My parents (mainly my mom) is similar with my life and relationship with my boyfriend (30 m) I've been isolated all my life even tho I have special needs and I'm (25 almost 26 f), and my boyfriend is so sweet even though he looks rough around the edges, could you guys help me figure out what to do after my boyfriend and I go with our plan or give me some advice please?
I hate to say it because it is sad, but I think you’re right. Got caught ridin’ dirty, in a sense. It’s a sad day indeed when you realize one can justify missing their child’s wedding, then demand that they do it all over again just to get some kind of inheritance. You have to be some kind of greedy prick to do that.
@@rugr82daythe sister wasn't ever planned to be in inheritance she hated having a non close relationship with the aunt and uncle so why would she have any cut especially when she was horrible during that time
Same! I’m at the point I hope the Aunt & Uncle leave it all to Charity! I want to puke 🤮 at how GULLIBLE OP is! I’d even say She faked her health scare just to get the money!
I think mom is full of shit even in her sick bed. She is just preparing things for Elaine and making sure Elaine will be ok. She is the favorite and that will never stop.
But if “making sure Elaine will be okay” includes having a happy and healthy family dynamic, where there’s no resentment between anyone then can we really still say this was a bad ending?
No I agree with blackbearrrr like I want just one story that’s like 5 minutes where this type of crap happens but op doesn’t feel bad or anything for the horrible people
That's easier said than done. A lot of people can't and don't stand up to their terrible parents and despite being terrible, they still want their love and validation, because those are the only parents they have.
@cocoace7587 they did what would be deemed as right but they weren't ready for that. Should've left her with the aunt/uncle when they seen they wouldn't be able to bond with her like the younger child. They associated her with a bad time in their life so they continued to look at her like a bad moment in their life. They were mad selfish and should've left her with the aunt/uncle instead of intentionally causing all that mental trauma for 1 child.
The mother/sister wanted reconciliation only when the uncle/aunt announced they'd cut them from the inheritance... AFTER mistreating the OP while demanding she interceded for them. My mother always changed when $ was involved. Then, she'd revert back to her uncaring self. Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. I cut contact.
@@-coems- Did she want it or did she just accept it? Knowing it wouldn't work out her way. There are ways to make sure a will cannot be contested. She took the next best route make sure the sisters reconcile so OP will be there later for Elaine.
At some point in our lives some of us need to come to the realization that both or one of our parents are not the parents we need or want . And there is no real point in staying in touch it just will cause more pain . Nothing will be gained only more pain added . NC and live !
Why do people keep letting their family hurt them? These people have treated you like crap since you were 6. You're an adult now. Why are you in contact with her at all? When they didn't come to your graduation, why didn't you invite your aunt and uncle? Why not just treat your aunt and uncle as your parents? You have 2 good parents, why not just treat them like they're your parents? It is absolutely ridiculous.
I had to give up on my parents who didn’t bother to come to our daughter’s funeral. I stopped reaching out and it felt good even though they are gone now.
@lindafischer1264 I'm so sorry you for the loss of your daughter. I can't imagine how awful that was. Your parents not showing up is even worse. I don't blame you for cutting them.off.
I would not trust your sister at all. She is in cahoots with your mother. Your sister may want your aunt and uncle inheritance too. So do not trust your sister or mother. I would go No Contact with both of them
14:24 selfish? The boyfriend’s birthday isn’t even that month, what? If anyone is being selfish it’s OP’s sister. She could’ve scheduled the party any other day, preferably on his actual birthday. Mom has a few screws loose if she honestly believes OP is the one in the wrong here.
I had my destinatipn wedding just after Christmas ensuring my in laws could attend and my family could take enough time off for the trip. Ten years later I get pulled aside by my step mom stating, in a very sarcastic tone, that I had had impeccable timing for my wedding as if her husband had to muss her 50th birthday or something, it was just any old Christmas for her and her daughter, who chose not to come. There was so much bottled up anger in her voice it rattled me to the core. This Christmas had been my best Christmas since my parents divorce as I never had a joint Christmas eve with my Dad for 20 years and I had felt so blessed for the opportunity to have my family come together. I am still upset to this day that someone can be so jealous! This lady caused me so much pain without ever laying actual hands on me.
OP should have commented on her sister's fb post and been like, "looks like you guys had fun! Shame I couldn't come since I was getting married that day."
The problem here with OP she is to much of a doormat to her mom and sister. I have a feeling mom and sis probably dad is a two faced backstabbers just waiting for the right moment, taken the history that they themselves put OP through. "FORGIVE THEM, BUT NEVER PUT AN OUNCE OF TRUST AND RESPECT TO THEM."
