Andrew Huberman explains sex to Lex Fridman
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Lex finally gets 'the talk'.
He still needs to update his system before the whole program is setup
Looool
💀
I love when they play up the Lex not being human stuff. Always appreciated.
This one is just plain and simple about his virginity
Not knowing human stuff or not being human
@Werner Pfeifenberger he said he was on the mark normand episode
Lex's editor trolling hard lol
fr like that thumb w Natalie portperson 🔥 🥵
Totally, I love it! 😅
@@breakthecycle5238 portperson ? not portman ?
@@bmabhilash01 no bro we are living in the progressive future now. Her last name is offensive and perpetuates the androcentric nature of our society. non binary is the wave. Gotta dismantle it one last name at a time ✊
@@savasavkovic7228 I see
Well, this is one the best clip titles I've read in some time.
I concur. Here here! Get it Lex.
agre hahahah
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes! Kudos to Lex’s clips team 😁
Lex describes his experience with a woman like "grabbing a bag of sand"
I never comment on anything but this is the best UA-cam comment in the history of anything
When did he say this?
@@emilhansen2555 It’s a reference to the 40 year old virgin. OP wasn’t being serious I’m sure.
fuck this made me laugh
LMAO
This is like explaining color to a person who was blind at birth
Andrew: "You see Lex first you and her should remove your clothes....do you understand what I am getting at?!"
Lex: "Yes, My CPU is a neural-net processor; a learning computer."
🤣🤣
"I have detailed files on human anatomy."
@@superdoonz1 😭😭
Arousal of a computer...hmmm
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@@superdoonz1 I read that in Lex voice.
Bro im genuinely baffled by just HOW MUCH Andrew knows about stuff, mid convo he'll whip out facts, studies, books and its like he knows literally everything. His mind is an encyclopedia.
This is why you don't smoke weed kids
@@JJBerthume what has weed got to do w this
Stanford University is no joke, everyone there is brilliant
@@losasakarosa9050 I'm sure he is referring to the negative memory side effects of marijuana smoking. Which are real. Ofcourse his statement actually says more about him than the substance as it was out of left field asf and devoid of nuance.
@@losasakarosa9050 I love weed and smoke it often haha, I don't think it negatively affects your cognition or creativity if used infrequently and can enhance both in my experience but it DEFINITELY fucks with your memory for sure
A big reason people can end up attracted to abusers is that abusers provide rewards (moments of let-up from the abuse) on a variable ratio schedule, like a slot machine. People playing slot machines are losing most of the time, but losing is expected, and expected outcomes don't galvanize our attentional, memory, and motivational resources. It's the rare, unpredictable wins we notice and remember, and their disproportionate influence is what keeps us playing. In the context of abusive relationships, these occasional moments of kinder behavior fuel the belief that "he/she can change," which is often how we rationalize our continued involvement. And yes, our relationships with our parents (or other figures in childhood) can entrain us in this pattern.
very nice
Very well put
wrong, abuser are good looking and the abused like to stay with abuser because they dread losing the good looking abuser
good analogy
There's evidence of the reverse occurring also. That abusers are able to detect someone they can abuse and gravitate towards them; usually people with low self-esteem, unconfident and submissive.
Andrew knows so much. His brain is organised like a library and his mind knows exactly how to combine this knowledge for the listener. Incredible.
He’s a human encyclopedia.
Is he hinting he’s into polyamorous relationships
When I saw the title I imagined Andrew describing sex step by step to Lex 🤣
"well you see Lex you have to insert......" 🤣
Jajajaja
The RAM in the slot
@@axelf4515_"You gotta pay attention to where the notch is. This varies based on the memory module specification and can hint that what you have is not compatible..."_
"Andrew Huberman explains sex to Lex Fridman" tooo good 😂
Andrew - "Well you see, Lex, when one android loves another android very, very much.."
