Glad to see you again Selmar. We were wondering if you were alright. All the best to you at the new chateau. Hoping all works out well for you. Take care. ❤
Nice to hear from you again, it was too long, and I hope you have a great time at Chateau Montcuquet, a new adventure, a new beginning.. hope we see more of you, and you are now in one of the beautiful places in French, with his old, medieval village.. enjoy your stay..
Oh Selmar , I was so happy to see you this morning, I'm so sorry about your mom passing , & Diesel as well .. I'm enjoying your video & I'm also enjoying that you are speaking in Dutch . I love that language and haven't spoken it since I was a child . I luve in America now so I don't hear it so much anymore . I hope you find great pleasure & success in your new digs , that family has a jewel at their chateau . I'm looking forward to your new adventures Selmar , this is truly a medieval dream!
Glad to see you, Selmar! Glad to know that you are all right. Hope this new location brings you many happy positive experiences and wonderful kind people. Sending you comforting thoughts in regards to the loss of your mom earlier this year. We lost our mom in September. This kind of grief is unlike any other. Wishing you all the very, very best. 🙏🏼🦋🌟💜
So great to have you back Selmar!! We have missed you and your wonderful vlogs. You truly have had your share of loss this past year, but you always seem to land in a better place with such great people. Having young children around this chateau should add to the delightful adventure you are on. You ALWAYS stay so positive!! Hoping that this might end up being your forever home.
Dear Selmar, thanks for your message and beautiful video ❤🌻 Good you took a time out - some monks do that for a whole lifetime 🙏 - at times its hard - peace to the world
Lovely to see you again Selmar sometimes it's better to move forward change of pace and environment to help you heal. I know you love traveling too so it's a great distraction and exploration experience for you and Jose. Sounds like a lovely family and beautiful chateau I hope it works out for you long term. I look forward to your new adventures when you are ready :) unlike others here I prefer to move forward than backwards and think you are the same Selmar well done finding a new venue with new friends :)
Beautiful video Selmar, sooo ...... Pleased you are back making videos, I have missed you very much. I loved visiting the beautiful church and the historic medieval artitecture village. I hope this chateau will be, a happy place for you to be, during the winter season, it sounds like it will be perfect for you, with yoga and people that have the same life likes as you. Selmar so pleased you have recovered from the loss of your mother's passing. Selmar try to keep in touch with your lovely niece, she is a lovely person .
Selmar it’s good to see you again. You are looking very handsome. Your video is so very well made. The music is perfect for the settings. You take your time and not rush the filming. I hope your new home will be everything you want it to be. Until next time my love. Please, take care and stay safe. Love ya 🍺❤️😇🙏🌞🕊👍🇺🇸🌈🌹
keep going Selmar, i lost my Mum, i know it is so difficult., put you in the past. Continue to keep going for the future and continue to give your best like you are doing in the present time. you are so a good person, Courage. i hope the family where you are will love you.
How lovely to see you Selmar, I was beginning to to worry about you, I always look forward to your videos and I’m so happy your back! I understand what it’s like to grieve one’s parents as mine were wonderful, time helps, memories become less painful but never forgotten, you will be ok sweetheart, keep your positivity, your kindness and love of life, good things will come to you, much love xxxxxxxxxxxxx😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Seller that was a riviting vlog! Magnificent walk through the town. Stunning. So sorry about your Mom, she will always be with you and wants you to be happy in all your endevours. Missed you!
It is very good to see you again, Selmar! And know that you are ok! I have missed seeing you, but understand that a heart that's hurting needs time... looking forward to seeing more when you are able. I'm thankful when you take the time to stop and appreciate the beautiful old churches. Life is terribly bleak without God's comfort, guidance and wisdom for all our life's circumstances. Here's hoping this situation and the warmer climate will be better for you! Looking forward to seeing you again!
Thank you Selmar for this update….was just thinking that with the world going through so many changes and shifts, that it is a challenge to find a permanent place from which to highlight your many talents and honor your artistic expressions. So glad you have resurfaced in a new location better suited for the colder months where you can thrive and settle in. I learn so much from your informative videos peering into life from the past from an artistic perspective.