To get in good with the aunt and uncle to get that cheddar! I would have seriously gone no contact with all 3 of them after the wedding. If the aunt and uncle asked why, I'd tell them, if they said, well we think you are being too hard, we'll change our will. I'd tell them that's okay, you worked hard for what you have and you can give it away as you see fit. Her parents and sister are hideous people, I wouldn't trust them with a bag of garbage.
I disowned my mother years ago. Best thing I ever did for myself. I dont even think of her anymore, and when I do, I have never questioned my decision to release her from my life.
I haven't officially disowned my mother or father, but rather cut off communication from them a few years ago. Outside perspective and strong emotional support from close friends helped me realize how manipulative, emotionally, verbally, physically, and overall psychologically abusive my parents were. Unfortunately, we can't choose our biological parents and/or legal guardians. However, we can choose who we consider family. I'm proud of you. Always put your well-being over loyalty to relatives.
@@deamorebeaute2412 Thank you for that. I'm sorry, it sounds like you had some of thebsame I did. I've learned something very recently from an old high school friend, that apparently I "blocked out" that my principal at my school actually called child services on her. I simply don't remember, but I never knew others actually saw how vile of a person she really was. It's weird knowing that is had support and I didn't even know it/ remember it.
Yep , general concensus, the family is putting on their best performances 👏 . As soon as the will is read , they will block OP on everything. If a whole Mom refuses to attend her oldest daughter 's wedding , she has zero feelings for that daughter. # no mystery 🤷😬
Sounds like OP was taken away from her real family and trapped living with her breeders. I wish there had been a way for her to go back home to Aunt & Uncle
Your mom and sister are playing the long game,they couldn't manipulate you into a second wedding to make them look good so they are "reconciling". Don't be surprised when you get the inheritance that they try to guilt you into giving it to them.
If I had been at the wedding, I would have expressed surprise at seeing the father of the bride, and asked why he didn't desert the bride as he had done at her graduation. My lack of filters is a large part of the reason I was the "unfavoured" child, but why my father expressed his pride in me once I grew up.
Right... "Oh I didn't know how to treat you" Ok, how about.. "just like you are treating Elaine?" And is it really not going to be mentioned that the whole "surprise party at the same day as OP's wedding" is the most obvious spite ever? Especially since _even if_ that was the only day available, the right option is to not do it regardless, imagine making a surprise party at the same time as someone's wedding, smh
lmfaaaaaaaaaooooooooooo how do you miss your daughter's wedding (pssibly once in a lifetime ordeal?) to attend a birthday party that can happen every year
For people who still can't tell AI stories from regular users. 1) First obvious point is how the AI keep using the same words and phrases. If you have heard enough of these stories you would notice there are similar words and phrases that are always used in stories. 2) Memory. AI always has it hard when it comes to memory. You will notice how when the subject part of the story comes up for example the inheritance. The op always says stuff like "I appreciate their apology but they didn't attend my wedding so should I forgive" which completely ignores all the other heartache she suffered in the past. This is usually due to prompts given to the AI that after enough prompts AI forgets its own story details. 3) Characters instantly do a 180 or remains rigid with no change. There is no in between or build up. It is just sudden. Also the OP always acts holier than thou. This is usually to avoid critics from reddit from pointing OPs own mistakes. This attemp to look like jesus christ which in reality makes them look like spineless people with no self respect. 4) OP never talks about redditor's opinion. They would always appreciate it but never even mention any of the criticism UNTIL the OP have to justify his own bullshit which if it happens continued in point 5 5) They would direct the story in such a way which would justify whatever crap they themselves did in the past. 6) Story structure always remains the same and it is too story like. There is the past, there is the present, there is the future. 7)Their WIBTA and AITA are always the most pointless question in context to the actual situation they portrayed. This is to avoid deletion by reddit mods. 8) Their are always savior characters,sometimes grandpa sometimes aunt and uncle sometime long lost cousins, or friends or husband or wife. 9) Same story with characters swapped. Sometimes its FIL sometimes its MIL , sometimes its mom etc etc. 10) A really well happy ending. This is a subpoint to 5. This is to finish the story or sometimes to deviate obvious reddit critics who are calling out the OP for being naive and a doormat. This can also be the opposite, a very unsatisfactory ending. Sometimes to show the story is real or sometimes to give a tragic ending for the sake of it. Real life rarely works in such dynamic.
