The 5 Love Languages of Children - Gary Chapman, Ross Campbell (Summary)
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- Опубліковано 20 лип 2024
- How to EFFECTIVELY love your children so that they can learn and grow into the individuals you want them to be.
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0:00 Introduction
1:01 The 5 Love Languages
4:38 How to Discover Your Child's Primary Love Language
7:03 Discipline
9:03 Learning
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^ I enjoyed reading all the examples in this book in order to better understand each love language. Now that my kids are growing up, I can really relate certain things I read to my own children and identify and speak each child's love language.
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^I personally read from a physical copy of the book, but I could fully see how this would make a really good audio book as well.
My babies were too young to understand acts of service, I took them with me to help others to see it, like gardening for church family or driving others to jobs.. they had different love styles or sibling rivalry and I always tried proving I love them equally just the same.
One is words of affirmation and the little one is quality time
Great video! While the audio was too low, I put my volume loud and could hear it. You speak very clearly and the illustrations and presentation was great! I have been apart from 2 of my kids since May 2016, so learning that they have love languages too I am trying to communicate with them based on who they were when I was last with them. They are teenagers now. On the other hand my daughter is 2 and I know her love language is quality time for sure!!! She is always pulling my hand and taking me places. She has no interest in gifts, I have taken her shopping and even in the toy aisle she doesn't go crazy. Physical touch is definitely something she appreciates but doesn't crave. I am always singing to her and telling her I love her, I believe she understands, and she loves singing happy birthday. It is a way of giving attention to someone so I think words of affirmation are also important to her. Acts of service?? Right now she has no interest in me helping her with her book or toy, she wants to do it but she wants me to sit with her. After watching this video I will make more of a conscious effort to give her that quality time. I notice how better behaved she is and she eats and sleeps better. Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you for your kind words. It was my one of my first videos, so I didn't really have the volume/mic sorted out yet.
You situation sounds difficult. I hope it is made easier in the years to come.
Thanks for sharing your child's love language. I enjoy reading different people's experiences. :)
This is exactly what I am learning from my 18 month old. I've discovered that he just would rather sit at home and do something with me. So I watched his program with him, and he was so comfortable, but I also noticed when I'm rushing to take him places that I think he would he enjoys he is resistant and threw a tantrum and I learned all I had to do was slow down. I'm really excited and encouraged to make a more conscience and consistent effort to give him EVERYTHING for his growth or our families growth. Especially being a single parent. Great video
My son is almost five. I think his love language is Quality Time. His little sister (who is deaf) seems to currently be very Physical Touch-oriented. She is also a very spirited, strong-willed child and throws off her cochlear implant processors if I don't pay attention to her every moment. As such, it is VERY difficult getting time with him. Every day I put her to bed for naps and night half an hour before him so we have time together. I'm also trying to implement a special morning with him each week. It just never seems like enough though. He's always, always asking for more time with me, and often expresses jealousy when I'm spending Quality Time with her. It's impossible to explain why I have to keep an eye on her and leave him to his own devices for much of the day, but the truth is that he's very good at playing alone so I often take advantage of it. I get the impression his sister is more extroverted than him too, meaning she has a low tolerance for being left on her own.
I totally loved it! Thank you so much!
Good video! Thanks to the author for his good work! I'd like to recommend Yuriy Ivantsiv's practice book Polyglot Notes: Practical Tips for Learning Foreign Language. This book has many useful methods for learning a foreign language, how to develop your memory, how to memorize words, learn grammar, quickly learn to speak, read and write. All recommend this excellent book! Good luck to everyone in learning a foreign language!
Thanks, it is very helpful.
This is a great vide, thank you!
I loved this
Thanks very much
Keep in mind that this may not work for kids who have experienced trauma. Such as kids who have been diagnosed with Reactive Attachment Disorder or other forms of trauma related diagnosis. It takes a very long time for this to be effective with kids who have endured trauma. I am not saying it doesn't work, I am just saying that the results are not going to be immediate or any where near it( Not saying it will be immediate with other children either,). It is great info, for sure, but not all of this will work. Also the audio was very very low..It was very hard to hear.
My 3 year old boy complained that i work too much..and asked if i can play with him🥲 so i quit work.. i love my job but i guess i have to make sacrifices for him
Lucky that you can do that! Nice!
That's very noble of you and a very difficult decision. Depending on your situation, you may not have to make the sacrifice. Sometimes all you need is to connect on a deeper level. Did you watch the Video on How to Deeply Connect with Your Child, and the Special Time video on my channel? I'll link them below. They may be able to help.
Of course, every person's situation is unique. You know what works best for your family.
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Good for you. You won’t regret it.
🥰 awwn awwn
I'm a stay-at-home mom too. I love and hate it... lol. But I wouldn't have it any other way. And for those of you who think only rich people can be stay-at-home moms: my husband is our sole breadwinner and he works at Kwik Trip. We use food stamps and WIC to help get by, but we believe our kids' future is more important than going out to eat on Friday nights and things like that. Also, child care would eat up my entire salary if I worked anyway. Kudos to you for putting your child first!
MY CHILD LIKES QUALITY TIME TOGETHER.
My eldest likes quality time as well.. which I find the hardest.
You should check out the special time video on my channel. I think kids who speak in quality time enjoy special time the most
Audio too low
I know.. some people say it's too low and some say it's fine. I don't know why that's the case.
Perhaps try it with headphones, or read the cc? Sorry about that :/
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Hey..nice work...why dont u make more such videos.
I am! :)
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voice too low
et cetera, not ex-etera
You know, as I was recording, I realized I wasn't sure of the pronounciation. Now I'm slighty upset that I didn't just check it first.. :/
@@RealHappyEndings that was one mistake out of a beautiful video! Your speaking voice is so soothing.