HOW WE MET | PJ AND THOMAS

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  • Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
  • This video is the next installment in our "Get to Know Us" series and it's all about how we first met 8 years ago. We've touched on this subject in the past but this is the first time we've gone into great detail about it.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 171

  • @FrancisDominic
    @FrancisDominic 7 років тому +223

    SO YOU BASICALLY MARRIED YOUR CRUSH, THOMAS?! Absolutely goals. This was such an enjoyable video to watch. I love you both so much.

  • @alexxolo
    @alexxolo 6 років тому +36

    "Crushing on him since I was 15"🔥🔥😍😍😍😍

  • @8tomtoms8
    @8tomtoms8 7 років тому +82

    I loved it when Thomas went and fetched the little box where he has saved notes, etc. between them. There is something so cute and innocent about that. No wonder PJ fell in love with him.

    • @sophiarose7610
      @sophiarose7610 5 років тому +1

      8tomtoms8 he does still seem sweet and innocent.

  • @BRinIowa
    @BRinIowa 7 років тому +73

    "And I thought I had died and gone to heaven"

  • @rparnell44
    @rparnell44 6 років тому +11

    The thing I like about watching these guys is that I am impressed with how courteous and respectful they are to each other

  • @minaok6786
    @minaok6786 7 років тому +178

    so you married your crush, im jealous lmao

  • @leonelsandoval1007
    @leonelsandoval1007 7 років тому +35

    Thomas , I think its so cuteee that you kept the notes, definitely something I would do ❤ you guys are amazing 🌠

  • @DenisJava
    @DenisJava 6 років тому +7

    Adorable story! My husband is from the Chattanooga area (Georgia, actually) and it's great to see a happy, healthy gay relationship thrive in that area. So much has changed since he moved away 35+ years ago.

  • @Joel-lq5gl
    @Joel-lq5gl 6 років тому +11

    Thomas, you have a sweet heart!

  • @HusbandandHusband
    @HusbandandHusband 7 років тому +119

    In a word: D'awwwwwwwwww!

  • @Jm-my1rd
    @Jm-my1rd 7 років тому +21

    Post some old pic when you were first met at that party!😍😍😍

  • @der22672
    @der22672 7 років тому +24

    I just loved this so much. You two were destined to be together. It was fate I believe that you found each other. Love you guys.

  • @FreewillUSA
    @FreewillUSA 6 років тому +6

    Very sweet story! I'm from a small town in NC, so I understand the challenges.

  • @jose-gr7jg
    @jose-gr7jg 7 років тому +58

    Lol yesterdays video: we broke up
    Todays video: how we met

  • @troymaiden7274
    @troymaiden7274 7 років тому +11

    This will sound pathetic - but I love your accents. 2 southern gentlemen with a story to tell. Keep it up!

  • @Liam_29_T
    @Liam_29_T 6 років тому +15

    This is the most adorable thing I’ve seen, such a cute story of how you guys met! 🙌🏻

  • @TheKareemMahmoud
    @TheKareemMahmoud 7 років тому +7

    I literally cannot stop smiling. Such a cute story, thanks for sharing it with us :)

  • @allaboutreptile
    @allaboutreptile 7 років тому +6

    AWWW. That is so sweet! ☺️ I was smiling the whole time! You guys gave me hope... One day I will find my husband! 🙏🏻

  • @spaceistian4578
    @spaceistian4578 2 роки тому +3

    I'm 17 y.o.
    From India
    It's somewhat similar situation happening with me RN
    I can totally relate to what you faced way back in 2009
    Coming from a small town It's a feeling like you will never find your partner or you will be left alone ......😐
    Anyway, love you both 🤗
    May you always stay together and live happily ever ❤

  • @dorothy1329
    @dorothy1329 6 років тому +10

    this is so sweet, i can just imagine you guys in that house that first time, a young Thomas, a little shy and butterflies going crazy in his stomach because he is so close to the guy he has a huge crush on and PJ being the slightly older guy feeling the same but not wanting to presume anything or spoil anything by moving things along too quickly, obviously, i may be way off with this image in my head but it's my head so it will stay haha !! it's similar to how i got together with my ex many years ago, we had stayed up all night talking and were together almost every day after that, we were together for 7 years and had a child together and the same with my current man who i have been with for 16 years so far, we also sat up all night talking and he stayed over at my home for the weekend and we have been together ever since. i also have kept all of the notes, love notes, silly notes and boring "can you remember to...." notes that my man has sent to me over the years and he has kept all of mine too, i love looking back over them every so often. i think you guys are wonderful, the kind of people i would love to have, and would feel blessed to have, as friends (in the real world i mean not the social media world haha) and the kind of people that i could literally sit and listen to talking for hours. i just wish we got your shows over here in the UK (we only have sky in our house). best wishes guys.

