I like Manuella being vulnerable and accepting to be that “ bad friend” It takes growth and maturity because most of us find this difficult!! This made me go back and find out where i was the bad friend , apologize and move on!! Thank you ladies
Ohhh 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thx Didn’t know it was a superpower. Comes naturally to me but with the many pple av interfaced and worked with..! It’s a thing many don’t have..
Yes Rossetti you are such a great listener that's is one of the reasons you close are to manuella because she talks and you listen. Its a superpower gal love u babe gal.
Pumla, this skill and gift you have is something that needs to go beyond bump love. Girls schools, uni students need this education. Women events, etc. I feel like I have learned so much from Pumlas' friendship conversation.
Thank you Flourish. I believe that if I had had these conversations earlier, I'd be better for it. So I do agree. We need to reach out to younger people and teach these lessons. P
I have had good friendships for over 20 years since high school and I have seen us evolve. There is so much love and fulfillment in good female friendships.
Am a UA-camr myself and would never be caught posting a video this long, cause I worry who would watch! But 3mins in I pulled up a chair and was hooked. Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerabilities and experiences as well as the insightful conversation. Truthfully, it has given me a lot to reflect on in my relationships. Heart to each of you ladies! ❤❤❤❤❤
@Pumla Nabachwa Hhhhiiiii Pumla, oh my Ggggggooooddddd, major fun girling right now!!! 😃😃💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙊🤣, by the way we are namesakes >>Nabachwa i swear am not just tying 😁😁. Oh oh Channel name is JAZEERA KALANDA
My girlfriends must watch this episode. I am so lucky I still have my friends from childhood in my life.I have known them since nursery school, others since high school. Like Angie said, I honestly don't have the energy to make new friends. It's a lot of unnecessary work that I'd rather add to my close circle to make it better. Our kids are now friends and I keep telling them if Baraka ever vibes any of their girls I will not support it because it feels like we're now sisters. And some of our parents are close.Like Pumla said, I mastered the art of separating my circles. Wabula BumpLove, wemuligwa wendigwa. I love you ladies.
There's no single episode that can be underrated. You guys are so full of inspiration. Thank you alot and more. Mind you each episode hits differently. May you guys NEVER run out of what to present. Ameen.
What a lovely, lovely episode!!!... Am a guy & still can't believe it that I have so far watched it twice already. I plan to re-watch it again & again over time. The maturity & deepness of your discussions is quite high and, yet entertaining too. Personally, this is the best talk show out there. Thank you so much beautiful ladies!!!... You truly make us, as a country Uganda very, very proud. ❤️ & hearty greetings to you all from Dubai, U.A.E. Blessings! 🐿️🍃🌨️
Unlike what most women will say , with my most closest friendship that I vividly remember, I was the problem😂and I know she was relieved for it to end but it brought me to a confrontation of myself and God has been teaching me to better friend.
This was my favorite episode because you realise some friendships really hurt alot and nomatter how much time passes and how much you try to un-do the mistake/heal it just is never the same again and some are a relief just like rachael said. But i felt each and everyones emotions in this episode. Great job ladies
Sometimes I even imagine myself contributing on this show because of how much I can relate and also just want to chip in. Its just amazing how much I have learnt from this channel and am definitely so grateful for every episode.🙏🙏🙏
Talking about “love-bombing”; it’s so rampant in female relationships, so many uncomfortable conversations need to be had if you want a real sisterhood. Not so much just “sweetie”, “sis”, etc just like in love relationships. Same thing. Bless🙏🏽
Oh my! This is powerful! One thing I have realized is, no matter how much you do for some people, if they want to be irrational about something, they will be!
I just discovered this channel and I am obsessed and literally watching episode after episode almost nonstop! I’m all the way in Australia so it’s almost 2am and I cannot stop 😅 Please please address the topic of stigma against women who only have an only child either by choice or circumstances. The best talk channel I have ever discovered on UA-cam. Much love from Australia ❤️
Many people can relate to the lovely Rosette...very fun loving and yet down to earth...so many valid points throughout the series and words of wisdom...Go Rosie, you are such a darling
Oh my God ladies I don't know how many nails you've hit today. This is one for watching over and over. I always say once one understands times and Seasons in their lives and other people's lives, life becomes more simpler and it is easier to manouver through the challenges of life. . Thank you so much bump❤
Pumla is so knowledgeable , Arinaitwe is such a sweet soul . She is just like me unfortunately I have no close friends apart from family . But I am developing one with my good friend and sister ❤
Awww…Thank you Pumla for this . I have already sent her a message to tell her how I value our relationship and also shared this clip with her . Thank you so much ❤
Well-spoken Manuela, when someone gets married they will definitely change a bit or much because Love and marriage are two great things that can ever happen to a person and they will definitely impact your friendship with the Mugole friend. We should leave room for change in our friendship. And it's okay for that change to happen, just give they space and don't over-visit or step into their space anyhow please, respect that.
