Listening to intellectuals like Dr. T., Dr. Curry, and others give voice, validation, and vocabulary to our experiences after 40 years of "Nigg*s ain't $hit", is therapeutic.
@@KtotheG and we will continue to do so !! Protect your seed and don’t give it away , it’s a very simple equation of both people should take accountability. Don’t rely on the fact that she’s on birth control, always use protection. Don’t give your seat out and you can avoid thousands in child-support.
@@KtotheG you guys complain about divorce all day, every day, without actually listening to the reasons why women are divorcing all of you have chalked it up to not being “happy” but it just goes to show women’s argument that men do not listen to us point blank period. Men constantly talk about surface level BS without digging into the real reasons, Why. Not to mention, most of you don’t respect the voice, views and opinions of women period
@@KtotheG and in regards to parental alienation 😂😂, this comment is absolutely hilarious, considering black man as the most common absentee father’s do you have more animosity for the parent who stayed than you do the parent who left?
After Oprah and Gayle slandered Kobe before his body was committed to the ground, all because people mourned his death and celebrated his life, showed me that there's a pathologically intrinsic hatred for black men. After that, I never looked at women ( black women especially) the same again smh.
6:12-6:42 That's where the revelation finally hits home, when a woman has a son that's when (some) mothers acknowledge and know that there's a ruthless game that a lot of women are willing to play on men and many will take drastic measures to destroy a man at any cost. But if they had all daughters, mothers give the daughters a whole different playbook. When I was a kid in church, after church all of us kids would play with each other. One day my mother told me straight up, "Don't play with those girls, I don't want any of them to say that you touched them, 'cause everyone will believe them." I thought she was buggin until when I got older, I saw exactly what she meant, when a guy got accused of SA in another church I went too, took him years to clear his name..
Also when I was in audit class I would answer questions. One day I raised my hand to answer a question and a black woman said, he's always raising his hand. Looking back, she was downing me for reading and doing the work. I had another meet me at the library asking me how I get A's in accounting. I said I study let's meet. She wanted me to hit it and after 30 minutes of looking at me study she said she was leaving.
That response is typical in any class. I got that from all races. It’s the ill prepared vs prepared. I get it at work now but I am a forever student of the game I chose to be in.
When I was in college this girl claimed rp on 3 dudes. 2 months later. She said it happened again. Come to find out she was getting drunk and hi, and asking them to train her. 5 young dudes kicked out of school prior to them finding out the truth.
SO she made a stupid choice she regretted and them young boys made a stupid choice to indulge her a lose an lose worse situation for them young boys.......
I remember in high school girl got caught having seg and she claimed rp so it can immediately put her in the victim zone and not ruin her reputation. The guy had a promising future but they blasted him all over the news and tarnished his image before he could tell his story. Come to find out she lied, dropped all the charges and moved away. It was consensual
@Comentflix huh!? She wasn't rp, that's the point. She was telling guys to come to her room and do her. Days later she claimed rp. A few weeks later she claimed it again on another set of guys for a different time.
Great interview. Something i saw was on UA-cam was senior high school girls pics,compared to their after college photos. Wow!! Its was from normal high school child to different color hair,tattoos, nose rings and feminist attitudes of many.
Most BM have an intrinsic need to accommodate BW and follow their dictates. It's to the point that I dont want to be associated with most anymore. But its good to see some BM haven't lost their damn minds. Read an article about Idina Menzel and how she said ex husband Taye Diggs felt pressured by BW to end his marriage to make them more comfortable (Nia Long). None of them wanted him, and now he's dealing with Omarion's crazy babymomma.
@@KtotheG Most BM really can't because most BM grew up in fatherless homes How can people act differently 1 3/4 of the population is born and raised in a certain cultural society
I don't know why, but whenever i hear stuff like this it reminds me of that part of "Starship Troopers" where Rico says "Fleet does the flyin, MI does the dyin!", and i see them as "Fleet" and i see us Men ( ESPECIALLY BLACK MEN ) as MI ( Mobile Infantry )!, our job is to Die!, and die well!, that's all it seems like they render us good for, and that's gotta stop.
