GIRL TALK: Female Friendships| Red Flags, Jealousy, Competition?
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- Опубліковано 6 кві 2023
- Female friendships are said to be more dependent on face-to-face contact, are more emotional, including the sharing of thoughts and feelings, and include more support.
How long is your longest female friendship?
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Pumla has a calling she impacts so much knowledge she needs a tv show or a podcast. This knowledge needs to be shared
Aaaaaaawwww thank you. We are all on a learning journey. We know better now so we truly must do better. Thanks Ninsiima. P
For sure she needs to think about it
You need to meet her, I meet her at my work place this girl is a vibe I can stay with her the all day pumla is on another level ❤❤
Well said
better said.
I like Manuella being vulnerable and accepting to be that “ bad friend” It takes growth and maturity because most of us find this difficult!! This made me go back and find out where i was the bad friend , apologize and move on!! Thank you ladies
Hahaha, Pumla's conversations are both intense, insightful, and funny. I hear you in your bad marriages 💑
You know
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ We really do need to have a deep look into ourselves and admit when we are wrong
@@manuelap.mulondo indeed...you are right
The Manuela then is so me now..and sociophobic too
Uganda has a gem in Pumla. I can listen to her all day long .Love her all the way from Kenya .
Love right back at you Kate. P
Me too 😊
How I admire Rossett's ability to LISTEN. Talking is great, but listening is a superpower.
Ohhh 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thx
Didn’t know it was a superpower. Comes naturally to me but with the many pple av interfaced and worked with..! It’s a thing many don’t have..
Yes Rossetti you are such a great listener that's is one of the reasons you close are to manuella because she talks and you listen. Its a superpower gal love u babe gal.
Kajambo omwana weeka...that is a well spoken virtue about you.Thank God for u r a strong n powerful woman of God.
Pumla, this skill and gift you have is something that needs to go beyond bump love. Girls schools, uni students need this education. Women events, etc. I feel like I have learned so much from Pumlas' friendship conversation.
Thank you Flourish. I believe that if I had had these conversations earlier, I'd be better for it. So I do agree. We need to reach out to younger people and teach these lessons. P
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Let her start with Seeta high school's 😂😂😂l am being selfish 😅😅😅
@@janewerikhe9528 hahaahaaa! I would obviously start with the high school that nurtured me 😂. Then right after - Seeta High. P
Nabachwa mugezi nyo. She is extremely smart and confident. Nabachwa your flowers are here🥂
Unlike what most women will say , with my most closest friendship that I vividly remember, I was the problem😂and I know she was relieved for it to end but it brought me to a confrontation of myself and God has been teaching me to better friend.
"....to be a better friend." Well done honey. I'm sure this has been each of us at certain points. Just that we never say. P
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🎉 that says a lot about you. You self reflected and wanted to change! Good on you
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I love how Rosette can jazz. You feel like she talking to you direct. I love it girl.👏👏
Lol😄 Thx
She sounds like a saint
Its rosettes vibes for me!!
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Am a UA-camr myself and would never be caught posting a video this long, cause I worry who would watch!
But 3mins in I pulled up a chair and was hooked. Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerabilities and experiences as well as the insightful conversation. Truthfully, it has given me a lot to reflect on in my relationships. Heart to each of you ladies! ❤❤❤❤❤
Hello UA-camr. What's your channel? P
I actually catch my self several times looking for the longest bump love video😂😂
@Pumla Nabachwa Hhhhiiiii Pumla, oh my Ggggggooooddddd, major fun girling right now!!! 😃😃💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙊🤣, by the way we are namesakes >>Nabachwa i swear am not just tying 😁😁.
Oh oh Channel name is JAZEERA KALANDA
@mujurizi ronah I totally see why now. Very wise ladies with an entertaining yet educational conversation. It's hard not to want 5mins more 😅
Am thinking you one of the Kalandas went two of your sisters to school and you to as well..Subscribing to your channel
There's no single episode that can be underrated. You guys are so full of inspiration. Thank you alot and more. Mind you each episode hits differently. May you guys NEVER run out of what to present. Ameen.
Bravo ladies. This was emotional. I love Angie's composure. She speaks with lots of warmth in her voice.