Most know it. We comment these hypothetical situations for the sake of it. I've lived thrugh some scenarios created by AIs (parents suddenly caring when you have $ for example).
All I can say is you’re stupid if you trust your mother and your sister your dad doesn’t seem much better but maybe slightly but I wouldn’t trust any of them. They don’t really want you. Your mum‘s only changing her mind over things is because of the inheritance that’s all it is it’s all to do with money just break away lose contact with them and have a happy life with your husband. 25:44
Just realised summat. This is a gender swap of a story I have already heard. Only difference is, of course, names and in the original story, the OP was sent to live with grandparents instead of aunt and uncle. Otherwise, it is exactly the same, down to the OP's partner's job and the comments made by OP's mum about the partner.
There's another story just like this one, only it's brothers not sisters, and grandparents, not aunt and uncle. The brothers name was like Melvin or Marvin
I kind of wonder why mom bothered taking OP back from Aunt and Uncle when she clearly did not want OP. or was she worried about the inheritance going to OP if OP became their child. children over nieces/nephews
I swear i have heard this exact story before, but they were brothers, they lived with grandparents instead of aunt/uncle, and the sibling had a 2nd anniversary party instead of a birthday.
Sorry, but tell me your a welcome mat without telling me your one. She doesn’t deserve to have those memories with you. Wait till the grandkids happen, then your own kids will have to feel all that too.
I wish my mom would feel genuine remorse over how awful she has treated me in my life. However I am prepared that that will never happen and am working on me
One cannot have repeat wedding so that the mother can attend and appease anyone. Even if she attended a duplicate wedding it does not “make up” for missing the real ceremony.
Does this girl have naive written on her forehead. Nobody changes that fast. If she believes that greed does not play a part in their behavior she is crazy. She will probably end up sharing the money with them. Nobody changes their spots that easily.
Why is this lady constantly trying to get her moms and sisters approval, they already showed you that they don’t care about you, focus on your aunt and her husband.
I’ll be blunt. This OP is one of the biggest doormat I’ve ever seen..uhm read. Also, she only poured her heart out including all her resentments at the hospital post heart attack of her mom? OP’s a clown.
What I don't understand, is why these people won't just cut ties with all the toxic people. I know she's the mother but is it worth all of the heartache and failed hope for the relationship to mend? I mean... How much can you stand? Just stick to your uncle's and husband and cut ties with everyone else.
The delusion. These people aren't being genuine after hearing they're losing their stake in an inheritance. There is no reason why she should believe anything after the open disdain.
For the love of.... Grow a damn spine or find one in therapy. Block your bio donors, block the "sister". Let your parents handle their inheritance the way they want to. Elaine's parents are leaving her everything anyway, so take what your real parents are giving and don't look back.
A birthday party that is normally a yearly event is way less important than a wedding ceremony that is usually only done once in a person's lifetime. Wtf karen
For the life of me, I would NOT interrupt my honeymoon for a sorry excuse of an egg donor and a witch psychotic money greedy sister. There is no way those two 304s are truly sorry and want to be better. And the dad? What a weak wimp. Only years of therapy would help. By the way, the egg donor should sign a document renouncing any inheritance as proof goodwill. Who writes these stories? A wannabe scriptwriter for Hallmark movies?!
I don’t get some people. Abandoned a kid till 6 and then fetch the kid to live in their home only to bully the kid. Honestly, they should have adopted the child as young as three and ban them from visiting
Your mother has no desire to make amends All she cares about is inherit your Aunt and Uncle wealth. The moment she gets that, she will immediately return to who she always has been
EVEN WHILE PAYING YOUR PARENTS ///. FAMILY TO. PRETEND SUDDENLY START LOVING YOU ! NO AMOUNT WILL EVER BE ENOUGH FOR PARENTS ///. FAMILY TO. CONTINUE. PRETEND WITHOUT YOU. PAYING YOUR. PARENTS TO PRETEND . NO AMOUNT WILL EVER GET THEIR LOVE 💕. ITS NEVER EVER GOING TO EVER HAPPEN. NEVER EVER
OPs stupid if she believes the mom & sister give a damn about her. 😂 They’re both playing the long game and trying to gain that inheritance by showing that they “changed” rather than going the long & risky route of contesting the will. I feel bad for OPs husband who has to live with a disfuncional family that always walk all over the doormat aka OP.
I’m bothered by the fact that the only thing that pushed her mom and sister to suddenly correct their trash behavior was the inheritance. I don’t trust them.
