I completely agree with Nick! I am divorced and will never get married again. I believe in functioning out of vanity vs. ego. All this "marriage" bullshit is for the government and the "image". The government need us to cosign all their shit in order for them to have power. The more contracts we sign with them, the more control they have over us.
Can't lie, I wasn't planning on watching the entire video, Glad I did though! Nick as a guest. Genius! T.i. You sure know how to market. I seldom subscribe and this is one of those times lol... Glad to see and hear you have your own channel hats off to you T.i.! I hope to see more in the future! #motivation
The idea of marriage for women is the white horse and carriage. Unfortunately, marriage is tough and a lot of compromise and forgiveness. After my divorce, I decided to never get married again. I realized marriage is not my cup of tea. I prefer being single.
I don't like the Idea of a person having half of what you have when you get married Im like you didn't starve with me Im not sharing nothing unless I have kids 💯
We might as well be characters at Disneyland then.. Bump that. When Disneyland gets boring, you want to leave. That's the equivalent of always tryna entertain someone else..
Dude all ready be fucking bitches n tiny be ok with it. Remember how rob came out saying how china had a 3 some with t.i and tiny , that t.i paid like idk 30k for that one 3 some
@@brandongutierrez9490 in one of the episode TI said she only get mad because it's on social media in other words she only get mad when his caught in public with another girl. Tiny is okay with him cheating.
Dont get it twisted. At the same time, Alot of women dont want to be responsible and accountable for their own happiness. Therefore it's the man's job and if they aren't happy it's the man's fault. That ain't sustainable
You can not bring pieces to a Relationship and expect someone else to make you whole! That's a false elusion . So many people are hurt looking for a fix*
I agree with this. This is exactly why the relationship goes wrong when you dont know yourself enough. Joy come from inside, nobody can take it from you. Happiness can be given and taken away.
Sounds like he has been woke a long time, but had a moment of weakness when he married M Carey! He said he never believed in that construct long before getting married. Good for him!
@@shamurdajouramuraelbey825 its not that deep, but he's experienced one. Life experience matter. He doesn't wanna be responsible for another persons happiness. Seems like you're expecting someone to make you happy and take care of your funeral costs
yeah way better than most of the rapper niggas show, but you gotta give it to Nick with his presence, might be a bit boring with other guests cuz TIP monotone
I'm a female and also respect Nick's perspective. He made some very valuable points. I do believe that marriage is for the sake of family, which by extension means it's for the sake of the woman (the source of new life/family). The man's role is to support her. I do believe Nick was a better husband than he gives himself credit for.
“I don’t want to be responsible for anyone else’s happiness.” Felt that. I’m not perfect in my 12+ years of relationship but someone with bad anxieties and recovering from brain Cancer. Marriage talks stresses me the hell out🤦🏽♂️
And the hardest part of this is the fact that society paints a picture or assume that because you’re a male you’re suppose to live up to these pressures. Bro we had a pastor in our church over at the harvest in the city of Chino, Ca. pass away from suicide. He was in charge of one of programs that help individuals with depression and day to day anxieties. He lived a good life (my view as a outsider.) had a loving wife and kids. It was shocking to everyone. Makes me think about the amount of pressure men are under on a daily.
I love being married. Before I got married I said in the mirror... YOU make YOU happy. Start with YOU. And we're good.... I don't put that on my husband at all. Go be your best self!
Can’t bring YOU into to the marriage though..Marriage is about 2 people in love coming together and being one flesh. If it’s about YOU all the time, shit won’t pan out. Now your living to. Make each other happy not yourself
Nick said, Ever since I left all relationships, he hasn't been back in the hospital 😂😂😂😂 oh hell nah, but shit that's his Truth, and it's real, stress is the number one Killa
Yeah and I am pretty sure that if any of rest of US ~ Could get "rid" of our spouse and get upwards of 50+ million We be calling all our peoples to bring all the every van, trucks and even any Lil' Red Wagons.!!!!
Folks married for decades die within months of each other due to loving so much. But it's not just romantic relationships. Health problems can be caused by any type of relationship - work, family, friends. People bring drama into your life, even if it's unintended. Good for him to recognize his boundaries. He'll grow into a mature relationship as a result.
That's OLD Love. From a Different Time. These NEW Bitches don't make men feel how Women back then Made those Men Feel. Women today want a TRADITIONAL Man but don't want to be a TRADITIONAL Woman.
Phillip Jennings but he saying this after he married Mariah so that means we have no hope...he married the woman of his dreams../and still got divorce.
That's not real, if he didn't believe in marriage and felt as strong as he does about not marrying, it shouldn't have mattered who it was. With his mentality, his marriage was doomed from the start.
Nick Cannon: “I don’t want to be responsible for someone’s happiness.” It’s not that Nick Cannon afraid of commitment. Nick doesn’t want to be committed in a woman that’s doesn’t match the ideal of his way of love. _To everyone, be happy single. There’s no such thing as the one, complete yourself in your purpose so that significant other can be equally yoked and aligned with your calling._
Katrina Jones your a beautiful woman. Continue allow God to build and tinker that engine in your spirit that’s driving you to seek The Holy Spirit. _Its better to be alone and to sleep by yourself than to sleep with someone who doesn’t want you for YOU, who doesn’t want to be committed with your pain, your flaws, and the status of your relationship with God. Never be with a unequally yoked spirit because that man will drive you frustrated because he can’t relate._
The Living Testimony Channel thanks but the problem is that he is respectful with my walk in Christ and love me and all my flaws but he is not where I am with Christ. He knows of God but don’t know God. I can’t force his walk with Christ but I will not allow him to stop me from fulfilling my purpose!