The dying is not problem it's what are we dying for? The only women who care may be our mothers only. The fact that our worth is tied to how we die and not the short life we live is sad truth. The untold story of BM needs to be highlighted to heal our community.
@@garybirch2520telling black men's story and center staging our perspective will NOT heal the black community... It will DISRUPT it. That's why they don't want our perspectives because they like the power dynamics the way they currently are.
You went hard with this one sir. Much respect I love the content. I'm over 40 yall can interview me anytime. Vast experience. Respect. Keep working. Peace.
Too often people are unable to see beyond their own plights. So empathy seems like they are evening called out for being wrong instead of understanding that you don’t have to be just a victim. It’s saying you aren’t alone. But people also seem to use their plights as a badge of honor, that is taken away when they feel empathy for someone else. Especially if that someone else is the object they directed their anger towards. Justly or unjustly.
I'd love to lean in on this in one of your videos. Comics especially are a small scale representation of our society. It showcases the many stereotypes and makes the subtleties of actual society so much easier to see. As a publisher and critical viewer of comics, I think speaking on these topics from the perspective of entertaining media is a great way to showcase exactly what you are discussing to a new audience. Just food for thought.
The avg black womans ideal man is 6'6, has done hard time, has a mouth full slugs, a head full of dreads, has a doctorate, is an entrepreneur, makes 150K a year,has a 6 bedroom house, and is home by 8:00 to help her kids with their homework......Because this is like 5/6 different dudes most of these women end up floating around from 1 man to another like that feather from Forestt Gump, because "settling" is never an option.
@@DeeDaKaang1 1 man for each role in their lives. I peeped game from my cousins, sisters, aunties, friends, and my mom. I vowed to never be used by anyone ever again. Only the family that raised me gets my help until they get a big ego.
Haven't started watching this yet but I'm super-interested what you think about this Changeling TV show (on Apple TV+) and its portrayal of black family building.
We got to speak about the elephant in the room. This Doctor needs to be concerned about his health. Health disease, hypertension and diabetes often follows obesity. He makes great content outside my point made.
Why can’t we just use the courts the way we do. If you slander me or write something liable why wouldn’t I sue you? Make your financial life as dead as you’re trying to make my physical one.
@deondricksteen4606 I have a video presentation that can better explain my point of view. But, when I say "inadvertently," it means as a condition of circumstance. Young girls who grow up in single parent households are often held responsible for most of their siblings (if they are the oldest of many). This is not entirely women's fault to blame as it requires two biological parties to procreate life. History has made it difficult for many of us to establish boundaries that protect us from kinds of outcomes, where there is an uneven ratio between boys/girls under the poverty line. - this is mostly a southern origin story. NO. women DID NOT create said behavior of women. However, our cultural practices are likely to contribute to the increase likelihood of their behavior towards men. Which is primarily based on male stress at 2x the rate the normal due to early maturity. Because women are prone to internalizing most of these innate factors, their stress levels are primarily predicted by male behavior in that it is impossible to solve all of their needs and their daughters simultaneously. Therefore, black men are perceived as a burden to most black women because of their preexisting socio-economic issues within the black household. ...that's only 0.001% of the puzzle
I love this guy's interviews! The thing that frustrates me the most as an older black man is the younger generation of men have lost the awareness that they can organize, practice group economics and solve all the problems that they are complaining about on the internet! You have two things that our ancestors didn't and your wasting that power! You have the internet and the ability to gather from all over the world through social media!! Start using it to raise funds for scholarships for boys and build schools for boys to close the gap!!! Also, the entrepreneur path is the only viable path for black boys and men!
Hearing this man discuss these topics is physically refreshing. I actually feel refreshed.
Heart feels lighter. Blood cells feel freed to move throughout the body.
Listening to intellectuals like Dr. T., Dr. Curry, and others give voice, validation, and vocabulary to our experiences after 40 years of "Nigg*s ain't $hit", is therapeutic.