Ik begrijp héél goed, hoe moeilijk het kan zijn om de plek te verlaten waarvan je dacht welkom te zijn voor lange tijd. Maar.. vergeet niet dat mensen je huisvesten als een soort bediende die ze wegdoen als het ze niet meer uitkomt, hoe aardig ze ook zijn! Ik begrijp goed dat je in de rouw bent voor je mams, maar blijf er niet te lang in hangen, dat zou zij ook niet goed hebben gevonden denk ik zo.. Het wordt eigenlijk een beetje tijd om ook je eigen plekje te vinden, waar dan ook. Je begint toch een leeftijd te krijgen dat het reizende leven wat je had, en fijn vond, een beetje achter te laten. Zoek een plek waar je je goed voelt. Ik weet dat je daar geld voor nodig hebt, maar een klein huisje op het platteland moet toch lukken, waar vanuit je ook dingen kan doen als dansles geven in een dorpshuis o.i.d. Ik volg je al een hele tijd en vroeg mij al af waar je was gebleven. Het leven zit vol teleurstellingen, zoals je zélf al menig keer hebt ervaren, en het wordt tijd dat je zélf de regie gaat hebben! Ik wens je veel liefs en goeds en hopelijk heb je het in dit chateau weer fijn naar je zin!😘💋
You've had a tough time and sad you've had to move on again but let's hope this new place with a more spiritual side will be a wonderful winter home and a secure place for 2025! Keep strong.
Selmar ,wondered about you and what was happening with you, as did not see that you were on (as you were not, but wondered why I did not get any vlogs.) lol I think this will be great for you, and for the Winter where it is "warmer!!" YEH! (Now for me I am stuck in cold Winter weather , not yet, but it wil come, and I hurt all over when it comes but that is my life. Grew up here and so I stay here that is all i ever knew I guess? ( See how lucky you are getting around, and bringing all of this to me and others!??) It is not sad though for me, it is quiet ,safe and nice people. That helps alot) Al at once you will figure out the right spot that you can live, and yet visit many historical places to show and estates or Chateaus , and take us there in your extra time, and yet stay in your own place. If that is how it needs to be, one day? All happens for a reason! For you , this is fantastic as you are into yoga...You are realy great at it and love it! Good for our bodies even if we hurt as long as it is not made any worse, than we take it easy on it if it causes any thing more. Mostly good for us, and without it our bodies will get stiff . Make harmony in our bodies, I feel. ( This will be perfect and for your dancing that would be just perfect for you and for them I think??)) Good for us , as we get to learn and watch and enjoy ...and maybe ....even dance.. at home , as no one sees us even! lol It can bring us such JOY! I do hope it works out anyway) Really nice. Well, I do pray it works out much longer than just Winter. You deserve happiness, and friends around you! Stick with this and them , and keep doing this as long as you feel right about it and they also, and you will be happy I think? Just dancing and Yoga and friends! ((We love seeing you again!! )) We get to now meet your new friends/employers, and owners of Chateau and this business! Perfect combination. Enough for you to do and enjoy too! But as they say.... Let us take " One Day At A Time" There was a song released at a long time ago maybe in 60's not sure, by Crystal Gayle, and that was what she sang. It is a Christian song.((( But it is well known saying too!))) You know Jesus did not stay in his own home always either, and moved around too, He taught this" If you are accepted stay, and eat with them, if not ,you shake dust off feet , and move on" He told His apostles to do this, ( well I will not speak on this here, but just came to mind!) We can only sit in one chair at a time, or in one room at a time, and so it is with one day at a time!)) * That is from me!* (Not anyone else) My saying.. lol I cannot be all over at one time, anyway. Just one spot, at any given time. This is with us all! Sometimes we try to do more, but quite hard to impossible!