Sounds to me like someone who wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you're yorked with someone, their happiness and wellbeing is your responsibility. Dont go about acting like a fool talking about, I dont want to be responsible for your happiness. Those are signs of narcissist behavior
This is NOT about marriage at ALL. This is about POWER and CONTROL. He said, "I don't want to have to answer to anybody." That statement usually means 1 of 3 things or maybe even ALL 3. 1: I am a selfish person who does not desire to SHARE power AND control. 2: I am a person who I was either married or dated to a extraordinarily CONTROLLING and DEMANDING person to the point that I felt ABUSED and or NEGLECTED. Therefore, I refuse to put myself in a construct which I believe is partly or even mostly to BLAME for the MISERY I experienced. 3: I do not want to the RESPONSIBILITY that comes with marriage...#GiveMeJESUS
The only ones in the comment section defending marriage are women of course😂sorry ladies the gig is up, more & more men are becoming Red Pill & see marriage for what it really is....with 70-80% of divorces filed by women, men are starting to find happiness elsewhere like being single and dating multiple women or whatever your personal passion is...
Nick.... your not responsible for anyone happiness but your OWN! People are responsible for their own happiness then you come together and become happy TOGETHER as a couple.
The fact that I have this conversation in my head everyday..... I get it, and I’m with it! But it takes a certain kind of person to understand it. Hell, it is what is. 💜💜💜
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The 1995 Stoic it can depending on the person you date and how YOU choose to create your reality ... life / relationships do not have to be toxic and terrible
It’s is a contract but it’s only business if that’s what you are going into the marriage with that mindset. A marriage is not supposed to be about business.
Noo the fuckk it aint u sound dum ass fuck , marriage is esoteric and divine and its only meant for disciplined and strong people , aint shit about marriage contractual....
@DJ smoky Smoky But, then you are giving up love, just so you don't have to do the necessary hard inner work required to make a relationship work. A deep love that can only be experienced through a committed, monogamous partnership, that is built upon trust, partnership, mutual respect, sacrifice, love, sexual attraction, chemistry, and passion, vulnerable intimacy, team work, dignity, transparency, etc.
Talk yo shit juju on gawd b that relationship shit like having a mother except u don’t have to do what they ask u for some reason u suppose to , cause that how they trained
I feel alot of what Nick is saying, but the thing is, no disrespect to the ladies when I say this, we're constantly being bombarded with " I'm tired of being a girlfriend! ...but won't leave! If ur not cool with bein a gf u have the option to get out of that relationship. I feel marriage is for ppl who are absolutely on board with the get married train. But if one person is on board and the other isn't, y'all have to have that conversation.
Agree, it's nothing wrong with having a talk about views on marriage if the relationship ever gets to a point of being more serious. Then there will be no surprises later.
If she's tired of being the girlfriend, she shouldn't be acting like wifey. Men do not feel obligated to marry because it's like the old saying, why buy the cow when you can get the milk (wifey benefits) for free. Woman who want to marry need to have established boundaries from the start.
Big facts on the stress, I never get sick, 2 1/2 year relationship, sick 4x , year 7 months single, no sickness, I’ve been told I look younger , I glow, skin discoloration Cleared up completely
@JasmineLasha as a woman who has that view, what do you say about the women who attack guys on the media and social network who took that decision by saying "He hates women"
I love how T.I forced the truth out of Nick by repeating the question and prying the real reason why he didn't want to be in a committed relationship anymore
People stay talking negative about marriage but don’t talk about the people who knew they wasn’t ready for it ...start there...marriage shouldn’t have negative connotation behind it
I believe its true what they say..... its no way around it. It can only have long stability if u can establish a true friendship. Then its unbreakable.
@@juswolf22 nick cannon is stupid as fukk. To think that mariah carey would take him back after he had a son with brittany bell he sounds stupid when he said he dont believe in marriage and relationship that pisses me off i believe in marriage and relationship my parents been married 32 years
E S that’s good your parents did that and you believe in that. Marriage has been around forever I don’t believe state or any other man can ordain your love for each other official thru this “marriage” thing
I think you have to become the right person first, in order to know how to find the right person for you. Very few people do this and end up in bad relationships/marriages.
This podcast made me look at marriage differently, I'm 21 years old right now and after hearing this and other testimonies from other men idk if I ever wanna get married now. There's no real benefit for a man in marriage, men have nothing to gain but everything to lose once he says "I do".
Wrong my man. Being married to the woman you love is one of the best things ever (joint 1st with the love you have when you have a child). Now with that said everthing worth having is hard work.
@@MoneyFIC and I feel you on that I've seen the brighter side of marriage but for my generation of women there is no bright side. To them all a marriage is, is a way to boost their egos (who has the bigger rock, who has the nicer dress, who has the bigger wedding) while for men they're just there. Nothing about marriage is actually for men, the woman you date is not the woman you married
@@DjAssassin98 good job buddy don't fall for that crap I'm 39 marriage in western society can be a trap and it has nothing to do with being with a vindictive women even if shes a great person the laws in the U.S. benefit the women if you cheat or she can cheat she's more than likely is going to get the kids in a divorce and you will probably lose half your money to and probably your house and even good women can be corrupted by temptation ive told people for years marriage is just legal boyfriend and girlfriend it's a contract nothing more
@@takethat863 but a woman can choose to not to take his money. you have to know who your marrying some of these women are so bitter towards men its crazy.
Nick is alone, but he’s not lonely. It’s a good way to live. When he said he doesn’t want to be responsible for anyone’s happiness speaks volumes on the type of relationships he’s been in. People get into relationships and forget that they are their own person and how to maintain their happiness by themselves.