"Species appropriate." Apparently quite a challenge for some folks
This sounds more like a Christian moral value honestly
@@WilliamParkerer It's inevitable
Lex a Virgin? Damn he's completely dedicated to his work more than Einstein!! Brilliant troll title. Click click click...
I HAVE to know the reason behind Mr. Huberman ALWAYS including "species appropriate" in his list of sexual parameters.
Every rule has a story.
Furries.
@@Cyanopteryx BAHAHAHAHA
It made me laugh out loud. Species appropriate dear god!! 😂
I guess some people need to be told!
Computer AI and meta relationships are cool though right? 😂
So he does not get sued by someone! Always clarifies "I am not a medical doctor too!
I watched the entire episode, yet I still find myself watching the Clips . Your show is that fantastic.
Baha when Lex said "what about sexual fantasy" there was that look in his eye
3:26
Young males today are too nearly universally consumers of pornography, which damages their sexual function. That’s largely (but not exclusively) why they’re all asking about problems with arousal and erectile dysfunction.
Probably cause porn is better than irl sex by a subtantialy amount
@@royalecrafts6252 no it’s not.
@@royalecrafts6252 maybe for you.
@@oliverlennard then it is lol, someone can choose porn or irl sex, one carries way more problems and drama than the other, your call
@@royalecrafts6252 one is good for your physical and mental health and one is not.
lmao i love Lex's sexual questions. always accompanied by an awkward smile/giggle
This is fascinating information. One of the best pieces of advice I ever got about relationships was from a genius and he said: If you want a healthy relationship find a girl who has parents with a healthy relationship. Relationship behaviour is learned from a very young pre-pubescent age and then emulated.
Oh man, if she’s evaluating me the same way, I’m toast
@@MisterWilliamss women and men see the world through different lenses
@@jenilpatel7048 who are the parental figures in your life?
@@GarinKilpatrick
Yo mama
The title should have been, "Andrew Huberman explains Lex to sex Fridman"
Has lex fridman never been with a woman?
He's 35, so odds are he has been 😅 but these tongue-in-cheek video titles are cracking me up 😆
Really loved this episode!
No. Lex goes in depth about his a-sexual lifestyle in one of his shows.
I guess he got caught masterbating in mother russia and was shamed
@@vandal_dk dang it. I knew I shouldn’t of commented. I’m 17 so I’m the virgin in this case and my innocence beat me to it. Dang it Mateo, not everyone understands irony. Copied that last part from Elon musk by the way. Cool!
Tim Dillion
Edit: For those who may not be aware - Tim Dillon asked Lex to Marry in a tweet on April Fool’s day and Lex said yes. 😁
@@lennomenno eh that's close enough to todays "woman"
Lex getting "the talk" haha
Jealousy is my least favorite emotion. It is all consuming.
@@Snozcumber for sure, jealousy doesn't sit still
I love it when my girlfriend gets jealous about me. Makes me feel wanted :)
@@AndrewOsbourne this won't be true for most people lol
@@AndrewOsbourne Intellectually they'll make sense, but they won't automatically erase jealousy unless the person meditates and considers them (and not just them) for a bit. I'm glad It worked for you, but it's not a cure-all
Jealousy is a spark ⚡️ for inspiration, it will burn your circuits up if you keep it still too long. You have to admit you’re inspired.
These recent videos on sex have been some of the most funny and relatable vids Lex has put out recently lol
A lot of people get their majority of joy from non-sexual activity but it varies from time to time
1:55 this description of nervous system is absolutely false. I know that is what it says in the textbooks too .. but then the known biology completely refutes that definition when we actually look at what each one does. For example the supposed relaxing parasympathethic system makes our pupils shrink while the sympathetic system makes them relax and enlarge. Same goes for the bladder , digestive tract and even stomach activity - the supposed 'relaxing' system makes it all more active and able to do its function while the sympathetic locks them up with inactivity.
It is not relaxing and stiffening processes - the body goes into specific modes of function which are controlled by three systems not two.