I need more of this.
@@wilsonfrancis4572 💯💯
I Approve this statement!!!!...
I see what you did there with the alliteration.
Been saying that about us for way longer than 50 years.
I been hearing it for my whole 74 years.🤷🏿♂️
Hey man, we need A LOT more of this please!
That only happens with yall's support. Cashapps, super chats/thanks, sharing and hitting the like button🙏🏿
So much.
KS always talked about one way aggression. This describes that environment.
The biggest eye opener is the fact most of the hate and aggression is from the same "queens" we've been told to kiss the ass of😒
And protect. Smfh
The biggest eye opener for me is their love of abortion, divorce and parental alienation.
@@KtotheG and we will continue to do so !!
Protect your seed and don’t give it away , it’s a very simple equation of both people should take accountability. Don’t rely on the fact that she’s on birth control, always use protection. Don’t give your seat out and you can avoid thousands in child-support.
@@KtotheG you guys complain about divorce all day, every day, without actually listening to the reasons why women are divorcing all of you have chalked it up to not being “happy” but it just goes to show women’s argument that men do not listen to us point blank period.
Men constantly talk about surface level BS without digging into the real reasons, Why. Not to mention, most of you don’t respect the voice, views and opinions of women period
@@KtotheG and in regards to parental alienation 😂😂, this comment is absolutely hilarious, considering black man as the most common absentee father’s do you have more animosity for the parent who stayed than you do the parent who left?
Will be watching The Diary of a Tired Black Man when I get a chance.
After Oprah and Gayle slandered Kobe before his body was committed to the ground, all because people mourned his death and celebrated his life, showed me that there's a pathologically intrinsic hatred for black men. After that, I never looked at women ( black women especially) the same again smh.
I couldn't say it any better.
@@ptolemeeselenion1542 that DJ Kid Pope, and Chad Wheeler situation was the icing on the cake.
Same. That was a wake up call
For me that black women are not
That different from our enemies. We only give them a pass cus of sex and same skin.
@@ljthirtyfiver Hm.
@@RenzoPeterson153 Indeed.
6:12-6:42 That's where the revelation finally hits home, when a woman has a son that's when (some) mothers acknowledge and know that there's a ruthless game that a lot of women are willing to play on men and many will take drastic measures to destroy a man at any cost. But if they had all daughters, mothers give the daughters a whole different playbook. When I was a kid in church, after church all of us kids would play with each other. One day my mother told me straight up, "Don't play with those girls, I don't want any of them to say that you touched them, 'cause everyone will believe them." I thought she was buggin until when I got older, I saw exactly what she meant, when a guy got accused of SA in another church I went too, took him years to clear his name..
Also when I was in audit class I would answer questions. One day I raised my hand to answer a question and a black woman said, he's always raising his hand. Looking back, she was downing me for reading and doing the work. I had another meet me at the library asking me how I get A's in accounting. I said I study let's meet. She wanted me to hit it and after 30 minutes of looking at me study she said she was leaving.
They HATE it when you have d!ck discipline.
Lmao.."Asking to many Questions!!" that's the most non intelligent question?...
That response is typical in any class. I got that from all races. It’s the ill prepared vs prepared. I get it at work now but I am a forever student of the game I chose to be in.
ABW hate smart BM. They only see you as a utility and not as a leader.
When I was in college this girl claimed rp on 3 dudes. 2 months later. She said it happened again. Come to find out she was getting drunk and hi, and asking them to train her. 5 young dudes kicked out of school prior to them finding out the truth.
Let me see if I understand so if you're drunk you can be a PR and it's ok?! 🤔
SO she made a stupid choice she regretted and them young boys made a stupid choice to indulge her a lose an lose worse situation for them young boys.......
@richgunning8311 they all were freshman. The dudes didn't know any better.