The same way he had to unlearn how he treated women, he also needs to unlearn how he is in relationships and marriage. Society tries to make marriage centered on a woman’s happiness but with the right partner it will be an equal playing field. I believe in my husband being just as happy as I am and receiving just as much as I do. That’s how it should be. Plus we understand that our happiness doesn’t necessarily come from one another but starts within ourselves. So he’s not responsible for my happiness nor am I responsible for his. No matter what either of us do, you can never give another person happiness and peace within their own soul. They have to work on that individually.
Most relaionships that become difficult are simply due to the fact that those two people were never supposed to be together to begin with. Not saying you won't have challenges, but most things that cause more turmoil, pain, stress is because it wasn't a true match from the start. Also when things come to an end is because the purpose for that situation has been completed. ( *I actually liked Nick and Mariah together too. They lasted longer than I think several people expected* )
All relationships are difficult over time. Marriage is the most difficult of all! Emotions, selfishness, and pride, will always kill a marriage!! There is no "NOT MEANT TO BE TOGETHER"! It's about what people decide to do AFTER they have gotten together.
Why not? If I were a man I would have as many children as I can afford to support Learning is a life long process He's learned so much from his earlier life experiences and seems to be a very intelligent, good person and a good father👌
B.S. MBA Haha, wow penis pandering? Thats a new one I've never heard, but anyways shes right. FYI some men want kids regardless, but they REFUSE to be in relationships with women who refuse to take accountability for their actions and act like children when they don't get their way. A Man has every right not to want a relationship based off of past experiences and still at the same time want kids so they can inherit what he leaves behind.
I totally agree. If you're still in love with someone else but don't want to really admit it; you should come up will every illogical, contradictory explanation for why you don't want to get married again, but have no qualms with permanently attaching yourself, via children, to women you don't really want to be permanently attached to😉... Because that makes total sense.👍🏽 Well done👏🏾
With enough experience I can say that the funny thing about this game is the chill, not clingy type aren't the 'superficially' attractive ones. Maybe because of the way society treats beautiful women from a young age, they don't do as much inner work, are more entitled in a way that they always want more, not just material but more attention, more mental presence to the point that you can't develop yourself as a man anymore, hate when something else gives you happiness instead of them like friends or even passions, hobbies. Now girls that are a little less attractive then them are often more well rounded, I've met beautiful women with their own inner happiness, that really don't need you to do anything for them like that but the love is real, appreciation of each others time, growing together and independently etc.. But as a man and the way society conditioned us, how hard you may try you will feel lust eventually for that 'video model' type, not saying you'll act on it but it's there. A rich high status man like Nick won't want be with anything else than a 10. Ego, the way it looks to the world. But you can't have it all.
Majority of this conversation was about the wedding and not about marriage, which are two completely different things. If a person is constantly stressed being in relationships it's a good chance that person is not working on their emotional health.
Nah I don't think it's that. Like Nick said, no stress once he wasn't in a relationship. Take it as you may but relationships are stressful and when you are a high valued male you don't need them. You'll have plenty of fish in the sea and on land. Easy pickings!
What's another unwritten rule of relationships? Comment yours below
I completely agree with Nick! I am divorced and will never get married again. I believe in functioning out of vanity vs. ego. All this "marriage" bullshit is for the government and the "image". The government need us to cosign all their shit in order for them to have power. The more contracts we sign with them, the more control they have over us.
Handle your business! #MGTOW
Can't lie, I wasn't planning on watching the entire video, Glad I did though! Nick as a guest. Genius! T.i. You sure know how to market. I seldom subscribe and this is one of those times lol... Glad to see and hear you have your own channel hats off to you T.i.! I hope to see more in the future! #motivation
Wynter Heat goddamn facts !
Know Except whom you were dating/marrying and STOP TRYING TO CHANGE THEM
“I don’t wanna be responsible for nobody else happiness” 🎯🎯🎯
MGTOW
Your not...
@@listeningviayoutube7229 exactly Nick is just being immature and lazy lol
Kids, Wife, Mom, Dad, Family ?
That statement says “ I want to make everybody happy.”
Most females nowadays want a wedding, not a marriage 🤷🏾♂️
What about men ? Just asking
@@maryamhassan7060 a life long companion
Preach
A Red Pill Quote 😅
Women don't like to be held accountable neither. Something Steve Harvey and others never discuss
"Ever since I haven't been in a relationship I haven't been to a hospital" Damnnn!!! 🤣🤣🤣
That's real his ass could die over that dumb stressors not worth it.
Being Stressed out !!! Man that crap is deadly your worst enemy it crepes on you then u broken
He's been choosing the wrong ones! God didn't give those women to him. When you follow the plan of God it always works out
....and I can believe that!
😂😂😂then what type of women is he dating?
I feel him on the stress of relationships and being happier by yourself. 💗 This is coming from a woman too.
Much respect
@Walter Burkhardt I'm middle class and not famous, and I agree with him.
U da goat
Nick just does not want to stay faithful, and cant deal with breaking womens hearts that's all. It's not that deep.
The idea of marriage for women is the white horse and carriage. Unfortunately, marriage is tough and a lot of compromise and forgiveness. After my divorce, I decided to never get married again. I realized marriage is not my cup of tea. I prefer being single.
Marriage isn't for everyone you have to respect his views.
Anthony KImani marriage in western civilization is not for every black man
Red pill is good
Anthony KImani???
Red pill is better than MGTOW.
I don't like the Idea of a person having half of what you have when you get married Im like you didn't starve with me Im not sharing nothing unless I have kids 💯
When he said "I don't want to be responsible for nobody else's happiness, I'm still trying to figure out my ish" I felt that in my Soul 🤕🤕
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We might as well be characters at Disneyland then.. Bump that. When Disneyland gets boring, you want to leave.
That's the equivalent of always tryna entertain someone else..