Angie is very well spoken, a gentle soul and very interesting to listen to. So clued on and verrry refined...well composed too ❤
I believe if friendships don’t work, especially when you have tried to make it work, let that friendship go
Thank you
I can tirelessly watch pumpa speak for a full day. But thanks ladies for the tremendous work, it's really impactful to many lives
Thanks for being here Nampala
Wabula Bump Love Ladies have groomed me for true purpose 🙏🏽
Nsiima nyo ❤ this episode is life changing 🙌🏽
My girlfriends must watch this episode. I am so lucky I still have my friends from childhood in my life.I have known them since nursery school, others since high school. Like Angie said, I honestly don't have the energy to make new friends. It's a lot of unnecessary work that I'd rather add to my close circle to make it better. Our kids are now friends and I keep telling them if Baraka ever vibes any of their girls I will not support it because it feels like we're now sisters. And some of our parents are close.Like Pumla said, I mastered the art of separating my circles. Wabula BumpLove, wemuligwa wendigwa. I love you ladies.
I have had good friendships for over 20 years since high school and I have seen us evolve. There is so much love and fulfillment in good female friendships.
Good for you 👏
What a lovely, lovely episode!!!... Am a guy & still can't believe it that I have so far watched it twice already. I plan to re-watch it again & again over time. The maturity & deepness of your discussions is quite high and, yet entertaining too. Personally, this is the best talk show out there. Thank you so much beautiful ladies!!!... You truly make us, as a country Uganda very, very proud. ❤️ & hearty greetings to you all from Dubai, U.A.E. Blessings! 🐿️🍃🌨️
These conversations are so enriching, we thank God for the gift that bump love is to us. Love it here!
I’m in love with Angie’s voice. It’s echoed & healing ❤
Sooooo true, lovely voice...I also like it when she speaks luganda
Pumla is me literally . I love how much she values her friendships. And challenges gender norms /narratives and constructs
Love that you're here ❤. P
This was my favorite episode because you realise some friendships really hurt alot and nomatter how much time passes and how much you try to un-do the mistake/heal it just is never the same again and some are a relief just like rachael said. But i felt each and everyones emotions in this episode. Great job ladies
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It's so kind of Pumla to respond to people's comments. Love u miss P. Wonderful episode ladies
Heheheee! I truly love engaging with Bump Lovers. I don't want to leave them talking to themselves 😅. P
I don't what Agiee to stop talking the way she looks and sounds so sweet when she talks . Love you girl
I love rosettes friendship with manuela see how she chips in to make Manuela feel great about herself priceless!!!!!
We sure rise by lifting others.. Oyo we’ve come from far 😅
Because Rosette is Manuela's friend, I buy Newman's products. 😊😄
Awwwwww ❤❤❤❤ see why I love her?
Ever since you started these long episodes i love them have never missed one, we get the full package...continue building the foundations
I enjoyed the show and didn't want it to end. Thanks ladies. You're the best!
I love love love bump love! Thank you ladies! I always look forward to the episodes every Friday! I watched you diligently as a newly wed and while I waited on my baby and now as a new mom ! Every mum woman lady has something to learn! You have taught me so much! THANK YOU!
I love Pumla, she's such a big sister, please keep sharing your knowledge with us! I love it.
Big sister ❤. P
I loooooove the whole conversation from all the ladies and I loved every bit plus I needed it at this moment . Thank you dear ladies and God Bless you ❤
Money has separated me from friends, who love taking advantage of my generosity too, hypocrisy and snitches.
Money is one of the biggest breakers of friendships
Oh my! This is powerful! One thing I have realized is, no matter how much you do for some people, if they want to be irrational about something, they will be!
I totally agree with the point of categorizing friendships, it is liberating. Thank you ladies.
Female friendships are so empowering. Thank you so much Ladies❤️
Wow.. you guys are killing it.. every Friday I wait for your episodes and am never disappointed.. thanks so much for this is information and I'll surely do better in my friendships ❤
Sometimes I even imagine myself contributing on this show because of how much I can relate and also just want to chip in. Its just amazing how much I have learnt from this channel and am definitely so grateful for every episode.🙏🙏🙏
you are not alone, but its a very beautiful program about reality of what happens to us
Same here...
Pumula thax for answering my questions,am relieved,I luv u all
Talking about “love-bombing”; it’s so rampant in female relationships, so many uncomfortable conversations need to be had if you want a real sisterhood. Not so much just “sweetie”, “sis”, etc just like in love relationships. Same thing. Bless🙏🏽
Thank you Bump Love. This conversation has prompted me to be intentional with my friendships and set our expectations.
Rossetti's friend was very controlling and possessive. And emotionally, she was also an indirect Bully who thought that "she, was helping a less privileged Rosette" which is why she was shocked that her "Prey" could drive unexpectedly. Shocking!
Mrs. Mwiine, I relate with you 150%....in other news @bumplove, this topic came through at the right time. I needed this 🎉🎉..
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Thank you so much for this episode! Thank you for your vulnerability, so much to relate to and a lot of wisdom gained!