Nice camera work, beautiful area.i see much more opportunities for you there, hey this might be where you find your own place, s great old barn to rehab or even a great little townhouse in a city. Don't be near any rivers though. Glad to see you again
Love the tour and the chapel was lovely! Have to say that you may think I am crazy, but if you look at this vlog at beginning once more , and the altar on first church, there is a LIGHT OF AN angel GOING UP IN AIR AND THEN BACK DOWN IN FRONT OF PODIUM ,WITH SOMETHING IN ITS HAND, BUT CANNOT MAKE THAT OUT. iT IS A' LIGHT,' BUT WITH A BODY LOOK, AND 'WHITE' COLORING. NOT SURE WHAT THIS IS BUT IT LOOKS LIKE AN ANGEL??! IS THIS SOMETHIGN WITH YOUR CAMERA? Selmar, you do not deserve what you have gone through , and the all losses have been great as of late, and I understnd as I too as you know, have been with you since Lalande and beyond! You were so much fun at Lalande too, and really a main person to be honest. Teaching the dancing and giving your best. In all places people seem to seem to have favorites, when it is good for them, and pretend we are in that group at first, until they are finished with us, and they have another to tke the place or ready to move on to other things.. I have been there too, many times, so I know! This is hwo life in this new modern life has become it seems often. Not all, but many times, (Not saying this is Lalande, just in general about life. I have seen it too ) It can happen and often does in life. All at once it all forms together. Never give up, and remember how many of us do care about you! Please realize loosing your mom and feeling sad and remembering life in past, is ''normal ' and beleive me I do this '' and tried to be good in my life and to all, and yet think I maybe did this for them ,and all I could, but did not do this good enough, and it is hard if we re-think ourselves. How life has bee for us We are "sensitive people" this is why, Others think nothing about anything in life, they just run from the past. Never looking back, thinking it does not catch up with them someday. We are all different. You are a {people kind of person, you like and need people ,it seems, plus sensitive, and love to be around others, and sometimes people are not who we think they are in the end! This hurts, sensitive people alot! ) But in life no one gets away with hurting others, not in the end. Just for awhile. We do our best , and then realize we are capable of starting over, and we can stand up again! (We learn from the past , but look forward to the future! ) Bless you Selmar, and we all are sending love your way! May angels walk and fly all around you this time! Guarding and protecting you!😇😇😇💜💜🧚♀🏰🌞🌟🎶💃🕺Some favorite symbols, for your life
Beautiful place at this new chateau. To life there are many seasons. I pray your time here is a blessing to you Selmar. My mother passed in Feb of this year so I know how you must still be feeling. I worry that you are not in the best health atm as you were speaking so please take good care of yourself. Love the video. Good to see you. ❤❤
Oh Selmar, I had thought you & your girl friend had bought chateau & here I find such sadness has befallen you with the loss of your mom & Diesel! To lose your mom is so very, very hard - no matter how blessed you were to have her into adulthood & Diesel was also family & something you do not just ‘get over’. My heart goes out to you - I know how hard the missing is at times, feels as though it will swallow you whole. I live in Johannesburg, South Africa &, being able to speak Afrikaans, tried listening to your commentary in Dutch, which has some similarities. Do you have an email address? I hope you will be happy where you are this winter. 🤗🤗🤗
Selmar, I get the feeling your mom was your best friend. As was mine. We lost her in 1995 and then dad in 1997. Only 16 months apart. We were 7 boys and 1 girl. I 2as second eldest. The girl came in the middle. It had to be very hard for them. I am the same age now as they were when they passed. We were raised well with love and respect of each other and the world. For me, losing our mom was really hard. As a nurse, I became a caregiver to all. It took many years to realize how much the effect of losing her so fast had on me. I think as we age we come into a peace of it. Not a day goes by, that I don't think of them. I learned to speak with them as if they could still hear me. It is important that we keep their memories alive and well and continue to treat them with the same love and respect they had for us and those who are born into our family since their passing. I will always eish you well. I do enjoy your travels and adventures. I look forward to seeing you in your new setting. Thanks for the tours. One can see the beauty and ponder how people lived back then. So much history. It is a shame to see some of the buildings in need of great help. Keep the videos coming, please.❤
I just saw an older vlog with you doing a drawing of a cat, it's very good will you have time to explore your talent as an artist? I think you should. Take an oil painting class to get your feet wet so to speak. With a younger family and a more active town and environment I think it will energize you. Best wishes
Welcome back ❤❤❤ So nice to see you are well and sharing your adventures with us again. The new chateau looks beautiful and I hope you will be happy there 🙏😍😘
Hi Selmar, I was wondering why don’t you rent a very small affordable house / flat , or even cheaper go to a camping municipal where you could stay for the winter in your camping car and I know it is very cheap all over France , maybe it’s time to try that and also some handyman’s work to pay for it , because that is now three châteaux that you have had to leave behind for whatever reason . It is maybe time to try something different . Whatever you decide to do I wish you well .