He’s saying exactly how TI feel but can’t say cus he’s married lol
Right!
He’s saying what a great majority of so called black men feel. Prolly 99.9% 🤷🏾♂️
I was thinking the SAME exact thing the whole time watching the video 😩😭
Dude all ready be fucking bitches n tiny be ok with it. Remember how rob came out saying how china had a 3 some with t.i and tiny , that t.i paid like idk 30k for that one 3 some
@@brandongutierrez9490 in one of the episode TI said she only get mad because it's on social media in other words she only get mad when his caught in public with another girl. Tiny is okay with him cheating.
Dont get it twisted. At the same time, Alot of women dont want to be responsible and accountable for their own happiness. Therefore it's the man's job and if they aren't happy it's the man's fault. That ain't sustainable
I agree
Wowwww eh bro even tho this name says Nicki cephas im her fiance so brotha i have to say YOU ARE SO FUCKING REAL FOR THIS COMMENT BROTHA
You can not bring pieces to a Relationship and expect someone else to make you whole! That's a false elusion . So many people are hurt looking for a fix*
I agree with this. This is exactly why the relationship goes wrong when you dont know yourself enough. Joy come from inside, nobody can take it from you. Happiness can be given and taken away.
SHAUN VAN PRUDE FACTS❗️❗️
Why is Nick Cannon dropping facts like that
nick took the red pill and woke up...
Facts
Sounds like he has been woke a long time, but had a moment of weakness when he married M Carey! He said he never believed in that construct long before getting married. Good for him!
Lol Nock just doesn't want to be in a serious committed relationship, it's not that deep.
Red pill ti
@@shamurdajouramuraelbey825 its not that deep, but he's experienced one. Life experience matter. He doesn't wanna be responsible for another persons happiness. Seems like you're expecting someone to make you happy and take care of your funeral costs
Yo TIP, this is a great show. Can’t wait to see it continue to grow.
Jaydeeezy yes it will grow... expeditiously
yeah way better than most of the rapper niggas show, but you gotta give it to Nick with his presence, might be a bit boring with other guests cuz TIP monotone
He on his hustle
I'm a female and can completely understand Nick.
THATS BECAUSE HES 100% RIGHT! GETTING MARRIED IS USELESS!
@Real boxing Fan1 i agree
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I'm a female and also respect Nick's perspective. He made some very valuable points. I do believe that marriage is for the sake of family, which by extension means it's for the sake of the woman (the source of new life/family). The man's role is to support her. I do believe Nick was a better husband than he gives himself credit for.
Little boys don’t dream of the perfect wedding or what color their tuxedo they going to wear
They just don’t
That’s a girls dream
fo real lol i dont care about none of that shit
They do if they’re gay .
EXACTLY 💯💯
Not all women.
I dreamed of the man I wanted to be married to. I could care less about the wedding.
Not true.
“I don’t want to be responsible for anyone else’s happiness.”
Felt that.
I’m not perfect in my 12+ years of relationship but someone with bad anxieties and recovering from brain Cancer. Marriage talks stresses me the hell out🤦🏽♂️
I swear i did..
Man u ain't never lied.
And the hardest part of this is the fact that society paints a picture or assume that because you’re a male you’re suppose to live up to these pressures. Bro we had a pastor in our church over at the harvest in the city of Chino, Ca. pass away from suicide. He was in charge of one of programs that help individuals with depression and day to day anxieties. He lived a good life (my view as a outsider.) had a loving wife and kids. It was shocking to everyone. Makes me think about the amount of pressure men are under on a daily.
@@mauiwaui773 yo that crazy because i live in Buffalo NY, and the pastor that wedded my homeboy killed his in his own church
I couldn't have said it better
I love being married. Before I got married I said in the mirror... YOU make YOU happy. Start with YOU. And we're good.... I don't put that on my husband at all. Go be your best self!
Do you have friends like you? lol
@@Abstracthought I have great friends...all married though.....but trust me Keith they're good women out there...
Good for you....you’re a rare breed of woman
Good for you girl. Hope y’all work out.
Can’t bring YOU into to the marriage though..Marriage is about 2 people in love coming together and being one flesh. If it’s about YOU all the time, shit won’t pan out. Now your living to. Make each other happy not yourself
If you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like a fan. Value yourselves men!
Nick said, Ever since I left all relationships, he hasn't been back in the hospital 😂😂😂😂 oh hell nah, but shit that's his Truth, and it's real, stress is the number one Killa
He has kidney problems but he had them before mariah.
Women*
Robert Drake ahahahahahahaa
@@JMeyer1112 And lupus
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He always talking about Mariah. He really loved her.
Yeah and I am pretty sure that if any of rest of US ~ Could get "rid" of our spouse and get upwards of 50+ million We be calling all our peoples to bring all the every van, trucks and even any Lil' Red Wagons.!!!!
Mother's child. His crush before meeting her
She made him RICHER
And maybe also because she was his ex and his ex wife. There was nobody else after her so that’s why he brings her up
They are connected forever plus he get clowned for their failed marriage
My grandmother taught my mother, my mother taught me "you make your own happiness".
Exactly true.
Folks married for decades die within months of each other due to loving so much. But it's not just romantic relationships. Health problems can be caused by any type of relationship - work, family, friends. People bring drama into your life, even if it's unintended. Good for him to recognize his boundaries. He'll grow into a mature relationship as a result.
@I'm Still Alive he is not that strong if he ran away from his commitment..💅🏾
That's OLD Love. From a Different Time. These NEW Bitches don't make men feel how Women back then Made those Men Feel. Women today want a TRADITIONAL Man but don't want to be a TRADITIONAL Woman.
I love Nicks wisdom. He’s come a long way.
