He’s this shows Watson (from Sherlock and Holmes) (Btw If you’re not aware, Watson is essentially the readers / viewers personified in a character in the show, we learn stuff through Watson)
I don't care if she's their sister or not - you don't keep toxic people in your life, period. Tammy is the epitome of a toxic person. She's not going to change and she has made that abundantly clear. The fact that she dares to make everything all about her all the time makes it obvious. That family needs to drop her ass. Maybe then she'll see how much she needs them and how ridiculous she's been this whole time. They don't owe her A DAMN THING.
Agree. It's interesting to me after witnessing some of these extremely morbidly obese people on TV, how many of them are toxic. It's almost like some of them created the disability themselves in order to use it as a bargaining chip to manipulate the people around them.
Tammy really thought she could convince us that she went a whole 12 hours in a vehicle without complaining about not being able to breathe. Or any complaining period. I actually laughed at the idea.
Yup. Now we all can see why her family has had their fill with her and has 'dismissed' her. She doesn't take her own life seriously and thrives on belittling and berating others on their successes because SHE doesn't have any of her own. I used to feel bad for her because I thought perhaps she was trying and just had a harder time, but nope.. SHE is the HARD time everyone else experiences. She will unfortunately be a victim of her own selfish avarice soon enough.
Unfortunately I have a family member with entitlement issues and she is now 40. She acts like a child when things don't go her way and when someone disagrees with her. You are absolutely correct. People like them will never change. It will always be someone else's fault, they will always feel they should get whatever they want when they want, they will always get mad when others don't agree with them, etc... So sad and pathetic really🤦🙄
She’s acting like she is being persecuted for wanting to leave when really, it’s because she made a scene and demanded they ruin their time and take her home.
The entitlement is next level. Then she smirks when she knows that she is going to manipulate the situation and ruin everybody else’s time and vacation. She is the absolute worst. lol I’m so thankful this isn’t my family!
Yes I agree 100%! I was so mad when Chris came outside to let her fat ass know Mike & Amy will take her to a room. Tammy act like she so shame " ok" with her head hanging down she's a joke
I wonder if Tammy will ever realize how ridiculous she sounds when people go out of their way to do nice things for her but she takes it as an insult smh
In Holland we have a perfect saying: Wat je zegt ben je zelf. It means: you are what you say. She's talking to herself when she's shitting on someone else. She's just in denial
honestly! she wants to act grown, fune! be grown and take care of yourself! quit complaining! put in the work and effort! - but no... tammy wants to be given and handed everything. She wants to be handed good health while smoking and drinking. She wants to be handed being skinny but wants to eat 5 meals a day. That is what pisses me off the most.
"Get up that chair and make me!" HELL YEAH! LETS GOOOOO!!! Man, if it depended on me Tammy would still be sitting in that van. I guarantee the moment she felt hungry she'd get up that ramp like it was nothing!
Yeah she was “feeling better” once they were all smiles, wanting to take her out to dinner. I completely understand why they do enable her; she’s literally dependent on them for everything. But it would have been nice to see them just leave her in the van. Let her have her tantrum like a 5 year old
My brother (who has struggled with weight issues his whole life but keeps well) HAAAATES Tammy and said the same thing. Lol "Her fatass would stay in that van until she learned to be an adult."
@@jordanjohnson4290 she's impenetrable. She has at least two feet of fat as a buffer. Knives do nothing. I'd be surprised if a bullet could even make it through a few inches. She would just plop on him and kill him. Protect buff at all cost
The fact that he hit his surgery without even fully meeting his goal because he showed determined want to get healthy already made him the best guy in the show.
Bro, this is absolutely infuriating. No way I would put up with Tammy. I know she is their family, but if my family member acted like that I would wash my hands of them. I refuse to let anyone make my life miserable.
Same, in fact, I washed my hands of two of my brothers due to their abusive attitudes. I honestly couldn't care less if I ever see them again. I lost all of my love towards them and for VERY good reason. I gave them chance after chance but after the last time, I said no more. Now one said he has changed again, which I don't believe. I'm only cordial to him around our parents.
I hate it when Tammy gets mad at her family for trying to make her do something. No, they don’t want to push you around all day Tammy. You’re 600+ pounds and you keep gaining weight. It is so unbelievably selfish of you to ask them to drop everything and potentially hurt themselves to help you when you don’t help yourself. God. I just can’t even deal with her bs anymore.
Don’t forget about the time that Amy had to keep Tammy from rolling back when she was pregnant. If Amy would have not been strong enough to keep Tammy in place it could have been dangerous for Gage.
Right?! I think I'd be done with her at that point, at least until she actually tried to help herself and showed some appreciation and humility. That ain't ever gonna happen, though.
She’s gonna pass. Like it’s hard to say but she doesn’t care about her life, she doesn’t care about the effort her family put in, she doesn’t care about anything. Let her do her and when it’s too late, it’s too late. The family did everything they could.
It's horrible to say but the family will honestly be better off when she does. She brings nothing but negativity to their lives. I'm sure they love her, but deep down they'll probably be relieved when it happens
I feel the most for her family. I cant imagine how they would feel after doing everything they can and it still not being enough for Tammy. I hope they get some help processing that after she dies, because that must be hard. Tammy is lucky to still have them by her side.
Crazy that Tammy doesn’t realize how insanely lucky she is to have her family. They’re saints for dealing with her for so long. You come at anyone in my family with that attitude, your teeth are hittin concrete. Aint no way
Exactly this! There are so many people who have cut family out of their life for much less. I think its just that some people dont realize family has no obligation to help you and keep you into their life. Especially not if youre this toxic and refuse to change. She very lucky that they dont give up on her even when it seems like a waste of time. Im sure that if they do cut her out at one point, its still not going to wake Tammy up and she doesnt have long left.
As someone who has screamed through panic attacks while feeling like I can't breathe, it is infact completely possible. Hell as someone who's had their throat swell shut during anaphylaxis you can 110% scream with a closing throat if you try hard enough.
@@daylight1992 as an asthmatic, i call bullshit. When you really physically CANNOT INTAKE ENOUGH OXYGEN, you can't speak more than a few words at a time, let alone yell and argue. Having anxiety/hyperventilating is not the same as having a restricted airflow
She is incredibly lucky that ANYONE in her family still speaks to her, let alone takes care of her. I understand she’s sick (mentally and physically), but she is so abusive and ungrateful. She’s not worth helping at this point.
The problem is she doesn't think she is responsible for herself. I've been there and the only thing that worked was getting my own apartment 4 hours away from my parents house. I was severly depressed, doin nothing, blaming it on everybody else. When I moved out I HAD to get my shit together. I wanted to get my shit together. Maybe it sounds cruel but she doesn't need support. She wants to be alone anyways. Let her be alone for a couple of years, maybe she will wake up if there is nobody to help her. Srsly what life goals can you have when everybody is doing all the work for you? Her life goal seems to be being pushed around by her family for the rest of her life... Yikes... I cringe so hard bc it reminds me so much of my old self.
well... if they actually leave her alone, she WILL die. she's that unhealthy. but to have minimal contact so that they let their toxic meatbag know that they don't owe her shit is a great idea.