It doesn't work like a sea-saw either - human bodies operate on fuzzy logic which doesn't have to clear the data bank to have different data present (like a sea saw does - hitting the ground before bumping the other way)
Everyone thinks Lex is a virgin. Be crazy to think he may be slayingit behind the scenes
Shouldn't Whitney Cummings explain it to him? Do something good and altruistic. For a change.
The psychoanalytic thing about our brains attaching caregiver and lovers traits is fascinating. would love to learn more if anyone has links?
I’d suggest looking up more Andrew Huberman videos or read that “Attached” book he mentioned.
Poly Secure has a fantastic intro on attachment styles and their relationship to early experiences/romantic attachments. Sue Johnson’s work is fantastic for couples.
Read the book "Getting the Love you Want" By Helen LaKelly Hunt
Second that advice, Getting the Love You Want is fantastic
(Harville Hendrix)
whenever I hear someone with this good of a vocabulary I feel unspoken
Just practice, that's why they sound good. If you want it, you can attain it.
Reading alot can really set some things down, because you are given more time to process things on your own, you end up using them yourself not too long after I find.
Im guessing english is your second language (with respect) and i love how you put this sentence. "... i feel unspoken" - such a beautiful way to describe voicelessness, silence, trapped voice. I have felt this for a long time (it is healing) - - just wanted to say i love the way you worded this
ive been waiting for this talk for a long time....go Dad :)
Someone had to do it, eventually. Thanks Andrew.
This is the greatest video title of all time.
Lex reflects on Sex.
Lex reflexxx
Lecks reflex on Sects.
Lex is sitting there like a kid getting the bees and birds talk from their parents
'Age appropriate', 'consent', 'location appropriate', 'species appropriate'... How quickly the mind can turn to dark humour.
Is any of this verifiable? Before the fact, not after? It might influence, but might not…if you are abused you might be attracted to people who abuse, but maybe not.. so much speculation. What about AG1 will that help with sexual performance Andrew?
Lost me at “Species appropriate.”
Don’t judge me and my orangoutang mistress Ling-Ling!
4:05 all the millenials living with their parents would like a word.
In fact losing our connection with parents is not normal - we all used to live together as one big family tribe.
It's not toxic dependency ... it's called not being a puritan and enjoying one of the most important things : family.
living with your parents as a grown man is embarrassing.
The thing is, we never lived together because we wanted to, but because it was the only sensical option - tribe offered safety, help with kids, you could not possibly thrive all alone up on some hill. Now that we don't have to, we can see just how many of us don't want to live like that.
Certainly when space is small and people aren't extremely self-aware such coexistence leads to a ton of tension.
@@glacialimpala People leave their parents/family to go be on their own reallly early in the US for some reason
@@tylerchambers6246 Like I said, back in the day (as in centuries ago) we didn't love living together with 10 family members, it was almost unavoidable. It's great that USA has opportunities for young people to earn enough to move away, too bad it's not as good as Northern Europe.
@@glacialimpala Ehhh, I think that 's counter to our nature, as our behaviors evolved to optimize for the tribe setting. We're innately wired to thrive within the tribe setting. Being social creatures, this makes sense, given that was the fundamental unit of social organization before civilization.
Modern civilization has put us into conditions we're not biologically adapted for. Just look at the depression /suicide statistics and compare them to people in nations that are less industrialized. It's not causation necessarily, but I think there's a solid link between the dissolution of the nuclear family and the adoption of increased individualism and an increase in mental health problems. (Technology addiction is probably the other big driving wedge in this regard.)
Sure there are other factors that contribute to the decline in mental health, but I see it as one of the most influential factors.
For example, children from divorced parents are statistically predisposed to having more mental health problems/harder lives in general. Children of single mothers also have similar problems. (Although a lack of resources within the family unit probably has the most effect in that regard.)