This needs to be turned into a TV show for the people who don't watch UA-cam. Your conversations are very mature and relatable. Everyone could learn a thing or two from y'all (including men). Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, I'm a big fan. Now let me start working on my friendships 🥰
Whenever I watch our episodes in my heart am like one day I will seat down with these ladies to share an experience. You have groomed me bump love hosts. You have saved me depression coz I started watching way back. You don't know how many times my soul has been lifted by you ladies. I first followed Mrs Mulondo and it took me upto to Bumplove wea I fall in love with each one of you especially Pumla ❤️ This week am calling all my friends especially in relationships wea I was the bad Friend to apologise and for the current ones am gonna do better. Thanks bumpelove
I love love love bump love! Thank you ladies! I always look forward to the episodes every Friday! I watched you diligently as a newly wed and while I waited on my baby and now as a new mom ! Every mum woman lady has something to learn! You have taught me so much! THANK YOU!
I loooooove the whole conversation from all the ladies and I loved every bit plus I needed it at this moment . Thank you dear ladies and God Bless you ❤
Hello bump love, I have watched this all over again I don’t know how many times. Thank you for this lovely episode I really needed it for closure. I had a friend I have known for years before we even had children, we have been there for each other through thick and thick. My friend had immigration problems back and forth and became a bit distant with time but I would still check up and support where I can. Eventually, the migration issue was settled they were granted asylum. So this one day I called to check on her as they were meant to be moved to a new place. So as we discussed issues I told her I was struggling with work had just been back as a new mum and wanted flexibility. So was a bit low down and explained the reason as to why I hadn’t checked up on her. She ended the call and said her phone wanted it and I left it at that. The next morning I received a text message from her quite shocking. She stated I always discuss my problems when she discusses her and this is something she is not happy about. She even accused me of not helping her when she moved before from one place to another in 2016. Bearing in mind this time she is talking about I was in hospital with my late son who was battling a rare type of cancer. Honestly, I called immediately after the text message to explain my self, she refused to pick up, sent messages she didn’t reply. My husband tried to reach out to her husband he said he was busy with his children and would call back. He has never called back up to now. She posted my bank card through the post and wrote a note I wish u all the best thank you for the card. A bank card she was using for 7years couldn’t bring it in person. I have always had 100 questions in my head about what happened this episode explains it all. Thank you I am at peace now!
Pumla this is reawakening..... A new thought pattern that must be explored. We must put in the effort and be intentional even in our female relationships. I love this episode.
Wow wow wow this episode. Had to evaluate my femal friendships this year after university due to gossip being the biggest factor and I had lost hope but this conversation restored it. I have been challenged to be a better friend as well as encouraged that good friendshipa can be found built and maintained. Thank you ladies.
Rossetti's friend was very controlling and possessive. And emotionally, she was also an indirect Bully who thought that "she, was helping a less privileged Rosette" which is why she was shocked that her "Prey" could drive unexpectedly. Shocking!
You guys all nailed it & brought it home.,I had a bestie who just ghosted me without a conversation n it was a long time.friend n perhaps I did something that irritated her or she got money and I was now not in the same financial lane but I mourned that relationship n now when pipo ask me what happened I say life happened. I think female friendships are beautiful when good but when they go south attimes they can hurt deep but that's love we take a risk and hope for the best .......actually women we understand each other if we have the same values and aspirations but never the less sometimes we may disagree but we r still friends. Thanks Ladies for these conversations. Pumla u r my kind of woman, N Manuela I totally get u ,n Rachel u r such a sweet soul , Angie I love who u r and your strength,Rossette I love your how you keep your friendships n overlook trivial things. Bump love might be a smaller platform for u guys but it's brought u to this point but I hope u get a bigger platform cos u guys r awesome ...intelligent and relatable....❤❤❤
Shanice. You are right. Girlfriendships are like love. You just bear yourself vulnerable and take a chance. When it works out - it's beautiful. So let's just take the chance. P
@@manuelap.mulondo I have healed though I WD have loved closure to heal.completely but it's been a while now and I sort of feel all things work for Good I have evolved as a person and perhaps we r not right for each other anymore and just knowing that not all relationships have closure anyway. I believe now that God has certain people for seasons in our lives, that season was great when it lasted n I celebrate her.
@@manuelap.mulondo thanks for asking my role model Manuela On the list of one of the ladies I Wana meet someday, you inspire me to believe everything is possible. You are a super woman .