"Every since I have been out of relationships, I haven't been back in the hospital!" I truly understand!
I dont believe in marriage, but it's Maria Carey😂😂😂😂😂😂😂....... THAT'S REAL, THATS REAL!
Phillip Jennings but he saying this after he married Mariah so that means we have no hope...he married the woman of his dreams../and still got divorce.
@@CJCtelevisionnetwork facts
That's not real, if he didn't believe in marriage and felt as strong as he does about not marrying, it shouldn't have mattered who it was. With his mentality, his marriage was doomed from the start.
@@CJCtelevisionnetwork right, got the hell on too😂😂😂😂
@@eternalyfeful He was fixated on his "Dream Girl" fantasy and confused it for reality
Nick Cannon: “I don’t want to be responsible for someone’s happiness.”
It’s not that Nick Cannon afraid of commitment. Nick doesn’t want to be committed in a woman that’s doesn’t match the ideal of his way of love.
_To everyone, be happy single. There’s no such thing as the one, complete yourself in your purpose so that significant other can be equally yoked and aligned with your calling._
Respect brother
The Living Testimony Channel your comment was helpful to me ❤️
Katrina Jones your a beautiful woman. Continue allow God to build and tinker that engine in your spirit that’s driving you to seek The Holy Spirit.
_Its better to be alone and to sleep by yourself than to sleep with someone who doesn’t want you for YOU, who doesn’t want to be committed with your pain, your flaws, and the status of your relationship with God. Never be with a unequally yoked spirit because that man will drive you frustrated because he can’t relate._
The Living Testimony Channel thanks but the problem is that he is respectful with my walk in Christ and love me and all my flaws but he is not where I am with Christ. He knows of God but don’t know God. I can’t force his walk with Christ but I will not allow him to stop me from fulfilling my purpose!
Sounds to me like someone who wants to have his cake and eat it too. If you're yorked with someone, their happiness and wellbeing is your responsibility. Dont go about acting like a fool talking about, I dont want to be responsible for your happiness. Those are signs of narcissist behavior
I love watching any nick interview he’s like one of the most intelligent ppl
216Key rt
Make me question your intelligence
This is NOT about marriage at ALL. This is about POWER and CONTROL. He said, "I don't want to have to answer to anybody." That statement usually means 1 of 3 things or maybe even ALL 3. 1: I am a selfish person who does not desire to SHARE power AND control. 2: I am a person who I was either married or dated to a extraordinarily CONTROLLING and DEMANDING person to the point that I felt ABUSED and or NEGLECTED. Therefore, I refuse to put myself in a construct which I believe is partly or even mostly to BLAME for the MISERY I experienced. 3: I do not want to the RESPONSIBILITY that comes with marriage...#GiveMeJESUS
Exactly.
You guys are a bunch of Beta males...enjoy.
And? Freedom is wonderful.
The only ones in the comment section defending marriage are women of course😂sorry ladies the gig is up, more & more men are becoming Red Pill & see marriage for what it really is....with 70-80% of divorces filed by women, men are starting to find happiness elsewhere like being single and dating multiple women or whatever your personal passion is...
🤣😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂
What is red pill? I’ve seen that term a few times in this blog.
Check out:
- Richard Cooper(Entreprenurs In Cars)
- Caleb "Blackdragon" Jones
@@axelcoker242 BETTER BACHELORE AND COACH GREG ADAMS
@@chikotembo ^^^
I appreciate the fact that he says the same thing across the board.
Sounds like to me Nick embraced Happy wife. Happy life. Instead of “Happy spouse. Happy house. There is a big difference between the two.
Makes no difference to me
What’s the difference ? Please elaborate.
Joewy Mumba 😂😂😂‼️
Shutup boa
What's the difference Socrates?
Marriage ain’t for everybody 🤷🏽♂️. Respect 💯
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Nick.... your not responsible for anyone happiness but your OWN! People are responsible for their own happiness then you come together and become happy TOGETHER as a couple.
@Chasing the bag selfish if we choose good one. We are selfish and don't even have to try we are sacks of shit who only care about ourselves
Yeah that is easy to say but some ppl become emotionally dependent on a person for happiness so I get what nick saying
Facts girl but I think he's just lost that's ok it's ok to be lost sometimes
redstreet1000 semantics
Facts 💯
The fact that I have this conversation in my head everyday..... I get it, and I’m with it! But it takes a certain kind of person to understand it. Hell, it is what is. 💜💜💜
Royal Blessing I’m with you Queen!
Royal Blessing at least let me smash
@@gambit3950 lmao
Thank you Nick Cannon and other public figures who talk about speaking or thinking things into existence. It’s needed and much appreciated 🙏🏽
Never knew I needed a T.I podcast
I didnt know this was a Podcast until I read your comment,I thought it was random video
Red Scorpion lmao
Facts
Did y’all know it’s impossible to breath while smiling???
Kidding just wanted y’all to smile. Hope you have a phenomenal day. Get ya bread and all the crumbs too. Stack and act broke Ladies and Gents 😤🔥💯
Lol you're a legend
Thanks I needed that
Good one
I like that! I actually tried it! Lol!🤣
Thanks l really like that😁😁😁😁😁
Disney be programming these girls to believe in fairytale love
Keanu Simpson it exist
The 1995 Stoic it can depending on the person you date and how YOU choose to create your reality ... life / relationships do not have to be toxic and terrible
The 1995 Stoic nice feedback enjoy ur night :) !
and men too shit i thought women were nice
He will end up in another relationship...love comes when you don't want it
Agree😂😭😇
Lana C pretty much.
