Ugh, I am so sorry to hear that it will more than likely be canceled. And how frustrating to hear such a careless and insensitive comment. Crossing my fingers for better news tomorrow and that, even in the midst of the frustration and heartbreak, you’ll be able to find some solace as you continue on this journey.
My prayers are always with you… i totally understand your disappointment and I’m really sorry you are going through this. Your feelings are so valid and I hope you have a little comfort soon ❤️🩹
You’re so beautiful! we hate to see you cry❤❤ IM sorry to hear this cycle is canceled. maybe it is for the best, to give you a break. I hope and pray this next cycle is the one! xoxo can’t wait for an update! hugs
I'm sorry girl. That sucks. Thank you for continuing to share your journey and being so authentic and vulnerable! Prayers for your period and next cycle! We're rooting for you!
Sending you a virtual hug and just wanted to say I totally get it. In my second tww after donor insemination. 4 years ttc in total. It’s a tough tough journey at times but we are warriors for getting through it. Stay positive and trust the timing ❤
I am so sorry to hear this!!! You are so strong! Sending you lots of love and hugs. Thank you for sharing your journey. I was shocked to learn iui only has a 15% success rate.
I am really sorry. It's okay to feel sad and really vulnerable, the situation sucks. I truly hope that everything works out for you at the end. I hope you feel better soon as well ❤
I’m so sorry… I understand how hard it is to feel like your clock is ticking and you’re running out of time, only to have something get in the way that wastes more time. It’s absolutely brutal. It took me 6 years to have my first child and three years to get pregnant with the second. The wait is so, so difficult and people don’t get it. But hang in there, I promise you it’s all worth it when you’re holding that sweet baby. I’ve got my fingers crossed for your future success. Sending lots of love ❤
I'm crying with you. Praying for your strength this too shall pass stay strong and keep your head up. Keep telling yourself you will be a mom! Keep praying and believing you will
so sorry to hear this babe. thank you for sharing your journey with us, that’s why we are here! to pick you up when the lows come and cheer you on when the highs come! trust that everything happens for a reason, and when you’re holding your little baby in your arms you’ll be so grateful everything in your life has led you to that moment. here for you❤
What a bummer. But sometimes that's what your body and mind need is just a little rest and reboot. The potential cancel of a cycle sucks completely. Been there. But I can tell you that little bit of a break away from meds and doctor appointments was so refreshing. Take this time to enjoy your vacation and get back on track in a month. You've got this! Enjoy your vacation!
Sorry to hear this.. living our lives in 2 week increments is challenging. I am doing IUI's too and my second one failed too.. fingers crossed everything goes well with u 🙏
I'm so sorry to hear that, but I promise it will be ok. I had to waite 6 months because covid crazyness and ended up with twins at the first try after that. And I was over 40 with them 😂🎉❤ all the best and lots of baby dust!
I am so sorry to hear! I am literally going through the same! Was supposed to have our IUI either this weekend or early next week and I got COVID. So it got cancelled too. So bummed! 😢
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3po yes! The whole thing sucks! I’m sorry you had to go through this too. We will try next month! Unfortunately I turn 40 next month so I’m feeling the pressure!
Oh man I'm sorry. I totally get the whole living your life in 2 week intervals.It's so hard and stressful. When I was doing IUIs I had a nurse tell me multiple times to also have intercourse when I triggered to just give me extra coverage. Yea um... READ the file lady--- it clearly states that I'm using a donor. It also just makes them look so bad when they say stupid things like that. I'd maybe ask them if you can take some progesterone or something--you can do that to hold your cycle off for a bit, that OR ask your doctor if there's something you can take to help time your next cycle to work out without having to move your trip or delay your next IUI. I'm supposed to do my FET number 6 next week and my daughter has come down with something ---here's hoping she recovers fast and I avoid it all together so it doesn't mess with the last 8 weeks of prep that I've done for this transfer. UGH.
I know this sucks. Try to speak positive thoughts out there. Hoping that the doc will reconsider. On another note, that nurse is foul. Super wrong for them to say that. I know it’s hard, hang in there. You are strong. So strong! And you have a lot of folks cheering you on. ❤
Ugh re: the nurse not reading your notes and making that comment. Did you let them know how insensitive that was? Hope you feel better soon (physically, emotionally.)
Call it a grace month, treat yourself to something like a pedicure or a massage, fancy sushi or other things like soft cheeses that you'd skip if pregnant. Plan a date with friends that has nothing to do with trying for a baby. Sending good vibes! Even the most progressive fertility clinics seem to say/do cringey things, my pre-IUI blood work request said "query infertility" on it, we are a queer couple who don't make sperm, that isn't infertility. Eye roll. Timed intercourse, come on people, you can do better!