Quite the family saga! I think mom was very resentful because of the inheritance, but after her little heart problems I think she probably realized that there were much more important things to deal with in her life. I’m glad everyone got everything sorted out and the family is a happy family finally. Thanks for the story! 😊
Ok this is crazy to me. Since when can you contest another person's will. That is literally insane. Isn't a will something a dead person leaves to their chosen loved ones? How can a person just contest someone else's wishes, especially if they're dead
It is legal, but you have to like go to court or something Like for example, you can contest the will if the people were taken advantage of or coerced into changing it for someone or something
Shocking how people suddenly start oversharing their “emotional vulnerability” as an excuse for their bad behaviour when money is involved. 😂
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Your mother isn't regretful about missing your wedding its all about the inheritance she don't love you
I look at that as clear narcissism , don’t care until it affects you, you look bad, or your caught in the act
I agree
My parents (mainly my mom) is similar with my life and relationship with my boyfriend (30 m) I've been isolated all my life even tho I have special needs and I'm (25 almost 26 f), and my boyfriend is so sweet even though he looks rough around the edges, could you guys help me figure out what to do after my boyfriend and I go with our plan or give me some advice please?
I hate to say it because it is sad, but I think you’re right. Got caught ridin’ dirty, in a sense. It’s a sad day indeed when you realize one can justify missing their child’s wedding, then demand that they do it all over again just to get some kind of inheritance. You have to be some kind of greedy prick to do that.
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"i was shocked by Elaine's honesty"
what honesty?
EXACTLY! Elaine is just trying to get on her good side or trying to get her to hold another wedding for her mom.
Said the same
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Ahahaha when she said this out loud I was like "NOOOOOOOO!" 🤣
My thoughts exactly! Any fool could see she was only trying to help get the OP to sway her aunt and uncle into giving her mom her inheritance
I dont know but I hate the story teller. She loves to be in that situation
When mom realizes she was losing the money she decided to change
Same thing for the sister.
@@rugr82daythe sister wasn't ever planned to be in inheritance
she hated having a non close relationship with the aunt and uncle
so why would she have any cut especially when she was horrible during that time
@@rugr82dayalso she was horrible always until she broke up
which didn't have a link to the inheritance
@@rugr82day but if mom got the money elain gets the money
The question is she changing for a shot at the money and will she change back after the aunt and uncle die ?
The way she continued to deal with these toxic people pissed me off
Same! I’m at the point I hope the Aunt & Uncle leave it all to Charity! I want to puke 🤮 at how GULLIBLE OP is! I’d even say She faked her health scare just to get the money!
Its fiction and the author overdid the suffering
Yea she said she blocked them at first. Probably would edit that part out.@niclasjohansson5992
I think mom is full of shit even in her sick bed. She is just preparing things for Elaine and making sure Elaine will be ok. She is the favorite and that will never stop.
But if “making sure Elaine will be okay” includes having a happy and healthy family dynamic, where there’s no resentment between anyone then can we really still say this was a bad ending?
@@_prince_milo_I think they meant making sure she'd get a piece of the aunt and uncle's inheritance through her parents
Oh there’s not a shred of love. It’s all about the money! I’d bet every dime of it mommy faked or gave herself that heart attack!
@@zoeb3573 aunt and uncle already said that they are only giving OP the inheritance or did you not watch the whole video?
@tranz_boy I watched it in full, yeah. I'm not willing to re-watch it 2 months later just to argue with you though.
Why do yall waste your time trying to please these awful people? Block them and move on.
You can't tell this to the AI that generates these stupid stories.
Because the story would be over already op has to padded it 😂
No I agree with blackbearrrr like I want just one story that’s like 5 minutes where this type of crap happens but op doesn’t feel bad or anything for the horrible people
I would have told my mom how did she know what a good mom was since she wasn’t one.
That's easier said than done. A lot of people can't and don't stand up to their terrible parents and despite being terrible, they still want their love and validation, because those are the only parents they have.
It would have been nice if OP could have stayed with there real parents aka aunt and uncle.
Exactly. I couldn't understand why they took her from her Aunt . Unless they needed a " punching bag ."
@@cocoace7587AI story.
@cocoace7587 they did what would be deemed as right but they weren't ready for that. Should've left her with the aunt/uncle when they seen they wouldn't be able to bond with her like the younger child. They associated her with a bad time in their life so they continued to look at her like a bad moment in their life. They were mad selfish and should've left her with the aunt/uncle instead of intentionally causing all that mental trauma for 1 child.
