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  • @bumploveug
    @bumploveug  4 місяці тому +18

    What is life without our closest friends? A friend is someone to understand you, keep you company, and make you laugh. Sometimes your friendships become so close that they are more like family.
    QN: Do you think dinner with a platonic friend is disrespectful to your partner?
    What are the boundaries?
    Sound off in the comments below Bump Lovers.
    Follow the conversation on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter @bumploveug
    Thank you to our partners for making this episode possible
    Video credits:
    VIDEOGRAPHY & EDITING: Garage Group
    MANUELA'S GLAM;
    Wardrobe: Cadia Fashion House
    Make up: Tina Brows
    Hair: Zuri Uganda
    BARBARA'S GLAM;
    Wardrobe: Arija Fashions
    Jewellery: The SN Store
    Hair: Zuri Uganda
    Make up: The Sununu Effect
    BEVERLEY'S GLAM;
    Jewellery: The SN Store
    Wardrobe: Arija Fashions

    • @namirembesylvia2465
      @namirembesylvia2465 4 місяці тому +3

      According to past experiences 😂😂opposite relationships don't last longer because most cases one party has feelings for another. Most especially the male version has feelings then the female side decides to convert the relationship into friendships. But in marriage I strongly disagree with bestie relationships.

    • @nsubuganaziru361
      @nsubuganaziru361 4 місяці тому +1

      Me too 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jora002
      @jora002 11 днів тому

      Just watching this one while I wait around for today. It's Friday. The cars described are all big.... Represents your minds ladies, powerful...

  • @jmercyaturindakarungi247
    @jmercyaturindakarungi247 4 місяці тому +78

    Not me letting the Ad run because the Mulondo’s warned us prior! Anything to help support😝😊

    • @brendahnabakka7644
      @brendahnabakka7644 4 місяці тому +2

      Your not alone my dear . Thank you for being a great fun 🎉🎉🎉

    • @bettyapio5531
      @bettyapio5531 4 місяці тому +3

      Me too
      Anti batuyiseemu egaal😅😂😂

    • @nassuunaagnes4476
      @nassuunaagnes4476 4 місяці тому +1

      Hahaha, me too

    • @namiirojose6824
      @namiirojose6824 4 місяці тому

      ​@@nassuunaagnes4476We have obliged properly

    • @tessa_vahn_
      @tessa_vahn_ 4 місяці тому +1

      Right!!!!!

  • @magdalenadok3411
    @magdalenadok3411 4 місяці тому +49

    Listening to Bump Love in this salon, and everyone is asking who is that lady(Beverly) speaking.. she speaks so well

    • @levinnabisubi8171
      @levinnabisubi8171 4 місяці тому +4

      I get this all the time I'm listening to Bump love. People are always like hoooo, wuliila omumerica

    • @faithamong2389
      @faithamong2389 4 місяці тому

      She is clam like Angie

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому +4

      That is kind of you to share. Thank you.

    • @aurahkirabo
      @aurahkirabo 4 місяці тому

      @@faithamong2389huh 😅

  • @sonnet_artist1
    @sonnet_artist1 4 місяці тому +37

    BEVERLY, you have outdone yourself this episode🥂😅

  • @JENNIFERAOKECH
    @JENNIFERAOKECH 4 місяці тому +10

    - Stop it before it starts
    - Setting boundaries
    - Taking it to the Lord in prayer
    - Prayer partner
    - Introducing your spouse and children to your workmates
    - Sixth sense
    Etc...
    Lots of lesssons, my mental notebook has been blessed by the long list of useful tips.
    Thank you Bev, Barbara and Manuella.

  • @carolineg.3276
    @carolineg.3276 4 місяці тому +19

    Dear Manuela i sincerely admire you and understand your Brain and your spiritual understanding, for this you earn a subscriber😊

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo 4 місяці тому +3

      Oh thank you

    • @vivianeve2416
      @vivianeve2416 День тому

      ​@manuelap.mulondo I just love how pretty 😍 you are and your laugh.

