The part where kalani does a walk over then the other girls catch her is my favourite part. I think it really portrays the story. How she was falling, they helped her and where her support and then she could get up again. It honestly gave me chills !!
I lost my mother to suicide. This dance means so much to me, and the girls looked so beautiful. Thank you, Kalani, Nia, Brynn, and Kendall for putting such hard work into this dance and creating a masterpiece.
I cried watching it and the dead line gave me chills. I feel like it really does speak to people, especially those who've lost. I hope you're doing better, and I hope that your mother is in a better place. You are always worth it!
Your so brave for sharing this in the comments full of people that you don’t know. I understand how hard it must’ve been for you and how hard it currently is but no matter what, people love you and their there for you :) stay strong 🤞❤️💪
This dance was so meaningful. Props to Lifetime for including the actual teen helpline number at the end of the video; treating it as an important cause instead of just another topic for their reality dramas.
@@wendylevy8796 goes on to win international poetry competition so she qualifies for the space poetry competition, competes against aliens and finally feels at home 😂
CHEESY PUFFS Yes this dance is really powerful to me being a 15 year old who has ptsd, anxiety, anger issues and suicidal thought and actions this dance definitely shows the fight that people like us go through.
This number would have been enough for nationals but I think during this time line a best friend of Kalani committed suicide and that's why they decided to do this dance even though it wasn't nationals
In my opinion, this was the best group dance they EVER did. I always get emotional when I watch this group dance. Some day I hope that I can work at a suicide hotline and help anyone that needs it just so that they don't feel alone.
@@Braxton4596 I think they meant it was just a really good dance not the emotional part but I guess it was Maddie’s and Menzies last dance but that’s not the right emotional
Llna Jackspidicy those pages are fake it actually happened it says on a lot of places and you can search what her name was i think it was like addy or something.
I wish kalani had a black dress on showing she was in a bad place and Brynn, Nia, and Kendall had the white dress on showing they are the angels protecting her
I like that idea too💖 but i see the idea behind kalani being white and I think both can work. Like you were saying the white could be the angels helping kalani but maybe they put kalani in white to represent that she's an angel even tho she's going through such dark times. That would be a nice message for people going through depression etc to show they are angels still and not worthless. Sometimes white can also mean they're trying to portray that character as deceased (and I guess she dies at the end in this case)
I see what you're saying but white is also very bright on stage. Think of when it snows, it's super bright out even if it's freezing because the white snow is reflecting the sunlight into your face. So, naturally anyone wearing white will intentionally or not, be the focal point in the dance. In this instance, Kalani was the focal point, so she wore white while the rest wore black with the yellow bows for awareness.
i remember watching this a long time ago, and i STILL think nia, brynn, and kendall should’ve worn the white dress (bc they’re basically the angels that help Kalani) and Kalani should’ve worn a black dress because she’s the damaged one, the one who’s hurting
I think 1. They didnt want to make it seem like the suicidal one (kalani) was damaged or a lost cause, 2. Kalani is the angel because she did end up dying in the dance at the end when she ran away from their help and the phone rang and 2. at a funeral the person who passed is usually wearing nice clothing (sometimes white) and everyone else is wearing black so it made a nice contrast. I think both wouldve worked and that was just my interpretation of it :D
Hearing Kalani talk about this on the reunion is so heartbreaking tbh…like I honestly always wondered about her in particular after this episode…knowing it was Kalani’s friend’s suicide that inspired this and given the environment they were in…I just really felt for her.
Not true. There was an episode in like season 1 or 2 where Holly has a fight with Abby and Nia misses a day of rehearsal. Also in like season 4 or five Holly had another fight with Abby and Nia missed another rehearsal 😂
Everyone is telling stories so here’s mine: My cousin had just died and we were at his funeral. This was the fifth time someone in my family had died in my life and I was over it, I couldn’t take it anymore, I wanted out, I wanted to end it. So I went into the old bathroom in the church and found a piece of broken mirror. Then I stood there bawling holding it close to my chest when a little voice said “why are you crying” I looked back and realized it was my almost two year old cousin. “Stop crying, it’s ok” (she is extremely smart for her age) then she said words that changed my mind, “please don’t go, I love you!” And then I realized that I have her, and my big family that can get through this together.
My story for this is: Kalani is suicidal and depressed. When kalani falls and the other girls catch her, this could represent Kalani attempting to end her life but the other girls keep saving her. At the end, when kalani runs off stage and the phone rings, this could represent kalani successfully committing suicide.