@@hectorbrown656 Thank you Hector for you’re wondering. But I will continue to follow my dream. Maybe this is the one. I can do here nice renovation work and I just gave a workshop for the guest for the yoga week. The owners are very happy with me and made a Joke. I took you’re Camper keys. You are staying. Dream on, dream on till you’re dream comes true 😇🙏
@ thank you for answering me Selmar , you are certainly right to dream but life goes by so quickly , that eventually we all have to think about our older years. Take care of yourself .
So good to see that you are OK Selmar.
Unfortunate things keep happening to you. I do so hope you will find some happiness at your new chateau. X
Thank you Barb ❤
Good to see you are okay Selmar. Wishing you lots of happy and great times in your new Chateau. 🕊🤟💗
God bless you during your transition and beyond. Sorry for the list of your mother. Sending you love from Virginia ❤
Thank you buttercup 🙏
continued..... sorry for the loss of your mother. Loosing your mother is a deep and emotional experience. ❤
Glad to see you again Selmar. We were wondering if you were alright. All the best to you at the new chateau. Hoping all works out well for you. Take care. ❤
Nice to hear from you again, it was too long, and I hope you have a great time at Chateau Montcuquet, a new adventure, a new beginning.. hope we see more of you, and you are now in one of the beautiful places in French, with his old, medieval village.. enjoy your stay..
Oh Selmar , I was so happy to see you this morning, I'm so sorry about your mom passing , & Diesel as well .. I'm enjoying your video & I'm also enjoying that you are speaking in Dutch . I love that language and haven't spoken it since I was a child . I luve in America now so I don't hear it so much anymore . I hope you find great pleasure & success in your new digs , that family has a jewel at their chateau .
I'm looking forward to your new adventures Selmar , this is truly a medieval dream!
Thank you Texas ❤
Lovely to see you and a beautiful village take care of yourself xx
Lovely to see you back again doing vlogs Selmar. I wish you all the best on your new adventure xx
Thank you French ☺
Glad to see you, Selmar! Glad to know that you are all right. Hope this new location brings you many happy positive experiences and wonderful kind people. Sending you comforting thoughts in regards to the loss of your mom earlier this year. We lost our mom in September. This kind of grief is unlike any other. Wishing you all the very, very best. 🙏🏼🦋🌟💜
Thank you healinggardens ❤
Nice to see you back Selmar, new start and new adventure's take care and see you soon 😊🤗
Beautiful. Hoping you are well and enjoy this season and location.
thank goodness you are OK!
So great to have you back Selmar!! We have missed you and your wonderful vlogs. You truly have had your share of loss this past year, but you always seem to land in a better place with such great people. Having young children around this chateau should add to the delightful adventure you are on. You ALWAYS stay so positive!! Hoping that this might end up being your forever home.
Thank you vicky ❤
Wonderful to see you again Selmar. I look forward to sharing your new adventures. I love the beautiful laces you show us.. :) x
What a beautiful town. I wish you well on your new adventure.