  • @nyc5927
    @nyc5927 7 років тому +8

    You two are incredible. You give hope and inspiration to many like you said, that may feel they will never meet that 'one'. Keep doing these get to know you videos. Very positive. Your love for each other comes thru in every video, especially your 'We broke up' video. It showed how you matured and worked on what was wrong instead of just letting it fall apart completely. No marriage is always smooth sailing. When it's not and you resolved the issues, it makes you appreciate what you have. Cherish it. "Preaching is over"

  • @josephthurman7988
    @josephthurman7988 7 років тому +14

    You two are so freakin awesome!

  • @RickyRyans
    @RickyRyans Рік тому

    The algorithm brought me here 😂 1:34 it’s so cute how Thomas expresses this HUGE crush he had awww

  • @ricardolopez9371
    @ricardolopez9371 7 років тому +8

    Thanks for sharing your story with us! Would you share stories from your wedding? And hopefully one day you'll be telling us stories of your children!! ❤️

  • @pips9687
    @pips9687 6 років тому +3

    love this you two so good together P J & Thomas

  • @Joel-lq5gl
    @Joel-lq5gl 6 років тому +1

    you guys have given so much hope to other guys who live in other small towns like your's that they do not have to go to NY or LA to find their soulmate.

  • @anuarvonen
    @anuarvonen 11 місяців тому

    LovelyOnes!!!! Always!!!!

  • @rasheed4675
    @rasheed4675 6 років тому +19

    Who gets to marry their crush? Luck you!

  • @lpforever6273
    @lpforever6273 7 років тому +3

    That was a lot to share and I thank you both for taking this step to put out there your personal story in this way. The detail of the remembered eye contact and then the note that ‘sealed the deal’ were heartwarming highlights for this jaded soul!

  • @QuangNguyen-ng5zh
    @QuangNguyen-ng5zh 8 місяців тому

    Cute couple. Lol at “it can happen to you” when you have those looks.

  • @thomasseiler233
    @thomasseiler233 6 років тому +2

    I'm a new viewer, but I love everything I've watched so far! You both are delightfully charming!

  • @garygary9310
    @garygary9310 7 років тому +5

    Wish I could be in a relationship like you two

  • @joshkeller8685
    @joshkeller8685 6 років тому

    The cutest damn thing I ever did see was that note. Oh my heavens, I held back tears. Actual tears!

  • @danjohnrob64
    @danjohnrob64 7 років тому +2

    I love, love, LOVE this video! You guys are so genuine and happy; you give me hope that life can be better!

  • @dpaint6268
    @dpaint6268 7 років тому +7

    not to be a downer but it is definitely easier when you are SOOOOOO good looking. The hard part when you are so good looking is to actually have a personality. A lot of good looking people do not have to have a personality because they given more just for being good looking. The odds of finding someone drop dead gorgeous, intelligent, fun, interesting, mature, and with the right goals is like a needle in a haystack! Good for you!!! I am not jealous, more like envious of you finding each other when you were both so young and have been able to really appreciate each other. I am 54 and live where there are 1.5 million people within about 150 miles. At my age, I am practically invisible. The single guys near my age are wanting the 18-25 yr olds. I look about 35-40 but even then I am not flavor of the decade. I wish you the VERY best and always remember, grass is NOT greener on the other side. BELIEVE ME! ;-)

  • @martinmenz2342
    @martinmenz2342 4 роки тому

    Oh my gosh, when you broke out the box with the note, my heart burst💗so romantic!

  • @were-all-human9427
    @were-all-human9427 7 років тому +1

    just true love x . . . "guest bedroom", classy, love it. x

  • @Krob039
    @Krob039 2 роки тому

    I love how just natural you both are.

  • @belizeguy
    @belizeguy 6 років тому +3

    I have recently found you guys, and am really enjoying catching up with old videos. Sure like what I am seeing. You guys are a lot of fun to listen to. Your story is precious and inspiring. I grew up in a very small Western NC town, got out as soon as I could, and eventually met the man of my dreams at work over 30 years ago. Married for the last 3 years, and retired the last 10. Early for me due to the age gap between us. Look forward to watching more and thanks for telling your story to help inspire others. Great Job Men!