Aurore ! the phone rang bc the suicide hotline or teen hotline finally called (if you don’t know what tenn hotline is its basically people who help others that are suicidal and they call you or you call them) and the girls answer the phone but the teen hotline didn’t make it and so that means there’s no one else to help kalani so she committed suicide
Abby: “I deserve more” *flashback* Abby: *”SHE DESERVES NOTHING! DONT HAVE AN ATTITUDE THAT YOU ARE ENTITLED IN THIS WORD! YOU DESERVE NOTHING ELSE, YOU EARN IT!”*
When I was 13, I was suffering from severe social anxiety which led to a severe depression. I kept on telling myself to hold on a little bit longer, until one night I was just done with it all, locked myself in the bathroom and prepared to end it all. As I was looking at myself in the mirror, it kind of dawned on me that “if I’m really going to go through with this I have to be 200% sure that it’s what I really want to do.” So, I made a list comparing reasons to live and reasons to die. I started thinking of my best friend at the time, how she was bullied and was going through almost the same stuff I was going through, and in that moment I was terrified that if I died that night, then she would follow me. I couldn’t allow that to happen, I couldn’t give my best friend one more reason to die. So, I survived that night. That was seven years ago, and while things didn’t immediately get better, over time i was able to come to terms with all that had happened. I decided a few years later that even though I had survived, I wasn’t happy. I told my mom everything one night after coming home from work, and the next day I went to see my doctor and got a formal diagnosis, medication, and a recommendation to start going to therapy. I think a common misconception about recovering from a mental illness is that it immediately goes away once you start taking “happy pills” ( I hate that term, that’s not what they do at all), going to therapy, and adopting or changing your daily habits. That’s not how it works. Recovering from something like anxiety or depression is a LEARNING process, where you learn how to monitor your mental state, how to respond when things get ugly, what works best for you when you need to break out of an episode, etc. It’s not like taking cough drops or cold medicine, the best way I can describe it is learning to tame a wild animal. It won’t leave you, but you can, with time and patience, learn to live alongside it. You don’t have to be unhappy all the time, you CAN take back control over your life, and happiness IS still possible. I don’t think I can stress that enough, YOU ARE NOT A LOST CAUSE. Regarding this next bit, it’s all coming from someone with a history of suicidal ideation and a mental disorder; I’m someone with experience, I’m not a professional by any means. If you really are thinking about killing yourself, PLEASE tell someone. Tell your best friend, tell your parents, tell someone you trust enough to help you find the help you need. Depression is hard enough on its own, there’s no reason to go through it alone. If you are seriously considering suicide though, the best advice I can give you is this; 1) make a list. Write down every single possible reason you can think of that would make you reconsider suicide as an option. Suicide is permanent, if you succeed there will be no turning back. Most suicides are impulsive decisions, so when you finish your list, go to bed. 2) Sleep on it. Never make a big decision in life without giving yourself plenty of time (and plenty of rest). If it’s not enough to live for yourself, 3) is there anyone in your live worth living for? For me, it was my best friend, who might that be for you? Lastly, if you are still not 200% certain you want to die, set a day. Tell yourself that until that day comes, you will not kill yourself. It can be a week, it can be a month, whatever it takes for you to really, honestly, think it through. Above all else though, please please PLEASE tell someone. Tell them everything. Write it down and read it out loud a few times beforehand if you’re too scared. Healing takes time, but I promise you it is WORTH IT. It’s not some dream or a fantasy, HEALING IS POSSIBLE. I’ve done it, I know several people in my life who have done it, I know so many other people in such worse situations have done it, YOU ARE NOT A LOST CAUSE. Chin up, do what you have to do, and I PROMISE you, it will get better.
true lol. but abby has invested her time working with jojo, for her to just leave because of a duet. (she was supposed to do a duet with kendall but it was ballet so she left 'cause it was "hard")
As someone who struggles with suicidal thoughts I was very skeptical when I saw this video but they did such an amazing job. I got chills and am crying
For anyone who needs to hear it, here you go.: You are amazing, and if you think you’d be better of dead, your so wrong. You are important. You are strong. You are smart. You a re beautiful or handsome, and I hope you get rid of those thoughts, because you matter.
Thank you... I needed that so bad your comment brought me to tears. I know for some people it’s just whatever but you really made my day. Thank you that’s all I can say 💕💖
@@dora_playz10 Kalani was the lead because she could really connected it said in that episode that Kalani lost a friend due to suicide that’s why Abby picked Kalani as the lead
im sorry about ur friend but what does abuse me bc what time ma dad hit me on ma back with a metal pole and i had to be off school and he also calls me names everyday someone tell me is that abuse ???????
It's sad because some people don't get the meaning behind this dance... One of the girls in this dance lost a close family friend to suicide and this was to spread awareness that this is a serious issue, from what I recall. Oh and the ending when they finally pick up the phone, the girl already took her life.
my theory is: so every time the girls in the black caught kalaini it means they were stopping her from committing suicide but when she actually ran off she committed suicide and when the black phons ran they were helping people not commit suicide but when the red phone rang someone actually committed suicide and that was after kalaini ran off so that’s saying she committed suicide!!! that’s just my theory though
Well listen to abby talk in the beginning before they are practicing. She talks about how they are reaching to Kalani and trying to reach out to her, but notice they never touch her until she falls. Adding on to your theory. Her falling is every time she attempts or thinks about it, but when she falls they catch her, they either are able to stop her or it's a failed attempt, then when she runs off they didn't reach her! They couldn't save her this time, she finally did it.
This dance, no matter how many times I watch it, gives me chills and shivers. I tear up and feel myself shivering. Just goes to show how affecting this dance is
I want to take a moment to remember all of those who took their lives, and keep those who were affected and who are struggling now in our thoughts and prayers.
Why can’t they say suicide hotline. They said it only when they announced it. This is a subject that we should face and confront rather then hide away from and pretend like it’s not a thing
It could be because they were asked not to say it as it can be a triggering word for some people. I actually prefer it as just Hotline. I think the more subtle title makes it more powerful.
I watch this dance every time the voices try tear me down because when I see the girls dressed in black saving Kalani it makes me fight off the voices, it’s been a week since I haven’t had to fight them but I still watch this dance because for me it makes me stronger... for anyone out there suffering from anything, I know how you feel and your not alone!♥️ you have some many people who love you and you just don’t know it!!