This. If they stopped helping her she would be FORCED to help herself or else she'd die. Nothing makes someone who cant help themself get their shit together faster than being pushed into a pit that you have to crawl out of yourself.
so glad to hear you doing better ❣❣❣ and you should not cringe cause that past person was also a part of you and the past helped you become the best version of yourself today ❣❣❣ I hope you get what I mean english it's not my 1st language xD 😅
Honestly, if I were her family, the second she said "it's all about ya'll" in the hotel room, I would have lost it on her, right then and there, told her to shut her trap, and left her there. She is a textbook narcissist, and no matter how much they try and talk to her, she is never going to listen. She can find her own way home. I seriously hope they kick her butt OUT, when they start moving into the new house. Leave that negative energy in your old place, and let her figure it out for herself, since she thinks she knows everything.
Just because someone has narcissistic traits doesn’t mean they are a flat out Narc. People throw that around too much. There are other mental disorders that can present with similar traits.
If she stays at home while the family goes on a vacation then she can’t be the center of attention But if she goes and tries to ruin the vacation, she IS the center of attention
I really want them to "abandon" her for some time, just not be there for here, so she maybe finally understands how important they are for her, and how much of a pain she is
She’s not, she just has so much going on mental health wise, that all her brain can do is lash out. A lot earlier in the series and in some parts of this season, her kindness comes out and she seems fun to be around, but her brain just ruins that for her.
@@jenniferweber8260 mental health is just another excuse people make to get out of acting in terrible, selfish ways. Honestly, so sick of people using mental health as the cliché excuse for almost everything when there are people who actually suffer from it legitimately and actually seek help for it instead of blame everyone else. Look at the amount of criminals who plead they have metal problems to try and get out of killing someone. Is that okay? Mental health is not an excuse to treat your family like shit especially when they are trying to help you in the first place, period.
@@jenniferweber8260 no..it's not her brain... It's her horrible, selfish entitled soul. Some people are just horrible people and has nothing to do with their weight and she has proven that time and time again.
@@Shellygrrl2573 I acted just like her my whole life until I got on medication and therapy. No one wants to have that much conflict with the people around them. And she’s not upset with them, she’s upset with herself and her situation but she’s projecting it on everyone else. I don’t believe people are mean to be mean, but they get some kind of satisfaction in their subconscious.
They need to stop holding Chris back from saying what's really on his mind. He's the only one who's unwilling to play into Tammy's temper tantrums and each time he gets ready to have a come to Jesus meeting with her everyone holds him back even though it's something she needs to hear.
As a bigger lady, plump not fat, if someone is being toxic they need to be called out no matter their size! Being heavily obese isn't an excuse to be a jackass to your family and it doesn't invalidate genuine criticism. Being fat isn't a shield from taking accountability on your toxic attitude.
I've been losing weight lately (I was 209 so far I've gotten down to 177) yes I felt like my dad was calling me fat when he suggested I get on a weight loss program, at the same time I knew losing weight was a good idea because my knees have been working better. I also would hate to make my family wait on me the way she has her family do it. because it doesn't feel good when you realize you're severely inconviencing people around you
As a health care worker - it literally is back breaking work to push highly over weight people in a wheelchair. It's hard to get the initial momentum to start moving and OMG if there is an incline or decline in the floor. You either have to work 2x or try to hold on to a weighty runaway wheelchair.
She’s not a bad person but her mental health is making her seem like a bad person. As someone who used to be like her, inside you know what you’re doing, you just don’t know how to stop.
Editing can make a difference, but I hate when people on tv use that excuse. They wouldn’t have all that footage of you acting awful if you didn’t do it to begin with.
Watching how she treats people is a great motivation for me to let people know how much I appreciate them for who they are and how lucky I am to have them in my life. There’s no reason to be grumpy all the time Tammy. It’s not all about you!!!
Outdoors in nature ............. Tammy: I needed some place I could breathe .............. Goes to a stuffy hotel room that doesn't even have opening windows
Might do her good to try and fight her family. At least get her a little exercise to try and get to them. Also I’m really glad for these reactions. Was curious about the show but watching alone I could not stand it.
Tammy seems to want to fight everyone quite often! She's going through a hard time and it makes everyone want to emphasize, but you can't be empathetic with someone who wouldn't do the same for you. She doesn't even try anymore
Well no crap, look how fat she is. People who have standards wouldn’t let their body get like that, she’s so lazy she got that fat and is taking advantage of it lmao
Becoming completely responsible for yourself at 18 is not necessary to be a decent person. Many ppl I know have families that pay for college, live with their families and don't pay rent/bills, and the like and they don't feel entitled to others' time and energy at all times
So what's the problem with going full no contact with Tammy? Kick her out so she faces severe consequences & responsibilities that all her family and friends tried to help her with.
@@bearburrito5245 Normally, I wouldn't snicker at jokes like this, but she is so nasty, mean spirited, and toxic. I feel bad for her family who just want her to start taking care of herself so that she doesn't die young.
Part of me thinks the main reason they're all trying so dang hard is because they know nothing would change even if they left her. Tammy will blame shift until she dies. She does not want to change, does not want to get better, does not want to BE better, and thrives off of the drama and being the center of attention. If I was going to be an internet therapist, I'd suggest that maybe she's pushing everyone away because she's jealous, or feels that's the only way people will see her or pay attention to her. That last outburst suggests that she felt no one was paying her enough attention, so she exploded. A while back, she was even talking about how sick she was of Amy talking about her baby. For Tammy, there is no bad attention. There's only attention. For me, if I was Amy, I wouldn't want my child growing up around Tammy, even if she was blood. She's a terrible influence, and she'll make EVERY holiday about herself, INCLUDING that baby's birthdays. She'll be worse than the drunk family member that comes over for holidays, because she'll pick fights with everyone. I don't know if there is a way to help her anymore, particularly with the cameras involved. I think so long as TLC keeps bringing them back and praising them for the drama- assuming of course that this is ALL real- then Tammy will never, ever want to change. She likes the attention being a bitch gets her, and couldn't give a rat's ass about her family.
Tammy seems to want to fight everyone these days. She needs help clearly, but how much help can you offer if the person just isn't willing to take it? I don't blame that family getting sick of her too. Somehow it's everyone's fault but her own. She seriously needs help but, if she isn't willing to put the effort in, then what's a person to do?
@@TheElusiveReality I've _been_ saying this. Just leave. It's not like she can -- or will -- follow. Tammy seems to have it in her head that she's the lone wolf type who doesn't need or receive help, so let her live in her delusion and save yourself the headache.
Exactly, there’s no sense in trying to help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. The issue is that hers is life threatening. So I think her family is trying everything they can to get through to her so they know they tried everything to help her when it’s too late. But man I pray she can get it together.
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. If she doesn't want help, then nothing you do will matter. I say leave her and stop helping, then she'll realize how helpless she really is on her own. She claims she wants independence, yet when she was given ways to do so, she refused to use it because she wants people to do things for her. She wants the easy road which is not possible with weight loss. She has will lose a bit of weight, but then she expects everyone to celebrate and she wants to reward herself which is why she constantly goes right back up. I bet even if she ever does get the surgery she will think that it marks the end of her weight loss journey and she can go right back to eating junk. But she can't. The surgery us only a stepping stone. I hate when people think weight loss surgery is the end of the line, because it isn't
Honestly I don’t think she’s mad at all, I think she loves it when she creates drama and everyone is mad at her because even if it’s negative attention it’s still attention. If she’s got all this drama to think about then she doesn’t have to confront her very real problems.
