How to Approach Beautiful Women | Online Dating Coach
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I found recently that they way to attracting any woman you want is to be yourself people are different acknowledge it and appreciate it. Its starts from inside you. do you love yourself enough because if you do you will instinctively want others to feel loved. now this goes against every stereotype out there because the mass media wants you to be someone else a social accepted image now firstly let us consider what it means to be sexy. being sexy means being confident in yourself enough to appreciate what is good in others if a girl is cruel to you understand that she is not a cruel girl she is a cruel person so walk away dont give people respect they havent earned. besidess ladies what is more appealing than a man who understand you and appreciates your worth. remember people intimacy is built over time dont rush it
Yeah, it works. Breaks the ice and sometimes makes them laugh out loud.
A favourite of mine when being served by a hot barmaid is to say "Thanks. You're almost awesome" with the emphasis on the word almost.
To this they usually reply 'Almost?' then you give them a friendly smile and say "Yeah, well no-one is perfect. Not even you"
I'm suprised how few subscribers you have, you candidly lay it down BOOM.
Thank you. That was really informative.
When you want advice on beautiful women, take it from a beautiful woman. Great video. Hello from 2019
Thank you for giving us guys some insight on what's really going on with women and dating.
Thanks Em Lovz that was pretty informative.
I like to try the necklace thing or something similar when asking for advice..
That was a great one Em !
Thanks Deepak!
I'm gonna try the ski mask approach followed by the invitation to my mom and dad's basement for a game of naked twister.
lol thats hilarious
just get to the point when you like the way someone looks, it actually comes down to a few questions after you have seen them in person.
1. Smoker or nonsmoker
2. Liberal or Conservative
3. What music do they listen to
4. Drinker or nondrinker
pretty easy so don't waste your time
It's rare to find attractive women to hit on in the first place cuz the majority of them are either married or they're with boyfriends. Timing is the key and that conversation icebreaker is the ticket to establishing good rapport.
This lady knows EXACTLY what she's talking about. Her understanding of game and attraction is dead on, and shes does a great job of explaining the psychology of it. This is pretty advanced theory so the average guy may not understand at first, especially if he has no experience picking up a girl.
You're welcome :) "seduction is counterintuitive." Well said. There are some men that understand this and are successful with beautiful women because they are able to demonstrate higher social value, regardless of their looks or how much money they have. Then there are some men who are bitter they don't have the social skills to attract women and use the excuse of "women only want money or good looks" because they won't admit it to themselves or are too ignorant to even realize that they don't have the necessary skills. It's a self fulfilling prophesy. So go teach them Em!
Dayum...great advice thank u.
what is value? i ask cause i don't get it. i don't like to show off my money and nice shit. I see guys that are literally broke dress up like they have it but are really just faking status. typically rich guys like myself don't like to "rub it in" we usually downplay our careers, lives and all that. this value concept seems very vague and superficial, I'm having trouble wrapping my head around the concept.
thanks for the great video Emily.
this makes a lot of logical sense! thanks!
I don,t know about negging but sincerity seems to be very important to women so in other attract women we must point sincerely to their flaws and show them that we appreciate it the way it is. correct?
More games. If I compliment you, that's what it is. A compliment. I agree is shouldn't sound like 100 previous compliments but if it's clever and timely then that's half the battle. It only takes a couple seconds to size up a man with her eyes to know if she's even gonna listen to what comes out so appearance is key. Either way you have to be kind.
Kind of true, but it's really just the personality. Game playing only gets you so far. Some women will never date me no matter how great my game is, they simply will never laugh at my jokes. Just be yourself, looks are just the sault and pepper. It's pretty hard to eat nothing but sault and pepper if there is no meat to the personality.
I have my own far share on rejection it happened just have to know it's worth it to like somebody that thought on liking back if a woman not interested it sucks and rejection it's clearly she doesn't want be in relationship with you or could be she broke up with her man day ago so she probably don't want another guy as a rebound I been in that sanctions before and honestly even I rejected some girls I would do it again too
Out of town for training 9 hrs away.
Okay, I was eating at a restaurant with a friend. Two 10s just came in and sat at the bar. The bar seats 16 with just a couple guys. Once they sat in the middle of the bar, only ONE approached, he sat next to the blonde. At least he(don't know him) said a little something to her when sitting down. After that two 10s and the bar is fully seated with guys, none of them were making a move, sad. Back to my friend(married), he dared me to get a picture with them.