He knows that, that's why he keeps talking about it on every media outlet he understands how attraction works
Maybe , but if he has a negative mindset.. he may get exactly what he wants
Dont mean he'll get married lol fuck marriage
Marriage is only a business contract for legal purposes. That's all.🤷🏽♀️ just my opinion
nikkinicole901 ooo good one
It’s is a contract but it’s only business if that’s what you are going into the marriage with that mindset. A marriage is not supposed to be about business.
cause people stop marrying under god
Noo the fuckk it aint u sound dum ass fuck , marriage is esoteric and divine and its only meant for disciplined and strong people , aint shit about marriage contractual....
@INFINITE 2020 yea mostly famous people i agree with u
The #RedPill awareness is truly growing and between 2023-2024 😄.
jup and these women are getting NERVOUS, because their dream of getting married is under attack...men dont buy into that trap anymore
The best way for a man to have his cake and eat it too is to stay single 👌🏾
That is real my brother.. Money and a passport goes a loooooooooooong way.
The cake was meant to eat dummy
Shadow Ken89 I don’t think anybody older and single are really happy. I work with a lot of older people and the ones with spouses seem a lot happier.
@DJ smoky Smoky
But, then you are giving up love, just so you don't have to do the necessary hard inner work required to make a relationship work. A deep love that can only be experienced through a committed, monogamous partnership, that is built upon trust, partnership, mutual respect, sacrifice, love, sexual attraction, chemistry, and passion, vulnerable intimacy, team work, dignity, transparency,
etc.
@The 1995 Stoic
Why do you think that?
You decided to marry a "trophy" and got buyers remorse when you realized she was a "regular" woman.
Hater
Bruh shes Mariah Carey shes more than a trophy shes an icon put some respeck on her name
Yup. Facts
ye23 Mariah Carey is a glorified piece of trash
Never idolize man or women! Repent for your sins! I pray for nick and tip! I hope God blesses you with the journey you want
TI having a podcast is...DOPE! Nick dropped real gems
Just being with self you never die alone. Family, friends, coworkers, kids, etc. The difference is your not stuck with someone who controls your life.
Dude you forgot the most important dogs. Dogs will always be better than shit humans
Preach!
facts
Talk yo shit juju on gawd b that relationship shit like having a mother except u don’t have to do what they ask u for some reason u suppose to , cause that how they trained
You die alone no matter what. The point is to live a life that puts you first.
I feel alot of what Nick is saying, but the thing is, no disrespect to the ladies when I say this, we're constantly being bombarded with " I'm tired of being a girlfriend! ...but won't leave! If ur not cool with bein a gf u have the option to get out of that relationship. I feel marriage is for ppl who are absolutely on board with the get married train. But if one person is on board and the other isn't, y'all have to have that conversation.
bigjayking24 “have that conversation FROM THE JUMP”... sounds pretty immediate if you ask me.
Agree, it's nothing wrong with having a talk about views on marriage if the relationship ever gets to a point of being more serious. Then there will be no surprises later.
If she's tired of being the girlfriend, she shouldn't be acting like wifey. Men do not feel obligated to marry because it's like the old saying, why buy the cow when you can get the milk (wifey benefits) for free. Woman who want to marry need to have established boundaries from the start.
I am a woman that never planned to be married, coupled, settled. My husband changed my life
Lmao 😂 I was the opposite I wanted all of this and still single.
@@lavonnealexander6936 im married with 3 kids my wife is ok but my side bitch is great...and my wife sister is wonderful
Jose Posada Haha.
Jose Posada Wtf lmao 😂 you fucking cheater.
You are going to change his life too... after you divorce him.
Marriage is not about love, it is a legally binding agreement that is enforceable by law. Don't do it.
@DARTANYON
I agree with both of y'all
You started off well. And ended tragically. Jay Z (along with many others) would disagree on your opinion about marriage.
thegremlinsmurf who gives a dam scout jay z
@@thegremlinsmurf so you compare yourself to a damn near billionaire? That's how you gage, and measure your life altering decisions? Interesting 🤔
@DARTANYON SAY DAT!!
Nick took that red pill! Good for him!
NICK THANKS FOR KEEPING IT REAL I BEEN FEELING LIKE THIS 💯💯💪🏽🤟🏾
This is the perfect video for people who don’t have a fundamental understanding of marriage.
TIP - "BUT WAA"
Nick - "Exactly"
FACTS
Big facts on the stress, I never get sick, 2 1/2 year relationship, sick 4x , year 7 months single, no sickness, I’ve been told I look younger , I glow, skin discoloration Cleared up completely
Nick sounds like he’s using laughter to cushion his harsh reality of this situation
niya clay I noticed that too! He butt hurt to be honest. And he’s like reminiscing and mad as hell.
Yep I noticed that
This man don't wanna admit that ANY dealings with women are stressful. Relationship, marriage, just dating...whatever. #Skress
niya clay totally agreed
He’s been doing that his entire life. He’s a comedian
A lot of people say they’ll never fall in love again and get married again and then end up running into the person they were meant to be with.
bl 1821
And then it fails again!!!
godsrevelations not always
@@DTradesFX2 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 all facts
SO TRUE!!!
@@DTradesFX2 you are right! Divorce likelihood rate goes up after the first marriage for people who remarry
... EVERYONE WHO IS NOT MARRIED NOW, SHOULD REMAIN SINGLE. BE HAPPY BY YOURSELF. FOR YOURSELF. WITH YOURSELF. ♀️
JasmineLasha Come Support me 🙏
Stfu pls
@JasmineLasha as a woman who has that view, what do you say about the women who attack guys on the media and social network who took that decision by saying "He hates women"
At least Nick is honest!!!! ❤️🤗
Real shit loll. I can't be with one woman right now....but that don't mean I don't love love or I'm just smashing hoes lmao. Nick keeps it real!