You don’t need to do iuis. I’ve mentioned this before but if you have perfect anatomy and no fertility issues, you can use a clear blue digital ovulation kit. Order your vial to be sent to your home 2 days or so before you expect ovulation and then when you get your peak smiley face on the test, you will know you are having your surge and inseminate the following morning, ovulation day. Iui vials work just as well for at home insemination. I have gotten pregnant just as easily with iui vials as I did with ici vials. ❤
It’s weird that he canceled it because you can ware a musk and it’s been while since you first got sick, plus if you’re going in to the place for an appointment tomorrow?! It’s not making sense and you might want to consider a different doctor unless he can give you a reasonable example of why he hast to cancel it, but you can come in for an appointment
He said that it’s too risky for me to get pregnant with my immune system down. But i just want you to explain those risks and let me decide if it is worth it for me. I don’t think it’s fair for them. Especially where I’m feeling better and it’s only day 8.
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3po for in the future I have used IUI washed vials for ICI. I would definitely check with your doctor but I was told it was fine to do. It’s just not safe to use an unwashed for IUI. I’m so sorry this cycle didn’t pan out properly. I’m sending Abby dust for future attempts 🥳
Ugh, I am so sorry to hear that it will more than likely be canceled. And how frustrating to hear such a careless and insensitive comment. Crossing my fingers for better news tomorrow and that, even in the midst of the frustration and heartbreak, you’ll be able to find some solace as you continue on this journey.
Thank you so much! It has been a hard 24 hours because it honestly feels like a cold and I am so much better today.
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3po glad you’re feeling better!!
My prayers are always with you… i totally understand your disappointment and I’m really sorry you are going through this. Your feelings are so valid and I hope you have a little comfort soon ❤️🩹
Don't worry, everything will be fine, just a little bit more time is needed. Keep up a strong hope, and get well soon! Sending you a hug!
Thank you!
You’re so beautiful! we hate to see you cry❤❤ IM sorry to hear this cycle is canceled. maybe it is for the best, to give you a break. I hope and pray this next cycle is the one! xoxo can’t wait for an update! hugs
Thank you so much! ❤️
I am so sorry Kaitlyn. Stay strong. Don't give up hope. Sending you a tender hug. I will be saying additional prayers for you.
Thank you so much! It has been a really hard 24 hours. 😢
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3po As difficult as your news is, please remember there will be light at the end of this tunnel.
I'm sorry girl. That sucks.
Thank you for continuing to share your journey and being so authentic and vulnerable! Prayers for your period and next cycle! We're rooting for you!
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Sending you a virtual hug and just wanted to say I totally get it. In my second tww after donor insemination. 4 years ttc in total. It’s a tough tough journey at times but we are warriors for getting through it. Stay positive and trust the timing ❤
Thank you!
I am so sorry! This process is a total roller coaster of emotions and it’s hard for people to truly understand. Hoping your period holds off for you!!
It really is! Thank you! 🙏🏻
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3poit’s been a couple weeks. Hope everything worked out for your next cycle ❤
I am so sorry to hear this!!! You are so strong! Sending you lots of love and hugs. Thank you for sharing your journey. I was shocked to learn iui only has a 15% success rate.
Yeah it’s very similar to natural cycles.
I am really sorry. It's okay to feel sad and really vulnerable, the situation sucks. I truly hope that everything works out for you at the end. I hope you feel better soon as well ❤
Thank you! 🙏🏻
I’m so sorry… I understand how hard it is to feel like your clock is ticking and you’re running out of time, only to have something get in the way that wastes more time. It’s absolutely brutal.
It took me 6 years to have my first child and three years to get pregnant with the second. The wait is so, so difficult and people don’t get it. But hang in there, I promise you it’s all worth it when you’re holding that sweet baby.
I’ve got my fingers crossed for your future success. Sending lots of love ❤
Thank you so much!!
I’m SO SORRY!! Keep your head up❤❤
Thank you! ❤️
I'm crying with you. Praying for your strength this too shall pass stay strong and keep your head up. Keep telling yourself you will be a mom! Keep praying and believing you will
so sorry to hear this babe. thank you for sharing your journey with us, that’s why we are here! to pick you up when the lows come and cheer you on when the highs come! trust that everything happens for a reason, and when you’re holding your little baby in your arms you’ll be so grateful everything in your life has led you to that moment. here for you❤
Thank you so much! ❤️
I just wish I could give you a virtual hug!!! I'm so sorry!!! Praying for you!
Thank you! ❤️
I am so so sorry that your going though all this ! I hope when you do, do your next transfer it is successful I will keep my fingers crossed for you!
Thank you! ❤️
What a bummer. But sometimes that's what your body and mind need is just a little rest and reboot. The potential cancel of a cycle sucks completely. Been there. But I can tell you that little bit of a break away from meds and doctor appointments was so refreshing. Take this time to enjoy your vacation and get back on track in a month. You've got this! Enjoy your vacation!