  • @peruthmwenkanya2508
    @peruthmwenkanya2508 4 місяці тому +11

    I loved this episode🥰. Thank you ladies for enlightening us on platonic relationships. Setting boundaries is key. Personally i don't know how to be 'really close' with the opposite sex. My husband is the only close male friend i have.

  • @mabzm9363
    @mabzm9363 4 місяці тому +6

    I had quite a few platonic very close male friends . Having been in a mixed school and also done science courses at uni dominated by men. That was it for me. When I got married i had to re evaluate... Esp since they started to get married and prioritise their spouses. I just did the same . So i find now that am closer to the women friends and open to making more female friends

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 4 місяці тому +11

    I'm 💯 with Barbara because I also have a number of good male friends,, it's very okay as long as we exercise boundaries

  • @mabzm9363
    @mabzm9363 4 місяці тому +30

    What i like about bump love 2.0 hosts is that your foundational value system is the same -God

    • @faithamong2389
      @faithamong2389 4 місяці тому

      Very true

    • @JK-nn3ct
      @JK-nn3ct 4 місяці тому +2

      Indeed. I struggled with understanding Pumla's lifestyle in the past.

    • @Flourish_today
      @Flourish_today 4 місяці тому +7

      ​@@JK-nn3ctplease don't go there. Pumla is who she is. Let's not start gossiping here.

    • @JK-nn3ct
      @JK-nn3ct 4 місяці тому

      ​@@Flourish_todayI'm sorry

    • @Patricia53545
      @Patricia53545 4 місяці тому

      ​@@JK-nn3ct i understood Pumla 100% and miss her vibe, type and reasoning

  • @charlottemercy6526
    @charlottemercy6526 4 місяці тому +6

    Bev, thank you for explaining how a platonic relationship should work👏👏

  • @twakiireprim8562
    @twakiireprim8562 4 місяці тому +12

    I saw a Jeep Wrangler yesterday oh my God I almost fainted.....I love Big men cars...God I thank you because very soon am owning it

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo 4 місяці тому +1

      Bwahahahahahahahaha you should have called me so that we faint together

    • @zaburahzaburahh1784
      @zaburahzaburahh1784 4 місяці тому

      😂😂🎉🎉​@@manuelap.mulondo

  • @evelynkabahuma7035
    @evelynkabahuma7035 4 місяці тому +6

    Ladies! This was a very insightful and mature conversation, I really loved it! I love the emphasis on the importance of boundaries in male female friendships and the discussion on the power of prayer. Loving Bump Love 2.0! ❤❤❤

  • @kukundaphobes9084
    @kukundaphobes9084 4 місяці тому +8

    Ladies you look amazing, now let me listen.

  • @susannaddamba2028
    @susannaddamba2028 4 місяці тому +4

    One of my best shows so far on bump love 2.0 Thank you so.much ladies, keep it up!!!

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 4 місяці тому +6

    Beverly, very well spoken about this, I agree

  • @maryamony7039
    @maryamony7039 4 місяці тому +4

    I was previously soooo attached to Bump Love 1.0 but Ladies, I am falling in love with the 3 of you /& your minds with every episode 💝 Plus, the outfits are 🔥

  • @Asha_Ashemeza
    @Asha_Ashemeza 4 місяці тому +27

    We need a story time with Barbara

    • @najunaevelyne674
      @najunaevelyne674 4 місяці тому +3

      yes yes, getting to know her more, i had something like her 2nd wedding🥰

    • @Asha_Ashemeza
      @Asha_Ashemeza 4 місяці тому

      @@najunaevelyne674 yassss

    • @Pauline_Dorys
      @Pauline_Dorys 4 місяці тому +3

      Had same feeling, we need story time with her.

    • @BeckyNaturinda
      @BeckyNaturinda 4 місяці тому +1

      True

    • @angellaayebale
      @angellaayebale 4 місяці тому

      100% in agreement... I wish she could tell us about her first marriage...