This dance really touched me even though I never thought of committing suicide but it just makes me think of how other people have thought about it and how they’ve actually committed. If you ever think about doing it please don’t because you have people who care for you even if you think no one does please you were brought into this world for a reason don’t let it go to waste you are a wonderful human being that people love and adore :)
''Unfortunately, we all have to run around like chickens with their heads cut off and redo, revamp, re-block what we did day one, because Jojo with the Bow Bow was a no-no show-show.'' Oml Abby XD
This dance makes me feel so much, I’ve lost 2 friends to suicide and I’ve struggled myself and I really love this song, it brings so much happiness. Even if the show was fake or what not this dance means a lot and this shows how amazing these girls are telling a real message
okay this dance was the best meaningful one i’ve seen as someone whose been in a low point where I took “going away” as my last option multiple times. I’m so lucky to still be here today and cannot be thankful enough. This really hit home for me as this is a very emotional topic. ❤ all you want in this moment is for someone to listen, to know you’re not alone.
Comments: 35%: Talking about “Jojo, with a bow bow, was a no no, show show.” 30%: Jojo not being mature enough 20%: Saying beautiful, kind, messages 10%: Real people’s story’s 5%: Other (Sorry I just really wanted to do this 😅, also thank you so much for the people who wrote those kind messages, and to the people with real stories about themselves, family, or friends, i hope you and/or your love ones know that they matter because everyone matters 💕 also thanks to the people who made me laugh about the “Jojo, with a bow bow, was a no no, show show” 😂💕)
Someone I was really close with committed suicide last year. He was my mums boss so not a tee but I was really close to him. He was like a second dad. He moved a couple hours away and me and my mum was supposed to be driving up to see him and be wasnt at his house and we waited there for like 5 or 6 hours and no answer so we just drove home again. My mum was fuming that she made that journey up there for nothing. Later that week we got a call saying he jumped infront of a train and died. My heart shattered and life will never be the same again without him I love you Craig and can't wait to see you in heaven
This is the only dance that I cry at. They are so talented and it really touches me because I remember when I was going thru something and I really could’ve used someone to talk to and I think this dance portrays that really well. Much love from Michigan❤️
I bet this was Kalani's favorite dance but made her emotional when she relive her past seeing this in the reunion. Definitely the top great group dance.
no because that week she was doing a ballet duet with kendall, atleast thats what the show says. but at the time she signed to go to nickelodeon, so they just needed more drama 🤷♀️
Would you be able to do it its ballet. It gonna be hard doesn't mean you have to trash a kid like who do you think you are for trash talking her, like that is just low, your just jealous cause you aren't like her and if your not I dont care because that is how you are acting like a brat
"I am personally offended and hurt"
Me every time I get homework for the weekend
I deserve better
@XxBlueIceyxX True
Lmaooii
Sydney Brasel it’s 11:49 and I just burst out laughing AT NIGHT because of this
Lizz Brann thanks that’s sweet
Jojo
With the bobo
Was a no no
Show show
-poem by Abby
words of wisdom 🙏
When she said that I was like oooooo😂😎
SILLYNA PRIZE true
I was looking for this comment 😂😂
Abby she is cool
The part where kalani does a walk over then the other girls catch her is my favourite part. I think it really portrays the story. How she was falling, they helped her and where her support and then she could get up again. It honestly gave me chills !!
C-cartwheel?
@@pinkishperidot8043 i meant the walk over
The dance was inspired by an actual suicide: a friend of Kalani's back in Arizona took her own life
@@mysticgirl916 i know, its honestly such a sad dance :(
That part always makes me almost cry lol
can we just appreciate how perfect kendalls timing had to be to pick up the phone exactly that moment
For real. That must’ve taken some serious work in rehearsal
They would’ve done the dance a large amount of times before preforming so she would’ve had a lot of practice
omg yes I was thinking the exact same thing lol! but they must’ve rlly practiced it tho :D
Ikr
who is the singer to this song
I lost my mother to suicide. This dance means so much to me, and the girls looked so beautiful. Thank you, Kalani, Nia, Brynn, and Kendall for putting such hard work into this dance and creating a masterpiece.
I cried watching it and the dead line gave me chills. I feel like it really does speak to people, especially those who've lost. I hope you're doing better, and I hope that your mother is in a better place. You are always worth it!
Aw I’m so sorry. Stay strong💕
Your so brave for sharing this in the comments full of people that you don’t know. I understand how hard it must’ve been for you and how hard it currently is but no matter what, people love you and their there for you :) stay strong 🤞❤️💪
I’m so sorry
I am so sorry
This dance was so meaningful. Props to Lifetime for including the actual teen helpline number at the end of the video; treating it as an important cause instead of just another topic for their reality dramas.
WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT KALANI’S FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
I think she might have hade something terrible happen that this song reminded her of that. That's probably the reason for the facial expressions.
Omg thank you so much I have never got this many likes
limelight 47 yes. The full episode explained it. A dancer from Arizona, that Kalani’s family knew, committed suicide.
@@antisepticeye3184 one of her friends committed suicide:(
I think she meant how good her facial expressions were, like how much her face told the story
“Because Jojo,
with a bow-bow
was a no no
show show.”
*enters in national poetry competition*
*wins national poetry competition*
@@wendylevy8796 goes on to win international poetry competition so she qualifies for the space poetry competition, competes against aliens and finally feels at home 😂
Shakespeare been real quiet since this came out lmao 💀
Funny thing is that's after she got the producer's to get rid of JoJo
@@shanaiyasingh-ali198 loll
3:13 when they nailed that move and abby clapped, i think that was really wholesome.
🥺🥺
I think it really shows that she does love and care about these girls, and really loves their successes
abby really does care for the girls but the producers make her act like a terrible person
The producers are the horrible ones. Abby just wants them to succeed
Yess!! and the way the judge clapped for it too
this should have been a national number...