Bump love u need to give this talk show to public as whole TV show atlist 1hr every one to watch ..coz its too good to be left on UA-cam 😊 I love u ladies ❤
Pumla, Pumla, Pumla. Oba how many times have I called you??? I keep coming back to this episode which aired 10 months ago and each time I learn something new. Thank you Ladies for these discussions. Female friendships are not discussed so much and its refreshing to see ladies dissect the issue. Thank you Ladies, from your ever learning viewer.
Been one of my best bump love conversation because i could identify with Manuela. It's only recently that I've learned to appreciate my friends better and I'm grateful to those who put up with me when i didn't get it that well 😂😂😂😂😂
I think I am Rosette!! I see things from a far! I am non confrontational, I just can’t take drama I’ll watch you go through your phase, and when yo good I’ll be here. Life goes on
Such a great convo. Pumla, you’re such a wealth of wisdom. Female friendships are indeed so deep and conversational. Now I know why it also hurts when it falls apart, recently had to drop some friends which I was starting to become vulnerable and emotional with only to realize they were trying to proposition me their network marketing business ( u know those pyramid scheme entrepreneurs) so disappointing!
I love what Manuela said that we should have conversation I felt it. I have issues with my friend of 8years I feel like am so much into it that am always asking for us to talk. And we we meet its my fault that I don't text I dont call or even visit yet it has always been me doing so if I don't nothing comes from her side yes I know she is this kind of person who can't open up easily but as for me I do so I feel there's nothing more I can do however I don't have the energy of making new friends.And I feel I can be a bad friend now coz am more lonely ,don't open up nd I do things on my own so am confused
Pumla is so cool! She takes lots pf my attention just watching & fantasizing without even listening... until i get back on track. She's just so adorable. But all these ladies are smart & beautiful.
Thank God for these conversations...when its about walking on eggshells, and there are gaslighting tendencies in female friendships run!! I am glad that as I have grown older, I have learnt to pick out toxic traits in friendships, and my circle has grown smaller, with the few friends now we build each other up, we cry together, we celebrate each other we pray together...we are meant to build each other up not the opposite❤ Thanks #BumpLove Thanks ladies for sharing these conversations
Oohh my, this has made me reflect on my friendships in my life. I have task to do, on examining whether I was the good/bad friend! Wooow thanks for the wake up call. Bakwano mwebhale nyooo.
When Angie said , jealousy comments dont stay in the head , but instead come out in the way one reacts & speaks , It reminded me about a scripture , "Out of the abundance of the heart , the mouth shall speak ". I Laughed so hard when Rossette re-echoed Manuela and said " she doesn't communicate " 🤣 Rossette you gave your buddy away 😂But am glad she went passed that season Ahuh , I am more like Angie & Rachel , I love to seek closure . Naye am learning that indeed you wont have it all the time Kakati Madam Nabacwa Pumla chose violence today 🤣🤣, Girl we are going to do better as friends Thanks ladies, this was a super fun and heavy episode. I pray we learn when to let a friend go and also strive to be better friends > Besos
This is my girl pumla there is enough space for each one of us, at the Top!! me l support those who are ready to reciprocate. Because some women Honestly are hard to understand.
Have those difficultconversations about friendships. Friendships aren't built organically, put effort. Minute 45: paused and went to work on having conversations about expectations in friendship. Great conversation ladies.
Beautiful Convo. I have found myself in almost all of your experiences with friendships. I now know better and that is why i protect my space. Now no energy for new friendships unless if it is business relationships.
Pumla, I enjoy your objective analysis on all matters. You hardly bend on one side. That's healthy and helps us listeners to get a non-biased, informative and balanced view on a matter being discussed.
Ladies, thank you for a much needed conversation that's got me pausing, reflecting, agreeing,wondering, introspecting and taking notes, yooooo!!! Also Pumla for Friendship community president because yooooo the wisdom and knowledge coated with self awareness that she shared was spot on. Thanks ladies....I needed this one
Angie you are right. For those of us who give even the last of what we have with a smile, love and consideration. They think ah! She has a lot, she will be fine, she can manage.
Wow.. you guys are killing it.. every Friday I wait for your episodes and am never disappointed.. thanks so much for this is information and I'll surely do better in my friendships ❤
But when do I not love everything or resonate with everything? I have been there where I apologize for what I think I did that I do not even know about (I was really young early 20s). Then, I think I lost the friendship because the other person was too much. Then well done to Manuela for acknowledging she was the bad friend. I reflected on my past and I had that too, now we are okay, I put in the work. Pumla handing out facts that we need to carry like a manual script to thrive in this life. Boundaries are a must! That part, we need to let people show up as their new selves but also, give people time to adjust.