Finally 🎉
I have been on waiting,lol😅
Let me get my dose for the day now
Thank you bump love for the educative conversations you always share with us❤
Thank you, there's enough space for all of us at the top to thrive💞
Thank God for these conversations...when its about walking on eggshells, and there are gaslighting tendencies in female friendships run!! I am glad that as I have grown older, I have learnt to pick out toxic traits in friendships, and my circle has grown smaller, with the few friends now we build each other up, we cry together, we celebrate each other we pray together...we are meant to build each other up not the opposite❤
Thanks #BumpLove Thanks ladies for sharing these conversations
We are meant to build each other. You go girl! P
I love the fact that episodes are now longer kudoz to us bump lovers 🥰
Wow wow wow this episode. Had to evaluate my femal friendships this year after university due to gossip being the biggest factor and I had lost hope but this conversation restored it. I have been challenged to be a better friend as well as encouraged that good friendshipa can be found built and maintained. Thank you ladies.
Oh my God ladies I don't know how many nails you've hit today. This is one for watching over and over. I always say once one understands times and Seasons in their lives and other people's lives, life becomes more simpler and it is easier to manouver through the challenges of life. . Thank you so much bump❤
Times and Seasons. So important. P
I like the times and seasons element😊
Many people can relate to the lovely Rosette...very fun loving and yet down to earth...so many valid points throughout the series and words of wisdom...Go Rosie, you are such a darling
Aww. Thank u dear
I really appreciate you ladies for this topic ,, it came in when I actually needed to hear everything
I like that y’all are very authentic and have allowed yourselves to evolve over time….
Today’s conversation was powerful💯
We thank you Ernest. We know better so we must be better. P
This show is really amazing and so educational! I hope it reaches more people across the world.
We hope so too. Thank you. P
Bump Love crew, you make my fridays👌🏼😍💃🏽💪🏽
Am so grateful that i follow bump love,thank you ladies,its been an amazing and incredible message to me a woman on friendship and life.Thank you for teaching me.
You have helped me understand how to work on my relationships now....thank you for bringing up the topic....God bless you all
What a knowledgeable episode this is? Thank you ladies
Pumla is so knowledgeable , Arinaitwe is such a sweet soul . She is just like me unfortunately I have no close friends apart from family . But I am developing one with my good friend and sister ❤
Please build on that developing friendship. It's always good for you. P
Awww…Thank you Pumla for this . I have already sent her a message to tell her how I value our relationship and also shared this clip with her . Thank you so much ❤
Hi fellow sweet soul😊
This was quite an enlightening episode. Thank you so much ladies.
Been one of my best bump love conversation because i could identify with Manuela. It's only recently that I've learned to appreciate my friends better and I'm grateful to those who put up with me when i didn't get it that well 😂😂😂😂😂
Heheheee! Glad that you've chosen to be better. P
Can you imagine there are people that learn that they haven't been good friends but refuse to admit it and become better.......
Ohhhh my God am glad am first today again and you don't know how much have been waiting for
Thanks for the show, I've really enjoyed it. I relate with Angie on hibernation. It gives time for people to get over things.
Never to miss an episode!!! Thanks for the great conversation ladies!
Great conversation here!!! Female friendships are actually work and healthy female friendships do exist. ❤
Pumla this is reawakening..... A new thought pattern that must be explored. We must put in the effort and be intentional even in our female relationships. I love this episode.
We must be intentional about investing in our girl friendships. P
So true
PHENOMENAL WOMEN!
Am in awe, while immersing myself in this progressive, educational and inclusive conversation.
Thank you!
Thank you all ladies for this topic, and Pumla dear, your research and analysis has done us a lot of justice😊 You guys are really shaping my late twenies en I’m getting better each and every week.
This needs to be turned into a TV show for the people who don't watch UA-cam. Your conversations are very mature and relatable. Everyone could learn a thing or two from y'all (including men). Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, I'm a big fan. Now let me start working on my friendships 🥰
Can't agree more
But it airs on NTV every Friday
Thank you ladies.
Am soooo glad actually more than grateful for this episode.I have learnt alot from u guys.
Thanks for discussing this topic.
We loose friendships for one side step, yet men get away with murder literally.