But I think the key point is that a reduction in one's support system leads to an increase in deleterious outcomes for the individual. So, it is possible for one to supplement their lack of a social support system with a surrogate support system, but generally speaking, the lessons one would have to learn to get to the point of creating that support system for themselves is harder if their social support system was weak to begin with.
Granted, there are going to be exceptions to the rule, e.g. you have an abusive tribe, abusive nuclear family etc. But we're looking at this from a general perspective.
Sidenote, also, just because you don't want to do something doesn't necessarily make it healthy or good for you.
Please, for the love of God, can we educate men on the fact that only 30% of women orgasm via penetrative sex. There still seems to be a lack of education on this subject, and women are made to feel bad or they get an impression they're abnormal because their boyfriend tells them that every one of his previous girlfriends have orgasms via penetration alone. It's not impossible, but it is statistically improbable. Women fake orgasms I'm afraid, mainly because they're afraid of displeasing their partners, or are ashamed they're ashamed they can't orgasm via penetration. It contributes to this unfortunate cycle.
I read it's less than 10%.
The smerk on Andrew's face when mentioning "species appropriate"
Is Andrew straight?
Did you just say smerk
“So lex, when a man and a woman love each other very much…”
Wouldn't it be easier for us as humans if, hypotheticaly, instead of being attached to bad things, traumatic experiences, we would be attached to good things happy experiences and so when we grow up, instead of attracting a dangerous (in a bad sense) man, we attract a confident, courageous one.
I mean, why are we like this? Why do we memorise so much only the bad things, so much so that they define our life. Its intriguing isnt it?
Med school 101:
“parasympathetic point; sympathetic shoot”…
Need parasympathetic to point and sympathetic to shoot - Some presenter 10 years ago making a joke
Andrew is like Lex with a beard, they look alike, or is it just me?
They really look alike! I noticed it so much in the clip.
Lex please make this happens: Andrew Huberman, Jordan Peterson, Neil DeGrasse Tyson, John Danaher in the same room
I love both of these minds. And their ethics, man, lucky are people around them. (At least for what one sees from the screen).
Yeah, that's why it baffles me when Huberman regularly cherry picks his claims from 'studies'.
@@glacialimpala he does do that and his references are great. Idk if you're being sarcastic, but personally, i admire him. If you don't find his information valuable, just don't follow. His job is not at all controversial, so you can easily choose not to follow him.
@@glacialimpala he literally almost always cites his studies - so you can look them up... Instead of leaving comments like this.
I love the side-eye grin that Lex has on the thumbnail for these sex ones.
Omg 😳 the headline on this! Hilarious..
Andrew's voice always sounds like he's just woken up
"Species appropriate"
I guess my open relationship with my goat FWB is wrong then?
cease
"Love conquers all."
Well, since we kill animals, eat animals, and torture animals. I don't see why giving animals pleasure is more wrong than killing and eating them..
@@WilliamParkerer
Bruh
Andrew Huberman is Lex's daddy.
As a millennial i have a lot of genZ friends who dont.. you know, have relationships and sex.
I do not understand them in this topic, idk if they are not into sex, or just are too shy to ask a girl. But the dating scene is weirder now anyway, so who can blame them? Too much ideology in school might be a reason..
American cultures makes it too easy for men to be content being sexless.
When I'm around Americans, I don't notice I'm not getting laid.
Around fellow Jamaicans , I feel utterly virginal.
I mean having lots of relationships and sex itself is a new concept originated from the hippies time. It's not really a normal thing. So I think we Gen Zs are living the best of our life, for ourselves and not for other people.
@@WilliamParkerer ideally having one relationship while being totally inexpirienced. A splendid recipe for mayhem 😁 I mostly date gen X or Y women, i am not attracted to genZ women - they are not.. idk.. It does not click.. I dont do well with conformists, and here many genZ are total conformists plus plugged into the matrix (no real connetion to anything) Different life concept, im not judging that - just try open your horizon once in a while... Your gen was so drowned in system-desinformatsiya - its invisible to you like water to a fish.