  • @shteve119
    @shteve119 7 років тому +11

    where did Thomas get that sweater doee

  • @chandavitchea4722
    @chandavitchea4722 7 років тому +19

    PJ with beard : this video you looks like Jamie Dornan , Fifty shades of Grey !
    So this is if Mr. Grey is gay !!! My fantasy is complete ! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @dawnegan3984
    @dawnegan3984 4 роки тому

    That was a good story how you guys met how cute it was the note you left but I can only see great in everything you do

  • @betocerezo9670
    @betocerezo9670 6 років тому +3

    I want this, awwwww 💞💕💞

  • @alanjones3600
    @alanjones3600 7 років тому +4

    Hey PJ and Thomas thanks again for sharing your video 👍🏻🙂 I think it's so cute how you guys have a little box full of memories 😇 PJ I love your hair you look really cool 😎 Anyway thanks again for sharing your video with me 😃 I love you guys 💙💙

  • @maxpower2093
    @maxpower2093 4 роки тому

    I am so envious.

  • @raphaelwolf9779
    @raphaelwolf9779 3 роки тому

    I so enjoy both of you. You both are so vulnerable and revealing. I really like your vlogs you seem so comfortable with each other

  • @donnataylor980
    @donnataylor980 3 роки тому

    Great story. But even better you have been happy ever since!

  • @princecharles4724
    @princecharles4724 7 років тому +1

    goals

  • @donaldstorm4959
    @donaldstorm4959 7 років тому +2

    Thanks guys I have subscribed and you guys give me hope. You're both amazing thanks for this great interview. It was very heartwarming.

  • @ronaldlabieniec987
    @ronaldlabieniec987 7 років тому +2

    Great story! If I was Thomas back in the day, I would have had a crush on P.J., and If I was P.J. back in the day, I would have dreamt about Thomas :). You guys make a great-- and great looking-- couple. Love from Ct. Ron L.

  • @James20070
    @James20070 7 років тому

    Adorable! I keep a box of my fiancė and I's little notes and pictures throughout the years too! 😊

  • @geniusravin
    @geniusravin 7 років тому

    Ah. So sweet.

  • @iancmcneill
    @iancmcneill 5 років тому

    Great video - just come across your channel for the first time! Loved this story and have watched the cruise one. So nice to see a loving couple - inspiring for everyone! I’m from UK and came out late in life so your story describes the life I might have had! Now been with my partner 7 years and hope to marry next year! But don’t tell him it’s a surprise! X

  • @valdemarparis1017
    @valdemarparis1017 6 років тому

    My most favorite bloggers! )))...-thinking out loud )

  • @crosbyragnar5664
    @crosbyragnar5664 7 років тому

    Or a throwback thursday kinda storyyyyyt

  • @mht_octopenis
    @mht_octopenis 7 років тому +11

    PJ goes from Andrew Taggart to Jamie Dornan

  • @geneinpennsylvania
    @geneinpennsylvania 7 років тому +2

    You guys have reminded me of what a sucker I am for southerners :). PEACE

  • @crosbyragnar5664
    @crosbyragnar5664 7 років тому +2

    You should have posted this first before the broke up video. Anyway i love you both regardless. Make a "our wedding story"

    • @winnmatthews
      @winnmatthews 7 років тому

      Crosby Ragnar "The Proposal" first tho

  • @tinacouzens6258
    @tinacouzens6258 3 роки тому

    Such a beautiful story !!!

  • @dunno485
    @dunno485 7 років тому +8

    I hate you both. You're like my favourite couple ever. Can't actually imagine a better couple. Ugh your videos are too much. I love them. Please don't stop.

    • @philipgower2073
      @philipgower2073 7 років тому

      For variety you might check out the famous couple Tom Daley and Dustin
      Lance Black !!!! Philip

  • @jackh.3052
    @jackh.3052 7 років тому +4

    beautiful couple 😍😘

  • @jaaeson5285
    @jaaeson5285 7 років тому +18

    um.... so you had a crush on a guy for a long time, and then y'all eventually hit it off really well, had a few rough patches, worked out your issues, are constantly growing with each other, and now are happily married.
    sounds fake but ok
    ps: WILL THIS EVER HAPPEN TO ME???? 😩😫

  • @burthuffman2802
    @burthuffman2802 7 років тому

    Love you guys and happy I found your channel. This is a really great video...! Hang on to each other and never let go...!

  • @williamhwl
    @williamhwl 7 років тому +1

    PJ beard game is so strong!

  • @gabrielncali8999
    @gabrielncali8999 7 років тому

    I love this! Thanks guys! ❤️

  • @FBBifidus
    @FBBifidus 7 років тому

    You have such a cute story! Just one suggestion, next time put some photos from that time into the video, it would help to visualise the story!

  • @paulmiller6647
    @paulmiller6647 Рік тому

    Great video.

  • @jabnola
    @jabnola 3 роки тому

    I so love you guys you are my favorite Gay youtube couple. Watch every video you post. The kiddos make the family and you guys are great parent's. Wishing you and yours a very blessed Christmas.

  • @edhodges4661
    @edhodges4661 7 років тому

    Loved it. Love all your videos!!