  • @sashamoureen9598
    @sashamoureen9598 4 місяці тому +3

    Banange kasukali keko, mutumbize sound. I really really love this, the Lord bless you ladies for such insights and increase more and more in Jesus name.
    Banange prayer has never failed and i mean a genuine one, being vulnerable with your Lord.

  • @thechristianperspective
    @thechristianperspective 4 місяці тому +27

    Manuella your shoes are very nice.

  • @marthamasiko8862
    @marthamasiko8862 4 місяці тому +8

    Beverly🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ How do I take this episode to the billboards?
    Thank you! As a people,
    Let’s bring back boundaries!
    #bestiesmustgo/resign😂

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому +1

      So glad you were able to gain from this.

  • @takanjane7527
    @takanjane7527 4 місяці тому +5

    this is the true definition of ebinyuma bigwa byokya, loved it, thanks ladies

  • @nalubugaketra
    @nalubugaketra 4 місяці тому +5

    This episode is specifically for me, oh my good Lord.Ladies you’re literally talking to me.. thank you so much for this..

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko1457 4 місяці тому +3

    Nice conversation as always.
    Keep them flowing

  • @mirembegracejuliet1387
    @mirembegracejuliet1387 4 місяці тому +4

    Revelation is really BEAUTIFUL i agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I will forever uphold it.

  • @fauseasons878
    @fauseasons878 4 місяці тому +3

    Am a believer and very prayerfull. But i have learned alot from Manuela about God. I feel like i learn new styles of praying from this lady everytime i watch her.
    God bless you ladies 🙏

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo 4 місяці тому +1

      I have wonderful spiritual leaders and teachers...... they have so much wisdom

    • @namubirujoan2015
      @namubirujoan2015 4 місяці тому

      Very true!!

  • @mukizabonas8967
    @mukizabonas8967 4 місяці тому +4

    I didn't know God reveals until recently when I became intentional with fasting and prayer. Well done ladies. You look beautiful

  • @bryanotieno7106
    @bryanotieno7106 4 місяці тому +2

    Yes, so long as there are healthy boundaries which both parties can implement

  • @barbaramuwonge1628
    @barbaramuwonge1628 4 місяці тому +2

    Barbara has such an amazing voice😊 so calm, collected and emphatic. Good job ladies, welcome BL2.0

  • @yangbyannetnamayengo5816
    @yangbyannetnamayengo5816 4 місяці тому +1

    You ladies are such great story tellers..Love love love how your different personalities come in sync on the show❤

  • @GMpiece
    @GMpiece 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you ladies this was informative….. and I did not skip the ads Banange♥️ love you

  • @charlottemercy6526
    @charlottemercy6526 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Barbara for hosting the show and the reminder to be guided 👏👏

  • @ireneamong3179
    @ireneamong3179 4 місяці тому +2

    We are waiting for a live show ladies. Version 2.0, I was not ready!!!!🤗 and the first cast was great in their season❤

  • @imacayebazibwe
    @imacayebazibwe 4 місяці тому +7

    I used to have male friends and had boundaries, but men will be men. They always want to peep and see 😊

  • @atuheirediana110
    @atuheirediana110 4 місяці тому +6

    Babra and Manuela....youvare so smart. I want your dresses 😢. Share the plug

  • @patiencekingb1342
    @patiencekingb1342 2 місяці тому

    Thank you Manuela and your Team. The content is not just deep but totally relational and relevant today. God bless your every endeavour with bountiful harvests. The G Wagon will be the very least you'll own. I love you Beautiful People ❤❤

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you ladies, this was very informative but also entertaining. I enjoyed the conversations.❤

  • @JENNIFERAOKECH
    @JENNIFERAOKECH 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Bev, Barbara and Manuela, I'm not yet married, taking notes, bless you ladies.

  • @helenbwesigye6075
    @helenbwesigye6075 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks for the show ladies!
    My husband believes that if my guy friend has a wife, it's a plus if I try and befriend her also and vice versa. I believe platonic relationships are possible and OK with the opposite sex with clear boundaries.