I remember in high school girl got caught having seg and she claimed rp so it can immediately put her in the victim zone and not ruin her reputation. The guy had a promising future but they blasted him all over the news and tarnished his image before he could tell his story. Come to find out she lied, dropped all the charges and moved away. It was consensual
@Comentflix huh!? She wasn't rp, that's the point. She was telling guys to come to her room and do her. Days later she claimed rp. A few weeks later she claimed it again on another set of guys for a different time.
I Thank God for you two Men.
✊🏿
Thank you for your honesty. Thanks to Johnny Depp and Trevor Bauer for standing up for all men!! Our new mantra, “Record all Women “.
Put that on a T-shirt, y'all
@@TheArenaRevised Awesome idea!!
Those wyt men ain't standing up for y'all when in similar circumstances
Appreciate you and Dr T Hasan both. Y'all seem to be the only ones having this specific conversation.
I love your work Doc
This is dope bro
Thank you brother
Awesome video with the great Dr. T. Hassan Johnson.
Can we get more of this please. This is what I want to spend time listening to.
Great interview. Something i saw was on UA-cam was senior high school girls pics,compared to their after college photos. Wow!! Its was from normal high school child to different color hair,tattoos, nose rings and feminist attitudes of many.
Just look at their mothers and you will be able to predict who they will become. They always follow their mothers.
Record all Women! Protect yourself! Johnny Depp and Trevor Bauer!
We will not be silent.
MORE PLEASE. 🙏🏾
Most BM have an intrinsic need to accommodate BW and follow their dictates. It's to the point that I dont want to be associated with most anymore. But its good to see some BM haven't lost their damn minds.
Read an article about Idina Menzel and how she said ex husband Taye Diggs felt pressured by BW to end his marriage to make them more comfortable (Nia Long). None of them wanted him, and now he's dealing with Omarion's crazy babymomma.
BM need to break those shackles.
@@KtotheG
Most BM really can't because most BM grew up in fatherless homes
How can people act differently 1 3/4 of the population is born and raised in a certain cultural society
Absolutely Phenomenal! Thank you for sharing this perspective. ❤
Dr. T Hassan Johnson salute 👏
Brilliant! Based and caring. Appreciate this.
I would have this conversation. These talks are needed. I have grays. I’ve seen some things. Gotta say something.
Very well needed topic of conversations
I don't know why, but whenever i hear stuff like this it reminds me of that part of "Starship Troopers" where Rico says "Fleet does the flyin, MI does the dyin!", and i see them as "Fleet" and i see us Men ( ESPECIALLY BLACK MEN ) as MI ( Mobile Infantry )!, our job is to Die!, and die well!, that's all it seems like they render us good for, and that's gotta stop.
“Masculinity is about dying well” has been my theory for quite some time now 😞
The dying is not problem it's what are we dying for? The only women who care may be our mothers only. The fact that our worth is tied to how we die and not the short life we live is sad truth. The untold story of BM needs to be highlighted to heal our community.
@@garybirch2520telling black men's story and center staging our perspective will NOT heal the black community... It will DISRUPT it. That's why they don't want our perspectives because they like the power dynamics the way they currently are.
We need this entire convo my brother 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Other parts available on end screen
This brother is doing gods work.
Dr Hasan Johnson does great work. Well done interview, and I love the background setting. Thank you.
More of this, please..
You went hard with this one sir. Much respect I love the content. I'm over 40 yall can interview me anytime. Vast experience. Respect. Keep working. Peace.
Too often people are unable to see beyond their own plights. So empathy seems like they are evening called out for being wrong instead of understanding that you don’t have to be just a victim. It’s saying you aren’t alone. But people also seem to use their plights as a badge of honor, that is taken away when they feel empathy for someone else. Especially if that someone else is the object they directed their anger towards. Justly or unjustly.
Compassion is the cause not the cure!!
Dang, he was really heating up once he mentioned Dr. TJC, I wanna hear what he says involving him because I'm a follower of his as well.
I'd love to lean in on this in one of your videos. Comics especially are a small scale representation of our society. It showcases the many stereotypes and makes the subtleties of actual society so much easier to see.