The South is warmer, in every sense ❤
Dear Selmar, thanks for your message and beautiful video ❤🌻 Good you took a time out - some monks do that for a whole lifetime 🙏 - at times its hard - peace to the world
What a beautiful place you have found. Lovely spot to spend the winter I'd say. PEACE
Amen to that ❤
Lovely to see you again Selmar sometimes it's better to move forward change of pace and environment to help you heal. I know you love traveling too so it's a great distraction and exploration experience for you and Jose. Sounds like a lovely family and beautiful chateau I hope it works out for you long term. I look forward to your new adventures when you are ready :) unlike others here I prefer to move forward than backwards and think you are the same Selmar well done finding a new venue with new friends :)
Dear Selmar,
So sorry for the loss of your mother😢❤🙏🏻🕊️
Glad you found a new family to help out and co-create with…
Best Wishes,
Tina
Thank you Tina ❤
Beautiful video Selmar, sooo ...... Pleased you are back making videos, I have missed you very much. I loved visiting the beautiful church and the historic medieval artitecture village. I hope this chateau will be,
a happy place for you to be, during the winter season, it sounds like it will be perfect for you, with yoga and people that have the same life likes as you. Selmar so pleased you have recovered from the loss of your mother's passing. Selmar try to keep in touch with your lovely niece, she is a lovely person .
Thank you Lesley ❤
I wish you every happiness
Greetings to you Selmar! Glad you found another Château to help renovate. They will be happy to have your expertise! You always do a beautiful job.
Thank you srigging ❤
Sorry for your losses! I pray you find your own place to dwell and make it what you need! Peace and blessings to you.
Selmar it’s good to see you again. You are looking very handsome. Your video is so very well made. The music is perfect for the settings. You take your time and not rush the filming. I hope your new home will be everything you want it to be. Until next time my love. Please, take care and stay safe. Love ya 🍺❤️😇🙏🌞🕊👍🇺🇸🌈🌹
keep going Selmar, i lost my Mum, i know it is so difficult., put you in the past. Continue to keep going for the future and continue to give your best like you are doing in the present time. you are so a good person, Courage. i hope the family where you are will love you.
Thank you frederique ❤
How lovely to see you Selmar, I was beginning to to worry about you, I always look forward to your videos and I’m so happy your back! I understand what it’s like to grieve one’s parents as mine were wonderful, time helps, memories become less painful but never forgotten, you will be ok sweetheart, keep your positivity, your kindness and love of life, good things will come to you, much love xxxxxxxxxxxxx😘❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Stella ❤
SELMAR! It takes time to grieve… happy to see you
Seller that was a riviting vlog! Magnificent walk through the town. Stunning. So sorry about your Mom, she will always be with you and wants you to be happy in all your endevours. Missed you!
Thank you Lavonne ❤
Thanks for the update and tour of the town. I wish you a very happy winter season.
It is very good to see you again, Selmar! And know that you are ok!
I have missed seeing you, but understand that a heart that's hurting needs time... looking forward to seeing more when you are able. I'm thankful when you take the time to stop and appreciate the beautiful old churches. Life is terribly bleak without God's comfort, guidance and wisdom for all our life's circumstances. Here's hoping this situation and the warmer climate will be better for you! Looking forward to seeing you again!
Thank you Mary ❤
Sorry about mother we c a re for you❤❤Good luck and God bless
Thank you ❤
Thank you Selmar for this update….was just thinking that with the world going through so many changes and shifts, that it is a
challenge to find a permanent place from which to highlight your many talents and honor your artistic expressions. So glad you have resurfaced in a new location better suited for the colder months where you can thrive and settle in. I learn so much from your informative videos peering into life from the past from an artistic perspective.
Thank you Nancy ❤
Glad to see you back❤
Ik begrijp héél goed, hoe moeilijk het kan zijn om de plek te verlaten waarvan je dacht welkom te zijn voor lange tijd. Maar.. vergeet niet dat mensen je huisvesten als een soort bediende die ze wegdoen als het ze niet meer uitkomt, hoe aardig ze ook zijn! Ik begrijp goed dat je in de rouw bent voor je mams, maar blijf er niet te lang in hangen, dat zou zij ook niet goed hebben gevonden denk ik zo.. Het wordt eigenlijk een beetje tijd om ook je eigen plekje te vinden, waar dan ook. Je begint toch een leeftijd te krijgen dat het reizende leven wat je had, en fijn vond, een beetje achter te laten. Zoek een plek waar je je goed voelt. Ik weet dat je daar geld voor nodig hebt, maar een klein huisje op het platteland moet toch lukken, waar vanuit je ook dingen kan doen als dansles geven in een dorpshuis o.i.d. Ik volg je al een hele tijd en vroeg mij al af waar je was gebleven. Het leven zit vol teleurstellingen, zoals je zélf al menig keer hebt ervaren, en het wordt tijd dat je zélf de regie gaat hebben! Ik wens je veel liefs en goeds en hopelijk heb je het in dit chateau weer fijn naar je zin!😘💋
Dank je sylvia voor je begrip en ondersteunende woorden ❤
You said what I was thinking
Great to see you back and glad your ok. I love that part of France.