This.
Yes, that bothered me so much. She was a happy kid in a loving home and then that monster took her to hell. 😩
"I broke up with my boyfriend because i way too guilty i missed your wedding" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
And she bought into this BS
The whole story is BS. Is don't believe a WORD of it. The whole thing reads like a Hallmark movie.
The mother/sister wanted reconciliation only when the uncle/aunt announced they'd cut them from the inheritance... AFTER mistreating the OP while demanding she interceded for them.
My mother always changed when $ was involved. Then, she'd revert back to her uncaring self.
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. I cut contact.
They're just playing you. It's all about the money and what they might miss out on. I don't believe people changed like that.
but the aunt and uncle have already said they won't be changing anything so there's nothing for her to gain.
@@guestactplus the mother wanted the will to be like that at the end
@@-coems- Did she want it or did she just accept it? Knowing it wouldn't work out her way. There are ways to make sure a will cannot be contested. She took the next best route make sure the sisters reconcile so OP will be there later for Elaine.
@@lonewanderer8743 just accepted
At some point in our lives some of us need to come to the realization that both or one of our parents are not the parents we need or want . And there is no real point in staying in touch it just will cause more pain . Nothing will be gained only more pain added . NC and live !
Why do people keep letting their family hurt them? These people have treated you like crap since you were 6. You're an adult now. Why are you in contact with her at all? When they didn't come to your graduation, why didn't you invite your aunt and uncle? Why not just treat your aunt and uncle as your parents? You have 2 good parents, why not just treat them like they're your parents? It is absolutely ridiculous.
I had to give up on my parents who didn’t bother to come to our daughter’s funeral. I stopped reaching out and it felt good even though they are gone now.
@lindafischer1264 I'm so sorry you for the loss of your daughter. I can't imagine how awful that was. Your parents not showing up is even worse. I don't blame you for cutting them.off.
a birthday happens once a year.
a wedding -- ideally -- once in a lifetime.
Choosing to go to a surprise party for the sister's boyfriend rather than their daughter's wedding? 🤯
Mom is a master manipulator 🤣
I would not trust your sister at all. She is in cahoots with your mother. Your sister may want your aunt and uncle inheritance too. So do not trust your sister or mother. I would go No Contact with both of them
14:24 selfish? The boyfriend’s birthday isn’t even that month, what? If anyone is being selfish it’s OP’s sister. She could’ve scheduled the party any other day, preferably on his actual birthday. Mom has a few screws loose if she honestly believes OP is the one in the wrong here.
I had my destinatipn wedding just after Christmas ensuring my in laws could attend and my family could take enough time off for the trip. Ten years later I get pulled aside by my step mom stating, in a very sarcastic tone, that I had had impeccable timing for my wedding as if her husband had to muss her 50th birthday or something, it was just any old Christmas for her and her daughter, who chose not to come. There was so much bottled up anger in her voice it rattled me to the core. This Christmas had been my best Christmas since my parents divorce as I never had a joint Christmas eve with my Dad for 20 years and I had felt so blessed for the opportunity to have my family come together. I am still upset to this day that someone can be so jealous! This lady caused me so much pain without ever laying actual hands on me.
That woman is a complete fool. They don't care about her. They want the money.
sis made a power play. parents supported it. they made their choices.
“Jake isn’t family-oriented.” Ok, well neither were both of you it seems but that didn’t stop you from having 2 kids.
Eleine is OBVIOUSLY trying to butter up op to get some of the money😮💨, I cant with these people.
OP should have commented on her sister's fb post and been like, "looks like you guys had fun! Shame I couldn't come since I was getting married that day."
I am always amazed that OPs are always surprised that their family acts in their normal behavior.
The problem here with OP she is to much of a doormat to her mom and sister. I have a feeling mom and sis probably dad is a two faced backstabbers just waiting for the right moment, taken the history that they themselves put OP through. "FORGIVE THEM, BUT NEVER PUT AN OUNCE OF TRUST AND RESPECT TO THEM."
Why did the parents even take her home because they clearly do mot give a fuck about her
To get in good with the aunt and uncle to get that cheddar! I would have seriously gone no contact with all 3 of them after the wedding. If the aunt and uncle asked why, I'd tell them, if they said, well we think you are being too hard, we'll change our will. I'd tell them that's okay, you worked hard for what you have and you can give it away as you see fit. Her parents and sister are hideous people, I wouldn't trust them with a bag of garbage.