Yes in regard to the hippie thing - nah its the entire Connection to the real that is different..
And there is the point. Being pragmatic should not limit ones horizon.. Having sex before marriage was maybe not really allowed, but people did it nevertheless. Everywhere in all countries even if forbidden. You forbid yourselves, and that is ok. Its the endproduct of the liberal gender-agenda that made your generation like this - sex is simply a nuisance i guess because iiiiih juices and iiiiiih other people... idk..
There is this song its hip to be square.
It means its hip to be closeminded. Your gen was cut off from the inner reality, the original metaverse
Your gen was dominated by abrahamitic ideals.. culturallY at least.
The 'hippie times' were the part where peace stopped petty wars and a coñnection destroyed 2000ys ago was re-established - and with it came certainly bogus gurus, but a little drop of truth from india broke up all mental barriers..The betrayers of mankind quickly tried to stomp it out - squares cannot think nor feel, so FEAR, christian hegemony and the CIA did everything to suppress it..Besides genZ people from OUTSIDE THE WEST, you are the product of the matrix stopping enlightenment and love. Otherwise you would not say such nonsense, cowboy.The hippies got more right than the christians in 2000ys. It is a pity you were turned away from your true nature. We are all the same allseeing alldancing crap of the world..Tat tvam asi - you are the one undivided absolute
Only if pinocchio looks inside, does he become a real boy. There is no way around finding out WHO you are.
If you know it your free
The ego is a sandgrain, a meaningless mental dwarf. Once you realize your beyond the ego perspective - the player is your identity. It is formless and allpervading. A person who thinks he is a mass of hands and feet and teeth, under control of the ego, is like an animal. A person who realizes that he is a spirit spark, the player of the game, is a human, conscious of body and mind.
A person who knows "i am all, the worldocean in which the world arises and wanes, is liberated from the matrix and is truly brahman. Learn more you just hatched out of your egg, and snakes have already gotten to you.. All that is known (the earth)is a form os speech. Its body is the world. (Speech creates order via the visual cortex for all images are symbolic) All that is yet to be known is mind, for it is desirable.. its body in your head is the sky. The unknown is the breath and its body is the waters.. it is born from speech and mind and breath conquers all
I cant understand incels.. I tried.. But it wont hurt to look inside, there you dont need iphone or meta... give it a try and fly. But thanks for the input, it explains to me the WHY, and the Y is always important for me, haha. Please take no offense you have it all figured out besides the one thing (your spirit - not sex haha).
Once you find it you be rich. Because it was stolen after the hippie times, your gen now faces total destruction instead of paradise. Wake up from your hazy dream dear soul, your time is limited, M A K E I T C O U N T
love is all you need.. krishna krishna!
@@thenaturalpeoplesbureau Well don't get me wrong dude.. I absolutely detest regressive Christian moral values like forbidding sex before marriage bullshit. And I appreciate hippies, they are truly ahead of times. I and many Gen Z people consider ourselves as the successor of the hippy culture. In our opinion we live beyond the physical limitations of life, while hippies lived beyond the dogmas of life. You know, it's like being gay is so normal in our generation we even don't focus on it anymore, it's already integrated. I think life is beautiful and we have this amazing tool called computer and we can learn so much from the internet, that we don't even have time, or the need to do physical shit.
The title of this video is an unreal troll
Human explaining human reproduction mechanisms to a robot
This is the only informational video about sex I'll watch. Why? Lex
Lol dude said species appropriate
"Species appropriate..." OMG
the current growth of the nofap movement is indicative of a larger shift in mens awareness of sexual health
Or a baseless trend starting from preteens
@@Rctdcttecededtef you dont think porn consumption increased during covid lockdown?
@@z0uLess I'm sure it did. It wouldn't be that surprising all things considered. I fail to see how that relates
@@Rctdcttecededtef mind and body dualism is a false dichotomy. everything is related ... digital hygiene is the same as sexual health ... when you consume pornography you are basically putting your mind to where it fantasises about having sex, so thats having sex with yourself as I see it.