Good to hear from you these days, you look good. All the best..❤
I always enjoy your videos Selmar, you always use such beautiful music , Thankyou and enjoy your new chateau adventure 🌟💚🧡💜 😄🌟💫
Thank you Caroline ❤
Hope you will be happy here. A beautiful place for a beautiful man!❤
Thank you auntie ❤
What a pretty town!
Good to hear from you. Sorry to hear about your loss. Keep making these nice videos. 😊
You've had a tough time and sad you've had to move on again but let's hope this new place with a more spiritual side will be a wonderful winter home and a secure place for 2025! Keep strong.
Thank you miss ❤
Stunning place xxxx
Glad to hear you've landed in a beautiful place. We wish you every blessing, from friends in Newfoundland
I watched your mother's photos a few times, she was lovely, Selmar 🩷
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Selmar lovely to see you. Xx 😊
nice to see you again, change is good, not to get stuck, move forward, God bless
Welcome back Selmar.....All those bats and things you made last year too!!! Sandi x
Selmar ,wondered about you and what was happening with you, as did not see that you were on (as you were not, but wondered why I did not get any vlogs.) lol
I think this will be great for you, and for the Winter where it is "warmer!!" YEH! (Now for me I am stuck in cold Winter weather , not yet, but it wil come, and I hurt all over when it comes but that is my life. Grew up here and so I stay here that is all i ever knew I guess? ( See how lucky you are getting around, and bringing all of this to me and others!??) It is not sad though for me, it is quiet ,safe and nice people. That helps alot) Al at once you will figure out the right spot that you can live, and yet visit many historical places to show and estates or Chateaus , and take us there in your extra time, and yet stay in your own place. If that is how it needs to be, one day? All happens for a reason!
For you , this is fantastic as you are into yoga...You are realy great at it and love it! Good for our bodies even if we hurt as long as it is not made any worse, than we take it easy on it if it causes any thing more. Mostly good for us, and without it our bodies will get stiff . Make harmony in our bodies, I feel. ( This will be perfect and for your dancing that would be just perfect for you and for them I think??)) Good for us , as we get to learn and watch and enjoy ...and maybe ....even dance.. at home , as no one sees us even! lol It can bring us such JOY! I do hope it works out anyway) Really nice. Well, I do pray it works out much longer than just Winter. You deserve happiness, and friends around you! Stick with this and them , and keep doing this as long as you feel right about it and they also, and you will be happy I think? Just dancing and Yoga and friends! ((We love seeing you again!! )) We get to now meet your new friends/employers, and owners of Chateau and this business! Perfect combination. Enough for you to do and enjoy too!
But as they say.... Let us take " One Day At A Time" There was a song released at a long time ago maybe in 60's not sure, by Crystal Gayle, and that was what she sang. It is a Christian song.((( But it is well known saying too!))) You know Jesus did not stay in his own home always either, and moved around too, He taught this" If you are accepted stay, and eat with them, if not ,you shake dust off feet , and move on" He told His apostles to do this, ( well I will not speak on this here, but just came to mind!)
We can only sit in one chair at a time, or in one room at a time, and so it is with one day at a time!)) * That is from me!* (Not anyone else) My saying.. lol I cannot be all over at one time, anyway. Just one spot, at any given time. This is with us all! Sometimes we try to do more, but quite hard to impossible!
Thank you carol, for you’re nice uplifting positive words. With some humor. I really appreciate that ❤
Nice camera work, beautiful area.i see much more opportunities for you there, hey this might be where you find your own place, s great old barn to rehab or even a great little townhouse in a city. Don't be near any rivers though.