They can use mental health laws to force her to take care of herself. She clearly isn't making good choices so if they wanna help her they can force her into help. They have plenty of evidence to use to force Tammy to get help. A judge can supeona the unedited footage and TLC would have to turn it over
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 Would that mean her family would have to pay for whatever services she'd need? Like a live-in nurse, nutritionist, personal trainer, doctors, etc? Because if they did, I could see why they wouldn't want to take that route.
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 what do you mean by forcing her to take care of herself? would she get any legal consequences if she wouldn't or does it mean that they just don't have to bother and it's up to her what she wants to do?
@@archayz It can be considered to be negligent to abandon someone who cannot take care of themself, and you could be held responsible were something to happen. I learned of this when doctors said our grandmother couldn't live by herself anymore due to progressing dementia. Although I'm not sure all the nuances of this or how it varies state to state so I'm not claiming to be an expert. (Also, in part it has to be because of their show)
Tammy hasnt given up because she's never even TRIED to excersize and diet! She acts like a child to get her way and shes killing herself in the process.
the saddest thing is that eventually tammy will die because she just refuses to make the changes that she NEEDS to make in order to survive... just to exist. And when she does, even though her family will miss her, she will die and the family will, unfortunately, just feel relieved because now they all don't have to take care of her. Man I love to see the triumph of the human spirit, but tammy is not it. It's just a shame. I wish so bad she would rise to the occasion but she just won't.
Hopefully she'll just drop a shit load of weight because she won't cook for herself or go shopping; pretty sure her body fat would keep her alive for a good 12 months at least lol
@@Nunderpants Idk if it was this show, but there was one doctor who literally said this to a fat person who complained about their diet not being enough food. Youre not going to starve to death with that size even if you eat a fraction of what you used to before.
After seeing all of this, i think nobody is going to blame them for feeling relieved. Dont like to call sick people a burden, but after so many help attempts thats just what she is now. Theres nothing more they can do until Tammy starts doing the work herself. I hope she does though, not just for her but also her family, so all their effort to help doesnt go to waste and theyre not left with feeling guilt/hurt of not getting through to her. Shes lucky to still have them by her side.
What's sad about it?? She doesn't contribute to society and is a shitty human, her family will probably dance on her oversized grave when she dies and honestly I wouldn't blame them, heck I'd join in.
@@Amandavmmm I agree for the most part. It's one thing to be sick, but she's entitled, selfish, and just downright abusive. If someone is sick and needs help, and they show gratitude, it is much easier to handle helping them typically.
Right. If she knew or cared what was “right” she would be a lot healthier mentally and physically…. “I just wanna do what I wanna do, and I don’t care if it’s right” would be more honest….
Tammy can come live with us. She has to climb upstairs to get to her bedroom and then downstairs if she wants to eat. We don’t eat crazy healthy, but no one in our family is 600lbs either. C’mon Tammy… we are a loud and take-no-nonsense family.
Tammy’s lucky I’m not part of her family because I wouldn’t let her keep verbally and emotionally abusing me like she does to everyone. I would wipe my hands clean of her at this point and let her spend her check from the show on a nursing home. She’s not even trying.
Tammy seems to be angry that everyone else gets weight loss surgery except her! Instead of taking her anger and frustration out on everyone else instead of taking accountability is extremely childish
I'm sorry but if Tammy was my sister or anybody that I even cared about I would just hold her hostage. What is she going to do if I hide the phone? She can't do anything she can't even walk she's going to eat the healthy meals I make for her cuz that's the only food available and if she gives me some attitude she's going to have to sit there and timeout with no TV or anyting cuz she can't do anything about it until she loses the weight
At that point, yea man. If you care enough, sure lol Tammy literally cannot retaliate in any form that matters. What you gonna do if I take your internet access? Nothing. Lose some weight first, eat this salmon, then see what you want to do.
That “new sister” was actually in season 1 but she was in the background of Amy’s wedding Also idk if people know but Chris was also “introduced” in season 1 as well, in the scene where Amy revels her body to the family after surgery. He said a few words but wasn’t a point of interest at the time
I have an aunt that is exactly like Tammy (except for the weight thing). My mom has taken care of her for years and years, this woman does nothing for herself, and it is never enough. My aunt is eternally mad at her for some perceived sleight. I keep telling my mom to drop her like a bad habit but she won't. If I was on vacation with this bunch I'd let Tammy sit in her room by herself the entire trip, and then if she didn't want a ride back we'll see you when you get home.
Tammy really gets to me. Her family has gone above and beyond and she has the nerve to say how they are lucky shes not bed bound. You are lucky its not my family cause you would have to take care of yourself. If she wants to be that big fine but she needs to take care of herself
They should sent her back to the diet clinic (sorry I don't know what it's actually called), however they probably would need Tammy to agree to it and she won't. Things just seem to go worse and worse all the time. Tammy isn't even trying anymore.
"I couldn't breath" Well how about not be in the car two folded and stand up and take a deep breath of the fresh air? How are they even on speaking terms with her at this point?
One time on a family road trip my brothers where fighting non-stop and making the rest of us miserable (with everyone in the car it was 8 people. They where in their mid teens at the time and I was about 4 or 5.) And my dad made them get out of the car in the middle of nowhere....he drove over a hill and parked behind a few bushes then waited about 10-15 min, then went back and picked them up. I remember dad saying something like "next time I won't come back" they behaved the rest the trip. I think that's what this family should have done with Tammy. Except for the going back part.
Honestly I think Tammy may just be in denial about having an anxiety disorder with panic attacks because the way she explains that situation (taken with a grain of salt because it's Tammy but still) it sounds to me like she got overwhelmed by it all and started to panic. Sounds like fight or flight kicked in and that women ain't fighting anything to she ran to somewhere that made herself feel safe.
I have panic disorder and thought this too. The stomach hurting, the issues breathing that suddenly resolve. Of course she also suffers breathing from her weight but when it resolves by being in a safer space it's def anxiety caused. The irritability and lashing out is also a part of that. If she got healthier and on some medication for that maybe she'd be happier and more pleasant to be around..
@@jborrego2406 making excuses is not abnormal for people following an anxiety induced episode. When you're not really sure what caused it it's easy to grip onto and use any excuse to attempt to excuse (in their mind anyways) the behavior. I'm not saying that it didn't play a part but I honestly don't think she's a good enough actress that she'd fake a fairly textbook presentation of a panic attack without whining out that she was having one. Honestly it seems to me like the fear set in from being away from home (her safe space), the fear of the ramp and something going wrong, and then the pressure from the expectation that she just needs to get up and go became too overwhelming for her and she panicked without having the skills to recognize and deal with it.
@@littlewhitewulf I also have one, and as someone who has been in a nearly identical situation while on a trip as a teen (early into therapy) when traveling with my family it truly felt like I was watching that version of myself. It's such a shame she's so resistant to embracing real help.
This, all of this. Not as an excuse, but this isn't the first time we've seen her throw a fear based tantrum. I also think it feeds into her weight. She knows what she has to do, but she gets overwhelmed, and paralyzed in the face of change.