I disowned my mother years ago. Best thing I ever did for myself. I dont even think of her anymore, and when I do, I have never questioned my decision to release her from my life.
I haven't officially disowned my mother or father, but rather cut off communication from them a few years ago. Outside perspective and strong emotional support from close friends helped me realize how manipulative, emotionally, verbally, physically, and overall psychologically abusive my parents were. Unfortunately, we can't choose our biological parents and/or legal guardians. However, we can choose who we consider family.
I'm proud of you. Always put your well-being over loyalty to relatives.
@@deamorebeaute2412 Thank you for that. I'm sorry, it sounds like you had some of thebsame I did. I've learned something very recently from an old high school friend, that apparently I "blocked out" that my principal at my school actually called child services on her. I simply don't remember, but I never knew others actually saw how vile of a person she really was. It's weird knowing that is had support and I didn't even know it/ remember it.
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Dude Elaine would have hated me cause I was a massive b to anyone who tried to bully me. She would have learned fast and hard how hateful I could be.
Yep , general concensus, the family is putting on their best performances 👏 . As soon as the will is read , they will block OP on everything.
If a whole Mom refuses to attend her oldest daughter 's wedding , she has zero feelings for that daughter. # no mystery 🤷😬
These doormat’s are disgusting. Your mom and sister don’t give a damn about you.
Forgive her? Absolutely. But that doesn't mean she comes back into your life. You could never be sure if she's manipulating things or not.
These type of parents do not deserve children.
Sounds like OP was taken away from her real family and trapped living with her breeders. I wish there had been a way for her to go back home to Aunt & Uncle
they didn't bring you back home. they took you away from the only family you had known.
Why does everyone in these stories just have to “meet up” with someone who mistreated them? Has no one ever heard of FaceTime, zoom, or google duo?smh
Because sometimes its good to get closure face to face
Your mom and sister are playing the long game,they couldn't manipulate you into a second wedding to make them look good so they are "reconciling". Don't be surprised when you get the inheritance that they try to guilt you into giving it to them.
If I had been at the wedding, I would have expressed surprise at seeing the father of the bride, and asked why he didn't desert the bride as he had done at her graduation. My lack of filters is a large part of the reason I was the "unfavoured" child, but why my father expressed his pride in me once I grew up.
Right... "Oh I didn't know how to treat you"
Ok, how about.. "just like you are treating Elaine?"
And is it really not going to be mentioned that the whole "surprise party at the same day as OP's wedding" is the most obvious spite ever?
Especially since _even if_ that was the only day available, the right option is to not do it regardless, imagine making a surprise party at the same time as someone's wedding, smh
I mean...the spite is an established given, so I don't think so? hehe
lmfaaaaaaaaaooooooooooo how do you miss your daughter's wedding (pssibly once in a lifetime ordeal?) to attend a birthday party that can happen every year
they are cruel, hated her from the beginning but didn't even had the decency to let her being adopted by her aunt and uncle
She has zero desire to make amends. She only wants the money. Nothing more.
For people who still can't tell AI stories from regular users.
1) First obvious point is how the AI keep using the same words and phrases. If you have heard enough of these stories you would notice there are similar words and phrases that are always used in stories.
2) Memory. AI always has it hard when it comes to memory. You will notice how when the subject part of the story comes up for example the inheritance. The op always says stuff like "I appreciate their apology but they didn't attend my wedding so should I forgive" which completely ignores all the other heartache she suffered in the past. This is usually due to prompts given to the AI that after enough prompts AI forgets its own story details.
3) Characters instantly do a 180 or remains rigid with no change. There is no in between or build up. It is just sudden. Also the OP always acts holier than thou. This is usually to avoid critics from reddit from pointing OPs own mistakes. This attemp to look like jesus christ which in reality makes them look like spineless people with no self respect.
4) OP never talks about redditor's opinion. They would always appreciate it but never even mention any of the criticism UNTIL the OP have to justify his own bullshit which if it happens continued in point 5
5) They would direct the story in such a way which would justify whatever crap they themselves did in the past.
6) Story structure always remains the same and it is too story like. There is the past, there is the present, there is the future.
7)Their WIBTA and AITA are always the most pointless question in context to the actual situation they portrayed. This is to avoid deletion by reddit mods.
8) Their are always savior characters,sometimes grandpa sometimes aunt and uncle sometime long lost cousins, or friends or husband or wife.
9) Same story with characters swapped. Sometimes its FIL sometimes its MIL , sometimes its mom etc etc.