CHEESY PUFFS Yes this dance is really powerful to me being a 15 year old who has ptsd, anxiety, anger issues and suicidal thought and actions this dance definitely shows the fight that people like us go through.
i thought it was lol...
Suicide hotlines are a thing
This number would have been enough for nationals but I think during this time line a best friend of Kalani committed suicide and that's why they decided to do this dance even though it wasn't nationals
Yep
Teen Lifeline actually saved me 3 years ago.
Thank you Justin, for talking me down that night for 4 hours.😔💕
I am so happy you were talked out of that, I hope you are doing amazing now.
Ishimaru Kiyotaka Thank you. That’s so sweet of you to say. I am doing much better. 💖✨
I’m so happy you’re doing better now! Keep living long and happy :)
You are Worth everything
I do the same for my friends who want to kill themselves I talk to them until ik they're safe or I'm there with them
In my opinion, this was the best group dance they EVER did. I always get emotional when I watch this group dance. Some day I hope that I can work at a suicide hotline and help anyone that needs it just so that they don't feel alone.
this and the waiting room
This and boss ladies
@@ampsquadshorts3711 how is boss ladies emotional..
@@Braxton4596 I think they meant it was just a really good dance not the emotional part but I guess it was Maddie’s and Menzies last dance but that’s not the right emotional
For sure! As well as the Waiting Room
i don't care for this show or the drama on it whatsoever, but that was honestly a beautiful, well done, i m p o r t a n t dance.
DEKUUUUUUUU
@@mackenzie3576 p l u s - u l t r a ✨
Amennnn
AHHH DEKU
*deku* 😍💚💚💚
the amount of chills that I get everytime I watch this is crazy 💀
same. this is a beautiful dance and it has such a powerful message
Same :o
makes me sad and its a great dance...
I k r this is my favorite dance
Should’ve been saved for nationals🤷🏻♀️
@Hannah Nixon I read on some pages that this was fake and they just did it for the show. Not sure if it's tru tho
Llna Jackspidicy those pages are fake it actually happened it says on a lot of places and you can search what her name was i think it was like addy or something.
Jessica Tran it was for Kalanis friend committed suicide
At first I thought this was a Nationals Dance
Hannah Nixon no! Not at all
Nia is a real OG, she comes to every rehearsal, she respects abby and her teammates and she never cries when given a correction!!! QUEEN NIA💖💖
we stan nia
None of the girls cried when they got corrections, they cried about the way Abby said it.
ummm season 5 😂
:>
QUEEN NIA AND HOLLY👑👑👑
When Abby clapped at 3:15 my heart filled with joy
Same.
Ik it was so sweet
Me too!
Danielle Patino I almost cried and it’s abby we’re taking about
M. Eche i know right 😂
I wish kalani had a black dress on showing she was in a bad place and Brynn, Nia, and Kendall had the white dress on showing they are the angels protecting her
I like that idea too💖 but i see the idea behind kalani being white and I think both can work. Like you were saying the white could be the angels helping kalani but maybe they put kalani in white to represent that she's an angel even tho she's going through such dark times. That would be a nice message for people going through depression etc to show they are angels still and not worthless. Sometimes white can also mean they're trying to portray that character as deceased (and I guess she dies at the end in this case)
I see what you're saying but white is also very bright on stage. Think of when it snows, it's super bright out even if it's freezing because the white snow is reflecting the sunlight into your face. So, naturally anyone wearing white will intentionally or not, be the focal point in the dance. In this instance, Kalani was the focal point, so she wore white while the rest wore black with the yellow bows for awareness.
Billie eilish Fan that makes more sense
I think they wanted kalani to stand out
@Katelin Kenton i really liked your theory
“I am personally offended that Jojo isn’t here”
-Abby
"JoJo
with a bow bow
Was a no no
Show show"
-Abby 2016
Lily Chan lmao
jojo
golden wind
chamomile•tea
yOu DeSeRvE nOtHiNg!¡!¡
For once.
i remember watching this a long time ago, and i STILL think nia, brynn, and kendall should’ve worn the white dress (bc they’re basically the angels that help Kalani) and Kalani should’ve worn a black dress because she’s the damaged one, the one who’s hurting
yessssssss
That’s very smart
I think 1. They didnt want to make it seem like the suicidal one (kalani) was damaged or a lost cause, 2. Kalani is the angel because she did end up dying in the dance at the end when she ran away from their help and the phone rang and 2. at a funeral the person who passed is usually wearing nice clothing (sometimes white) and everyone else is wearing black so it made a nice contrast. I think both wouldve worked and that was just my interpretation of it :D
Well have u ever heard that suicidal people are angels trying to get home😔
@@aloeleaf yeah i think thats better ,no offence to everyone else
no one:
abby: *jojo with the bow bow was a nono show show*
cass barker i read this ash she said it lmao
Show
When they picked up the phone at the end it gave me chills
Meghan Huebner what did it mean when they picked up the phone?
Tamiya Plair that she had killed herself
Same
Meghan Huebner SAME! I LITERALLY STARTED SHIVERING
same.. still in awe
“Jojo with the bow bow was a no-no show-show” 😂 I’m done
Ambra Gray that cracked me up 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Same
It was hallariaos😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Abby’s mind is so correct with storyline, choreography, costuming. Everything just sinks in place and it’s sending a beautiful message.
