resistance in you which is metaphorically, and perhaps even literally, trying to kill you. You do not have a choice. You either beat this or you die. I'm not trying to sound like an extremist, or a quack, or trying to scare you. I'm telling you what is inevitable. Low self esteem doesn't just feel bad, it kills your character and it stifles who you are.
There have probably been days where you feel just fine. Maybe not recently or maybe only a few times but I know you've probably had at least a glimpse in to how awesome you can be. The less stifled you become, the MORE you become. You feel worthless because you let yourself believe you are and stifle yourself from even existing. But again, I understand that your struggle is unique and I can't completely understand it, especially from so limited an interaction with you. I am not trying to judge you or make you feel guilty. I know its hard... and discouraging.
I want to leave you with a metaphor that may be resourceful to you in understanding yourself and working yourself into an upward spiral rather than a downward one. Think of yourself as a chariot rider (It sounds lame, I know but please follow me). Your brain is like a horse that has been sprinting in a direction that leads you into a darker and darker place. The further you go the harder you have to strain to see the light behind you. But there will always be light. You aren't completely in control of the horse but you do have the ability to learn how to coax it into going where you want. If you've never done it before it might even take a bit to learn but, again, remember that it IS possible. This is not something you can half-ass, though. If you want to reverse course and save your mind and therefore save yourself, you have to struggle HARD to turn around. You have to get out all the carrots on a stick you can find, you have to find every reason in the book to turn around. You have to drown that damned horse with so many reasons why it should turn around that it can barely even have a thought of it's own. How? That is for you to find out. We all have unique and stubborn ass horses to deal with.. some more than others. But you can do it. Because what is really you isn't something that can lose. You can always give up.. but you can never lose. With enough will power, you will win. You are like a constant flow of wind chipping at a mountain. It seems impossible, and the mountain may even seem unphased.. but nature always wins in the end. You are the source of wind. You can keep going or stop. And stopping is the only thing that will keep that mountain standing. Never stop until that mountain becomes dust.
Paradigm Wolf, I'm so grateful you posted this!
Pawel X You can still change these habits, it will just take you longer. If you believe you can't then you will never even try...
Some of your good characteristics include: you are honest, you recognise the problem instead of lying to yourself about it. You care about yourself, because if you did not you would not even try to change these habits. Because you care about yourself you probably also care about others! See you aren't so bad! :)
thank you so much
One of the teachings of Buddhism is..only believe what is true to you, don't believe or take everything you hear so serious. Ex:no matter if a monk, priest, Jesus had said it. Everyone is different and have different paths and perceptions
Thank you.
Wow, 36:20 really hit me :")
Me too.
thanks again for your talk.;)
no way!!! he doesn't look 60 AT ALL!!
Wanna get rid of more of you haha love this guy 😂😂😂😂
You don't have to be rich to be my girl. You don't have to be cool to rule my world. --Prince
Thank you
Very wise. Thank you so much. )O(
amazing
In the above talk, Ajahn Brahm speaks about not overly holding on to one's own personal identity. People are fluid. You don't need to own your past, according to Ajahn Brahm. In the talk there's a tale about a Sufi master who shot a target three times, the first time he only went half the distance, he called this the shot of a hasty man; the second time he made the distance but missed the target so far he nearly killed an innocent bystander, he called this the shot of an arrogant man;
I want family to care if I am alive or dead. Since they would rather have me gone, then there seems to be 0 love of self.. no esteem.
amazing amazing talk!
I think it's Ajahn Sumedho who suggested another sound approach to cultivating one's self-esteem: To rigorously keep the 5 Precepts. Essentially he says that if one knows that one does least harm to other beings and the whole Planet and as much benefits as one possible can to enhance their well-beings, then one will have high regards for oneself. That is, the 5 Precepts provides spiritual standards against which one measures one's existence.
Love your carrot joke.
Bohoma hondai Ajahn Brahm! xD
0:43 when an NPC talks to you in a bethesda game from far away
An esteemed NPC
13 min, really struck me
People lower themselves hence low self-esteem. Them problem is not valuing the self does nothing for personal power. It lowers your personal power to essentially worship someone else’s self instead of yours and that’s what causes the low self esteem. If you know your connection to god is strong your personal power is high but not out of alignment with god. You don’t worship your self or another’s and you’re beliefs cannot be swayed by others or your own ego. It is mastery over the self.
Chinese subtitle is available on this talk. 這視頻有中文字幕
Gracias :) Namaste
The words are Good Enough
Very Good!
Hi. When I can not offer much to a child and I fel guilty, when I have no work, I"m noone, I have nothing to offer... in such life I really have free time and not any opportunities...... .I have nothing to do. I'm scared about the future. Help. ❤
U are awesome.
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Followers of Osho. Some would call him a cult leader. Famous for his luxury automobiles.
It will take the next 100 year for Human being to understand Osho.
@@77rupinder By Human beings i guess you mean that species that builds rockets and send them to space, and build MRI machines and so on... i guess you are overestimating Osho, i would compare his writings to a child's.
Great video but.... how is it even possible that 2 ppl disliked it?