@@z0uLess that's an interesting take... I tend to believe people put meaning where there isn't any and tend to convlute simple things so it's hard for me to really believe what you're saying
Also - Andrew is just incredibly intelligent isn't he
context appropriate huh?
Did Hubermann talk about how childhood relationships translate into adult intimacy in his podcasts? I’d love to listen about it
Criteria
Age appropriate
Context appropriate
Consensual appropriate
Species appropriate
If lex didn’t receive the birds and the bees talk from his parents the next best thing is Andrew I guess?
about time someone had "The Talk" with Lex
I hope Huberman does episodes on this topic asap 🙏
He still has not done the four part series about this and I am gutted about it.
i don't even know what the fuck was even the question or the answer
yeah…
rebounding of the parasympathetic = post nut clarity
Smart Tom Segura spitting some shit!
The title of this video has me dying 😂
I said you could sleep with other women but not the neighbours dog! Ohh shit I forgot the "species appropriate" part
Did you realize the period is from the uterus shedding not the Ovaries lol. I was today years old 😳
What? You thought the ovaries were shedding blood? The ovary releases the egg to the uterus. The uterus builds up nice cushioning to take care of the egg. If the egg is unfertilized and needs no cushioning, the body sheds the lining along with the egg.
I can't be the only one who thinks Andrew looks like Kratos from this angle. especially, if he goes bald.
I think the book linked in the video is incorrect; the psychoanalyst version of the same title is authored by Stoller and has a red cover. Going to order it!!
Sexiest Neuroscientist
sex to lex has a certain... ring to it
Content and species appropriate? Next you're gonna be telling me interspecies necrophilia is inappropriate? Oh, look at the neuroscientist, all high and mighty...
This is how you do clickbait, folks 😂
Andrew Huberman...
What a nice peace of Dna you are!!! 😸
😻 #ThisrtyGingerGirls (for science, obviously...lol)
I clicked for the comments
If Aliens exist, does rule 4 still apply?
You gonna be the first to clap alien cheeks? Over my dead body!
This is exactly what I expect from a Lex Fridman video. Sure, the man is brilliant in AI, chess, philosophical theory, etc., etc...but it seems he still hasn't been talked to about the birds and the bees. Until now.
Or it could be the opposite. I already knew too much about human reproduction at 5 years old. I'm so scared about STDs & the pics of childbirth I've seen in encyclopedias so I choose to abstain. Benefits aren't worth the risk. Sex is overrated.
@@leonaj.5835 LOL
@@leonaj.5835 Ever heard of IUDs?
@@chychywoohoo Eew, Whitney Cummings uses that. No way.
@@leonaj.5835 Who? A lot of people use IUDs
Good good, let someone that does it full-time explain it. I bet he knows all the ins and outs.
Welp I don't need 4 episodes from Andrew to explain common sense. Daddy issues and mommy sure transfer to adult relationships.
This Huberman guy has a dark side imo
Why do you assume this? What about him brought your conclusions?
@@memastarful just leading and likable q/a with well placed firmness as well as a subtle comradery, look I could be wrong, often am, but as a guy who is sharp been around kind, I mean I can smell em from far 🤷🏾♂️, like I say often wrong ish not really ✌🏾
2024
Lex: It felt like a bag of sands
Yeah Lex hear that? Species appropriate!
i'm 29, i wish someone explained that to me, cuz i wonder what it's like.
Hmmm i really wouldn't mind to be the scientific object for lex to learn on ;)
Anyone who listens to Lex's podcast is a big brain genius
@x 12
@x 8
@x 6
5?
ah yes the segs
I do the segs regularly with my very real girlfriend
These two men both equally equally attractive
This aged well
He should demonstrate it to Lex, explaining is not enough
Guys is sex even real ??
And that, Lex, is by how babies are made.