  • @catquack
    @catquack 2 роки тому

    Great, great love story. It was definitely meant to be. 💐💕

  • @jeanstevenson718
    @jeanstevenson718 7 років тому

    Can I be so bold as to ask,why has PJ's wedding ring changed?I think you two boys are absolutely as one ,your beautiful together.I admire you no end.

  • @Chris-of9cw
    @Chris-of9cw 7 років тому

    That was so sweet - thanks for sharing ❤️

  • @michaeldenny3472
    @michaeldenny3472 7 років тому

    loved it can't wait for the next one!

  • @frankbriley4706
    @frankbriley4706 Рік тому

    Great video 🎉

  • @zedhell90
    @zedhell90 5 років тому

    Thank you for sharing..😊😊🙏

  • @FanGurlindia
    @FanGurlindia 2 роки тому

    3:53 wow you have really good memory I only had one relationship I don't remember when we talked first! 😂 I don't have brain 😂

  • @glitchhidef97
    @glitchhidef97 7 років тому

    I'm literally melting while watching you and your vids! Cutest couple i've ever seen. I'm so jealous! 😅❤😍

  • @waltman333
    @waltman333 7 років тому

    Really nice story guys.......Walt

  • @kennethrush9363
    @kennethrush9363 11 місяців тому

    When can we see holiday home when it is finished on you tube lv to all xxxxx

  • @jaredliu8644
    @jaredliu8644 5 років тому

    I cried

  • @trinidreamer85
    @trinidreamer85 6 років тому

    Such a cute story!

  • @freaksareyou311
    @freaksareyou311 7 років тому

    That’s a great story. I love how you said small town of 40,000 people. I come from a small town of about 1200 people haha to funny

  • @kennethgoldsmith3851
    @kennethgoldsmith3851 2 роки тому

    Wow I just started following you guys and I am also from a small town, where everyone knows everyone. All of my friends went to the big cities but it wasn’t for me. And I was lucky enough to have met my then boyfriend sitting in front of a straight club bitching about how horrible the girls were at the time, we don’t remember how we kissed and knew right away that we were gay but lol 12 years later living in the big city (we hate it), I still adore and love him as much as I first met him. We are both knew what we wanted since the beginning. Good time bad times now we are married with 2 boys x love from London.

  • @andymcaleavy
    @andymcaleavy 7 років тому

    Yous two 💙

  • @riversczech5461
    @riversczech5461 7 років тому

    I loved this!

  • @antaradutta2091
    @antaradutta2091 6 років тому

    I love your#how we meet..video...💕

  • @jquibbler
    @jquibbler 7 років тому

    We need to meet Shanna!!!

  • @zedhell90
    @zedhell90 5 років тому

    Waw ..really beautiful .....😊😊🙏

  • @rupayansingha321
    @rupayansingha321 4 роки тому

    Hii..i m new to your youtube family...yes...we should be optimistic that yes ..some day we will find our soulmate..loads of love to both of u..from India...❤❤👍🙏🙏

  • @Tripper111
    @Tripper111 7 років тому

    Yup...

  • @biga36695
    @biga36695 4 роки тому

    Loved

  • @matthewstafford8679
    @matthewstafford8679 7 років тому

    So stinking sweet I love it

  • @3506Dodge
    @3506Dodge 4 роки тому +4

    Outside of the gay meccas, gay men are all "aware of each other' since there are so few gay men around. It's not like the vast gay dating scene in big cities.

  • @leonelsandoval1007
    @leonelsandoval1007 7 років тому

    Thats so cute ..... I cant ❤

  • @sophie104x4
    @sophie104x4 7 років тому

    Oooo I loveeeee your sweater

  • @paleobc65
    @paleobc65 7 років тому +7

    kinda ironic how thomas was asking if the area safe, and now you can't find the same video of that conversation because your computer it was in was stolen

    • @ThePropertyLovers
      @ThePropertyLovers  7 років тому +4

      paleobc65 My computer was stolen at our last house and the house that we were talking about in this video was the first house I bought almost 10 years ago. 😉

    • @paleobc65
      @paleobc65 7 років тому

      The Property Lovers ohhhh

    • @alexxolo
      @alexxolo 6 років тому

      paleobc65 I didn't realize it till now🤣

  • @thomasmead6898
    @thomasmead6898 7 років тому

    Really cute story guys!

  • @jam0199
    @jam0199 7 років тому

    Such an adorable couple. :D

  • @b4804514
    @b4804514 7 років тому +1

    Guys Is it too personal to ask how you guys really fell for each other? There were many days together - were they all good? The learning curve is always fun if it goes well as it clearly did in your case.

  • @mercedmercy6598
    @mercedmercy6598 4 роки тому

    I love you both