I said, I was going anyway, and on top of that going to get picture. So I get up go to the bar, and I get THAT PIC, and I got one of the guys at the bar to take it, lol. While we were talking the whole time. I wish I asked their profession.
Negging is not the same as teasing. Negging is only good for insincere jackasses wanting a one night stand. Just be the best you can be all round, not just physically. In fact improving conversation skills is probably all most men need. The best way to build up high status isn't with tricks. It's about loving and respecting yourself as someone of value. Don't judge, don't have outcome expectations, don't care what others think of you, don't have something to prove. This is the recipe for inner confidence and easy approaching. A lot of girls will find that attractive, but most importantly 'the right girl' will, too.
Negging is infact teasing, remember its just a term created by a PUA not a real word, its basically a tease seeking to get a response out of the girl basically a tease used to increase your social value in the females eyes or to lower her value to make her respond more and see that you're not the typical guy waiting like a dog and to be handed his "bone". Its basically like a male shit test.
wow Emz lovz your take on relationships is rather objective. I am not nessecarily numb to the counter intuitive nature of seduction however I am a very analytical and observant individual so as a reflex I shy away from counter Intuition because of its possibility to create vulnurability and steer up resentment I am an albino by birth and am no stranger to the cruelty of human relations I like solving puzzles I really do and I find that lasting relationships need relative chemistry .Being negative could create in nitial attraction but might set a pace for deception ploys and distrust. clearly I am odds with this subject. I know the value of women and their value in driving our world to better existence. I am intrigued by their strength and devotion and I would like to be able to give this deep sitted affection to women and be leave them better than I met them. I look foward to hearing your thoughts on this issue.
Okay sso i thought of this original way to approach a woman .i need your feedback. Here goes: "Wow! You look really good ! Should i be nervous?"i know complimenting her is something you said not to do but i just want to be original so she will be interested in me.
+Em Lovz hi there your really cute :) I just wanted to give you a compliment lol
I am a guy who is very shy to chat to a women of any age ,but at the same time i slim,and even though i do train nothing much happens. But once you get to know me i am friendly & out going and do make girls laugh in a good,decent and funny manner.
Any good tips on approaching and chatting to a girl you like,or even ask someone at work that u might like.
What up, Em?? Good video.
However, from a introverted standpoint, if I saw a cute or hot stranger, I ain't gonna bother or talk to her because most likely she's gonna have her guard up (just like introverts do).
My question is don't most women have their guard up (ie. Stranger Danger factor)???
***** Well, I live in OC so yeah, if I see a cute stranger, I ain't gonna bother her.
For instance, if I saw you, I wouldn't bother u since 1. I know u get hit on by strangers a lot and 2. U would most likely have your guard up (stranger danger). What's your advice if I wanted to talk to u and I wanted u to want me (similar to how men want a woman when he sees her)???
***** Well, I live in OC so yeah, if I see a cute stranger, I ain't gonna bother her.
For instance, if I saw you, I wouldn't bother u since 1. I know u get hit on by strangers a lot and 2. U would most likely have your guard up (stranger danger). What's your advice if I wanted to talk to u and I wanted u to want me (similar to how men want a woman when he sees her)???
*****
I get your questions but if I saw u anywhere and I find u hot, should I leave u alone since I am just a stranger and most likely u have a stranger danger shield???
Im quite sure that the only thing that matters in what you say and how you approach a woman is whether she is actually attracted to you. You're a creep if you're not her type, and if she like you, you can say just about anything and she'll be receptive.
Thanks. I like this video. Nice spoken. I satisfied
the lady is pretty and seems to be very intelligent to
my thought as well
+Emyli Volz (EmLovz) your welcome
It's all about social status/value...If a man cannot offer her that, he will be discarded?
thank you
I'm going to try some of these tips and see if they work. Are you actually going to respond to me when I give you my feedback?
where'd you get that dress my girlfriend would love it
Well I fucked up. I was running when I saw an attractive women. We started talking and she seemed interested. I leave for basic training tomorrow so I didn't see the point in getting her number but I kind of wish I would have. I usually don't have very much luck with girls.
I NEED ONE OF THE GIRL
I'm with you Em
i dont know but when i see really beautifull women they are always classy and calm i cant just distrup them
Good stuff, thanks! I've got a question.
Negging feels unnatural to me because putting out negativity to someone is a violation of my ethics of how I treat others (which might cause my neg to not come across as congruent since I would be "faking it"/delivering a line).