Pumla has a calling she impacts so much knowledge she needs a tv show or a podcast. This knowledge needs to be shared
Aaaaaaawwww thank you. We are all on a learning journey. We know better now so we truly must do better. Thanks Ninsiima. P
For sure she needs to think about it
You need to meet her, I meet her at my work place this girl is a vibe I can stay with her the all day pumla is on another level ❤❤
Well said
better said.
I like Manuella being vulnerable and accepting to be that “ bad friend” It takes growth and maturity because most of us find this difficult!! This made me go back and find out where i was the bad friend , apologize and move on!! Thank you ladies
Hahaha, Pumla's conversations are both intense, insightful, and funny. I hear you in your bad marriages 💑
You know
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ We really do need to have a deep look into ourselves and admit when we are wrong
@@manuelap.mulondo indeed...you are right
The Manuela then is so me now..and sociophobic too
Uganda has a gem in Pumla. I can listen to her all day long .Love her all the way from Kenya .
Love right back at you Kate. P
Me too 😊
I enjoy her parts most😊❤❤
How I admire Rossett's ability to LISTEN. Talking is great, but listening is a superpower.
Ohhh 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thx
Didn’t know it was a superpower. Comes naturally to me but with the many pple av interfaced and worked with..! It’s a thing many don’t have..
Yes Rossetti you are such a great listener that's is one of the reasons you close are to manuella because she talks and you listen. Its a superpower gal love u babe gal.
Kajambo omwana weeka...that is a well spoken virtue about you.Thank God for u r a strong n powerful woman of God.
Pumla, this skill and gift you have is something that needs to go beyond bump love. Girls schools, uni students need this education. Women events, etc. I feel like I have learned so much from Pumlas' friendship conversation.
Thank you Flourish. I believe that if I had had these conversations earlier, I'd be better for it. So I do agree. We need to reach out to younger people and teach these lessons. P
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Let her start with Seeta high school's 😂😂😂l am being selfish 😅😅😅
@@janewerikhe9528 hahaahaaa! I would obviously start with the high school that nurtured me 😂. Then right after - Seeta High. P
Nabachwa mugezi nyo. She is extremely smart and confident. Nabachwa your flowers are here🥂
I have had good friendships for over 20 years since high school and I have seen us evolve. There is so much love and fulfillment in good female friendships.
Good for you 👏
Am a UA-camr myself and would never be caught posting a video this long, cause I worry who would watch!
But 3mins in I pulled up a chair and was hooked. Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerabilities and experiences as well as the insightful conversation. Truthfully, it has given me a lot to reflect on in my relationships. Heart to each of you ladies! ❤❤❤❤❤
Hello UA-camr. What's your channel? P
I actually catch my self several times looking for the longest bump love video😂😂
@Pumla Nabachwa Hhhhiiiii Pumla, oh my Ggggggooooddddd, major fun girling right now!!! 😃😃💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙊🤣, by the way we are namesakes >>Nabachwa i swear am not just tying 😁😁.
Oh oh Channel name is JAZEERA KALANDA
@mujurizi ronah I totally see why now. Very wise ladies with an entertaining yet educational conversation. It's hard not to want 5mins more 😅
Am thinking you one of the Kalandas went two of your sisters to school and you to as well..Subscribing to your channel
These conversations are so enriching, we thank God for the gift that bump love is to us. Love it here!
My girlfriends must watch this episode. I am so lucky I still have my friends from childhood in my life.I have known them since nursery school, others since high school. Like Angie said, I honestly don't have the energy to make new friends. It's a lot of unnecessary work that I'd rather add to my close circle to make it better. Our kids are now friends and I keep telling them if Baraka ever vibes any of their girls I will not support it because it feels like we're now sisters. And some of our parents are close.Like Pumla said, I mastered the art of separating my circles. Wabula BumpLove, wemuligwa wendigwa. I love you ladies.
There's no single episode that can be underrated. You guys are so full of inspiration. Thank you alot and more. Mind you each episode hits differently. May you guys NEVER run out of what to present. Ameen.
Bravo ladies. This was emotional. I love Angie's composure. She speaks with lots of warmth in her voice.
Angie is very well spoken, a gentle soul and very interesting to listen to. So clued on and verrry refined...well composed too ❤
Wabula Bump Love Ladies have groomed me for true purpose 🙏🏽
Nsiima nyo ❤ this episode is life changing 🙌🏽
I love how Rosette can jazz. You feel like she talking to you direct. I love it girl.👏👏
Lol😄 Thx
She sounds like a saint
Its rosettes vibes for me!!