Glad to see you again
Selmar is a wholesome man. Best Wishes.
My sympathy for your loss,, Nothing is like losing your mother, hope you find peace happiness and joy in your new home
Lovely to see you back Selmar! Here's to new adventures! 💜💛💚
@@fridaisabella Thank you Frida ❤️
Good to see you back! Good luck ijn your new place!
@@janetmackinnon3411 Thank you Janet ❤️
So glad you are back and doing okay. You were missed. Looking forward to watching you on this next new adventure.
Thank you so much X
Oh my, so good to see you again Selmar. Good to know you're doing well now.
Thank you Norma ❤
GOOD ATTITUDE, SELMAR ! KEEP DANCIN' TO THE MUSIC !!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's good to hear from you, I was a bit concerned. Dealing with loss and grief is a very personal process. Take care of yourself!
What a shame the prior chateau owners couldn’t find it in the goodness of their hearts to allow you to stay through the winter. Bad form.
I am very pleased to see you are back.❤
YAY! Selmar's back ☺☺☺☺☺☺
Wonderful to hear from you again.. Stay strong and b
A new start makes us grow 🎉❤xxxx
Good to see you back Selmar. 😊
Love the tour and the chapel was lovely! Have to say that you may think I am crazy, but if you look at this vlog at beginning once more , and the altar on first church, there is a LIGHT OF AN angel GOING UP IN AIR AND THEN BACK DOWN IN FRONT OF PODIUM ,WITH SOMETHING IN ITS HAND, BUT CANNOT MAKE THAT OUT. iT IS A' LIGHT,' BUT WITH A BODY LOOK, AND 'WHITE' COLORING. NOT SURE WHAT THIS IS BUT IT LOOKS LIKE AN ANGEL??! IS THIS SOMETHIGN WITH YOUR CAMERA?
Selmar, you do not deserve what you have gone through , and the all losses have been great as of late, and I understnd as I too as you know, have been with you since Lalande and beyond! You were so much fun at Lalande too, and really a main person to be honest. Teaching the dancing and giving your best. In all places people seem to seem to have favorites, when it is good for them, and pretend we are in that group at first, until they are finished with us, and they have another to tke the place or ready to move on to other things.. I have been there too, many times, so I know! This is hwo life in this new modern life has become it seems often. Not all, but many times,
(Not saying this is Lalande, just in general about life. I have seen it too ) It can happen and often does in life.
All at once it all forms together. Never give up, and remember how many of us do care about you!
Please realize loosing your mom and feeling sad and remembering life in past, is ''normal ' and beleive me I do this '' and tried to be good in my life and to all, and yet think I maybe did this for them ,and all I could, but did not do this good enough, and it is hard if we re-think ourselves. How life has bee for us We are "sensitive people" this is why, Others think nothing about anything in life, they just run from the past. Never looking back, thinking it does not catch up with them someday. We are all different.
You are a {people kind of person, you like and need people ,it seems, plus sensitive, and love to be around others, and sometimes people are not who we think they are in the end! This hurts, sensitive people alot! ) But in life no one gets away with hurting others, not in the end. Just for awhile. We do our best , and then realize we are capable of starting over, and we can stand up again!
(We learn from the past , but look forward to the future! )
Bless you Selmar, and we all are sending love your way! May angels walk and fly all around you this time! Guarding and protecting you!😇😇😇💜💜🧚♀🏰🌞🌟🎶💃🕺Some favorite symbols, for your life
Thank you 🙏 ❤
Thank you carol ❤
Great to see you again.
Beautiful place at this new chateau. To life there are many seasons. I pray your time here is a blessing to you Selmar.
My mother passed in Feb of this year so I know how you must still be feeling.
I worry that you are not in the best health atm as you were speaking so please take good care of yourself.