Whenever I watch our episodes in my heart am like one day I will seat down with these ladies to share an experience. You have groomed me bump love hosts. You have saved me depression coz I started watching way back. You don't know how many times my soul has been lifted by you ladies. I first followed Mrs Mulondo and it took me upto to Bumplove wea I fall in love with each one of you especially Pumla ❤️ This week am calling all my friends especially in relationships wea I was the bad Friend to apologise and for the current ones am gonna do better. Thanks bumpelove
Yaaaaaaaayyyyy to doing bettterrrrrrrr ❤🎉👏🏾. Very well done. Happy to be your soul buddy. P
Big up to you ladies for imparting knowledge into the young females out there ♥️🫂
Thank you so much ladies for always unfailingly imparting knowledge in us. Somewhere somehow this particular episode has helped me to see and appreciate each of you individually differences and all. You truly are beautiful souls. Keep doing what you do and inspiring us. ❤But I must say Angie is glowing.
This is the sweetest show ever. I recommended my friends to watch to
Thank you so much Pumla
I have learnt so much from you girl🥰
"Female relationships are gold"
Female friendships truly are Gold. P
They are truly gold 😊
This is such a fruitful vlog,a lot to learn,unlearn and relearn
What a powerful conversation! Thank you ladies.
Excited to share this with my girl friends . I loved every second of this 🧡
Thank you ladies for this episode...
I love Manuella's vulnerability. Pumula that's a big one its helping me make sense. Rational expectations of irrational people. Wow 👌 👏
Thank you Manuela.... your closing statement says it all for me
Thank you very much, Bump Love, I love you and appreciate you. God bless you all Pumla, Kemi, Rachel, Rosette and Manuela.
Woow Pumla u anticulate everything with so much wisdom in a broad sense .kudos ladies loved the whole show.
Pumla is so freaking knowledgeable... I feel my brain filling up with knowledge with every word. 👏👏👏👏🥰
Her research tops it all. She always brings in an experts thought which is always 🔥
She's such a gem
Just love her she is such a cutie Soul
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Aaaaaaaaawwwww. Thank you Suzan. Whenever I read these types of comments, I'm like - Banange...let me first go back and hear what I said 😅😂😅. Thank you again. P
Wow.... thank you very much ladies, for sharing your experiences and wisdom on navigating friendships. I have learnt a lot.
wow!! so much insight.
Thank you bump love🥰
I loooooove it,So much love from Kenya.
This Topic today..... It is Pumla for me.
My first time here and I loved it❤ I miss my best friend so much but life… we need a bigger platform for these talks
Thank you for this conversation, this resonated with me on many levels. I paused halfway and wrote a heartfelt email to someone I used to be very close friends with. Thank you for being my virtual big sisters!
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I love Angie's calmness
Mrs.Mwine nice submission too.blessings❤❤
I have loved every single thing in this episode , I love the honest of these ladies . I totally relate with Angie n Racheal z experience so it was kinda emotional for me , literally teared saying I needed to hear this from someone else so that I acknowledge that I was not a bad friend. It was such a healing conversation for me. Thanks bump love .
Hugs🧡
Thanks a lot, ladies! Wow! God bless you❤
Such a great convo. Pumla, you’re such a wealth of wisdom. Female friendships are indeed so deep and conversational. Now I know why it also hurts when it falls apart, recently had to drop some friends which I was starting to become vulnerable and emotional with only to realize they were trying to proposition me their network marketing business ( u know those pyramid scheme entrepreneurs) so disappointing!
Those pyramid schemes are the worst. Better gone. Now you can focus on those that really matter. P
Thanks ladies a lot to learn from ❤
Pumla, thanks alot for your contribution. True female friendships are gold.
Bump love u need to give this talk show to public as whole TV show atlist 1hr every one to watch ..coz its too good to be left on UA-cam 😊
I love u ladies ❤
But when do I not love everything or resonate with everything? I have been there where I apologize for what I think I did that I do not even know about (I was really young early 20s). Then, I think I lost the friendship because the other person was too much. Then well done to Manuela for acknowledging she was the bad friend. I reflected on my past and I had that too, now we are okay, I put in the work. Pumla handing out facts that we need to carry like a manual script to thrive in this life. Boundaries are a must! That part, we need to let people show up as their new selves but also, give people time to adjust.
If we look deep enough, many of us have hurt someone before
Ladies, thank you for a much needed conversation that's got me pausing, reflecting, agreeing,wondering, introspecting and taking notes, yooooo!!!
Also Pumla for Friendship community president because yooooo the wisdom and knowledge coated with self awareness that she shared was spot on.
Thanks ladies....I needed this one
Thanks Denise. Please keep reffering to those notes. P
Very grateful for this episode. Thank you ladies ❤
Thank you dear ladies. I have been enlighetened about asking our friends' expectations. No mangoes really...
I believe colleagueship is different from friendship.. just thinking
Very correct. P
True, we confuse the two many times and end up heart broken.