The moment the phone rings always gets me 😭😭
Eleanor Gibson IKR
me too :(
For me it was when the line goes dead
Same
Why does it get you
Abby: This is a very mature subject
Also Abby: Jojo with the bow-bow was a no-no show-show
I died
@@custardtart8214 We all did! 🤣🤣
LMAO
I was reading this and Abby said it
@@Russianspyyyy Wooaah 😂😂
i honestly couldnt see jojo in this dance tho
Ikr same
thank god for the ballet duo
She would too sassy in it
@@aylaaldc3192 ʙᴜᴛ sʜᴇ ɪs ᴀ ɢᴏᴏᴅ ᴅᴀɴᴄᴇʀ ʏ'ᴋɴᴏᴡ
I agree I think it would be a little too serious for her no hate just my opinion.
Hearing Kalani talk about this on the reunion is so heartbreaking tbh…like I honestly always wondered about her in particular after this episode…knowing it was Kalani’s friend’s suicide that inspired this and given the environment they were in…I just really felt for her.
Teen hotline literally saved me from committing suicide.
God bless Alice, who talked to me throughout that long night 💖😭
Meow Meow MLG I’m so happy you’re still here 💖
Im so happy for you. You are worth everything, remember that. You are so special and so many people love and appreciate you.
May I ask how to get in contact with teen hotline, I'm worried about my friend
StarPelt Of TunnelClan 1-800-273-8255 that’s the number to call
you deserve everything
Nia is literally the only person that’s never missed a rehearsal
Kira Lovesanime Right and the only one who stayed the entire seasons but Abby doesn’t care.
Not true. There was an episode in like season 1 or 2 where Holly has a fight with Abby and Nia misses a day of rehearsal. Also in like season 4 or five Holly had another fight with Abby and Nia missed another rehearsal 😂
Hazem Elzien true but still 7 seasons and only 2 missed rehearsals
@@hazemelzien3518 i think there was another episode when she went home early because she was sick. I can't remember if she left or not
She’s literally so under appreciated
*The phone rings*
*They answer*
Jojo on the other aide calling them:”HIIIIII!”
lol 😂
LMAO-
Nice ibuki pfp
I love your pfp
That’s not a joke, people die from this and there’s people like you who think it’s funny to make stupid jokes about to.
3:12 the judge's reaction to Kalani's Penche always gets me
You do realize that that was Abby their dance teacher and she was happy about the lift
@@nclichty no the judge when they zoom out right after the penche before the lift you can see her put her arms up its so funny
Everyone is telling stories so here’s mine:
My cousin had just died and we were at his funeral. This was the fifth time someone in my family had died in my life and I was over it, I couldn’t take it anymore, I wanted out, I wanted to end it. So I went into the old bathroom in the church and found a piece of broken mirror. Then I stood there bawling holding it close to my chest when a little voice said “why are you crying” I looked back and realized it was my almost two year old cousin. “Stop crying, it’s ok” (she is extremely smart for her age) then she said words that changed my mind, “please don’t go, I love you!” And then I realized that I have her, and my big family that can get through this together.
This touched my heart always stay strong you are amazing 🥰
Anna thank you!
ur so beautiful I’m proud of u
Chloe Singer thank you! I’m much better now🤗
OMG that so smart for a 2 year old. I love it ❤
My story for this is:
Kalani is suicidal and depressed. When kalani falls and the other girls catch her, this could represent Kalani attempting to end her life but the other girls keep saving her. At the end, when kalani runs off stage and the phone rings, this could represent kalani successfully committing suicide.
Aurore ! Why does this sound like an English paragraph
Aurore ! the phone rang bc the suicide hotline or teen hotline finally called (if you don’t know what tenn hotline is its basically people who help others that are suicidal and they call you or you call them) and the girls answer the phone but the teen hotline didn’t make it and so that means there’s no one else to help kalani so she committed suicide
Aurore ! Wow thanks for explaning it now i actually get what this is all about!.!
@@mhd111mhd7 no this isnt the correct meaning
heyimgreen than what is
Abby: “I deserve more”
*flashback*
Abby: *”SHE DESERVES NOTHING! DONT HAVE AN ATTITUDE THAT YOU ARE ENTITLED IN THIS WORD! YOU DESERVE NOTHING ELSE, YOU EARN IT!”*
I was think that too 🤣😂🤣😂
Honestly
Omg I literally just commented this
Those words were so exact 😂.
I THOUGHT THAT TOO
3:05 Why is nobody talking about the PERFECT sync! I’m in LOVEEE
this dance hits a little harder then it should
Honestly, sobbing.
lilwlves MEEE
3:16 is no one gonna talk about how cute that was 😊
i know it’s so cute and makes me feel like abby did like the girls and did want the best for them
i was just thinking that lmao
When I was 13, I was suffering from severe social anxiety which led to a severe depression. I kept on telling myself to hold on a little bit longer, until one night I was just done with it all, locked myself in the bathroom and prepared to end it all. As I was looking at myself in the mirror, it kind of dawned on me that “if I’m really going to go through with this I have to be 200% sure that it’s what I really want to do.” So, I made a list comparing reasons to live and reasons to die. I started thinking of my best friend at the time, how she was bullied and was going through almost the same stuff I was going through, and in that moment I was terrified that if I died that night, then she would follow me. I couldn’t allow that to happen, I couldn’t give my best friend one more reason to die. So, I survived that night. That was seven years ago, and while things didn’t immediately get better, over time i was able to come to terms with all that had happened. I decided a few years later that even though I had survived, I wasn’t happy. I told my mom everything one night after coming home from work, and the next day I went to see my doctor and got a formal diagnosis, medication, and a recommendation to start going to therapy. I think a common misconception about recovering from a mental illness is that it immediately goes away once you start taking “happy pills” ( I hate that term, that’s not what they do at all), going to therapy, and adopting or changing your daily habits. That’s not how it works. Recovering from something like anxiety or depression is a LEARNING process, where you learn how to monitor your mental state, how to respond when things get ugly, what works best for you when you need to break out of an episode, etc. It’s not like taking cough drops or cold medicine, the best way I can describe it is learning to tame a wild animal. It won’t leave you, but you can, with time and patience, learn to live alongside it. You don’t have to be unhappy all the time, you CAN take back control over your life, and happiness IS still possible. I don’t think I can stress that enough, YOU ARE NOT A LOST CAUSE.