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I can tirelessly watch pumpa speak for a full day. But thanks ladies for the tremendous work, it's really impactful to many lives
Thanks for being here Nampala
What a lovely, lovely episode!!!... Am a guy & still can't believe it that I have so far watched it twice already. I plan to re-watch it again & again over time. The maturity & deepness of your discussions is quite high and, yet entertaining too. Personally, this is the best talk show out there. Thank you so much beautiful ladies!!!... You truly make us, as a country Uganda very, very proud. ❤️ & hearty greetings to you all from Dubai, U.A.E. Blessings! 🐿️🍃🌨️
Unlike what most women will say , with my most closest friendship that I vividly remember, I was the problem😂and I know she was relieved for it to end but it brought me to a confrontation of myself and God has been teaching me to better friend.
"....to be a better friend." Well done honey. I'm sure this has been each of us at certain points. Just that we never say. P
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🎉 that says a lot about you. You self reflected and wanted to change! Good on you
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I’m in love with Angie’s voice. It’s echoed & healing ❤
Sooooo true, lovely voice...I also like it when she speaks luganda
This was my favorite episode because you realise some friendships really hurt alot and nomatter how much time passes and how much you try to un-do the mistake/heal it just is never the same again and some are a relief just like rachael said. But i felt each and everyones emotions in this episode. Great job ladies
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Sometimes I even imagine myself contributing on this show because of how much I can relate and also just want to chip in. Its just amazing how much I have learnt from this channel and am definitely so grateful for every episode.🙏🙏🙏
you are not alone, but its a very beautiful program about reality of what happens to us
Same here...
Pumula thax for answering my questions,am relieved,I luv u all
I totally agree with the point of categorizing friendships, it is liberating. Thank you ladies.
I believe if friendships don’t work, especially when you have tried to make it work, let that friendship go
Thank you
Talking about “love-bombing”; it’s so rampant in female relationships, so many uncomfortable conversations need to be had if you want a real sisterhood. Not so much just “sweetie”, “sis”, etc just like in love relationships. Same thing. Bless🙏🏽
I love Pumla, she's such a big sister, please keep sharing your knowledge with us! I love it.
Big sister ❤. P
It's so kind of Pumla to respond to people's comments. Love u miss P. Wonderful episode ladies
Heheheee! I truly love engaging with Bump Lovers. I don't want to leave them talking to themselves 😅. P
Oh my! This is powerful! One thing I have realized is, no matter how much you do for some people, if they want to be irrational about something, they will be!
I just discovered this channel and I am obsessed and literally watching episode after episode almost nonstop! I’m all the way in Australia so it’s almost 2am and I cannot stop 😅
Please please address the topic of stigma against women who only have an only child either by choice or circumstances. The best talk channel I have ever discovered on UA-cam. Much love from Australia ❤️
Many people can relate to the lovely Rosette...very fun loving and yet down to earth...so many valid points throughout the series and words of wisdom...Go Rosie, you are such a darling
Aww. Thank u dear
Oh my God ladies I don't know how many nails you've hit today. This is one for watching over and over. I always say once one understands times and Seasons in their lives and other people's lives, life becomes more simpler and it is easier to manouver through the challenges of life. . Thank you so much bump❤
Times and Seasons. So important. P
I like the times and seasons element😊
Mrs. Mwiine, I relate with you 150%....in other news @bumplove, this topic came through at the right time. I needed this 🎉🎉..
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Pumla is so knowledgeable , Arinaitwe is such a sweet soul . She is just like me unfortunately I have no close friends apart from family . But I am developing one with my good friend and sister ❤
Please build on that developing friendship. It's always good for you. P
Awww…Thank you Pumla for this . I have already sent her a message to tell her how I value our relationship and also shared this clip with her . Thank you so much ❤
Hi fellow sweet soul😊
Pumla is me literally . I love how much she values her friendships. And challenges gender norms /narratives and constructs
Love that you're here ❤. P
Well-spoken Manuela, when someone gets married they will definitely change a bit or much because Love and marriage are two great things that can ever happen to a person and they will definitely impact your friendship with the Mugole friend. We should leave room for change in our friendship. And it's okay for that change to happen, just give they space and don't over-visit or step into their space anyhow please, respect that.