The last episode Tammy was in the van telling everyone she was more fun than her sister, then immediately crapped on everyone, threw a hissyfit and demanded a hotel room. Blameshifting master.
Entitlement + immaturity + manipulative to the next level + kill joy on a family vacation= Tammy Chris had enough of her attitude. she didn't complain during the trip about her breathing problems when they arrived she goes "I don't wanna go there" " I want to go home" like a kid.. Goodness!
Chris and Amy have changed so your theory sucks. Tammy won't change show or not. You think she didn't act like this for YEARS before they got a show? If u think that, ur fuckin wrong.
At this point I think the family needs to play the tough love card and just drop her. When she sits at rock bottom by herself for a while it may change her attitude.
If she doesn’t die first. They are so afraid to do that because she will deteriorate quickly if that happens. And even though they have all done all they can for her for so long, there will be some guilt to that….. me. I would have. Left to to her own devises knowing, I did all I could. “I can’t” “it hurts” “I can’t breath” “I can’t walk” like so hard to feel bad for her anymore, when it’s all self inflicted….. ugh. I really hope TLC doesn’t pick them up again, because if they do, I will watch. Damn you TLC!
Tammy in some type of mood and calling herself the party animal that makes the van "fun" on the trip up and then proceeds to be the ultimate buzz killer the rest of the time 🤣🤣
Tammy honestly reminds me of my uncles on either side of my family. They are both moochers that don’t want to do anything for themselves and just want to make someone else take care of them. But then they get angry,after all the messed up crap they’ve done to their family, when they aren’t trusted with things like the car or lending cash. It’s a constant spiral where I just want to slap my grandparents and scream at them that those are GROWN men in like their 30s-40s and it’s WAY beyond the point of caving to their will and coddling them. Gahhhhh😫
I started a TikTok www.tiktok.com/@cinnamontoastken
Instant follow. Been waiting on this
Tammy vs Nickocado Advocado lol.
Oh jeeze lol
The tik tok-apocalypse begins
Bro love the vids, but kinda gross 😝
Chris definitely makes this show. He says everything that we think and it's like the best thing ever to hear him tear into her
He's my favorite!
@@Niccoleab same
He said "the bitch ain't gone chase after me!" I was screaming lol
@@dragonslayer616 Let's be honest, we was all thinking the same thing, lol🤣
He’s this shows Watson (from Sherlock and Holmes)
(Btw If you’re not aware, Watson is essentially the readers / viewers personified in a character in the show, we learn stuff through Watson)
I don't care if she's their sister or not - you don't keep toxic people in your life, period. Tammy is the epitome of a toxic person. She's not going to change and she has made that abundantly clear. The fact that she dares to make everything all about her all the time makes it obvious. That family needs to drop her ass. Maybe then she'll see how much she needs them and how ridiculous she's been this whole time. They don't owe her A DAMN THING.
Agree. It's interesting to me after witnessing some of these extremely morbidly obese people on TV, how many of them are toxic. It's almost like some of them created the disability themselves in order to use it as a bargaining chip to manipulate the people around them.
They should put her in a home
@@teacupglitterinfested1525 They probably wouldn't accept her.
She'd be in a home right now if she were my relative. You like home so much? Fuckin stay there.
@@ForestOfEmeralds yaaaahhh
Tammy really thought she could convince us that she went a whole 12 hours in a vehicle without complaining about not being able to breathe. Or any complaining period. I actually laughed at the idea.
LOL
Exactly 😆
She probably even complained about complaining
@@southerncatlady XD
@@southerncatlady thinking the same exact thing lmaooo
"Of course, it's always about y'all"
*Chris's health bar appears *
*battle music starts playing *
Tammy: 👁👄👁
I would have gone off on her at that point and just left her in that hotel room to figure out her own ride home.
Bro his heal bar would be past the mf screen
*MORTAL COMBAT!!!*
Yup. Now we all can see why her family has had their fill with her and has 'dismissed' her.
She doesn't take her own life seriously and thrives on belittling and berating others on their successes because SHE doesn't have any of her own.
I used to feel bad for her because I thought perhaps she was trying and just had a harder time, but nope.. SHE is the HARD time everyone else experiences.
She will unfortunately be a victim of her own selfish avarice soon enough.
She is a result of rewarding bad behavior, like getting that scooter.
I called this ages ago, as soon as i saw the attitude i knew it.
She wants a quick fix and doesn't want to work for it and wants everything handed to her🤦🙄
Yup…
facts she sure is entitled
People like Tammy never change. The entitlement and immaturity she has is the only thing dragging her down NOT her family.
Unfortunately I have a family member with entitlement issues and she is now 40. She acts like a child when things don't go her way and when someone disagrees with her. You are absolutely correct. People like them will never change. It will always be someone else's fault, they will always feel they should get whatever they want when they want, they will always get mad when others don't agree with them, etc... So sad and pathetic really🤦🙄
Just like my family used to say... If it smells like shit everywhere you go, it's probably time to check your own shoes.
It's a great metaphor lmao
She’s acting like she is being persecuted for wanting to leave when really, it’s because she made a scene and demanded they ruin their time and take her home.
The entitlement is next level. Then she smirks when she knows that she is going to manipulate the situation and ruin everybody else’s time and vacation. She is the absolute worst. lol I’m so thankful this isn’t my family!
Yes I agree 100%! I was so mad when Chris came outside to let her fat ass know Mike & Amy will take her to a room. Tammy act like she so shame " ok" with her head hanging down she's a joke
Me too
I wonder if Tammy will ever realize how ridiculous she sounds when people go out of their way to do nice things for her but she takes it as an insult smh
In Holland we have a perfect saying:
Wat je zegt ben je zelf.
It means: you are what you say.
She's talking to herself when she's shitting on someone else. She's just in denial
Yeah in her death bed 😂 if she even makes it to see that bed
Heck no lmao even if she loses all the weight she won't. Bet she'd say she did it all herself to
Tammy will always be the victim
@@Kari0520 omg I was just about to say this. She will always play the victim.
"Why dont you get out of that ****** chair and make me"
Since the first episode i hoped for that sentence.
My life is complete now
I feel for Chris bc when you finally stop enabling someone you get treated like the bad guy
Yup! Exactly what ended my engagement
Yep my family stop talking to me when I started saying no for paying for their addictions
@@donamirtz in that case you really dodged a bullet though
@@TheMoonlightMage dodged a nuke after a whole dozen of gunshot wounds
Well done all of you!
I absolutely hate Tammy, but I also hate watching everyone doing literally everything she tells them to. They should've left her to sleep in the car
Absolutely!
She wanna go, she can get into a damn Uber and go home. Oh wait. Her fat ass isn’t gonna fit.
honestly! she wants to act grown, fune! be grown and take care of yourself! quit complaining! put in the work and effort! - but no... tammy wants to be given and handed everything. She wants to be handed good health while smoking and drinking. She wants to be handed being skinny but wants to eat 5 meals a day. That is what pisses me off the most.
That’s what I would’ve done but take her phone because you know that B Call the cops for neglect
@@jborrego2406 Neglect? Is that a thing? She's not a cat lol.
"The bitch ain't gonna chase after me" 💀💀💀I lost it 😭😂
"Get up that chair and make me!"