Regarding this next bit, it’s all coming from someone with a history of suicidal ideation and a mental disorder; I’m someone with experience, I’m not a professional by any means. If you really are thinking about killing yourself, PLEASE tell someone. Tell your best friend, tell your parents, tell someone you trust enough to help you find the help you need. Depression is hard enough on its own, there’s no reason to go through it alone. If you are seriously considering suicide though, the best advice I can give you is this; 1) make a list. Write down every single possible reason you can think of that would make you reconsider suicide as an option. Suicide is permanent, if you succeed there will be no turning back. Most suicides are impulsive decisions, so when you finish your list, go to bed. 2) Sleep on it. Never make a big decision in life without giving yourself plenty of time (and plenty of rest). If it’s not enough to live for yourself, 3) is there anyone in your live worth living for? For me, it was my best friend, who might that be for you? Lastly, if you are still not 200% certain you want to die, set a day. Tell yourself that until that day comes, you will not kill yourself. It can be a week, it can be a month, whatever it takes for you to really, honestly, think it through.
Above all else though, please please PLEASE tell someone. Tell them everything. Write it down and read it out loud a few times beforehand if you’re too scared. Healing takes time, but I promise you it is WORTH IT. It’s not some dream or a fantasy, HEALING IS POSSIBLE. I’ve done it, I know several people in my life who have done it, I know so many other people in such worse situations have done it, YOU ARE NOT A LOST CAUSE. Chin up, do what you have to do, and I PROMISE you, it will get better.
this is all true
awww im gonna cry
Jesus loves you and he’s coming back soon! This is a great testimony!! 🤍
This is so sad, I hope you’re doing well. God bless you ✨
I am so sorry for you. you are so brave to share this with the world. may god bless you and anyone else going through this. 😘😘❤️
This is one of the best dances I think the Aldc has performed. In their history of dancing.
One of the most ICONIC dances of all seasons of dance moms😍😍😭 So powerful and touchy😍😭
Right I cried
i had goosebumps and chills the whole time this dance is so good
Sameee
Mya Falconer omg same 😭😭
Agreed
Abby: I deserve more
Also Abby: YOU DESERVE NOTHING. YOU EARN IT
That's what I thought lol
I WAS JUST THINKING THAT
Hahahah I was laughing at that to!😂
c h e r r y juiceッ ikr I literally saw that scene in my head lol
true lol. but abby has invested her time working with jojo, for her to just leave because of a duet. (she was supposed to do a duet with kendall but it was ballet so she left 'cause it was "hard")
As someone who struggles with suicidal thoughts I was very skeptical when I saw this video but they did such an amazing job. I got chills and am crying
For anyone who needs to hear it, here you go.:
You are amazing, and if you think you’d be better of dead, your so wrong. You are important. You are strong. You are smart. You a re beautiful or handsome, and I hope you get rid of those thoughts, because you matter.
ツMiayhun thank you so much. I needed that
Why don’t you have more likes u are trying to help people also thank u
Thank you... I needed that so bad your comment brought me to tears. I know for some people it’s just whatever but you really made my day. Thank you that’s all I can say 💕💖
If only it were true.
Thank you so much I need to hear this pretty badly right now! Thank you again. 💖
This dance is for kalani's friend who committed suicide
Videos For cool peeps where did you hear that
Wait really
Kermit_is_real _try_me it was in the episode
Emma Hawkins where?
Kamila Polanco uhhh let me find a link where it’s talks about it hold on
Doesn’t anyone think Nia in the white outfit would’ve looked amazing
Omg yes 😆
@@soggycornflake9449 like seriouly it’s always Kalani or anyone else I guess but never Nia and she’s a real OG
@@dora_playz10 Kalani was the lead because she could really connected it said in that episode that Kalani lost a friend due to suicide that’s why Abby picked Kalani as the lead
@@danieladelcidmia1031 ooooo makes sense lol welp ty for telling :3
I think she had the part originally cuz at beginning in rehearsal it was nia who slides of the table
The song they danced to “hold on” is like the best.
Who sings that song
@@awinterberger23 extreme music
When the first ring on the red phone went off, chili’s all the way down
Chills?
Hi welcome to chilis
im sorry about ur friend but what does abuse me bc what time ma dad hit me on ma back with a metal pole and i had to be off school and he also calls me names everyday someone tell me is that abuse ???????
Does the red phone ringing mean that they failed in saving the girl?
@@irisc1883 when they picked up the phone and the line went dead that means the girl committed suicide
It's sad because some people don't get the meaning behind this dance...
One of the girls in this dance lost a close family friend to suicide and this was to spread awareness that this is a serious issue, from what I recall.
Oh and the ending when they finally pick up the phone, the girl already took her life.
DonutPlayz which girl was it who lost a loved one%?