Nick is #Woke he on that red🛑 pill awareness. ✊
💊
He's been red pill aware for a while now, and nobody knew. Marriage is a contract made to benefit women, while men get absolutely nothing.
#MGTOW
Only men that like to operate in lust have an issue with marriage
@@AsweetAroma-b2l NOT TRUE! what are your measurements by the way?😉😘
Nick Cannon: I was faithful my whole marriage
T.I.: Hmm
😭😭😭☠️😂
T.I. is great at interviewing.. This podcast is dope!
What..He always interrupting, I agree it's a good show but he need to quit interrupting his guess while they speaking
Scott Thomas
I guess you didn’t see the master p video!!!
I just found it yesterday. Been watching this more than first take and undisputed.
@@DTradesFX2 he has no clue of the other interviews
I love how T.I forced the truth out of Nick by repeating the question and prying the real reason why he didn't want to be in a committed relationship anymore
Marriage is HIGHLY overrated.
Marriage gets BORING
@@kalykalypso are you married?
People stay talking negative about marriage but don’t talk about the people who knew they wasn’t ready for it ...start there...marriage shouldn’t have negative connotation behind it
Relationship in general
He said "If I were to get married again I would get married to her" 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭 I don't know if I think it's adorable or if it makes me feel sad.
That’s toxic lol
Mariah said I seen the little ring you gave that other girl 😂😂😂 I’m cryin
"Every since I been out of relationships, I haven't been back in the hospital." NC
Get rid of that problem - fuck'em don't feed'em & you'll be much much better off no stress 😁
I believe its true what they say..... its no way around it. It can only have long stability if u can establish a true friendship. Then its unbreakable.
T.I is on another level, he knows himself, and he keeps it balance. He made Nick second guess himself. He still want to be married to his Ex Queen
Adonius Pickett he was just showing respect to ti cuz ti wasnt letting it down. nick know what he doin
@@juswolf22 nick cannon is stupid as fukk. To think that mariah carey would take him back after he had a son with brittany bell he sounds stupid when he said he dont believe in marriage and relationship that pisses me off i believe in marriage and relationship my parents been married 32 years
B
E S that’s good your parents did that and you believe in that. Marriage has been around forever I don’t believe state or any other man can ordain your love for each other official thru this “marriage” thing
@@juswolf22 i agree with u
I think you have to become the right person first, in order to know how to find the right person for you. Very few people do this and end up in bad relationships/marriages.
Very true
THIS! Then they blame marriage itself.
The divorce rate is way over 50%, you're very wrong statistically, and statistics don't lie
This podcast made me look at marriage differently, I'm 21 years old right now and after hearing this and other testimonies from other men idk if I ever wanna get married now. There's no real benefit for a man in marriage, men have nothing to gain but everything to lose once he says "I do".
Wrong my man. Being married to the woman you love is one of the best things ever (joint 1st with the love you have when you have a child). Now with that said everthing worth having is hard work.
That's only if you marry a vindictive woman...
@@MoneyFIC and I feel you on that I've seen the brighter side of marriage but for my generation of women there is no bright side. To them all a marriage is, is a way to boost their egos (who has the bigger rock, who has the nicer dress, who has the bigger wedding) while for men they're just there. Nothing about marriage is actually for men, the woman you date is not the woman you married
@@DjAssassin98 good job buddy don't fall for that crap I'm 39 marriage in western society can be a trap and it has nothing to do with being with a vindictive women even if shes a great person the laws in the U.S. benefit the women if you cheat or she can cheat she's more than likely is going to get the kids in a divorce and you will probably lose half your money to and probably your house and even good women can be corrupted by temptation ive told people for years marriage is just legal boyfriend and girlfriend it's a contract nothing more
@@takethat863 but a woman can choose to not to take his money. you have to know who your marrying some of these women are so bitter towards men its crazy.
i feel nick canon on this topic
Nick is alone, but he’s not lonely. It’s a good way to live. When he said he doesn’t want to be responsible for anyone’s happiness speaks volumes on the type of relationships he’s been in. People get into relationships and forget that they are their own person and how to maintain their happiness by themselves.
At least he's honest. I can respect anyone who keeps it 💯
Dani Changg exactly that bullshit ain’t for everyone
Two people getting together doesn’t make the other person responsible for their happiness. It’s a choice to be together not an obligation
The same way he had to unlearn how he treated women, he also needs to unlearn how he is in relationships and marriage. Society tries to make marriage centered on a woman’s happiness but with the right partner it will be an equal playing field. I believe in my husband being just as happy as I am and receiving just as much as I do. That’s how it should be. Plus we understand that our happiness doesn’t necessarily come from one another but starts within ourselves. So he’s not responsible for my happiness nor am I responsible for his. No matter what either of us do, you can never give another person happiness and peace within their own soul. They have to work on that individually.
That man would be just as happy if yall never got married
yeah happiness is not real when it comes from some1 else..nothing can be forced
Unlearn deez nuutz
Most relaionships that become difficult are simply due to the fact that those two people were never supposed to be together to begin with. Not saying you won't have challenges, but most things that cause more turmoil, pain, stress is because it wasn't a true match from the start. Also when things come to an end is because the purpose for that situation has been completed. ( *I actually liked Nick and Mariah together too. They lasted longer than I think several people expected* )
All relationships are difficult over time. Marriage is the most difficult of all! Emotions, selfishness, and pride, will always kill a marriage!! There is no "NOT MEANT TO BE TOGETHER"! It's about what people decide to do AFTER they have gotten together.
@@OnealEddie 💯💯💯💯💯
He misses her, and it will always live in his soul to "Re-do"
Hahaha naah he don't lol
@Mr. Blow Ya Whistle how do you know???