HELL YEAH! LETS GOOOOO!!!
Man, if it depended on me Tammy would still be sitting in that van. I guarantee the moment she felt hungry she'd get up that ramp like it was nothing!
Yeah she was “feeling better” once they were all smiles, wanting to take her out to dinner. I completely understand why they do enable her; she’s literally dependent on them for everything. But it would have been nice to see them just leave her in the van. Let her have her tantrum like a 5 year old
My brother (who has struggled with weight issues his whole life but keeps well) HAAAATES Tammy and said the same thing. Lol
"Her fatass would stay in that van until she learned to be an adult."
I’d pay to see 1v1 between buff and Tammy 😂
I dunno all those years on the meme couch practicing the knife hands my money is on buff
@@jordanjohnson4290 he wouldn’t have to lay hands on her one bit, it just becomes a game of keep away before Tammy gets too winded and taps out
🤣🤣🤣
@@jordanjohnson4290 she's impenetrable. She has at least two feet of fat as a buffer. Knives do nothing. I'd be surprised if a bullet could even make it through a few inches. She would just plop on him and kill him. Protect buff at all cost
I don't know.... buff would be left over meatloaf, and tater salad to tammy..Tammy... she isn't herself when she is hungry.
Chris is lowkey the best guy on the show. He has zero chill about telling Tammy what's up
He is the voice of reason
The fact that he hit his surgery without even fully meeting his goal because he showed determined want to get healthy already made him the best guy in the show.
Bro, this is absolutely infuriating. No way I would put up with Tammy. I know she is their family, but if my family member acted like that I would wash my hands of them. I refuse to let anyone make my life miserable.
Same, in fact, I washed my hands of two of my brothers due to their abusive attitudes. I honestly couldn't care less if I ever see them again. I lost all of my love towards them and for VERY good reason. I gave them chance after chance but after the last time, I said no more. Now one said he has changed again, which I don't believe. I'm only cordial to him around our parents.
Facts
I hate it when Tammy gets mad at her family for trying to make her do something. No, they don’t want to push you around all day Tammy. You’re 600+ pounds and you keep gaining weight. It is so unbelievably selfish of you to ask them to drop everything and potentially hurt themselves to help you when you don’t help yourself. God. I just can’t even deal with her bs anymore.
RIP Michael’s back
Don’t forget about the time that Amy had to keep Tammy from rolling back when she was pregnant. If Amy would have not been strong enough to keep Tammy in place it could have been dangerous for Gage.
Last weigh in she was 660. I can't imagine pushing that even if I wanted to!
Did she really have the audacity to say “it’s always about y’all?!” 😮 wow
Yeah I think I would've just walked out of the room at that point if I wasn't too stunned to move.
Right?! I think I'd be done with her at that point, at least until she actually tried to help herself and showed some appreciation and humility. That ain't ever gonna happen, though.
Can't stand d lazy tammy she is so immature childish nasty selfish could go on for ever
She’s gonna pass. Like it’s hard to say but she doesn’t care about her life, she doesn’t care about the effort her family put in, she doesn’t care about anything. Let her do her and when it’s too late, it’s too late. The family did everything they could.
It's horrible to say but the family will honestly be better off when she does. She brings nothing but negativity to their lives. I'm sure they love her, but deep down they'll probably be relieved when it happens
Blood doesn’t need to define your feelings for anyone. I don’t give a rat’s ass about my toxic family members.
I feel the most for her family. I cant imagine how they would feel after doing everything they can and it still not being enough for Tammy. I hope they get some help processing that after she dies, because that must be hard. Tammy is lucky to still have them by her side.
@@spookyara537 I was adopted so I relate to this. My adoptive parents saved my life. I hate the other family
@@Amandavmmm she’s very lucky. But she’ll never see it
Crazy that Tammy doesn’t realize how insanely lucky she is to have her family. They’re saints for dealing with her for so long. You come at anyone in my family with that attitude, your teeth are hittin concrete. Aint no way
Facts
Exactly this! There are so many people who have cut family out of their life for much less. I think its just that some people dont realize family has no obligation to help you and keep you into their life. Especially not if youre this toxic and refuse to change. She very lucky that they dont give up on her even when it seems like a waste of time. Im sure that if they do cut her out at one point, its still not going to wake Tammy up and she doesnt have long left.
“I can’t breathe” she says while hooked up to an oxygen tank
That doesn’t breathe for you. lol I’ve had oxygen before. It’s not the same thing as forcing your muscles to function like a bipap or ventilator.
People who cant breathe are not capable of shouting and arguing. Shes a drama queen.
As someone who has screamed through panic attacks while feeling like I can't breathe, it is infact completely possible. Hell as someone who's had their throat swell shut during anaphylaxis you can 110% scream with a closing throat if you try hard enough.
@Bloated Bastard dude, what? No. That's not how that works
@@daylight1992 as an asthmatic, i call bullshit. When you really physically CANNOT INTAKE ENOUGH OXYGEN, you can't speak more than a few words at a time, let alone yell and argue. Having anxiety/hyperventilating is not the same as having a restricted airflow
@@Ms.AnnDrist I agree the only thing I can do is gasp, which feels terrible stutter and drool.
@Bloated Bastard Dang, there is more than enough ammo to go to town on Tammy with that you don't have to resort to making things up lol.
She is incredibly lucky that ANYONE in her family still speaks to her, let alone takes care of her. I understand she’s sick (mentally and physically), but she is so abusive and ungrateful. She’s not worth helping at this point.
The problem is she doesn't think she is responsible for herself. I've been there and the only thing that worked was getting my own apartment 4 hours away from my parents house. I was severly depressed, doin nothing, blaming it on everybody else. When I moved out I HAD to get my shit together. I wanted to get my shit together. Maybe it sounds cruel but she doesn't need support. She wants to be alone anyways. Let her be alone for a couple of years, maybe she will wake up if there is nobody to help her. Srsly what life goals can you have when everybody is doing all the work for you? Her life goal seems to be being pushed around by her family for the rest of her life... Yikes... I cringe so hard bc it reminds me so much of my old self.
well... if they actually leave her alone, she WILL die. she's that unhealthy. but to have minimal contact so that they let their toxic meatbag know that they don't owe her shit is a great idea.
This. If they stopped helping her she would be FORCED to help herself or else she'd die. Nothing makes someone who cant help themself get their shit together faster than being pushed into a pit that you have to crawl out of yourself.
Glad you got your life together, must be tough but you should be very proud of yourself! Great job :D
so glad to hear you doing better ❣❣❣ and you should not cringe cause that past person was also a part of you and the past helped you become the best version of yourself today ❣❣❣ I hope you get what I mean english it's not my 1st language xD 😅
i feel like she would weasel her way into having people come help her. on the internet or hire a cna. i dont feel like shed truly help herself
Honestly, if I were her family, the second she said "it's all about ya'll" in the hotel room, I would have lost it on her, right then and there, told her to shut her trap, and left her there. She is a textbook narcissist, and no matter how much they try and talk to her, she is never going to listen. She can find her own way home. I seriously hope they kick her butt OUT, when they start moving into the new house. Leave that negative energy in your old place, and let her figure it out for herself, since she thinks she knows everything.