This needs to be turned into a TV show for the people who don't watch UA-cam. Your conversations are very mature and relatable. Everyone could learn a thing or two from y'all (including men). Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, I'm a big fan. Now let me start working on my friendships 🥰
Can't agree more
But it airs on NTV every Friday
Whenever I watch our episodes in my heart am like one day I will seat down with these ladies to share an experience. You have groomed me bump love hosts. You have saved me depression coz I started watching way back. You don't know how many times my soul has been lifted by you ladies. I first followed Mrs Mulondo and it took me upto to Bumplove wea I fall in love with each one of you especially Pumla ❤️ This week am calling all my friends especially in relationships wea I was the bad Friend to apologise and for the current ones am gonna do better. Thanks bumpelove
Yaaaaaaaayyyyy to doing bettterrrrrrrr ❤🎉👏🏾. Very well done. Happy to be your soul buddy. P
I love the fact that episodes are now longer kudoz to us bump lovers 🥰
This show is really amazing and so educational! I hope it reaches more people across the world.
We hope so too. Thank you. P
Ever since you started these long episodes i love them have never missed one, we get the full package...continue building the foundations
Thank you very much, Bump Love, I love you and appreciate you. God bless you all Pumla, Kemi, Rachel, Rosette and Manuela.
I love rosettes friendship with manuela see how she chips in to make Manuela feel great about herself priceless!!!!!
We sure rise by lifting others.. Oyo we’ve come from far 😅
Because Rosette is Manuela's friend, I buy Newman's products. 😊😄
Awwwwww ❤❤❤❤ see why I love her?
I don't what Agiee to stop talking the way she looks and sounds so sweet when she talks . Love you girl
Thank you Bump Love. This conversation has prompted me to be intentional with my friendships and set our expectations.
I love love love bump love! Thank you ladies! I always look forward to the episodes every Friday! I watched you diligently as a newly wed and while I waited on my baby and now as a new mom ! Every mum woman lady has something to learn! You have taught me so much! THANK YOU!
I loooooove the whole conversation from all the ladies and I loved every bit plus I needed it at this moment . Thank you dear ladies and God Bless you ❤
I like that y’all are very authentic and have allowed yourselves to evolve over time….
Today’s conversation was powerful💯
We thank you Ernest. We know better so we must be better. P
Female friendships are so empowering. Thank you so much Ladies❤️
Beautiful conversation guys... very valuable
Thank you so much Pumla
I have learnt so much from you girl🥰
"Female relationships are gold"
Female friendships truly are Gold. P
They are truly gold 😊
Thank you, there's enough space for all of us at the top to thrive💞
I love Manuella's vulnerability. Pumula that's a big one its helping me make sense. Rational expectations of irrational people. Wow 👌 👏
Finally 🎉
I have been on waiting,lol😅
Let me get my dose for the day now
Thank you bump love for the educative conversations you always share with us❤
Great conversation here!!! Female friendships are actually work and healthy female friendships do exist. ❤
Hello bump love, I have watched this all over again I don’t know how many times. Thank you for this lovely episode I really needed it for closure.
I had a friend I have known for years before we even had children, we have been there for each other through thick and thick. My friend had immigration problems back and forth and became a bit distant with time but I would still check up and support where I can. Eventually, the migration issue was settled they were granted asylum. So this one day I called to check on her as they were meant to be moved to a new place. So as we discussed issues I told her I was struggling with work had just been back as a new mum and wanted flexibility. So was a bit low down and explained the reason as to why I hadn’t checked up on her. She ended the call and said her phone wanted it and I left it at that. The next morning I received a text message from her quite shocking. She stated I always discuss my problems when she discusses her and this is something she is not happy about. She even accused me of not helping her when she moved before from one place to another in 2016. Bearing in mind this time she is talking about I was in hospital with my late son who was battling a rare type of cancer. Honestly, I called immediately after the text message to explain my self, she refused to pick up, sent messages she didn’t reply. My husband tried to reach out to her husband he said he was busy with his children and would call back. He has never called back up to now. She posted my bank card through the post and wrote a note I wish u all the best thank you for the card. A bank card she was using for 7years couldn’t bring it in person. I have always had 100 questions in my head about what happened this episode explains it all. Thank you I am at peace now!
I'm so sorry about what happened. Hope you are feeling better🙏🏿
@@jermena7771 Yes I am thanx
I enjoyed the show and didn't want it to end. Thanks ladies. You're the best!
Bump Love crew, you make my fridays👌🏼😍💃🏽💪🏽
Woow Pumla u anticulate everything with so much wisdom in a broad sense .kudos ladies loved the whole show.
Pumla this is reawakening..... A new thought pattern that must be explored. We must put in the effort and be intentional even in our female relationships. I love this episode.
We must be intentional about investing in our girl friendships. P
So true
Wow wow wow this episode. Had to evaluate my femal friendships this year after university due to gossip being the biggest factor and I had lost hope but this conversation restored it. I have been challenged to be a better friend as well as encouraged that good friendshipa can be found built and maintained. Thank you ladies.