Love the video. Good to see you. ❤❤
Thank you ehpeach ❤
Nice to hear from you again! Op 12:00 krijg ik echt een "3 Op Reis" vibe ;)
Pragtige geboue Selmar ik houd daarvan❤❤❤ also good content 👌
Thank you p :)
Oh Selmar, I had thought you & your girl friend had bought chateau & here I find such sadness has befallen you with the loss of your mom & Diesel! To lose your mom is so very, very hard - no matter how blessed you were to have her into adulthood & Diesel was also family & something you do not just ‘get over’. My heart goes out to you - I know how hard the missing is at times, feels as though it will swallow you whole. I live in Johannesburg, South Africa &, being able to speak Afrikaans, tried listening to your commentary in Dutch, which has some similarities. Do you have an email address? I hope you will be happy where you are this winter. 🤗🤗🤗
@@vanessajamieson7420 yes I have an email address 😏
Selmar, I get the feeling your mom was your best friend. As was mine. We lost her in 1995 and then dad in 1997. Only 16 months apart. We were 7 boys and 1 girl. I 2as second eldest. The girl came in the middle. It had to be very hard for them. I am the same age now as they were when they passed. We were raised well with love and respect of each other and the world. For me, losing our mom was really hard. As a nurse, I became a caregiver to all. It took many years to realize how much the effect of losing her so fast had on me. I think as we age we come into a peace of it. Not a day goes by, that I don't think of them. I learned to speak with them as if they could still hear me. It is important that we keep their memories alive and well and continue to treat them with the same love and respect they had for us and those who are born into our family since their passing.
I will always eish you well. I do enjoy your travels and adventures. I look forward to seeing you in your new setting.
Thanks for the tours. One can see the beauty and ponder how people lived back then. So much history. It is a shame to see some of the buildings in need of great help.
Keep the videos coming, please.❤
Thank you Peter and thank you to share youre memories. My mother was verry special to me ❤
Selmar do you still have Jose'?
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There seem to be a lot of chateaus in France
Welcome back. Your advice on life and staying positive is much appreciated and to take things as they come. Thank you for reminding us
Selmar my comment keeps disappearing but 3rd time...Its so good to see you my friend.❤ 😘
@@isabelmonday Thank you Isabel ❤️ Strange that you comment disappeared 🧐
Maybe time to get your own place !!!!
I always will have my tiny house on wheels 😊
Sure have missed you
I just saw an older vlog with you doing a drawing of a cat, it's very good will you have time to explore your talent as an artist? I think you should. Take an oil painting class to get your feet wet so to speak. With a younger family and a more active town and environment I think it will energize you. Best wishes
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Welcome back ❤❤❤ So nice to see you are well and sharing your adventures with us again. The new chateau looks beautiful and I hope you will be happy there 🙏😍😘
Thank you rosemarie ❤
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Hi Selmar, I was wondering why don’t you rent a very small affordable house / flat , or even cheaper go to a camping municipal where you could stay for the winter in your camping car and I know it is very cheap all over France , maybe it’s time to try that and also some handyman’s work to pay for it , because that is now three châteaux that you have had to leave behind for whatever reason . It is maybe time to try something different . Whatever you decide to do I wish you well .
@@hectorbrown656 Thank you Hector for you’re wondering. But I will continue to follow my dream. Maybe this is the one. I can do here nice renovation work and I just gave a workshop for the guest for the yoga week. The owners are very happy with me and made a Joke. I took you’re Camper keys. You are staying. Dream on, dream on till you’re dream comes true 😇🙏
@ thank you for answering me Selmar , you are certainly right to dream but life goes by so quickly , that eventually we all have to think about our older years. Take care of yourself .
@@hectorbrown656 I understand what you`re saying. Thank you.
very pretty all selmard,hope you will enjoy your time there!
Where is everybody?
@@eleanorchapple8772 If you want to film with nobody around. Do it on Lunch time 😏
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Hi Selmar long time no hear nice to hear from you why dont you go to LaLande we miss you sooo much there !
I will never go back to la Lande.
@@selmarduinofficialthat place is falling apart at the seams. You deserve so much better. I have missed you.❤
Why not go back to Lalande.
I will never go back to la Lande.
I agree selmar keep away
Because what you see is all fake. Selmar deserves much better.
Before You offer hospitality in a home that is not yours- remember that every medal has two sides.
@@HannaHanna-bq8cv explain?