0:14 That laugh doe XD
"nagyon jó"
that's very good in Hungarian
Yeah, you are right. I guess I am wrong and you are right after all.
I am truly sorry for wasting your time
I will go and do some self reflection
Have a nice day
Well that is true, but I don't know why I find myself comparing with other people who have a good status while I have a mediocre one :( ... and then again, I found out I have an inferiority complex which is lead to me wanting to be perfect in knowledge, although that isn't true. I guess being a teenager sucks since you are still trying to find yourself, anyways thank-you for saying those words. I''ll keep your advise in my mind. :)
Hey, how's your progress been in a decade? I've had a similar comparison problem in my teens and I've been workin on it for about 2 years, it has gotten remarkably better from that time, but I'm curious about you 😅
Some things I didn't like about this talk - for example the implication that women's success issue is beauty while men's was money - but it is good enough and I enjoyed it and it probably helps me.
Ninanufu he was programmed in England, and as a heterosexual white male. He took off to Thailand, I think, which is a center of sexual exploitation of girls, and some boys, for every perversion imaginable, catering to primarily self indulgent, gluttonous foreign men who cannot commit sex crimes in their own countries for fear of capture and humiliation, so go abroad to do it. Indonesia is full of places they like.
So, that he came to realize Buddhism had not only failed women en masse and for centuries, even their own nuns(!), and *did something about it*,(eliminating the discrimination against nuns for having been born female, as if that's some sort of sin), which meant formal excommunication for him, speaks to his enlightenment and his courage. Can you imagine going through all he did to become ordained and "legitimate" as a Westerner, literally decades, only to be excommunicated for lifting people up?
So, if his programming resurfaces on occasion, I think he can be given a little room for error, don't you??
I think you misunderstand what the whole nun situation is in Theravada Buddhism. Ajahn Brahm is a Theravada Buddhist monk, and Theravada is the only sect that has lost its nun lineage. Only the Buddha can establish monk and nun lineages and those that were ordained by the Buddha are allowed to carry on, (it's like the Jedis in Star Wars essentially, only a Jedi can teach a Jedi). The Theravada nun lineage was destroyed in war, so nuns are not to be ordained in Theravada as it is seen as a corruption of the Buddha's established sangha. But women can still be ordained by Ajahn Brahm, and in Theravda monasteries in Sri Lanka.
Overall, your speculation about Thailand and Indonesia and your thoughts behind why he may have become a monk and done what he has done shows a lot of ignorance on your part. Please do not write such things unless you are completely sure of them; there are a lot of impressionable, naive people in the comment sections.
As I said, it's good enough. What Ajahn Brahm says in this talk is not the same as the help he gave to the nuns. Thus it cannot be compared. Needless the latter is also awesome beyond comparison.
Still it's important to voice constructive criticizm and I know he, as the very good enough person he is, wouldn't mind that.
Can anyone point me to the text of the chant at the end of the video? I would like to learn about it.
And what's reencarnation what's resurrection and what is rebirth and what is the difference between them !
He's right about telling bad jokes. Then he explains them to us.
Yes, it is. Google the book "being dharma" and look at the cover.
How can I let him go? 40 years. He took his life, and my love and expectations. How can I let him go? He took me too.
listen to all of brahms talks. you will understand how to live
If there is no self, what is the difference between someone alive and someone dead ?? What gets reborn if there is no self ? Who am I if there is no self ? Is not it all little bit incomplete ?
+umut barat
Self, as your experience of thought, perception and emotion, are not real as they may seem to be. Your body is an organ, designed to developed then decay. Your brain holds a field of pulsating energy with an ability to conceptualize its reality. This mechanism stores its experience of the world through a variety of ways, processing information individually, specially for you, within in yourself. Your awareness of your unique experience is what is reborn into a cycle of birth life and death. Your purpose is to evolve your minds ability to grasp the balance of mind spirit and body. The way you look at the world is in your control. The sum of Life then death is incomplete. This is cause, life is a cycle within a larger cycle of an infinite experience. Death is the letting go of this bodies need to hold your experience to this reality. Within the dimensions of space and time your memory is just binary data that circulates thru a field of energy connecting to its output frequency. How your frequent the energy output of your experience, between its negative or positive source , is the catalyst that directs consciousness of your current manifestation, into the next. Who you are now is a drop of salt in sea of life.
How can we send him questions? Thank you in advance.
@chondestes Why?????
I am a Catholic but I want to become a budista I don't like orange ! With all the respect but I want to know where is there a budista temple ! Un Oregon or New York City !
Look for Vipassana meditation in Oregon. For starters.
Love him
What an ideal Meditation cushion- you can press a button and get Capucino from it!!!
No bags???? Curious....
Why does everyone think that beautiful women get men, especially when everyone is telling men to stay away from them? No kindness and compassion for those people....
Ajahn Brahm is talking from the Buddhist view which teaches that in order to be truly peaceful, one must come to terms with one's "no-self" (anatta).
There are many wonderful inventions, such as modern computers and the internet, which would not have emerged in the absence of high expectations and goals. Buddhism is not much concerned with such worldly affairs, but if your dream is a worldly one, such as to be rich and successful, don't cross out those quotes just yet :)
Must I explain?