@@briziliyt1725 kalani
DonutPlayz we know
It was kalani's friend right?
it was Kalani's best friend
my theory is:
so every time the girls in the black caught kalaini it means they were stopping her from committing suicide but when she actually ran off she committed suicide and when the black phons ran they were helping people not commit suicide but when the red phone rang someone actually committed suicide and that was after kalaini ran off so that’s saying she committed suicide!!!
that’s just my theory though
@Faith neighbour, I think so too
Well listen to abby talk in the beginning before they are practicing. She talks about how they are reaching to Kalani and trying to reach out to her, but notice they never touch her until she falls. Adding on to your theory. Her falling is every time she attempts or thinks about it, but when she falls they catch her, they either are able to stop her or it's a failed attempt, then when she runs off they didn't reach her! They couldn't save her this time, she finally did it.
that is what happened
well i shouldn’t completely say that, but its what the story is telling so
Faith Neighbour that makes no sense
This dance, no matter how many times I watch it, gives me chills and shivers. I tear up and feel myself shivering. Just goes to show how affecting this dance is
the ringing and when they missed it and the call was already like “dead” with the noises i got the chills. great dance also great choreography!!
"Because JoJo with the Bow-Bow was a no-no show- show." I can't 😂😂
Edit: how on earth did this get so many likes?? Thx haha😂😂
Jo jo is annoying anyway
Omg I loved that!it was Sooooooooooooo funny😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Edit:OMG 16 LIKES!thank you soo much!!
Edit:85 likes😱😱tysmmmm
Elisabeth Kratzert omg same
L
i was gonna comment that
This dance is for kalanis friend she committed suicide! 💔
I didn’t know that
@@kimberlyaangela don’t worry it took me a while to know too 🥺
What how was she not crying 😢
@@itsallison1632 i’m not sure if they were that close she just went to her old studio in arizona x
@@beansontoast1759 do u know her name?
this is one of my favourite dances ever. the concept, the choreography, the costumes, the music. its incredible i get chills every time
You know the drill!
1. Kalani
2. Nia
3. Maddie
4. JoJo
5. Brynn
6. Kendall
7. Mackenzie
8. Vivi-Anne
9. Chloe
0. Asia
Who did you get?😀
Omg Kalani! I love her! I liked a couple mins ago btw
VIVI NOOOO
Maddie
PAIGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Paige
It’s so weird seeing Abby say it was perfect it just doesn’t sound like something she would say.
3:13 that one judge was loving it hahaha
thats not a judge thats abby
h ThePinoyDude no if u look before that there’s a judge
I had to rewatch it but nice catch
I played it over and over again to look at her too haha
Stan Twice for clear skin • 14 years ago no it isn't
I got so many chills multiple times, I can't- this dance is more than just a competition dance. It has such a big impact at least in my eyes.
Honestly JoJo would have messed this for up dance up
The Celebrity Channel that's what other people have said. I do feel like she wouldn't have done well with this dance
True
She would probably be wearing a huge yellow bow and not making the dance look serious.
The Celebrity Channel no she wouldn’t Brynn already messed it up
Mayte Cornejo
explain
Ngl the last part of the dance gave me chills
Loves Pandas sameee
I want to take a moment to remember all of those who took their lives, and keep those who were affected and who are struggling now in our thoughts and prayers.
3:52 I loved how Kendall picked the phone up in exact time
Why can’t they say suicide hotline. They said it only when they announced it. This is a subject that we should face and confront rather then hide away from and pretend like it’s not a thing
It could be because they were asked not to say it as it can be a triggering word for some people. I actually prefer it as just Hotline. I think the more subtle title makes it more powerful.
Rebecca Doak the guy announcing it said it tho but then the rest of the time they said hotline
It’s because there are little children there and people who can find that subject touchy
Rachel Y cause it’s a kid compition
Ella The Dancer but the girl said it when she announced it
AHH IM DYING.. abbys quotes: “beAcAusE joJo wiTh tHe bOw BoW wAs A nO No sHow sHoW
Words of wisdom, truely inspiring
hands down this is one of their best dances on the show
3:11 this part is so cool to watch and you can see the judge excited and waiting for the drop
I watch this dance every time the voices try tear me down because when I see the girls dressed in black saving Kalani it makes me fight off the voices, it’s been a week since I haven’t had to fight them but I still watch this dance because for me it makes me stronger... for anyone out there suffering from anything, I know how you feel and your not alone!♥️ you have some many people who love you and you just don’t know it!!
Im glad you are staying strong and pushing through!
This dance really touched me even though I never thought of committing suicide but it just makes me think of how other people have thought about it and how they’ve actually committed. If you ever think about doing it please don’t because you have people who care for you even if you think no one does please you were brought into this world for a reason don’t let it go to waste you are a wonderful human being that people love and adore :)
Wow. I can't imagine a life without suicidal thoughts. It must be nice
You are so lucky of having no suicide thoughts, I've had slot of suicide thoughts. You are lucky
This touches me because j thought about suicide and I never want to again
''Unfortunately, we all have to run around like chickens with their heads cut off and redo, revamp, re-block what we did day one, because Jojo with the Bow Bow was a no-no show-show.'' Oml Abby XD
LMAO
You people just want likes
Why must you point that out?
This dance makes me feel so much, I’ve lost 2 friends to suicide and I’ve struggled myself and I really love this song, it brings so much happiness. Even if the show was fake or what not this dance means a lot and this shows how amazing these girls are telling a real message
When they caught her and the song said "hold on" i covered my mouth and cried 💖 AMAZING PERFORMANCE
"Because jojo with the bow bow was a no no show show" i genuinely laughed SO HARD LOL
LMAOOOO
I was gonna comment that haha
❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️
U know the drill
1. Kenzie
2. Brynn
3. Maddie
4. Kalani
5. Kendall
6. Chloe
7. Brooke
8. Paige
9. Jojo
0. Nia
Who did u get?