Rossetti's friend was very controlling and possessive. And emotionally, she was also an indirect Bully who thought that "she, was helping a less privileged Rosette" which is why she was shocked that her "Prey" could drive unexpectedly. Shocking!
You guys all nailed it & brought it home.,I had a bestie who just ghosted me without a conversation n it was a long time.friend n perhaps I did something that irritated her or she got money and I was now not in the same financial lane but I mourned that relationship n now when pipo ask me what happened I say life happened. I think female friendships are beautiful when good but when they go south attimes they can hurt deep but that's love we take a risk and hope for the best .......actually women we understand each other if we have the same values and aspirations but never the less sometimes we may disagree but we r still friends. Thanks Ladies for these conversations. Pumla u r my kind of woman, N Manuela I totally get u ,n Rachel u r such a sweet soul , Angie I love who u r and your strength,Rossette I love your how you keep your friendships n overlook trivial things. Bump love might be a smaller platform for u guys but it's brought u to this point but I hope u get a bigger platform cos u guys r awesome ...intelligent and relatable....❤❤❤
Shanice. You are right. Girlfriendships are like love. You just bear yourself vulnerable and take a chance. When it works out - it's beautiful. So let's just take the chance. P
Shanice, do you think you have healed?
@@manuelap.mulondo I have healed though I WD have loved closure to heal.completely but it's been a while now and I sort of feel all things work for Good I have evolved as a person and perhaps we r not right for each other anymore and just knowing that not all relationships have closure anyway. I believe now that God has certain people for seasons in our lives, that season was great when it lasted n I celebrate her.
@@manuelap.mulondo thanks for asking my role model Manuela On the list of one of the ladies I Wana meet someday, you inspire me to believe everything is possible. You are a super woman .
Bump love u need to give this talk show to public as whole TV show atlist 1hr every one to watch ..coz its too good to be left on UA-cam 😊
I love u ladies ❤
Big up to you ladies for imparting knowledge into the young females out there ♥️🫂
Pumla, Pumla, Pumla. Oba how many times have I called you??? I keep coming back to this episode which aired 10 months ago and each time I learn something new.
Thank you Ladies for these discussions. Female friendships are not discussed so much and its refreshing to see ladies dissect the issue. Thank you Ladies, from your ever learning viewer.
This Topic today..... It is Pumla for me.
PHENOMENAL WOMEN!
Am in awe, while immersing myself in this progressive, educational and inclusive conversation.
Thank you!
Been one of my best bump love conversation because i could identify with Manuela. It's only recently that I've learned to appreciate my friends better and I'm grateful to those who put up with me when i didn't get it that well 😂😂😂😂😂
Heheheee! Glad that you've chosen to be better. P
Can you imagine there are people that learn that they haven't been good friends but refuse to admit it and become better.......
I think I am Rosette!! I see things from a far! I am non confrontational, I just can’t take drama I’ll watch you go through your phase, and when yo good I’ll be here. Life goes on
Such a great convo. Pumla, you’re such a wealth of wisdom. Female friendships are indeed so deep and conversational. Now I know why it also hurts when it falls apart, recently had to drop some friends which I was starting to become vulnerable and emotional with only to realize they were trying to proposition me their network marketing business ( u know those pyramid scheme entrepreneurs) so disappointing!
Those pyramid schemes are the worst. Better gone. Now you can focus on those that really matter. P
More power to Manuela for doing the work. Not very many people take a minute to do look into themselves and allow growth
What a knowledgeable episode this is? Thank you ladies
Ohhhh my God am glad am first today again and you don't know how much have been waiting for
I love what Manuela said that we should have conversation I felt it. I have issues with my friend of 8years I feel like am so much into it that am always asking for us to talk. And we we meet its my fault that I don't text I dont call or even visit yet it has always been me doing so if I don't nothing comes from her side yes I know she is this kind of person who can't open up easily but as for me I do so I feel there's nothing more I can do however I don't have the energy of making new friends.And I feel I can be a bad friend now coz am more lonely ,don't open up nd I do things on my own so am confused
You have solved half of the problem already
Pumla is so cool! She takes lots pf my attention just watching & fantasizing without even listening... until i get back on track. She's just so adorable. But all these ladies are smart & beautiful.
Haahahaa! But Drake. Love the vote of confidence ❤
Thank God for these conversations...when its about walking on eggshells, and there are gaslighting tendencies in female friendships run!! I am glad that as I have grown older, I have learnt to pick out toxic traits in friendships, and my circle has grown smaller, with the few friends now we build each other up, we cry together, we celebrate each other we pray together...we are meant to build each other up not the opposite❤
Thanks #BumpLove Thanks ladies for sharing these conversations
We are meant to build each other. You go girl! P
Oohh my, this has made me reflect on my friendships in my life.