10) A really well happy ending. This is a subpoint to 5. This is to finish the story or sometimes to deviate obvious reddit critics who are calling out the OP for being naive and a doormat. This can also be the opposite, a very unsatisfactory ending. Sometimes to show the story is real or sometimes to give a tragic ending for the sake of it. Real life rarely works in such dynamic.
Most know it. We comment these hypothetical situations for the sake of it. I've lived thrugh some scenarios created by AIs (parents suddenly caring when you have $ for example).
All I can say is you’re stupid if you trust your mother and your sister your dad doesn’t seem much better but maybe slightly but I wouldn’t trust any of them. They don’t really want you. Your mum‘s only changing her mind over things is because of the inheritance that’s all it is it’s all to do with money just break away lose contact with them and have a happy life with your husband. 25:44
Just realised summat. This is a gender swap of a story I have already heard. Only difference is, of course, names and in the original story, the OP was sent to live with grandparents instead of aunt and uncle. Otherwise, it is exactly the same, down to the OP's partner's job and the comments made by OP's mum about the partner.
Agree, this is the same story. Just swap some stuffs.
That makes more sense. Seems weird that aunt/uncle would leave inheritance to a sibling. Plus “it’s been ____ weeks and a lot has happened” screams AI
There's another story just like this one, only it's brothers not sisters, and grandparents, not aunt and uncle. The brothers name was like Melvin or Marvin
OP is a kind person and I hope it works out in the end. She genuinely loves her family. Im happy she had true parents in her aunt and uncle.
This is a copy of another story, the only different that in this one it's girls, and it's aunty and uncle instead of grandparents.
Mom and sis aren’t sorry for their actions, they just want the money from the inheritance.
I kind of wonder why mom bothered taking OP back from Aunt and Uncle when she clearly did not want OP.
or was she worried about the inheritance going to OP if OP became their child. children over nieces/nephews
I think they are playing with the op. Her mother wants to get the inheritance so she can give everything to op's sister. I hope she sees this.
About the will. Easy. Give mom $1, so there's no contesting
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This is absolutely pathetic, if you buy this bs and forgive them, you deserve anything that happens after.
I have four kids and there is no way, I would purposely choose one over another! I cannot believe how toxic this mother is!
There is no reason to abandon your child ever. I would never accept an apology
saw the exact same story except it was 2 brothers (and a swimming competition).
Was thinking the same thing
Where
I would've gone no contact so much sooner than the wedding. It's insane how badly neglected OP is and continues to try.
If OPs parents truly cared about her, they would have allowed the Aunt and Uncle to just adopt OP when she was a baby.
All the aunt and uncle have to state in the will is that the mother isn't to get a penny of their wealth, and the mom can't contest anything.
I swear i have heard this exact story before, but they were brothers, they lived with grandparents instead of aunt/uncle, and the sibling had a 2nd anniversary party instead of a birthday.
Sorry, but tell me your a welcome mat without telling me your one. She doesn’t deserve to have those memories with you. Wait till the grandkids happen, then your own kids will have to feel all that too.
Elaine had her high school graduation before OP had her college graduation
I call bullsh*t, the bf found out what she did and dumped her
I love how they changed in the span of seconds once that will was brought up😂
26:13 only putting in work for that will
I wish my mom would feel genuine remorse over how awful she has treated me in my life. However I am prepared that that will never happen and am working on me
Cafés are just full of people having tense meetings and awkward confrontations, huh?
One cannot have repeat wedding so that the mother can attend and appease anyone. Even if she attended a duplicate wedding it does not “make up” for missing the real ceremony.
Does this girl have naive written on her forehead. Nobody changes that fast. If she believes that greed does not play a part in their behavior she is crazy. She will probably end up sharing the money with them. Nobody changes their spots that easily.
Why is this lady constantly trying to get her moms and sisters approval, they already showed you that they don’t care about you, focus on your aunt and her husband.
23:50 Wow. That's Hollywood level cinema, there.
Why would the Aunt and Uncle leave anything to the mom in their will....thats not a normal thing....sounds like a hijacked story
Maybe mom dies before the aunt and uncle. They are the same age and mom has heart problems.
Everyones so pessimistic believing people can’t change which is so idiotic
this just sounds like an ai story that mixed up grandma and grandpa with aunt and uncle
At least she had a loving auntie & uncle that raised her as their own. Not everyone is that lucky.
I’ll be blunt. This OP is one of the biggest doormat I’ve ever seen..uhm read.
Also, she only poured her heart out including all her resentments at the hospital post heart attack of her mom? OP’s a clown.