My questions:
1. Can I skip negging if I make sure that I do not give one compliment?
2. If I do not give one compliment how will she know that I have sexual/girlfriend intent when I strike up a conversation? It seems like this would get me friend zoned (as her new "girlfriend with a penis") if I hide my intent and act like a friendly guy who is just making conversation...?
Or am I making "compliments" and "sexual intent" out to be the same thing when they are not at all?
Is the type of direct intent-filled/longing eye contact the key here?
How does a guy show sexual intent without giving a compliment (which in effect negs the guy and his value)?
Thanks!
Also these belly-achers (see below) can't seem to imagine that maybe attraction/filtering works different for women than it does for men (who are 100% visual at first contact).
***** Thanks for the extremely helpful reply! The "power balance/decision making" thing brought to mind something that Dr. Robert Glover teaches men about dating.
He says to ALWAYS LEAD. Always!
I think you are essentially saying the same thing.
When a man doesn't lead he looks unsure and basically leaves her to take over and "become the man". I think we have all seen marriages like this!
I don't know if it because of the absence of fathering or the habitual approval seeking we are trained to do from childhood with female teachers and our mothers, but a lot of us guys are not naturally outgoing, un self-conscious or fearlessly assertive... I think that is why men compliment.
We aren't comfortable enough in our own skin socially to just walk up to a random woman and start talking to her to see what she is like because we are worried about what she will think ("... after all, she knows I'm approaching because I'm interested in her").
It's like we don't have the balls to just sit with that tension... so instead, right off the bat we say "You are so beautiful I just had to say "hi"" or whatever - which relieves the tension in an odd way. It occurs to me that saying this just puts everything on her... I mean, what is she supposed to say to that?! Right?!
Our fathers didn't need dating advice.
I wonder how and why men stopped being fearless?
Even though I wasn't raised in a hard-core religious household I have always felt that it was "bad" for a man to let a woman know that he is interested on a sexual level.
The "men are players who just want sex thing..." that our single mothers tell us might be the root of the problem?
We are raised to believe that sexual intent is BAD which completely shuts off the energy that would fuel that important eye contact that speaks so much more than words.
Unfortunately, simply being conscious that we were programmed with that lie doesn't magically make a man fearlessly confident and assertive.
Succeeding must require the one thing I don't do... PRACTICE! :)
I gave up approaching women once I realized it's easier to figure out trigonometry than trying to talk to women.
Lol
How would l approach You!!! you would tell me to take a hike,😕
Thats 'leave them better than I met them' by the way lol
Women especially beautiful women, have no idea what it's like to be a man. Many men are already preoccupied with their own insecurities about being good enough to be with an attractive woman, but we have to be the ones to initiate a conversation without being too forward, and stimulate a woman's interest at the same time. More often than not, men are in a lose lose situation.
Abundance meaning deep pockets right?
So em lovz, what would you you recommend to take someone on a 3rd date.
www.emlovz.com/sex-on-the-third-date-expectation/
You're a stunner
And you have no chance buddy,,
Great video Em. Yes some guys just kiss ass and look like creeps. I'm a bit older at 48 and have had lots of girlfriends and tons of turn downs but I still think a big part is if the lady is ovulating. Their body smell is more attractive and they are more flirtatious and open to conversation. Haven't found a way to tell who is ovulating and who isn't yet. Any ideas?
***** Cool babes....Used to live in East Bay and the Valley and had some great relationships. Ex girlfriend with a masters in psychology lives in SF now and we had some wowie times....would say she was too hot for me at the time. MFM wasn't for me yet. Thanks again.
Wants the attention of a well qualified man? What is this, a job interview? LOL
I'm not sure but ,if anyone else needs to find out about
speed dating questionnaire
try Remonteben Impress Her Trick (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? Ive heard some decent things about it and my co-worker got excellent results with it.
Worse, a job interview would be easier Dating sucks,, you end up feeling like shit,,,
I'm from London in UK. Also I'm heavily tattooed lots of tribal on arms,neck chest and back. Would this bother a beautiful woman???
Is this the same thing in college?
Also does height matter for girls to? Because im 22 years old and im 5foot6 and it makes me feel like im 13. If theres any thing out there that can make me grow im finding it lol. I want to be at least 5foot10. 6foot if theres something out there that works.
Even after puberty nice i check this out id feel like id be good if i was 5foot10 or hey even 5foot8 because that's Mark Walberg height. 5foot10 would be better though. But if for some strange reason i wasn't able to grow if i worked out a lot would that count at all or that doesn't matter. Ill for sure try this height stretch thing.
You're beautiful.
Did you not just see the video ugh don't complement them right off the bat.