This dude calls Mariah name every single chance he got, you only do that when you're still sprung
T o n y a Come Support me 🙏
@@DemarioDon Ok 🙏🏻🖤
I absolutely respect Nick for staying true to hisself and telling us his truth. Truth = Respect
Marriage is woman’s dream, getting the woman is the mans dream-Steve Harvey
🎯🎯🎯
Beyondd Beautiful exactly
Boom 💥
Steve Harvey just tells old bitches and single mothers what they want to hear. Cant blame him though, he is making a lot of money of them.
@@javalemcgee4318 right bro
Did anyone else hear, “If I got married again, it would be to Mariah”...🤔
This tells me she is the one that broke it off. He still loves her.
Mother of his children AS WELL AS the only one he married
They are still close, i doubt Mariah and Nick have any bitterness between them. I believe he's always gonna love Mariah Carey
Bet if Mariah say let's go to counseling and give it another try he'll say ok watch
He said loud n clear
I’m here for T.I.. This Podcast is exactly what you need.. your intelligence needs to be heard .. PERIOD
TI is a comedian: funny and sharing wisdom.
When nick cannon said "My music.." Im paused and looked to the sides. Who tf listens to ur music bruh xD lmaoo
Remi10pm nick cannon got more hits than everybody in the comments 🤷🏾♂️
Nick cannons music makes ppl want to burn shyt. Confirmed. 🤪😂😂
@@Remi10pm lol fr
Take shitty em Diss.for example. Cannon can't even have decent music lol
I did the same too🤣🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣
The most educated man on earth. Ti the great!!! This discussion was definitely needed. Love you #Tip
Nick told y’all he was a jiggalo along time ago 😂
Why keep having children??? Just go ahead and find yourself...
Why not?
If I were a man I would have as many children as I can afford to support
Learning is a life long process
He's learned so much from his earlier life experiences and seems to be a very intelligent, good person and a good father👌
No one really “has” children. Most are mistakes brother
B.S. MBA Haha, wow penis pandering? Thats a new one I've never heard, but anyways shes right. FYI some men want kids regardless, but they REFUSE to be in relationships with women who refuse to take accountability for their actions and act like children when they don't get their way. A Man has every right not to want a relationship based off of past experiences and still at the same time want kids so they can inherit what he leaves behind.
@B.S. MBA Wow, you must be really triggered and congrats on all that student loan debt.
I thought i was the only one who thought about this issue of not finding marriage to be unfair for a man
O.G Francis Come Support me 🙏
You're not the only one my Brother.
Cant wait to hear more people on this podcast🔥💯
I totally agree. If you're still in love with someone else but don't want to really admit it; you should come up will every illogical, contradictory explanation for why you don't want to get married again, but have no qualms with permanently attaching yourself, via children, to women you don't really want to be permanently attached to😉... Because that makes total sense.👍🏽
Well done👏🏾
True
I love the authenticity of this podcast!
This is so interesting, i love to hear what men have to say about love and relationships..
I see the logic in his madness
He needs a girl who is not clingy and just a cool understanding of his boundaries and stressors
YEAHHHH AND THAT DOESNT EXIST!!! GTFOH . LMAOO
With enough experience I can say that the funny thing about this game is the chill, not clingy type aren't the 'superficially' attractive ones. Maybe because of the way society treats beautiful women from a young age, they don't do as much inner work, are more entitled in a way that they always want more, not just material but more attention, more mental presence to the point that you can't develop yourself as a man anymore, hate when something else gives you happiness instead of them like friends or even passions, hobbies. Now girls that are a little less attractive then them are often more well rounded, I've met beautiful women with their own inner happiness, that really don't need you to do anything for them like that but the love is real, appreciation of each others time, growing together and independently etc.. But as a man and the way society conditioned us, how hard you may try you will feel lust eventually for that 'video model' type, not saying you'll act on it but it's there. A rich high status man like Nick won't want be with anything else than a 10. Ego, the way it looks to the world. But you can't have it all.
Then He should just have a friend with benefits, also I have trouble believing MC was clingy with all the work and traveling she does.
@NXVI clingy maybe not but she's used to getting her way so she was treating him like a lil bitch boy
@@RAZASHARP yes it does
Just listen to Patrice O’neal when it comes to women and relationships
Tha nigga is my pastor on this topic.
Anybody gotta link to this?
Kings mario facts!!
Tj Cullen just type in Patrice O’neal Podcast women or relationships, there’s plenty
Big facts! The professor on it!
Nick: *Coughs*
T.I. : “Mmm🤔”
BasedTodd 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
You know he been watching a lot of Shannon sharpe and Skip Bayless.
😂😂😂😂😂
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Honesty is the key. I feel Nick and resonate completely.
Man TI and Nick Cannon flow together like peanut butter and jelly.
Johnny Fontenot 2 libras ♎️
Libra gang
Libra gang for life hahaa
Nick basically saying he respect himself enough to be an Alpha and y’all saying he tweakin
Not taking full care and responsibility of your kids is not an alpha lmao. Sigh, you people wonder why lmao.
Nick is speaking hard facts.
Majority of this conversation was about the wedding and not about marriage, which are two completely different things. If a person is constantly stressed being in relationships it's a good chance that person is not working on their emotional health.
ChrissyTCreates Come Support me 🙏
Nah I don't think it's that. Like Nick said, no stress once he wasn't in a relationship. Take it as you may but relationships are stressful and when you are a high valued male you don't need them. You'll have plenty of fish in the sea and on land. Easy pickings!
"A Woman's life is love, a Man's love is life" - Phonte Coleman
Damn thats facta
Damn that’s deep
@ your uneducated then
What Nick said exactly Preach!💯😂