  • @easykessy1913
    @easykessy1913 4 місяці тому +2

    Beverly you are smart.and so are the other ladies.❤
    And again ladies u out did yourselves 🎉🎉

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому

      We are blessed with good fashion partners. Thank you

  • @tuyishimesifa91
    @tuyishimesifa91 4 місяці тому +5

    Much love from Rwanda❤

  • @anonnona6433
    @anonnona6433 4 місяці тому +21

    Imagine a male prayer partner, you start crying, he gives you a tight warm hug, ba dear, let's be guided 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Like Bev said, there is nothing more powerful than a spiritual connection 😂. Meanwhile nga your spouse doesn't know the Lord's prayer 🤭

    • @yudayakaveri2357
      @yudayakaveri2357 4 місяці тому

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @komuhimbojackline73
      @komuhimbojackline73 4 місяці тому

      😂😂lol

    • @julietkutegeka1513
      @julietkutegeka1513 4 місяці тому

      Then teach your husband to pray and let your fruits lead him to the Lord

    • @cnamagulu
      @cnamagulu 4 місяці тому

      😂😂😂

    • @lyngava2432
      @lyngava2432 4 місяці тому

      Mbu your spouse doesn't know the Lord's prayer 😂😂😂😂.
      The irony 😂

  • @johnbaptist3993
    @johnbaptist3993 4 місяці тому +4

    I feel like this is the episode when bumb love 2.0 finally took shape, the new team seems more at home and I like the fact that Manuela is letting the new team lead. This episode was excellently delivered. Well done

  • @ayebazibwebabra5368
    @ayebazibwebabra5368 4 місяці тому

    Thank you ladies for this episode...I have learnt to seek God more for the relationships that are not so clear

  • @victoriaamanya7396
    @victoriaamanya7396 4 місяці тому +2

    thank you ladies for this... you almost sounded prophetic ❤

  • @mildrednakaayi
    @mildrednakaayi 4 місяці тому +2

    I am loving bump love 2.0❤❤
    Thank you ladies ❤

  • @ShineProssy
    @ShineProssy 4 місяці тому +2

    It's that time of the week 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉.thank you ladies 🤩 Friday is always an awesome day

  • @kesandeemily3208
    @kesandeemily3208 4 місяці тому +2

    Thx so much ladies. This was very educative and interesting at the same time.

  • @thoughtsofgertrude8163
    @thoughtsofgertrude8163 3 місяці тому

    Dinner with a platonic friend is okay only if your and their partner knows.
    The whole conversation was insightful.
    Boundary
    It should be during daytime unless it's a work dinner where all your other workmates will be there.
    As someone who studied O'level in a mixed school and A'level in a single school.
    I noticed that the more you are in a mixed school environment the less boundaries you will set (what I've observed). I only learnt how to set boundaries because I was in a single school.

  • @aggyakuamoah8767
    @aggyakuamoah8767 4 місяці тому +4

    1 second in and I am loving Bev's look today. 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you so much

  • @softskills9228
    @softskills9228 4 місяці тому +7

    You dressed well ladies 👍🥰

  • @babyline595
    @babyline595 4 місяці тому +3

    Love to this our new bump love team ❤❤❤

  • @marynayebare8101
    @marynayebare8101 4 місяці тому +3

    waooo, the spirituality side was insightful
    God bless you so much

  • @DearDora
    @DearDora 4 місяці тому +2

    I noticed they are normal if both of you can explain what holds the friendship. If it’s just vibes n availability, its risky. I remember my high school friends we connected over academics lasted and those of vibes failed as they later crossed boundaries.
    Now I have male friends about content creation, family ties and work.
    ❤️

  • @quintargenga9896
    @quintargenga9896 4 місяці тому +2

    Sending love from Nairobi. I have been watching this channel for about 2 years now and it is quite interesting. The new co hosts are amazing.....however, we need a *Pumla point of view* on the panel to represent the more liberal women perspective.