What I don't understand, is why these people won't just cut ties with all the toxic people. I know she's the mother but is it worth all of the heartache and failed hope for the relationship to mend? I mean... How much can you stand? Just stick to your uncle's and husband and cut ties with everyone else.
Her mom is going to contest the aunt and uncle's will decisions..wth
This is how you know it is AI.
@Willowy13 how do you know it's AI? Show us, I'll wait.
When people show you who they are - believe it
The delusion. These people aren't being genuine after hearing they're losing their stake in an inheritance. There is no reason why she should believe anything after the open disdain.
For the love of.... Grow a damn spine or find one in therapy. Block your bio donors, block the "sister". Let your parents handle their inheritance the way they want to. Elaine's parents are leaving her everything anyway, so take what your real parents are giving and don't look back.
11:52 jake looks like a man who has honour and respect for himself,
Its a blessing to the op because that person will make you better
A birthday party that is normally a yearly event is way less important than a wedding ceremony that is usually only done once in a person's lifetime. Wtf karen
There's a story just like this but with grandparents instead of the aunt and uncle. Like, verbatim
For the life of me, I would NOT interrupt my honeymoon for a sorry excuse of an egg donor and a witch psychotic money greedy sister. There is no way those two 304s are truly sorry and want to be better. And the dad? What a weak wimp. Only years of therapy would help. By the way, the egg donor should sign a document renouncing any inheritance as proof goodwill. Who writes these stories? A wannabe scriptwriter for Hallmark movies?!
Oh, she likes dancing?
Let me call someone who's good with a crowbar.
I don’t get some people. Abandoned a kid till 6 and then fetch the kid to live in their home only to bully the kid. Honestly, they should have adopted the child as young as three and ban them from visiting
🙄 girl your gaslighting mom isn't sorry or regretful. I wish i could take her inheritance away just for being so hopeful.
Your mother has no desire to make amends
All she cares about is inherit your Aunt and Uncle wealth.
The moment she gets that, she will immediately return to who she always has been
11:00 It's not about disrespect. She like people who do not stand up to her. Like OP's father
This is an exact rewrite, changing names and sexes, of a story of two brothers featured one 3 other channels.
EVEN WHILE PAYING YOUR PARENTS ///. FAMILY TO. PRETEND SUDDENLY START LOVING YOU ! NO AMOUNT WILL EVER BE ENOUGH FOR PARENTS ///. FAMILY TO. CONTINUE. PRETEND WITHOUT YOU. PAYING YOUR. PARENTS TO PRETEND . NO AMOUNT WILL EVER GET THEIR LOVE 💕. ITS NEVER EVER GOING TO EVER HAPPEN. NEVER EVER
OPs stupid if she believes the mom & sister give a damn about her. 😂 They’re both playing the long game and trying to gain that inheritance by showing that they “changed” rather than going the long & risky route of contesting the will. I feel bad for OPs husband who has to live with a disfuncional family that always walk all over the doormat aka OP.
I’m bothered by the fact that the only thing that pushed her mom and sister to suddenly correct their trash behavior was the inheritance. I don’t trust them.
17:05 is your mom gonna pay for the second wedding? If not, then u shouldn't pay 4 it also likes you to deserve the inherents
Quite the family saga! I think mom was very resentful because of the inheritance, but after her little heart problems I think she probably realized that there were much more important things to deal with in her life. I’m glad everyone got everything sorted out and the family is a happy family finally. Thanks for the story! 😊
No. She's just making sure the golden child is taken care of nothing else. She is masterclass manipulator.
Isn't your sister an actress? Don't fall for this OP. You're smarter than this.
You are too kind. These monsters deserve nothing from you. You don't owe them anything.
when your Mom and sister realized OP's aunt and uncle were giving you the inheritance they suddenly ''Changed''. You're stupid to fall for it.
Ok this is crazy to me. Since when can you contest another person's will. That is literally insane. Isn't a will something a dead person leaves to their chosen loved ones? How can a person just contest someone else's wishes, especially if they're dead
It is legal, but you have to like go to court or something
Like for example, you can contest the will if the people were taken advantage of or coerced into changing it for someone or something
OP is genuinely so stupid it makes me angry
Everybody thinks they’re the BOSS until they sit down on the therapist’s couch!
Unlike some people in these comments..I am glad that she decided to give her family a chance and work through there issues. Good luck
2:05 A 4yr old was calling a 6yr old childish??
you dont have to stage anything. it is up to them to make amends, first.