As a publisher and critical viewer of comics, I think speaking on these topics from the perspective of entertaining media is a great way to showcase exactly what you are discussing to a new audience. Just food for thought.
The avg black womans ideal man is 6'6, has done hard time, has a mouth full slugs, a head full of dreads, has a doctorate, is an entrepreneur, makes 150K a year,has a 6 bedroom house, and is home by 8:00 to help her kids with their homework......Because this is like 5/6 different dudes most of these women end up floating around from 1 man to another like that feather from Forestt Gump, because "settling" is never an option.
@@DeeDaKaang1 1 man for each role in their lives.
I peeped game from my cousins, sisters, aunties, friends, and my mom.
I vowed to never be used by anyone ever again.
Only the family that raised me gets my help until they get a big ego.
Awesome content!!!
The videos you drop are facts
This is beautiful
Just imagine having to live a lifetime like this
Don't have to imagine it certain people are living it or certain people are outside of the scope and realm and they are " Outsiders or Others "
Haven't started watching this yet but I'm super-interested what you think about this Changeling TV show (on Apple TV+) and its portrayal of black family building.
Black skin, white mask type stuff. I've seen 8 episodes
Sad but true 😢
When dude said, "and then Heavy D passed away..." Like, holy shit, bruh!!! That was that long ago??????? The hatred is strong. Damn.
We got to speak about the elephant in the room. This Doctor needs to be concerned about his health. Health disease, hypertension and diabetes often follows obesity. He makes great content outside my point made.
Your observation is not relevant to the conversation he's actually trying to have.
He’ll Get Healthy
Y’all always talk without even knowing. He’s lost tens of pounds, he’s trending in the right direction. He knows.
Why can’t we just use the courts the way we do. If you slander me or write something liable why wouldn’t I sue you? Make your financial life as dead as you’re trying to make my physical one.
Because we’re black men.
@@telluhwatboy lawyers want money they’ll take the case
We live in a trash society
You you can’t just post this man for 10 minutes when you and Dr get together
I loved Heavy D he was my celebrity husband
5:48 The argument should stay specific to American Black Men.
Did we create these women too?
@@deondricksteen4606 inadvertently.
@@xlegendary_leex_1058 how
@deondricksteen4606 I have a video presentation that can better explain my point of view. But, when I say "inadvertently," it means as a condition of circumstance. Young girls who grow up in single parent households are often held responsible for most of their siblings (if they are the oldest of many). This is not entirely women's fault to blame as it requires two biological parties to procreate life. History has made it difficult for many of us to establish boundaries that protect us from kinds of outcomes, where there is an uneven ratio between boys/girls under the poverty line. - this is mostly a southern origin story.
NO. women DID NOT create said behavior of women. However, our cultural practices are likely to contribute to the increase likelihood of their behavior towards men. Which is primarily based on male stress at 2x the rate the normal due to early maturity. Because women are prone to internalizing most of these innate factors, their stress levels are primarily predicted by male behavior in that it is impossible to solve all of their needs and their daughters simultaneously.
Therefore, black men are perceived as a burden to most black women because of their preexisting socio-economic issues within the black household.
...that's only 0.001% of the puzzle
What was the name of the movie shown in class?
We are taking it back to the barbarian age . I for one will not forget their cruelty
What movie did he mention?
It was on the screen.
@@wnttalk thanks, I’ll go back and look
❤
Can somebody tell me where the fuck in this videos did he criticize black masculinity?
Were you expecting him to?
I will always give a like to Dr. T.
I love this guy's interviews! The thing that frustrates me the most as an older black man is the younger generation of men have lost the awareness that they can organize, practice group economics and solve all the problems that they are complaining about on the internet! You have two things that our ancestors didn't and your wasting that power! You have the internet and the ability to gather from all over the world through social media!! Start using it to raise funds for scholarships for boys and build schools for boys to close the gap!!! Also, the entrepreneur path is the only viable path for black boys and men!
Stop gaslighting.
As per usual.
W😮W
Damn shame
Staying single is the way today