Please hang in there! I know how you feel! ❤
So very sorry. Prayers for future success. ❤️🙏🏻
Thank you!
Sorry to hear this.. living our lives in 2 week increments is challenging. I am doing IUI's too and my second one failed too.. fingers crossed everything goes well with u 🙏
Good luck on your next cycle.
I'm so sorry to hear that, but I promise it will be ok. I had to waite 6 months because covid crazyness and ended up with twins at the first try after that. And I was over 40 with them 😂🎉❤ all the best and lots of baby dust!
Thank you! Did you dk IUIs or IVF
Double donor Ivf with twins after 3 failed iui:s. When I was 33 I got pregnant after 3 failed iuis with known donor
I’m sorry to see you sad and I hope that you get answers
Thank you 🙏🏻
I am so sorry to hear! I am literally going through the same! Was supposed to have our IUI either this weekend or early next week and I got COVID. So it got cancelled too. So bummed! 😢
Ugh I’m sorry! It sucks when you start feeling better too even before your monitoring appointment.
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3po yes! The whole thing sucks! I’m sorry you had to go through this too. We will try next month! Unfortunately I turn 40 next month so I’m feeling the pressure!
@@trinabonnette1901sending you positive vibes and all do the baby dust! ✨
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3po thank you! Sending you all the good baby vibes too! I will keep rooting for you! :)
Sending much love and positive vibes from Portugal 😘
Thank you so much! ❤️
Sorry that this happened but we all love you your subscribers and I hope feel better 🫶
Thank you
Im so sorry! 💐
Oh man I'm sorry. I totally get the whole living your life in 2 week intervals.It's so hard and stressful. When I was doing IUIs I had a nurse tell me multiple times to also have intercourse when I triggered to just give me extra coverage. Yea um... READ the file lady--- it clearly states that I'm using a donor. It also just makes them look so bad when they say stupid things like that. I'd maybe ask them if you can take some progesterone or something--you can do that to hold your cycle off for a bit, that OR ask your doctor if there's something you can take to help time your next cycle to work out without having to move your trip or delay your next IUI. I'm supposed to do my FET number 6 next week and my daughter has come down with something ---here's hoping she recovers fast and I avoid it all together so it doesn't mess with the last 8 weeks of prep that I've done for this transfer. UGH.
Ahhh crossing my fingers you stay healthy and everything goes well for you!
Awwww sending you hugs
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I know this sucks. Try to speak positive thoughts out there. Hoping that the doc will reconsider.
On another note, that nurse is foul. Super wrong for them to say that.
I know it’s hard, hang in there. You are strong. So strong! And you have a lot of folks cheering you on. ❤
Thank you so much! I appreciate it more than you know!
Ugh re: the nurse not reading your notes and making that comment. Did you let them know how insensitive that was? Hope you feel better soon (physically, emotionally.)
Thank you!
Hugs. ❤
Call it a grace month, treat yourself to something like a pedicure or a massage, fancy sushi or other things like soft cheeses that you'd skip if pregnant. Plan a date with friends that has nothing to do with trying for a baby. Sending good vibes! Even the most progressive fertility clinics seem to say/do cringey things, my pre-IUI blood work request said "query infertility" on it, we are a queer couple who don't make sperm, that isn't infertility. Eye roll. Timed intercourse, come on people, you can do better!
That is the plan! I’m planning a day at the winery with some girlfriends in a few weeks!
You don’t need to do iuis. I’ve mentioned this before but if you have perfect anatomy and no fertility issues, you can use a clear blue digital ovulation kit. Order your vial to be sent to your home 2 days or so before you expect ovulation and then when you get your peak smiley face on the test, you will know you are having your surge and inseminate the following morning, ovulation day. Iui vials work just as well for at home insemination. I have gotten pregnant just as easily with iui vials as I did with ici vials. ❤
It’s weird that he canceled it because you can ware a musk and it’s been while since you first got sick, plus if you’re going in to the place for an appointment tomorrow?! It’s not making sense and you might want to consider a different doctor unless he can give you a reasonable example of why he hast to cancel it, but you can come in for an appointment
He said that it’s too risky for me to get pregnant with my immune system down. But i just want you to explain those risks and let me decide if it is worth it for me. I don’t think it’s fair for them. Especially where I’m feeling better and it’s only day 8.
Is a home insemination an option? Picking your sperm sample and using it at home possibly?
It is a different vial for at home insemination vs IUI is a washed vial. My donor only has washed vials so that’s not an option unfortunately.
@@KaitlynMarie-ug3po for in the future I have used IUI washed vials for ICI. I would definitely check with your doctor but I was told it was fine to do. It’s just not safe to use an unwashed for IUI. I’m so sorry this cycle didn’t pan out properly. I’m sending Abby dust for future attempts 🥳
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@@mawma6474thank you!
Covid made my cycle significantly longer for a while. Maybe your period WILL be delayed. Best of luck!
Thanks!