Amen 🙌
Just because someone has narcissistic traits doesn’t mean they are a flat out Narc. People throw that around too much. There are other mental disorders that can present with similar traits.
If she stays at home while the family goes on a vacation then she can’t be the center of attention
But if she goes and tries to ruin the vacation, she IS the center of attention
I really want them to "abandon" her for some time, just not be there for here, so she maybe finally understands how important they are for her, and how much of a pain she is
at this point, I actually believe Tammy is just a bad person.. period
She’s not, she just has so much going on mental health wise, that all her brain can do is lash out. A lot earlier in the series and in some parts of this season, her kindness comes out and she seems fun to be around, but her brain just ruins that for her.
@@jenniferweber8260 mental health is just another excuse people make to get out of acting in terrible, selfish ways. Honestly, so sick of people using mental health as the cliché excuse for almost everything when there are people who actually suffer from it legitimately and actually seek help for it instead of blame everyone else. Look at the amount of criminals who plead they have metal problems to try and get out of killing someone. Is that okay? Mental health is not an excuse to treat your family like shit especially when they are trying to help you in the first place, period.
Agreed.
@@jenniferweber8260 no..it's not her brain... It's her horrible, selfish entitled soul. Some people are just horrible people and has nothing to do with their weight and she has proven that time and time again.
@@Shellygrrl2573 I acted just like her my whole life until I got on medication and therapy. No one wants to have that much conflict with the people around them. And she’s not upset with them, she’s upset with herself and her situation but she’s projecting it on everyone else. I don’t believe people are mean to be mean, but they get some kind of satisfaction in their subconscious.
They need to stop holding Chris back from saying what's really on his mind. He's the only one who's unwilling to play into Tammy's temper tantrums and each time he gets ready to have a come to Jesus meeting with her everyone holds him back even though it's something she needs to hear.
YESSSSS is so FRUSTRATING
If even Ken is done with Tammy at this point, then she really does have some serious problems going on.
As a bigger lady, plump not fat, if someone is being toxic they need to be called out no matter their size! Being heavily obese isn't an excuse to be a jackass to your family and it doesn't invalidate genuine criticism. Being fat isn't a shield from taking accountability on your toxic attitude.
She needs a therapist
That part
You misspelled morbidly
If you are above the healthy weight for your age and height, you are fat. Not "plump". And I used to be morbidly obese.
I've been losing weight lately (I was 209 so far I've gotten down to 177) yes I felt like my dad was calling me fat when he suggested I get on a weight loss program, at the same time I knew losing weight was a good idea because my knees have been working better. I also would hate to make my family wait on me the way she has her family do it. because it doesn't feel good when you realize you're severely inconviencing people around you
They can't even kick tammy out of the house, they have to roll her
😂💀
To make sure she can’t get back in they should make the doors smaller
You can’t help those who aren’t willing to help themselves.
If “misery loves company” was a person, you’d get Tammy.
As a health care worker - it literally is back breaking work to push highly over weight people in a wheelchair. It's hard to get the initial momentum to start moving and OMG if there is an incline or decline in the floor. You either have to work 2x or try to hold on to a weighty runaway wheelchair.
i don’t believe TLC has to edit her to seem like a bad person. I think she just is a bad person.
She’s not a bad person but her mental health is making her seem like a bad person. As someone who used to be like her, inside you know what you’re doing, you just don’t know how to stop.
Editing can make a difference, but I hate when people on tv use that excuse. They wouldn’t have all that footage of you acting awful if you didn’t do it to begin with.
Chris "she ain't gonna chase after me, i mean sh**" made me laugh out loud hes my favorite
I still can't get over how Tammy sounds like Bobby Hill
Now I can't get that out of my head. 😂
@@allabouttheafc6031 Its extra noticeable when she's trying to yell lol
@@rosenrot234 Yeah, I agree.😂
Omg I can't unhear this
Hahaha how did I not notice that before 🤣
Watching how she treats people is a great motivation for me to let people know how much I appreciate them for who they are and how lucky I am to have them in my life. There’s no reason to be grumpy all the time Tammy. It’s not all about you!!!
Outdoors in nature
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Tammy: I needed some place I could breathe
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Goes to a stuffy hotel room that doesn't even have opening windows
Imagine viewing your blood family as indentured servants. That's Tammy's actual mindset.
Might do her good to try and fight her family. At least get her a little exercise to try and get to them. Also I’m really glad for these reactions. Was curious about the show but watching alone I could not stand it.
Amanda is the hero of the family. Chris is great, but Amanda doesn’t deal with Tammy’s BS. She treats her like she would everyone else 🤣
Tammy seems to want to fight everyone quite often! She's going through a hard time and it makes everyone want to emphasize, but you can't be empathetic with someone who wouldn't do the same for you. She doesn't even try anymore
Well no crap, look how fat she is. People who have standards wouldn’t let their body get like that, she’s so lazy she got that fat and is taking advantage of it lmao
*sympathize/sympathetic
Tammy always seems to be feeling better and more cooperative when everyone's about to go out to eat.
That's an addict :/
Tammy never got the "once you turn 18 you're responsible for yourself" speech i guess lol
Becoming completely responsible for yourself at 18 is not necessary to be a decent person. Many ppl I know have families that pay for college, live with their families and don't pay rent/bills, and the like and they don't feel entitled to others' time and energy at all times
You got till eighteen?? My mother basically dumped me into foster care before my cord was cut
So her reason for not going into the cabin was she can’t walk over the tiny step, but she can walk into the hotel just fine? 🤣🤣🤣
If you can scream like that you are not having stomach problems. Oh she makes me mad. But... Ken and Dane keep it entertaining!
If you can scream like that you are not having difficulty breathing.
So what's the problem with going full no contact with Tammy? Kick her out so she faces severe consequences & responsibilities that all her family and friends tried to help her with.
Tammy says she can't breathe because of the altitude. Turn your oxygen up a bit, you have it for when you can't breathe.
At first it was because she was afraid of going up the ramp. She’s making it up as she goes.
@@bearburrito5245 Yep! First the ramp, then she couldn't breathe, and then her stomach hurt. She sure still went to dinner, though.
In the dog training business, we call that being “food motivated”
@@bearburrito5245 Normally, I wouldn't snicker at jokes like this, but she is so nasty, mean spirited, and toxic. I feel bad for her family who just want her to start taking care of herself so that she doesn't die young.
Part of me thinks the main reason they're all trying so dang hard is because they know nothing would change even if they left her. Tammy will blame shift until she dies. She does not want to change, does not want to get better, does not want to BE better, and thrives off of the drama and being the center of attention.
If I was going to be an internet therapist, I'd suggest that maybe she's pushing everyone away because she's jealous, or feels that's the only way people will see her or pay attention to her. That last outburst suggests that she felt no one was paying her enough attention, so she exploded. A while back, she was even talking about how sick she was of Amy talking about her baby.
For Tammy, there is no bad attention. There's only attention.
For me, if I was Amy, I wouldn't want my child growing up around Tammy, even if she was blood. She's a terrible influence, and she'll make EVERY holiday about herself, INCLUDING that baby's birthdays. She'll be worse than the drunk family member that comes over for holidays, because she'll pick fights with everyone.