Im kenzie btw yay ; )
❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️
Maddie
Abby
Danique Scheerman also Kenzie
Kalani
Jojo
okay this dance was the best meaningful one i’ve seen as someone whose been in a low point where I took “going away” as my last option multiple times. I’m so lucky to still be here today and cannot be thankful enough. This really hit home for me as this is a very emotional topic. ❤ all you want in this moment is for someone to listen, to know you’re not alone.
U know the drill
1 nia
2 maddie
3 kenzie
4kendall
5 kalani
6 jojo
7 paige
8 chloe
9brooke
0 brynn
Maddie
JoJo Siwa
I'm a Jojo with a bow-bow
Nia
maddie
"Because jojo with the bow bow, was a no no show show" 😂 God I love abby
This personally is my favorite dance ever choreographed on the show and it makes me cry every time I watch it ❤
3000% one if the best Abby Lee Dance Company group dances!!!!
1 Chloe
2 Maddie
3 Kendall
4 jojo
5 Paige
6 Mackenzie
7 nia
8 Brooke
9 kalani
0 Brynn
Ella Kallen I got Maddie
I got paige
I got Chloe
I got Paige!
Makenzie
I never liked dance moms, but this choreography sent a perfect message and I think they did it very well
Finally a dance digest for this dance!🤩
Ya what does digest mean?
Anne van Veen It’s a Small Clip for dance scenes.
Carmela Mule Small Clip for dance scenes.
Jenzie Fam tysm
Carmela Mule You Welcome. 😋
When the call declined it gave me goosebumps
It’s weird to not see the teammates do a little “ritual” before competing now. And they don’t seem as close this season.
It’s because they believe doing that hand shake helps them win
Amber alert, suicide hotline, the waiting room and the last text
They gave me shivers.
Ok but also where have all the children gone
Amber alert and the last text I haven’t seen
And Nia was in all of them
Perosnally Where have all th3 children gone gave me shivers too
Also where have all the children gone and Lizzie Borden
YASSS! I've been waiting for this!! One of my favorite dances they do 😊
Edit: Wow! Thanks for all the likes, I've never gotten this many so quickly 😁
Meghan Cavanagh exactly
Same here!
same bro. same
ikr same!!!!!
Same one of my favs
*phone rings*
Kendall: hello
Jojo: heyyyy! *Jumps out on stage*
Jojo: *sings boomerang*
Comments:
35%: Talking about “Jojo, with a bow bow, was a no no, show show.”
30%: Jojo not being mature enough
20%: Saying beautiful, kind, messages
10%: Real people’s story’s
5%: Other
(Sorry I just really wanted to do this 😅, also thank you so much for the people who wrote those kind messages, and to the people with real stories about themselves, family, or friends, i hope you and/or your love ones know that they matter because everyone matters 💕 also thanks to the people who made me laugh about the “Jojo, with a bow bow, was a no no, show show” 😂💕)
Someone I was really close with committed suicide last year. He was my mums boss so not a tee but I was really close to him. He was like a second dad. He moved a couple hours away and me and my mum was supposed to be driving up to see him and be wasnt at his house and we waited there for like 5 or 6 hours and no answer so we just drove home again. My mum was fuming that she made that journey up there for nothing. Later that week we got a call saying he jumped infront of a train and died. My heart shattered and life will never be the same again without him
I love you Craig and can't wait to see you in heaven
i’m sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for ur loss 🥺💔
3:16 every time my mum takes out dinosaur shaped chicken nuggets
Omgggggggggggg yessssssssss
Karuna K IM DEAD 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Omg I am eating Dino chicken nuggets now🤯
Not a good comment for the topic about suicide
Lol
This was literally the best group dance ever done. Change my mind.
FINALLY SOMEONE WHO AGREES WITH ME ON THIS
Your right
2:18 is when the dance actually starts.
Emma Marie 😊 thanks
This is the only dance that I cry at. They are so talented and it really touches me because I remember when I was going thru something and I really could’ve used someone to talk to and I think this dance portrays that really well. Much love from Michigan❤️
Abby can be a rude person, but this dance is so true and sad...
I bet this was Kalani's favorite dance but made her emotional when she relive her past seeing this in the reunion. Definitely the top great group dance.
Abby: “JoJo with the BowBow was a nono show show”
Jill: nOw mY liTtLe kEnDalL fiTs rIghT iN peRfeCtlY
Thank you so much for all the likes!! ❤️❤️
xD
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You sus
@@kianna422 You sus
She does tho she was great in this dance loll
Abby:This is a mature routine
Jojo: That’s my cue to leave
Of course Jojo drops out bcs she can’t do serious stuff,only childish dances.
Hana Giessler jeez easy on the girl, no one know what was her reason
no because that week she was doing a ballet duet with kendall, atleast thats what the show says. but at the time she signed to go to nickelodeon, so they just needed more drama 🤷♀️
Why would you be so mean to jojo it wasnt the group dance it was the duo with kendall
Jordan world awsome but she still couldn't do it, sooooooo 😶
Would you be able to do it its ballet. It gonna be hard doesn't mean you have to trash a kid like who do you think you are for trash talking her, like that is just low, your just jealous cause you aren't like her and if your not I dont care because that is how you are acting like a brat