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 4 місяці тому +4

    My dream car of all time is the Phantom Rolls Royce, class and elegance with a touch of power!!! Let's not talk about it's interior and software 💰💰💰👌

  • @NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520
    @NotAnathaMotvationalSpeaka7520 4 місяці тому +1

    From everything I have heard, I concluded Barbara has very strong boundaries. She has a great sense of self worth and self control which feeds into her relationships. I would like to hear more about where that comes from. It will help many ladies navigate relationships with the opposite sex.

    • @kainebooch
      @kainebooch 4 місяці тому

      Barbra is so calm and composed……love her insight too

  • @kulabd8629
    @kulabd8629 4 місяці тому +2

    Barbra has such a beautiful voice.

  • @donjb6829
    @donjb6829 3 місяці тому

    In today's episode, I was impressed by Barbra's detailed description of the VW Touareg and her great leadership of the show. Overall, the episode was very insightful. However, I do believe that maintaining some distance in opposite-sex friendships is important, as getting too close can lead to disasters.

  • @charlottemercy6526
    @charlottemercy6526 4 місяці тому +2

    I am so glad i share the same dream car with Manuela .. Mercedes G-wagon..

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo 4 місяці тому

      All G- wagon lovers, let's get together even 😅🤣😂

  • @ShineProssy
    @ShineProssy 4 місяці тому +2

    Wow indeed let's be guided...

  • @nassalisarah4993
    @nassalisarah4993 4 місяці тому +3

    I love you ladies.Continue the good work

  • @margretmugaba7992
    @margretmugaba7992 4 місяці тому +2

    I love Beverly's submissions.

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому

      Appreciate that you watch!

  • @nabwiremarypatience305
    @nabwiremarypatience305 3 місяці тому

    Beverly, you look so beautiful and you speak so beautifully and eloquently as well.

  • @IsaacBua
    @IsaacBua 4 місяці тому +1

    Manuella your 100% right on calling upon the ring.

  • @JovesHoward
    @JovesHoward 4 місяці тому +1

    Uganda needs Bump Love

  • @nabwamicatherine9574
    @nabwamicatherine9574 4 місяці тому +2

    Thanks so much ladies for the show.

  • @mpanjajamilah7277
    @mpanjajamilah7277 4 місяці тому +2

    love you distinguished ladies

  • @sarahnanyonga4500
    @sarahnanyonga4500 4 місяці тому +1

    Agree 100% with Beverly in this topic. Thank you ladies, very fruitful and realistic conversation

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому

      Appreciate you watching.

  • @masikaritah4416
    @masikaritah4416 3 місяці тому

    Beverly that was nice you made this my best episode so far❤❤

  • @zaburahzaburahh1784
    @zaburahzaburahh1784 4 місяці тому +1

    I don't find it ok to have amale best but we just find ourselves there because in this world we really need each other in one way all another

  • @annetkajumba4621
    @annetkajumba4621 2 дні тому

    Watching from California, I love the introduction

  • @baramassarah5094
    @baramassarah5094 4 місяці тому +1

    Such a Beautiful show. I enjoyed it❤

  • @aidakayaga7285
    @aidakayaga7285 4 місяці тому +1

    At work but can't wait still to finish the episoode,I have to finish this. Thanks ladies and may God bless you all. My mummy Manuela is so stunning,Barbie and Bev are also looking great.

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo 4 місяці тому +1

      I need to post the mummy video here 😅🤣😂😅🤣😂

    • @aidakayaga7285
      @aidakayaga7285 4 місяці тому

      @manuelap.mulondo I heard you right dear,not anymore mummy. Thanks for teaching us,that's the reason we just can't call you by your name,we honour you,you are impacting and changing our lives greatly. Naye from today no more.