I don't know if there is a way to help her anymore, particularly with the cameras involved. I think so long as TLC keeps bringing them back and praising them for the drama- assuming of course that this is ALL real- then Tammy will never, ever want to change. She likes the attention being a bitch gets her, and couldn't give a rat's ass about her family.
Tammy seems to want to fight everyone these days. She needs help clearly, but how much help can you offer if the person just isn't willing to take it? I don't blame that family getting sick of her too. Somehow it's everyone's fault but her own. She seriously needs help but, if she isn't willing to put the effort in, then what's a person to do?
Yep, therapy literally doesnt work if the person doesnt want the help, and she doesnt want it. Just leave her alone and let her do what she wants
@@TheElusiveReality I've _been_ saying this. Just leave. It's not like she can -- or will -- follow. Tammy seems to have it in her head that she's the lone wolf type who doesn't need or receive help, so let her live in her delusion and save yourself the headache.
Exactly, there’s no sense in trying to help someone who doesn’t want to help themselves. The issue is that hers is life threatening. So I think her family is trying everything they can to get through to her so they know they tried everything to help her when it’s too late. But man I pray she can get it together.
Mmmm yessssss natural selection
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. If she doesn't want help, then nothing you do will matter. I say leave her and stop helping, then she'll realize how helpless she really is on her own. She claims she wants independence, yet when she was given ways to do so, she refused to use it because she wants people to do things for her. She wants the easy road which is not possible with weight loss. She has will lose a bit of weight, but then she expects everyone to celebrate and she wants to reward herself which is why she constantly goes right back up. I bet even if she ever does get the surgery she will think that it marks the end of her weight loss journey and she can go right back to eating junk. But she can't. The surgery us only a stepping stone. I hate when people think weight loss surgery is the end of the line, because it isn't
Tammy needs constant attention and if she doesn’t get it, she creates problems and then is mad when it upsets people.
Honestly I don’t think she’s mad at all, I think she loves it when she creates drama and everyone is mad at her because even if it’s negative attention it’s still attention. If she’s got all this drama to think about then she doesn’t have to confront her very real problems.
why are they taking care of her at this point? It's not like she deserves it and they're not legally responsible for her I don't think.
They can use mental health laws to force her to take care of herself. She clearly isn't making good choices so if they wanna help her they can force her into help. They have plenty of evidence to use to force Tammy to get help. A judge can supeona the unedited footage and TLC would have to turn it over
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 Would that mean her family would have to pay for whatever services she'd need? Like a live-in nurse, nutritionist, personal trainer, doctors, etc? Because if they did, I could see why they wouldn't want to take that route.
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 what do you mean by forcing her to take care of herself? would she get any legal consequences if she wouldn't or does it mean that they just don't have to bother and it's up to her what she wants to do?
Probably because she's family. Simple yet complicated.
@@archayz It can be considered to be negligent to abandon someone who cannot take care of themself, and you could be held responsible were something to happen. I learned of this when doctors said our grandmother couldn't live by herself anymore due to progressing dementia. Although I'm not sure all the nuances of this or how it varies state to state so I'm not claiming to be an expert. (Also, in part it has to be because of their show)
The entitlement is so gross:( Her family seems like they keep trying despite it. I hope Amy gets away from her tbh
Tammy hasnt given up because she's never even TRIED to excersize and diet! She acts like a child to get her way and shes killing herself in the process.
Exactly. Can’t give up if you never even TRIED. Like girl. Man, dangle a cake in front of her with a stick and maybe she will walk.
Good
Tammy is abusive to her family because she is absolutely jealous of everything they accomplish and have. Maybe they do need to abandon her
the saddest thing is that eventually tammy will die because she just refuses to make the changes that she NEEDS to make in order to survive... just to exist. And when she does, even though her family will miss her, she will die and the family will, unfortunately, just feel relieved because now they all don't have to take care of her. Man I love to see the triumph of the human spirit, but tammy is not it. It's just a shame. I wish so bad she would rise to the occasion but she just won't.
Hopefully she'll just drop a shit load of weight because she won't cook for herself or go shopping; pretty sure her body fat would keep her alive for a good 12 months at least lol
@@Nunderpants Idk if it was this show, but there was one doctor who literally said this to a fat person who complained about their diet not being enough food. Youre not going to starve to death with that size even if you eat a fraction of what you used to before.
After seeing all of this, i think nobody is going to blame them for feeling relieved. Dont like to call sick people a burden, but after so many help attempts thats just what she is now. Theres nothing more they can do until Tammy starts doing the work herself. I hope she does though, not just for her but also her family, so all their effort to help doesnt go to waste and theyre not left with feeling guilt/hurt of not getting through to her. Shes lucky to still have them by her side.
What's sad about it?? She doesn't contribute to society and is a shitty human, her family will probably dance on her oversized grave when she dies and honestly I wouldn't blame them, heck I'd join in.
@@Amandavmmm I agree for the most part. It's one thing to be sick, but she's entitled, selfish, and just downright abusive. If someone is sick and needs help, and they show gratitude, it is much easier to handle helping them typically.
“I have to do what’s right for me.” Lady, you’ve been doing every single wrong thing for yourself for 35 years!
Right. If she knew or cared what was “right” she would be a lot healthier mentally and physically….
“I just wanna do what I wanna do, and I don’t care if it’s right” would be more honest….
Tammy is a very bad case of a horse with blinders, she cant see anyones pov and holds them emotionally hostage
Yeah, she’s also a bad case of how you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make them drink. She doesn’t want to help herself at all.
Tammy: "I'm not a baby"
Also Tammy: looks like a baby in the thumbnail
Gage is better behaved than her 😂
She’s on oxygen,yet she can,t breath ? . .Diana 😲😵💫
Tammy can come live with us. She has to climb upstairs to get to her bedroom and then downstairs if she wants to eat. We don’t eat crazy healthy, but no one in our family is 600lbs either. C’mon Tammy… we are a loud and take-no-nonsense family.
Oh no, she would just sleep in your kitchen lol.
@@Kanyon85 preach
Tammy’s lucky I’m not part of her family because I wouldn’t let her keep verbally and emotionally abusing me like she does to everyone. I would wipe my hands clean of her at this point and let her spend her check from the show on a nursing home. She’s not even trying.
Finally someone said "get out of that chair and make me!"
Danes reaction to Tammy when he put his face in his hands and just screamed, I felt that
Tammy seems to be angry that everyone else gets weight loss surgery except her! Instead of taking her anger and frustration out on everyone else instead of taking accountability is extremely childish
When I think Tammy can’t get any worse, she surprises me. I’m honestly shocked her family still deals with her at all.
I'm sorry but if Tammy was my sister or anybody that I even cared about I would just hold her hostage. What is she going to do if I hide the phone? She can't do anything she can't even walk she's going to eat the healthy meals I make for her cuz that's the only food available and if she gives me some attitude she's going to have to sit there and timeout with no TV or anyting cuz she can't do anything about it until she loses the weight
She's the equivalent of an adult baby.. can't do anything for herself and so freaking needy
@@ForestOfEmeralds but babies are cute and portable and actually a joy to be around lmao
@@ajvohn4279 AHAHA fair enough! 😂
At that point, yea man. If you care enough, sure lol Tammy literally cannot retaliate in any form that matters. What you gonna do if I take your internet access? Nothing. Lose some weight first, eat this salmon, then see what you want to do.