This only works if you are handsome and well off. Not ugly and poor like me. Never ever heard of a single female that said " I saw his good heart/personality from across the room and had to check him out". Not one woman ever! So they may SAY they want this or care about that, but in reality, it's not, it's about handsome and money period.
So you avoided the REAL statement AND the REAL truth about women. Better job? = more MONEY see just what I said. Go to the gym? = trying to hunk it up. (although no amount of gym work will improve a butt ugly face), So the statement still has merit AND has NOTHING to do with attitude just truth. The truth that women refuse to admit about themselves, but EVERY scientific study ever performed confirms. Women only want looks and money, even if they have their own money they want more! Well off/rich & ugly=okay, handsome & poor=okay poor & ugly = no way! and well off/rich and handsome = jackpot! Nice guy? = finished last!
So gold-digger is genetic? I will soon be starting again my bike riding regimen, But all the riding in the world will not make me any more attractive to females.I cannot do cardio that is hard on the knees or lower leg. And I cannot afford an elliptical. Also as I am poor but do an honest days work. You are saying that's not good enough for you and your sisters, which is what I was saying all along. Forget about all the LIES women tell (to themselves as well as others) about somebody who'll listen or treat them right or all the other junk. As I see everyday, they will take the crass, or guy who ignored them for sports or drinks too much or all the rest they complain about later, for the same two things. Looks and Money.
So.complicated, 💀 go to Costa Rica no bullshit
So, a pick up line like "did it hurt a lot when you fell from Heaven" is most likely not gonna work? lol!
I guess your pretty
I dont have problem talking to women because as salesman but their is a lot women wont talk to bald men or go on date with a bald men that what ive found out !
***** you are mentioning famous and rich men and any women would love to be with famous or rich man :/
THEY WANT CHADS ATTENTION. NOT YOU. CONFIDENCE is better than being born of the CHAD LOOKS ALL DAY EVERYDAY. I'm 5'4" at 138 pounds. Let me tell you I am dripping with nothing but 8+'s and notch 9's. I receive needy messages all day from many if them. Dayum confidence. It's a curse what I've learned from this video. Fridays I'm at the clubs making hotties laugh and CHADS hatin' because when I go to clubs hot women notice my confidence and swagger. Meanwhile it's not a Saturday morning that I don't get cooked a hot breakfast from the 8's or 9's from the club that last night. Tip: Stand tall when approaching and speaking. If you're making a group of hotties laugh more will wonder who is that guy?
Sorry, Em. A man can't just have any woman he wants, as long as he's confident enough to go after her.
He'll improve his chances of finding an interested woman, for sure, but there are 2 people involved here, and they both have their own criteria.
Besides, if you only judge a person on first impressions, you're probably only looking for a shallow one night stand. In which case, liquid confidence is all you need.
*****
I've seen Groundhog Day, and while Bill Murray got to do the day over and over until he got it right, it's still only fiction.
I will definitely take a look at that book, but still, if I put myself in a woman's place, I could never imagine falling for a man who I wasn't somewhat attracted to.
That may sound very shallow, and I do value personality more than looks, but without a physical attraction to go with it, there probably won't be a lot of physical intimacy involved in a relationship. And without that, most relationships tend to falter.
So for me personally, I'd have to say that a woman I didn't find attractive right away would probably never have a chance to get into my pants, as it were. But we could still be great friends.
On the other hand, if I find a woman attractive, then I will take all the time she'll allow me to get to know her.
But I will not "force" myself on her until she gives in from simply being worn down.
It will only work if both partners have that immediate spark, and then take it from there.
you tell men what to do but would you accept too when men tell you what to do ?
THOSE ARE TIPS MAN ;D she aint captain queen of giving orders :P
I wouldn't approach you your a 10 🙁 no chance
This is bullshit! If I'm in a coffee shop it's because I want coffee! If I've made an effort to look nice it's because I want to look nice! DON'T LISTEN TO THIS ADVICE! For a start don't number a woman on a scale of 1 to 10 based on her appearance, she's a human being not a show dog.
Don't believe you. She just wants social attention.
Blah blah blah blah. . Guys just approach any woman you like, If they like you, they act like you 😊
As shallow as it could be. :)
This video is a perfect illustration of why most guys go for a 7 or an 8 as opposed to a "beautiful 10"...shallow, mixed signals, prefers insults to compliments...just plain annoying
Please be quiet
You talk sense but it's shut in the real world,,👎👎👎
Shit l mean
Hang in there, people are getting vaccinated :)