  • @namubirujoan2015
    @namubirujoan2015 4 місяці тому

    Wow wow, every episode since bump love 2.0 started has really touched my life in very different ways. Thanks thanks!! Concerning prayer partners🤔Even Jesus had only male disciples, let’s be guided

  • @Aeditta
    @Aeditta 4 місяці тому

    Manuela this dress on you - the shade , very rich , add to your color palette ❤

  • @esther7975
    @esther7975 4 місяці тому +2

    I love the God in you ladies! So so much 💞

  • @nassuunaagnes4476
    @nassuunaagnes4476 4 місяці тому +2

    Enjoyed the episode. Thankyou Ladies

  • @jacquebangirana
    @jacquebangirana 4 місяці тому

    This episode was fire.....loved it 👌🏾!

  • @AturoRebecca
    @AturoRebecca 4 місяці тому +1

    This was amazing thank you ladies, have learnt alot

  • @atutakashop
    @atutakashop 4 місяці тому +2

    My lesson tonight; Have boundaries

  • @AkulloMercyObot
    @AkulloMercyObot 4 місяці тому +1

    Looking lovely Ladies, thank you all for the eye opening conversation ❤

  • @effect9180
    @effect9180 4 місяці тому +1

    Lets watch all ads to support our people

  • @salval1452
    @salval1452 4 місяці тому +2

    You make my Fridays better

  • @brendadawa4165
    @brendadawa4165 4 місяці тому +3

    Wow Bev I love the trick of involving your wife in your problems. Thanks Bump love 2.0

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому

      Anything to avert disaster. 😊

  • @musiimentarosemary2851
    @musiimentarosemary2851 4 місяці тому +2

    Bev sums it all....❤❤❤thank you ladies ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @RachelKing-rh4kh
    @RachelKing-rh4kh 4 місяці тому +1

    Best bump love episode ever

  • @rutheglance9673
    @rutheglance9673 4 місяці тому +3

    Manuela ‘s shoe❤❤❤

  • @BlessedLoved-t1y
    @BlessedLoved-t1y 4 місяці тому

    Well done ladies setting boundaries is very crucial 👏 I have seen the power of a prayer 🙏. Thx Emmanuela for sharing such testimonies

  • @thechristianperspective
    @thechristianperspective 4 місяці тому +1

    Manuella the prophetic thing is both sides, same with men, once they speak to the Holy Spirit the women trust them amd obey easily. Its very sweet

  • @SalesTeam1-rc9pp
    @SalesTeam1-rc9pp 4 місяці тому +5

    Mwaami mulondo ndowooza owulidde 😂😂 tuyiise akaabo obaa njasamile mulii onamalako ne dream car

    • @manuelap.mulondo
      @manuelap.mulondo 4 місяці тому +5

      Bwahahahahahahahaha, he can do all things through Christ who strengthens him

  • @PhionaNabude
    @PhionaNabude 4 місяці тому +1

    Prayer is intimacy ❤

  • @KevinAtukunda
    @KevinAtukunda 4 місяці тому

    These ladies jave really caught up the bump love game

  • @kembabazidoreen9927
    @kembabazidoreen9927 4 місяці тому +4

    Today it's been hot, I have learnt alot

  • @mabaladouglas
    @mabaladouglas 4 місяці тому

    I really enjoy your sessions. though not common as i heard noises in the background. thank you for impacting lives. i love your accent Bev😊

  • @marietabingatati5914
    @marietabingatati5914 4 місяці тому +2

    Bev rocking the fro ❤

    • @Nambozobev
      @Nambozobev 4 місяці тому

      Many thanks. Afros rock

  • @ikuretpatience6782
    @ikuretpatience6782 4 місяці тому +1

    Knowing the boundaries exist but we set them and break them because that company by itself is good and slowly you can slip into it. It's not possible to have a platonic relationship. Even when you ask the men they will tell you.

  • @ImmyNamwabira
    @ImmyNamwabira 4 місяці тому +1

    So much Wisdom Ladies ❤

  • @annetmugisha1602
    @annetmugisha1602 4 місяці тому +1

    Best of you guys so far ❤

  • @achiengdoreen9361
    @achiengdoreen9361 4 місяці тому

    Thanks for the educative message. I am really blessed with this information ❤❤❤❤❤