That “new sister” was actually in season 1 but she was in the background of Amy’s wedding
Also idk if people know but Chris was also “introduced” in season 1 as well, in the scene where Amy revels her body to the family after surgery. He said a few words but wasn’t a point of interest at the time
Just finished last episode about sisters and here is another one?! Thank you!
"I NEED TO DO WHAT'S RIGHT FOR ME"
She's never done that. Ever.
SEND HER TO THE RANCH Tammy would enter be like is this hidden valley?
I have an aunt that is exactly like Tammy (except for the weight thing). My mom has taken care of her for years and years, this woman does nothing for herself, and it is never enough. My aunt is eternally mad at her for some perceived sleight. I keep telling my mom to drop her like a bad habit but she won't.
If I was on vacation with this bunch I'd let Tammy sit in her room by herself the entire trip, and then if she didn't want a ride back we'll see you when you get home.
She has got to get these Tammy-trums tf under control.
Thank you Ken for the happy birthday. Honestly I love that you do that, just little extra touch, it’s super wholesome.
that "pain" may have been hunger ...
a foreign feeling to her, I'm sure
Lol! Maybe! Like You won’t die if you go to bed hungry once in a while ya whiney bitch …..for a lot of people, that is just life…..
Fat people get hungry too
Tammy really gets to me. Her family has gone above and beyond and she has the nerve to say how they are lucky shes not bed bound. You are lucky its not my family cause you would have to take care of yourself. If she wants to be that big fine but she needs to take care of herself
Tammy took a 12 hour trip just to pull an uno reverse
When a show says "adult supervision" they mean Dane and Ken. I wouldn't be able to watch this crap without them lmao.
They should sent her back to the diet clinic (sorry I don't know what it's actually called), however they probably would need Tammy to agree to it and she won't. Things just seem to go worse and worse all the time. Tammy isn't even trying anymore.
Yeah they cant hold her if she doesnt want to stay, and she didnt want to stay so she left without even losing the weight she was supposed to
Yeah you can leave if you want to, but what is she going to do, drive home? Call an uber? She’d be stuck there
Pretty sure they refer to it as rehab. Girl has an addiction..
Idk but im loving this saga. I've never watched one episode but im invested in yalls commentary 😂
Dude, that Dr. Eggman cosplay is a must... never seen another head so perfectly eggy.
"I couldn't breath" Well how about not be in the car two folded and stand up and take a deep breath of the fresh air?
How are they even on speaking terms with her at this point?
One time on a family road trip my brothers where fighting non-stop and making the rest of us miserable (with everyone in the car it was 8 people. They where in their mid teens at the time and I was about 4 or 5.)
And my dad made them get out of the car in the middle of nowhere....he drove over a hill and parked behind a few bushes then waited about 10-15 min, then went back and picked them up.
I remember dad saying something like "next time I won't come back" they behaved the rest the trip.
I think that's what this family should have done with Tammy.
Except for the going back part.
When Ken says "If it's your Birthday, happy Birthday" and it actually is and you've waited so long for that moment.🥳🥰💖
Honestly I think Tammy may just be in denial about having an anxiety disorder with panic attacks because the way she explains that situation (taken with a grain of salt because it's Tammy but still) it sounds to me like she got overwhelmed by it all and started to panic. Sounds like fight or flight kicked in and that women ain't fighting anything to she ran to somewhere that made herself feel safe.
I have panic disorder and thought this too. The stomach hurting, the issues breathing that suddenly resolve. Of course she also suffers breathing from her weight but when it resolves by being in a safer space it's def anxiety caused. The irritability and lashing out is also a part of that. If she got healthier and on some medication for that maybe she'd be happier and more pleasant to be around..
No she wanted to go home so she can see her boyfriend
@@jborrego2406 making excuses is not abnormal for people following an anxiety induced episode. When you're not really sure what caused it it's easy to grip onto and use any excuse to attempt to excuse (in their mind anyways) the behavior. I'm not saying that it didn't play a part but I honestly don't think she's a good enough actress that she'd fake a fairly textbook presentation of a panic attack without whining out that she was having one. Honestly it seems to me like the fear set in from being away from home (her safe space), the fear of the ramp and something going wrong, and then the pressure from the expectation that she just needs to get up and go became too overwhelming for her and she panicked without having the skills to recognize and deal with it.
@@littlewhitewulf I also have one, and as someone who has been in a nearly identical situation while on a trip as a teen (early into therapy) when traveling with my family it truly felt like I was watching that version of myself. It's such a shame she's so resistant to embracing real help.
This, all of this. Not as an excuse, but this isn't the first time we've seen her throw a fear based tantrum. I also think it feeds into her weight. She knows what she has to do, but she gets overwhelmed, and paralyzed in the face of change.
The last episode Tammy was in the van telling everyone she was more fun than her sister, then immediately crapped on everyone, threw a hissyfit and demanded a hotel room. Blameshifting master.
Entitlement + immaturity + manipulative to the next level + kill joy on a family vacation= Tammy
Chris had enough of her attitude.
she didn't complain during the trip about her breathing problems when they arrived she goes "I don't wanna go there" " I want to go home" like a kid..
Goodness!
If a quadriplegic can maneuver a motorized wheelchair I’m sure Tammy can.
The only way she'll learn is for them to completely abandon her
This is the content I live for. We all done with Tammy and hearing Chris and the new sister go at her is amazing
As long as TLC gives them a platform they won't change. They feed into it nothing will change
She's the cable tv Amberlynn
@@TheMoonlightMage yeaaah XD
@@TheMoonlightMage good God don't let her find out she can get on TV
@@Truecrimeresearcher224 i thought she was on tv? TLC is on most cable but 1000lbs sister im not sure, however i believe it is because TLC wants $$$
Chris and Amy have changed so your theory sucks.
Tammy won't change show or not. You think she didn't act like this for YEARS before they got a show? If u think that, ur fuckin wrong.
Tammy sure does have a lot of balls for someone that can’t move 😂
I wouldn’t be able to watch reality TV without you guys thanks for helping me keep up with random conversations😂
At this point I think the family needs to play the tough love card and just drop her. When she sits at rock bottom by herself for a while it may change her attitude.
If she doesn’t die first. They are so afraid to do that because she will deteriorate quickly if that happens. And even though they have all done all they can for her for so long, there will be some guilt to that…..
me. I would have. Left to to her own devises knowing, I did all I could.
“I can’t” “it hurts” “I can’t breath” “I can’t walk” like so hard to feel bad for her anymore, when it’s all self inflicted….. ugh. I really hope TLC doesn’t pick them up again, because if they do, I will watch. Damn you TLC!
Tammy in some type of mood and calling herself the party animal that makes the van "fun" on the trip up and then proceeds to be the ultimate buzz killer the rest of the time 🤣🤣
Tammy honestly reminds me of my uncles on either side of my family. They are both moochers that don’t want to do anything for themselves and just want to make someone else take care of them. But then they get angry,after all the messed up crap they’ve done to their family, when they aren’t trusted with things like the car or lending cash. It’s a constant spiral where I just want to slap my grandparents and scream at them that those are GROWN men in like their 30s-40s and it’s WAY beyond the point of caving to their will and coddling them. Gahhhhh😫
Chris is that one side-character you wish was the main.