I have task to do, on examining whether I was the good/bad friend!
Wooow thanks for the wake up call.
Bakwano mwebhale nyooo.
When Angie said , jealousy comments dont stay in the head , but instead come out in the way one reacts & speaks , It reminded me about a scripture , "Out of the abundance of the heart , the mouth shall speak ".
I Laughed so hard when Rossette re-echoed Manuela and said " she doesn't communicate " 🤣 Rossette you gave your buddy away 😂But am glad she went passed that season
Ahuh , I am more like Angie & Rachel , I love to seek closure . Naye am learning that indeed you wont have it all the time
Kakati Madam Nabacwa Pumla chose violence today 🤣🤣, Girl we are going to do better as friends
Thanks ladies, this was a super fun and heavy episode. I pray we learn when to let a friend go and also strive to be better friends > Besos
Some people only understand through Violence 😂. P
Lovely summary 😅. To growing and being better friends..
😄😄Cheers to all of us being better friends
The jealous energy cannot be hidden. You will feel it. She will try to smile but the smile will be coming from the teeth. Energy cannot be faked 🤭
@@anonnona6433 true 😀
Wow.....nice one ladies.. I love y'all
And I love you Manuela,your funny personality is the real deal for me. Keep it up ladies thanks for this
This is my girl pumla there is enough space for each one of us, at the Top!! me l support those who are ready to reciprocate. Because some women Honestly are hard to understand.
People are generally not easy but we need each other. Lets do the work. P
Bump Love hands-on for u. U r the real deal❤
Pumla is really wise, thank you ladies for a wonderful show.
Wow I love this gal Pumla she’s my kind of gal in her thinking…your are right the “narrative of women beefing eachother should stop !
I love Angie's calmness
Very good and interesting topic, much love
Have those difficultconversations about friendships. Friendships aren't built organically, put effort.
Minute 45: paused and went to work on having conversations about expectations in friendship. Great conversation ladies.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. P
Well done. Also repeat so people at the back can hear you. Have those difficult conversations
This was a mind blowing conversation.i should surely check myself
Pumla & Aggie lots of Love❤ from me,continue educating us sweeet ladies....cant wait for the next episode🎉😊😊
wow!! so much insight.
Thank you bump love🥰
Mrs.Mwine nice submission too.blessings❤❤
Beautiful Convo. I have found myself in almost all of your experiences with friendships. I now know better and that is why i protect my space. Now no energy for new friendships unless if it is business relationships.
Same here i don't have more space for new humans
I am learning a lot. Women can sometimes be a pain.
Kept writing and deleting and writing and deleting. But this was real talk. Girl frdships can be so heartbreaking. Thanks Manuela for sharing.
I can relate with every situation from all of you ladies... On both ends.
You are welcome
You have helped me understand how to work on my relationships now....thank you for bringing up the topic....God bless you all
Pumla, I enjoy your objective analysis on all matters. You hardly bend on one side. That's healthy and helps us listeners to get a non-biased, informative and balanced view on a matter being discussed.
It helps to keep an open mind. Makes learning easier. P
One day I'll be as articulate as Pumla... so inspiring!
Thanks for the vote of confidence. You can be whatever you set your mind to
Pumla is full of knowledge. Keep it up. Thx u all bump lovers
Ladies, thank you for a much needed conversation that's got me pausing, reflecting, agreeing,wondering, introspecting and taking notes, yooooo!!!
Also Pumla for Friendship community president because yooooo the wisdom and knowledge coated with self awareness that she shared was spot on.
Thanks ladies....I needed this one
Thanks Denise. Please keep reffering to those notes. P
Angie you are right. For those of us who give even the last of what we have with a smile, love and consideration. They think ah! She has a lot, she will be fine, she can manage.
Wow.. you guys are killing it.. every Friday I wait for your episodes and am never disappointed.. thanks so much for this is information and I'll surely do better in my friendships ❤
Thanks a lot, ladies! Wow! God bless you❤
But when do I not love everything or resonate with everything? I have been there where I apologize for what I think I did that I do not even know about (I was really young early 20s). Then, I think I lost the friendship because the other person was too much. Then well done to Manuela for acknowledging she was the bad friend. I reflected on my past and I had that too, now we are okay, I put in the work. Pumla handing out facts that we need to carry like a manual script to thrive in this life. Boundaries are a must! That part, we need to let people show up as their new selves but also, give people time to adjust.
If we look deep enough, many of us have hurt someone before
Thank you dear ladies. I have been enlighetened about asking our friends' expectations. No mangoes really...
I loooooove it,So much love from Kenya.